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I 've Been Through a Bad Break Up

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    ugh I'm so ******* done right now.

    seeing his face makes me cry all over again. I can't stop crying and I'm so depressed. I need him. he wants to talk to me but I can't I physically can't. just seeing him makes me ache. I need him...
    taylorrose99 taylorrose99 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2014

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    Broke Up Last Night.

     He loved me, I loved him. Why couldn’t we work through things then? I guess maybe I couldn’t forgive another time, and wait for my feelings to be crushed yet again. Perhaps I didn’t want to get into that place of mind where I felt powerless, and the only...
    dewitback dewitback 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Lost Love

    I broke up with my boyfriend two months ago. We were together for 1 year. I only have myself to blame. I knew our relationship wouldn’t work when we first started dating. We lived so far away from each other and we were so immature. It was too serious and we were too young. If...
    allthestars allthestars 18-21, F Nov 10, 2013

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    In Hindsight ...

    Never, ever commit to marrying a girl until you first go through a crisis with her. If she rallies to your side and sticks by you no matter what, she's a keeper. If, instead, she turns on you and abandons you let her go. You've just avoided making the biggest mistake of your life...
    maxximiliann maxximiliann 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 27, 2012

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    Your bad break ups.. Might not seem

    so bad after years have gone by. When you meet someone that loves you more then you thought you could ever be loved. Never say never!
    leyla29 leyla29 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    Another Goodbye ButterflyI wish she wasn't

    so upset,when she left me,mad as she was when she left,but it's the only way she knows how leave me,believe me,I know the type,so beautiful,but so broken inside.I am attracted to her intensity,even though,that's a part of her insanity,no even flow,just floods,and hurricanes,just...
    AaronLA AaronLA 31-35, M Feb 15

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    Where Are The Words

    I've sat down no less than a dozen times to write this in the last day or so. I can't find the words...not the right ones anyway, and certainly not in the right order. However, I said that I would write it and write it I shall - disjointed or no. To properly explain it I...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42 41-45, M 8 Responses Apr 17, 2010

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    It Had To Be Done

    Okay, this was a long time ago but I'm hoping it may be helpful to someone else. I was in a relationship with a great woman but something was always missing. She was very strong and independent at first. That was one of the many things that I admired and respected about her...
    Lrak Lrak 46-50 1 Response Jul 19, 2013

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    2 and a half years with someone

    who you loved so deeply can end so violently and viciously, I had never expected that. We had our ups and downs and our moments. We hurt each other in ways that somehow were irreparable. I was always the angry one, he was always the secretive one. There were innumerable things...
    arjun91 arjun91 22-25, M 4 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    I Hate Her !

    i hate her for what she did to me ! For breaking me ! Ripping out my ******* heart ! I HATE HER ! i love her .... and i hate that ! i Hate that i still love her dispite what she did to me ! I ******* HATE HER ! I would have given my life for her ! i saved hers several times...
    MiskaMaskedOne MiskaMaskedOne 18-21 3 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    Can Anyone Help?

    I really need help getting over my ex or idk its really confusing. Im 18 and a guy. I have to give some detail i guess. We dated for about 2 years on and off. Shes in england, and im in the USA. She had to move because of her parents work. But anyways, she cheated on me many...
    bornbetter878 bornbetter878 18-21, M Jun 5, 2012

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    Well it's not as tough

    as my first break up but my ex is making it difficult for me to move on; at least I know that I do not want to be with him. Damn why did he have to be such an *******?
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Nov 24, 2014

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    I'm crying so hard right now.

    somebody please message me I need to talk to somebody before I hurt myself :,(
    taylorrose99 taylorrose99 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    I have been trying to get over a break up over

    the last year and a half...I finally feel relief and feel happiness in my life again. If u are struggling in getting over a nasty break up...this is what worked for me: 1. Not getting into a "rebound" relationship since all u will do is compare the new guy to your ex, this will...
    brokenhearted7108 brokenhearted7108 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    Break Up Birthday Present

    My first love gave me the mouse for my birthday when I turned 22. I don't know how she did it since she was over a thousand miles away at the time. She had broken up with me. Why did she give me any present at all? And particularly this one? What the hell was she thinking? You...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 3 Responses Jun 30, 2010

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    I had dreams of me and John being together

    forever, we were gonna get married and have kids and everything will be great. But then he began to get really mean to me and call me a b*tch all the time and it really started to get to me. and then he came out of the closet. I found out that i was nothing more than a cover up...
    battlefighter battlefighter 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    iwant2knowyou iwant2knowyou 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    we had a three years long relationship,

    it ended up in may 2013. but still im struggling to move on.
    lovlybear lovlybear 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    A few years until we can try again?

    I can't wait that long. I'm not going to make it
    gybe gybe 18-21, M Oct 2, 2014

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    My ex broke up with me 2

    and a half months ago. We were together for 4 months while we were away in an internship program. There were 50 of us in a new city and we had class together 4xs a week, plus class field trips. Regardless of whether we would've liked each other or not, we were around each other...
    torres89013 torres89013 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 12, 2014

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    Why Are Older Men So Immature?

    My ex would continually hurt my feeling by say stupid and mean things to me I repeatedly asked him to stop but it would just do it again and again and again. he broke up with me but wanted to stay friend but he was still mean. Then i found out I have hPv it is an unpreventable...
    Janeasha Janeasha 26-30 3 Responses Sep 6, 2013

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    About 3yrs ago, I was in a good relationship.

    We had a terrible fallout and broke up several times. Towards the end, things started getting really bad. We would both be verbally abusive and we even laid hands on each other. He never raised his hand to me or hit me. I only would grab at his wrist or arm when he would walk...
    blushkat blushkat 22-25, F 2 Responses May 29, 2014

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    Going through a pretty hard

    and tough break up right now, hurting so much. Uggghh :/ Days are getting better though thankfully.
    TheSongPlaysWithin TheSongPlaysWithin 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    . We fell madly in love with each other back

    then but things had changed after a couple of years, he dumped me cus he wants my best friend instead and I'm stupid I didn't see the signs, they have something already! ouch!
    khiir khiir 22-25, F 2 Responses May 15, 2014

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    Those Moments

    I cant read I cant write I cant sleep Through the night, I look at the food But I cant eat Even chocolate any longer Seems like a treat My friends complain That I dont call But I dont want to talk To anyone at all Watching TV seems like a chore I dont even want to Chat on...
    oceansheart oceansheart 18-21, F 3 Responses May 24, 2013

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    I had guys use me multiple times.

    I have extreme trust issues now. I dont know how to deal with it. Can anyone help me?
    aem1999 aem1999 16-17, F Aug 21, 2014

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    My husband left me back in August.

    I bent over backwards to make him happy but he was so unhappy with himself that nothing I could do mattered. I was devastated and felt like everything was my fault and a huge failure because I couldn't make it work. I found messages between him and his ex where he was telling...
    vivalalacy vivalalacy 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    himenoko143 himenoko143 16-17, F Feb 1

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    I Still Love Her. Please Help !!!

    In the middle of last December I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 and half years. I was mad at her and felt like I had no space to breath and to think. She tried really hard to save the relationship but because I was still mad at what happened, I let her go. She moved out 3 weeks...
    1morechance 1morechance 31-35, M 8 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    Ended my 4 year abusive relationship a little

    over a week ago.. I'm happier than ever!! :)
    Majin1712 Majin1712 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    3months since we parted ways officially.

    We've tried blocking eachother, etc only to be talking again 1 week later. I've even asked him to block me yet he can't even last a week without talking to me. He use to drunk text me he misses me a lot until I told him to stop it, one time when were together he told me in...
    neurokitty99 neurokitty99 18-21, F Feb 8

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    I had my boyfriend of 3 years

    and fiancé of almost 1 break up with me. But both of us were mature, understanding people and thought we could handle marriage. I know a lot of people say there is no point over analyzing it, but I don't know how to move on or deal with it? I thought we had it in us to make it...
    beginafresh beginafresh 26-30, F Sep 3, 2014

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    My Sunshine

    Am brooks, was in a great and promising relationship 3yrs ago, just got my job so was really ready to settle down. We were really in love, at least I tot so. But my fiance got pregnant for me I was so happy but she wasn't, she didn't want the baby, but I was able to convince her...
    michbrooks michbrooks 31-35 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    I just broke up 8 hours ago.

    At first I felt so relieved that I have to put up with his crab anymore, but then I felt sad that I didn't mean a lot to him. We broke up every summer for 8 months and he said that we need to end the breaking up and coming back things; we need to see other people. He was calm...
    chatarak chatarak 41-45, F Jul 2, 2014

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    I been broken up with my ex

    for 3 weeks now. We were together for two years. Towards the end, we were fighting, and I got so tired of his stubbornness.I last poured my heart out on the phone with him asking why he has been distant, lacking affection just for him to return jerky comments. He recently lost...
    ladybroken ladybroken 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2014

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    It took a year and a half to get my divorce.

    My wife had affairs and left, I filed for divorce, and she kept having the court dates postponed for one reason or another. It's been 10 years and we are now friendly with one another.
    LookingForSoMuchMore LookingForSoMuchMore 51-55, M May 20, 2014

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    It was a very very bad case of betrayal & I

    still have a hard time to accept it now. I don't regret being with him and I definitely don't regret what happened, because it has taught me a lot... Everyone is not your friend, people can wake up with different feelings and PAYBACK is a *****! My so called 'friend' he...
    EbbsBreaux EbbsBreaux 18-21, F Aug 3, 2014

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    Today Is My Birthday

    It's my birthday today, I got many lovely messages from my friends. But I feel like I am still waiting for a message from him. Even everything has gone, and he did hurt me. Why do I still expect something ? I am so dumb and pathetic 😞
    Queena115 Queena115 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    I've been trying to break up my 1year

    relationship.I doubt it's love.He neither wanted to meet and talk nor to leave me alone.The problem is we see each other at the university at least once a week.And I have to study there for 2 more years not counting the current.
    darkblue0909 darkblue0909 18-21, F Feb 13

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    One Month Later.....

    One month since i had any contact with my ex. And let me tell you its getting easier by the day. I still find myself thinking about him and missing who i thought he was. But things change and ive come to terms he will never give me the love i need. If someone cared about you they...
    kmart52492 kmart52492 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2013

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    I went through a really bad break up a few

    months ago and since then I've gone off the rails. About three months ago I came home early from a business trip and caught her having sex with a guy she works with. I'd kind of known something had been going on for a while we barely spoke. We barely had sex and when we did she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 8, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F Dec 15, 2014

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    So my ex is now telling all of Facebook

    that I cheated on him for the last 5 months and he finally got rid of me... even though I was the one to cut him off and he has been continuously harassing me for the last few days. Also he's posting things like "no, I don't have HIV stop thinking so low of me" and he is fishing...
    xKatlyn xKatlyn 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    My World Shattered

    OK I have had a few parts about my life but I'm going to do my best to tell it back in 2002 I was curious about my sexuality n went to a women for women website that's how I met the love of my life I didn't know then. She lived in ms n me in Cali we she visited me *** friend bc...
    BeyouTfulDisaster BeyouTfulDisaster 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    About 2 month ago I broke up with my boyfriend

    of 5 years. We started dating in high school, now I'm a senior in college and work. I take school seriously (I want to go into the medical field). My ex took 1-2 college semesters but didn't take them seriously and always said he would go next semester, and he has only had one...
    marysstory marysstory 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    My ex broke up with me a few weeks ago

    because his friend lied and told him I did certain things with him. I'll leave those things to your imagination, but it was pretty bad. Him and my ex were already fighting about something and this guy retaliated by telling him I cheated. Lame, right? Well it wasn't much of a...
    xKatlyn xKatlyn 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 12

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    How come society makes us feel bad

    for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are wicked and no BS censorship either.
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense 31-35, M Nov 28, 2014