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I Used To Be A Good Man

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    If your problem is one of substance abuse i feel deeply for you, in my experience in life and one of being closely connected to people who have fallen into the depths of the abyss. On a few occasions i have helped people who gone a stray, the road you face is one of punishment...
    sexywetlips sexywetlips 26-30, F Oct 23, 2009

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    Yeah, Me Too..

     it's a slippery slope.. but who knew. 
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 4 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    Use To

    I use to be a good man. Not a great man but much better than the man I have become. My life got out of control and I can't seem to get back on track. I'm afraid of where I'll end up.
    katysboy katysboy 56-60, M Mar 31, 2011

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    Something Happened

    I used to be a good man.  An upstanding man.  A man with good morals and judgment.  A man some people looked up to for guidance and just to be around because I was never a danger to a good person's way of life. But something happened.  I've had some changes...
    alteredstate alteredstate 22-25, M 59 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    Can't Keep A Good Man Down

    I used to be a good man, now im just a raving bad boy that lives life on the edge, and who doesn't give a hoot about the laws.Hell Yeah
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Sep 18, 2012

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    I A good man never dies-- In worthy deed and prayer And helpful hands, and honest eyes, If smiles or tears be there: Who lives for you and me-- Lives for the world he tries To...
    imgreywlf imgreywlf 56-60, M Jul 22

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    coz i havent been with a good guy before. When i was in college i had a bf and he's a kleptomaniac and he's bad too one night he went to our house and he has a knife and he used...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Please. I think it's pretty impolite to send me a picture of your man/boyhood when I haven't asked you for it, we don't know each other, and in fact, haven't even been introduced...
    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am a firm believer that if you are polite enough the world will give you everything. This can be experienced from every day activities i.e. at a restaurant to business deals...
    fred21qwe fred21qwe 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I have never felt worse about myself, so I came on here. I just want someone to hear me. Anyway, this is what happened. I am a tall, awkward shy girl. I am very nice and loving. I...
    dancekatie93 dancekatie93 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    I've been hurt and used so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Whenever a guy used good grammar and punctuation, it's literally a turn on for me.
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    I was asked today if I have a knight in shinning armor or a dumbass in tinfoil. Well, I have been thinking about it and I am pretty sure I have a dumbass in tinfoil. Yeah he doesn...
    SlimsB SlimsB 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

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    My castle moved to the sand. I've been "manipulating" people for decades. I see what I believe to be the best possible outcome, and I push all of the person's buttons that I can...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    The Readers Digest used to have a section called "Laughter is the Best Medicine", and how true that is. When all else fails, a good laugh will always help. If anyone has some good...
    CarMechanic CarMechanic 66-70, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Dear mum, you are the strongest woman i know. You can hold a roof over your head and still manage to cope. You are doing amazing with your life. Who am i to tarnish that, so i wont...
    ticklishvampire ticklishvampire 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    It drives me crazy when people claim to be "grammar nazis" and use the words to, two, too, there, their, and they're wrong. I don't claim to be a grammar nazi. To be honest, I...
    lp1989 lp1989 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    This is a long story so please bear with me if you can. I met a man back in 2008 through his sister who was a good friend of mine at the time. I knew he was married from the start...
    plmagnet29 plmagnet29 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    I lost who I was when I was about 14-15, things went downhill from there. I used to be pretty focused and determined on doing things, I used to be a lot happier and strong. I think...
    lovetodraw19 lovetodraw19 18-21, F Aug 5

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    I talked with this man I met on a personal website. I felt compelled and drawn to him when I saw his picture. I favorite him back on my site. He then emailed me and we started a...
    Holii35 Holii35 31-35, F Jul 31

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    I'm definitely not the person I used to be. I was married for 20 years. I thought I was happy, and I really did love raising my kids. They are 18 and 21 now, and they are awesome...
    lovesandybeaches lovesandybeaches 46-50, F Jul 20

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    I've been through a lot; abuse and betrayal, lies, people bringing me down, etc. and I was not only living a lie through my life by telling myself I have a loving family, but I was...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    With all the truama I've been through and all the mistakes I've become very angry and irritable and impulsive. I'm not sweet and caring like I used to be and I was so open and not...
    followthem00n followthem00n 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    When he introduced the Monthly bill in June 1963, President Kennedy urged Congress to move it “for your one basic, proud and priceless quality that unites us all as Us...
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    I have blocked you from all the profiles I know you have : male, females, different ages, nationalities.But no doubt you have more that I do not know about. We used to be friends...
    retrograding retrograding 41-45, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    FOR THE GUYS....My son and I used to get a lot of laughs over that horrible and funny show, "The Pick Up Artist."Now I present to you the PUAs female counterpart,who is usually...
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    My husband has been diagnosed with PTSD (twice, the first time he refused to believe it). He is a very intelligent, very emotional and creative man. A good father and, at heart...
    madam99 madam99 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I wanna say about a year and a half/ two years ago, I was a completely different person. I had started seeing this guy, thought he was great, 3 months into the relationship we got...
    brandijade92 brandijade92 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    The feeling of feeling used sucks. I was used by this guy, for entertainment.. I guess that's safe to say. I HAD a major crush on him for about three years.. I laughed at his...
    mercifulpennies mercifulpennies 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    1) If something has to exist first before it can "ask" for anything, then does that mean nothing whatsoever asked to exist? 2) If we didn't choose to be born or choose our body...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    There are times when I remember who I was... I used to be nice, used to be calm, used to be patient and used to be forgiving... But my love, betrayed me... lied to me... fooled...
    elemenohpi elemenohpi 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    My dad always makes these offhand comments about how I used to be into so many things but I'm not anymore. He claims it's because I'm on my phone all the time, but it's actually...
    ThatOneShipper ThatOneShipper 13-15, F Jul 24

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    I don't think I'm a bad human being, I just think that the things I do can be pretty unforgivable sometimes. Maybe it's my teenage years, or my lack of experience or lack of...
    Cue0811 Cue0811 18-21 Jul 26

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    This is super long but I just needed to get it off my chest. You used me. You first told me that having the label of "boyfriend and girlfriend" would ruin our relationship so you...
    lunalight21 lunalight21 18-21, F a week ago

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    I'm not the person I used to be, I've gotten better in some things but some things have turned out to be worse.. I have learned to keep hurtful thoughts to myself, no matter how...
    ginawexler ginawexler 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    westwoman westwoman 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 30

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    "I choose to live by choice, not chance; to make changes, not excuses; to be motivated, not manipulated; to be useful, not used; to excel, not compete; I choose self-esteem...
    blommetjies blommetjies 31-35 Jul 25

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    From a young age, I've always thought of anyone who listens to me as friends. I was a really lonely child, and up until about my teens, I was a very unpopular, shy, and ugly child...
    MichelleReed MichelleReed 18-21, F Jul 29

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    I use to cut deep down a line of red blood dripping out but mommy and daddy didn't give a crap about me all they did was cry but didn't tell any one for the help I need. Yes you...
    lovemariefrance lovemariefrance 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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