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I 've Been Hurt Badly By the Person I Truly Loved

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    It Happened Again.

    I feel so numb right now...The love of my life just broke up with me...Yet I got no reason, or excuse. Just message that we are over and gone....I can feel my heart ache and slowly die. I can't see the light anymore...Not without her...I will be forever sunken into darkness...
    MalrakEhis MalrakEhis 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 9, 2013

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    About five years ago my soon to be ex told me

    that he had had an affair many years ago. What is a wife to do? We had one child when this affair happened. We went on to have two more. I thought everything was perfect in our marriage. I had no clue. To find out over 15 years later. I mean how was I suppose to react...
    2findme 2findme 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    Me and my boyfriend just broke up

    and he ****** his ex and said bad **** about me to her .
    idek999 idek999 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    As soon as I met this boy,

    I fell in love! He is really cute, but very childish. I had tried to look past it, but he's a player. I invited him to the school dance, and the day of he said he couldn't get a. l ride, when I had offered to take him. He talked all the time to me in the one class we had...
    HeadWest HeadWest 16-17, F Jun 22

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    Live In House With X And His New Girlfriend

    I had not been in a love relationship for quite some time. Actually, my husband passed away in April 2012. He and I had been separated for 3 years, but were still married and during that time I didn't date anyone else. Well, my best friend was trying to play matchmaker and set...
    gooder2 gooder2 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    Crystal Clear

    Crystal Clear. I never felt I needed to be crystal clear on anything. Clear was always good enough for me. I thought if I needed to be crystal clear about something then I was never really clear on it to begin with. I was told by a woman she was in love with me and I felt she was...
    AgingGracefully AgingGracefully 51-55, M 5 Responses Oct 17, 2011

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    I've been in love with her

    for the past year and I told her and she friend zoned me and now she talks about guys that she likes and when I think of her I get the worst pain in my stomach I hate it!
    dannyd99 dannyd99 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    This is a sad story if u wanna hear it.

    Breaks my heart to think back...someone I adored and trusted with every fiber of my existence only to have it shattered....
    spankwire spankwire 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    Those Feelings May Grow Old But Never Fade Away.

    About eight, nine years ago I had a girlfriend that I thought would one day be my wife. She was nice, beautiful, smart, funny, and all this and that. Well because of family issues she had to move away. We kept in contact with snail mail and eventually email. Then one day I was...
    MalrakEhis MalrakEhis 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    It's been about a few weeks

    since my girlfriend and I broke up. I didn't have any GOOD friends when we were together, she was my confidant with everything in my life. I have found my time without her to be very depressing and lonesome. I fear I may be developing a drinking problem because it seems like I...
    michaelv2191 michaelv2191 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    I was sexually abused by my father,

    brother, two sisters and two uncles when I was younger. A year ago I found out my siblings were making plans to start it again and talking about whether they wanted to sell me or keep me as their own slave. I feel so betrayed and hated. I can't completely trust anyone anymore.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Eileen

    my first wife left me fo a travelling german salesman leaving me wiht the 2 kids 2 and 4 and then she had the nerve to come back a year later wanting them back never i kept them
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 2 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    We dated for a really long time,

    I did things with him I thought I would never do, we made so many memories and when I thought we would last forever he ended it like it was easy to just walk away and didn't even try to fix anything.. Now everything he ever said to me I just feel like it was all lies and it...
    ashiee14 ashiee14 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 21

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    Yes I have the love of my life broke my hurt

    last night so I cut myself..I have never done it before until last night
    Lilbit69 Lilbit69 16-17, F Jun 21

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    I Hate To Admit That She Is Still My Everything

    She is the youngest person I have ever been in a relationship with, She is 22yrs old, and 5yrs younger than me. Things just moved so fast between us, and I fell for every ******* word she said to me. She said she loved me, she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me, she...
    jvent85 jvent85 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    Is Everything A Lie?

    i met my husband after a terrible previous relationship, he was like a fresh intake of fresh air- honest, funny, everything that i needed and wanted in a man, and we fell madly in love. it was like 'wow! this is what relationships are supposed to be like!!'  he had had a bad...
    heartsgone heartsgone 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    My mom and I had a falling out

    when I was in High School. She didn't talk to me for a week. My grandma was in the hospital for a collapsed lung and the doctors literally told her to give up. Whenever I came home from school, it was nice to know she wouldn't be in the house and when she came home I would go to...
    kaps105 kaps105 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    How stupid am I I keep trusting

    that he would change but I know that it will never happen. Some people just can't change. he will remain a liar, cheater, and a thief
    Darkrestlessdove Darkrestlessdove 31-35, F Jun 9

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    & The Worst Part Is I Still Miss You

    & The Worst Part Is I Still Miss You By: Me Written on November 23rd, 2012 & The Worst Part Is That I Still Miss You "I still remember our first conversation." That reminds her of him, because it's true. She does remember their first conversation. She met him at a fair, and fell...
    SheWillBeLoved1234 SheWillBeLoved1234 13-15, F Nov 23, 2012

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    Investment With No Return

    Gave my heart away and stayed faithful and loyal even in the midst of temptation and got nothing back in return. I hate feeling like the victim but I can't help but say I really am. Makes me think about all the times guys tried to get with me, I had football players lawyers...
    NatATTACK NatATTACK 22-25 Nov 22, 2012

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    Can The Person You've Been Hurt By Really Change?

    I gave my heart away to the one person i loved the most, She left me for another girl awhile back, she used to be a big player. I didn't talk to her for maybe 2 years, until she lost her farther. But recently, me and her started talking again, I love her a lot, and i can tell...
    beinme247 beinme247 16-17, F Nov 25, 2012

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    Yeah I was hurt badly by the only one I loved.

    I love him with all my heart he was the only thing I cared about. Then one day I turned around and stabed him in the back.
    Lilbit69 Lilbit69 16-17, F Jun 25

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    My dad. Wanted him Proud

    even though he always shreds me.
    converted converted 46-50, M Jun 21

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    Looking at this group

    and all the stories i think its fair to say at some point we are hurt badly by the one we love. But that's why there is a thing called forgiveness. Sometimes there things that are unforgiving. For me i have not come to that. Not with the one I truly love. Don't get me wrong he...
    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F Mar 19

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    I'm so sick and tired of loving!

    Does anyone have any idea to stop loving and stay in peace?
    MayAO MayAO 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    All Of These Lines..

    It crossed my mind to sell his passport to the highest bidder. That stupid, childish grin. We were going to be married. The tiny nose he inherited from his mother.. it never really looked right on a man's face. He has the bluest eyes. What an idiot. He loved me then. My...
    xxLulu xxLulu 26-30, F Nov 24, 2012

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    He has shown many times he hates. He is never wrong its always my fault. Why if he hates me and I do nothing right or to his satisfaction, why he keeps hurting instead of letting...
    wonderMe07 wonderMe07 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I've been hurt a lot in the past so it's really hard for me to open up and trust people. So many guys but not that many would be so sweet and caring saying they won't leave and...
    WoundedDreamer WoundedDreamer 16-17, F Jun 24

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    I thought I was loved once, but he decided he didn't want to be with me and threw me away after 4 years. I worry I'll never be truly loved.
    karabeara123 karabeara123 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I be in a relationship for a long time I'm not perfect I made from the I never slept with anyone since I've been with him I mean I was not there for him the way I should have been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 22

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    I Have Likee Been Hurt But Will Never Let That Effect My Future..
    StylishMonroe StylishMonroe 18-21, F Jun 23

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    In our past, lies our future. I've had an unpleasant early childhood. I've been laughed at, bullied, treated unfairly. But when I think back, I cherish my past, for it made me...
    BillyEmad BillyEmad 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 23

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    Sincw you've been gone, I've been peaceful. I supposed what I really missed, felt remorse over, over pained about was the missed opportunity... But there was always something that...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm not a strong person, at least I don't think I am. I've been through my share of difficulties and trials and somehow or another I've managed to squeeze my way through them. It's...
    CloakedStranger CloakedStranger 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    If I was to write every single detail, I'd probably be typing all night. Plus I am too lazy :P But well me name is Emily, I'm 17 years old. I was raped when I was 12 by a...
    Emily97x Emily97x 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I've been chased by a chicken. I'm a better runner now.
    Uxio Uxio 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Totally agree to this. I feel like our experiences in life will make us better people. And hopefully someone will listen to me and take my advice for what I've been through. I'm...
    carebear1019 carebear1019 31-35, F Jun 29

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    I am stronger because of all I've been through... I was 16 when everything happened. It all seemed to snowball honestly. I had been home sick with the flu. I was staying at my...
    Ginnty Ginnty 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    I so often wish that I had been a beautiful person. Maybe it would reduce the loneliness I feel. Maybe I not feel so rejected. I hate feeling betrayed by my own hair, skin...
    tastyfrzz tastyfrzz 46-50 Jul 6

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    I've been listening to Dirty Diana all night!
    amari101 amari101 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I am strong-I think i am strong because of the kind of pain i feel now whenever someone orders me to do something.I used to feel guilty,that it's all my fault...but now i don't...
    samy666 samy666 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Well I was here before but then left. I originally came here in July 2010. So I've been here a little while. It's nice to come back and find a few familiar faces. I'm not...
    1SweetL 1SweetL 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    I've been through a lot I went to prison for two years to protect my wife And she repaid me by divorcing me for another man
    dfries63 dfries63 46-50, M 7 Responses Jul 5

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    I may only be fourteen but I've been through a lot. I went through, a hard stage of depression and cutting, I tried suicide once. I had to come out of the closet to my parents...
    LizzyQ7788 LizzyQ7788 13-15, F Jul 5

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    Held practically hostage in a foreign country?Check! 13 years married to a abusive psycho? Check! Fleeing for my and my children's lives? Check! Arriving back in America broke with...
    IStillGotIt IStillGotIt 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 7

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    I've been grinding my whole life niqqa.Know what I'm talking bout?In all honesty, I hate these guys. There's just so much wrong with hood culture. Gangster rap has such a negative...
    IndoSavior IndoSavior 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    when I was little my parents were very well not good parents I would cry and they would send me away to a hospital pump me full of meds then send me home. when I was 12 I was...
    Yungbug Yungbug 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Deep down I'm hurting. I know it's all my fault, and karma has kicked in. The only man I've ever loved and ridiculed has moved on with another woman and expecting a baby. I wanted...
    lickem30 lickem30 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I don't know how to put this into words. But I want to feel loved. I want someone to love me so much that they will come see me at 2 am when I'm laying on the floor, crying my eyes...
    saviecook saviecook 16-17, F Jul 11

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    I was married to my ex for about 4 years. We have been separated for about 2 months already. I was doing good and moving on. However I came across some information that he was...
    WonderAlot WonderAlot 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago