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I Ve Been In An Interracial Marriage In The Past

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    A few of my white girlfriends are involved in an interracial marriage. They all have kids by a black man as I do. Other white girlfriends are dating black men and two of them are...
    nudistwifeandmother nudistwifeandmother 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I totally believe in interracial dating and marriage. Many of my white girlfriends have dated and married outside their race. They even have children by men outside their race...
    maturemominbackyard maturemominbackyard 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    "Sexual Aversion Disorder" I am not sure if anyone has ever posted about this in this group...Actually I am sure someone has but I cannot find such post. apparently there is an...
    JackHawthorne JackHawthorne 31-35, M 7 Responses Aug 31

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    I believe this statement wholeheartedly however in a marriage there needs to balance of love and intimacy and so many other things. We can't always be what our spouse hopes for or...
    honeyangel7 honeyangel7 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have failed my my wife. It took an entire year for me to be able to admit that or even see it. For the last year it's been "my wife is selfish" or "my wife is unreasonable." But...
    TonyM323 TonyM323 36-40, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I hooked up with this nice girl about three times in the past. Outside of my marriage. The first time I screwed her, the second time she gave me a blow job, the third time a hand...
    Cummer38 Cummer38 36-40, M 1 hr ago

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    My friends Jully, She is from Columbia, she is pure black, but she want to marry a white America, recently she joined in a dating site interracialloving.com , really it’s a...
    interracialloving interracialloving 22-25, F Sep 2

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    I am scared to death of doing this all on my own! No job, or anything. This has been holding me back for so long, though. My fear, and my marriage. I'm not happy, and haven't been...
    Itsmytime2be Itsmytime2be 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    My girlfriend is White with bit of Native American and Eastern European while I am Taiwanese. Despite always dated Asian in my past, I knew early on I would want to have an...
    Santiago4DD Santiago4DD 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I found an interesting study on sexlessness in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. I can't share the full pdf because there's no way to upload it here, but I will copy and paste the...
    RedOctagon RedOctagon 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 2

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    I've always been attracted to white men but I've never been in a relationship with anyone outside of my race idk maybe I should try moving to a place where interracial...
    suxsco suxsco 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 11

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    I keep going back to the past...It keeps coming back to me...I can't get rid of it...i can't get it out of my mind...I'm losing people because i am so sad all the time...They think...
    EmoNekoNiki EmoNekoNiki 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    Well well well.... Its almost a year gone by since writing my last post! I did it! I mustered up the strength to separate from him. It was the hardest hardest thing i had to do in...
    angelique0706 angelique0706 41-45, F 13 hrs ago

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    I've been married for quite a while. I love my wife but it seems that mean her can't really stand each other. everyday we just go through the motions, which really isn't a good...
    SweetHugs SweetHugs 41-45, M 8 hrs ago

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    When I originally posted in April of 2011, I was living in a sexless marriage. I was confused, heartbroken and angry... What happened in the 3 years following has nearly destroyed...
    malms malms 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F Aug 26

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    My husband and I have been together ten years, and married for seven. Sex dropped off right after the wedding. Over our married years, we have typically had sex every other month...
    VanillaAlmond1 VanillaAlmond1 31-35, F 22 Responses Sep 2

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    For those of you who have been following my SM, you know that I've been struggling with depression and low self esteem. For the past few years I've been struggling with ADHD...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 7 Responses Aug 25

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    I want to begin this by saying that I was once a completely normal girl. I grew up in a house with a yard, two parents who were hard workers and a lazy pet dog. I never got into...
    Naivegirl0963 Naivegirl0963 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 2

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    Undecided whether to post this under this group or under the other one "I'm having random thoughts", I believe posted here the discussion shall be more thoughtful and sensitive...
    TheMaverickWoman TheMaverickWoman 36-40, F 11 Responses Sep 15

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    I have been denied sex by my wife for the past 24 years. I acknowledge that in the beginning I was responsible for most of the problems in the relationship. I was an alcoholic and...
    davejgj davejgj 66-70, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 23 Responses Aug 27

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    I don't just live in a sexless so-called marriage. I live in a dead and humiliating marriage. It's never been any more than what it is now. I need to learn to see my spouse as he...
    MamaAbby MamaAbby 56-60, F 10 Responses Sep 1

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    I did not write the following but it is a great take on what an open marriage is like and what it should be like. I found this article at Salon.com. What I learned from dating...
    sosexyincolo sosexyincolo 36-40 2 Responses Sep 11

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    Hi, I'm new here and thought I would reach out and share my story. I found EP from an article on the website when I was looking up sexless marriage. I signed up to read the...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 17 Responses 4 days ago

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    I had a successful sexual experience last night. I didn't feel dirty or used after. I really talked at length with my husband about the events of my childhood. He assured me I'm...
    coffeeIover coffeeIover 26-30, F 7 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Hello Everyone! Have been reading experiences for few days, found people across the globe in same situations share their sadness on the issue. Inspired by such experiences...
    Raaj4rp Raaj4rp 41-45, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    So here is another day of sleeping in and me taking care of our daughter. He is so unbelievably selfish. He only works 3 days a week and has yet to get a job full time. All he...
    Fedup31 Fedup31 31-35, F 13 hrs ago

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    I have been married for almost 17 years and having an affair with the same person for almost 8 years, off and on.
    funlecy1 funlecy1 46-50, F 5 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I have another story for my new friends... The incident that set me off to tell him to leave is as follows... Our daughter has allergies and sometimes I give her allergy meds...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 12 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I just want to say I heart you all for your responses to my experiences. The hardest part about living in crazy town is that no one really hears you. They have all had the wool...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I'm black & Brazilian and my fiancé is a Caucasian from EUROPE. I love him! If you have a problem with interracial dating then, on well. 😘
    Nolove89 Nolove89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I think interracial couples make cute babies 89% of the time.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 26

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    I'm in an interracial relationship. I'm in love with the guy, I have very supportive friends and family. Very sad to know some people aren't that fortunate and end up loosing the...
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F Aug 27

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    Interracial Relationship is a real adventure. I think a lot of people are still intimidated by it. I used to be, but I had the courage to try it and it worked out.We both had our...
    Evesdaughter Evesdaughter 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    I think it’s about time I make a final decision. My 20 year anniversary is coming up in 2 short weeks. Normally this would be a time for great celebration. I see it as an...
    beachlivin04 beachlivin04 41-45, M 18 Responses Sep 9

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    This year has been one hell of a year already. After 7 years of being married, I decided that I just couldn't handle anymore of it. For the last 5 years, I have overanalyzed every...
    AloneandWantingOut AloneandWantingOut 26-30, F Sep 11

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    They always seem to work out fine for me.... I'm black,white and Puerto Rican so naturally I have no problem with people loving whoever they want it has worked out fine for...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Oh wait, I mean "Won't". "Won't" wait until marriage.
    RustinCohle RustinCohle 18-21, M 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    If you're giving your all to someone, and its not enough, you're giving it to the wrong person. I found an interesting quote the other day. I think it bears some reflection...
    LaoTzu LaoTzu 41-45, M 7 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Former member checking in. I wrote in I am Dating After a Sexless Marriage but it seems pretty quiet over there... so I am checking in here, too. It has been an amazing journey...
    awakeforthedancechecksin awakeforthedancechecksin 36-40, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    I can never focus on what's happening around me. I don't try to focus on my past, but I can't help it. The memories are just so clear, so vivid. They flash through my mind's eye at...
    Tsalokath Tsalokath 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    8,165 to 1 Revisited. In a recent story I suggested the raw data showed that the odds of your ILIASM shithole turning around were 8,165 to 1. Been thinking about it a bit more...
    bazzar bazzar 56-60, M 24 Responses Aug 27

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    I am so angry I was in school well it's not really a proper school but that's not the point here , so yeah I was in school yesterday and two of the boys ran past me and twisted my...
    DemiendoImaginations DemiendoImaginations 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    I love my wife but I don't feel like I get enough recognition from her for trying to be good. Culturally we are different. Socially we are different. I try to accept her culture...
    MrFKDT MrFKDT 22-25, M Aug 29

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    New to all of this. Help please I feel like my marriage is falling apart and I don't know what to do. My husband and I have been married for 9 years and have been together for 10...
    hopeful1220 hopeful1220 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I know this is very sad to say but I don't believe in true love or marriages anymore. It is because of the kind of marriage I'm in currently. I used to think when I get married it...
    michellegh michellegh 36-40, F