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I Turned Out Liking You A Lot More Than I Originaly Planned To

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    He Came Back...

    A guy i had an interest in some months ago came back into my life last night. We met through mutual friends, but always had a weird relationship with one another. we would be super sarcastic and make snarky remarks at each other but we both knew we had an attraction. We began...
    whyisthishappening2me whyisthishappening2me 22-25, F Nov 14, 2013

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    I Miss You So Much C

    I was working with this woman who is very smart and kind natured but some men used to take advantage of her kind giving nature, and i thought she was stupid for letting them, i always knew she would be moving a 1000k's away in 6 months. After about 2 & 1/2 months we had an...
    doiloveher doiloveher 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    Hate At First Sight

    I had one class with her senior year....and the moment she walked into the classroom and opened her mouth I took an instant dislike to her. I'm a quiet person okay? I don't mind noise or anything like that. But this girl was just irritating. I didn't like how obnoxious she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    Was Not Looking For Him

    I'm a single mother of an autistic son and life gets difficult and lonely of course so my friend decided to make me a profile on POF. I met a couple of guys they never worked out or lasted longer than a month. I was starting to hate dating. After a couple dates with this one...
    PingPing86 PingPing86 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2012

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    I Let Him Get To Close And Ended Up Losing Him

    I met my friend (well, not anymore) last year around the beginning of the spring. We just hung out as friends, nothing romantic even though I thought he was cute I refused to let myself feel any more than friendship for him. This went on for a few months and we would just sit...
    karakara1 karakara1 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    I Am Sorry To Like You...

    Everyday as I open my FB I always look at your name in the chatbox excited to see you online. scrolling down updates until I see yours. As I open my tumblr I can’t help it, but go through yours. why am I feeling this way you made my day everyday, every single moments of little...
    vhon2x vhon2x 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2011

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    Annoying But Now Enjoyable

    When we first met, I was having a bad day and didn't really show you the respect i would usually do. And i was thrashed too, so u probably couldn't understand a word I was saying, but I think because of the reaction on your face. I presumed that I annoyed you. Months later I saw...
    Daveokay Daveokay 22-25, M Nov 30, 2010

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    Yup..i Sure Did...

    Looking back at it all, I had my walls up high. Bound & determined not to let anyone get past. You pursued and never gave up. After all i made you through. I got addicted to you being there everyday, talking, chatting, playing, laughing. Then as with everything "we" changed. I...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat 41-45, F Sep 21, 2010

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    It was supposed to be casual.

    And it was; at least for the first few months but the inevitable happened and we both started blurring lines. I like you, kid. A lot more then I thought I would. We are way more compatible than I could have imagined and it's a shame we met under these circumstances. You have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 18

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    There Is This Guy

    So there is this boy, his name is Austin. I like him alot. He is down to earth. He is so sweet in his own little weird way. He is training to be a MMA fighter. So he is very athletic. He kissed me today and I liked it alot. But there is only one catch he is my ex boyfriends best...
    DaddysLilKrae DaddysLilKrae 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2012

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    And I Couldn't Be Happier. :)

    We started off as.. I don't think you could even class us as friends. We hardly spoke. We then started having the occasional conversation, but it never lasted that long. He was always nice to me, but i wasn't convinced about him - I'm not sure why. Gradually, we got to the stage...
    Leaaah Leaaah 16-17 Aug 20, 2010

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    The first day we met was something

    that I could barely remember.. But after you remind me of it, it suddenly become a vivid memory in my head. That polo shirt, that weird laugh, your habit of wiping your sweat with that sweet pink towel you got from her, that backpack you still have even until almost 4 years...
    Mininyaa Mininyaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    I fell for one of my coworkers

    who is engaged and has a son. He loves his girl and family. He jokes with me and teases me, trying to keep me smiling and happy but I fell for him hard core. Fast too. I only thought it would be fun to relax around him and only crush a little but I like him WAY more than I...
    kitten96 kitten96 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Boy, Did I!

    How did I become so enthralled with you?  I miss my friend.
    silentwitness silentwitness 46-50 3 Responses May 8, 2010

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    You...

    I just wanted it to be a platonic friendship... but it turned out to be stronger than that for me. I know you don't feel the same, and that's ok- I don't blame you. I didn't want to like you this much.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2010

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    Time Capsule

    We had met in a different life, long, long ago. Then we grew up and out, and we lost touch. There was no reason to drift, but it was one of those things about life; it happens. It's no one's fault, there is no remorse, and no regret ... ...until you hook up again, and you...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Update On Me! Please Read & Give Advice!

    Hey guys! I haven't been on her in forever! Well a lot has changed... Update on me & the boy I used to right about: Were nothing. It sucks that I lost my bestfriend but I have other people there for me. I met a guy, that I think im falling for.. He started dating a girl but that...
    Noregreats121 Noregreats121 13-15 Aug 15, 2012

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    I did not plan on falling

    for you like i did. You were an unexpected surprise. I loved learning more about you and your views. I loved the way you knew what i was thinking. I loved the way you understood me like no one else has. You knew my faults and did not judge me for the things i have done. Just...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F Aug 11

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    I'm a lesbian and I have a friend

    who hangs out with me and my friends a lot, she's gay too. I knew from the start I had a soft spot for her. Her blue eyes and her beautiful smile attracted me and the way she laughs and how she puts a brave smile on her face after crying. Everything about her is perfect. We got...
    Blueeyedprincesss Blueeyedprincesss 16-17, F Jul 2

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    Playa

    when I first met you everything about you screamed PLAYA. You pursued and I pulled away I kept thinking to myself this guy could really hurt you. You grew on me. You were smart and funny and self assured. Every time you got more serious I would pull you up. I didn't want to fall...
    BlindBJ BlindBJ 31-35, F Apr 24, 2012

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    Father My Child

    Do you ever feel like you are aging, its one thing to know it and another to feel it. My body is speaking to me telling me its ready for a child. To breed life inside of me. I couldn't have planned this. You came into my life. You are the one. I can feel it just hope you feel...
    STEMluvsSTUDSnMEN STEMluvsSTUDSnMEN 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    What If?

    What if you didn't mean to like someone at all? I guess that kind of happened to me today. My mom took me out to the mall with my step dad to meet an old friend of his from the army. Aparently they hadn't seen each other in years. And it was nothing. I met the guy, shook his hand...
    hurts2much hurts2much 18-21, F Aug 10, 2010

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    ...

    A whole hell of a lot more than I wanted. I think you seduced me or something lol.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 3 Responses May 6, 2010

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    Fated Till The End..

    He was just this Bengali guy that wrote a letter in tolerable English, and sent it to me through an anonymous database. How was I supposed to know that something that random was going to lead me towards falling for someone genuinely for the first time? I didn't plan this. My...
    AnushLava AnushLava 18-21, F Oct 22, 2010

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    You swept into my heart like wildfire.

    That red curtain of hair draping over snow-white skin, soft as clouds, framing constellations of freckles under star-gazing eyes. Your perfect mouth smiles at my voice, your slender arms reach out and enfold my body into yours. How I long to hold your face again, kiss those...
    designbycassandra designbycassandra 31-35, F Feb 5

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    People who are the exact same like

    as you, make you feel some way.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F Sep 21

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    I guess you're never too old to have a secret

    crush. I didn't plan it this way. But, stuff happens. Time changes things. And yet, I would never, ever say a word.
    aaaagggghhhh aaaagggghhhh 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    This Is Not A Love Story... Always Remeber You Come First

    This is not a love story.... At the begining of the year by pure chance I meet a man who seemed the most wonderful guy in the world. I was in the process of recovering from a bad relashionship and a lost fiacee. I suppose i was lonely. I was not sure but after a while he...
    tsukievans tsukievans 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2010

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    I Wasblooking For Sometying Else.

    I was planing my sweet 15. I was looking for my parter my. Gentelmen of honor. To do my grande entrance and surprise dance. I wasnt looking for nothing more then a friend. I had 3 months since i had broke up with a guy that hurt me so much in meny ways. i wasnt resdy for a...
    08m5v11 08m5v11 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 29, 2012

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    I have this friend who I've known

    since the very first day of middle school, and he is probably the most attractive guy I know. Now we're both teens. I'm gay, he's bi. I knew he liked me ever since he straight-up started feeling my legs and butt once. I always only thought of him as a friend, but he has a great...
    ItsKyleBetch ItsKyleBetch 22-25, M Apr 8

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    Not Exactly Sure Why

    but i really like this guy who is in a play with me. We don't know each other well but when i saw him... idk something just sorta happened... and for the first time, i dont feel horrible about liking him! I have six weeks to try to get him to ask me out or to see if he likes me...
    americanoddity americanoddity 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    What Has He Done To Me?

    I thought it was only going to be a small, couple-months-long relationship without much feeling and without a lot of depth.Boy, was I wrong.Sure we only lasted three weeks, and no, there asn't a lot of depth. There was more than I had originally anticipated, but it still wasn't...
    emfire911 emfire911 16-17, F Jul 29, 2011

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    That Fateful Independence Day Beach Party

    It was forecasted to rain, so I didn't plan on going. I had met you at the host's wedding a year earlier for a few seconds. Four months on and helpful rides to school and Facebook conversations at all hours, were forums for great conversations I'll never forget. You picked me up...
    ifalafelyou ifalafelyou 22-25 Nov 8, 2010

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    And if I would've been smart.

    .. I would have stayed the hell away from you. Oh well, we'll chalk it up to nothing more than past regrets And move on.
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 Jan 18

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    And I wanted to say is 'I love you' like in the past. But I was afraid of what you would say and how we could ever continue our relationship after all the crap that happened...
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