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I Understand Everyone,but Nobody Understands Me

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    I'm a pretty good judge of character, I pick up on social ques, and I like helping people. I'm a pretty good listener. I like when people can tell me what's wrong or ask my advice on anything. I like that they put that trust in me. I can understand what they're going through but...
    jellybeamers jellybeamers 16-17, F Jun 10, 2013

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    Why Am I This Way?

    I get along with everyone. I make everyone feel comfortable and people open up to me fairly quickly. Everyone comes to me for advice and I've been told to be good at it. I live my life to bring happiness and love to everyone with my positive attitude and willingness to listen and...
    DetachedForTheBetter DetachedForTheBetter 22-25 2 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    Why

    Ok well im a friend to lotes of people and they'er my friend to but i feel like i hav no friends becuse i understand them all but win i try to talk about my feeling thay dont understande me so i feel like im all alonewin i try to explane my feeling to people thay dont understand...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 24, 2010

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    Im So Depreesed and Loonely :(

    i feel that no body understand me :( i need some who care about me someone who loves me and support me whenever i need him .. when im sad h feel no body realise that ... maybe it is my fault cuz i cant express my feeling all the time ...:(  but for me i can know when...
    monapurple monapurple 18-21 4 Responses May 11, 2009

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    What About Me...?

    I feel like nobody understands everything I do. I wish their was someone who understood me. Someone I can lean on. I understand everyone and what their going through.. but what about me? What ever happened to Jenny? The girl who understands everyone, but nobody understands me...
    JennyNiceGirl JennyNiceGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    I listen to everyone

    and try to get to know them, but no one takes the time to listen to me :/ I guess ppl could just care less
    Squishysecrets36 Squishysecrets36 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    Nobody Understands Me

    But that's the way I like it :) I like to be the mysterious girl that no one understands, the only person that ever truly understood what I did and why I did it was my grandma, but she passed away two years ago, but I won't go into detail about that, what I'm trying to say is...
    autumnnorth1 autumnnorth1 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    How Is That Fair?

    I cant understand how i can figure anyone out after being with them for awhile and know them like i know myself. there quirks and habits. things even they didnt know they did ... and yet no one gets me like that... the only person who ever actually understood me and got me better...
    TexasRedHead TexasRedHead 16-17 3 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    I'm the type of girl

    who will do anything for a guy I like if I see a future together or like them as a person. I tend to understand people on a whole level, intellectually, physically & behavioural. I do not judge, I have friends from all walks of life & I like the variety. If everyone was the...
    mzn86 mzn86 26-30, F Mar 2

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    Healing 101

    This is something important to understand when dealing with someone. There are three states that someone can be in, in their comfortableness with life or a certain activity. 3. The first two states are very natural and healthy. The third one is not what I call a healthy state...
    chimbie88 chimbie88 31-35, M Apr 11, 2013

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    Just ME......

    I try my best I give until I have nothing to give.... But im.always viewed negatively?? Either I think I'm better or constantly reminded of my short comings... Im tired of trying to prove myself or gain acceptance y cant I just be me?
    mommycombs mommycombs 36-40, F 3 Responses May 28, 2013

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    I understand this is a very arrogant assumption.

    However there are days when I FEEL this is the case. I am very empathic, or I try to be. But when I feel I really need someone to listen to me, my voice has to be louder than another just to get someone to understand I need an ear, or a shoulder. *sigh* But, I understand this is...
    sunnyshellkitty sunnyshellkitty 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    I Exert So Much Effort To All I Love,still I’m Left W/ Nobody To Run To.

    I exert too much effort though it is innate in me that I should give allowances and considerations to everyone I love    and I care. My friend, my lover and my family.   But no matter how much emotional good deeds investment I give to them, always there will be a...
    hardlucky hardlucky 26-30, M Mar 20, 2012

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    I Am So Alone And A Burden

    Please, have the patience to read this. I know it is long but I need help. No matter what I do, I have incredible difficulty being understood. Nobody puts themselves in my shoes even though I try to do the same for them. I have Depression and OCD. I've lived a very solitary...
    JunkoCola JunkoCola 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Why Am I So Lonely?

    I am currently 17 weeks pregnant with my second child ( I have a 12 yo). A week ago the father of my baby broke up with me and I haven't heard form him since. I am struggling because I don' t know what to do. It is not that I can't take care of this child... I have a bachelor's...
    prettylonelyscorpio2013 prettylonelyscorpio2013 31-35, F 2 Responses May 27, 2013

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    The Person Who Did Understand You Has Left You Behind

    I'm a senior in college, and so far the only person to truly understand me is my good friend from high school, but now he goes to another university half way across the US and has a girlfriend, and virtually disappeared in my life. I love my current friends and I know they all...
    Walzon Walzon 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2013

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    The Outcast

    It is so sad for me that I must live like this, in pain, rejection and betrayal. People can't understand my life, my actions or anything. I have experienced extreme depression over something that I couldn't understand and people took it in the wrong way and made me suffer though...
    warriorcat36 warriorcat36 16-17, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Nobody Like Me

    Ive been trying my best to be a better person and every single time I go up to my friends and tell them my problems I feel like they don't understand and listens me at all even my family they compare me with other people that are good at things like I've been trying my best to...
    Nobodylikesme10 Nobodylikesme10 22-25, F May 15, 2013

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    Cruel-*** World

    I have always been extremely scrawny due to some connective tissue disorder I was born with. I have been called all the classics, you know, stuff like bones, anorexic, ethiopian, and i would prefer to just be called douchebag, this wouldn't strike a nerve so much. I expected to...
    gmoneyq gmoneyq 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Life.

    I feel like I understand everyone. I always try to make everyone feel good and even though my friends make fun of someone, I help that person. I try to make everyone feel good but nobody ever understands me! Not my mother, not my father, nor my friends! Even my boyfriend never...
    Lovex96 Lovex96 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 25, 2012

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    About Me

    Why is it that I understand people very well most of the time but most the time I feel like people either don't understand me or they don't listen. I absolutly love nature, art, drawing, peacefullness :), harmonization, music my favorite thing to do is to sing and write. And...
    singerbabe583 singerbabe583 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2010

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    I'm not sure why but when anyone needs help I'm there to help them and listen to their problems but when I just NEED someone to talk to, to open up to , it seems like there's never...
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    I hate my life. Very much. The main reason is because of my purpose. Since I was 6 I have been inspired by many people. This made me a good person, i suppose. But outside is like a...
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    Yes, I am different, crazy, weird, and random. But nobody really takes the time to get to know me. Compared to everyone else I feel so different. I'm considered "emo" suicidal and...
    TheNeeded TheNeeded 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I really don't have nobody in my life that understand me but **** it I guess
    Chasemanning Chasemanning 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    Well ladies and gentleman it blew up in my face. We get here and we had a nice afternoon of me giving him exactly what he wanted. We had fun and played. It was nice just the way he...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 4

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    February 11th I've met people with their birthdays on the 12, 10, 9, 13, 14 but nobody with the 11th!
    skyleryounger skyleryounger 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Everyone has their own perception I understand that, but sometimes it's so different from what you have it's hella confusing. Maybe it's just me
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    im not a bad person,I try to help everyone but around me all hates me
    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M Jul 8

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    I find I get along with everyone but my sarcastic humor isn't for everyone. I tend to be honest to a fault if you don't want to know my thoughts please don't ask
    bil84ly bil84ly 46-50, M Jul 1

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    I really love my boyfriend, we've been dating for 2 years this fall. And I don't want to hurt him, that's why I've tried to rationally explain that I think we should break up and...
    RomanticLesbian RomanticLesbian 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I have a boyfriend but miss my ex.. But I also know it would not work with the ex... But it still sucks and I feel a bit lost... Not many understand this.. But I do
    Keylinn Keylinn 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    There was something about the lack of care and hygiene that pulled her in. They stuck out their arm and let their boys draw on them as if the ink wasn't permanent. Most everyone of...
    pinkk44 pinkk44 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    At some point I would like more real, genuine relationships with other women. But I have some problems that prevent me from understanding what other women do with their lives. I'm...
    britannagis britannagis 31-35, F 8 hrs ago

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    I remember about a year ago writing a story, a story about how I felt. Depressed, helpless.... for anyone with depression, you know how it is to fake a smile, to fake a giggle just...
    Chassiduuu Chassiduuu 16-17, F Jul 18

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    There have been plenty of times in my life where I felt that no one really understood me or how I felt. I think that this feeling of no one understanding me has caused me to push...
    burton318 burton318 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I wish my parents would understand that I hate it when they make a huge deal over all my accomplishments. Why can't they just be happy for me instead of trying to brag to everyone...
    Lucietabell124 Lucietabell124 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    I need someone in my life who understand my every feelings. My mom hate me. She loves my lit bro. she want me to help her in her work. she neither care me nor speak any lovely...
    Tanya280 Tanya280 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Sorry about this post. I tend to ramble. About a year ago, my dad got a job offer in Florida, moving my whole family from the Midwest to the coast. My mom was excited. My dad was...
    hanllen145 hanllen145 13-15, F 20 hrs ago

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    i thought being with the one who i clicked with the most would be the most ideal now after being with them they have high expectations that im still trying to adopt into my...
    figmentoftheirimagination figmentoftheirimagination 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    You can always talk to me. I will always understand.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 4 hrs ago

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    It's empty psychobabble. Take responsibility for your own words and actions, just as you expect me to take responsibility for mine. And quit blaming people for being 'affected...
    Buckley4U Buckley4U 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    Have you ever asked yourself,"Who am I?" Thinking excessively has made me realize that it is impossible to know who you are and that is because you know yourself too well (think...
    Hithier Hithier 18-21 4 hrs ago

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    I am 24. I've been married to my husband for just over 2 years. We have no children. We met in college, dated for only 6 months before getting engaged, and were married almost 2...
    swimcoachpro swimcoachpro 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    I remember the heartbreaking time a close "friend" & my boyfriend plotted against me and started dating in 2012 and still dating. I lost a lot friends along with this. Me being a...
    EbbsBreaux EbbsBreaux 16-17, F Jul 13

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    Whale I think I'm a proxy:p Because I recently moved near a forest and I have a strange obsession with 'Slenderman' now if you ask me I have absolutely no problem with disappearing...
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    I get upset but it doesn't matter to others. I get hurt and hurt but if it's not them, then it's irrelevant. I hold my feelings in because no one would believe them if they showed...
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