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I 've Been Hurt Badly By the Person I Truly Loved

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    I've only ever loved one person my entire adult

    life. Why does he continue to hurt me so? I've given up. I've walked away. Why does he keep continuing to mess with my head? Why won't he let me be happy? I just want to move on from him.
    CharlotteTeller CharlotteTeller 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    my ex was a narcissist.

    I left him first. he immediately found a new gf.
    Kylie95 Kylie95 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Love Defined By Yours Truly ?

    What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons. You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts.?
    AngieM12 AngieM12 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2014

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    My Mom... and my ex..

    . i hate my ex but i still love my Mom so much....<3
    lovebug19980 lovebug19980 18-21, F Oct 28, 2014

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    when you actually love somone

    but all they do is play with your feelings like some day they text you then the other they forget like what's going on
    AngieM12 AngieM12 13-15, F Oct 29, 2014

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    Not able to connect with my own emotion,

    I can't set straight my priorities. One thing I know is I was hurt. I need to move on. I broke out, it's peaceful and quite now by myself, however my mind can't stop feeling the guilt: I must have done something wrong, I had something so rare, but I destroyed it. Some day I had...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2014

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    AngieM12 AngieM12 13-15, F Nov 23, 2014

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    I Hate To Admit That She Is Still My Everything

    She is the youngest person I have ever been in a relationship with, She is 22yrs old, and 5yrs younger than me. Things just moved so fast between us, and I fell for every ******* word she said to me. She said she loved me, she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me, she...
    jvent85 jvent85 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    Is Everything A Lie?

    i met my husband after a terrible previous relationship, he was like a fresh intake of fresh air- honest, funny, everything that i needed and wanted in a man, and we fell madly in love. it was like 'wow! this is what relationships are supposed to be like!!'  he had had a bad...
    heartsgone heartsgone 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    All that love does is hurt you untill you bleed

    from inside and leaves scars loving will hurt you question is " how can you stop loving people that hurt you "
    AngieM12 AngieM12 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2014

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    Yeah I was hurt badly by the only one I loved.

    I love him with all my heart he was the only thing I cared about. Then one day I turned around and stabed him in the back.
    Lilbit69 Lilbit69 16-17, F Jun 25, 2014

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    and its really sucks!

    and I hate myself for being vulnerable!
    jojoyce jojoyce 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2014

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    it feels like the end of the road

    for most of us.trusting and choosing to honesly love someones for years and they end up dropping it all...sometimes we wanna justify and pretent all is ok but deep we hurt and fall to alcohollism just to nump self and forget.
    mbithi mbithi 26-30, M Nov 28, 2014

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    I used to be in a relationship

    that was toxic my bf has hot me almost made me where I can't see my friend and etc he was leaving me when my family found out I am gay and I was hurt by that among other thing that happen but now I am looking for a real man who cares
    rukateria rukateria 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 5

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    Wow! Four days of emotion packed

    and hipnotization. Finally bak to stupid life - didn't know if it ends that way too:/ But u will always respect you
    Sophiakhan1 Sophiakhan1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2014

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    Yes I have the love of my life broke my hurt

    last night so I cut myself..I have never done it before until last night
    Lilbit69 Lilbit69 16-17, F Jun 21, 2014

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    My mom and I had a falling out

    when I was in High School. She didn't talk to me for a week. My grandma was in the hospital for a collapsed lung and the doctors literally told her to give up. Whenever I came home from school, it was nice to know she wouldn't be in the house and when she came home I would go to...
    kaps105 kaps105 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2014

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    My mother. I do love her,

    but the choices she makes and the things she says are questionable. Everything just has to be about her, what benefits her, even if it is at my expense. I do love her...but goodness.
    Profweird Profweird 22-25, M Dec 16, 2014

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    I've been in love with her

    for the past year and I told her and she friend zoned me and now she talks about guys that she likes and when I think of her I get the worst pain in my stomach I hate it!
    dannyd99 dannyd99 13-15, M Jun 22, 2014

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    Have you ever been told they loved you then

    they leave without Breaking up with you or anything like do I not deserve a break up or a goodbye well I have it hurts like hell I wonder does he ever think about me ? I want too give up but for some reason I can't do you're know how to forget someone ?
    AngieM12 AngieM12 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2014

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    About five years ago my soon to be ex told me

    that he had had an affair many years ago. What is a wife to do? We had one child when this affair happened. We went on to have two more. I thought everything was perfect in our marriage. I had no clue. To find out over 15 years later. I mean how was I suppose to react...
    2findme 2findme 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2014

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    My best friend that was more

    than that we would cuddle and hold hands and talk the entire night in some cases but she isn't ready to accept her sexuality but now she acts like she hates me
    nic470 nic470 13-15, T 2 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    Just now I thought I had a friend

    but then you just back stabbed me and crushed my heart.
    JordynRenee1023 JordynRenee1023 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    Those Feelings May Grow Old But Never Fade Away.

    About eight, nine years ago I had a girlfriend that I thought would one day be my wife. She was nice, beautiful, smart, funny, and all this and that. Well because of family issues she had to move away. We kept in contact with snail mail and eventually email. Then one day I was...
    MalrakEhis MalrakEhis 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    I feel so useless... I don't think undeserved

    to be treated the way he has treated me. he has embarassed me and I continue to look like a fool.... how do I get over this and move on? will I end up alone? am I even worth something? why can't I just give up on everything... why can't I accept that he Will never be good to me...
    CharlotteTeller CharlotteTeller 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Looking at this group

    and all the stories i think its fair to say at some point we are hurt badly by the one we love. But that's why there is a thing called forgiveness. Sometimes there things that are unforgiving. For me i have not come to that. Not with the one I truly love. Don't get me wrong he...
    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F Mar 19, 2014

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    yardie11226 yardie11226 31-35 Feb 10

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    We dated for a really long time,

    I did things with him I thought I would never do, we made so many memories and when I thought we would last forever he ended it like it was easy to just walk away and didn't even try to fix anything.. Now everything he ever said to me I just feel like it was all lies and it...
    ashiee14 ashiee14 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    I just want too know

    why I can't forget her. Why I still remember every detail of exactly what she looked like when we were with each other. We never dated I don't think she ever wanted too but it felt like we were because we were that close. I still remember when she held my hand at church and didn...
    nic470 nic470 13-15, T Feb 9

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    Me and my boyfriend just broke up

    and he ****** his ex and said bad **** about me to her .
    idek999 idek999 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2014

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    This is a sad story if u wanna hear it.

    Breaks my heart to think back...someone I adored and trusted with every fiber of my existence only to have it shattered....
    spankwire spankwire 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 22, 2014

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    I have been hurt badly by the person i love,

    and that person is my girlfriend i loved her so much that i was ready to do anything for her.But she never understood the feelings i had towards her,i was even ready to leave my family for her,how can she leave me.What wrong have i done? I will never forgive her,she should get...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Oct 30, 2014

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    I had a girlfriend and It was really intense

    where we were and I spent all my money to go see her since she live a bit away from me. A few days later she breaks up with me on text this was a month ago and I still can't get over it. Am I just being a baby?
    Bonjovi11 Bonjovi11 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I like really loved this guy more

    than anyone in the world.. And he turns around and cheats on me.. But it's ok. My brothers took care of him anyways haha ^.^
    kourtneyking kourtneyking 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    I was sexually abused by my father,

    brother, two sisters and two uncles when I was younger. A year ago I found out my siblings were making plans to start it again and talking about whether they wanted to sell me or keep me as their own slave. I feel so betrayed and hated. I can't completely trust anyone anymore.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    Crystal Clear

    Crystal Clear. I never felt I needed to be crystal clear on anything. Clear was always good enough for me. I thought if I needed to be crystal clear about something then I was never really clear on it to begin with. I was told by a woman she was in love with me and I felt she was...
    AgingGracefully AgingGracefully 51-55, M 5 Responses Oct 17, 2011

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    Forgive and forget? Forgiving was easy.

    Almost too easy. The image in my mind has faded, but I can't imagine how I will ever forget completely. I caught her, in the act, with another man.
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 27, 2014

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    It Happened Again.

    I feel so numb right now...The love of my life just broke up with me...Yet I got no reason, or excuse. Just message that we are over and gone....I can feel my heart ache and slowly die. I can't see the light anymore...Not without her...I will be forever sunken into darkness...
    MalrakEhis MalrakEhis 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 9, 2013

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    I wonder if she thinks about me.

    I want to know if she knew exactly how much she meant to me. She was the only person in the world who had seen me at my best and when I hit rock bottom. She talked me out of killing myself more than one time. She gave me something to live for. Now she hates me and she won't even...
    nic470 nic470 13-15, T 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    I'm so sick and tired of loving!

    Does anyone have any idea to stop loving and stay in peace?
    MayAO MayAO 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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