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I 've Been In Love And Betrayed

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    lately theres been so much ugly

    and nice things, that happened to me over the years, or has happened to somebody I know in the few years,anyways im going to be typing about it a lot to make it get out of my head..the biggest question is where to start ? on august 18th ive decided to cut all ties with somebody...
    MyraTomPhil MyraTomPhil 26-30 1 Response Aug 20

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    I was cheated on, when I forgave was my mistake,

    I have reason to believe he constantly talked to other girls the whole time, but he used me for every dime he could get out of me, all the time breaking down my spirit and killing the person i was before i got with him My stupid mistake, i finally got away two weeks ago, and am...
    ImJustJen ImJustJen 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    About a few years ago I was going out with this

    guy from school, we were both into each other, had sex a lot but we were quiet about it, no one knew about our relationship but about 8 months into the relationship and I walk into Maths class to find him kissing another women, I dropped my stuff on the floor and I was in shock...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    I have enough money to buy alot of things I

    want. but stood in my room admiring the things i own and yet I realized the thing I want the most I can never have all I want is her back and feel I am less a man now that I have ever been
    Gothamnightmare Gothamnightmare 22-25, M Aug 14

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    I guess the person who broke you,

    can't be the one to fix you.
    Wonderlandd17 Wonderlandd17 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 31

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    I hate the other woman

    and I was told not to put her name on this site or she could get me for slander. I dont care I hope that someone on this site knows her husband and can tell him she slept with my husband. Im pissed at my husband also I dont totally blame her I hate them both right now. I just...
    unhappywife16 unhappywife16 41-45, F 15 Responses 6 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    It sucks when you miss

    that person so much that you look through old photos, old text messages, even old statuses. And it brings a smile to your face, but then the hurt comes back and you know you shouldn't be looking back, but you can't help it because they really meant something to you and you...
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 3 Responses May 4, 2014

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    It's crazy how the ones

    that tell you they love you, are the ones that cause you so much pain.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    My hubby of four years

    who I've actually been with for 8 years cheated on me and may have gotten the girl pregnant and now I feel like my life is on hold I'm so I can find out if he is the father of her child I'm torn apart we have a three year old together I just don't understand what happened I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Aug 20

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    After 3 years, he cheated on me in Afghanistan.

    I gave him everything. And he cheated on me. Not just like a one night stand type of thing...he told everyone we were broken up and was dating a girl in his unit in Afghanistan for about 3 months. It truly broke my heart. That was the last time I was going to give him a second...
    ObviouslyAlex ObviouslyAlex 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Who hasn't? I can think of two

    such situations but I'm only comfortable talking about one right now. When I was a little younger I fell in love (the stereotypical love at first site malarkey) and it felt amazing. I spent years pining after this person and growing closer and closer to them. One day they...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm a work in progress I'm working on

    forgiveness, but the betrayals and pain won't go away.. I'm here because of my children.
    unhappywife16 unhappywife16 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    From someone here. It hurts like Hell

    but I forgive in deed and truth. Will I get a shot to show it?
    poiemajeremiah poiemajeremiah 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 4

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    I Read This Somewhere

    “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sa...t down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking...
    Angelwithbrokenwingsxo Angelwithbrokenwingsxo 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    my bf of 6 months cheated on me with my sister,

    i walked in on them as they were showering together, i dumped him on the spot and i havent talked to my sister since,
    celine16 celine16 16-17, F 14 Responses Mar 9

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    It was a hard lesson

    for me to learn that someone who says they love me and I've been so close to for years could betray me. It left me wondering if I wanted to even put myself in the position of possibly being hurt again but I came to the conclusion that keeping my heart open to the possibility of...
    didyouseethat didyouseethat 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    In my past relationship,

    I felt this way. Now I am comfortable with who I am with.
    piscesdame piscesdame 26-30, F Aug 20

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    Of All The Love Stories, I Like Ours The Best

    That's what she told me on our last anniversary. I gave her almost 22 years, how could I have been so blind that I didn't see the writing on the walls? I worked no less than 80 hours a week as a Paramedic so that she could stay home with our children. I thought everything was...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M 8 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    I've been in love many times.

    I've been in love many times but not like this. She was a shy girl that I met in middle school. People were always awful to both of us and she had a crush on me. Our friendship cultivated into something that I hadn't expected. And by high school I considered her lifelong friend...
    NewNonsense NewNonsense 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I am in love with you.

    But you are no longer in love with me. Yeah, sure you say you love me. But you don't. Haven't been for most of our marriage. Why did you marry me? Why did you have to be with her? You messed everything up- not me- so why am I the one hurting?
    BlueEyedFaye BlueEyedFaye 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    How was I betrayed in love?

    No, my wife did not cheat on me, as far as I know. I feel betrayed by her lies. Many little lies pertaining to our money and how she spends it. Little amounts and bigger amounts, all unaccounted for. We had a budget that we made together. She has never been able to abide...
    Aeonian Aeonian 51-55, M 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    Love can be strange, Love can be rough,

    When you get in range, It can be enough. Love is to feel, Love is for the heart, When it's surreal, Two will never part.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    I didn’t think I would post about this one

    so soon. But I hate having it hanging over my head so I’m just going to do it. I was with my last boyfriend for 5 years and 9 months. We lived together for the past few years. We broke up about two months ago. We had plans to get married, have children, grow old, everything...
    peachespicnic peachespicnic 22-25, F 17 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    sucks loving someone

    and not getting the same in return...I guess there comes a point where you just have to stop trying because it hurts too much to hold on anymore
    jsamira jsamira 26-30, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    i'm just going to keep writing

    because i'm feeling the hurt right now. it's been months... about 4 now? and i'm still crying over him. pathetic, right? he was my first love but what was i to him? just a girl to pass the time with when he wanted? a naive girl to lie to and play so easily? was it fun? does it...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I come to Ep to write stories.

    I come to EP to vent and pour out my expression and thoughts. I do not want to be close to anyone here on a personal bases I just want to help others by sharing my experiences and if I can advice. Do not be offended if I don't seem friendly it's just a higher step I have taken...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I found the love of my life

    when I was in my 20s. I admired him greatly and was completely in love. He was very gentle and gentlemanly. I met him through my sister who was dating his housemate. I was setting out on my student journey and he was coming to the end of his. He was in my life for 2 and half...
    vocaleyes vocaleyes 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 29

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    I fell in love with the girl of my dreams

    and one day without any kind of warning she betrayed me and I will never forgive her or forget her but sadly I still love her 💔
    Gothamnightmare Gothamnightmare 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I was on here before,

    made friends, and got hurt. It was quite a few years. When I first came on this site it was just another place to write. I soon learned there were some very depressed people here. I suffered from depression and wanted to help if I could I soon found myself being overwhelmed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I thought I had the best boyfriend .

    I was blind I guess. When I finally learnt the truth. It was a messy breakup. As messy as it gets. But now I feel so much better without him. So girls and guys out there. stay strong. Its all for the best.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 19

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    I guess you wouldn't consider it love,

    especially the age and how it ended, but I was fooled. I thought I wasn't alone anymore. I thought she had healed my sad and depressed heart. I was wrong. My name is Angela. This story takes place when I was in the 3rd or 4th grade. There was this girl named Carmen. She didn...
    xBrokenHeart xBrokenHeart 13-15, F Jul 8

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    ive been in three real relationships.

    my first was with my high school boyfriend which lasted 2.5 years on and off towards the end cause i find out he cheated on me heaps (yes at the time i was stupid enough to keep going back to him, but i was inlove) second relationship was with a guy i meet through friends that...
    misterygurl04 misterygurl04 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 3

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    I'm experiencing a big issue.

    I love and adore this person and to know that my loyalty and love has been taken for granted. I have the ability to get this person in trouble because he is in law enforcement I know he filed a false report. My loyalty and love has made me a bitter person. because I gave so...
    unhappywife16 unhappywife16 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    The saddest/best part (depends on what colour

    glasses you have on at the moment) of it all is... Now that I don't want any of the two men I've loved before anymore, they want me again....and for the life of me I can't find a single spark from the raging fire of love and passion that once burned for each and every one of...
    SirenBlaze SirenBlaze 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 6

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    You ever love somebody

    who can't love you back? That's the cruelest form of betrayal.
    Iloveu4eva Iloveu4eva 22-25, F 10 Responses Jul 30

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    Worst Feeling Ever...

    Back many moons ago while still in college, I was in a 5 1/2 year long relationship with a woman who upon first meeting, had a 10 month old little girl named Madeleine. After six months of dating, she finally told me that she had a daughter as I was always wondering why we were...
    idlewatcher idlewatcher 31-35, M 36 Responses Sep 1, 2010

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    I found this recently

    and want to share. I did not write it--I can't remember who did: " If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth."
    Sinfulkisses869 Sinfulkisses869 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Betrayal, Another Learning Experience

    It helps you to make decisions that you might otherwise delay when it comes to that person. It makes you not trust them anymore. It helps you to come to terms with the person in your mind with thoughts you may have been struggling with. It gives you a gut perspective about...
    phatnhapi phatnhapi 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    what can you do if the only one

    who can fix you is the one who broke you?...
    Gelyn143 Gelyn143 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 17

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    Seems all 5 of my relationships have ended in

    betrayal. Wish people would just be honest and true. Whats wrong with integrity these days.
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 29 Responses Jul 14

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    "I learned that who doesn't look

    for you doesn't miss you, and who doesn't miss you doesn't care for you... That destiny determines who enters your life, but you decide who stays... That the truth hurts only once and a lie everytime you remember it. There are three things in life that leave and never return...
    Oceans42 Oceans42 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    I figured out recently right

    when I fell head over heels in love with my ex. It was right before he met her. We had had sex in my car and then we went back to his house and made love on the couch. A week later he went to a Christian retreat. He met her there. He had been so into me. Texting me constantly...
    riverz riverz 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 3