I 've Been Through a Bad Break Up

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    Ended my 4 year abusive relationship a little

    over a week ago.. I'm happier than ever!! :)
    Majin1712 Majin1712
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 13, 2015

    I Still Love Her. Please Help !!!

    In the middle of last December I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 and half years. I was mad at her and felt like I had no space to breath and to think. She tried really hard to save the relationship but because I was still mad at what happened, I let her go. She moved out 3 weeks...
    1morechance 1morechance
    31-35, M
    8 Responses Mar 1, 2013

    i have been seeing somebody

    for a few months well i got a message off what i thought was his ex and it turns out they only broke up last saturday because she found out about me.well ive told her i didnt know they were together but she doesnt beleive me.she said hes been telling her im a mistake and that he...
    nessa88 nessa88
    26-30, F
    May 17, 2015

    Recently I broke up with my lover.

    I still love this person. but I have hurt them so much. Now they ignore and block me everywhere but I'm still trying. Should I give up?
    earlyday19 earlyday19
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 25, 2015

    It took a year and a half to get my divorce.

    My wife had affairs and left, I filed for divorce, and she kept having the court dates postponed for one reason or another. It's been 10 years and we are now friendly with one another.
    LookingForSoMuchMore LookingForSoMuchMore
    56-60, M
    May 20, 2014

    ugh I'm so ******* done right now.

    seeing his face makes me cry all over again. I can't stop crying and I'm so depressed. I need him. he wants to talk to me but I can't I physically can't. just seeing him makes me ache. I need him...
    taylorrose99 taylorrose99
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 13, 2014

    its been three years

    since i split with my ex fiance. im still not the same person. it sometimes feels like ive got a big empty gap. other days im happy some i just break down over simple things like miss spelling something. it was hard really hard. he almost ruined any chances of me getting...
    leavemebe234 leavemebe234
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2015

    About 3yrs ago, I was in a good relationship.

    We had a terrible fallout and broke up several times. Towards the end, things started getting really bad. We would both be verbally abusive and we even laid hands on each other. He never raised his hand to me or hit me. I only would grab at his wrist or arm when he would walk...
    blushkat blushkat
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 29, 2014

    He will never know how much he broke my heart

    over and over again tonight and he will never know how hard I have been and am crying... He will never know how ******* devastated I am at what he said and he will never know how i probably won't recover from what happened... He will never realize how badly he ****** up my heart...
    smh20x smh20x
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 25, 2015
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    4 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    I had dreams of me and John being together

    forever, we were gonna get married and have kids and everything will be great. But then he began to get really mean to me and call me a b*tch all the time and it really started to get to me. and then he came out of the closet. I found out that i was nothing more than a cover up...
    battlefighter battlefighter
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2013

    2 and a half years with someone

    who you loved so deeply can end so violently and viciously, I had never expected that. We had our ups and downs and our moments. We hurt each other in ways that somehow were irreparable. I was always the angry one, he was always the secretive one. There were innumerable things...
    arjun91 arjun91
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Nov 17, 2014

    I broke up with my ex over a year ago.

    We'd been together for four years and I just couldn't take her temper tantrums anymore. Two or three times a week she'd go nuts over some insignificant detail or imagined slight and throw things at me, make me sleep on the sofa or lock me out of the house. She'd then make up...
    EarthWalkerMan EarthWalkerMan
    31-35, M
    Apr 11, 2015

    I seen a picture of ex-wife yesterday on a

    mutual friends facebook page. She had remarried looking beautiful in her dress and so happy. And feelings that I haven’t had for a while overwhelmed me. Like getting knocked down by strong tides coming on to the beach. I had fallen back into a precipice from which I thought I...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 30, 2016

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    Janecc11aa Janecc11aa
    26-30, F
    Nov 18, 2015

    It still breaks my heart

    when i hear your name. How many years will it take to take that power away from you? I'm probably going to laugh about this someday, think that i was being dramatic, say something along the lines of she's not even that attractive or feel silly crying over you. Probably someday...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 10, 2015

    i met a girl fell in love dated two years she

    stopped answering my calls and meeting me after couple of months invited me to his wedding :D i think this could be considered a bad break up :P but i still have faith in true love :)
    whokilledjessica whokilledjessica
    26-30, M
    Apr 25, 2015

    It Had To Be Done

    Okay, this was a long time ago but I'm hoping it may be helpful to someone else. I was in a relationship with a great woman but something was always missing. She was very strong and independent at first. That was one of the many things that I admired and respected about her...
    Lrak Lrak
    1 Response Jul 19, 2013

    I broke up with him. He doesn't know it yet

    but I'm DONE. He stormed out after an argument (his M.O == he will promise everything/anything, change NOTHING, withold, reject, withdraw, & when I call him out on his bullshit he will loose his temper & storm out- leaving ME feeling guilty/sad) Well this time he can STAY OUT. I...
    manchesterfatgirl manchesterfatgirl
    1 Response Dec 14, 2015

    Those Moments

    I cant read I cant write I cant sleep Through the night, I look at the food But I cant eat Even chocolate any longer Seems like a treat My friends complain That I dont call But I dont want to talk To anyone at all Watching TV seems like a chore I dont even want to Chat on...
    oceansheart oceansheart
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 24, 2013

    Lost Love

    I broke up with my boyfriend two months ago. We were together for 1 year. I only have myself to blame. I knew our relationship wouldn’t work when we first started dating. We lived so far away from each other and we were so immature. It was too serious and we were too young. If...
    allthestars allthestars
    18-21, F
    Nov 10, 2013

    Today I dropped her off at the the airport

    that was the worst experience ever
    KevinAMillan KevinAMillan
    22-25, M
    Jan 13, 2016

    It was grade 8. My first (and

    so far only) girlfriend. We all know that these early relationships don't work and always end eventually, but we were the perfect match. We liked the same things, had the same type of feelings, shared the same kinds of friends. It was perfect and we truly loved each other. We...
    Ashen44 Ashen44
    18-21, M
    Nov 14, 2015

    It's something my current boyfriend doesn't

    know about. I don't much like talking about it. I pretend it never happened. I was in an abusive relationship, I got engaged mind you but only because he threatened to kill me. Later I found out the only reason he wanted me was because he wanted citizenship the easy way...
    ShadowMgrove03 ShadowMgrove03
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2015

    . We fell madly in love with each other back

    then but things had changed after a couple of years, he dumped me cus he wants my best friend instead and I'm stupid I didn't see the signs, they have something already! ouch!
    khiir khiir
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 15, 2014

    One Month Later.....

    One month since i had any contact with my ex. And let me tell you its getting easier by the day. I still find myself thinking about him and missing who i thought he was. But things change and ive come to terms he will never give me the love i need. If someone cared about you they...
    kmart52492 kmart52492
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2013

    we had a three years long relationship,

    it ended up in may 2013. but still im struggling to move on.
    lovlybear lovlybear
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 12, 2015

    I was with this guy for 5 years (I am 24,

    he is 28)I had known him for 7. We started out as best friends. We met on Valentine's Day, had the same birthdays, lived in the same neighbourhood s and went to the same schools all our lives. Our relationship was picture-book perfect. Had all the same hobbies and interests...
    NatashandAres NatashandAres
    26-30, F
    Jul 23, 2015

    I have been trying to get over a break up over

    the last year and a half...I finally feel relief and feel happiness in my life again. If u are struggling in getting over a nasty break up...this is what worked for me: 1. Not getting into a "rebound" relationship since all u will do is compare the new guy to your ex, this will...
    brokenhearted7108 brokenhearted7108
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    This single thing is new territory.

    Break ups are bad, very bad. It has been years since I've been on my own. I don't remember it being like this. It's weird. It feels surreal to come home to an empty apartment.
    tachem46032 tachem46032
    56-60, M
    Apr 29, 2015

    In all honesty if I think about him

    for a second I will lose it... I will break down get hysterical and lose it... He will never understand how much ilovehim... How much I will always love him.. The fact is I always fall to hard and love to much... And in the end it always gets me hurt... Always gets me broken...
    smh20x smh20x
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 12, 2015

    I been broken up with my ex

    for 3 weeks now. We were together for two years. Towards the end, we were fighting, and I got so tired of his stubbornness.I last poured my heart out on the phone with him asking why he has been distant, lacking affection just for him to return jerky comments. He recently lost...
    ladybroken ladybroken
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 20, 2014

    My World Shattered

    OK I have had a few parts about my life but I'm going to do my best to tell it back in 2002 I was curious about my sexuality n went to a women for women website that's how I met the love of my life I didn't know then. She lived in ms n me in Cali we she visited me *** friend bc...
    BeyouTfulDisaster BeyouTfulDisaster
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

    So my ex is now telling all of Facebook

    that I cheated on him for the last 5 months and he finally got rid of me... even though I was the one to cut him off and he has been continuously harassing me for the last few days. Also he's posting things like "no, I don't have HIV stop thinking so low of me" and he is fishing...
    xKatlyn xKatlyn
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 12, 2015

    We were together for a year

    and a month exactly. He was my everything. We planned our lives together.. But he decided he didn't want a relationship. I try not to cry but I can't help it. We're still friends and that's the only thing keeping me together.
    bigca1697 bigca1697
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    In Hindsight ...

    Never, ever commit to marrying a girl until you first go through a crisis with her. If she rallies to your side and sticks by you no matter what, she's a keeper. If, instead, she turns on you and abandons you let her go. You've just avoided making the biggest mistake of your life...
    maxximiliann maxximiliann
    36-40, M
    Apr 27, 2012

    I grew up with a broken family.

    The next thing I knew was having an LDR bf for 8 months then all wasted because of another girl. We send gifts to eachother, I never cheated on him. Because of the time difference I needed to wake up early, make him feel loved because I thought he deserves mine. Theb the break...
    fruitella06 fruitella06
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 15, 2016

    3months since we parted ways officially.

    We've tried blocking eachother, etc only to be talking again 1 week later. I've even asked him to block me yet he can't even last a week without talking to me. He use to drunk text me he misses me a lot until I told him to stop it, one time when were together he told me in...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 8, 2015

    My name is Anthony and I'm 23.

    I just recently went through a break up. I'm trying to keep a smile on my face. I don't kno how to find comfort
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 18, 2016

    Throwback to exactly a year ago

    when I let made the worst decisions ever and let some dumb boy hurt me. I didn't realize how much I let him hurt use me for months on end till just recently, I remember locking myself in my room and getting drunk every night and just crying and crying. Then because he brought me...
    TheSongPlaysWithin TheSongPlaysWithin
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    today my positive self talk not my circus,

    not my monkeys, not my problem.
    v0lition v0lition
    46-50, F
    Jan 18, 2016

    I'm crying so hard right now.

    somebody please message me I need to talk to somebody before I hurt myself :,(
    taylorrose99 taylorrose99
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2014

    If you are one of the lucky people out there

    who hasn't been through a bad break up, it's odd that I don't entirely envy you. It was a life moment that made me grow as a person. I was the one doing the breaking up, and I was terrified. I hate hurting people, and this boy was my best friend. We did everything together...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 14, 2015

    My boyfriend and I just ended recently,

    we were together for over 6 months and we're best friends before everything. He got jealous of one of my friends and just completely lost feelings for me, I'm pretty upset but I've learn to come to acceptance with it and am slowly realizing through this that everything really...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 14, 2015

    My ex broke up with me a few weeks ago

    because his friend lied and told him I did certain things with him. I'll leave those things to your imagination, but it was pretty bad. Him and my ex were already fighting about something and this guy retaliated by telling him I cheated. Lame, right? Well it wasn't much of a...
    xKatlyn xKatlyn
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 12, 2015

    He was my everything 3 yrs into my relationship

    with him yesterday we separated forever He hurt me so much and I stay cause I loved him but I am done He destroy me into pieces and He not the guy for me I am so sad I am angry at my self I am so hurt right now I am done with Love in my life NO more
    girls2015 girls2015
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    Today I feel like everyone's problem,

    like I madr only mistakes. I was just starting tp hurt less and make all the right cuts out of myself. But I texted my ex boyfriend. I still haven't left him alone. I am an emotional rant after another, and I let the source of it all in on the ride.
    Itekimasu Itekimasu
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2015

    U & Me forever this way www.

    nidhisuraj.com There are so many Love Stories in this world. Few stories become so famous but few are unsaid and been buried with time. Few others share their love stories with their friends, while some leave them as sweet memories for themselves within their hearts and few...
    evan003 evan003
    22-25, F
    Jul 23, 2015

    I had a long distance relationship with a girl

    across the country. She broke up with me about 3 months ago and said recently "I feel like I've never had a boyfriend before." She says she wanted something physical, and I just couldn't give her that. She also said she felt perverted when she thought about me in certain ways...
    notthatoneguy notthatoneguy
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 13, 2015

    Im gifted with the curse of honesty

    and the truth is, i loved u more than words, didn't know how to prove it, couldn't tell u that in person but can always through music. Everyone who said they cared isnt there now im confused, broken and bruised, lonely, open, empty.
    kolya123 kolya123
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 18, 2015

    My ex broke up with me

    while i was pregnant because I had chosen to abort the baby because it wouldnt be able to live a full healthy life due to certain meds I took when I wasnt aware. He made me go through everything alone.
    ForeverWhiteOleander ForeverWhiteOleander
    18-21, F
    Jul 29, 2015
    iwant2knowyou iwant2knowyou
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 21, 2015
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