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I 've Been In Love And Betrayed

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 20,094 People

    Worst Feeling Ever...

    Back many moons ago while still in college, I was in a 5 1/2 year long relationship with a woman who upon first meeting, had a 10 month old little girl named Madeleine. After six months of dating, she finally told me that she had a daughter as I was always wondering why we were...
    idlewatcher idlewatcher 31-35, M 37 Responses Sep 1, 2010

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    I asked this one girl out

    and she said yes. I had enough money to take her and I out to a movie and she didn't show up. On the Monday after the weekend she was supposed to be at the movies with me she has been avoiding me ever since.
    Taylor222222 Taylor222222 16-17, M 7 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    A few times. Twice

    for a roof. Once for who knows.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 22

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    Newpaz Newpaz 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 29

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    Don't get I to a relationship

    if you can't give it your all. Your absolute 100%. Relationships take work. There must be love, trust, honesty, faith, understanding, and loyalty. If you can't do any of that, you're setting yourself up for failure and to hurt the other person.
    Philli8807 Philli8807 26-30, F 2 Responses May 30, 2014

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    peace2014 peace2014 41-45, F 9 Responses Jan 30, 2014

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    Have You Ever Been In Love....and Betrayed??

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    genglicious genglicious 26-30, F 14 Responses Sep 1, 2010

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    I have just come out of a relationship that's

    left me questioning the past year of my life. Everything was so good other than the exes of both ours was determined to not have me and bf together,&he even asked me to marry him. I've always been negative when looking ahead or in relationships, & he went out of his way to...
    bellastar1 bellastar1 41-45, F Mar 22

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    It's been 7 years. She cheated.

    I forgave. She left. Since then I've come to know that she was cheating all our married life. I don't love her anymore. In fact, I rarely think of her, and I've grown to the point where I wish her no harm and have no ill will. However, I do wonder if I'll ever truly be in love...
    CaliforniaDr CaliforniaDr 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    Of All The Love Stories, I Like Ours The Best

    That's what she told me on our last anniversary. I gave her almost 22 years, how could I have been so blind that I didn't see the writing on the walls? I worked no less than 80 hours a week as a Paramedic so that she could stay home with our children. I thought everything was...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M 11 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    I'd kind of given up on love

    because my life was such a disaster at the time. But I hired a dog walker who turned into my girlfriend who turned into my wife. She was a single mom so I became a father in the deal. I felt so much love I could barely believe it. Then she betrayed me in every way possible. But...
    Pathfinder108 Pathfinder108 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I have been dumped by my partner of 5 years

    for a straight girl with a husband and 2 kids.
    Tiffany12lchat Tiffany12lchat 22-25, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    ...and yet I still love

    and miss him so much!
    carabella01 carabella01 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    my ex put a fake love on me :( he is have gf

    already ??i feel dosappointed rn
    xaviergauthierbluhenharmon xaviergauthierbluhenharmon 13-15, F 2 Responses May 6

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    I Read This Somewhere

    “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sa...t down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking...
    Angelwithbrokenwingsxo Angelwithbrokenwingsxo 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    I was cheated on, when I forgave was my mistake,

    I have reason to believe he constantly talked to other girls the whole time, but he used me for every dime he could get out of me, all the time breaking down my spirit and killing the person i was before i got with him My stupid mistake, i finally got away two weeks ago, and am...
    ImJustJen ImJustJen 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 27

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    I didn’t think I would post about this one

    so soon. But I hate having it hanging over my head so I’m just going to do it. I was with my last boyfriend for 5 years and 9 months. We lived together for the past few years. We broke up about two months ago. We had plans to get married, have children, grow old, everything...
    peachespicnic peachespicnic 22-25, F 20 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    It sucks when you miss

    that person so much that you look through old photos, old text messages, even old statuses. And it brings a smile to your face, but then the hurt comes back and you know you shouldn't be looking back, but you can't help it because they really meant something to you and you...
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 3 Responses May 4, 2014

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    His betrayal has severely traumatized me.

    Worse yet I can't seem to stay away....it's clear I'm only going to recover if I leave him alone completely, and stupidly I slipped back and the trauma has not subsided...when will the betrayal not hurt anymore? is it really a matter of time?
    evynray evynray 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 28

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    Thought you had the perfect thing going on till

    the lies come and shatter your world as you know it.How do you even begin to pick up the pieces?The reality of things felt like a dagger plunged deep into my heart and I'm hurting so bad that I can't even cry. They say it's beautiful to be in love and all but when things fall...
    sirba sirba 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27

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    I've been in love and betrayed 9 times

    or more it sucks -been dumped on vday been dumped because his parents did not want us together been cheated on -been raped
    mistreszmayhem mistreszmayhem 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    It's been 6 months since me

    and my ex boyfriend broke up. He was my first real love and I was his. So much has happened since we broke up. For example at the moment I am sleeping with his friend. He only knows we have kissed, nothing more. Whatever I do, I can't stop missing my ex. I have good days and I...
    Staziaa Staziaa 16-17, F 2 Responses May 13

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    The saddest/best part (depends on what colour

    glasses you have on at the moment) of it all is... Now that I don't want any of the two men I've loved before anymore, they want me again....and for the life of me I can't find a single spark from the raging fire of love and passion that once burned for each and every one of...
    SirenBlaze SirenBlaze 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 6

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    my bf of 6 months cheated on me with my sister,

    i walked in on them as they were showering together, i dumped him on the spot and i havent talked to my sister since,
    celine16 celine16 16-17, F 17 Responses Mar 9

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    A Married Man, A Girlfriend, And Being A Mistress Without Knowing It - How Did I Get Myself Into This Mess? It Was All Because Of Love!!!

    Ohhhhhh *sigh*... How do I even begin telling my story?? It will definitely be a long one! Well, let's start by telling you that I thought I met my "soul mate" while I was in another country learning how to make Asian baked goods. To be able to fall in love with someone so...
    aziansunshine aziansunshine 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    How was I betrayed in love?

    No, my wife did not cheat on me, as far as I know. I feel betrayed by her lies. Many little lies pertaining to our money and how she spends it. Little amounts and bigger amounts, all unaccounted for. We had a budget that we made together. She has never been able to abide...
    Aeonian Aeonian 51-55, M 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    How Does One Ever Begin To Trust Again?

    How does one ever begin to trust again? They say if you fall off a bike or a horse you should get right back on. What if you break your leg or arm in that fall? Sure that bone will heal in time, but it is not the same as having your heart broken. We give ourselves to others...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    My heart was shredded & minced,

    then placed back inside my chest with the expectation that it should somehow know how to beat again.
    kittysaurus kittysaurus 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 6, 2014

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    I am 17 got engaged to the perfect girl

    after 3 month then it went down she cheated on me I forgave her and we stayed to get her for 3 more months she then split up with me and made me feel like the bad one she recently said she is pregnant with my child and it's a 90 percent chance it's mine but she is aborting it no...
    marcrobo2k15 marcrobo2k15 16-17, M 8 Responses Apr 24

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    Betrayal, Another Learning Experience

    It helps you to make decisions that you might otherwise delay when it comes to that person. It makes you not trust them anymore. It helps you to come to terms with the person in your mind with thoughts you may have been struggling with. It gives you a gut perspective about...
    phatnhapi phatnhapi 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    I don't know if I am being used,

    there's this girl that I like, but she is 15 years older then me. She says that she likes me to, but she won't date me because her son is closer to my age. I help her out with her bills even though I don't stay with her. I am 22 and she is 37 and her son is 20 years old. I...
    straightguy2021 straightguy2021 22-25, M 5 Responses May 6

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    I found this recently

    and want to share. I did not write it--I can't remember who did: " If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth."
    Sinfulkisses869 Sinfulkisses869 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    If you're afraid to be hurt again,

    then you're afraid to be loved again. Don't let hearts that didn't love you, keep you from the one that will.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M Apr 30, 2014

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    I am in love with you.

    But you are no longer in love with me. Yeah, sure you say you love me. But you don't. Haven't been for most of our marriage. Why did you marry me? Why did you have to be with her? You messed everything up- not me- so why am I the one hurting?
    BlueEyedFaye BlueEyedFaye 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    Indeed I have, sadly enough in every

    relationship I been in , but the worst was in 2013 , I know this might sound stupid and pathetic ,but he caused me to have an anxiety attack , he put me down, I needed someone but he called me weak . so I stopped asking him for help, I stopped trying to be cute. I did a lot...
    MoonPrincessBetty MoonPrincessBetty 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I fell in love but he left me.

    Used me. Betrayed me. He was not there. Why do I still love them. Why are they still in my heart after they have hurt me. I care so much.
    piperweant piperweant 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    I found out my boyfriend had a relationship

    with another woman and so in love with her.. My heart broke... I cried out loud... I'm hurt... So hurt... My heart broken into pieces ...
    vavaeast vavaeast 36-40, F 10 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I thought I had the best boyfriend .

    I was blind I guess. When I finally learnt the truth. It was a messy breakup. As messy as it gets. But now I feel so much better without him. So girls and guys out there. stay strong. Its all for the best.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 19

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    I've been hurt so many times,

    I think.i will never expirence the meaning of true love
    teddy10566 teddy10566 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 18

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    sometimes..ok a lot of the time.

    .i wish i could go back in time and make it so i never met him.
    justme2151981 justme2151981 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    It was a hard lesson

    for me to learn that someone who says they love me and I've been so close to for years could betray me. It left me wondering if I wanted to even put myself in the position of possibly being hurt again but I came to the conclusion that keeping my heart open to the possibility of...
    didyouseethat didyouseethat 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    I left my boyfriend of 2 years10 weeks ago & I

    haven't seen him in 2 weeks. I finally blocked his texts, calls & Facebook 3 days ago as he keeps trying to get me back. I've told mutual friends to tell him I've gone to another country for 6 months so he can't find me as some of his messages are deranged from 'I'll never leave...
    jazzie1976 jazzie1976 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    She loves me She loves me not She seem to have

    Left me to rot Time ticks by I look to the sky I curl up inside And all i do is cry These memories of you I will hold them dear Because i know You no longer want me near
    TassBurrfoot TassBurrfoot 18-21, M 3 Responses May 11

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    After 3 years, he cheated on me in Afghanistan.

    I gave him everything. And he cheated on me. Not just like a one night stand type of thing...he told everyone we were broken up and was dating a girl in his unit in Afghanistan for about 3 months. It truly broke my heart. That was the last time I was going to give him a second...
    ObviouslyAlex ObviouslyAlex 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Love can be strange, Love can be rough,

    When you get in range, It can be enough. Love is to feel, Love is for the heart, When it's surreal, Two will never part.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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