Post

I Use My Pain To Learn From It And Grow As A Person

My pain is my teacher 154 People

    My Pain...

    the pain is here to tell me I'm still alive, alive to fight another day, alive to reveal and turn the page, alive to reveal itself, alive , because the pain reveals the most truth.see the scars behind these eyes, the sting of daylite, the changing tide, horizon haunt me no...
    supermist supermist 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 16, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What I Learned After Abuse

    After being in an abusive relationship, I appreciate myself, i learned to take care of myself and the importance of self love and selfrespect. He was a sick *** and ill make sure it never happens again, im my own bodyguard!
    Brickamees Brickamees 26-30, F Jan 21, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Wisdom....

    I think that is one of the greatest things a person can learn. Pain can be a good thing or a terrible thing.On one side, it can destroy us if we let it, but on the other hand it can be something that helps us grow. I think you can look at pain from two different view points...
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 1, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Perseverance...

    It may seem weird to thankful for pain, but without it I wouldn’t know how to persevere. Without challenge...struggle...loss, I wouldn’t know my own strength. If I was never down on my luck, I would never know how to rise above. It’s during times of adversity when we...
    kittysoftpaws kittysoftpaws 36-40, F Mar 13, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Joy

    it peirces your heart like a sharp blade of ice, freezing your insides till all your awae of is a pain and the knowledge that you are loseing your self. it cuts you open and lets the old feelings slowly seep out, leaves you empty and in desperate need of warm arms to wrap you...
    DarkAmber DarkAmber 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Bleeding Pain For Beautiful Gain

    Memories bleeding inside causing a poison to seep through your veins, consuming you with a fierce blazing rage of pain that, if you don't talk about it, will eventually control you and make you possibly bitter and shrivel up inside, that feeling of hollow ghost walking around...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 22, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am A Happy Girl

    You wouldn't know it by my profile and recent activities but when not in a situation such as I am.................. I am quite happy and jovial. The key for me is travel and having someone who believes in me and loves me................ Given that I am very happy and like...
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 3, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Marrying My Darkness.

    I have decided to marry my darkness. I think it's important to remember your dark days. Why forget them completely? I'm not saying sit there and think about it all day, but just remember what you've been through. I think it's ok to look back once in a while and see where you've...
    OnMyTippeeToes OnMyTippeeToes 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Do

    i am trying to use my pain as a learning experience. I am trying to grow as a person .Trying to become a better person by all the **** i have done and been through.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 3, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Crying ?

    Pain and trials are only submitted to us in order to watch how our patience could be tested. If at first proof we begin to cry, no need to explain how the proof is lost. Better to have a bit set-back, a bit meditation and see the proof just as a schoolwork ! Best way to win in...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 20, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    2 AM and she calls me 'cause I'm still awake,

    "Can you help me unravel my latest mistake?, I don't love him. Winter just wasn't my season" Yeah we walk through the doors, so accusing their eyes Like they have any right at all to criticize, Hypocrites. You're all here for the very same reason 'Cause you can't jump the track...
    Ladyjane10 Ladyjane10 46-50, F Jan 1

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    That's the only way you'll better yourself as a person, but you need to truly learn from the mistake!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am determined to learn from a mistake, last year I was too afraid of what others thought of me. I would constantly think of what others viewed me as. I was afraid and shy, I...
    Hollylala Hollylala 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I like to learn from my experience and my mistakes, i hate it when people expect me to learn from others, if i fail ill just deal with it, and i will admit i was wrong, but i have...
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was diagnosed a few years back by a counselor i was seeing with Avoidant personality disorder. After years of struggling to keep and hold onto a job including two failed attempts...
    shinjorai shinjorai 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    More and more I come to the conclusion that anger is the most useless of emotions. It corrupts our actions and corrodes our hearts. Anger breeds hatred and should be cast aside as...
    Lemartes Lemartes 31-35, M Jul 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Example... 1st day home from surgery, don't trust a fart.. 2nd day home, even after meds, don't watch **** and have a hard n fast ****. Wonder what I'll learn tomorrow???
    MooRiver MooRiver 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've realised that my anger was the reaction to and not the cause of whatever was bothering me. I find it more easy to identify when this is happening, and I try to stop myself...
    mypath43 mypath43 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    keeping things in balance is something very common in eastern philosophy. something sadly rarely seen in western thinking and actions. however i would still prefer to live here.
    IMyOwnLeader IMyOwnLeader 26-30, M Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    you fi careful A di people yuh know Caz nuff a dem nuh real, dem a foe You fi careful A di places yuh go Be careful a di faces you know You fi careful A di friends weh you keep...
    ladyebugg ladyebugg 18-21, F Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's good when you make mistakes because it teaches you a lesson and it's unlikely that you'll make the same mistake again.
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    That everything here is like real life.Sometime back ,a new member had joined but he left soon after saying E.p. was not the place for him.For him ,it was not a place to have fun...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I wish there was one day a year where mental health disorders didn't exist. Just one.
    ashleamai ashleamai 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Live your life as if there were no tomorrow's. Life itself owes no nobody nothing, we are who we are. Don't drive on your past, let's try to learn from it. Live life with no...
    Maverick75 Maverick75 36-40, M 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have changed so much from the person I was before. Life experiences that I've had has formed me into this person who has a terrible self image, has social anxiety, and feels like...
    GageBunny GageBunny 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I would really like to get a better understanding on this. I can only read so much before I want to talk to those that have experience on the subject. I've been in a relationship...
    matt0030 matt0030 22-25, M 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You are a wonderful person. You have been hurt, but not everyone will hurt you. We all make mistakes. You are going to grow and things will get better for you. We are always...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Besides, Inner Beast with an AoE damaging from the group is helpful to lock the bigger enemies. And Siphoning Attacks are like lifesavers. When the resources are run out, you...
    mmogoogle mmogoogle 22-25, M Jul 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I haven't given myself to someone 100 percent because I haven't ever felt that comfort, that 'I really really like you" feeling, where I'm happy to be open and not forcing anything...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Let it go but learn from that experience so it doesn't repeat and keep you stuck in that loop. I'm not letting anything or any person hold me back from moving up through life. I...
    YoungRidah YoungRidah 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sometimes in life you have those moments where you reflect back and wonder how you got where you are in life right now. As I reflect on that I remind myself that everything...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This song sums up where I am right now. We aren't promised tomorrow. I can't afford to give up on my dreams. I can't keep taking the easy road. I have to try. And if I never...
    coffeeflavoredkisses coffeeflavoredkisses 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    People come and go in your life but sometimes you meet one or two people that stand apart from the rest. They really leave an impression on you. You learn from them, you are amazed...
    StoneWall77 StoneWall77 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Never live in the past...but learn from it.
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 26-30, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    1914 WW1 begins, one hundred years ago today. Have we learned from it?
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    They're there but I don't have regrets. You learn from everything. Once you've been to the bottom the top never felt so good.
    ashbomb132 ashbomb132 13-15, F Jul 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My user name comes from my favorite nursery/counting rhyme "One for Sorrow" One for sorrow, Two for joy, Three for a girl, Four for a boy, Five for silver, Six for gold, Seven...
    threeforagirl threeforagirl 26-30, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    if you have any news good or bad i would rather hear it from the person that has something to say rather than other people cause by time it make it to me there story has been...
    DBsw1990 DBsw1990 22-25, M Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Writing a diary is too risky, so I’ve decided to make a blog. I am not actually that good in writing essays but when I do, I always have a lot of things to say. It was this...
    kurinatot kurinatot 18-21, F Jul 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi there, I have been thinking of adding this post for a long time but now I simply feel stuck. The whole dilemma that I am experiencing is about my husband who I find very...
    Nessi2007 Nessi2007 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
     Acknowledging the Strength through Relationships - As a male growing up around two other male "role-models", one thing was for certain in relationships: how much sex I...
    LysanderFremont LysanderFremont 26-30, M 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have always felt that I experience more emotional pain than others, but I used to think of this as a character flaw rather than an inborn trait. When I was in middle school, I...
    kaylie2323 kaylie2323 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate it but I have no choice. Due to negligent doctors I am forced to use a wheelchair. I don't get around like I used to. I've been using one since I was 17 years old. Most days...
    poeticdiva poeticdiva 22-25, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been diagnosed with clinical depression from the age of 15. I guess what got me started was the constant bullying I endured through my school years. At the age of 14, I...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Privacy CountsI am extremely private with my feelings. I find it highly uncomfortable to share my innermost self. It is hard to expose oneself and open up on such intimate levels...
    DarkestTrance DarkestTrance 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    For some time now, my imagination has been so vivid that I could step into another world for some time and leave this one as if though I was living in another body. I could spend...
    Anima69Para Anima69Para 22-25 1 Response Jul 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been fighting this feeling for my entire life, sorting out what emotions are mine and what emotions are coming from those around me. I guess I was just scared that it would...
    Hiddenoutside Hiddenoutside 22-25, F Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I used to be very mean and spiteful in my early-teen years. Very uncaring and inconsiderate. I would have no understanding and I was always quick to judge. Yes, I changed as I got...
    nemophilist8 nemophilist8 18-21, F 7 Responses 17 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel