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I 've Been In Love And Betrayed

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    You know the rules; don't trust em,

    don't love em, don't let em fool you...nah mean?
    WinterSunShine WinterSunShine 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15

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    sometimes..ok a lot of the time.

    .i wish i could go back in time and make it so i never met him.
    justme2151981 justme2151981 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    We were young; I was stupid.

    At 13, how was I supposed to know that falling in love doesn't always work out? All the fairy tales and stories I heard growing up told me that my prince would come, we'd fall in love, and live happily ever after. End of story. When I first met him, I felt the attraction...
    PorcelainDoll17 PorcelainDoll17 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was cheated on, when I forgave was my mistake,

    I have reason to believe he constantly talked to other girls the whole time, but he used me for every dime he could get out of me, all the time breaking down my spirit and killing the person i was before i got with him My stupid mistake, i finally got away two weeks ago, and am...
    ImJustJen ImJustJen 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    ...and yet I still love

    and miss him so much!
    carabella01 carabella01 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I thought I had the best boyfriend .

    I was blind I guess. When I finally learnt the truth. It was a messy breakup. As messy as it gets. But now I feel so much better without him. So girls and guys out there. stay strong. Its all for the best.
    diffspawn diffspawn 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    It sucks when you miss

    that person so much that you look through old photos, old text messages, even old statuses. And it brings a smile to your face, but then the hurt comes back and you know you shouldn't be looking back, but you can't help it because they really meant something to you and you...
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 3 Responses May 4, 2014

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    I didn’t think I would post about this one

    so soon. But I hate having it hanging over my head so I’m just going to do it. I was with my last boyfriend for 5 years and 9 months. We lived together for the past few years. We broke up about two months ago. We had plans to get married, have children, grow old, everything...
    peachespicnic peachespicnic 22-25, F 20 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    why is it soooooo hard to forget

    and forgive someone that you once loved for 5 years? I recently got out of a relationship with a guy I was dating for 5 years. I know this was meant to happen. we were not meant to be and I realized this a couple of years ago and unfortinitly kept thinking things would change...
    Kayyslack Kayyslack 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    it sucks to love someone

    and then all of a sudden they can betray you worst feeling in the world....but then I realized that it's a cold world we're living in.
    Californialexiiiiiii Californialexiiiiiii 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I am 17 got engaged to the perfect girl

    after 3 month then it went down she cheated on me I forgave her and we stayed to get her for 3 more months she then split up with me and made me feel like the bad one she recently said she is pregnant with my child and it's a 90 percent chance it's mine but she is aborting it no...
    marcrobo2k15 marcrobo2k15 16-17, M 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I found out my boyfriend had a relationship

    with another woman and so in love with her.. My heart broke... I cried out loud... I'm hurt... So hurt... My heart broken into pieces ...
    vavaeast vavaeast 31-35, F 10 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I am looking for someone to be friends with,

    to love, to love me...unconditional both ways, I don't think that is asking for much, but maybe it is. I am a true lover, I am loyal, I put my heart out there fully, and it has been broken. I have physical ache from it. Why do people...
    NoLoveNoLIfE NoLoveNoLIfE 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 22

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    You thought I found the perfect guy.

    Turns out he was nothing but a sleazy scumbag, he made me out to be a fool. I think love is only a fairy tale.
    YukiStar20 YukiStar20 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    Have You Ever Been In Love....and Betrayed??

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    genglicious genglicious 26-30, F 14 Responses Sep 1, 2010

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    I'd kind of given up on love

    because my life was such a disaster at the time. But I hired a dog walker who turned into my girlfriend who turned into my wife. She was a single mom so I became a father in the deal. I felt so much love I could barely believe it. Then she betrayed me in every way possible. But...
    Pathfinder108 Pathfinder108 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I left my boyfriend of 2 years10 weeks ago & I

    haven't seen him in 2 weeks. I finally blocked his texts, calls & Facebook 3 days ago as he keeps trying to get me back. I've told mutual friends to tell him I've gone to another country for 6 months so he can't find me as some of his messages are deranged from 'I'll never leave...
    jazzie1976 jazzie1976 36-40, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I found this recently

    and want to share. I did not write it--I can't remember who did: " If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth."
    Sinfulkisses869 Sinfulkisses869 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Hurting

    The thought of you touching someone else made me sick. Finding out what you did put me in the hospital. My trust, my heart, my sanity, taken in the blink of an eye. You're more than a cheater, you're a thief.
    vivirmivida vivirmivida 18-21, F 13 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    Betrayal, Another Learning Experience

    It helps you to make decisions that you might otherwise delay when it comes to that person. It makes you not trust them anymore. It helps you to come to terms with the person in your mind with thoughts you may have been struggling with. It gives you a gut perspective about...
    phatnhapi phatnhapi 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    That's love, you know?

    Boy meets girl. Boy falls for girl. Boy befriends girl. Girl gives boy countless signals that she digs him too. Boy says I love you. Girl says I love you too. Girl tells boy she never actually liked him and disappears from his life. Years later, boy finds out girl hasn't had a...
    tgf12 tgf12 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 13

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    How was I betrayed in love?

    No, my wife did not cheat on me, as far as I know. I feel betrayed by her lies. Many little lies pertaining to our money and how she spends it. Little amounts and bigger amounts, all unaccounted for. We had a budget that we made together. She has never been able to abide...
    Aeonian Aeonian 51-55, M 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I was with a girl for a long time.

    I've done my best to get over her leaving me and becoming what she became. It still hurts.. Any advice ?
    Spike52189 Spike52189 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    I once had a crush on someone

    who said he loved me back. He said he was dating someone and wouldn't get back with his ex. Then a few weeks later I messaged him and his ex messaged me saying "My boyfriend doesn't wanna talk to you. Please stop messaging him he thinks you're very annoying." I cried for 3...
    songwriterandsinger songwriterandsinger 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    I was in a relationship with a woman

    who I'd had a crush on since I was a freshman in high school. We were going steady for about a year, and I decided that I was going to propose to her on Christmas. This turned out to be the single worst day of my life, because as I was getting ready to pop. the question, she...
    DPenrose28 DPenrose28 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    It was a hard lesson

    for me to learn that someone who says they love me and I've been so close to for years could betray me. It left me wondering if I wanted to even put myself in the position of possibly being hurt again but I came to the conclusion that keeping my heart open to the possibility of...
    didyouseethat didyouseethat 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    If you're afraid to be hurt again,

    then you're afraid to be loved again. Don't let hearts that didn't love you, keep you from the one that will.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M Apr 30, 2014

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    So of course I went back to him

    because he swore to me and cried to me he was going to change and begged for another chance. I love him so of course I went back. I found out he has more dating websites. My daughters bday was this month and he was messaging these girls the same day of my daughters bday and...
    Ireallycantsay Ireallycantsay 22-25, F 9 Responses May 8, 2014

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    How Does One Ever Begin To Trust Again?

    How does one ever begin to trust again? They say if you fall off a bike or a horse you should get right back on. What if you break your leg or arm in that fall? Sure that bone will heal in time, but it is not the same as having your heart broken. We give ourselves to others...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    A Married Man, A Girlfriend, And Being A Mistress Without Knowing It - How Did I Get Myself Into This Mess? It Was All Because Of Love!!!

    Ohhhhhh *sigh*... How do I even begin telling my story?? It will definitely be a long one! Well, let's start by telling you that I thought I met my "soul mate" while I was in another country learning how to make Asian baked goods. To be able to fall in love with someone so...
    aziansunshine aziansunshine 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    I was in a relationship

    for 20 years. we were in love. we had the world beat together! we laughed a lot, supported each other through the rough times, we were a team! we were so happy! truly happy! we were best friends! we were best friends before we became lovers. we confided in each other about...
    iowateri8309 iowateri8309 51-55 3 Responses a week ago

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    Valentine Romance, love is in the air!

    Two wine glasses side by side, half empty bottle of some sweet sweet wine. The love that was made, was one that will last a life time.. Where do i fit in, why do I cry? It's not what you think, it's not he and I. Just a distraction for others to see, and now I know what I am...
    mommaceitta mommaceitta 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    After 3 years, he cheated on me in Afghanistan.

    I gave him everything. And he cheated on me. Not just like a one night stand type of thing...he told everyone we were broken up and was dating a girl in his unit in Afghanistan for about 3 months. It truly broke my heart. That was the last time I was going to give him a second...
    ObviouslyAlex ObviouslyAlex 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    It's been 7 years. She cheated.

    I forgave. She left. Since then I've come to know that she was cheating all our married life. I don't love her anymore. In fact, I rarely think of her, and I've grown to the point where I wish her no harm and have no ill will. However, I do wonder if I'll ever truly be in love...
    CaliforniaDr CaliforniaDr 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    Love can be strange, Love can be rough,

    When you get in range, It can be enough. Love is to feel, Love is for the heart, When it's surreal, Two will never part.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    I have just come out of a relationship that's

    left me questioning the past year of my life. Everything was so good other than the exes of both ours was determined to not have me and bf together,&he even asked me to marry him. I've always been negative when looking ahead or in relationships, & he went out of his way to...
    bellastar1 bellastar1 41-45, F Mar 22

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    A few times. Twice

    for a roof. Once for who knows.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 22

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    peace2014 peace2014 41-45, F 9 Responses Jan 30, 2014

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    The last time I was on EP was quite a long time

    ago when I wrote a small paragraph thanking everyone who had read "My Story" and gave me tremendous support. Though I was overjoyed to have received such warm and thoughtful comments filled with encouragement, I was sad and caught up in the emotional distress of a heartbreak...
    amcintyre94 amcintyre94 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    I Read This Somewhere

    “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sa...t down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking...
    Angelwithbrokenwingsxo Angelwithbrokenwingsxo 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    I was in a relationship

    for over 4 years with someone who hurt me over and over again. He beat me, cheated on me, beat me when I was pregnant and miscarried. He never was sorry and I finally ended it. Since then I've moved on and im in a great relationship and my new boyfriend treats me so good. But I...
    cancerian19 cancerian19 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 6

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    http://youtu.be/xhrBDcQq2DM?

    list=RDxhrBDcQq2DM What is love ??? 😘
    Heartbroken46 Heartbroken46 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    The saddest/best part (depends on what colour

    glasses you have on at the moment) of it all is... Now that I don't want any of the two men I've loved before anymore, they want me again....and for the life of me I can't find a single spark from the raging fire of love and passion that once burned for each and every one of...
    SirenBlaze SirenBlaze 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 6

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    About a few years ago I was going out with this

    guy from school, we were both into each other, had sex a lot but we were quiet about it, no one knew about our relationship but about 8 months into the relationship and I walk into Maths class to find him kissing another women, I dropped my stuff on the floor and I was in shock...
    Mary4you Mary4you 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    Don't get I to a relationship

    if you can't give it your all. Your absolute 100%. Relationships take work. There must be love, trust, honesty, faith, understanding, and loyalty. If you can't do any of that, you're setting yourself up for failure and to hurt the other person.
    Philli8807 Philli8807 26-30, F 2 Responses May 30, 2014

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    I've been in love and betrayed 9 times

    or more it sucks -been dumped on vday been dumped because his parents did not want us together been cheated on -been raped
    mistreszmayhem mistreszmayhem 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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