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I Used to Be With Someone That Used Me

I have been totally used....=[ 488 People

    For A While I Was.

    I've never had much luck when it comes to dating. When I really like someone and ask them out they aren't interested, yet when someone is interested in me we tend to have so little in common that I don't even see the point in dating them. Because of this I lowered my standards...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 18-21, M Apr 26, 2012

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    #1 Loser

    Well he was my first and i got preg at 16 and we were together just boyfriend and  girlfriend i had a baby girl she is my oldest daughter and he has had nothing to do with her and its his lost cause she is the best thing to come from both of us ...Anyway he cheated on me...
    faithlb faithlb 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    Love With My Cousin .. Or Was It ?

    Since like age 6 or 7 ( I know it's weird and funny ) I was in a relationship with my cousin. She's 3 years younger than myself so you can imagine the disaster .. we used to get naked and touch each others without understanding anything about it, terrible memories though .. later...
    CrystalEagle CrystalEagle 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 5, 2012

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    Can I Trust That Part Of Him Again

    I know it sounds stupid when someone askes can they feel that way about somone. its just im not like everyone else the way i deal with things happen to me alot and i just dont know what to do anymorehe cheated on me before with her but they knew eachother longer, once we broke up...
    stephie514 stephie514 18-21, F Nov 21, 2011

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    I Got Used

    I was with this person for a while. I loved him so much. But after we broke up I found out that he used me to make his ex girlfriend jelous. I hope his planned didn't work. He used me. He was still heart broken about his ex girlfriend. He was still in love with her. And where was...
    cementerygates cementerygates 16-18, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2008

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    Untilted

    his name was timmy...and i thought he was the hottest thing ever! he told me he wanted to be wit me and that he loved me alot...i had a boyfriend, so i was feeling uncertain about wat i should do at friest i liked my boyfriend alot but he was so boreing and we did nothing but...
    noodlehead noodlehead 16-17, F Dec 5, 2008

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    I am submissive and want to be used.

    Terrible things happened to me and this is how I am now. I don't want to change who I am.
    SexySomeone27 SexySomeone27 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 2

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    Glen...

    you might remember him as the ex I told you about who wanks off to facebook pictures of me....     To say he was sane wouldnt even be an exageration. It would be a complete lie.   He had a very hard childhood, both of his parents were drug addicts and...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2008

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    I Was Always Your Back Up Plan.

    You're heartless. I gave you everything I could possible. Money, a place to stay, and last but not least my love. You used me until everything I had ran dry. Once it was gone, I was no longer good enough. You couldn't even call. But once I got back on my feet again you were back...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Bastard

    You will never read it and I hope will never understand how much pain you made me. You was heartless and always used to treat me like your toy. Every time u felt sad you come and when I need your help you disapeared like a rain dry out in sunny days. The feeling of being used I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2012

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    he took my virginity

    and had sex with me 5 other times. then last week I found out he was doing 6 other girls while me and him had a thing. I had so many trust issues because of him and I can never get over it..
    surdnur surdnur 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    Birth Family

    iwas just there to be there whipping boy at the end i had to sleep on the patio like iw as a dog and they locked the door when they went to bed and i could not get in the house till they got up
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2012

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    I Love Her More Than She Will Ever Know...

      I am 25 years old , I love one girl since last 3 years. She is very beautiful & anyone can fall in love with her. We were working in a same company. Our departments were different so sometimes we had a glimpses. Whenever she & her friends were crossing us she was always...
    rohit1986 rohit1986 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 6, 2010

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    Im Not Me Anymore

    I just realised im not me anymore. So much has changed and i have been through so much.I try and figure out why all of this is happening to me and why now, couldnt it be ages ago, or last year or something like that. Why now. I have been disowned by the people i love you know the...
    stephie514 stephie514 18-21, F May 4, 2011

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    Wow Is All I Can Say

    Well, its been two and a half months since we broke up and hes now engaged to the lady he cheated on me with. He used me to pay most of the down payment on what is now his manufactured home. I paid the lot rent for the two years we lived there, he didn't start making house...
    Pohang Pohang 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    This is super long but I just needed to get it

    off my chest. You used me. You first told me that having the label of "boyfriend and girlfriend" would ruin our relationship so you told me we were dating without the title. Meanwhile I refused to do anything with you because I wanted to wait until marriage but you kept pushing...
    lunalight21 lunalight21 18-21, F Aug 12

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    Used

    Took my virginity. You used me for information to use against me. You used me for company had no intention of being my friend. You said we were on a relationship but was using me the whole time for sex money food. I got you a job did your résumé and cover letter and gave you my...
    darkskinnedVegan darkskinnedVegan 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Required

    I was with someone for a long time that used me.  It was a relationship that was never defined by both our desires for freedom and to escape definition.  And I find that it was essential in the role of 'relationship education'.  Through him I discovered how a girl...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 4, 2008

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    I Felt Terrible

    He made out with me twice then dumped me ten minutes later.
    Blackveilbrides123 Blackveilbrides123 18-21, F Oct 24, 2012

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    Idiot...

    I was with a guy when I was in high school who was older than me. He had a job, and I did not, and every penny I got (from my family in order to buy myself things) went to dates with him and things he wanted. But I figured he was worth it. If we could have one good day together...
    Warmthoughtsofyou04 Warmthoughtsofyou04 26-30, F 2 Responses May 19, 2008

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    Ehm Motha Fuckas, I Have A Question

    Um so what's the difference between "use to" or "used to" Which one is grammatically correct?Should it be "I use to be with someone that used me?" OR "I used to be with someone that used me?"I never learned when to use which one in any context.*BURPS & SNEEZES simultaneously*That...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    He Keeps Doin It

    i have been going out with this guy off n on for about 7 months now .. bad brake ups. he keeps testing me and manipulating me ... he controls me and all that my friends tell me he isnt good for me he just goin to keep doing it to me. i realised that but i love him and also i lost...
    stephie514 stephie514 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    Hi hope someone can help I'm married but I have fell in love with someone I don't love my husband the only thing is the person I fell in love with deleted me as a friend on...
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    I happen to love two men. Is that a crime? It's not like I have to act on it, right? Why do I feel so guilty at times? Is it wrong to be friends with someone? This is my dilemma.
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    I really want to have great mind blowing sex with someone I love.
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    wolfhaileyyy wolfhaileyyy 13-15, F Aug 10

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    Being inlove with someone you can't have.. It just sucks. You feel so empty inside when you've gave them your everything yet you get nothing. & til this day, this boy will always...
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I know I'm too young to say something like this but, yeah, I would rather be alone than with someone I don't love. The reason I'm saying this is for the past eight or so months, I...
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    It's better to be unhappy alone, than unhappy with someone.
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    The person is amazing, and perfect. I could go on and on but I'm not gonna. I don't know what to do. They say the love me but they can't... Their in love with someone else. They...
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    wait. It is more like "I Refuse" I don't know I think it is because I am used at least one person in the house as well when I am sleeping.
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    It happened over and over again .. it wasn't really anyone's fault but my own. It's a part of me to never say, No. The thing is I'm just afraid to loose people,but aren't we all to...
    hulkgirl hulkgirl 18-21 1 Response Aug 1

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    ya i know its so not normal to say "im in love" with some one that i wont ever meet, but can you blame me... its Alexander Skarsgård. I mean tell me if im wrong but that man...
    tsumakov tsumakov 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    Well, I hung out with a girl who I used to have the biggest crush on. And we spent the evening together. And we joked about dating, held hands and sorta cuddled. And we were...
    R3d117 R3d117 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    I am no stranger to relationships started on the internet. In fact those are the only kind of relationships i have ever had. For some reason im like guy "repellent" in person or...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    So basically I was instantly attracted to this guy the first time I laid eyes on him. He wasn't hot or anything but he was cute to me and just something about him had me hooked...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    The intensity of Ategenos was just that, intense. I spent a weekend with him after talking to him online for about 2 months. It was pretty damn awesome for only having known him...
    Rzrbldksss81 Rzrbldksss81 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Used to be. We both moved on with our lives. Fun while it lasted.
    SEIGUY SEIGUY 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I hear people say all the time that they think someone else is so cute, or handsome, or sexy, or pretty, or built like a god/goddess, and of course I think that over my lifetime I...
    Dancewithme2 Dancewithme2 51-55, M 6 days ago

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    I can't complain about the good things that God have offered me. People say that mind is so powerful, but I think faith is too. There was a time in my life where I was surrounded...
    Cassy77 Cassy77 22-25 1 Response Aug 2

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    It's been a long time for me not posting anything on this wall. I'm quite busy now since I've got this new job. This new office is also where I met him. Before I start the story...
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