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I 've Just Realized I Have No Futrue Plans For My Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 76 People

    And I Am At That Time...

    When I really need to be figuring things out...Actually, I've been trying to figure out something to do with my life for about 3 years, and still nothing.  I just...Want to be free...But can't seem to find a way to go about it.
    moonlit1 moonlit1 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2009

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    Plans?? What Plans?

    i have outgrown the planning thing.... i totally realize that it is no use. what will be, will be... nothing that i say or do seems to matter in the grand scheam of things....
    alreadygone alreadygone 31-35 May 11, 2009

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    I am a wife, a mother

    and so far I have achieved all my goals that I have set in my life. Buy a house, get married, have a baby, work for myself. But what's next? I don't know. Shall we move abroad? Shall we plod along?! I don't know what to plan for and really need help! Arghhh
    uklc30 uklc30 26-30, F Mar 13

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    Day To Day

    Is how I live at this point in my life....I would rather let life be spontaneous than make any plans..ya know they say about plans! God laughs :D 
    Opalina Opalina 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2009

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    And It Sucks.......

    i literally dont have any plans for my life and it sucks.....its no more fun....i dont have energy to fight with circumstances.....i knw this story will nt make sense but i want to vent or unload my heart or something....i m just sick and tiered of my life, my dreamz and...
    destinyguy destinyguy 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    Planning For Insecure Future Mission Impossible

    No matter what I cannot predict my future and nether can you or anyone else. Planning for the future have always made me feel uneasy since I have always felt that the present day is more important. Since you newer know what exact day will be your last on this planet. Now if we...
    gypa gypa 26-30, M Mar 17, 2012

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    Wow

    I have spent so many years trying to "adjust" to the fact that I split up with my ex. So much time feeling sad and guilty. So much time worrying about the children and how they were dealing. And I just realized that I have literally put me, my person, my life on hold. How crazy...
    Temprence Temprence 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Wow man! Today, i realized i have been single for 17 years :O
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    i have messed up my life so bad and i am in constant depression. its like i dont know how anyones life can be this miserable i just feel horrible about myself and the way i look...
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    Wake up Go to college Come home Use internet Eat Sleep Repeat!! Thats my life right now, i feel like i have no destination, i have nothing interesting in life!
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 18

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    Lol have to leave for court and work bye!! Lol
    Tigerlily53 Tigerlily53 18-21, F Oct 1

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    idk what it is but i find them very attractive espicially the ones with tattoos ufff <33 but idk something about them and i have a thing for hawiians and mexican idk just all of...
    LAshortyy LAshortyy 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I have been married for 34 years and during this time I have had the suspicion that my husband was unfaithful to me. We had many arguments and he denied it every time calling me a...
    entropy1 entropy1 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Do you know that u will never be forgiven for stupidity. Life will never give u 2nd chance
    depress55 depress55 36-40, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My life is a joke. If anyone hears the full story will definitely laugh with me.
    depress55 depress55 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    Sadly, I have met some on here and wonder if this is an indictment of our educational system.
    greeneyedgirl12 greeneyedgirl12 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 1

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    Sometimes, chaos comes into life catching you by surprise....The equilibrium you worked so hard to maintain is tipped off-balance....The ball of the pendulum is swayed from one...
    samemay54 samemay54 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    TGIF! It was on my calendar for quite some time, and the day has finally arrived. Just had a shower about 2 hours ago, wore neon pink underwear and translucent cotton sleeping...
    TetraZL TetraZL 13-15, F Oct 3

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    I just don't think I get out there as much as I should, there are a lot of things that people younger than me have already done & I haven't. It's not like I want to do a lot of...
    Isayis23 Isayis23 26-30, M Oct 8

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    Being on this website is to help you release your feelings. Not to empower your negative thoughts. If your not happy with your life make a change ! It's never too late. Live life...
    YoungJoseM YoungJoseM 18-21, M Oct 14

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    Bday party at the office, year after year. It has become a permanent date in the calendar. That day, I already set my mind on what to do. As I use the motorbike to work more than...
    samemay54 samemay54 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 16

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    I read a poem one which really encapsulates my life. In one part, it goes; Life for me ain't been no crystal stair. It's had tacks in it, And splinters, And boards torn up And...
    EllaRas EllaRas 16-17, F Oct 18

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    Life's Lessons When you feel chronically confused or stuck or enraged, or afraid, you realize that the crises we bring ourselves are angels trying to get our attention. An illness...
    samemay54 samemay54 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Just live the life in the best that you can.
    Shai15 Shai15 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 14

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    Hahaha this depends who the human is! If they're a nice human then I have an equal amount of Sympathy, if not? Yea that's a different story...
    thatcrazyveggo thatcrazyveggo 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I've been taking more small risks lately. Who cares what happens. Won't make a difference 500 years from now.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Oct 13

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    We are all rowing our boat across the river of life; all starting on the same shore, all going to the shore across the way. Some row one way; some row another way. The current runs...
    samemay54 samemay54 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    I certainly don't want to forget the past, and the lessons it gave...The truth is - life now is getting out fully of the dark and into the light. "When we begin to take our...
    samemay54 samemay54 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Especially when it comes to my music . And talking to girls . I'm not going to sit on my *** waiting for my moment to come . I'm going to ******* take it
    YoungJoseM YoungJoseM 18-21, M Oct 13

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    I'd feel alone without my tunes... Am eclectic when it comes to music, so have everything I like to fit certain moods. When I'm down, it brings me back to life again...
    sarahdicky sarahdicky 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 17

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    While meditating today I've learnt two new things and feel the need to share this knowledge. You can not change what people think about you. Even if they lie to you or lie to...
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think I've come to realize that I'm not now or ever will be ready for a relationship. I get depressed just seeing women in public. "Just another person that I'll never know...
    Eechay Eechay 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1

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    It's been almost a year since I got diagnosed with HIV. It's not been easy. I keep battling with the pain and guilt every second of my life.
    thizmystory thizmystory 22-25, M Oct 3

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    I've been tested for HIV. After I was raped I got tested for all Stds including HIV.
    SouthernBella89 SouthernBella89 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    Today my ear has swollen. When I hear lies, my ears block, when someone is talking bs to me for too long my ear reacts. When I'm not listening to my inner voice or ignoring some...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F Oct 6

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    People make me sick, I don't even know who I am anymore because I've had to hide for so long.
    peacewalkerx peacewalkerx 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I don't think it is good to look to the past and wonder about what could have been. Instead you should just go for it! Then there will only be a what was and what wasn't. I like to...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Oct 12

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    This happened these few years back. I met someone and really liked her so much. Nothing happened for first year but this year things really turning around. I'm a low profiled...
    zarencorp zarencorp 36-40 1 Response Oct 13

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    Of all forms of caution, caution in love is perhaps the most fatal to true happiness. - Bertrand Russell
    sunshinegirl23 sunshinegirl23 31-35, F Oct 18

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    I have met the most amazing man. I have had serious doubts about this site and issues with trust. I have met some very nice people but there have always been doubts in the back of...
    enchanting31 enchanting31 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 19

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    A neighbor of mine is a beautiful young woman that I knew since she was a kid and now is a sexy woman as if she were in college. We hung out many times but we never had sex even...
    lust4me lust4me 22-25, M a week ago

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    I can't connect with people or appreciate any moment anymore. I don't have any motivation and can never carry on a meaningful conversation anymore. I'm 23 and have no idea what i...
    williemonje williemonje 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Life's a perfect circle, only do what you want to be done to you in return.
    Offing Offing 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Life's like a roll of toilet paper you never know when it's gonna end.
    nic470 nic470 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Memories My son went back to the city; 'drove him to the ARPT. So here I am, back to being nostalgic ... writing. "Memories are God's way of keeping a flame ever burning, ever...
    samemay54 samemay54 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    Three and a half years. And I've never even been with someone I particularly cared about. Now I'm in a situation where I have no idea how to approach someone, how to flirt, how to...
    CinnamonCat CinnamonCat 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am 46 years old. I was married for 16 years. My boys are 15 and 17. I have primary custody. I have never missed my ex husband for one day. But I regret having broken our...
    Monicas2boys Monicas2boys 46-50, F Oct 6

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