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I 've Been Through a Bad Break Up

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    It Was Pretty Bad... - So I met this girl and we became good friends. We were very close for about three years or so and one day I had to move. We both knew that we liked each...
    BubblesXIII BubblesXIII 26-30, M Sep 29, 2012

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    It's not actually a bad breakup but i got really hurt. My boyfriend broke with me because he fell out of love. He said that he is sad and whenever we try to work things out...
    anneyolores anneyolores 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    My Sunshine - Am brooks, was in a great and promising relationship 3yrs ago, just got my job so was really ready to settle down. We were really in love, at least I tot so. But my...
    michbrooks michbrooks 31-35 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    Can Anyone Help? - I really need help getting over my ex or idk its really confusing. Im 18 and a guy. I have to give some detail i guess. We dated for about 2 years on and off...
    bornbetter878 bornbetter878 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 5, 2012

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    Broke Up Last Night. -  He loved me, I loved him. Why couldn’t we work through things then? I guess maybe I couldn’t forgive another time, and wait for my feelings...
    dewitback dewitback 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Where Are The Words - I've sat down no less than a dozen times to write this in the last day or so. I can't find the words...not the right ones anyway, and certainly not in the...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42 36-40, M 8 Responses Apr 17, 2010

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    Why Are Older Men So Immature? - My ex would continually hurt my feeling by say stupid and mean things to me I repeatedly asked him to stop but it would just do it again and again...
    Janeasha Janeasha 22-25 3 Responses Sep 6, 2013

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    Those Moments - I cant read I cant write I cant sleep Through the night, I look at the food But I cant eat Even chocolate any longer Seems like a treat My friends complain That I...
    oceansheart oceansheart 18-21, F 3 Responses May 24, 2013

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    I Hate Her ! - i hate her for what she did to me ! For breaking me ! Ripping out my ******* heart ! I HATE HER ! i love her .... and i hate that ! i Hate that i still love her...
    MiskaMaskedOne MiskaMaskedOne 18-21 3 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    How Can A Break-up Lead You To Not Love Yourself - It's kinda funny how I found this website or maybe not. I join the experience project because my boyfriend, who I had been dating...
    gr8tfulsha gr8tfulsha 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    I don't know whether of not to patch things up with an ex. My family hates him now but I still have respect and love for him. Is there hope for us in the future? Ps. He was the one...
    Userunkown Userunkown 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    Going Through a Horrible Breakup- Still In Love. - My boyfriend and I have (had?) known each other since we were 12, and been best friends for much of that time. We started dating...
    surfbum9019 surfbum9019 18-21 2 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    Devastated. Still Reeling. But I'm Ok Now. - ...but inch by inch, I'm doing everything I can to function again. In short, I fell in love with someone completely, honestly and yes...
    lisa36 lisa36 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2010

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    About halfway through bootcamp my girlfriend of 3 years dumped me by letter. It was horrible I lost all motivation and started not to care and moving slow, my drill intsructors...
    rigg93 rigg93 18-21, M 7 Responses Feb 5

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    One Month Later..... - One month since i had any contact with my ex. And let me tell you its getting easier by the day. I still find myself thinking about him and missing who i...
    kmart52492 kmart52492 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2013

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    I had dreams of me and John being together forever, we were gonna get married and have kids and everything will be great. But then he began to get really mean to me and call me a b...
    battlefighter battlefighter 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    Not Sure How To Write This - So everyone has the person in their life that makes them feel better, right? Well, don't worry if you don't then you just don't realize it or you...
    NotObviousAtAll NotObviousAtAll 16-17, F Dec 1, 2013

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    Probably. - Would it be insane to say that I miss you? That I still care for you.It would. It would also be unbelievable cliche, and the cliche just can't describe what I'm feeling...
    AzuraSkies AzuraSkies 13-15 Oct 16, 2013

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    Don't know how to start it. But yeah everyone had a break up. But I think no one has experienced what I had been through. I was secretly in a relationship with a girl. The reason...
    dilipshr dilipshr 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    Really Affected Me -  About a year ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years. A number of things may have led to us breaking up. I don't have many interests, I'm not...
    GregMan GregMan 22-25 3 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    I Still Love Her. Please Help !!! - In the middle of last December I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 and half years. I was mad at her and felt like I had no space to breath and to...
    1morechance 1morechance 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    Today Is My Birthday - It's my birthday today, I got many lovely messages from my friends. But I feel like I am still waiting for a message from him. Even everything has gone, and...
    Queena115 Queena115 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    Explosion - I was friends with one of my exs for a while and then he expressed his feelings to me. At the time I didn't see him in that way, although I had contemplated being...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F May 5, 2009

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    ~*Remember to Breathe*~ -   (INHALE)   I went to the restaurant you took me to on our first date. I remember, you were about ten minutes late. I ordered the mint ice...
    Annebelle Annebelle 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    Could This Be The Closure I Need? - can someone please tell me after him saying we cant be together and wont be together why i cant accept it? why after so many times of him saying...
    kmart52492 kmart52492 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    Failure To Communicate? - I've been lonely most of my life, since about the third grade. However, it was only recently that I began to feel as if I there isn't anybody in the world...
    Ofapollo9295 Ofapollo9295 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

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    It Had To Be Done - Okay, this was a long time ago but I'm hoping it may be helpful to someone else. I was in a relationship with a great woman but something was always missing...
    Lrak Lrak 46-50 1 Response Jul 19, 2013

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    I Am Strong. I Will Be Strong ! - hay ep .... i dont think its sunken in yet . it happend about a hour ago .... and well ..... yeah i expected my self to be destroyed .... but im...
    MiskaMaskedOne MiskaMaskedOne 18-21 Jul 19, 2013

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    i started cutting myself when my gf left me. i was a broken toy. i thought destroying myself would bring her back. but she never did come back. i cut her initial in my hand and...
    lanash69 lanash69 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    ...and I'll raise you, she tried to destroy the only inanimate object I care about, threatened to tell the police her childish self-inflicted wounds were my doing, stole my sex...
    JohnMoreDread JohnMoreDread 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 14

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    My World Shattered - OK I have had a few parts about my life but I'm going to do my best to tell it back in 2002 I was curious about my sexuality n went to a women for women...
    BeyouTfulDisaster BeyouTfulDisaster 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    My First Love - It all started a few months ago when me and my ex were going through especially rough times when she was undecided what she wanted to do. The first event that...
    theslypanda theslypanda 18-21 4 Responses Mar 9, 2013

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    If You Love Someone, Let Them Go, And They Come Back They're Not Yours. - Hello everyone, this is my very first share on here so forgive me if I ramble a little as I'm going thru a...
    NobleMind NobleMind 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Recently I've gone through what feels like the worst break up of my life. I've been through quite a few crap ones but this one takes the cake. Here I am telling my girl how I'm...
    alexloveschachi alexloveschachi 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 6

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    Lost Love - I broke up with my boyfriend two months ago. We were together for 1 year. I only have myself to blame. I knew our relationship wouldn’t work when we first started...
    allthestars allthestars 18-21, F Nov 10, 2013

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    Need Help Understanding This Breakup, Please! - Hey everyone, I wanted to post on here to try and get some closure or at least an objective opinion on my breakup. I'm strong in...
    AboveUsOnlyStars AboveUsOnlyStars 22-25, M 1 Response May 23, 2013

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    Cant Move On. - I want to move on from him. Ive been on dates with guys but i cant seem to keep him off my mind. Theres a great guy who treats me right right in front of me and i...
    kmart52492 kmart52492 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2013

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    Empathizing Emptiness - Last week there was a heart breaking story in the news - a military plane had accidentially crashed into a house in a neighborhood in California.  Four...
    DCexperience DCexperience 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Not Mad, Disappointed! - Me and the guy I've been seeing for almost 3 yrs broke up. We have been having problems since last yr after moving in together. He says Im controlling, he...
    sexyblackkoi sexyblackkoi 31-35, F Dec 22, 2012

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    Going through a really bad break up
    Dracogirl Dracogirl 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    In Hindsight ... - Never, ever commit to marrying a girl until you first go through a crisis with her. If she rallies to your side and sticks by you no matter what, she's a keeper...
    maxximiliann maxximiliann 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 27, 2012

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    The Ex Factor - My ex and i broke up last July and for some reason i just cant get over her. I've had a few relationships prior to her that have been serious physically speaking...
    nvr2ordinary nvr2ordinary 18-21 1 Response Sep 25, 2008

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    Break Up Birthday Present - My first love gave me the mouse for my birthday when I turned 22. I don't know how she did it since she was over a thousand miles away at the time. She...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 3 Responses Jun 30, 2010

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    Hopeless - Good day to all! This is my first time here in this forum. Let me start by sharing my break up story with my ex-girlfriend for almost 2 years. Last August 2012 she broke...
    haleg haleg 22-25 Jan 2, 2013

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    Jailbird - I told him on a Saturday morning that we were done. Over. Finished.He'd spent all of our money on drugs and alcohol behind my back instead of paying the bills. We got an...
    DopeyGirl DopeyGirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 9, 2010

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    I 've Been Through a Bad Break Up - All I wanted from the start is to make her happy, seeing her happy made me happy. Summer started shortly after her father got arrested for...
    Miuko Miuko 16-17 4 Responses Jul 29, 2008

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