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I 've Been In Love And Betrayed

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    So a few days ago I found out I was cheated on .

    .. But it's the second time it happens!! >.< but what can I do /: only move forward... Sucks cuz before we started dating we were great friends.. Sometimes we think we know someone when really we don't. /:
    eflor1436 eflor1436 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I have been hurt twice ,

    i have learnt not to let this happen a third time. I have been abused physically and mentally by people i trusted the most. I am strong i got out, i put the wall up and so far so good.
    crystallyne crystallyne 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 9

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    A Married Man, A Girlfriend, And Being A Mistress Without Knowing It - How Did I Get Myself Into This Mess? It Was All Because Of Love!!!

    Ohhhhhh *sigh*... How do I even begin telling my story?? It will definitely be a long one! Well, let's start by telling you that I thought I met my "soul mate" while I was in another country learning how to make Asian baked goods. To be able to fall in love with someone so...
    aziansunshine aziansunshine 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    Hurting

    The thought of you touching someone else made me sick. Finding out what you did put me in the hospital. My trust, my heart, my sanity, taken in the blink of an eye. You're more than a cheater, you're a thief.
    vivirmivida vivirmivida 16-17, F 14 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    My 3rd boyfriend of 6 weeks dumped me.

    He claimed that it was because his son and I didn't get along, but I don't understand why he didn't give me a chance to try to work things out with the both of them. He told me he loved me constantly, and that he felt I was the one God created for him. Its amazing how things...
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    EmptyAgain EmptyAgain 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    Betrayal, Another Learning Experience

    It helps you to make decisions that you might otherwise delay when it comes to that person. It makes you not trust them anymore. It helps you to come to terms with the person in your mind with thoughts you may have been struggling with. It gives you a gut perspective about...
    phatnhapi phatnhapi 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    My bf of almost a year left me today.

    Again. I keep giving him second chances but today was different it was the end today. I feel heartbroken and horrible. I just want to find a man that is my "soulmate"
    paige5677 paige5677 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 14

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    My ex changed as soon

    as he got his police badge. I noticed for a whole year an increase in arrogant self esteem. By the second year he had become emotionally and physically abusive. And he made me feel insignificant compared to him. Because he is a cop and has a mortgage. While i am still in...
    Francesca004 Francesca004 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I want to be in love .

    .... Real, life changing, long lasting . Love.
    laU21 laU21 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    a heartbreak is a blessing from god its just

    his way of letting you realize he saved you from the wrong one
    elle2122 elle2122 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 26

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    B1ngo B1ngo 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 15

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    So my boyfriend has been acting really

    suspicious lately and i caught him checking out one of my really close friends who to say the least bit is gorgeous and it really has me concerned and feeling a little self conscious lately especially because out sex life hasn't really been that great either and he seems to be...
    cutdeepkate cutdeepkate 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    I Read This Somewhere

    “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sa...t down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking...
    Angelwithbrokenwingsxo Angelwithbrokenwingsxo 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    I was involved with a much older man,

    who in the end, turned out to be nothing more than a child in an adult body. He betrayed me, when I was sick. It left me feeling beyond hurt, and broken. I do not regret what we had, or how it ended, because if it didn't end, I would not be with the man, I Love so much, and who...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 3

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    Heeey, guys!How are you guys?

    I hope you guys are doing fine. Well, I'm not here to post a story about me needing advice. Instead, I'm here because I want you guys to know that if you need advice I'll definitely be here for you. I love helping people. I really do. I've been told that I give good advice by...
    Maoli Maoli 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Jackal And Hyde

    I really thought you were the one, but I guess I was wrong. I feel a bit decieved and used. I kind of thought I was with a conn. But we go through life thinking that everything is all good and fine and next minute something happens out of the blue that makes you think twice about...
    dannah777 dannah777 22-25, F 7 Responses May 22, 2012

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    My husband recently revealed

    that he cheated many times. He just told me he wants me to sleep with people so we can be even? ><
    pinkmouse31 pinkmouse31 31-35, F 21 Responses Jan 25

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    My heart was shredded & minced,

    then placed back inside my chest with the expectation that it should somehow know how to beat again.
    kittysaurus kittysaurus 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    So as a teenager during high school,

    I was very irresponsible. This event that happened is what made me quickly become more responsible and mature, even though I do act stupid and silly at times. But when I was with my first girlfriend, I did something terribly wrong and this was when we were 15. I got her pregnant...
    CatastrophicViking CatastrophicViking 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 14

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    Hi I had been trying not to moan,

    but tonight i am so devastated and feel so sad and hope writing this with tears on my eyes would somehow help.. I met a guy two and half years ago, in edinburgh festivals. And we directly became close. He was fun, good looking for his age.. I live in Germany and he lives in...
    flyingviking flyingviking 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 15

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    Have You Ever Been In Love....and Betrayed??

                                                  ...
    genglicious genglicious 26-30, F 13 Responses Sep 1, 2010

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    "Be careful who you share your weaknesses with.

    Some people can't wait for the opportunity to use them against you."
    J4cob J4cob 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Of All The Love Stories, I Like Ours The Best

    That's what she told me on our last anniversary. I gave her almost 22 years, how could I have been so blind that I didn't see the writing on the walls? I worked no less than 80 hours a week as a Paramedic so that she could stay home with our children. I thought everything was...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M 15 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    I feel nothing. Literally nothing.

    No love, hope, desire - nothing at all towards anyone. I used to love, feel happiness, hatred. Then one day, it just went away. I don't feel depressed or any sort of emotion. I wish I could feel again. Feel anything- even pain.
    Jaeid77 Jaeid77 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 9

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    I was cheated on by my girlfriend of over a year

    and I am completely perplexed at how someone you love and trust completely can go and lie to your face, then stab you in the back.
    minigeddy1998 minigeddy1998 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 29

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    I just can't get past the suspicion

    that he is still cheating. First it was a one night stand, then it was friends w/benefits, next he asked that we be loyal to each other. I was but found out after he moved in that he had been having sex with at least 4 others during that time before he moved in. There have been...
    lonley1962 lonley1962 51-55, F 10 Responses Mar 4

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    Sometimes I feel like I'm taking a step back in

    my healing. Since I have kids with my ex there is no escape from the man who killed a part of me. I hate having my kids watched by the woman who he had an affair with him. She struts around like she did nothing wrong. How she doesn't feel guilt for her part is beyond me. I...
    KellyP64 KellyP64 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 10

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    I loved this guy, I respected him

    and respected his family and i treated him soo nicely and i never asked him for money or anything, i just wanted him to be happy and I always prayed good things for him. And whenever he was angry about something, i would calm him down, But one day a girl ruined our relationship...
    PrincessSparkles11 PrincessSparkles11 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 13

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    I was gullible and a vulnerable queen to

    promises. Perhaps, it is because I had this craving that no one else could feed but the man that took the vows with me. I only wanted a complete family. I don't want my children to heal a deep-seethed emptiness which is beyond measure. I did not only love but was fooled. I was...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    Betrayed!

    When I was 13, I lost my virginity to a 16 yr old. I was a smitten kitten!! We were together for 4 yrs. He moved in and we got engaged. All was goin well...till I got to be "too old" for him. I soon found out he was cheatin on me...with a 13 yr old!!! I beat his *** AND her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    It's a difficult situation to go through.

    The person who you've once loved for years decides to betray your love and trust. When you confront them about it they say things like, "I love you. I would never try to hurt you." Or "I didn't mean to. I wasn't planning on doing anything with these women." You ask him to change...
    KlassyKay21 KlassyKay21 18-21 2 Responses Mar 13

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    I was very very young

    but I knew it was love, REAL love. He was a douche, but the only positive outcome was he made me smarter with men.
    lexix0 lexix0 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I have a boy that I like

    and we talked a lot but I have my friend who he hate but I feel like he's leaving me to go to her.. Even though he said he doesn't like her.. But we had drama he ignored her and talked to me a lot but now them two talk and he's barely talking to me idk what to do, I'm hurt a lot...
    tigerunited tigerunited 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Please don't get Me wrong,

    Im not harsh/rude in any way. I feel that the truth good or bad helps us to understand things in our lives so we can correct what may need correcting....... Who?...What?...Where?...why?...When?...How? Do you ask yourself the questions above on a Daily basis? I can give You...
    PsychicLisa PsychicLisa 26-30, F Apr 3

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    I'd kind of given up on love

    because my life was such a disaster at the time. But I hired a dog walker who turned into my girlfriend who turned into my wife. She was a single mom so I became a father in the deal. I felt so much love I could barely believe it. Then she betrayed me in every way possible. But...
    Pathfinder108 Pathfinder108 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Why do men do this? Why do they lead us on,

    making us believe they love us or are at least majorly interested then as soon as things start getting serious they either back out or express their feelings for another woman? I met a young man who befriended me and over a period of a few months flirted and led me to believe...
    LovesWarrior LovesWarrior 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 22

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    At my worst time, and

    when I needed someone most in my life, he shut me out. I later learned he had begun dating my best friend. I felt outraged, humiliated, completely alone, and betrayed.
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm so attracted to my husband,

    but at the same time repulsed because of his actions. I feel so alone when we have days off together and miss him while he's at work.......I don't trust him and feel like everything that he says is a lie.....he's not these that I thought he could be.....so I don't act like the...
    Feelingunworthy Feelingunworthy 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 10

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    I grow up and raised by a Catholic parents

    and studied in catholic schools from high school to college..and as I grew up I use to view relationship as a sacred one, and even praying to find someone a husband that will loved me and never betrayed me...But it turned out that I was wrong..I've been feel hurt and in pain for...
    Anne38 Anne38 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 22

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    Broken Heart.

    Back a little over 10 years ago I thought I had found love it was a big move for me literally as I left California to move to Florida. I moved to be with him something I would only do for real love now she would have to love me to be willing to the same for me. You see I made a...
    RJ43 RJ43 41-45, T 3 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    My ex got pregnant 3 months

    after we split for another man, 9 months later she gave birth to her baby boy on the same day I was celebrating my birthday........ Karma??
    ryanscorpio ryanscorpio 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I Love Knowing I ❤️ without Limits

    although my heart has been 💔- I know God has a purpose for a person/sinner like me- 🙏
    Ms12nv Ms12nv 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    The feeling always stays.

    For this reason I have trust issues and I have a problem with letting people into my life. The first success in solving a problem is admitting you have one.
    DeAundreVP DeAundreVP 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    My Bf Betrayed My Trust

    my boyfriend who I've been dating for 2 years cheated on me with a nanny. I broke up with him but couldn't say away from him because I missed him so much. but now it's hard for me to try keeping it together even though I have forgiven him (I think), it's constantly always on my...
    fk25 fk25 18-21, F 12 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    after 8 years of a relationship my girl left me

    saying we are not good for each other..... if we were not good for each other then what was there which took 8 years......
    rsssmcet rsssmcet 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 7

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    Tip toe... Tip toe. Be careful

    who you love. Tip toe... Tip toe. Be sure to make no noise. Tip toe... Tip toe. Watch out for where you step. Tip toe... Tip toe. His stomp will shut you up.
    badbacteria badbacteria 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    So here's something ironic.

    I was back with my ex boyfriend that I almost got engaged to about seven weeks ago and trying to work things out. Well he seemed rather put off about everything and didn't seem like he was putting any effort into working through our past problems and trust issues. I had to do...
    Jockey0321 Jockey0321 22-25, F Apr 11

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    The Night My Life Changed Forever

    This was one of the hardest things I ever went through. It changed who I was as a person. I met my ex-bf when he was working on his PhD. We started dating and a year after, he graduated and had to go to another state to do his post-doc. We decided we'd stay together and do the...
    writingablog writingablog 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    After 3 years, he cheated on me in Afghanistan.

    I gave him everything. And he cheated on me. Not just like a one night stand type of thing...he told everyone we were broken up and was dating a girl in his unit in Afghanistan for about 3 months. It truly broke my heart. That was the last time I was going to give him a second...
    ObviouslyAlex ObviouslyAlex 16-17, F 17 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    How Does One Ever Begin To Trust Again?

    How does one ever begin to trust again? They say if you fall off a bike or a horse you should get right back on. What if you break your leg or arm in that fall? Sure that bone will heal in time, but it is not the same as having your heart broken. We give ourselves to others...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    Once it seemed the stars had aligned,

    and dropped love in my lap. I was crazy over heels. Time ran by in each other's company. Now and then I was overwhelmed, so much together after being alone. I got used to having someone. Found out they're bisexual, wanted a gay love on the side. I consented with reservation...
    Itsquiet Itsquiet 26-30, M Mar 13

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    Worst Feeling Ever...

    Back many moons ago while still in college, I was in a 5 1/2 year long relationship with a woman who upon first meeting, had a 10 month old little girl named Madeleine. After six months of dating, she finally told me that she had a daughter as I was always wondering why we were...
    idlewatcher idlewatcher 31-35, M 37 Responses Sep 1, 2010

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    I didn’t think I would post about this one

    so soon. But I hate having it hanging over my head so I’m just going to do it. I was with my last boyfriend for 5 years and 9 months. We lived together for the past few years. We broke up about two months ago. We had plans to get married, have children, grow old, everything...
    peachespicnic peachespicnic 22-25, F 16 Responses Mar 26

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    This is all very new

    and I'm struggling to deal with it.. I hope it gets easier with time... I have a great job which I've neglected since we broke up but I just can't seem to focus on my work.. Keep me in your prayers please everyone xx
    behappy2014 behappy2014 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 9

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