I Try Too Hard Sometimes

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    I think people i meet stop talking to me

    because i try too hard i mean everytime im texting someone i try to reply right away so they dont get mad and if i cant reply right away i say that im really sorry because i know how it feels to not get a response but everytime i try too hard people just stop texting me so does...
    Theguy0298 Theguy0298
    18-21, M
    Jan 18, 2014

    why am I always the frist person to put effort

    in anything? If I dont text or call you, then we wont talk. How come when you like somone you always try the hardest to talk to them, but they won't put any effort into but say they want you lol.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 12

    Always, I feel like I give too much.

    I'm more invested. I'm more interested. I'm more wanting. But it's ok. I can be a giver, a caretaker. Some of us are just meant to be in that role. I need to learn how to be that person and be happy in that role so I can not expect too much from other people. Some people aren't...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 2

    I am tired of trying

    so hard to make everyone happy, when sometimes I feel like no one tries to make me feel happy.
    Bcuzimhappy Bcuzimhappy
    18-21, F
    Jun 18, 2014

    My friends don't try

    as much as I do. I have come to this conclusion. I'm always the one who says we should do something over the weekend or says we should plan something so we can all get together. I'm the one who gets excited when giving things to them for birthdays or holidays. I'm the one...
    secrets1can2be3told secrets1can2be3told
    18-21, F
    May 30, 2014

    Life = 1 Me = -598288293 I must admit,

    I'm still smiling. Atleast on the outside.
    muchcolour muchcolour
    18-21, F
    Apr 25, 2015

    I try hard to say the right things to people.

    Be the nicest I can be and care. But by doing this, you get **** in return. The same Amount of effort is never given back. I try to be outgoing and not insecure. But because I don't have someone trying hard to connect with me as I always do for them, I become insecure. It makes...
    Karinas2 Karinas2
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2014

    I think on here i want to talk too much

    or meet New people that i try too hard or i try to get involved in people topics so they might want to chat more. When people dont want to gets me so down. All i want to do chat.
    cmbryan316 cmbryan316
    31-35, M
    Apr 17, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    When I was a teenager I was driving with a

    couple of my girlfriends. A truck drove past us, there were 3-4 guys about our age inside. As they went by, they were smiling and giving us a thumbs up. We smiled back, naturally. They slowly turned their thumbs down and laughed, so hilarious. Three teenage girls probably never...
    itsallstateofmind itsallstateofmind
    31-35, F
    Jan 26, 2014

    Love's still insanity waiting

    for medication to heal. Nothing's worth wasting away for, yet we continue struggling through all the hardships for another person. I'm too kind a person to have the battered heart.
    Kkgunny Kkgunny
    18-21, F
    May 1, 2015

    Nothing aggravates me more

    than this: If I'm trying to actually reach out to you and become friends with you, pull your tampon out and appreciate it. I get it, some people are shy, but if you are more outgoing than half of our student body, then what's wrong? You shove your nose in the air as if you can...
    dogeonfleek dogeonfleek
    18-21, F
    Apr 25, 2015

    I'm a true try hard guys!

    I mean right now I'm making it a goal of mine to actually post on all my experiences before adding new ones. I strive to have amazing grades. Staying up all hours of the night to get that paper just right. I strive to have the perfect body, spending roughly 3-4 hours a day...
    bbybleu bbybleu
    18-21, F
    Apr 29, 2015

    I reach out to people too often to initiate

    conversation. It often fails and I wind up feeling like an idiot or that I'm bothering people.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 27, 2015

    I just wish I could pretty without trying.

    Like "DAMN she's gorgeous" without an effort. It's really not fair :c
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Mar 1

    I'm Done!

    I have tried to make people happy, I've tried to not step on peoples eggs shells, but by doing so I step on their glass stars. I'm tired of being seen as the 'bad guy' just because I am done bending over backwards and jumping through hoops to make people around me not get pissed...
    KermodeMomma KermodeMomma
    22-25, F
    Nov 8, 2013
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