Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Understand Everyone,but Nobody Understands Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 217 People

    The Outcast

    It is so sad for me that I must live like this, in pain, rejection and betrayal. People can't understand my life, my actions or anything. I have experienced extreme depression over something that I couldn't understand and people took it in the wrong way and made me suffer though...
    warriorcat36 warriorcat36 16-17, F Aug 30, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm the type of girl

    who will do anything for a guy I like if I see a future together or like them as a person. I tend to understand people on a whole level, intellectually, physically & behavioural. I do not judge, I have friends from all walks of life & I like the variety. If everyone was the...
    mzn86 mzn86 26-30, F Mar 2, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Healing 101

    This is something important to understand when dealing with someone. There are three states that someone can be in, in their comfortableness with life or a certain activity. 3. The first two states are very natural and healthy. The third one is not what I call a healthy state...
    chimbie88 chimbie88 36-40, M Apr 11, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I listen to everyone

    and try to get to know them, but no one takes the time to listen to me :/ I guess ppl could just care less
    Squishysecrets36 Squishysecrets36 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    About Me

    Why is it that I understand people very well most of the time but most the time I feel like people either don't understand me or they don't listen. I absolutly love nature, art, drawing, peacefullness :), harmonization, music my favorite thing to do is to sing and write. And...
    singerbabe583 singerbabe583 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 23, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am So Alone And A Burden

    Please, have the patience to read this. I know it is long but I need help. No matter what I do, I have incredible difficulty being understood. Nobody puts themselves in my shoes even though I try to do the same for them. I have Depression and OCD. I've lived a very solitary...
    JunkoCola JunkoCola 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 6, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Am I This Way?

    I get along with everyone. I make everyone feel comfortable and people open up to me fairly quickly. Everyone comes to me for advice and I've been told to be good at it. I live my life to bring happiness and love to everyone with my positive attitude and willingness to listen and...
    DetachedForTheBetter DetachedForTheBetter 22-25 2 Responses Aug 8, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Just ME......

    I try my best I give until I have nothing to give.... But im.always viewed negatively?? Either I think I'm better or constantly reminded of my short comings... Im tired of trying to prove myself or gain acceptance y cant I just be me?
    mommycombs mommycombs 41-45, F 3 Responses May 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Am I So Lonely?

    I am currently 17 weeks pregnant with my second child ( I have a 12 yo). A week ago the father of my baby broke up with me and I haven't heard form him since. I am struggling because I don' t know what to do. It is not that I can't take care of this child... I have a bachelor's...
    prettylonelyscorpio2013 prettylonelyscorpio2013 36-40, F May 27, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why

    Ok well im a friend to lotes of people and they'er my friend to but i feel like i hav no friends becuse i understand them all but win i try to talk about my feeling thay dont understande me so i feel like im all alonewin i try to explane my feeling to people thay dont understand...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 24, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    How Is That Fair?

    I cant understand how i can figure anyone out after being with them for awhile and know them like i know myself. there quirks and habits. things even they didnt know they did ... and yet no one gets me like that... the only person who ever actually understood me and got me better...
    TexasRedHead TexasRedHead 16-17 3 Responses Feb 1, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Cruel-*** World

    I have always been extremely scrawny due to some connective tissue disorder I was born with. I have been called all the classics, you know, stuff like bones, anorexic, ethiopian, and i would prefer to just be called douchebag, this wouldn't strike a nerve so much. I expected to...
    gmoneyq gmoneyq 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 6, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Life.

    I feel like I understand everyone. I always try to make everyone feel good and even though my friends make fun of someone, I help that person. I try to make everyone feel good but nobody ever understands me! Not my mother, not my father, nor my friends! Even my boyfriend never...
    Lovex96 Lovex96 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 25, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Nobody Understands Me

    But that's the way I like it :) I like to be the mysterious girl that no one understands, the only person that ever truly understood what I did and why I did it was my grandma, but she passed away two years ago, but I won't go into detail about that, what I'm trying to say is...
    autumnnorth1 autumnnorth1 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Nobody is going to understand my feeling,

    I guess it's the same to everyone(?)..
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 2

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I understand this is a very arrogant assumption.

    However there are days when I FEEL this is the case. I am very empathic, or I try to be. But when I feel I really need someone to listen to me, my voice has to be louder than another just to get someone to understand I need an ear, or a shoulder. *sigh* But, I understand this is...
    sunnyshellkitty sunnyshellkitty 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Exert So Much Effort To All I Love,still I’m Left W/ Nobody To Run To.

    I exert too much effort though it is innate in me that I should give allowances and considerations to everyone I love    and I care. My friend, my lover and my family.   But no matter how much emotional good deeds investment I give to them, always there will be a...
    hardlucky hardlucky 26-30, M Mar 20, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Im So Depreesed and Loonely :(

    i feel that no body understand me :( i need some who care about me someone who loves me and support me whenever i need him .. when im sad h feel no body realise that ... maybe it is my fault cuz i cant express my feeling all the time ...:(  but for me i can know when...
    monapurple monapurple 18-21 4 Responses May 11, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hear Me Speak

    I'm a pretty good judge of character, I pick up on social ques, and I like helping people. I'm a pretty good listener. I like when people can tell me what's wrong or ask my advice on anything. I like that they put that trust in me. I can understand what they're going through but...
    jellybeamers jellybeamers 18-21, F Jun 10, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Person Who Did Understand You Has Left You Behind

    I'm a senior in college, and so far the only person to truly understand me is my good friend from high school, but now he goes to another university half way across the US and has a girlfriend, and virtually disappeared in my life. I love my current friends and I know they all...
    Walzon Walzon 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This is me.... I can sympathize,

    care or love anyone but nobody will ever understand me...I'm scared not even one can get me...I'm stuck being me and I guess I exist being misunderstood.
    sylviaplath01 sylviaplath01 18-21, F Mar 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I therefore conclude

    that NOBODY understands me... NOT A SINGLE PERSON WILL EVER UNDERSTAND ME. That's how I am to them. A NOBODY.
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 10, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What About Me...?

    I feel like nobody understands everything I do. I wish their was someone who understood me. Someone I can lean on. I understand everyone and what their going through.. but what about me? What ever happened to Jenny? The girl who understands everyone, but nobody understands me...
    JennyNiceGirl JennyNiceGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Nobody Like Me

    Ive been trying my best to be a better person and every single time I go up to my friends and tell them my problems I feel like they don't understand and listens me at all even my family they compare me with other people that are good at things like I've been trying my best to...
    Nobodylikesme10 Nobodylikesme10 22-25, F May 15, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I so wish that everyone in the world could love each other and get along with each other. I wish that there were no wars and no conflicts. But realistically I know that this will...
    iamabigtease iamabigtease 13-15, F 9 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I would like to wish you all, but mainly my EP friends, a very Happy Friendship Day. I am delighted to have met every single one of you. And remember, honesty may not bring you...
    Drastine Drastine 18-21, M 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really do but there are so many things that will start me off into an angry rant. My biggest pet peeves.... Whites with a superiority complex. Half of my family is white, I'm not...
    YouKnowWho15 YouKnowWho15 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm sick of being the girl that gets made fun of, set up, played, cheated on, and just plain out embarrassed & humiliated by people. I'll sit there and laugh it off or just smile...
    purplepumpkin17 purplepumpkin17 16-17, F 6 Responses 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sometimes I look back into the darkness and I see others. They're just as lost as I was, trying to find a way out and wondering if one even exists. I try to help them but, for...
    dynosophical dynosophical 26-30, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I try to be and do good for everyone. I try to stay kind and calm. I try to give hope and strength to those who need it. I try to make people smile when they're feeling low. I try...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Am A Kind, Loving, Caring, And Understanding Person but very sensitive
    hope1091 hope1091 22-25, M 22 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I try to be nice to everyone, but if you cross me I will slap you.
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's starting to get hard. Being a completely different person online compared to my real life. Online I tend to be a little more outgoing and confident. All the current friends...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm stuck in a place that I'm so overwhelmed by things that I have the ability to change but the stress of it all makes me too fed up to do anything. I'm stuck.
    thebigtimedreamer thebigtimedreamer 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    One day I'm going to find someone, and they're going to crack my shell. My walls will go down just for them, but up for the rest of the world. I will talk, verbally. I will not be...
    scaredscarlet scaredscarlet 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm tired emotionally-but it's not like that's going away anytime soon. Sleep would help temporarily however. I can't shut off my mind long enough for me to fall asleep, even...
    Elliearellano Elliearellano 13-15, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I last saw my boyfriend in person in feb. It gets very hard some nights, I just become so lonely at times and have no one to turn to who understands what this is like. I am very...
    EvilPrincess87 EvilPrincess87 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Most of the time, being alone doesn't bug me too much. However, I wish I could just find people that I genuinely connect with once in a while, whether it'd be with men or women...
    dude2278 dude2278 31-35, M a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 26 years old I have been dealing with depression and anxiety for longer than I care to remember. I feel ashamed because I have let my depression and anxiety take over my life...
    robbi123 robbi123 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Most of my friends still don't know much about me even if we've been friends for so many years. Only Jeannette, who's been my friend my whole life. It's really hard to figure me...
    Seraphine246 Seraphine246 31-35 Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I simply don't understand why I fall for the same crap. Me and my boyfriend were together 5 years then his dad got bald and we called it quits he cheated on me we were apart for 2...
    angellcagle angellcagle 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Don't want to go. I don't wanna travel or go to the beach in the summer. I don't think thats fun. I'am uncomfortable in social situations, Especially strangers. After a year...
    pedermn97 pedermn97 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'd tell you that I was always caught in the middle of something beyond my control, but, would you believe me? I didn't mean to get into.... anything, really. It's just that the...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 61-65, M Jul 23