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I Used to Be a Cheater

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 16 People

    Lessons Learned

    In my last two long relationships, I ended up cheating. It came down to poor communication, which led to unsatisfying sex. I didn't feel good about it, but "I had needs." And once it was done, it was easier to do it again. Looking back, I realize that if I'd been more mature...
    Grendel2001 Grendel2001
    51-55, M
    Jul 12, 2012

    Used To Cheat, Never Again.

    I used to cheat on my boyfriend because it was what he did to me. So I felt it was the only right thing to do. After the third time he did it, I started to do it too. Except, I think I did it 3x worse, maybe. There are a couple of times that I feel really terrible about. Well, I...
    xXPsychochic56 xXPsychochic56
    18-21, F
    Feb 28, 2011

    I Will Regret It Forever

    I have been in a relationship with the same person for 8 years, since I was 14 (22 yrs now) and for the first 2.5 years I was a cheater. I was a totally different person who thought all men were scumbags (no offense) and I just wanted them all to admit it and if they didn't my...
    XioBlue XioBlue
    22-25, F
    Feb 28, 2011

    Proof People Can Change

    It's been over 10 years since I cheated on anyone. We can learn our lesson, and never do it again. I lost my soulmate, and that's ALL it took. I'll NEVER cheat AGAIN.
    staticz staticz
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 25, 2010

    So I Was Cheater And It Will Haunt Me For The Rest Of My Life...

    So I'm 25 years old, married, and I'm still haunted by the stupid s*** I did when I was 18. Back then, I was dating Shadow, a man 2 years younger than I was. Everything seemed great. We, honestly, got together to lose our virginity's to each other (seeing as we were both geeks...
    kittyannemarie kittyannemarie
    31-35, T
    1 Response Oct 12, 2010
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