I 've Always Felt Out of Place

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    I have always lived my own life

    and by my rules. I have never found my place and therefor have created my own...I just don't fit in because I buck the trend and just go with the flow. I don't adhere to any stereotype and would honestly be mortified if I did. I fit in best by not fitting in.
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker
    31-35, M
    Oct 9, 2014

    Still Searching,did anyone find

    where they belong?
    Lustedluna Lustedluna
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2014

    She says: What was your dream

    when you were a little kid. I say: To explore Macchu Picchu She says: What's that..I just wanted to be the little mermaid!
    BLOWingTides BLOWingTides
    22-25, F
    Mar 16, 2015

    Since joining this civilian life yes.

    I feel out of place and feel as though I have nothing to offer. I'm just too nice per say (used n abused). Civilians are mean.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    I Fit In, At Least On The Surface Anyway

    In high school I fit in completely. Because I'm pretty, witty and good at sport. But on the inside I know I'm different. My perception of people is cynical and skewed.i feel like I'm from another time, somewhere in the future, looking reflectively back upon the human race...
    AquariusStar AquariusStar
    31-35, F
    Nov 30, 2012

    It's Weird

    Never have fit in anywhere really people like me im funny smart cool to be around but people keep me at a arm's distance I guess it's cause don't take bull my job are the same way i started back working after a 3 year unemployment hiatus and it's the same thing I speak with them...
    foreversingle30 foreversingle30
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2011

    Growing Up

    Growing up I always felt out of place. I never really felt included or as if I belonged with my peers.Class and family history were a huge influence on that.My family was poor, my clothes were mainly used, we lived in an apartment,  my glasses were very geeky and thick,  and...
    snowberry75 snowberry75
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Aug 1, 2011

    Even when I had friends with common interests,

    I've always felt like the odd one out, the one who doesn't truly fit in.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 28, 2014

    Espeicially at Christmas dinners ugh I hate them

    or I hate people meh it's probably both
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 25, 2014

    What Thoughts Become...

    Weigh the risk versus reward of being in servitude to your own mind and the most obscure thought. Is it a blessing or a curse? Are you victimized or a beneficiary? Like beauty, it is in the eye of the beholder...or in this case the bearer of the thought(s). Anxiously you...
    ag3084 ag3084
    31-35, M
    Dec 1, 2013

    I've always been a bit like the black sheep ,

    but u know ,it's not nessacery a bad thing . Be who u are ,an outcast even ,someday u will find another black sheep and u won't seem so different after all.
    Life8227 Life8227
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2014

    It's Cool.......

    There's really no story for this but...... Even though I feel I'm out of place, and most likely I am, I love it. I don't like being like everyone anyway. They can except me for me, or not.
    mononkeymo mononkeymo
    26-30, M
    Jan 5, 2011

    Always

    Wherever I go, whoever I'm with, I'm always the odd one out. People look at my friends, then they look at me, and wonder, "Where did she come from?"It's not that I don't have anything in common with my friends, it's just that there are some things that I just cannot relate to...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2011

    Not gonna lie. I'm out of place.

    A 15 year old girl who doesn't wear makeup, who watches cartoons, and doesn't play any sports, instead, plays instruments. Just gonna be myself.
    whitkneegirl whitkneegirl
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 13, 2014

    My godsister invited me to a surprise

    celebration for her Zumba teacher.The affair itself was very well planned and well attended. As the festivities were underway,I tried to make small talk with the people at our table.It didn't go over as well,but needless to say I didn't let that discourage me having a good time...
    KAYDUBAU KAYDUBAU
    31-35, F
    Jun 28, 2015

    Sometimes I Think I've Felt This Way......

      Since I was born. At the very least as long as I could remember. Even with family, other than my momma, I always seem to be the 'freak'. Most of my family are very "put together". It's almost like nothing at all can get to them. I am so emotional that it sometimes borders on...
    WynsHeart WynsHeart
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 27, 2011

    I grew up on a farm with a dysfunctional family

    where I found enjoyment in the woods. I had few friends and ran away once. I learned in 09 that I have aspergers, explaining my awkwardness and lack of understandings in relationships. Soon after I moved out my angered home and on my own. I never been happier. I honestly doubt...
    peridot27 peridot27
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2014

    Being Different

    My mother was married 7 times...My grandparents lived on a farm.  My mother was always searching for herself in other people....my grands were always close to the earth and very grounded.  I lived in cities most of my life, but went back often to visit my grandparents...
    charlamine charlamine
    51-55
    1 Response Jul 3, 2009

    I've always had the feeling just

    because I don't act like most teenagers, I tend to be more mature than others too but I rarely ever show it and I'm not some hormone crazed teen who's just going through a phase. (At least I don't think so anyways)
    ApatheticSpark ApatheticSpark
    13-15, F
    Feb 3

    So much so I used to ask my parents regularly

    if I was adopted. I never looked like them really, never had the same behaviour traits, was always just that little bit more sensitive, and a little more left field than the rest. Turns out I'm 100% their's alright - it just took most of my life to realise it.
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2015

    i always feel out of place

    when i go my mums when my other two sisters are there, see when i go my mums i always do stuff for everyone drinks,the tea ect. my mum always asks me to do stuff even though my other sisters are there. feels like i am the black sheep of the family, i get treated different when...
    westlife213 westlife213
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 2, 2014

    Yeah...

    Well I live in this little town in Wisconsin and for some reason I've never felt like I belong here. It's small, the people here are all the same, and nothing exciting ever happens here. Idk if it has something to do with the fact that I was born in Toronto, Canada, but I think...
    thesuitelife285 thesuitelife285
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 25, 2013
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