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I V Been Controled to Long

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    Iv Been Controled 2 Long - and now its gone to far. my parents r really over steping the boundery.iv taken it all my life but now its gona stop . because no 1 has the rite to make...
    moll moll 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2007

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    Controlled - Im just so tired of it. My family thinks I have to be some genius like they are and they try to pressure me to be like them. They dont realize Im different and that Im...
    mo1317 mo1317 13-15, F Sep 27, 2013

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    It's Not Their Fault.. - Only very few people really tried to control me, and mostly I didn't let them. But somehow I let all the people, who don't even intend to control me, take...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 27, 2008

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