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I Used to Be With Someone That Used Me

I have been totally used....=[ 527 People

    Im Not Me Anymore

    I just realised im not me anymore. So much has changed and i have been through so much.I try and figure out why all of this is happening to me and why now, couldnt it be ages ago, or last year or something like that. Why now. I have been disowned by the people i love you know the...
    stephie514 stephie514 18-21, F May 4, 2011

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    I Was Always Your Back Up Plan.

    You're heartless. I gave you everything I could possible. Money, a place to stay, and last but not least my love. You used me until everything I had ran dry. Once it was gone, I was no longer good enough. You couldn't even call. But once I got back on my feet again you were back...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    #1 Loser

    Well he was my first and i got preg at 16 and we were together just boyfriend and  girlfriend i had a baby girl she is my oldest daughter and he has had nothing to do with her and its his lost cause she is the best thing to come from both of us ...Anyway he cheated on me...
    faithlb faithlb 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    Bastard

    You will never read it and I hope will never understand how much pain you made me. You was heartless and always used to treat me like your toy. Every time u felt sad you come and when I need your help you disapeared like a rain dry out in sunny days. The feeling of being used I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2012

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    Birth Family

    iwas just there to be there whipping boy at the end i had to sleep on the patio like iw as a dog and they locked the door when they went to bed and i could not get in the house till they got up
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2012

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    Used

    Took my virginity. You used me for information to use against me. You used me for company had no intention of being my friend. You said we were on a relationship but was using me the whole time for sex money food. I got you a job did your résumé and cover letter and gave you my...
    darkskinnedVegan darkskinnedVegan 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    he took my virginity

    and had sex with me 5 other times. then last week I found out he was doing 6 other girls while me and him had a thing. I had so many trust issues because of him and I can never get over it..
    surdnur surdnur 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2014

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    This is super long but I just needed to get it

    off my chest. You used me. You first told me that having the label of "boyfriend and girlfriend" would ruin our relationship so you told me we were dating without the title. Meanwhile I refused to do anything with you because I wanted to wait until marriage but you kept pushing...
    lunalight21 lunalight21 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2014

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    Wow Is All I Can Say

    Well, its been two and a half months since we broke up and hes now engaged to the lady he cheated on me with. He used me to pay most of the down payment on what is now his manufactured home. I paid the lot rent for the two years we lived there, he didn't start making house...
    Pohang Pohang 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    Can I Trust That Part Of Him Again

    I know it sounds stupid when someone askes can they feel that way about somone. its just im not like everyone else the way i deal with things happen to me alot and i just dont know what to do anymorehe cheated on me before with her but they knew eachother longer, once we broke up...
    stephie514 stephie514 18-21, F Nov 21, 2011

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    Glen...

    you might remember him as the ex I told you about who wanks off to facebook pictures of me....     To say he was sane wouldnt even be an exageration. It would be a complete lie.   He had a very hard childhood, both of his parents were drug addicts and...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2008

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    I Felt Terrible

    He made out with me twice then dumped me ten minutes later.
    Blackveilbrides123 Blackveilbrides123 18-21, F Oct 24, 2012

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    Half of the relationships I have been in were

    purely because the girl liked what I did in bed. Sometimes agreeing to date me only after hearing about me from their friends.
    LearningWolfeStreet LearningWolfeStreet 18-21, M Dec 13, 2014

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    Required

    I was with someone for a long time that used me.  It was a relationship that was never defined by both our desires for freedom and to escape definition.  And I find that it was essential in the role of 'relationship education'.  Through him I discovered how a girl...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 4, 2008

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    I Love Her More Than She Will Ever Know...

      I am 25 years old , I love one girl since last 3 years. She is very beautiful & anyone can fall in love with her. We were working in a same company. Our departments were different so sometimes we had a glimpses. Whenever she & her friends were crossing us she was always...
    rohit1986 rohit1986 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 6, 2010

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    Love With My Cousin .. Or Was It ?

    Since like age 6 or 7 ( I know it's weird and funny ) I was in a relationship with my cousin. She's 3 years younger than myself so you can imagine the disaster .. we used to get naked and touch each others without understanding anything about it, terrible memories though .. later...
    CrystalEagle CrystalEagle 22-25, M Jan 5, 2012

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    Yeah. He used me to move on.

    I was so stupid. Oh well.
    xJesuslivesx xJesuslivesx 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1, 2014

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    Idiot...

    I was with a guy when I was in high school who was older than me. He had a job, and I did not, and every penny I got (from my family in order to buy myself things) went to dates with him and things he wanted. But I figured he was worth it. If we could have one good day together...
    Warmthoughtsofyou04 Warmthoughtsofyou04 26-30, F 2 Responses May 19, 2008

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    Untilted

    his name was timmy...and i thought he was the hottest thing ever! he told me he wanted to be wit me and that he loved me alot...i had a boyfriend, so i was feeling uncertain about wat i should do at friest i liked my boyfriend alot but he was so boreing and we did nothing but...
    noodlehead noodlehead 16-17, F Dec 5, 2008

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    He Keeps Doin It

    i have been going out with this guy off n on for about 7 months now .. bad brake ups. he keeps testing me and manipulating me ... he controls me and all that my friends tell me he isnt good for me he just goin to keep doing it to me. i realised that but i love him and also i lost...
    stephie514 stephie514 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    Yeah two of my exes did.

    Basically just wanted to be with me for what I could give them. That got really old really fast. Sad when you try to be good to someone and they just use you. oh well, live and learn I guess. Done with those fools.
    ImJustJen ImJustJen 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I Got Used

    I was with this person for a while. I loved him so much. But after we broke up I found out that he used me to make his ex girlfriend jelous. I hope his planned didn't work. He used me. He was still heart broken about his ex girlfriend. He was still in love with her. And where was...
    cementerygates cementerygates 16-18, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2008

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    Ehm Motha Fuckas, I Have A Question

    Um so what's the difference between "use to" or "used to" Which one is grammatically correct?Should it be "I use to be with someone that used me?" OR "I used to be with someone that used me?"I never learned when to use which one in any context.*BURPS & SNEEZES simultaneously*That...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    For A While I Was.

    I've never had much luck when it comes to dating. When I really like someone and ask them out they aren't interested, yet when someone is interested in me we tend to have so little in common that I don't even see the point in dating them. Because of this I lowered my standards...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 18-21, M Apr 26, 2012

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    I am submissive and want to be used.

    Terrible things happened to me and this is how I am now. I don't want to change who I am.
    SexySomeone27 SexySomeone27 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2014

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    I miss the way being with a guy makes me feel. I miss feeling important and cared about. I miss the feeling of femininity that comes with it. Usually I don't feel very feminine...
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    so many barriers between us...he is already in relationship... he is quiet famous in college so he don't deserve someone not bright like me. Futhermore I'm a loser compare to him...
    FelixFelicity03 FelixFelicity03 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Do you ever feel like all your crushes are just accidents? I hate falling in love. I'll be sailing through my life all strong headed and confident and BAM! I go crazy over...
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    I thought I was, but now I think I WAS in love with someone and he is more like obsessed with me, not in love. Been with him for 4 years now so it's hard to let go, but I'm getting...
    Majin1712 Majin1712 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    His name will forever be etched in my heart and mind. Should the opportunity arise, i'd seek him out. Pathetic I am sure but I don't care. He was the one and even if I see him with...
    KismetWrites KismetWrites 31-35 Jan 5

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    I fell in love with someone who I no longer speak to. It's ok if we don't because I want him to be happy I'm thankful for meeting someone who gave me the true meaning of love even...
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    Myck85 Myck85 36-40, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    To feel this way... Is really to expose your weakness and to be put in the hot chair and answer every question you never thought of Being asked. To play the clown have always Been...
    vickepicke vickepicke 16-17, M Dec 31, 2014

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    I really want to be in a relationship with someone. But girls dont notice me or they notice me when they are already taken. But the problem here is i see nice or beutiful girls...
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    musicman1975 musicman1975 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    would love to skype with someone... no perverts please..
    mendthisbrokenheart mendthisbrokenheart 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 13

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    I fell in love with someone I can't have. But I've moved on even though sometimes I struggle, I'll never forget him. I just learn to live with it
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    I know the terrible loneliness, the isolation the loss of hope of feeling trapped with someone I no longer love. Though it took time to get over it, ending 12 years of unhappiness...
    Doviov Doviov 41-45 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I can't stand it when I don't get to see him every weekend , I know he'll cheat on me so I can't ever be with him. I miss him, but I a married and I have a child with my husband...
    nyteacher2005 nyteacher2005 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My family is rich ok there I said it. In 8th grade we moved and I went to a new school, nobody knew me. Somehow some kid in my class found out where I lived and told people about...
    DemonicPenguin DemonicPenguin 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 11

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