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I 've Been Hurt Badly By the Person I Truly Loved

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    About five years ago my soon to be ex told me

    that he had had an affair many years ago. What is a wife to do? We had one child when this affair happened. We went on to have two more. I thought everything was perfect in our marriage. I had no clue. To find out over 15 years later. I mean how was I suppose to react...
    2findme 2findme 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    Wow! Four days of emotion packed

    and hipnotization. Finally bak to stupid life - didn't know if it ends that way too:/ But u will always respect you
    Sophiakhan1 Sophiakhan1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    It's been about a few weeks

    since my girlfriend and I broke up. I didn't have any GOOD friends when we were together, she was my confidant with everything in my life. I have found my time without her to be very depressing and lonesome. I fear I may be developing a drinking problem because it seems like I...
    michaelv2191 michaelv2191 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    Not able to connect with my own emotion,

    I can't set straight my priorities. One thing I know is I was hurt. I need to move on. I broke out, it's peaceful and quite now by myself, however my mind can't stop feeling the guilt: I must have done something wrong, I had something so rare, but I destroyed it. Some day I had...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Love Defined By Yours Truly ?

    What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons. You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts.?
    AngieM12 AngieM12 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Just now I thought I had a friend

    but then you just back stabbed me and crushed my heart.
    JordynRenee1023 JordynRenee1023 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Crystal Clear

    Crystal Clear. I never felt I needed to be crystal clear on anything. Clear was always good enough for me. I thought if I needed to be crystal clear about something then I was never really clear on it to begin with. I was told by a woman she was in love with me and I felt she was...
    AgingGracefully AgingGracefully 51-55, M 5 Responses Oct 17, 2011

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    As soon as I met this boy,

    I fell in love! He is really cute, but very childish. I had tried to look past it, but he's a player. I invited him to the school dance, and the day of he said he couldn't get a. l ride, when I had offered to take him. He talked all the time to me in the one class we had...
    HeadWest HeadWest 16-17, F Jun 22

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    Yes I have the love of my life broke my hurt

    last night so I cut myself..I have never done it before until last night
    Lilbit69 Lilbit69 16-17, F Jun 21

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    Me and my boyfriend just broke up

    and he ****** his ex and said bad **** about me to her .
    idek999 idek999 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    How stupid am I I keep trusting

    that he would change but I know that it will never happen. Some people just can't change. he will remain a liar, cheater, and a thief
    Darkrestlessdove Darkrestlessdove 31-35, F Jun 9

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    I've been in love with her

    for the past year and I told her and she friend zoned me and now she talks about guys that she likes and when I think of her I get the worst pain in my stomach I hate it!
    dannyd99 dannyd99 13-15, M Jun 22

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    My best friend that was more

    than that we would cuddle and hold hands and talk the entire night in some cases but she isn't ready to accept her sexuality but now she acts like she hates me
    nic470 nic470 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My mom and I had a falling out

    when I was in High School. She didn't talk to me for a week. My grandma was in the hospital for a collapsed lung and the doctors literally told her to give up. Whenever I came home from school, it was nice to know she wouldn't be in the house and when she came home I would go to...
    kaps105 kaps105 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I have been hurt badly by the person i love,

    and that person is my girlfriend i loved her so much that i was ready to do anything for her.But she never understood the feelings i had towards her,i was even ready to leave my family for her,how can she leave me.What wrong have i done? I will never forgive her,she should get...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 17 hrs ago

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    Forgive and forget? Forgiving was easy.

    Almost too easy. The image in my mind has faded, but I can't imagine how I will ever forget completely. I caught her, in the act, with another man.
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    & The Worst Part Is I Still Miss You

    & The Worst Part Is I Still Miss You By: Me Written on November 23rd, 2012 & The Worst Part Is That I Still Miss You "I still remember our first conversation." That reminds her of him, because it's true. She does remember their first conversation. She met him at a fair, and fell...
    SheWillBeLoved1234 SheWillBeLoved1234 13-15, F Nov 23, 2012

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    Those Feelings May Grow Old But Never Fade Away.

    About eight, nine years ago I had a girlfriend that I thought would one day be my wife. She was nice, beautiful, smart, funny, and all this and that. Well because of family issues she had to move away. We kept in contact with snail mail and eventually email. Then one day I was...
    MalrakEhis MalrakEhis 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    I'm so sick and tired of loving!

    Does anyone have any idea to stop loving and stay in peace?
    MayAO MayAO 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    This is a sad story if u wanna hear it.

    Breaks my heart to think back...someone I adored and trusted with every fiber of my existence only to have it shattered....
    spankwire spankwire 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 22

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    when you actually love somone

    but all they do is play with your feelings like some day they text you then the other they forget like what's going on
    AngieM12 AngieM12 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    We dated for a really long time,

    I did things with him I thought I would never do, we made so many memories and when I thought we would last forever he ended it like it was easy to just walk away and didn't even try to fix anything.. Now everything he ever said to me I just feel like it was all lies and it...
    ashiee14 ashiee14 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    Is Everything A Lie?

    i met my husband after a terrible previous relationship, he was like a fresh intake of fresh air- honest, funny, everything that i needed and wanted in a man, and we fell madly in love. it was like 'wow! this is what relationships are supposed to be like!!'  he had had a bad...
    heartsgone heartsgone 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    All Of These Lines..

    It crossed my mind to sell his passport to the highest bidder. That stupid, childish grin. We were going to be married. The tiny nose he inherited from his mother.. it never really looked right on a man's face. He has the bluest eyes. What an idiot. He loved me then. My...
    xxLulu xxLulu 26-30, F Nov 24, 2012

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    Live In House With X And His New Girlfriend

    I had not been in a love relationship for quite some time. Actually, my husband passed away in April 2012. He and I had been separated for 3 years, but were still married and during that time I didn't date anyone else. Well, my best friend was trying to play matchmaker and set...
    gooder2 gooder2 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    It Happened Again.

    I feel so numb right now...The love of my life just broke up with me...Yet I got no reason, or excuse. Just message that we are over and gone....I can feel my heart ache and slowly die. I can't see the light anymore...Not without her...I will be forever sunken into darkness...
    MalrakEhis MalrakEhis 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 9, 2013

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    Yeah I was hurt badly by the only one I loved.

    I love him with all my heart he was the only thing I cared about. Then one day I turned around and stabed him in the back.
    Lilbit69 Lilbit69 16-17, F Jun 25

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    Looking at this group

    and all the stories i think its fair to say at some point we are hurt badly by the one we love. But that's why there is a thing called forgiveness. Sometimes there things that are unforgiving. For me i have not come to that. Not with the one I truly love. Don't get me wrong he...
    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F Mar 19

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    I gave him everything I had.

    I gave him so many chances. It was just girl after girl and lie after lie. He left when I needed him most and ruined one of my most cherished relationships.
    MhairiM MhairiM 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    All that love does is hurt you untill you bleed

    from inside and leaves scars loving will hurt you question is " how can you stop loving people that hurt you "
    AngieM12 AngieM12 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Eileen

    my first wife left me fo a travelling german salesman leaving me wiht the 2 kids 2 and 4 and then she had the nerve to come back a year later wanting them back never i kept them
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 2 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    I Hate To Admit That She Is Still My Everything

    She is the youngest person I have ever been in a relationship with, She is 22yrs old, and 5yrs younger than me. Things just moved so fast between us, and I fell for every ******* word she said to me. She said she loved me, she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me, she...
    jvent85 jvent85 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    My dad. Wanted him Proud

    even though he always shreds me.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Jun 21

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    I was sexually abused by my father,

    brother, two sisters and two uncles when I was younger. A year ago I found out my siblings were making plans to start it again and talking about whether they wanted to sell me or keep me as their own slave. I feel so betrayed and hated. I can't completely trust anyone anymore.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    My Mom... and my ex..

    . i hate my ex but i still love my Mom so much....<3
    lovebug19980 lovebug19980 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Can The Person You've Been Hurt By Really Change?

    I gave my heart away to the one person i loved the most, She left me for another girl awhile back, she used to be a big player. I didn't talk to her for maybe 2 years, until she lost her farther. But recently, me and her started talking again, I love her a lot, and i can tell...
    beinme247 beinme247 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2012

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