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I 've Been In Love And Betrayed

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    I thought I had the best boyfriend .

    I was blind I guess. When I finally learnt the truth. It was a messy breakup. As messy as it gets. But now I feel so much better without him. So girls and guys out there. stay strong. Its all for the best.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 19

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    I was on here before,

    made friends, and got hurt. It was quite a few years. When I first came on this site it was just another place to write. I soon learned there were some very depressed people here. I suffered from depression and wanted to help if I could I soon found myself being overwhelmed...
    onlyhere2write onlyhere2write 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Seems all 5 of my relationships have ended in

    betrayal. Wish people would just be honest and true. Whats wrong with integrity these days.
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 31 Responses Jul 14

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    I come to Ep to write stories.

    I come to EP to vent and pour out my expression and thoughts. I do not want to be close to anyone here on a personal bases I just want to help others by sharing my experiences and if I can advice. Do not be offended if I don't seem friendly it's just a higher step I have taken...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was cheated on, when I forgave was my mistake,

    I have reason to believe he constantly talked to other girls the whole time, but he used me for every dime he could get out of me, all the time breaking down my spirit and killing the person i was before i got with him My stupid mistake, i finally got away two weeks ago, and am...
    ImJustJen ImJustJen 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    Some years ago I wrote an article about my

    first kiss on the beach on a sunset. It was really romantic, the guy I was with I thought of to be the one. He had all good qualities in him, an eligible bachelor could be- good looks, wits, looks, humor. He was a 2nd year medical student. He's a graduate now, I and my family...
    Hopu Hopu 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I was in love and got hurt badly.

    I cant find a boyfriend in reality coz they all want just sex...and Im not like that. I have ugly past and I suffer from anxiety depression disorder. Im a painter. So I have last hope that Im gonna find someone nice here. with blue eyes and blond hair.
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 7

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    I loved someone and shared my feelings about

    him to my friend. They never meet each other until last march 21 , we attended the graduation celebration of my cousin , he was there because he is a friend of my cousin and on the other hand, I invited my friend, they finally meet each other and I never realized that that night...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 17

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    I never want him back,

    and I will never forget him.
    Skyrulez Skyrulez 36-40 2 Responses 40 mins ago

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    About a few years ago I was going out with this

    guy from school, we were both into each other, had sex a lot but we were quiet about it, no one knew about our relationship but about 8 months into the relationship and I walk into Maths class to find him kissing another women, I dropped my stuff on the floor and I was in shock...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    Betrayal, Another Learning Experience

    It helps you to make decisions that you might otherwise delay when it comes to that person. It makes you not trust them anymore. It helps you to come to terms with the person in your mind with thoughts you may have been struggling with. It gives you a gut perspective about...
    phatnhapi phatnhapi 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    When my ex-wife left me many years ago

    for another man and a lifestyle of drinking and drugs.I went through many years of self pity and depression. I look back and now think why was I such a big *****? Here's some sage advice to newbies going through this now...Mourn the lost,get angry,feel like crap .After that make...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M Jul 2

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    I guess you wouldn't consider it love,

    especially the age and how it ended, but I was fooled. I thought I wasn't alone anymore. I thought she had healed my sad and depressed heart. I was wrong. My name is Angela. This story takes place when I was in the 3rd or 4th grade. There was this girl named Carmen. She didn...
    xBrokenHeart xBrokenHeart 13-15, F Jul 8

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    You have to love life.

    It's always bringing great things in but at the same time sticking a knife in your heart so deep. I've been falling for this girl a lot she talks to me almost everyday. We got to know each other very well these last few months. She would always watch out for me and care for me...
    magatsuizanagi magatsuizanagi 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    It sucks when you miss

    that person so much that you look through old photos, old text messages, even old statuses. And it brings a smile to your face, but then the hurt comes back and you know you shouldn't be looking back, but you can't help it because they really meant something to you and you...
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 3 Responses May 4, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 29

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    He was like a poem to me.

    he had this undertone of sadness about him.. that's what drew me in. I was attracted to his pain and because of that we were doomed to failure.
    aarinxg aarinxg 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I figured out recently right

    when I fell head over heels in love with my ex. It was right before he met her. We had had sex in my car and then we went back to his house and made love on the couch. A week later he went to a Christian retreat. He met her there. He had been so into me. Texting me constantly...
    riverz riverz 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 3

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    The one girl who I honestly loved

    and couldn't help but go back to her time and again as if she were my drug had Borderline Personality Disorder. She couldn't control her rage, I opened up about my childhood issues and scars but after, during some fights she would throw insults and blame me for things from my...
    Schizotistic Schizotistic 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    How was I betrayed in love?

    No, my wife did not cheat on me, as far as I know. I feel betrayed by her lies. Many little lies pertaining to our money and how she spends it. Little amounts and bigger amounts, all unaccounted for. We had a budget that we made together. She has never been able to abide...
    Aeonian Aeonian 51-55, M 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I haven't had a boyfriend in years!

    I am kind of traumatized from asking boys (or men, since I am like 18 now) out. None will just come up to me of course. I know nothing is wrong with me, my looks are fabulous! No matter how ugly I am.
    Fastravel Fastravel 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 21

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    When my ex-wife left me many years ago

    for another man and a lifestyle of drinking and drugs.I went through many years of self pity and depression. I look back and now think why was I such a big baby? Here's some sage advice to newbies going through this now...Mourn the lost,get angry,feel like crap .After that make...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 2

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    The last time I was on EP was quite a long time

    ago when I wrote a small paragraph thanking everyone who had read "My Story" and gave me tremendous support. Though I was overjoyed to have received such warm and thoughtful comments filled with encouragement, I was sad and caught up in the emotional distress of a heartbreak...
    amcintyre94 amcintyre94 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    I was with my ex for 3 years

    until he told me that he had cheated on me with a married woman and she was currently 6 months pregnant. Funny thing was he still wanted to work it out. It took me awhile to get over him but I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason. I'm a stronger, more...
    GngrBitch GngrBitch 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 20

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    To the point where I was beginning to think

    there was something horribly wrong with me. I've had 8 girlfriends before my current one. Each and everyone without exception has cheated on me. As you can imagine my self esteem was little more than crushed dust. So for the longest time I turned into an @$$. Then I was taught...
    LastTrueGentleman LastTrueGentleman 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I found this recently

    and want to share. I did not write it--I can't remember who did: " If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth."
    Sinfulkisses869 Sinfulkisses869 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    It was a hard lesson

    for me to learn that someone who says they love me and I've been so close to for years could betray me. It left me wondering if I wanted to even put myself in the position of possibly being hurt again but I came to the conclusion that keeping my heart open to the possibility of...
    didyouseethat didyouseethat 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    After 3 years, he cheated on me in Afghanistan.

    I gave him everything. And he cheated on me. Not just like a one night stand type of thing...he told everyone we were broken up and was dating a girl in his unit in Afghanistan for about 3 months. It truly broke my heart. That was the last time I was going to give him a second...
    ObviouslyAlex ObviouslyAlex 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I always shunned people

    who got involved in online relationships.. Never thought in a million years it would be me! Him and I planned to meet after several months of skyping texting and phone calls every day. We have built such a strong relationship... I have NEVER connected with someone so deep like...
    HazelBliss85 HazelBliss85 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    Love can be strange, Love can be rough,

    When you get in range, It can be enough. Love is to feel, Love is for the heart, When it's surreal, Two will never part.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    A Married Man, A Girlfriend, And Being A Mistress Without Knowing It - How Did I Get Myself Into This Mess? It Was All Because Of Love!!!

    Ohhhhhh *sigh*... How do I even begin telling my story?? It will definitely be a long one! Well, let's start by telling you that I thought I met my "soul mate" while I was in another country learning how to make Asian baked goods. To be able to fall in love with someone so...
    aziansunshine aziansunshine 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    my bf of 6 months cheated on me with my sister,

    i walked in on them as they were showering together, i dumped him on the spot and i havent talked to my sister since,
    celine16 celine16 16-17, F 14 Responses Mar 9

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    My ex girlfriend dump me two weeks ago.

    To be with a man Friday he dump her then she come running anyone know how to get her to stop bothering me.
    Monica101487 Monica101487 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    You ever love somebody

    who can't love you back? That's the cruelest form of betrayal.
    Iloveu4eva Iloveu4eva 22-25, F 10 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    ive been in three real relationships.

    my first was with my high school boyfriend which lasted 2.5 years on and off towards the end cause i find out he cheated on me heaps (yes at the time i was stupid enough to keep going back to him, but i was inlove) second relationship was with a guy i meet through friends that...
    misterygurl04 misterygurl04 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 3

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    i had a 9 month relationship with guy trom

    pakistan. we fell in love deeply. we would spend time together, go for road trips, eat out, laugh, listen to music, kiss and cuddle and obviously other things. it was very intense. Then at the beginning of may this year he told me he was going back home to*see his parents*. im...
    reyyah reyyah 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 15

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    Wife was f-cking my best friend.

    Kids do not care about anybody except themselves Have not seen two of them since 2003. One stole all my hierlooms from my parents. Other I brought up never even bothers to acknowledge me Oldest son I saw three years ago says one thing and means another. Fathers Day. What fathers...
    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M 7 Responses Jun 22

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    A person once told me this "Our love is meant

    to be, there's a good reason why we meet" When I read that, I never realised that this just a typical love quotes you may see when you hit on the search bar. I guess I was just feeling insanely happy because it felt so good. So let me write to you the experience I had. I...
    MaharlikaAko MaharlikaAko 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bellecc11 bellecc11 26-30, F Jul 7

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    I do not come on EP as often

    as I used to but, to my surprise, there are a number of people asking for updates as well as advice on other issues. My last update went into detail about my disability and how I overcame a terrible heartbreak and to encourage people to move on from their own break-ups and other...
    amcintyre94 amcintyre94 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    The saddest/best part (depends on what colour

    glasses you have on at the moment) of it all is... Now that I don't want any of the two men I've loved before anymore, they want me again....and for the life of me I can't find a single spark from the raging fire of love and passion that once burned for each and every one of...
    SirenBlaze SirenBlaze 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 6

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    I Read This Somewhere

    “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sa...t down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking...
    Angelwithbrokenwingsxo Angelwithbrokenwingsxo 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Worst Feeling Ever...

    Back many moons ago while still in college, I was in a 5 1/2 year long relationship with a woman who upon first meeting, had a 10 month old little girl named Madeleine. After six months of dating, she finally told me that she had a daughter as I was always wondering why we were...
    idlewatcher idlewatcher 31-35, M 37 Responses Sep 1, 2010

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    I love someone who stopped loving me a long

    time ago. what is wrong with me?
    SavvRayne06 SavvRayne06 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 23

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