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I Used To Hate One Of My Best Friends

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    Judging Someone Before Getting To Know Them - I worked for a catering company and we used to service Windjammer Sunset Dinner Cruises so we would rotate taking the food to the boat...
    PMax47 PMax47 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2012

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    I Used To Hate My,now, Beloved Friend - We met in first grade of podstawówka (elementary school?). She was soooo perfect. Pretty, smart, everyone in class liked her, every...
    Machina Machina 16-17 Jan 23, 2010

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    I hate my 'best friends' they're so ignorant and selfish. They never listen to me, and always push me away when I'm walking with them. They were never there when I'm sad, they...
    gyomii gyomii 16-17, F Mar 29

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    Had a bestie everything was awsome and now she thinks she so great cause she off to university... To good for this basic *****. Now I just see her on facebook with all these jerks...
    girlauless girlauless 18-21, F Apr 8

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    It gets frustrating when you're the one putting all of the effort into a friendship but they are the one who backstabs you at the end, just because you act really obnoxious. What...
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Apr 8

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    Hello everyone. I am 14 years old and you might think this is just the stupidity of teenage hood but I seriously have a problem. So I became friends with my "Beast Friend " 4 years...
    AlexandraMikhailov AlexandraMikhailov 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I wouldn't say I actually hate her. If anything, I'm jealous and hurt. Our parents were friends since before we were born so we grew up together. Inseparable throughout grade...
    Schism7 Schism7 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Have you ever had a friend that you thought you were so close to, that you call your best friend, but a time comes where they can stand by you or stand 10 feet away from you? This...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F Apr 3

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    Hate is a strong word but yes, I hate my best friend but the only reason is because I love her. I can't stay indifferent to her and when she hurts me, I hate her because I'm angry...
    Bearloveshoney Bearloveshoney 18-21 Mar 24

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    I recently moved to a new state and started my freshman year of high school. I tried to tell myself going into the school year that I would no longer put up with abusive...
    reillymac reillymac 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I fell in love with my best friends boyfriend, then she found out and I fell in love with her too.
    knightofhope knightofhope 18-21, M Mar 23

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    I feel totally retarded now... Why'd I fall for him out of all the people? We're totally opposite, but still best friends and he means the world to me, but I had never thought it'd...
    xgone4ever xgone4ever 18-21, F Mar 24

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    My best friend is great. I love her, and I think she loves me. Till she stopped responding to my snapchats and texts (despite opening them), we would text for 3 hours daily. I want...
    kylalafferty kylalafferty 22-25, F Mar 25

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    I feel extremely guilty even writing this, but I can't keep it to myself anymore. My friend-last year definitively a "best" friend and this year one of my roommates- has become...
    messycrazylife messycrazylife 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    My best friend thinks that I've changed and I hate him because we used to hangout all the time. Then high school came and we don't hangout as much. I started basketball, he got a...
    mariahann88 mariahann88 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Maybe hate is too much but… I thing she is not my best friend anymore, I don´t know what to do. I met my best friend 4 years ago and we became friends very quickly, we had fun...
    CaptainMer CaptainMer 16-17 Mar 31

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    Every time that I meet someone new I know it will backfire. For example; when I started my school year. I met a girl, her and I dated, she called one of my friends ugly and I told...
    dontfeartheripper dontfeartheripper 13-15, F Mar 23

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    I'm done with the both of them. My two exes. They said they still want to be friends. If they really wanted to be friends, they would still talk to me. The first says he wanted to...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F Mar 31

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    He's been my best friend since 2nd grade. I think he feels the same about me, but I don't want to risk ruining our friendship. Can anyone help?
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    She's been ******* me off ever since she started going out with her boyfriend like 2 years ago. She never has time for me. And i invited her to my 18th birthday (its a formal thing...
    Lalafancy Lalafancy 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    He's my ex. He's my best friend. Apparently we still "like" each other but wtf I mean we can't be more. No way. Not when our friendship means so much to me. I just can't take that...
    serephina serephina 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    My dog, Rizzo, has been a wonderful friend and companion for the past 13 years. He came to our family as a rescue, after having been abused and neglected.He has always been a...
    slver slver 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I hate texting someone first and they have the nerve to say, "You don't talk to me anymore." No, friendships works both ways. If you want to speak to me then stop waiting on me to...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I have known my best friend for 4 years now and I've been in love with her since the day I met her. We couldn't be any more comfortable with each other, but I feel like we've both...
    galv671 galv671 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    i dont hate her, just she ****** me off because shes so self centred and only talks to me so she can vent and talk about her life & she seriously never listens to me. she always...
    cityfolk cityfolk 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    she doesent care about me except her sister and her she is a brat totally rude and mean! I just HATE her
    amyymyftari amyymyftari 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Ugh! My best friend for the past couple months has been bailing on me everytime we plan to hang! We can plan it weeks ahead but sure enough something will come up. Her parents are...
    AlexanderX AlexanderX 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    My best friend is a writer and she always puts me in her books. But she never tells me who I am. She doesn't name any of her characters "Ash"... since that's my name.
    AshIsTheName AshIsTheName 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    OMG YESSS!!!!! Let's go shoppinnnggg!!!! Ohhhhhh. Sleep over!! Screw diamonds a gay guys a girls best friend. U can just talk about other guys. Hmm I need a gay friend.
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    my dad has been separated with my mom for more than 2 years ago,, and now my dad has 2 girlfriend. a nurse and a teacher. and i really hate the teacher she's really really feeling...
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I thought the bullying and the negativity would stop after high school. Well, I thought wrong! I go to college and I live by myself, so I have to pay my way through - it's not a...
    emogeneticist emogeneticist 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    I am I'm absolutely done with being the only person who actually cares and puts time and effort into all my friendships I have no true friends. And I'm so done with people telling...
    ashleymac96 ashleymac96 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I hate Zayn Malik the most. Then Harry Styles. Then Niall, Payne and last, Luis.
    Zaran7 Zaran7 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I work with a few people I don't like. This one woman, is so nosy and does nothing but make personal calls and sit on her iPhone. I'll be talking with someone and she will just...
    wrightlover wrightlover 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    We have no receptionist and have to answer the door ourselves. There is this one fat, lazy ***** who always make some excuse to not answer the door, even when she has a client...
    wrightlover wrightlover 31-35, F Mar 24

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    It really bothers me when one of my coworkers says to me "What's wrong? You are so quiet". I wish I could say "I go to work to work not to socialize. I'm not like some people who...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F Apr 1

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    It kills the conversation... "Hey, how are you? Long time no see!" ..... "I'm ok." -.- Or the one that really kills me, "So yesterday I did this and that... bla bla bla" and they...
    sc1701 sc1701 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    I fight with her almost everyday. But I have the most fun with her and she's the only person I feel connected too
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 1 Response Mar 20

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    Cuddles with my pooch always make me feel better... ❤️
    Daisy15951 Daisy15951 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    "if you love someone...say it..OUT loud!!..otherwise the moment passes you by."
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F Apr 9

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    My sister is down for a few days and it's going to be great:) I have work tomorrow but I get to see her after. I don't see her often so in excited:)
    thefallenstar thefallenstar 13-15, F Apr 9

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    I got three poodle since i was three. Every time i feel lonely after school, i sat next to them and talked with them. I think they understood and tried to cheer me up by licking my...
    spongechannie spongechannie 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I used to be best friends with a girl all the way from kindergarten, up to a year after graduation. I was there for her through everything. Her uncle dying, having to move, all...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I literally just HATE the person I've turned into. I know that I'm young and all, anyways, here's my story. Since the third grade, I've always been at the top of my class. I've...
    mintlover mintlover 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Tomorrow is my best friends birthday. She is gonna have some friends over. She has an older sister, and my dad casually asked if her sister was gonna have some friends over too. I...
    ihatemydad02 ihatemydad02 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So "E" and I met shortly after high school via his college roommate who is still one of our mutual bestfriends. I was in massage school, he was a freshman in a four year college...
    wildsunflowerpetals wildsunflowerpetals 22-25, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I have seen this more and more and I don't understand. Best friend -A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or...
    lovedandadored lovedandadored 36-40, F Apr 6

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    I used to have this one bestfriend. We were close and the best of friends for about six years. But then I moved away to a new school and it seems like we never see each other or...
    wootaco wootaco 22-25 Apr 7

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    I've known my"best friend" for almost 6 years now. We met in a locker room freshman year of high school and have been friends since. We understand each other perfectly and share an...
    McLovin0000 McLovin0000 18-21, F Mar 22

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    I've been through a lot the past 4 months,me and my best friend got blamed for my ex best friends suicide attempt even though we had absolutely no contact with her. As soon as it...
    Margretbumblebee Margretbumblebee 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 1