I 've Been Hurt Repeatedly By Someone Who Can't Say I'm Sorry

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    I went to my friends kids birthday party

    who is close with my ex.. He showed up and completely ignored me... Which is what I thought I wanted, either way I knew in this situation I wasn't going to win I just hoped that I was going to be strong enough to not be overwhelmed and depressed. But with my borderline...
    frozenFire6767 frozenFire6767
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2013

    Just Can't Say It......Those Words.....

    The words hit you like daggers, piercing what ever armour you had, over and over, it rings in your ears, it floats in your mind, you hear them time to time in the after math, You lash back in defence, confusion crosses their faces, as to why you retort back, your...
    DarkThornedLilyRose43 DarkThornedLilyRose43
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 21, 2013

    I just hate it when someone can't admit

    that he is wrong despite the fact that he repeatedly hurt me emotionally and can't even say sorry and take accountability about what he has done.
    mabuhayka mabuhayka
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 6, 2015

    I don't know what makes me more upset.

    The fact that I am repeatedly hurt by the same person. Or that I let them. Am I supposed to forgive someone who has never apologized?
    zeetalo zeetalo
    26-30, F
    Jan 8, 2014

    In October of 2012, I met a neighbor in my

    building who became my friend, but now I look back and realize she wasn't my friend after all. At the beginning, I learned she's an alcoholic and a smoker. She had this guy who mooched off of her and ran her home, and wouldn't leave when asked to. He believed he lived in her...
    noaht43 noaht43
    46-50, T
    Feb 18, 2014

    I am currently married to a woman

    who cannot apologise when she hurts me. that in itself mass me fell worthless for years until i realised its her problem. sure she will nudge me and give me a look. nowadays she will even hug. she still wont say it though. i have stopped waiting. now i tell her she is wrong...
    IWillNeverTellALie IWillNeverTellALie
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 26, 2013

    Oh I hear how sorry he is.

    it just never effects the next time.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    May 14, 2015

    We live together but we don't ever talk about

    anything important or fun. He "sleeps" downstairs bc he finds it difficult to sleep in bed with me. I do my best to communicate what my problems & flaws are and explain how I know it affects the relationship but the response I get from him is always generic w/no discussion of...
    jry5 jry5
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 14, 2015

    Sorry Men... Want apologize!

    Sorry men! Do things constantly that will cause them to have to say I"m sorry! Sorry men are just like grown kids. Or Kids that never grew up! Always doing something hateful saying something hateful to apologize. Well. What makes them this way? Mean, hateful and selfish! They...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 6, 2015

    I still stick with him no matter what.

    I think it's time to let go now, wounds will never heal.
    candy0706 candy0706
    22-25, F
    Feb 22, 2014

    My mother, actually. She's never been the most

    supportive person, and every time I think she's changed she goes and makes some snide comment about me again. She's as stubborn as I am and has never apologized for anything she's done. I doubt she ever will.
    mhenson144 mhenson144
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 7, 2014

    If Only...

    If only I had known this was how it was going to turn out. That instead of the break up being an easy one, and instead of having to pay for the decision of mine to break it off, then maybe I wouldn't have done it. Just not entered into the relationship to begin with. What would...
    frightful24 frightful24
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2013

    My mother is probably dealing with some kind of

    personality disorder. I forgive her. She's not the slightest bit motherly towards me, she always puts my birthday off until my sister's birthday has passed and she never bites her tongue. She says no one will ever want to marry me. She says my children will hate me. I graduated...
    nutdumpster nutdumpster
    26-30, F
    Dec 19, 2013


    She had a dysfunctional childhood so, she expresses herself the best way she knows how. I've never had the courage to tell her just how it hurts and as I type this, it's with tears in my eyes that I never knew what a "mother" in the least scathing sense of the word meant. But I...
    blackwantonheart blackwantonheart
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 22, 2013

    She never wanted to hurt me

    when she was sober... and ALLWAYS did when she was jacked up
    41-45, M
    Dec 7, 2013

    Cannot Or Will Not

    Those are two totally different choices. One stems from impossibility. One stems from possibility. She is alive and can think for herself and can communicate rather well, so it is not a matter of impossibility. She can communicate, therefore it is indeed within her ability to...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti
    36-40, F
    Oct 10, 2013

    My Mother

    I always hesitate to write stories like this here, because I am fully aware that I sound like a whiny spoiled teenager. However, I treat this site like it's my diary, and so I will write everything, unafraid of judgment from people who don't even know me.I have always had issues...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 28, 2013

    My ex best friend completely changed me.

    I used to love him but now I just wanna cut off his d!ck. And my friends and current best friend keeps reminding me of him. Idk whAt they're thinking
    ThatWeirdGayKid ThatWeirdGayKid
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 18, 2015

    Thanks For The Note

    It was my friend Angela's birthday on Friday. Her boyfriend flew out to California to spend the weekend with her and I bought her a cake and screen printed a shirt for her. We had some stuff planned out like meals and games and other things. All of us have been hanging out...
    jwheat jwheat
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2013

    Being a Libra I constantly look to please

    someone. I had a friend. Let's call her "Jen". Jen and I were BESTIES. One day Jen stabs me in my back. An altercation began,and we ended up getting suspended for fighting. On the last day of my suspension,Jen came to me and said"sorry". It was obviously a bullshit sorry,but...
    Shinestorm Shinestorm
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 31, 2013

    He has a Personality Disorder,

    so I keep telling myself, its not really him, this is his disorder, he can't see how much he hurts me, he doesn't really mean it.... but how long can I keep going for? When his thoughts are so distorted, and he sees me as the enemy, no matter what I do its always me who is in...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 24, 2014

    I Guess She Was Never My Bestfriend

    ok. umm there was a friend of mine who was in my school till 8th and we were kind of good friends then she left the school. after 4 yrs she came to my school and we'd become real close friends. i'd used to share everything with her n she did the same. few people were jealous of...
    cheerfulgirl7 cheerfulgirl7
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2013

    He Can't Say The Words.

    .. It's like the words are not part of his vocabulary...it's always someone else's fault. slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman
    46-50, F
    Jan 21, 2014

    The Best Thing For Me: Divorce.

    I know that the best thing for me would be to divorce my husband you cannot take me seriously or let me fully, But there's this little part of me that wants to stay in a marriage and be that couple in 50 years celebrating their 50th anniversary. He treats me horribly, he doesn't...
    Bancheemom Bancheemom
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jul 27, 2013

    Tired Of Being Hurt!!!

    All I ever wanted was to be loved, and wanted and desired.. But instead you choose to hurt me.. you lie to me, you have lied since the beginning, and chose not to tell me the things that needed to be said in the beginning... I have stayed, I have dealt, I have cried.. You don't...
    cooki66 cooki66
    51-55, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2013

    All it takes is just saying "I'm sorry".

    .. and actually mean it.
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    May 14, 2015
    TheBigHero6Freak TheBigHero6Freak
    70+, F
    Aug 6, 2015
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