I 've Been In Love And Betrayed

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    He said he loved me..

    .. That we'd be together forever. He left me for another the next day.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 15

    I guess the person who broke you,

    can't be the one to fix you.
    Wonderlandd17 Wonderlandd17
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    I'm glad I found out about the other woman &

    realized I wasn't crazy like he kept telling me. These days I don't ignore my gut feelings cause they're the only primal instincts we have left as evolved educated humans. I left the narcissistic sociopath not long after I found out. He even got the OW to lie for him so I wouldn...
    jazzie1976 jazzie1976
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    I am a Betrayed Wife

    who is just trying to connect with other women/men who have been in my shoes and have decided to work things through after the lies, deception, the erotic injury to my soul. This happened to me in middle of July 2015, so things are still very unstable at times but better and...
    Tornwings2 Tornwings2
    46-50, F
    13 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    I've been chatting with this guy

    for almost a year. He's based in the country i live in but always travelling for work. It was nice talking to him and we had pet names for each other. he would share pictures of his family etc with me. he was supposed to come to my country to meet me last month over a weekend...
    Bhasis Bhasis
    26-30, F
    Feb 26

    my bf of 6 months cheated on me with my sister,

    i walked in on them as they were showering together, i dumped him on the spot and i havent talked to my sister since,
    celine16 celine16
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Mar 9, 2015

    8 months pregnant and being told by my husband

    that he isnt sure staying with me and raising our son has been so hard. im not the woman he loves anymore. every time i turn around i see stuff that reminds me of him and now he wants me to just forget it all... it hurts so damn much
    KittyKat402 KittyKat402
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Feb 12

    I definitely have been in love

    and betrayed with lust at the same time. When I was a young teenager I was deeply blessed with good sized and shapely boobs. I started dating then by going to the mall movies, having a meal, high school basketball and football games and dances, and going to other places with...
    redheadedfemale redheadedfemale
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Sep 18, 2015

    How can this hurt this much?

    I wish I could turn back the time.
    lilylogan lilylogan
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 15

    I am Sophia. I am 15 years old

    and I am home schooled. I dont have very many friends. i started dating this really handsome older guy last fall. i fell head over heels in love. he made me think he love me. but when i got pregnant, he dropped me and my best friend off at an abortion clinic. i went in had to...
    gyptsy gyptsy
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    Trust your instincts: they tend to see you

    right. By listening to them, at least you can sleep at night.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 19

    Good day. I am feeling loney

    and lost. I am married, and in a sexless marriage. We have three kids, twins in their 20s, and another 19. My wife, has been cheating on me for 18 years, and i didn't know it until recently. She tore my heart out of my chest and stomped on it, till it was a pile of bloody mush...
    TXSTUD55 TXSTUD55
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 9

    I'm tired of being into relationship.

    Something is not right until all my ex had to lied to me. I mean well i'm so open and you can just tell the hella out with me. There's no need for you to hide things away from me. Because they're just stupid that i'm able easily to get information from any social medias or any...
    Izabxllx Izabxllx
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 21

    Dust yourself off, pick yourself up & say bring

    it. Make sure if you're new to EP, be careful which group you find yourself in cause some you think should be nurturing are not so nice
    jazzie1976 jazzie1976
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2015

    About a few years ago I was going out with this

    guy from school, we were both into each other, had sex a lot but we were quiet about it, no one knew about our relationship but about 8 months into the relationship and I walk into Maths class to find him kissing another women, I dropped my stuff on the floor and I was in shock...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Sep 8, 2014

    Why do you have to leave right now.

    .? Do you know how good this feels? I DID THIS. Tiny little Wheatley DID THIS. You didn't do anything.. She did all the work! Oh, is that what you think huh? Is that what the two of you think? Well maybe it's time I DID something! What are you doing? NO, STOP! And don't think I'm...
    jasonBK1 jasonBK1
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 29

    The day when my boyfriend said

    that he cant do anything about our relationship. he got engaged suddenly I dont know how he was cool all those times after he got engaged.I was so dumb ..love is not blind.the person whose love is unconditional is blind since we never use our brain in unconditional love.it hurts...
    maverika maverika
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 13

    With all I faced in all I given,

    I never asked myself why. I just hold my head up high, and never let anyone see me cry. Karma will take its course... Enough said...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Feb 23

    Starting to say I was with this guy of 10

    months. He open doors and all gentleman like things. He tells me how much he love and care for me and that he would never find a better girl...Before him a couple months ago I was in a year relationship with this guy who cheated and gotten a girl pregnant. He really hurt my...
    haynesjakeria haynesjakeria
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 23

    he made me fall inlove,

    made me believe thatcwe can be together and be a family...then i found out he's married...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 23

    I have been married for 15 years

    and deeply in love with my wife and have been since shortly after I met her. For 10 years we were together and I admit to not being perfect but I always tried to make it a happy marriage. Then she reconnected with a high school crush online and shortly afterwards started having...
    LV1070 LV1070
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Mar 6

    I was with my ex for 3 years

    until he told me that he had cheated on me with a married woman and she was currently 6 months pregnant. Funny thing was he still wanted to work it out. It took me awhile to get over him but I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason. I'm a stronger, more...
    GngrBitch GngrBitch
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 20, 2015

    It was a hard lesson

    for me to learn that someone who says they love me and I've been so close to for years could betray me. It left me wondering if I wanted to even put myself in the position of possibly being hurt again but I came to the conclusion that keeping my heart open to the possibility of...
    didyouseethat didyouseethat
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    I thought I had the best boyfriend .

    I was blind I guess. When I finally learnt the truth. It was a messy breakup. As messy as it gets. But now I feel so much better without him. So girls and guys out there. stay strong. Its all for the best.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 19, 2015
    LordOfMisery LordOfMisery
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Feb 20

    Bursting into tears every now

    and then for having been cheated on and lied to. Hating myself for holding on and still in touch with him when obviously he doesn't want to. He said he would call me when he got home tonight but he never. How many hours more must I wait for him to call? What am I holding on to...
    lilylogan lilylogan
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 9

    Married before actually,

    and abandoned when I was seven months pregnant... while on vacation.... halfway across the country. I've never felt so betrayed.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Mar 9

    Love can be strange, Love can be rough,

    When you get in range, It can be enough. Love is to feel, Love is for the heart, When it's surreal, Two will never part.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 1, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 29, 2015

    Worst Feeling Ever...

    Back many moons ago while still in college, I was in a 5 1/2 year long relationship with a woman who upon first meeting, had a 10 month old little girl named Madeleine. After six months of dating, she finally told me that she had a daughter as I was always wondering why we were...
    idlewatcher idlewatcher
    31-35, M
    35 Responses Sep 1, 2010

    ok so im not excited to think back to this

    but hes the guy i wish happened differently. i fell in love with this guy on SL. everything from the very beginning was sneaky and suspicious but i overlooked it as little insignificant things he was doing. then it grew frequent. too frequent. i couldnt stand he was being unfair...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 17

    what can you do if the only one

    who can fix you is the one who broke you?...
    Gelyn143 Gelyn143
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 17, 2015

    I found this recently

    and want to share. I did not write it--I can't remember who did: " If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth."
    Sinfulkisses869 Sinfulkisses869
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 10, 2014

    I figured out recently right

    when I fell head over heels in love with my ex. It was right before he met her. We had had sex in my car and then we went back to his house and made love on the couch. A week later he went to a Christian retreat. He met her there. He had been so into me. Texting me constantly...
    riverz riverz
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    I thought he loved me

    but he lied. He told me that he's a cancer and that he's dying. But in reality he wanted to stop our relation. I feel stupid..
    Marienelilliputienne Marienelilliputienne
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 5

    I met someone in college

    who chased me & I didn't love him at first, but I fell in love with him. We married and had 3 children. We "were" (still are legally/on paper) married for 20 years. It's had its ups and downs, but we always made it work. The past few years have had more downs than ups. I got...
    HappyCole HappyCole
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    I didn’t think I would post about this one

    so soon. But I hate having it hanging over my head so I’m just going to do it. I was with my last boyfriend for 5 years and 9 months. We lived together for the past few years. We broke up about two months ago. We had plans to get married, have children, grow old, everything...
    peachespicnic peachespicnic
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Mar 26, 2014

    Seems all 5 of my relationships have ended in

    betrayal. Wish people would just be honest and true. Whats wrong with integrity these days.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    16 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    I was in a 5 year relationship with my

    bestfriend. I was going to propose to her to show her how much i truly loved her. however, work and school was stressing us out so we ended our relationship so we can focus on ourselves but within a month she found someone else and joined the army with him. she told me that one...
    Abemonstro Abemonstro
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 18

    2 years ago I met the girl of my dreams,

    or so I thought, this girl was beautiful, she had gorgeous brown hair and a beautiful smile, she wore a black patch over her left eye, she had a nice *** and boobs, she had a great personality. I thought this girl loved me back, turns out I was incredibly wrong, 1 month ago...
    JasonRimmer37 JasonRimmer37
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 25

    Trust your own instincts,

    go inside, follow your heart. Right from the start. go ahead and stand up for what you believe in. As I've learned, that's the path to happiness.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 19

    It's crazy how the ones

    that tell you they love you, are the ones that cause you so much pain.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody
    26-30, M
    Jul 7, 2015

    I trusted this guy with all my heart.

    But his neighbour girl convinced him to leave me. She was down right evil, the last message she sent me. It was terrible. She and him put on an act. They tricked me into believing (since he and I only had contact online) that he was really a girl. It broke my heart. I left him...
    Lolinondoda Lolinondoda
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 17

    I was young and I was looking

    for the fairytale and fell for his charm. In the beginning it was great things didn't change until about a year after we started dating. The lies began the staying out all night and the ultimate betrayal. It started with little lies like I'm going out with such and such be home...
    countrykiss0826 countrykiss0826
    22-25, F
    Mar 15

    Tonight I braved it to have a large popcorn at

    a cinema. While I stared at it, I realised there weren't two hands sharing this popcorn anymore. I didn't even want to go to the movies (I only wanted to stay home and mop over for being replaced) but the thought of him with his new girl (on the eve of Valentines) was just too...
    lilylogan lilylogan
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 13

    I am struggling with a betrayal of my husband

    and best friend, I think I am doing good... And then I find out more information and it brings me right back to the day I first found out... I feel like I might break in half some days!
    ISU1991 ISU1991
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Mar 13

    After 3 years, he cheated on me in Afghanistan.

    I gave him everything. And he cheated on me. Not just like a one night stand type of thing...he told everyone we were broken up and was dating a girl in his unit in Afghanistan for about 3 months. It truly broke my heart. That was the last time I was going to give him a second...
    ObviouslyAlex ObviouslyAlex
    18-21, F
    16 Responses Dec 10, 2013
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2015

    You ever love somebody

    who can't love you back? That's the cruelest form of betrayal.
    Iloveu4eva Iloveu4eva
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    I can't focus I can't concentrate I just feel

    this deep sadness within my heart it's been three months but I still miss her she contacted me yesterday and all those emotions just flooded back into my heart I truly miss her I hope I can get over her so I can stop feeling this pain I just want to be with her so bad it hurts
    ac5225 ac5225
    36-40, M
    Mar 16

    I believe in Devine, I believe in

    that from heart... Mine is a arranged marriage... During the conversation her dad said.. We are also worship the same God... That's the moment I loved her.. Trusted her.. The same way I loved and trusted Devine... At the end to realise the real truth...betrayel... True love...
    Naveekool Naveekool
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Feb 12

    When you love someone truly,

    unconditionally and blindly. If that person uses your weakness and you realised it later... Now I feel everything is fake... I am not able to trust anyone in this world... I doubt there intentions...iam finding it very tough to get out of this situation.. God only can make it...
    Naveekool Naveekool
    31-35, M
    7 Responses Feb 2

    I dated a guy for a few yrs.

    I knew from the beginning he was gonna be trouble. in the end, I found out he was taking money from my purse.. all this time I was duped.
    pnut10 pnut10
    41-45, F
    Feb 17

    everything will change

    when you desire to move on exceeds your desire to hold on
    maverika maverika
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 15

    sucks loving someone

    and not getting the same in return...I guess there comes a point where you just have to stop trying because it hurts too much to hold on anymore
    jsamira jsamira
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Aug 28, 2015

    I believe in being honest

    and keeping my word. I don't understand why others don't find these two qualities important. how hard is it to do what you said you would do? I should be able to believe you when you promise me something but you make that impossible. I'm so tired of people coming into my life to...
    shoblank31 shoblank31
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 5, 2015
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