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I Used To Live In A Sexless Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 74 People

    I used to live in a sexless marriage.

    Then we got divorced for other reasons. It especially sucks when you have sex a lot in your relationship and then out of the blue it stops. You always look back on your past and think, "but it used to be different." I'm a very horny person too so it really affected me. My ex...
    rosemary3 rosemary3
    22-25, F
    Jul 11, 2014

    Sexual And Emotional Abandonment

    "Abandon" has different meanings: To Physically leave, as in leaving behind without the consent of the other party. To Emotionally leave, as in not being present in a marriage, to not share emotional intimacy. To Sexually leave, as in refusing your spouse sex and sexual...
    ISELFLOVE ISELFLOVE
    41-45, F
    34 Responses Mar 25, 2011

    Back and forth between regret,

    feeling alone, not knowing what to do with myself and anxiety. It is gut wrenching. It is necessary! For all of you out there that just left and are in this particular place, I say HANG IN THERE! It will be amazing one day. We have to go through this heartache in order to...
    Cucly80 Cucly80
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 5, 2014

    Sexting With The Wife, Update

    A few nights ago, the wife and I went through another sexting episode. It started out with the two of us preparing to have sex in the bedroom, and I brought it up that I'd like to sext her again from the living room, like we did a week or so ago. She was very receptive to the...
    BasicDesire BasicDesire
    56-60, M
    Jun 20, 2013

    The Wife Is Appreciative

    Yesterday morning, while the wife and I were out eating breakfast, I discussed with the wife how we might try something to help the wife *** easier and more often during sex. Following what was suggested by a friend here, I brought up how she might try to ********** in the...
    BasicDesire BasicDesire
    56-60, M
    May 28, 2013

    Love Your Self

    I married a man 18 years ago and filed for divorce 7 months ago. He loved me in his own way, did sweet and romantic things for me, but we did not have sexual intimacy. I told him I loved him every single day, initiated hugs, kisses, showers, massages and sexual advances, but...
    ISELFLOVE ISELFLOVE
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Jul 18, 2010

    My Wife Has A New Boyfriend

    I introduced the wife to her new plaything last night. It was a vibrator that I had picked up for her about a week previous. She had never used a vibrator before, so this was going to be a very new experience for her, and me. I started out with simply using my hand to bring the...
    BasicDesire BasicDesire
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jun 3, 2013

    I asked for a divorce 2 months ago.

    He moved out 2 weeks ago. Divorce will be final in 6 months. I wrote all my stories in I live in a sexless marriage group. I have been a member of that group for 4 years. I will always be there for them as they were always here for me. Now I found you guys and I am glad I did...
    Cucly80 Cucly80
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Apr 2, 2014

    From The Closest Love To The Most Crushing Neglect

    I posted the main part of this as a comment the first night I found this site, but after reading other people's stories I felt like I should be brave enough to do more than add a comment so this is my story. I hope it helps someone else, as I have been helped by reading other...
    hrts hrts
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jun 1, 2012

    Yep. Sucked big time.

    The husband I was with rarely touched me on his own power. I would always be the one to initiate, and if I decided to abstain so that he would do it, it would be three, maybe four weeks before he would. He complained about it being boring, so I tried spicing it up for him. First...
    sunnyshellkitty sunnyshellkitty
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 31, 2014

    It's Finally Over

    a love unfolds dreams begin promises made but lies are told a dress of white a band of gold bliss begins but so does fright love is lost love never was dreams are gone but at a great cost should have been but never was never saw but should have seen a love that was done...
    neuilly neuilly
    61-65, F
    8 Responses Sep 20, 2011

    How I Was Expelled From An Alpha (Bible) Course

    I was raised as a Catholic and to me the bible is quite a familiar book. I am not one of those who can quote verses and lines, but I know it well enough to talk about it. One day a church near where I live was holding an Alpha course. Those courses aim at 'selling' the Christian...
    MrSquishy MrSquishy
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jul 20, 2013
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