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I V Been Controled to Long

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    It's Not Their Fault..

    Only very few people really tried to control me, and mostly I didn't let them. But somehow I let all the people, who don't even intend to control me, take control over me. I guess it's like I don't want to lose a nice person, and therefore I try to be what they'd wish for. But I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 27, 2008

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    Im just so tired of it. My family thinks I have to be some genius like they are and they try to pressure me to be like them. They dont realize Im different and that Im proud to be different. Im pretty much hated by my family because I want to be my own person but Im too young to...
    mo1317 mo1317 16-17, F Sep 27, 2013

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    Iv Been Controled 2 Long

    and now its gone to far. my parents r really over steping the boundery.iv taken it all my life but now its gona stop . because no 1 has the rite to make my son feel like a failure. no 1, he a very smart very kind  caren boy , has respect 4 his elders .love his granparents...
    moll moll 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2007

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