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I Try To Understand Things From Other Peoples Point Of View

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 207 People

    One of the problems of dealing with other

    people is that they come with a specific point of view. Often based on their experiences, which is fair enough. But unless you know what their experiences are. Unless you understand how they came to be who they are now. You can't hope to help them.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Oct 29, 2014

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    I really do try to see your point of view.

    So please stop stopping me from trying to place my head on the inside of your intestines
    Slavedriv Slavedriv 36-40 3 days ago

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    People tells me that I am cute

    and all but I fell like they are lying. Because some of my friend were saying good in front of my fave but gossip **** about my behind my back and I was like dame now I know who I should or shouldn't hang out with.
    Clobusan123 Clobusan123 16-17, F Oct 29, 2014

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