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I Understand Everyone,but Nobody Understands Me

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    Why Am I So Lonely?

    I am currently 17 weeks pregnant with my second child ( I have a 12 yo). A week ago the father of my baby broke up with me and I haven't heard form him since. I am struggling because I don' t know what to do. It is not that I can't take care of this child... I have a bachelor's...
    prettylonelyscorpio2013 prettylonelyscorpio2013 36-40, F May 27, 2013

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    This is me.... I can sympathize,

    care or love anyone but nobody will ever understand me...I'm scared not even one can get me...I'm stuck being me and I guess I exist being misunderstood.
    sylviaplath01 sylviaplath01 18-21, F Mar 8

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    Why Am I This Way?

    I get along with everyone. I make everyone feel comfortable and people open up to me fairly quickly. Everyone comes to me for advice and I've been told to be good at it. I live my life to bring happiness and love to everyone with my positive attitude and willingness to listen and...
    DetachedForTheBetter DetachedForTheBetter 22-25 2 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    The Person Who Did Understand You Has Left You Behind

    I'm a senior in college, and so far the only person to truly understand me is my good friend from high school, but now he goes to another university half way across the US and has a girlfriend, and virtually disappeared in my life. I love my current friends and I know they all...
    Walzon Walzon 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2013

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    I Exert So Much Effort To All I Love,still I’m Left W/ Nobody To Run To.

    I exert too much effort though it is innate in me that I should give allowances and considerations to everyone I love    and I care. My friend, my lover and my family.   But no matter how much emotional good deeds investment I give to them, always there will be a...
    hardlucky hardlucky 26-30, M Mar 20, 2012

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    What About Me...?

    I feel like nobody understands everything I do. I wish their was someone who understood me. Someone I can lean on. I understand everyone and what their going through.. but what about me? What ever happened to Jenny? The girl who understands everyone, but nobody understands me...
    JennyNiceGirl JennyNiceGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    Hear Me Speak

    I'm a pretty good judge of character, I pick up on social ques, and I like helping people. I'm a pretty good listener. I like when people can tell me what's wrong or ask my advice on anything. I like that they put that trust in me. I can understand what they're going through but...
    jellybeamers jellybeamers 18-21, F Jun 10, 2013

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    Why

    Ok well im a friend to lotes of people and they'er my friend to but i feel like i hav no friends becuse i understand them all but win i try to talk about my feeling thay dont understande me so i feel like im all alonewin i try to explane my feeling to people thay dont understand...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 24, 2010

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    The Outcast

    It is so sad for me that I must live like this, in pain, rejection and betrayal. People can't understand my life, my actions or anything. I have experienced extreme depression over something that I couldn't understand and people took it in the wrong way and made me suffer though...
    warriorcat36 warriorcat36 16-17, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Cruel-*** World

    I have always been extremely scrawny due to some connective tissue disorder I was born with. I have been called all the classics, you know, stuff like bones, anorexic, ethiopian, and i would prefer to just be called douchebag, this wouldn't strike a nerve so much. I expected to...
    gmoneyq gmoneyq 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Nobody Understands Me

    But that's the way I like it :) I like to be the mysterious girl that no one understands, the only person that ever truly understood what I did and why I did it was my grandma, but she passed away two years ago, but I won't go into detail about that, what I'm trying to say is...
    autumnnorth1 autumnnorth1 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    I'm the type of girl

    who will do anything for a guy I like if I see a future together or like them as a person. I tend to understand people on a whole level, intellectually, physically & behavioural. I do not judge, I have friends from all walks of life & I like the variety. If everyone was the...
    mzn86 mzn86 26-30, F Mar 2, 2014

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    Im So Depreesed and Loonely :(

    i feel that no body understand me :( i need some who care about me someone who loves me and support me whenever i need him .. when im sad h feel no body realise that ... maybe it is my fault cuz i cant express my feeling all the time ...:(  but for me i can know when...
    monapurple monapurple 18-21 4 Responses May 11, 2009

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    Just ME......

    I try my best I give until I have nothing to give.... But im.always viewed negatively?? Either I think I'm better or constantly reminded of my short comings... Im tired of trying to prove myself or gain acceptance y cant I just be me?
    mommycombs mommycombs 41-45, F 3 Responses May 28, 2013

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    I understand this is a very arrogant assumption.

    However there are days when I FEEL this is the case. I am very empathic, or I try to be. But when I feel I really need someone to listen to me, my voice has to be louder than another just to get someone to understand I need an ear, or a shoulder. *sigh* But, I understand this is...
    sunnyshellkitty sunnyshellkitty 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    About Me

    Why is it that I understand people very well most of the time but most the time I feel like people either don't understand me or they don't listen. I absolutly love nature, art, drawing, peacefullness :), harmonization, music my favorite thing to do is to sing and write. And...
    singerbabe583 singerbabe583 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 23, 2010

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    I therefore conclude

    that NOBODY understands me... NOT A SINGLE PERSON WILL EVER UNDERSTAND ME. That's how I am to them. A NOBODY.
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    Life.

    I feel like I understand everyone. I always try to make everyone feel good and even though my friends make fun of someone, I help that person. I try to make everyone feel good but nobody ever understands me! Not my mother, not my father, nor my friends! Even my boyfriend never...
    Lovex96 Lovex96 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 25, 2012

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    Nobody Like Me

    Ive been trying my best to be a better person and every single time I go up to my friends and tell them my problems I feel like they don't understand and listens me at all even my family they compare me with other people that are good at things like I've been trying my best to...
    Nobodylikesme10 Nobodylikesme10 22-25, F May 15, 2013

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    How Is That Fair?

    I cant understand how i can figure anyone out after being with them for awhile and know them like i know myself. there quirks and habits. things even they didnt know they did ... and yet no one gets me like that... the only person who ever actually understood me and got me better...
    TexasRedHead TexasRedHead 16-17 3 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    Nobody is going to understand my feeling,

    I guess it's the same to everyone(?)..
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 2

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    I listen to everyone

    and try to get to know them, but no one takes the time to listen to me :/ I guess ppl could just care less
    Squishysecrets36 Squishysecrets36 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    I Am So Alone And A Burden

    Please, have the patience to read this. I know it is long but I need help. No matter what I do, I have incredible difficulty being understood. Nobody puts themselves in my shoes even though I try to do the same for them. I have Depression and OCD. I've lived a very solitary...
    JunkoCola JunkoCola 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I am going to the doctor today for this very problem! I have lost just over 100 pounds, and my meds are definitely kicking my butt. I was getting my hair done the other day, and...
    jellybean40 jellybean40 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    I should have posted my last experience on here. Let's just say my intimate side is not for the usual. And very unsatisfied. it's making me feel very alone and it's just something...
    Lhokw Lhokw 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I realize that everyone at some point in their life feels this way. However why you feel like this is because you also feel on top of that that no one is facing the same...
    Eninferno Eninferno 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Skin color doesn't define you. It doesn't mean you act a certain way. If all that matters is what's inside, then why must you insist that this is a different matter? Everyone is...
    Smileydork Smileydork 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    that I'm not sacrificing her or our son for the "fantasy of being in a (heartfelt) relationship with a guy." I just can't resolve my bisexuality with an on the side affair or...
    trentley trentley 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    This happens all the time and tofay was the last straw I feel kinda angry now but not caring at the same time it's just I have a friend G who knows about my personal life and I...
    Darkprincess24 Darkprincess24 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    No one will ever understand or will be able to fathom the pain that lurks inside. Everyone sees the desire that fly like swallows but no one sees deep down under how the heart...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 3 days ago

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    I mean seriously, come on xD Why go around house to house knocking on doors when you know that nobody really cares, sadly it's the truth, I don't want you to come into my house and...
    ThePiggycorn ThePiggycorn 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    .....but if she doesn't? I guess she will have to figure it out for herself
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 4 days ago

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    finally found someone but now she's gone .
    jace0929 jace0929 13-15, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Really?!? Out of everyone that responded, nobody had February 2nd. Ugh please tell someone does tho ;-;
    Punthita Punthita 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    What in the world is wrong with me when people meet me they talk to me now weeks later they stop talking to me I am a nice shy person I give a person a time of the day it been like...
    youwokeme99 youwokeme99 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    the idea of a higher being is the understanding of life,not an individual
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been bestfriends with the guy I have liked since the end of my freshman year, I was so head over heals for him and then he started to distance himself every other month he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    Basically, my boyfriend left Sunday for bootcamp. He'll be gone for 3 months. I'm in need of a friend who understands to talk to; hopefully constantly. I just need someone. Help?
    seruhbear seruhbear 16-17, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I have never in my life seen more evidence of any single thing than God's existence and power, YHVH is the God of the Jews and Christians, and the Muslims call him something else...
    anon8369 anon8369 31-35, M a week ago

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    I get annoyed by like everyone, but for some reason I love attention from people. I love to talk to people, but lately it seems that I can only tolerate people I talk to over the...
    ItsCandyAcidStuff ItsCandyAcidStuff 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    There is nothing left for me in England. I know that my life isn't as bad as everyone else's but I want a fresh start. I am failing my exams, I have blunted affect which is making...
    elenaanastyr elenaanastyr 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    I have seen enough to know of God's existence. I believe he is real 100%. But I do not agree with some of Christianity or some of the bible. Because they are man made. I don't...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Don't feel bad every one hates me too. I don't think everyone hate you. At first I thought people was my friend they are not I am shy and alone all the time my family is not fun of...
    youwokeme99 youwokeme99 36-40, F 2 Responses