I 've Been Cheated On By My Husband

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    Do you know what baffles me,

    I'm from the UK, I'm young 22. And I look into this because I'm so open minded, I find that I look at every single angle. I tell you as a young man - I cannot reveal my name or picture because of work and further circumstances but I find as a man we are not all pigs. And neither...
    Interestedinsubject Interestedinsubject
    22-25, M
    Dec 18, 2014

    Not even gonna go there again.

    If you wanna know details, maybe we become friends first
    lehcar1977 lehcar1977
    36-40, F
    Dec 19, 2014

    we have been together

    for 10 years and last month, the week before Mother's Day, the other woman sent me a message on FB with a dummy account , stating that the lies stop here. She starts by stating that my husband was living with her since August 2014 and knew about him being married. My husband...
    Desert06 Desert06
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    Getting Cheated On Changed My Life

    I married a man that I thought would be faithful to me until the end of time. All of my friends said that of all the men out there, he would never cheat on me.  I believed that and I believed in our love and the stability of our relationship.  Well.....I guess you can...
    PrincessT PrincessT
    41-45, F
    13 Responses Mar 15, 2008

    Found out my husband of 10 yrs cheated

    for the past 2 yrs. he first went online to meet girls until he found this 1 girl 20 years younger than me that only wanted his money. I met my husband with nothing, he filed for bankruptcy 3 months after we met. We got married and I was signing everything with regards to our...
    MsSimple8 MsSimple8
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jun 17, 2014

    RE: the Story of I've Been Cheated On By My Husband

    I was cheated on over 10 years ago after I had our first son. He said it was because I gained weight being pregnant. I was devastated. And thought we could move past it but I still am bitter about it and wonder if I will ever respect him again. If I could turn back the clock...
    StacyMarie StacyMarie
    Nov 10, 2008

    My Husband Cheated On Me

    I got married at 19 to a man I thought would never cheat on me (looking back I should of seen the red flags).  He said he was going out of town for a few days and would be back in 3 days...kissed me, told me he loved me and left.  Day after day I would try to call him...
    trutxcntrygrl trutxcntrygrl
    1 Response Sep 19, 2008

    I Feel Like I Have Been Living A Lie.

    My husband and I have been married for almost 19 and a half years. I recently discovered that he has been having affair for a year. He is in the military and about to get out, so last year he decided to go to the Reservist Police Academy. Apparently he met his mistress at the...
    Desperate2Bloved Desperate2Bloved
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 16, 2012

    Cheated on the receiving end I have given you

    every part of me Even parts I needed myself to survive I've sacrificed my heart upon your alter Set you upon a throne above all I put you before myself Your happiness was a job I charished dearly I have forgiven time upon time Overlooked, denied, ignored, and lied Family...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2014

    My Husband's Long Term Non-Stop Affair. How Do I Cope? How Do I Live?

    My story and very long and complicated so I will try to keep it brief as possible and stick to main events. My husband and I got together when we were 17. BY 18 I was pregnant with our first child. A year later we had child number 2. Both boys. We had to become adults quickly...
    HurtSandy HurtSandy
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 13, 2013

    Tons of times..but last night I found out he

    was with prostitutes?!!! He gave OUR MONEY to strangers for sex. Anyone have gone through this before? I feel so much rage because it was my money technically!
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    It's been over 2 years

    since it happened, and I still haven't forgiven him. I don't think I ever will. I think I may want to separate or get a divorce, but I'm scared of change and the unknown. I also will miss the financial aspect of being married.
    doniest doniest
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2016

    My husband Had an affair with a girl

    while working in Mexico. I found out last November and it had been going on periodically for one and a half years. I can't even explain the hurt I felt! Childbirth was a. Piece of cake compared to this pain!! We both weren't in a good place in our marriage for about two years...
    ginger2227 ginger2227
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    I Shouldn't Have Stayed ...i Can't Get Over What He Did To Me.

    I've been witht the same man since I was 13 years old...I was abused and tortured by my father so I never knew what a normal realationship should be, I also knew I never wanted to be in one. When I was 13 I met a boy who wouldn't go away and kept promising me fantasies, I didn't...
    CeciliaBdoomed CeciliaBdoomed
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2010

    I have been in a married

    for three yrs and together for over ten yrs. i recently found out the my husband has been exchanging inappropriate pictures with my sister.i also found they haven't had sex but they messed around this has been going on for yrs . we have three children together i love my husband...
    nobodysfool22 nobodysfool22
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2015

    Online Cheater

    I have been married for 13 years and even though the marriage was rocky it was and had the potential to be a great one.  We have a 12 year old son and two older boys 23, and 21. My husband had been disappearing for days at a time over the past 5 months and then I found...
    sadsandi sadsandi
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2010

    Just Found Out Today

    i just found out today that my husband cheated on me. it all started yesterday when i HAD to go in his email. i needed to get his w2 and what not for my financial aid at school and i needed to get the password from his email so i could log into the other account. for once i...
    MissThang420 MissThang420
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Apr 8, 2010

    My Husbands Constant Affairs.

    I married my Husband in 1976, I was 21 and he was 23, both of us from South East London, though we had been together on and off since I was 17 and got into a serious relationship when I was 19 or 20. I was attracted to him because of his charm and womanizing ways, he used to...
    VioletWainwrightLane1955 VioletWainwrightLane1955
    61-65, F
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2013

    What Do Men Want

    We meant in the 10th grade. His friend & my friend wanted us to go to the Soph-hop. I did not have a date & neither did he. So it was set we were going to the Soph-hop . I seem to be the aggressive teenager because I kisses him 1st. From there it was like we were irrespirable...
    EliseRobin13 EliseRobin13
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2013

    How Do You Ever Forgive This?

    My husband and I have been married for 13 years TODAY.  I found out on Friday that he had been having an affair with a co-worker for the past YEAR.  He is begging me to forgive him and says that he realizes what a fool he was and that he does not know what was going through his...
    Prenupt Prenupt
    1 Response May 8, 2011

    My Soulmate Cheated On Me

    My husband and I have been together for 20 years. We met when I was only 15 years old and he was 17. Since then we have been together except for a short breakup in college. That is, until I discovered in October that he was having an affair with a co-worker. I never thought he...
    imgoingcrazy09 imgoingcrazy09
    1 Response Jan 26, 2010
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