I Value Passive Strength

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 79 People

    Self-assured

    I am not especially impressed by physical prowess nor a loud, arrogant attitude.  There are folks who seem to think that if they shout loud enough that they will get what they want.  Or if they are physically threatening that this will somehow prevail in a situation. Well of...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    Feb 6, 2011

    Sixty One.

    T  he great nation is the one below all others, which pools the world's influences in union, As a Feminine partner The feminine partner always overcomes the masculine, not by standing up, but by lying down Thus a great nation places itself below a small nation And even a...
    Honir Honir
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 28, 2009

    And The Meek Shall Inherit The Earth...

    Meekness is defined as:  mild, resigned, long-suffering, submissive and gentle.  It is synonymous with forbearing, yielding, soft, unassuming, and calm.  Our country values strength.  Physical strength is coveted and prized.  Yet, there is...
    Skiilah Skiilah
    51-55, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2009

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