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I Used To Trust People

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    I Dont Know What To Do Anymore

    In my previous story i had problems with workers at my job and have been afraid to return to work after i broke down and started cutting during the last Friday i was so closed up i rarely talk to anyone the times i spoke only related to the work. I knew i couldn't trust anyone...
    Hrnydevil Hrnydevil 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 12, 2013

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    Idiot That I Am, I Still Do

    I still trust most people instantly. The few whom I do not trust instantly, never can earn my trust. The only people I don't trust are the ones that give off very scary vibes, and those vibes have never lied to me. I just wish they were more reliable. I wish they would work for...
    Serenitree Serenitree 70+, F Jan 28, 2013

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    Kitchens London

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    mansionfree mansionfree 26-30, M Feb 26, 2013

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    I Am Hazara

    i am hazara i leave in quetta pakistan i am studuent it is the time for my sutdies but i am in protest in quetta pakistan becous of the blasts in quetta at 11:1:2013 in whic over 200 injuries in this blast and 101 were killed in this blast and now it is the time 2:23 am date 13...
    Jan 12, 2013

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    I trusted him completely last year.

    I trusted him with everything I had. This time being back together I'm having problems trusting him. I've been trying to keep them to myself because I'm not sure if it's gut feeling, insecurities from how we ended last time, or maybe even what others have put me through since he...
    simplyrissy simplyrissy 26-30, F Apr 24

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    Other Person

    I remembered being told to b careful in every step of my life "u dont know people, like people dont know u, but u know ur self very much so take care of it" . :)
    staticonveyor staticonveyor 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 2, 2013

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    Some People Dont Deserve To Be Trusted

    Why would u trust someone after all they have ever done is lie to you? Well maybe ur excuse is "they promised they would stop" or "I just have a big heart" or even "they aren't lying they just don't tell whole truths" why should you have to try and make up excuses for these...
    sweetpea053190 sweetpea053190 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    I dated a guy named Derek

    for about 8-9 months and everything was good in the beginning. I loved him and I really and truly felt that he loved me too. We were happy and I told him my deepest secrets, I did things that I normally wouldn't have and for the first time in my life I could honestly say that I...
    briannaelenora briannaelenora 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Innocent Days Of My Youth

    There was actually a time I thought the human race was actually worth something. Guess I was wrong.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F Sep 15, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I used to be really gullible and I trusted people way to easily . I went through things that were difficult and now I can't trust anyone without being paranoid that they're lying...
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I feel I trust people too much. I've been used and lied to so much but I never learn. Maybe I have faith in people's humanity? Maybe I'm a dumba$$?
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    yeah i m done with trusting people,each n every single person in my life gave me back only a hit in reply of my sincerity...i m just making sure myself now that i should stop...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F Jun 26

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    It's weird because I don't trust people, but I'm an open book to them so there has to be trust there..right?...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I have been through allot lately and in the past, the past I got beat up ( by girls and boys ) ever sense then I have been scared of people, I don't trust people very well. And...
    100BlackRoses 100BlackRoses 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Why are people so selfish I can't really trust people because at point they will hurt you but there's nothing you can do about it I try to make sure others are happy but every time...
    Waqasauce01 Waqasauce01 16-17, M Jul 17

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    I trust people way to quickly and get attached to talking to them it's so sad really...
    fashionanxiety fashionanxiety 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    I'm kind of terrified to tell anyone my secrets even if it's one of my best friends.. You never know if they backstab you and tell the whole world and then you feel bad because of...
    foreverisabella foreverisabella 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Am i the only one who have trusting issues?! :( It seriously sucks who ever i trust just let me down and they dont worth to be trusted am i fool and dump? Am really tired if...
    sollloo sollloo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I have a habit of letting people break down my walls too quickly, I get too sucked in to people and forget to look out for the warning signals until it's too late but by then I am...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I give my trust and my heart to people who don't deserve it, and it always comes back to haunt me.
    ashleyynp ashleyynp 18-21, F Jul 15

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    This is true all around. But with my best friend, it isn't an issue of trust as much as an issue of judging. We were both Christian in high school. We stopped being friends for a...
    vlrjspn vlrjspn 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I don't know why but nowadays I just feel like I can't trust anyone...
    fantaIsatou fantaIsatou 16-17, F Jul 8

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    Espacially people with influence like teachers or therapists... Bad, bad encounters with the two And also - what do you do when you know your problems but don't find the power OR...
    bat118 bat118 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I'm pretty optimistic when it comes to my opinions of people,and I like to see the good in everybody. I tend to expect everyone to be honest, good and keep promises, but...
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Reason why is I started talking to someone here, and told them that id help them out, but they'd end up leaving me behind. They said they wouldn't, so I went into great detail...
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I don't trust people at all, and the few people who have earned my trust know better than to break it. I have been backstabbed more times than I thought possible to withstand. Out...
    BloodMoonWolfbane BloodMoonWolfbane 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want to trust people. I really do! I've been backstabbed by my closest and bestest friends during high school. I stood up for them, I would have fought for them( was about to too...
    ReachingSoul ReachingSoul 22-25, F Jul 12

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    The problem I have is trusting too much. Because in the end I get hurt. I've learnt the hard way that trusting people hurts. So I've just stopped trusting people. Even though I may...
    Smiles1997 Smiles1997 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't like to trust people to quickly I have been used to many times. I like getting to know people quicker.
    samdavis3 samdavis3 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    In your life you meet people who bring much joy to your life and also people who bring much misery to it. I am very unfortunate because I've had more people who bring me misery in...
    morgan18365 morgan18365 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Sometimes I literally think my soul is exhausted from the experience of trusting people. Meaning when you first meet someone everything is new rather it's a friendship or a...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just feel scared that if I let anyone see the real me... They might leave me. I don't trust people easily so when I trust someone, it's serious for me.
    MadzG MadzG 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am done with trusting people , every time I trusted someone with all my heart I got backstabbed.
    LostCauseMe LostCauseMe 26-30, M 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have trust issues, and when I feel like I'm being lied to, or feel as if I'm being taken for granted or frustrated for whatever reason, i block people out.. It's kind of just my...
    Linkson Linkson 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    It's really hard to trust people when you've been let down time after time again
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I find it extremely difficult to trust people because of past experiences. I keep myself very guarded and I struggle to let anyone in.
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I don't trust people, it doesn't really need any explanation.
    HannibalQ HannibalQ 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I don't really fit in with other who treat me like I'm a retard because I don't open up to people and have a social skill that I need to chat with them. I have hate when they treat...
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F Jun 28

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    Ok soo fake people... A lot of people think they have real friends but they don't realize that their supposedly best friend is a fake and a back stabber. It's hard to trust people...
    foreverisabella foreverisabella 13-15, F Jul 5

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    I have apparently been doing that since I was a baby in my crib. My mom says I would always just observe what everyone else was doing and I can see that because I do that today. I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't know what to do anymore. I have two older sisters that are so much better than me. They're major Christians and they're pretty... They're what my family wants them to be...
    justagirl11893 justagirl11893 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I hate being used by people who say they care about you. I am not stupid,I know when someone lies to me.I know Im not beautiful,not perfect,but I do have feelings that are easily...
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 51-55, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Right now I need to trust God with all my being. I'm new at this and don't know how. I'm facing a huge serious problem right now and can't sleep for my worry. Sick to my stomach...
    Aprille66 Aprille66 46-50, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I am so angry for trusting my best friend. He was my best friend. The one that I thought would cover my back if someone were to hurt me, but what I found out... For the past 7...
    LynEdma LynEdma 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    At work, personally, by family. Who can you trust? I knkw this may sound hypocritical, but yes, I had an affair, I am married snd she was single. She chased me, professed her...
    midliferevelation midliferevelation 46-50, M Jul 4

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    I used to cut till I met this guy who made me stop he was sweet cute perfect then he cheated and I started cutting again #i know I need to stop but I'm not
    tamaraiwannaknow tamaraiwannaknow 16-17, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Every time I trust I end up betrayed. My last act of trust was when I trusted my ex concerning our two young children. He wanted to see them,be a part of their lives,and act like...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    It's not people I don't trust, it's relationships and friendships. The people themselves are usually fine, it's easy to find people you can trust once you know what lies look like...
    sammykins101 sammykins101 22-25, M Jul 5

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