I 've Been Hurt Badly By the Person I Truly Loved

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    By more than one person.

    It has really ****** me over. Currently I'm spiraling trying to find a new meaning of love and marriage. I thought it meant being faithful and loving each other forever. Apparently for my family it means putting up with each other because you know that no one else wants to...
    bbybleu bbybleu
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 11, 2015

    I just want too know

    why I can't forget her. Why I still remember every detail of exactly what she looked like when we were with each other. We never dated I don't think she ever wanted too but it felt like we were because we were that close. I still remember when she held my hand at church and didn...
    nic470 nic470
    18-21, T
    1 Response Feb 9, 2015

    Not able to connect with my own emotion,

    I can't set straight my priorities. One thing I know is I was hurt. I need to move on. I broke out, it's peaceful and quite now by myself, however my mind can't stop feeling the guilt: I must have done something wrong, I had something so rare, but I destroyed it. Some day I had...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2014

    I'm so sick and tired of loving!

    Does anyone have any idea to stop loving and stay in peace?
    MayAO MayAO
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 29, 2014

    I love you, I care about you,

    since we met you have been like the sister I never had, we shared everything and we're unseperatable, you made my days at work worth going, I felt like as long as we had eachother we could get through anything. ...now you don't want to talk to me, I try to fix whatever I...
    jbrighton676 jbrighton676
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 26, 2015

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    yardie11226 yardie11226
    1 Response Feb 10, 2015

    About five years ago my soon to be ex told me

    that he had had an affair many years ago. What is a wife to do? We had one child when this affair happened. We went on to have two more. I thought everything was perfect in our marriage. I had no clue. To find out over 15 years later. I mean how was I suppose to react...
    2findme 2findme
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2014

    I'm a Bi, I had a boyfriend,

    everything worked fine at first, we met in a friends Condo unit, I loved him, I courted him till the day I got his answer with my question, "Will you be my boyfriend?" he answered yes, but right after the happiest days comes the bad days, a friend told me that my boyfriend had...
    johnybravo925 johnybravo925
    18-21, M
    Aug 13, 2015

    Yes I have. I am trying to bury the hackle

    as they say. I am going to do this. I know that I can. I know people have done me so wrong. Every time I say it I feel my words so deeply. I am slowly realizing this suppose they will never stop hurting me. Do I really want to stay in this state. No! So what I am learning to...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    Aug 13, 2015

    This coming week will be the first year

    that I told my ex husband that we had to part ways cuz I was not able to accept that he cheated for 2 years. Everyday I still think of the past, still ask question, what happened with my happy marriage? I envy people whom I see on the street that are very sweet and thinking at...
    MsSimple8 MsSimple8
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2015

    I can't get over it I'm starting to think I

    hate "love" because it betrays me. why hurt me when I gave you everything? why do people treat us like nothing and don't care about pieces they have broken. I can't fix the pieces :'(
    lela201465 lela201465
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 19, 2015

    I've only ever loved one person my entire adult

    life. Why does he continue to hurt me so? I've given up. I've walked away. Why does he keep continuing to mess with my head? Why won't he let me be happy? I just want to move on from him.
    CharlotteTeller CharlotteTeller
    26-30, F
    Jan 15, 2015

    Every man I've ever loved,

    although there weren't that many, has broken little pieces off of me . I feel like chipped china, almost worthless.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2015
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    1 Response Jul 5, 2015
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    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    We met. I loved him. He.

    . apparently didnt love me. He had me dangling onto him for two years and just never had the guts to really break it off. I said he loved me. He did, you know? He kissed me. He hugged me. I really thought be loved me, too. I was so happy then. My memories were so beautiful...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 12, 2015

    With gale force winds the temperature plunged

    exponentially. The old warrior found it increasingly hard to keep warm and he decided that it was time to veer off course to get shelter at a nearby town. Upon reaching a river the old man pointed down river to the ferryman towards the town, paying him with only a couple of gray...
    FightingPhoenix FightingPhoenix
    46-50, M
    Dec 4, 2015

    I have no one else to say this to.

    .. So a bunch of strangers will have to do. You tried many times to let me know you didn't feel the same about me that I did. But I would not give up. I wanted you to love me like I did you, but I think I knew in my heart it was impossible, therefore you saw changes in me that...
    Ttiffany330 Ttiffany330
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Dec 24, 2015

    I don't think I will ever understand how I

    didn't see the truth for so many years. How could I have been so blind? Why didn't he ask for a divorce long ago if he wanted other women? We were married 4 years before we had children so why did he choose betrayal? It would have saved me years of heartache. I guess when you...
    MLH205 MLH205
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Aug 12, 2015

    Those Feelings May Grow Old But Never Fade Away.

    About eight, nine years ago I had a girlfriend that I thought would one day be my wife. She was nice, beautiful, smart, funny, and all this and that. Well because of family issues she had to move away. We kept in contact with snail mail and eventually email. Then one day I was...
    MalrakEhis MalrakEhis
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Nov 22, 2012

    I have been hurt badly by the person i love,

    and that person is my girlfriend i loved her so much that i was ready to do anything for her.But she never understood the feelings i had towards her,i was even ready to leave my family for her,how can she leave me.What wrong have i done? I will never forgive her,she should get...
    Roadguy Roadguy
    26-30, M
    Oct 30, 2014

    I feel so useless... I don't think undeserved

    to be treated the way he has treated me. he has embarassed me and I continue to look like a fool.... how do I get over this and move on? will I end up alone? am I even worth something? why can't I just give up on everything... why can't I accept that he Will never be good to me...
    CharlotteTeller CharlotteTeller
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 17, 2015
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    1 Response May 19, 2015

    My best friend that was more

    than that we would cuddle and hold hands and talk the entire night in some cases but she isn't ready to accept her sexuality but now she acts like she hates me
    nic470 nic470
    18-21, T
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2014

    my ex was a narcissist.

    I left him first. he immediately found a new gf.
    Kylie95 Kylie95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 11, 2015

    This is a sad story if u wanna hear it.

    Breaks my heart to think back...someone I adored and trusted with every fiber of my existence only to have it shattered....
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2014

    I had a frnd on Facebook.

    ..we used to chat abt every time...I helped him so many times by giving him money. ..he took advantage of my trust...dan he stopped talking to me...I never asked him for anything but a true frndship..I hate him
    rain0209 rain0209
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jul 6, 2015

    I've been in love with her

    for the past year and I told her and she friend zoned me and now she talks about guys that she likes and when I think of her I get the worst pain in my stomach I hate it!
    dannyd99 dannyd99
    16-17, M
    Jun 22, 2014

    We dated for a really long time,

    I did things with him I thought I would never do, we made so many memories and when I thought we would last forever he ended it like it was easy to just walk away and didn't even try to fix anything.. Now everything he ever said to me I just feel like it was all lies and it...
    ashiee14 ashiee14
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2014

    I like really loved this guy more

    than anyone in the world.. And he turns around and cheats on me.. But it's ok. My brothers took care of him anyways haha ^.^
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 10, 2015
    Heartbroken46 Heartbroken46
    46-50, F
    Mar 18, 2015

    The days are slowly getting easier.

    .. I've finally come to the terms that you're gone. Sometimes when I pass certain places I get the worst feeling in my chest.. Which quickly falls to my stomach making me have a loss of breath. I doubt you ever think about me, but the odd time you tend to cross my mind...
    CassandraLynn96 CassandraLynn96
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 11, 2015

    just leave my memories alone.

    dont tell me to move on, dont tell me another lie, and dont tie looses ends up in a nice bundle to throw away and forget. you said things i hold you accountable for, promises . how dare you expect the luxury of forgetting. i'll move on when i can, not at your convenience
    xkmb xkmb
    Nov 11, 2015

    "If im not made for you then

    why does my heart tell me that i am?"
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 23, 2015

    I had a girlfriend and It was really intense

    where we were and I spent all my money to go see her since she live a bit away from me. A few days later she breaks up with me on text this was a month ago and I still can't get over it. Am I just being a baby?
    Bonjovi11 Bonjovi11
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2015
    Robin68 Robin68
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Apr 24, 2015

    9 months ago, I met & befriended a girl online.

    She's from America & I'm from Australia. Initially she was very interested in getting to know me & it was likewise with me too. We quickly bonded & became very good friends. Not long after around December. She slowly became more distant. I was confused & wasn't sure what I did...
    zenzuu zenzuu
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    Me and my boyfriend just broke up

    and he ****** his ex and said bad **** about me to her .
    idek999 idek999
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2014
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2015

    Every time i find a song

    that relates to me and makes me want to cry, i listen to it on repeat in the hopes that id get numb. I want the pain to go away.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    Looking at this group

    and all the stories i think its fair to say at some point we are hurt badly by the one we love. But that's why there is a thing called forgiveness. Sometimes there things that are unforgiving. For me i have not come to that. Not with the one I truly love. Don't get me wrong he...
    WhisperingEchoes WhisperingEchoes
    36-40, F
    Mar 19, 2014

    I have been wondering

    for almost 5 years why my boyfriend does the things he does to me. Two nights ago I had a revelation that hit me like a ton of bricks. He doesn't love me. He says he does all of the time, but his actions speak louder. I think he has feelings for me, but mostly he is just...
    kandy1239 kandy1239
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Sep 1, 2015

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