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I Used to Be With Someone That Used Me

I have been totally used....=[ 496 People

    he took my virginity

    and had sex with me 5 other times. then last week I found out he was doing 6 other girls while me and him had a thing. I had so many trust issues because of him and I can never get over it..
    surdnur surdnur 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    Wow Is All I Can Say

    Well, its been two and a half months since we broke up and hes now engaged to the lady he cheated on me with. He used me to pay most of the down payment on what is now his manufactured home. I paid the lot rent for the two years we lived there, he didn't start making house...
    Pohang Pohang 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    Bastard

    You will never read it and I hope will never understand how much pain you made me. You was heartless and always used to treat me like your toy. Every time u felt sad you come and when I need your help you disapeared like a rain dry out in sunny days. The feeling of being used I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2012

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    Yeah. He used me to move on.

    I was so stupid. Oh well.
    xJesuslivesx xJesuslivesx 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I Was Always Your Back Up Plan.

    You're heartless. I gave you everything I could possible. Money, a place to stay, and last but not least my love. You used me until everything I had ran dry. Once it was gone, I was no longer good enough. You couldn't even call. But once I got back on my feet again you were back...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    I Love Her More Than She Will Ever Know...

      I am 25 years old , I love one girl since last 3 years. She is very beautiful & anyone can fall in love with her. We were working in a same company. Our departments were different so sometimes we had a glimpses. Whenever she & her friends were crossing us she was always...
    rohit1986 rohit1986 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 6, 2010

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    Used

    Took my virginity. You used me for information to use against me. You used me for company had no intention of being my friend. You said we were on a relationship but was using me the whole time for sex money food. I got you a job did your résumé and cover letter and gave you my...
    darkskinnedVegan darkskinnedVegan 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Birth Family

    iwas just there to be there whipping boy at the end i had to sleep on the patio like iw as a dog and they locked the door when they went to bed and i could not get in the house till they got up
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2012

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    Love With My Cousin .. Or Was It ?

    Since like age 6 or 7 ( I know it's weird and funny ) I was in a relationship with my cousin. She's 3 years younger than myself so you can imagine the disaster .. we used to get naked and touch each others without understanding anything about it, terrible memories though .. later...
    CrystalEagle CrystalEagle 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 5, 2012

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    He Keeps Doin It

    i have been going out with this guy off n on for about 7 months now .. bad brake ups. he keeps testing me and manipulating me ... he controls me and all that my friends tell me he isnt good for me he just goin to keep doing it to me. i realised that but i love him and also i lost...
    stephie514 stephie514 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    Idiot...

    I was with a guy when I was in high school who was older than me. He had a job, and I did not, and every penny I got (from my family in order to buy myself things) went to dates with him and things he wanted. But I figured he was worth it. If we could have one good day together...
    Warmthoughtsofyou04 Warmthoughtsofyou04 26-30, F 2 Responses May 19, 2008

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    Untilted

    his name was timmy...and i thought he was the hottest thing ever! he told me he wanted to be wit me and that he loved me alot...i had a boyfriend, so i was feeling uncertain about wat i should do at friest i liked my boyfriend alot but he was so boreing and we did nothing but...
    noodlehead noodlehead 16-17, F Dec 5, 2008

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    Required

    I was with someone for a long time that used me.  It was a relationship that was never defined by both our desires for freedom and to escape definition.  And I find that it was essential in the role of 'relationship education'.  Through him I discovered how a girl...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 4, 2008

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    Ehm Motha Fuckas, I Have A Question

    Um so what's the difference between "use to" or "used to" Which one is grammatically correct?Should it be "I use to be with someone that used me?" OR "I used to be with someone that used me?"I never learned when to use which one in any context.*BURPS & SNEEZES simultaneously*That...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    Glen...

    you might remember him as the ex I told you about who wanks off to facebook pictures of me....     To say he was sane wouldnt even be an exageration. It would be a complete lie.   He had a very hard childhood, both of his parents were drug addicts and...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2008

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    For A While I Was.

    I've never had much luck when it comes to dating. When I really like someone and ask them out they aren't interested, yet when someone is interested in me we tend to have so little in common that I don't even see the point in dating them. Because of this I lowered my standards...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 18-21, M Apr 26, 2012

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    Can I Trust That Part Of Him Again

    I know it sounds stupid when someone askes can they feel that way about somone. its just im not like everyone else the way i deal with things happen to me alot and i just dont know what to do anymorehe cheated on me before with her but they knew eachother longer, once we broke up...
    stephie514 stephie514 18-21, F Nov 21, 2011

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    Im Not Me Anymore

    I just realised im not me anymore. So much has changed and i have been through so much.I try and figure out why all of this is happening to me and why now, couldnt it be ages ago, or last year or something like that. Why now. I have been disowned by the people i love you know the...
    stephie514 stephie514 18-21, F May 4, 2011

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    I Got Used

    I was with this person for a while. I loved him so much. But after we broke up I found out that he used me to make his ex girlfriend jelous. I hope his planned didn't work. He used me. He was still heart broken about his ex girlfriend. He was still in love with her. And where was...
    cementerygates cementerygates 16-18, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2008

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    I Felt Terrible

    He made out with me twice then dumped me ten minutes later.
    Blackveilbrides123 Blackveilbrides123 18-21, F Oct 24, 2012

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    I am submissive and want to be used.

    Terrible things happened to me and this is how I am now. I don't want to change who I am.
    SexySomeone27 SexySomeone27 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 2

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    This is super long but I just needed to get it

    off my chest. You used me. You first told me that having the label of "boyfriend and girlfriend" would ruin our relationship so you told me we were dating without the title. Meanwhile I refused to do anything with you because I wanted to wait until marriage but you kept pushing...
    lunalight21 lunalight21 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    #1 Loser

    Well he was my first and i got preg at 16 and we were together just boyfriend and  girlfriend i had a baby girl she is my oldest daughter and he has had nothing to do with her and its his lost cause she is the best thing to come from both of us ...Anyway he cheated on me...
    faithlb faithlb 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    Many pals. But heart attacks changed that.

    Me got boots on now. And boot when justified. Lmao.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 1

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