I Try To Understand Things From Other Peoples Point Of View

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    People tells me that I am cute

    and all but I fell like they are lying. Because some of my friend were saying good in front of my fave but gossip **** about my behind my back and I was like dame now I know who I should or shouldn't hang out with.
    Clobusan123 Clobusan123
    16-17, F
    Oct 29, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 8

    One of the problems of dealing with other

    people is that they come with a specific point of view. Often based on their experiences, which is fair enough. But unless you know what their experiences are. Unless you understand how they came to be who they are now. You can't hope to help them.
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Oct 29, 2014

    I really do try to see your point of view.

    So please stop stopping me from trying to place my head on the inside of your intestines
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 30, 2015

    My dad always played devils advocate,

    lol but hated when we did the same. Being bullied taught me to try and see things from other's point of view. Sometimes they are not trying to be mean, just dealing with their own copying mechanisms
    teadiva teadiva
    31-35, F
    Jan 7

    hardly ever get a chance to look it form my own

    perspective, dont know if its good or bad...
    nice4mheart nice4mheart
    31-35, M
    Feb 18

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