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I Used to Be Beaten When I Was Young

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    My Dad :(

    my Dad use to beat me all the time, when he wanted to ht my brother, I get in front of him, just so he wouldn't get beat. I rather my dad beat on me, than to hurt my lil brother. I Loved him too much for that....I didn't want him to have to go through that, so I did wahtever...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2010

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    My Parents Beat Me

    My parents have always beat me since when i turned five if i did something wrong i was beaten not with a belt they would beat me with whatever they could over small things they tell me they hate me and love my brothers i dont get why they do this its cruel but if i say anything i...
    simplyhidden simplyhidden 13-15, M 6 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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    ...Along With...

    ...verbal and emotional abuse, and my brother received the same when he was three and i was four from the time my father and stepmother had their own baby onward for the next thirteen years. That's when the beatings stopped but the other abuse never did.
    eleanorssong eleanorssong 56-60, F Oct 4, 2012

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    Of Course, I Was Doing Wrong

    But I didn't deserve to have to cut the limbs off the tree, remove all the leaves, trim it and then ***** naked to be beaten because I did something wrong.  It wasn't right.  I never did anything like that to my son. 
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 8 Responses Oct 17, 2008

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    What Has Happened To Gentleness

    I GUESS FROM BEING SPIT ON, PINCHED TILL I BLED ON THE CHEST, BEING SPANKED TILL I BLED.HAVING MY FINGERS BENT BACK, BEING BEAT ABOUT THE HEAD AND EARS,LIED ON, LIED TO, BEING HIT WITH A WHIP,BEING BEAT WITH A BELT TILL I WAS COVERED HEAD TO TOE WITH WELTS,BEING SLAPPED BY NUNS...
    thelambsink thelambsink 41-45, M Oct 11, 2010

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    Oh Yeah I Was

    When you live with the product of a corrupt government who sends little boys off to do their bidding in wars they want to hide under, by using the guise of a police action, like Korea, or any other conflict for that matter, then you too just might get your azz beat on a daily...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2010

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    By My Dad

    My dad used to beat me for no reason. But sometimes he did have his reasons, I remember one time he kick me down the stiars because I forgot to take out the trash. I wish he wouldn't of beat me but he did he was a drunk. I do hate my dad because of what he did to me.
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F Oct 15, 2009

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    Was Beaten As A Child

    I was beaten when I was a child. back in the 80's it was call disapline. I called it painful. It was either a slap in the face, or multiple butt spankings. There were days I could not sit. But that was called tough love. Or so I am told.
    jerseygirl87 jerseygirl87 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    It Broke My Spirit

    Somehow i started to have flashbacks from my childhood, and it's like i blocked the memories until now, when everyhting suddenly hit me. I think about it every day, i am angry and resent my mom for beating me and my dad for letting her. I resent them both for making me feel like...
    TiffanyHepburn TiffanyHepburn 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    Scar

    My parents are divorced,When i was a young girl i was beaten up by my dad. I Still had a scar on my Back.But now things have change. I've grew up to be a strong and independant person.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 20, 2013

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    My Brother

    Not by my parents but by my brother. He was only two years older than me but had great strength - when he was angry it was like he changed, you could see it in his eyes, this wild evilness, it made me so scared! Everday he would do something, from the age of 6, maybe earlier...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    It Was My Mission to Never

    have dad hurt the others when I was younger.  There are 5 in my family, 3 girls (all born first, I'm 2nd oldest), and 2 boys.  We weren't an overly strict family, not really any different from other families.  For some reason I was picked on the most.  I had...
    Maqi Maqi 26-30, F 16 Responses May 7, 2009

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    Funny Way To Show Love

    I'd have to say the saddest memory I had of my mum's beating was when I was 5. It was over a small thing she chased me down, I hid under the sink counter. I waited for her to leave the room but she found me and dragged me out. She whipped me with a rattan cane, hard. As she...
    CaliDACT CaliDACT 16-17 1 Response Oct 22, 2012

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    My Mom And Dad.

     they would get worked up and then they would take all there stress out of me and my brother.it would go from them being nice to you getting beaten.it was the worst when my dad got home from a bar.he would kick ,hit and verbally abuse everyone in sight.it has defanently ...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 3 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    Seriously?

    i remember peeing under my bed at night beacause in order to get to the bathroom i would have to pass the bedroom of my father. i did it one night and got it with a wicked 1960-70's hairbrush. that thing was meant for african american hair i think. i got it from the bottoms of my...
    ryannsgrammie ryannsgrammie 41-45 3 Responses Jun 2, 2009

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    My Older Brother

    I never talk about it, a few people know, only my closest friends. It's not something I like to talk about, I dont want people to feel sorry for me, or to think I'm making it up. Because no one believed me when I was younger its a fear that no one would believe me now. My...
    ahcrap ahcrap 22-25, F 21 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    my abuse story

    I was from 5-6, he was 8-9, my elder step brother would always take out his aggression on me. he has tried to hang me, he failed but just barely if my mother didn't walk in the room when she did, from hearing me gag i wouldn't be here today. my elder brother also burned my chest...
    arikdumont arikdumont 18-21, M 9 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    One Of My Worst Spanking

    my dad started to spank me since 5 years old.i remembered when i was young as that age,my dad whipping me for around 3 swats.and at the age of 20 i used to get at most nearly 200 whipping.once i remember my dad teach me mathematics and ask me to do problem sum.when im wrong my...
    munan munan 26-30, F 21 Responses Feb 20, 2012

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    It Still Hurts.

    My dad was in the military. Everything had to be perfect. He drank alot, (still does) by the time i was old enough to pour a drink he had me mixing his. he would scream and rant and rave if the smallest thing was slightly out of place. If my clothes weren't folded perfectly...
    SurrenderedAngel SurrenderedAngel 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    I Was Raised In a Military Family and Was Beaten Severely.

    I remember one time on the playground in Incirlik Turkey, I was in 3rd grade, I took my shirt off because I was on the "shirtless" team for kickball.  When I did that, I turned around and everyone just stood there looking at me.  I had already forgotten about...
    Run2Me Run2Me 46-50, M 28 Responses Jan 16, 2009

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    Growing Up.. Not So Simple...

    I read ahcrap's story about her brother on here, its one of the older ones and it caused me to reflect.It kinda reminded me of growing up with my sister, I used to pick on her and stuff quite a lot, but not to the extend of her brother in her story. I think at times i may have...
    mrmizzle mrmizzle 22-25, M Nov 3, 2011

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    Alcoholic Father

    My dad was an alcoholic an used to beat me and my mum all time. When I was 8 my mum died and the abuse got worse for me. It became more aggressive and I got ever form of abuse including sexual. Then he eventually remarried and my stepmom was just as abusive. It was hell so I...
    soulalchemist28 soulalchemist28 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 23, 2013

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    Mother Under Pressure

    My mother had five kids in 7years. She couldn't handle the pressure. She would go into a rage and hurt us before she even realized it, I guess. We would have bruised arms and legs with broken skin from the hairbrush, because she would often lose it while doing our hair for church...
    veralynn veralynn 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 22, 2012

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    Foster Child

    Ever since I was young, I jumped from foster family to foster family. To this day, I have been in twelve foster homes. Nine of those twelve had adults that would beat me for some bizarre That I still do not understand to this day. Two others just ignored me, and saw me as a...
    dearveronica dearveronica 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    . . . . Wished To Be Someone Else.

    To this day I have no clue as to why my parents wanted children. They should not have been allowed dogs much less children. As I’m looking back I remember them being nice to the dogs, my oversight. I can still hear my Grandfather yelling at my mother, “He’s going to kill...
    spideytoes spideytoes 36-40, F 8 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    I Lay There Wondering Why.

    When I was younger, my mom and dad would beat me. Mostly mom, though. She'd do it whenever I made little mistakes, completely normal mistakes, or if she'd had a bad day. For some reason she took it out on me. Most of the time, I didn't even understand why my parents hit...
    peanlo peanlo 18-21, F 27 Responses May 21, 2010

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    Share the Rod Spoil the Child

    I know you have all heard that one..It was my very religious fathers most favorite lines..His rod of choice was a hard plastic baseball bat..He made very sure the rod was not spared at my house. My dad liked to accuse my siblings and myself of doing all kinds of things..If it...
    turkstragal turkstragal 41-45 2 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    The Memories That Stuck.

    My first memory of being beaten, I can't remember how old I was but my father came home drunk and felt like thumping something so he dropped my pants threw me over his knee and went at it. I know this must have happened before because my mother recorded it. Telling me later that...
    BeteNoire BeteNoire 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    One night I wasn't in front of our house

    when my father called me...I was on the next street, when I came home 10 minutes later he ******** me naked and beat me with his belt It felt like it lasted forever, my grandmother who lived upstairs came down and pulled him off. I remember still sobbing the following morning...
    Gayle5 Gayle5 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    JadenLangVageta JadenLangVageta 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    My Dad Use To Beat Me....

    My Dad use to beat me all the time, when he wanted to ht my brother, I get in front of him, just so he wouldn't get beat. I rather my dad beat on me, than to hurt my lil brother. I Loved him too much for that....I didn't want him to have to go through that, so I did wahtever...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    I Used To Get Beaten By My Dad And My Mom

    Since i had memory, my dad has always beaten my mom, no surprise he did it with me, i was very little, from a broken home, the only thing i knew was violence, in school I'd get in fights and was always thrown out of school for it, obviously my dad used to beat me every time i got...
    ladylucky7 ladylucky7 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    Question

    I am new to the group I am a single mom who was beaten when I was a child, I would like to know if anybody from the group uses spanking on their own kids today. I due
    hollymom123 hollymom123 41-45, F 12 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Apparently...

    Apparently that's how you teach a child to behave. How to have morals. Values. You beat the **** out of them until they obey. Fully. To your every word. Yeah, that **** didn't work for me, if anything, it made me afraid. It hurt. Physically. Emotionally. It gave me PTSD. I hated...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 17, 2012

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    Scars

    The whip of the leather Seething into my bloodied wounds Nothing but pain My back is on fire Please, some water So I may put it out My eyes say it all See that film on them? So I beg, please I single kind deed To a young one so weak Too weak to stand Too weak to keep on breathing...
    MaiaTheBroken MaiaTheBroken 18-21, F Jun 3, 2012

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    And This Is Life??..........

    Me and my mom had an ok relationship when I was younger. I remember my dad used to hit my mom. They separated by the time I hit kindergarten. Everything was off and on meaning I would really get it every so often until my preteen years. When I got into the 7th grade that's when...
    droop91977 droop91977 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    Living In Hell

    When i was just a baby my mum left my dad,for some reason she left me with him.He didn't know what to do with a kid so he took me to my grandma's place.She hated her son because he turned out to be an alcoholic and  took out all her frustrations on me.I was physically and...
    ufutaa ufutaa 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 25, 2010

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    It Was My Mission to Never have dad hurt the

    others when I was younger. There are 5 in my family, 3 girls (all born first, I'm 2nd oldest), and 2 boys. We weren't an overly strict family, not really any different from other families. For some reason I was picked on the most. I had a smart mouth, yeah it's true. But...
    maqeurious maqeurious 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    "you Destroyed My Life"

    My mother would scream that over and over while she was beating me with various objects on my head and body while I screamed and tried to protect myself from the blows. Over and over. Even to this day I cannot stand people repeating themselves. "You destroyed my life" she...
    VinterSol VinterSol 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2012

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    When I was born my biological patents were 23.

    They were fine with me till I was about 1 month old. They couldn't cope when I cried or woke them up and soon they started abusing me. I broken finger here, and a fractured arm there; no one noticed. This kind of thing went on until I was 18 months old. Our neighbour was in...
    jamieroberthopsen jamieroberthopsen 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    The only beatings I can remember getting was

    when my dad was very abusive and get mad over me not doing well in school, or when I would get an answer wrong when he himself tries to quiz me. I hate him for it, and can never trust him ever again.
    Elijahx Elijahx 18-21, M Jul 12

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