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I Try to Fix Everyone

I am always trying to fix other people and others situations. 7 People

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    I created this topic because I wanted to see how many people have this same issue. My problem is that I seem to be attracted to people that are broken, ill (mentally or physically), addicts, etc. I subconsciously befriend these people just to fix them. I always end up forgetting...
    amyjo3 amyjo3 26-30, F Mar 7, 2009

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