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I 've Been In Love And Betrayed

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 21,760 People

    A Married Man, A Girlfriend, And Being A Mistress Without Knowing It - How Did I Get Myself Into This Mess? It Was All Because Of Love!!!

    Ohhhhhh *sigh*... How do I even begin telling my story?? It will definitely be a long one! Well, let's start by telling you that I thought I met my "soul mate" while I was in another country learning how to make Asian baked goods. To be able to fall in love with someone so...
    aziansunshine aziansunshine 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    I thought I had the best boyfriend .

    I was blind I guess. When I finally learnt the truth. It was a messy breakup. As messy as it gets. But now I feel so much better without him. So girls and guys out there. stay strong. Its all for the best.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 19

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    The last time I was on EP was quite a long time

    ago when I wrote a small paragraph thanking everyone who had read "My Story" and gave me tremendous support. Though I was overjoyed to have received such warm and thoughtful comments filled with encouragement, I was sad and caught up in the emotional distress of a heartbreak...
    amcintyre94 amcintyre94 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    When my ex-wife left me many years ago

    for another man and a lifestyle of drinking and drugs.I went through many years of self pity and depression. I look back and now think why was I such a big baby? Here's some sage advice to newbies going through this now...Mourn the lost,get angry,feel like crap .After that make...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Indeed I have, sadly enough in every

    relationship I been in , but the worst was in 2013 , I know this might sound stupid and pathetic ,but he caused me to have an anxiety attack , he put me down, I needed someone but he called me weak . so I stopped asking him for help, I stopped trying to be cute. I did a lot...
    MoonPrincessLuna MoonPrincessLuna 18-21, F 4 Responses May 25

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    i had a 9 month relationship with guy trom

    pakistan. we fell in love deeply. we would spend time together, go for road trips, eat out, laugh, listen to music, kiss and cuddle and obviously other things. it was very intense. Then at the beginning of may this year he told me he was going back home to*see his parents*. im...
    reyyah reyyah 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 15

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    dreamweaver60 dreamweaver60 56-60, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    Some years ago I wrote an article about my

    first kiss on the beach on a sunset. It was really romantic, the guy I was with I thought of to be the one. He had all good qualities in him, an eligible bachelor could be- good looks, wits, looks, humor. He was a 2nd year medical student. He's a graduate now, I and my family...
    Hopu Hopu 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    I loved someone and shared my feelings about

    him to my friend. They never meet each other until last march 21 , we attended the graduation celebration of my cousin , he was there because he is a friend of my cousin and on the other hand, I invited my friend, they finally meet each other and I never realized that that night...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 17

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    I wish I have a switch to turn off everything

    in my mind. I thought I were loved. Stupid liar can't even make better excuse.
    Gina9119 Gina9119 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 4

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    Newpaz Newpaz 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 29

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    I asked this one girl out

    and she said yes. I had enough money to take her and I out to a movie and she didn't show up. On the Monday after the weekend she was supposed to be at the movies with me she has been avoiding me ever since.
    Taylor222222 Taylor222222 16-17, M 7 Responses May 24

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    I'm wondering if betrayal is an inevitable

    aspect of love or friendship, like the night follows day.
    James1169 James1169 51-55, M 4 Responses Jun 6

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    My boyfriend coworker is obsessed with him,

    and she is getting really annoying to me.
    shandiva shandiva 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    peace2014 peace2014 41-45, F 9 Responses Jan 30, 2014

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    I have been dumped by my partner of 5 years

    for a straight girl with a husband and 2 kids.
    Tiffany12lchat Tiffany12lchat 22-25, F 3 Responses May 24

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    So of course I went back to him

    because he swore to me and cried to me he was going to change and begged for another chance. I love him so of course I went back. I found out he has more dating websites. My daughters bday was this month and he was messaging these girls the same day of my daughters bday and...
    Ireallycantsay Ireallycantsay 22-25, F 9 Responses May 8, 2014

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    I Read This Somewhere

    “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sa...t down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking...
    Angelwithbrokenwingsxo Angelwithbrokenwingsxo 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    How was I betrayed in love?

    No, my wife did not cheat on me, as far as I know. I feel betrayed by her lies. Many little lies pertaining to our money and how she spends it. Little amounts and bigger amounts, all unaccounted for. We had a budget that we made together. She has never been able to abide...
    Aeonian Aeonian 51-55, M 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I do not come on EP as often

    as I used to but, to my surprise, there are a number of people asking for updates as well as advice on other issues. My last update went into detail about my disability and how I overcame a terrible heartbreak and to encourage people to move on from their own break-ups and other...
    amcintyre94 amcintyre94 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I am in love with you.

    But you are no longer in love with me. Yeah, sure you say you love me. But you don't. Haven't been for most of our marriage. Why did you marry me? Why did you have to be with her? You messed everything up- not me- so why am I the one hurting?
    BlueEyedFaye BlueEyedFaye 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    It's been 7 years. She cheated.

    I forgave. She left. Since then I've come to know that she was cheating all our married life. I don't love her anymore. In fact, I rarely think of her, and I've grown to the point where I wish her no harm and have no ill will. However, I do wonder if I'll ever truly be in love...
    CaliforniaDr CaliforniaDr 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sarahcc11aa sarahcc11aa 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 5

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    Love can be strange, Love can be rough,

    When you get in range, It can be enough. Love is to feel, Love is for the heart, When it's surreal, Two will never part.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    It was a hard lesson

    for me to learn that someone who says they love me and I've been so close to for years could betray me. It left me wondering if I wanted to even put myself in the position of possibly being hurt again but I came to the conclusion that keeping my heart open to the possibility of...
    didyouseethat didyouseethat 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    Betrayal, Another Learning Experience

    It helps you to make decisions that you might otherwise delay when it comes to that person. It makes you not trust them anymore. It helps you to come to terms with the person in your mind with thoughts you may have been struggling with. It gives you a gut perspective about...
    phatnhapi phatnhapi 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    my bf of 6 months cheated on me with my sister,

    i walked in on them as they were showering together, i dumped him on the spot and i havent talked to my sister since,
    celine16 celine16 16-17, F 16 Responses Mar 9

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    After 3 years, he cheated on me in Afghanistan.

    I gave him everything. And he cheated on me. Not just like a one night stand type of thing...he told everyone we were broken up and was dating a girl in his unit in Afghanistan for about 3 months. It truly broke my heart. That was the last time I was going to give him a second...
    ObviouslyAlex ObviouslyAlex 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I found this recently

    and want to share. I did not write it--I can't remember who did: " If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth."
    Sinfulkisses869 Sinfulkisses869 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Have You Ever Been In Love....and Betrayed??

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    genglicious genglicious 26-30, F 14 Responses Sep 1, 2010

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    The saddest/best part (depends on what colour

    glasses you have on at the moment) of it all is... Now that I don't want any of the two men I've loved before anymore, they want me again....and for the life of me I can't find a single spark from the raging fire of love and passion that once burned for each and every one of...
    SirenBlaze SirenBlaze 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 6

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    I love someone who stopped loving me a long

    time ago. what is wrong with me?
    SavvRayne06 SavvRayne06 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 23

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    I have been in love for a year of a man

    which is a lie and was with someone else... I don't understand how people can be this selfish, not caring about the feelings of other beings, blurting out lies like breathing, playing with hearts and collecting them in a jar. I think I will retire myself from online...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 3

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    I'd kind of given up on love

    because my life was such a disaster at the time. But I hired a dog walker who turned into my girlfriend who turned into my wife. She was a single mom so I became a father in the deal. I felt so much love I could barely believe it. Then she betrayed me in every way possible. But...
    Pathfinder108 Pathfinder108 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I figured out recently right

    when I fell head over heels in love with my ex. It was right before he met her. We had had sex in my car and then we went back to his house and made love on the couch. A week later he went to a Christian retreat. He met her there. He had been so into me. Texting me constantly...
    riverz riverz 22-25, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 1 Response May 25

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    I haven't had a boyfriend in years!

    I am kind of traumatized from asking boys (or men, since I am like 18 now) out. None will just come up to me of course. I know nothing is wrong with me, my looks are fabulous! No matter how ugly I am.
    Fastravel Fastravel 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 21

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    Too many times to mention.

    Wish I knew now what I didn't know back then. Living life with whatever happens,happens attitude for the rest of my life. There's plenty of fish in the sea.The day's of fretting over being dumped or cheated on are over.Should have lived like this in my younger more vibrant days...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 6

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    Worst Feeling Ever...

    Back many moons ago while still in college, I was in a 5 1/2 year long relationship with a woman who upon first meeting, had a 10 month old little girl named Madeleine. After six months of dating, she finally told me that she had a daughter as I was always wondering why we were...
    idlewatcher idlewatcher 31-35, M 37 Responses Sep 1, 2010

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    I didn’t think I would post about this one

    so soon. But I hate having it hanging over my head so I’m just going to do it. I was with my last boyfriend for 5 years and 9 months. We lived together for the past few years. We broke up about two months ago. We had plans to get married, have children, grow old, everything...
    peachespicnic peachespicnic 22-25, F 19 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    Wife was f-cking my best friend.

    Kids do not care about anybody except themselves Have not seen two of them since 2003. One stole all my hierlooms from my parents. Other I brought up never even bothers to acknowledge me Oldest son I saw three years ago says one thing and means another. Fathers Day. What fathers...
    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M 7 Responses Jun 22

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    I found out he is active on dating site.

    he sees it as not a big deal and he believes that he didn't do anything wrong.
    Gina9119 Gina9119 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 4

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    It's been 6 months since me

    and my ex boyfriend broke up. He was my first real love and I was his. So much has happened since we broke up. For example at the moment I am sleeping with his friend. He only knows we have kissed, nothing more. Whatever I do, I can't stop missing my ex. I have good days and I...
    Staziaa Staziaa 18-21, F 2 Responses May 13

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    I guess I've never committed the whole story to

    one place, but maybe it wouldn't be so bad, to at least get the details out. Some of them, anyways, as I doubt I'll ever be done talking about this. I met him online, on this site actually, shortly after turning 18. In Januaray of 2013 it would be. I was very depressed at the...
    CigaretteEater CigaretteEater 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    About a few years ago I was going out with this

    guy from school, we were both into each other, had sex a lot but we were quiet about it, no one knew about our relationship but about 8 months into the relationship and I walk into Maths class to find him kissing another women, I dropped my stuff on the floor and I was in shock...
    Mary4you Mary4you 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    It sucks when you miss

    that person so much that you look through old photos, old text messages, even old statuses. And it brings a smile to your face, but then the hurt comes back and you know you shouldn't be looking back, but you can't help it because they really meant something to you and you...
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 3 Responses May 4, 2014

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