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I 've Stopped Caring About

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    Wanting More

    I've given up on ever seeing any other state than the one I have lived in all my life. I will never go to Europe, visit places I only dream about. My husband has been all over the US, and when I ask him to take me somewhere, his answer is always, Aww, I've already been there. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 6, 2012

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    My Life

    When I started lowering my standards and letting others used me I stopped caring about my life. I didn't noticed at the time, but some of my decisions has caused me great pain. I've lost myself a long time ago while searching for love and trying to hold on to somethings that was...
    anewme35 anewme35 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Ive

    Stoped careing about my Self gave up nuff said
    alucardx alucardx 18-21, M Nov 30, 2010

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    Weight.

    I bought a bathroom scale last year and for a long time was obsessed with weighing myself in my desperate battle to be thinner. To cut a really long story short - now i don't care anymore. Not to say i am ok with my weight - I'm just happier to be in denial about it :) lol [NP]
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    My Weight

    My years in middle school i have been under weight and picked on for it so i decided that i will do something about i dont care if im the fattest person ever but i just dont wana be skinny so screw my weight im guna gain so people stop annoying me in school calling me skinny!
    kikois01 kikois01 13-15, M Sep 7, 2011

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    The Things I Cannot Control.

    To an extent anyway. I can't let things get completely out of hand or else my life would be pure chaos (and though I am cute in chaos, pure chaos is never a good thing) I just have to let some things slide, I cannot control everything that life throws at me. I don't know why I...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Jun 25, 2011

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    Why Don'T I Make A Change?

    I don't like how things in my life are going. I'm grateful for my job but there's got to be a better one out there. I don't like where I live or who I live with. I don't like the way I look. So why can't I find that to be motivation enough to make a change? I'm depressed, have...
    cyborgsquirrel cyborgsquirrel 26-30, F Apr 1, 2013

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    Others.

    i'm about to be a mother and i dont know if its hormonal or what but i've seriously stopped caring about doing things everybody elses way. would i want her to feel afraid to be herself? no. so i cant be. i cant be bothered to care about negative, hurtful, damaging people anymore...
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    My Reputation...

    It's ******...so why care???
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    What You Think

    I used to walk on egg shells for you.I wanted you to be proud of me. I wanted to be obedient and make you happy. I wanted to please you and receive your affection. I hungered for your kind words, your praise that seldom came.Now I no longer care what you think. I'm tired of...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    If i stopped caring just know it took everything within me to stop and you should really be worried 😁
    verox3 verox3 13-15, F Jul 12

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    It makes me live in fear and stops me from living my life. It just makes me more anxiety prone and angry. I've had it with letting others opinions control me. I'm done
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Do you know what happens when you decide to stop worrying about what other people might think of you? You get to dance. You get to sing. You get to laugh loudly, paint, write...
    marklovescoffee marklovescoffee 46-50, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My parents just don't care anymore. They used to have this thing where they thought long and hard where they would hide the wifi box. Nowadays, they stopped caring about where it...
    maliciousMartyr maliciousMartyr 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am an old lady.plz don't take offense, I'm proud of my age,don't act it,but sometimes feel it. I have a menagerie of animals,6 dogs, 3 cats, 27 chickens, 2 pot bellied pigs...
    50freenflirty 50freenflirty 26-30, F Jul 12

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    I especially worry about my mom. She is in her 50s, which normally would be no big deal, but several people in her family have died young from heart disease, including her father...
    AshCents AshCents 26-30 3 Responses Jul 9

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    She called me and asked for another chance. She wanted the rest of her life with me and I said no. Ironically she got her wish as she killed herself the moment that conversation...
    baconrind baconrind 26-30, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Its something that really irks me. You tell someone you're a certain religion and instantly they think things about you without knowing what they're talking about or doing their...
    sftbllstar16 sftbllstar16 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I am only physically attracted to females. I cannot see myself spending the rest of my life with one, but I am very turned on by a girls "parts". However, I really like guys...
    niamcmillan niamcmillan 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Is it bad that the littlest things can make me sad? I mean, me and my friend had been planning to go out today all week, we had everything planned, we were gonna go to the cinema...
    LiveForAnotherDay LiveForAnotherDay 13-15, F Jul 5

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    I've been thinking about it again recently. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to fix it. I don't wanna go back down that road. I'm lost.
    21cookielover21 21cookielover21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I've been thinking about girl names since I was like seven. They change all the time. I like Mona, Kira and Callee. I like Lyric, but that will probably be crossed off.
    KiannaJ KiannaJ 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    1. I love my hair. It’s totally awesome. 2. I use pomade sometimes. 3. I use a black comb. 4. I almost always carry a Swiss Army knife with me. 5. I always have tissues...
    BewareTheGonzo BewareTheGonzo 13-15 4 Responses Jul 20

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    About a month ago, my girlfriend broke up with me because she had feelings for somebody else. That guy is a friend that we, me and my ex, helped for 3 month because his ex broke...
    SleepBringer SleepBringer 22-25 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    - I grew up in a New Age environment. For many years when I had a headache or the flu, my mom would heal me instead of giving me pills. We would seek answers to our problems by...
    Vanaheim Vanaheim 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    Really, the title says it all. I can accept compliments about my intelligence, my ability with words, and my ability at my job. I can accept hearing that I'm a sweet and caring...
    fivetailedfox89 fivetailedfox89 22-25, F Jul 5

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    1) I am a Malaysian 2) I was born on 08/1995 3) I have brown eyes 4) I have brown hair 5) I am mixed with 1/4 chinese, 1/4 malay, 1/4 melanau and 1/4 mirek 6) I like poetry 7) My...
    thelonercollegestudent thelonercollegestudent 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I lost my right leg when I was 3. Maybe it's a little sick but I enjoy freaking people out. When I was going to school I got in trouble several times for taking my leg off and...
    krool1969 krool1969 41-45, M 13 hrs ago

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    It's so scary to think about how much I care. How much I've let my walls down around you. All I want is to love you, be there for you, and make you happy. I've had to put a lot of...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I stopped this, I stopped this, I stopped this. I stopped cutting, I was getting better, I had stopped harming. Stopped my dark thoughts of suicide and harm, since you left I had...
    Danosaurphilion Danosaurphilion 13-15, F Jul 5

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    The First Time Many times...along my life: - First time was in a major change.I had it all,I was happy kid with a family.Suddenly,I lost it all.My mom died.Days without sleep...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I think I've had enough of this App. Thinking about deleting my account.
    Hotchocolate22 Hotchocolate22 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I don't know how this works so I'm just going to jump in. I've been married for40 years,I've loved him for forever! But the last few years he's changed and I don't like him...
    randi1957 randi1957 56-60, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    1. I've been depressed for 5 yrs 2. I self harm because of so many things 3. Nobody in my life cares about me or how I feel 4. I'm ugly 5. I'm not one of those people who says...
    NPkid97 NPkid97 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    1. I am a bisexual female 2. I get asked a lot if I prefer guys over girls or girls over guys 3. I go both ways equally. That's what's great about being bi 4. I really love...
    RozzebellConta RozzebellConta 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    I feel like I'm in the middle all the time. Its a terrible feeling. I've been in a relationship for years now and I still love him like the day I met him. Don't ask me why...
    LStacey LStacey 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    Background: I am married, we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    It's just hormones... right? That's what i'm always telling myself but im bloody 18 years old and i'm losing my mind. It's the old cliche that no one undestands me and heck to be...
    Yomarion Yomarion 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    --Chronic Underachiever Ever since I can remember, I have been the "smart kid". I would score much higher on tests even though I hadn't studied and other kids have. I was...
    alcool91 alcool91 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    1. My name is Brooke 2. I'm 16 3. I'm bi 4. I like to read and write 5. I'm a virgin 6. I'm bipolar type 2 7. I'm depressed and have major anxiety 8. I have never been kissed 9...
    BrookeDuchanne16 BrookeDuchanne16 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I always found myself into guys and I was always raised that way. My first anything was a guy when I was 15, we dated for 4 years. But before that I kinda had a little crush on my...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F 17 hrs ago

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    1. I'm gay. (also curious about girls) 2. I'm 26 years old. 3. I'm 6.2 inches 😜. 4. I'm romantic and seeking love. 5. I love technology, music and TV. 6. I've been heart broken...
    somenonstop1 somenonstop1 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    Author's note: I'm sorry if all this doesn't make sense. It was written to understand, and I worked through a lot writing it. It feels odd posting it but I haven't posted here in a...
    theologian theologian 18-21, M Jul 4

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    It was during my School's Dance. 🎉My BFF, Haley and I were at my🏡getting dressed and ready. I told her about how I would reveal my feelings to my crush, Justin, that night...
    BossiRossi BossiRossi 16-17, F Jul 7

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    I am stronger because of all I've been through... I was 16 when everything happened. It all seemed to snowball honestly. I had been home sick with the flu. I was staying at my...
    Ginnty Ginnty 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    I don't like it when people worry about me.. It adds a burden to me.. I start feeling too responsible for their feelings Don't get me wrong I like people caring for me and what...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    The same woman has cut my hair for about twenty years. I've secretly wanted her to cut it super short but she's always stopped short of what I've dreamed of; a super short buzz...
    OSHfan OSHfan 41-45, M 22 hrs ago

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