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I Ve Been In An Interracial Marriage In The Past

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    Hi all! First off i am so happy to see i am not alone! Being a PK is a really unique lifestyle. So here's my story. My mom was saved when i was very young and dive into religion...
    Vals892 Vals892 22-25, F Jul 10

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    I am 65 and my wife is 62. We have been together for over twenty years and married for six. I love my wife very much and tell her so frequently. We are compatible and agreeable in...
    worksforme2 worksforme2 61-65, M 13 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I'm not really sure how to begin, or what to say... I once had a wonderful woman whom I adored and loved. Some how this all fell apart around a year ago... Sex gradually became...
    Jaden1971 Jaden1971 41-45 14 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I think I belong to this group with my story instead of ILISM, or both.. Something just doesn’t feel right on the inside of me. I have this heart that can love and be loved, but...
    moonstruck77 moonstruck77 46-50, F 4 hrs ago

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    I have been a member of this forum for nearly two years now. During this time, I have gone through the most challenging experience of my life –a divorce from my wife of nearly 3...
    Buroak Buroak 51-55, M 7 hrs ago

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    I have been a member of this forum for nearly two years now. During this time, I have gone through the most challenging experience of my life –a divorce from my wife of nearly 3...
    Buroak Buroak 51-55, M 13 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I love Caucasian men 😬,never been with one but wanted to always try 😏
    ladydove20 ladydove20 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Curious. If there are any men here who find themselves to be past the point of a new start due to being unattractive to women generally, how do you envision your life post-sexless...
    novembercomingfire novembercomingfire 41-45 17 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    recently i was in a serious car accident , and of course it has been very traumatic and this is a time more than ever that i need my wife to be there for me to provide some love...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 15 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I posted earlier about my marriage failing thru stress from autism. To the women who have severely autistic children. My wife says she fell out of love because she can't handle the...
    heartbroke73 heartbroke73 41-45, M 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I am only in it because I need his financial support for our kids. He cheated on me last year and it ruined our 20 year marriage. He lied repeatedly and I am exhausted with all...
    Lifeissad789 Lifeissad789 46-50, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My husband recently took a job as a youth pastor. He is excellent at his job, and the middle & high school kids love him. He has received a lot of affirmation from his mentors and...
    MrsMamaLindy MrsMamaLindy 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    Double Standard- I'm the product of one and people often say, "So your father's black?" And are stunned when I say, "No my mother. She doesn't do black men. My dad's from Belarus...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I have been working through this for a long time, and I have a question. I need to try to assess whether I am being unreasonable, going crazy, silly etc. I have been married 20...
    endofthetether endofthetether 41-45, M 19 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    You beat my mother up whilst she was pregnant with me & screamed that you didn't want a baby. I was born on the 5th of February 1994 and for a second, you had changed your mind. So...
    EBAAA EBAAA 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    My wife absolutely refuses to message me. We've been together 15 years, and the last 2 years have been completely text free. 3 years ago we did try and spice things up by sending...
    RicRaver RicRaver 41-45, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I got out 6 weeks ago... Heartbreaking but it was destroying me. He'd been wonderful for 3 years and then it was all gone. Iv found the last 2 years desperate. No affection except...
    allisnotlost allisnotlost 56-60, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I don't live in a completely sexless marriage. But I live in a marriage where I am rejected if I make the first move and we only have sex if he wants to, which is rare. This means...
    lisanalfie lisanalfie 36-40, F 18 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    In an effort to make a long story short, I will sum up by saying that I have been married to my husband for 11 yrs and we started dating in high school 15 yrs ago. We had our first...
    Jme0925 Jme0925 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    My ex boyfriend is Hispanic and I am a black woman. I've been almost two years and have gone on dates but nothing has gone well. Although I'm attracted to white guys, I'm pretty...
    kbabe0181 kbabe0181 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Marriage is a total trap for men. Like a lot of people, this experience starts with a relationship between 2 people, then life happens. Anyhow there's these 2 people, they...
    carpediemer carpediemer 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I told my husband that I want a divorce. I have known for a little over a week now that I need to leave him. I care about him: he is the father of my children and a good man, but I...
    ladyintricate ladyintricate 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 30

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    For about a year I've been considering divorcing my wife of nearly 8 years. Our relationship has never been great. We are great friends, but horrible lovers/spouses. We do things...
    randomtiger45 randomtiger45 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    I posted this experience before, but deleted it cos I thought we were breaking up, then I realised I was making a horrible mistake, and luckily he loved me enough to fight for us...
    suzieb1971 suzieb1971 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I love seeing interracial relationships. My mom and sisters have dated many black guys and had their babies too. Some of my girlfriends are dating and pregnant by black guys too...
    lovechildreninside lovechildreninside 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    I love interracial relationships. My mother and some of my siblings, and friends have been involved in them for years. I have several family members that are biracial and I love...
    vickianderson69 vickianderson69 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I have been in an interracial relationship off and on since I was 13. I had my first biracial baby at 16. I dated only black males in middle school, high school, and in college...
    vickianderson69 vickianderson69 41-45, F Jul 20

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    Update from me....things are better! Counseling is going very well. I am proud of myself, first of all. The first day of marital counseling, I was so nervous and the weight of...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 18 Responses 4 days ago

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    I m loosing hope that the marriage will get any better and am starting to plan an exit
    Stefunie Stefunie 46-50, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I'm catholic and marriage is necessary. I understand that but I just don't believe in it. Whenever I think about it I start feeling suffocated or something like that. I don't like...
    Kimberlynnn Kimberlynnn 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Sort of an update to my situation. But I'm sure it's not anything new to many of us who have been here for a while. For the record, I'm aware of my options, and the following isn't...
    angryspartan angryspartan 36-40, M 12 Responses Jul 18

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    I never dreamed I'd find myself here. I never imagined it would all end this way for me. I'm new here to this forum but I am not new to SM. I haven't lived it as long as some of...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 1

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    I sometimes feel like i'm teetering on the fence of outsourcing or trying fixing things with my husband. Some days I feel like I owe it to myself and my family (kids/husband) to...
    asterinight asterinight 31-35, F 16 Responses Jul 2

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    My college sweetheart and I have been married 21 years and we have three children (11-20). My wife desires no sex. I pay very close attention to and meet her needs in all other...
    NoTalkJustDo NoTalkJustDo 41-45, M 10 Responses Jul 13

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    Sometimes I feel that things happen quickly. And that they happen for a reason. Two weeks, wow! A lot has been packed into these last two weeks. First of all, my sister is a lot...
    katzlaw katzlaw 36-40, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hope this does not end up too long. I've noticed a lot of people telling their story so I want to tell mine. I used to go to a predominantly Caucasian school. My sister and I...
    miazhane miazhane 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    People judge all the time about interracial relationships. I had no idea that it would be my own mother.
    bariblessed bariblessed 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I think interracial relationships are awesome it's not about the skin color or the race . It's about how they make u feel. An when I'm walking with a women of a different race an...
    jsmith247 jsmith247 26-30, M Jul 1

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    I don't agree with interracial dating.. I think everyone should stick with there own kind. There are to many mixed race children in this world and it's frustrating to see!!
    cherrikisses22 cherrikisses22 22-25 8 Responses Jul 14

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    I am in an interracial relationship and pregnant by him too. We are not planning on getting married.
    lovechildreninside lovechildreninside 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    I've been married for 17 years. He has help me to raise children from my first marriage and we have 1 of our own. He has medical issues that have lowered his sex drive. This...
    CrazyKatLady CrazyKatLady 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I'm in an interracial relationship. My boyfriend Kris, and I. #Swirl
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    My fiancé and I are 12 years apart and an interracial couple. Absolutely love him
    BiRacialGoddess BiRacialGoddess 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I love interracial dating to me race doesn't matter just who you are as a person. Ever since I started dating I dated outside my race and don't plan on stopping.
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm 29, married for 5 years, 2 beautiful kids. Unfortunately like most here I live in a sexless marriage. I have for several years. Now some will say, your young and just not happy...
    incognito21 incognito21 26-30, M 15 Responses Jul 1

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    I have posted a couple of times about my refuser and our sexless marriage, but feel compelled to post an update. We are in marriage counseling, and she is also getting some...
    mistereko mistereko 36-40, M 16 Responses Jul 5

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    Will I ever get over my marriage? I got divorced bc of the stress my dysfunctional relationship was giving me. The lack of intimacy, love, compassion, the sickness of it all. It...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 36-40, F 16 Responses