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I Used To Trust People

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    Idiot That I Am, I Still Do

    I still trust most people instantly. The few whom I do not trust instantly, never can earn my trust. The only people I don't trust are the ones that give off very scary vibes, and those vibes have never lied to me. I just wish they were more reliable. I wish they would work for...
    Serenitree Serenitree 70+, F Jan 28, 2013

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    I Am Hazara

    i am hazara i leave in quetta pakistan i am studuent it is the time for my sutdies but i am in protest in quetta pakistan becous of the blasts in quetta at 11:1:2013 in whic over 200 injuries in this blast and 101 were killed in this blast and now it is the time 2:23 am date 13...
    Jan 12, 2013

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    I dated a guy named Derek

    for about 8-9 months and everything was good in the beginning. I loved him and I really and truly felt that he loved me too. We were happy and I told him my deepest secrets, I did things that I normally wouldn't have and for the first time in my life I could honestly say that I...
    briannaelenora briannaelenora 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I Need Proof Now

    Don't get me wrong, I've never been someone to trust anyone, anyhow, since very little. But I didn't need to "test" people like I do now. I wrote test that way because I don't really test them. I don't plan things to know how they are. I just see in situations.But before I gave...
    WickedScullyOfTheWest WickedScullyOfTheWest 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    Some People Dont Deserve To Be Trusted

    Why would u trust someone after all they have ever done is lie to you? Well maybe ur excuse is "they promised they would stop" or "I just have a big heart" or even "they aren't lying they just don't tell whole truths" why should you have to try and make up excuses for these...
    sweetpea053190 sweetpea053190 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    Other Person

    I remembered being told to b careful in every step of my life "u dont know people, like people dont know u, but u know ur self very much so take care of it" . :)
    staticonveyor staticonveyor 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 2, 2013

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    Innocent Days Of My Youth

    There was actually a time I thought the human race was actually worth something. Guess I was wrong.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F Sep 15, 2013

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    I Dont Know What To Do Anymore

    In my previous story i had problems with workers at my job and have been afraid to return to work after i broke down and started cutting during the last Friday i was so closed up i rarely talk to anyone the times i spoke only related to the work. I knew i couldn't trust anyone...
    Hrnydevil Hrnydevil 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 12, 2013

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    mansionfree mansionfree 26-30, M Feb 26, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Over the last few years I've had problems with trusting people or opening up to near enough anyone. Some fo my now ex friends have moved to a different school and turned nasty...
    BloofWolfFang BloofWolfFang 16-17, F Apr 8

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    I always have a hard time trusting people. I've been staved in the back so many times before, that I'm always scared it will happen again and usually, it does. I have trust issues...
    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Number 1 reason i have no friends and are being used by people. Ha...ha
    notworthitatall notworthitatall 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    It is so hard now a days to trust people. It's hard for me to trust people so much easier to just shut everyone out. Now I'm a loner in the world and sometimes think that I do not...
    believe201427 believe201427 26-30, F a week ago

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    Me and the girl that used to be my best friend recently had a falling out, and we don't talk anymore. She was one of the few people I had trusted and I told her a lot of my secrets...
    lostandlonleysoul lostandlonleysoul 16-17, F Apr 5

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    The Rabbit Once there was a rabbit. She was curious to meet new friends. She was surrounded by many other animals but she didn't know how to connect with them. She met a few and...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F a week ago

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    People mistake how open I am about myself for trusting them. Just because I'm willing to tell you about myself and my past doesn't mean I trust you.
    AnInfamousDerka AnInfamousDerka 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    why is it hard to trust someone again?... you love someone but can't seem to trust her the way u do before.. :(
    rurie17 rurie17 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    So far, everyone has given me reasons to not trust them. Nobody is really there for me, I can't rely on anyone. Nobody is really trustworthy.
    PanicAtTheDiscount PanicAtTheDiscount 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My life-pattern seems to be one of having intense flings with people, who are completely interested at the beginning, and then rather quickly lose interest. I'm always left heart...
    almalibre1986 almalibre1986 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I have had the problem of trusting too quickly. Giving my all in a situation where the person didn't give half of their all. I have been dumb at times believing that someone...
    LoveHard2014 LoveHard2014 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Sometimes trusting a stranger and speaking your heart out is more comfortable than talking to your family or friends.
    Reemiee Reemiee 16-17, F Apr 8

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    I recently let what I thought was the most amazing and trusting guy in my life and it only took a week for me to realize that everything he ever said to me was a lie.
    LacedYoung LacedYoung 18-21, F Apr 8

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    I really, really, don't like people touching or taking food from my plate. It's something that drives me insane, it's not a hygiene problem, it's just....that's my food, why are...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have always been very friendly with others and I'm not bragging but people are comfortable with me and love my sense of humor. Or at least i think so.. I get that constant...
    sumbaldawg sumbaldawg 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    So many people have left me in situations were I need them the most. I feel so alone. Sure I have "friends" but it's just so hard to open up and let go. I just don't want to get...
    gabbbieeee gabbbieeee 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Really? .
    Jarlaxle Jarlaxle 46-50, M Mar 28

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    I guess this stems from elementary school. I had friends who always lied about things that I was interested in.
    arachnidgames arachnidgames 13-15, M Mar 29

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    That make me really nervous
    ttremain ttremain 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    I used to be so naive and only believed in innocence. But then people turned out to be not what I thought they were. So now it's very hard for me to trust people cuz history does...
    azngirl123 azngirl123 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I tried trusting people, but they always let me down, they are always only out for themselvses. They hurt me and kept on hurting me,for years and years, to the point where im...
    Wi5huponastar Wi5huponastar 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Every time I'm sad and feel like something stupid, I want to tell my boyfriend about it because he told me I should but then at the same time, I don't want him to know. He says he...
    Kay8712 Kay8712 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    People are so fickle,I know this because I'm fickle. Me,human and fickle. I wish I wasn't,I wish I could deem myself superior to all humanity but I'm not. I try to do my best,to...
    RedeemingRose RedeemingRose 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I can't trust people too easily...
    sometimesquiet sometimesquiet 13-15, F Mar 31

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    I have been burned many times trusting people I really shouldn't. But I also try to give every new person in my life the chance that the deserve, and go into new friendship with my...
    ahaydonh ahaydonh 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I'm so sick of fake people!! One minute they have your back the next they leave you all by yourself. My ex boyfriend has a new girl and everyone is mad at him for dumping me over...
    Arleyn Arleyn 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I love this group! I agree they do. Some for the good, some for the bad. The thing I think that everyone that comes into my life is here and is either a lesson or a blessing. I...
    funsnowgal funsnowgal 22-25, F Apr 11

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    CRAZY GIRL!!!!! I'm a sexual fun loving kind of girl! But I know my limits! I know my likes and dislikes! I love to explore,examine,taste and savour all possibilities! I like...
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    i dont understand how some people can just be the way they are, it disgusts me and with others, just tests my patience especially with the younger generation and some of the oldest...
    storylover6 storylover6 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Only some people who I've known for a while I can tell... But I can't talk if all of a sudden out of no where I get a message like "Hi, if you ever need someone to talk to I'm...
    xXAliCatXx xXAliCatXx 13-15, F Apr 4

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    Where are they when I needed them? They only be friendly to me when they needed me or needs me to be their scapegoat! But after that they will just go back and ignore or being...
    betrayedoncemore betrayedoncemore 13-15, F Apr 11

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    I have such a hard time letting my walls down. Also the fact that i was in a seven yr relationship that just recently ended doesn't help. But I just can't trust people at all. I...
    Fantasy646 Fantasy646 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 30

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    and I feel so stupid because no one ever feels the same way. Every time I realize this with someone, or every time someone, I guess I would say, abandons me, it hurts. Every time...
    adorea adorea 70+, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I befriended someone on EP opened up to them, tried to help them in their so called troubles, only to find that they were not what or who they made out to be. Really upsetting when...
    aloneagain13 aloneagain13 13-15, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I used to have them from about the age of four to eight or nine. I feel terrible about what I must of done to my parents. I used to scream in the middle of the night like something...
    cheley cheley 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    I'm used to being somewhat invisible. And even when I'm purposefully drawing attention to myself, being stared at is really uncomfortable. Earlier this year a friend tried to help...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    To people who read my posts they are probably used to the fact that I never send out any negative vibes, but there's a first time for all. I have learnt that trust is a very...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M Apr 10

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    My Life Of Drug Addiction By: An Addict named brad In the beginning, I shot myself in the head. Three times. With a nail gun. As I remember, it didn’t really hurt all that...
    sober4life sober4life 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    I used to be a rather trusting person but as of recently I've discovered that some people really aren't your true friends no matter what they say. I would say that currently I only...
    twiggy93 twiggy93 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    All my life I've placed trust in people. My mother....father....aunts....uncles....siblings.....and since marriage. My wife...my in-laws and to a honestly eye opening avail. All...
    MrKnowledgeable MrKnowledgeable 31-35 Mar 23

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    I feel completely used, and learned that I was completely oblivious to it. I am generally very open and love meeting new people and with those that I already know I consider...
    Life1sinteresting Life1sinteresting 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    I know it sounds so horrible, but I do. I try. I try so hard to like them. I want to get along and enjoy whatever it is that everyone else seems to love, but I just can't! Every...
    faeriefate faeriefate 18-21 1 Response Mar 20

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    So I dated this girl I was cool with back in school recently. Didn't really go well and lasted just 2 months. Only wanted to date because I had money while she just sat home. What...
    HottRoddTX HottRoddTX 26-30, M 3 Responses