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I Understand Everyone,but Nobody Understands Me

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    Healing 101

    This is something important to understand when dealing with someone. There are three states that someone can be in, in their comfortableness with life or a certain activity. 3. The first two states are very natural and healthy. The third one is not what I call a healthy state...
    chimbie88 chimbie88 31-35, M Apr 11, 2013

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    About Me

    Why is it that I understand people very well most of the time but most the time I feel like people either don't understand me or they don't listen. I absolutly love nature, art, drawing, peacefullness :), harmonization, music my favorite thing to do is to sing and write. And...
    singerbabe583 singerbabe583 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 23, 2010

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    Why

    Ok well im a friend to lotes of people and they'er my friend to but i feel like i hav no friends becuse i understand them all but win i try to talk about my feeling thay dont understande me so i feel like im all alonewin i try to explane my feeling to people thay dont understand...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 24, 2010

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    Nobody Understands Me

    But that's the way I like it :) I like to be the mysterious girl that no one understands, the only person that ever truly understood what I did and why I did it was my grandma, but she passed away two years ago, but I won't go into detail about that, what I'm trying to say is...
    autumnnorth1 autumnnorth1 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    I therefore conclude

    that NOBODY understands me... NOT A SINGLE PERSON WILL EVER UNDERSTAND ME. That's how I am to them. A NOBODY.
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    I understand this is a very arrogant assumption.

    However there are days when I FEEL this is the case. I am very empathic, or I try to be. But when I feel I really need someone to listen to me, my voice has to be louder than another just to get someone to understand I need an ear, or a shoulder. *sigh* But, I understand this is...
    sunnyshellkitty sunnyshellkitty 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    What About Me...?

    I feel like nobody understands everything I do. I wish their was someone who understood me. Someone I can lean on. I understand everyone and what their going through.. but what about me? What ever happened to Jenny? The girl who understands everyone, but nobody understands me...
    JennyNiceGirl JennyNiceGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    The Outcast

    It is so sad for me that I must live like this, in pain, rejection and betrayal. People can't understand my life, my actions or anything. I have experienced extreme depression over something that I couldn't understand and people took it in the wrong way and made me suffer though...
    warriorcat36 warriorcat36 16-17, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Just ME......

    I try my best I give until I have nothing to give.... But im.always viewed negatively?? Either I think I'm better or constantly reminded of my short comings... Im tired of trying to prove myself or gain acceptance y cant I just be me?
    mommycombs mommycombs 36-40, F 3 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Im So Depreesed and Loonely :(

    i feel that no body understand me :( i need some who care about me someone who loves me and support me whenever i need him .. when im sad h feel no body realise that ... maybe it is my fault cuz i cant express my feeling all the time ...:(  but for me i can know when...
    monapurple monapurple 18-21 4 Responses May 11, 2009

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    Life.

    I feel like I understand everyone. I always try to make everyone feel good and even though my friends make fun of someone, I help that person. I try to make everyone feel good but nobody ever understands me! Not my mother, not my father, nor my friends! Even my boyfriend never...
    Lovex96 Lovex96 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 25, 2012

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    Why Am I So Lonely?

    I am currently 17 weeks pregnant with my second child ( I have a 12 yo). A week ago the father of my baby broke up with me and I haven't heard form him since. I am struggling because I don' t know what to do. It is not that I can't take care of this child... I have a bachelor's...
    prettylonelyscorpio2013 prettylonelyscorpio2013 36-40, F May 27, 2013

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    Cruel-*** World

    I have always been extremely scrawny due to some connective tissue disorder I was born with. I have been called all the classics, you know, stuff like bones, anorexic, ethiopian, and i would prefer to just be called douchebag, this wouldn't strike a nerve so much. I expected to...
    gmoneyq gmoneyq 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    I'm the type of girl

    who will do anything for a guy I like if I see a future together or like them as a person. I tend to understand people on a whole level, intellectually, physically & behavioural. I do not judge, I have friends from all walks of life & I like the variety. If everyone was the...
    mzn86 mzn86 26-30, F Mar 2, 2014

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    I Exert So Much Effort To All I Love,still I’m Left W/ Nobody To Run To.

    I exert too much effort though it is innate in me that I should give allowances and considerations to everyone I love    and I care. My friend, my lover and my family.   But no matter how much emotional good deeds investment I give to them, always there will be a...
    hardlucky hardlucky 26-30, M Mar 20, 2012

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    Why Am I This Way?

    I get along with everyone. I make everyone feel comfortable and people open up to me fairly quickly. Everyone comes to me for advice and I've been told to be good at it. I live my life to bring happiness and love to everyone with my positive attitude and willingness to listen and...
    DetachedForTheBetter DetachedForTheBetter 22-25 2 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    I listen to everyone

    and try to get to know them, but no one takes the time to listen to me :/ I guess ppl could just care less
    Squishysecrets36 Squishysecrets36 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    Hear Me Speak

    I'm a pretty good judge of character, I pick up on social ques, and I like helping people. I'm a pretty good listener. I like when people can tell me what's wrong or ask my advice on anything. I like that they put that trust in me. I can understand what they're going through but...
    jellybeamers jellybeamers 18-21, F Jun 10, 2013

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    How Is That Fair?

    I cant understand how i can figure anyone out after being with them for awhile and know them like i know myself. there quirks and habits. things even they didnt know they did ... and yet no one gets me like that... the only person who ever actually understood me and got me better...
    TexasRedHead TexasRedHead 16-17 3 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    This is me.... I can sympathize,

    care or love anyone but nobody will ever understand me...I'm scared not even one can get me...I'm stuck being me and I guess I exist being misunderstood.
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F Mar 8

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    Nobody Like Me

    Ive been trying my best to be a better person and every single time I go up to my friends and tell them my problems I feel like they don't understand and listens me at all even my family they compare me with other people that are good at things like I've been trying my best to...
    Nobodylikesme10 Nobodylikesme10 22-25, F May 15, 2013

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    I Am So Alone And A Burden

    Please, have the patience to read this. I know it is long but I need help. No matter what I do, I have incredible difficulty being understood. Nobody puts themselves in my shoes even though I try to do the same for them. I have Depression and OCD. I've lived a very solitary...
    JunkoCola JunkoCola 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    The Person Who Did Understand You Has Left You Behind

    I'm a senior in college, and so far the only person to truly understand me is my good friend from high school, but now he goes to another university half way across the US and has a girlfriend, and virtually disappeared in my life. I love my current friends and I know they all...
    Walzon Walzon 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    It's funny everyone pretends like they understand me.they think I don't know but I do it is just so annoying they should just tell me that they don't understand.
    werewolves2302 werewolves2302 13-15 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's hard being the friend everyone goes to for advice and help and you help but you don't believe one word of what your telling them for yourself
    darkheart25 darkheart25 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    They cannot relate to my experiences and i feel so so down. It is just despair , hopeless , alone and tears forever more. I hate GOD for everything that happens and thanks to God...
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F Apr 14

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    I had a best friend that hurt me so much. I was emotionally hurt, I was emotionally affected. I never thought getting into high school was like a life risk. I felt like a failed...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Men talk about not being able to understand women. But it's because they don't try. Men are the truly confusing ones
    Etherealrose Etherealrose 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    i wish i had someone understands what im going through and what im feeling right now. I had a family issues i was mentally disturbed since my dad left us.But i tried hard to...
    dazzlingheart dazzlingheart 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 14

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    Im tired of everything. It seems like no one understands me. I got friends but i still feel lonely most of the time. Theyre only good for hang out and stuff, but idk, i feel like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 18

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    Hey all, just wanna write about my feelings. I found the right group to convey what I am feeling. In my life, I have found very few who really understand me. I sometimes feel...
    alexmatilda alexmatilda 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 17

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    Nobody knows me at all! They are too busy with themselves which is understandable but, I help everyone yet they don't do anything for me..shallow ppl. Shallow souls.
    jbea46 jbea46 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    All i want in life to have someone who understands how i feel. But i have to wait until i die to meet that person.
    phaselove86 phaselove86 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I've come to hate the saying "There's someone for everyone." Because I feel like no one special is out ther for me. :/ I know one day there might be but I don't see it... My...
    OrochimaruSama92 OrochimaruSama92 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Ever feel like running away from life itself? Well that's how I'm feeling at the moment. I have two medical conditions and there both flaring right now. I'm in agony, pain steaming...
    SweetT246 SweetT246 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    The following sentence describes my life. I've always been the one to sit there and congratulate everybody else while I mope and just barely get by. I guess my younger age has...
    xNickDavidx xNickDavidx 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    Ok so as we know there is a problem in the world today. A problem mostly associated with young and growing up girls. But it affects a wide range of people, to adult women, men and...
    JaySmith9999 JaySmith9999 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I often wonder why... not simply about life and its experiences, but why I feel the need to understand. My mind is much like a revolving door, the things I don't have answers for...
    WithGracefulness WithGracefulness 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I've listened to the song "How Do You Get That Lonely" by Blaine Larsen. It's a song about a 18 year old boy who committed suicide Unexpectingly. It goes: How do you get that...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I often don't feel emotionally connected with people. I can consider them and understand logically where they're coming from but there is no inner heart beat picking up on the...
    LittleMissMew LittleMissMew 31-35, F 11 hrs ago

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    I feel like I'm screaming the same thing over and over and no one can hear me trapped in a repeating cycle with no exit. The feeling of relief when you hear someone say "I...
    kmatari1 kmatari1 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 5

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    ...that breath of relief that there is someone in the world, finally, who understands what hurts you...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    i really want to help poor people , i have seen people dying because of no food , no clothes and bcoz of dieseases and i feel really very bad abt. it , bcoz we all people in this...
    dieseldrumm dieseldrumm 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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