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I 've Just Realized I Have No Futrue Plans For My Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 77 People

    And I Am At That Time...

    When I really need to be figuring things out...Actually, I've been trying to figure out something to do with my life for about 3 years, and still nothing.  I just...Want to be free...But can't seem to find a way to go about it.
    moonlit1 moonlit1 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2009

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    I am a wife, a mother

    and so far I have achieved all my goals that I have set in my life. Buy a house, get married, have a baby, work for myself. But what's next? I don't know. Shall we move abroad? Shall we plod along?! I don't know what to plan for and really need help! Arghhh
    uklc30 uklc30 26-30, F Mar 13, 2014

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    Wow

    I have spent so many years trying to "adjust" to the fact that I split up with my ex. So much time feeling sad and guilty. So much time worrying about the children and how they were dealing. And I just realized that I have literally put me, my person, my life on hold. How crazy...
    Temprence Temprence 36-40, F 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    Day To Day

    Is how I live at this point in my life....I would rather let life be spontaneous than make any plans..ya know they say about plans! God laughs :D 
    Opalina Opalina 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2009

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    Plans?? What Plans?

    i have outgrown the planning thing.... i totally realize that it is no use. what will be, will be... nothing that i say or do seems to matter in the grand scheam of things....
    alreadygone alreadygone 31-35 May 11, 2009

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    And It Sucks.......

    i literally dont have any plans for my life and it sucks.....its no more fun....i dont have energy to fight with circumstances.....i knw this story will nt make sense but i want to vent or unload my heart or something....i m just sick and tiered of my life, my dreamz and...
    destinyguy destinyguy 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    Planning For Insecure Future Mission Impossible

    No matter what I cannot predict my future and nether can you or anyone else. Planning for the future have always made me feel uneasy since I have always felt that the present day is more important. Since you newer know what exact day will be your last on this planet. Now if we...
    gypa gypa 26-30, M Mar 17, 2012

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