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I Understand Everyone,but Nobody Understands Me

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    I listen to everyone

    and try to get to know them, but no one takes the time to listen to me :/ I guess ppl could just care less
    Squishysecrets36 Squishysecrets36 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    The Outcast

    It is so sad for me that I must live like this, in pain, rejection and betrayal. People can't understand my life, my actions or anything. I have experienced extreme depression over something that I couldn't understand and people took it in the wrong way and made me suffer though...
    warriorcat36 warriorcat36 16-17, F Aug 30, 2013

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    I understand this is a very arrogant assumption.

    However there are days when I FEEL this is the case. I am very empathic, or I try to be. But when I feel I really need someone to listen to me, my voice has to be louder than another just to get someone to understand I need an ear, or a shoulder. *sigh* But, I understand this is...
    sunnyshellkitty sunnyshellkitty 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Why Am I So Lonely?

    I am currently 17 weeks pregnant with my second child ( I have a 12 yo). A week ago the father of my baby broke up with me and I haven't heard form him since. I am struggling because I don' t know what to do. It is not that I can't take care of this child... I have a bachelor's...
    prettylonelyscorpio2013 prettylonelyscorpio2013 36-40, F May 27, 2013

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    I Am So Alone And A Burden

    Please, have the patience to read this. I know it is long but I need help. No matter what I do, I have incredible difficulty being understood. Nobody puts themselves in my shoes even though I try to do the same for them. I have Depression and OCD. I've lived a very solitary...
    JunkoCola JunkoCola 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Healing 101

    This is something important to understand when dealing with someone. There are three states that someone can be in, in their comfortableness with life or a certain activity. 3. The first two states are very natural and healthy. The third one is not what I call a healthy state...
    chimbie88 chimbie88 31-35, M Apr 11, 2013

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    What About Me...?

    I feel like nobody understands everything I do. I wish their was someone who understood me. Someone I can lean on. I understand everyone and what their going through.. but what about me? What ever happened to Jenny? The girl who understands everyone, but nobody understands me...
    JennyNiceGirl JennyNiceGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    I Exert So Much Effort To All I Love,still I’m Left W/ Nobody To Run To.

    I exert too much effort though it is innate in me that I should give allowances and considerations to everyone I love    and I care. My friend, my lover and my family.   But no matter how much emotional good deeds investment I give to them, always there will be a...
    hardlucky hardlucky 26-30, M Mar 20, 2012

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    Nobody Like Me

    Ive been trying my best to be a better person and every single time I go up to my friends and tell them my problems I feel like they don't understand and listens me at all even my family they compare me with other people that are good at things like I've been trying my best to...
    Nobodylikesme10 Nobodylikesme10 22-25, F May 15, 2013

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    I therefore conclude

    that NOBODY understands me... NOT A SINGLE PERSON WILL EVER UNDERSTAND ME. That's how I am to them. A NOBODY.
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 10

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    Why Am I This Way?

    I get along with everyone. I make everyone feel comfortable and people open up to me fairly quickly. Everyone comes to me for advice and I've been told to be good at it. I live my life to bring happiness and love to everyone with my positive attitude and willingness to listen and...
    DetachedForTheBetter DetachedForTheBetter 22-25 2 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    Hear Me Speak

    I'm a pretty good judge of character, I pick up on social ques, and I like helping people. I'm a pretty good listener. I like when people can tell me what's wrong or ask my advice on anything. I like that they put that trust in me. I can understand what they're going through but...
    jellybeamers jellybeamers 16-17, F Jun 10, 2013

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    About Me

    Why is it that I understand people very well most of the time but most the time I feel like people either don't understand me or they don't listen. I absolutly love nature, art, drawing, peacefullness :), harmonization, music my favorite thing to do is to sing and write. And...
    singerbabe583 singerbabe583 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2010

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    Just ME......

    I try my best I give until I have nothing to give.... But im.always viewed negatively?? Either I think I'm better or constantly reminded of my short comings... Im tired of trying to prove myself or gain acceptance y cant I just be me?
    mommycombs mommycombs 36-40, F 3 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Life.

    I feel like I understand everyone. I always try to make everyone feel good and even though my friends make fun of someone, I help that person. I try to make everyone feel good but nobody ever understands me! Not my mother, not my father, nor my friends! Even my boyfriend never...
    Lovex96 Lovex96 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 25, 2012

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    Why

    Ok well im a friend to lotes of people and they'er my friend to but i feel like i hav no friends becuse i understand them all but win i try to talk about my feeling thay dont understande me so i feel like im all alonewin i try to explane my feeling to people thay dont understand...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 24, 2010

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    How Is That Fair?

    I cant understand how i can figure anyone out after being with them for awhile and know them like i know myself. there quirks and habits. things even they didnt know they did ... and yet no one gets me like that... the only person who ever actually understood me and got me better...
    TexasRedHead TexasRedHead 16-17 3 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    Cruel-*** World

    I have always been extremely scrawny due to some connective tissue disorder I was born with. I have been called all the classics, you know, stuff like bones, anorexic, ethiopian, and i would prefer to just be called douchebag, this wouldn't strike a nerve so much. I expected to...
    gmoneyq gmoneyq 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Nobody Understands Me

    But that's the way I like it :) I like to be the mysterious girl that no one understands, the only person that ever truly understood what I did and why I did it was my grandma, but she passed away two years ago, but I won't go into detail about that, what I'm trying to say is...
    autumnnorth1 autumnnorth1 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    I'm the type of girl

    who will do anything for a guy I like if I see a future together or like them as a person. I tend to understand people on a whole level, intellectually, physically & behavioural. I do not judge, I have friends from all walks of life & I like the variety. If everyone was the...
    mzn86 mzn86 26-30, F Mar 2

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    The Person Who Did Understand You Has Left You Behind

    I'm a senior in college, and so far the only person to truly understand me is my good friend from high school, but now he goes to another university half way across the US and has a girlfriend, and virtually disappeared in my life. I love my current friends and I know they all...
    Walzon Walzon 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2013

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    Im So Depreesed and Loonely :(

    i feel that no body understand me :( i need some who care about me someone who loves me and support me whenever i need him .. when im sad h feel no body realise that ... maybe it is my fault cuz i cant express my feeling all the time ...:(  but for me i can know when...
    monapurple monapurple 18-21 4 Responses May 11, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    most people call me the "anti love".... I understand them.... but.... I don't think they do to me.... I'm not really anti love.... I'm just some anti lust and infatuation.... there...
    HopeSeeker28 HopeSeeker28 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    People think that I'm happy and that I'm okay but I'm not. I'm sad so much it's scary. I can't be happy no matter how hard I try. nobody understands and it's so hard.
    elizabethcalvin elizabethcalvin 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    Nobody knows where I truly am. I am loving, and fun, and positive but depressed. I am hiding it from everyone because nobody knows that is me. It's really hard trying to pretend...
    wise025 wise025 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm so damn alone on this stupid planet. nobody gives a fu** and that hurts a lot.I have my parents but they are always fighting. I have a sister 2 yrs younger than me but she's...
    anushkaaaaaaaaaaa anushkaaaaaaaaaaa 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I don't know where to start this off, but I'll just first say that I can't do anything remarkable. I'm not special. I'm not good at anything. I'm just ordinary. I try so hard to...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    People always asks me why I tell everyone in here the things I do, It's because you listen. There are pervs, I know that, but I love it because for once in my life someone...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I don't know where to start this off, but I'll just first say that I can't do anything remarkable. I'm not special. I'm not good at anything. I'm just ordinary. I try so hard to...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't know where to start this off, but I'll just first say that I can't do anything remarkable. I'm not special. I'm not good at anything. I'm just ordinary. I try so hard to...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I think if i would speak loudly about myself ...still no one will listen to me or truly understands me n my motives...this thought just killing me inside...why oh God why...?why...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    Each time I get hurt it's like I lose a piece of my soul..my dignity...my piece of mind...and my heart gets ripped apart .When that hurt became constant, I got used to it.Got used...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    I don't feel like anyone understands or even cares :/ I'm majorly depressed about everything and get so overly sensitive over everything. It will never go away, I'm sympathetic and...
    Mimi94x Mimi94x 18-21, F Nov 29

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    I am seventeen and at this point in my life I feel so alone. Everyone in my life that is supposed to be my support system has kind of backed off. I try to talk to people but I...
    Tryingtosee17 Tryingtosee17 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    I have so ******* done right now. You give life a second chance, have a positive outlook, and feel like trying. You actually try your hardest to do something and actually feel hope...
    Valencia12 Valencia12 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Why do I makes sure nobody is hurting and if everyone is ok why do I care when nobody cares for me I'm such a Lozer
    MermaidUnderneath MermaidUnderneath 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    you know when you get that feeling Where you explain yourself to much that one understands you.
    unsaidhazel unsaidhazel 16-17, F Nov 19

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    I have two daughters. One understands, the other does not. I am not sure what else to say. I will add more later.
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M Nov 20

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    There is not one person on this planet who fully understands me
    brimbritton brimbritton 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    Lately I have had a couple people telling me everything that is wrong with me. It makes me feel worthless. They tell me I am too pretentious, too bitchy, over materialistic, tell...
    nnggww nnggww 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    Did you have stuffed peppers with mash potatoes and baked beans for dinner on March 19, 2013? No? Than don’t tell me you know me. Don’t tell me you know what it’s like...
    thenicholasexperience thenicholasexperience 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    I guess it would be nice to talk to someone else who understand exactly what and how I was feeling, and I could share everything I was feeling and there would be no judgement...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    Nobody is in this group :) but just in case any body drops by-- 1. Being in love is the same for men and women .. Women and women .. Men and men.. So what's not to understand...
    Homejames Homejames 51-55, M 2 days ago

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    The Back-story: Almost 3 years ago I met this woman, a couple years older than me, at work. We hit it off instantly, and eventually became truly friends. At the time of us meeting...
    mperez4855 mperez4855 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 5

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    My eyes burn from baring my soul. Exposing my soul to no one but myself is something I have to get used to. Been hiding under illusions. Cowering in fear. The phase is over. But my...
    littlemisslight littlemisslight 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 25

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    I don't know that I will ever not be. I am an introvert and as such have spent much of my life being lonely. I never felt truly accepted by my family or my friends, in fact I...
    LostInTheWoulds LostInTheWoulds 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 26

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    But that person does not exist
    jasmin333 jasmin333 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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