and all but I fell like they are lying. Because some of my friend were saying good in front of my fave but gossip **** about my behind my back and I was like dame now I know who I should or shouldn't hang out with.
people is that they come with a specific point of view. Often based on their experiences, which is fair enough.
But unless you know what their experiences are. Unless you understand how they came to be who they are now. You can't hope to help them.