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I Veduo Sex

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    I lived in a nearly sexless relationship for almost a decade. At first, of course, it was great, but it faded so very quickly, and became routine and VERY infrequent, like, four...
    incorporealist incorporealist 36-40, M 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    "Sexual Aversion Disorder" I am not sure if anyone has ever posted about this in this group...Actually I am sure someone has but I cannot find such post. apparently there is an...
    JackHawthorne JackHawthorne 31-35, M 7 Responses Aug 31

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    I found an interesting study on sexlessness in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. I can't share the full pdf because there's no way to upload it here, but I will copy and paste the...
    RedOctagon RedOctagon 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 2

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    i am currently in a long term relationship we have been together for 2 years and 4 months. We used to have sex often but lately i feel as though im the one making the effort and...
    emloves emloves 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 19

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    Today's Dear Prudence: " Dear Prudence, My wife hates sex. Over the years, her libido has gradually faded to nothing and she now finds even the thought of intercourse unpleasant...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 19 Responses Sep 4

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    My "best friend" tried to rape me when I was 12, I don't want something like happen again, where someone I thought I could trust betrays me. But I'm not sure I could avoid it if a...
    KamiTheBear KamiTheBear 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I am not at all ashamed of sexuality. I think that being a woman is a great thing and I have no problem showing off my curves, my chest my ***. I think there is nothing wrong with...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    For me a dress specifically a body con & a great pair of heels has always made me feel like a goddess. The key is to be sexy in a "tasteful" & "subtle" manner nothing too tight or...
    livelymind livelymind 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    My husband and I have been together ten years, and married for seven. Sex dropped off right after the wedding. Over our married years, we have typically had sex every other month...
    VanillaAlmond1 VanillaAlmond1 31-35, F 22 Responses Sep 2

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    I'm a 22 year old female in a loving committed relationship of 1 year with a 30 year old man. The relationship is great except when it comes to sex. The sex is good when we do have...
    Twistedlover13 Twistedlover13 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 Aug 21

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Well. It is finally official. I am divorced! After all the craziness, after years of sexless marriage and emotional distance, after emotional and physical abuse, after having an...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 22

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    Not necessarily a sexless marriage, but one lacking intimacy. I have sex often...not as much as I would like, but often. I think I'm an above average sexual guy, so I kind of...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30 8 Responses Aug 24

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    OK, so I don't actually have a totally a sexless marriage but here's my input & what we have that others don't have. Communication. We've been together for 20 years, married for 13...
    Xlandria61 Xlandria61 61-65, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    I have posted here before, and am still (just) in my SM - but taking steps to leave it. I guess this might sound like a rant, but it's really just a question, and I would welcome...
    adeptlinguist adeptlinguist 51-55, M 24 Responses Aug 26

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    Married 23 years, no sex for the last 5. If you count years when sex occurred less than half a dozen times, then the number of sexless years climbs to 15. Some people say that a...
    EmbraceableMe EmbraceableMe 41-45 23 Responses Aug 26

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 23 Responses Aug 27

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    As it says I love sex but I'm not desperate I'm not worried if I go a few weeks without it or a month it's not a big deal & no I would not chase someone for sex or date someone...
    londonboy1 londonboy1 46-50, M Sep 5

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    It was New Year's Day seven years ago when I got the message. My niece called me to tell me my Dad was on the way to the hospital. It seems she had found him in the garage in a...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 19 Responses Sep 7

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    When I originally posted in April of 2011, I was living in a sexless marriage. I was confused, heartbroken and angry... What happened in the 3 years following has nearly destroyed...
    malms malms 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I AM CURRENTLY working for a sexy demanding female boss. This is something I have always wanted but sort of gave up on. I always had male bosses as well as an unsexy female boss...
    Cleancut Cleancut 41-45 a week ago

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I guess I don't really know what I am, nor do I really care to put a label on it, but when you label it, I guess it's easier to find others who feel similarly and who you can talk...
    graveyardghosty graveyardghosty 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I'm sure we all have read the story of the guy who emailed his wife a spreadsheet of his failed attempts at sexual advances. I've read more than a few articles on the story...
    chuckdaly chuckdaly 36-40, M 12 Responses Aug 22

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    I married a great guy! Seriously. He is just not into any form of sex. No hand holding, No kissing, no nothing. Last time we had sex. 13 years ago. Conceived our last daughter. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Aug 24

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    I don't have anyone I could talk to, but I am dying for sex. I was sex deprived as a kid, because my parents controlled my life too much. They consider sex as a kid of sin. In the...
    pblack pblack 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 26

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    So I love my wife and don't kid me wrong she's my soulmate, but we can never have sex. You see my wife suffers from Lichen sclerosus which hurts her and makes it hard for me to...
    Aqualung27 Aqualung27 31-35, M 7 Responses Sep 1

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    Yesterday we once again had a chat, I had to chip and chip at the hardened exterior of his, to try and talk. He opened up a little more than usual perhaps because I was getting...
    saxappeal saxappeal 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 8

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    I have been asked this question many times, but I think its time to revisit it again. This took place the other night out with friends. The question was , As a t girl how do you...
    MiriamK MiriamK 56-60, T 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm tired of people on here complaining that their partner won't have sex with them. Sex doesn't just happen because one person gets turned on. You can't treat someone like a...
    emptynow emptynow 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's been a little over a month since I posted my last story. In this last month, the two large things that occurred were that we had our 5 year wedding anniversary and this past...
    dangerouslyheartbroken dangerouslyheartbroken 31-35, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Every times I see any attractive women, I tend to do anything to get them on bed. I am very passionate about sex and my first sex experience was when I only 13, I slept with my gf...
    cjcj0967 cjcj0967 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    And I'm in a sexless marriage. I need a fwb. I find it sexy when a woman talks sexy, dresses sexy and likes pics.
    jokerstwn jokerstwn 46-50, M Aug 17

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    So late breaking development....my wife comes downstairs about an hour ago to my home office, which is very unusual as she very rarely bothers me during the work day in personally...
    HopefulDude HopefulDude 36-40, M 23 Responses Aug 18

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    Short comings, short sex drive, short of expressing love are all part of Sexless Marriage. Denial and refusal are very familiar. Pay attention to your spouse's messages. My s/m...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 7 Responses Aug 19

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    I wish I didn't think about sex as much as I do. My wife and I have sex pretty often, but my sexual appetite could feed giants. I wish I had a personal sex slave. Lol
    Thediary Thediary 26-30 1 Response Aug 19

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    Or, at least I try to do.... Martika, my madam, insists that all her prostitutes smoke and they have to look sexy and act sexy too.... That goes with the smoking too.... Amber...
    SarahTheHooker SarahTheHooker 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I have always been sort of a Nymphomaniac. I did not have sex until I met the guy I love and am still with. As soon as we began having sex, I became addicted. I will randomly get...
    MacKenzie2943 MacKenzie2943 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    When my wife and I first met almost 8 years ago our sex life was amazing! As time went on and over the last 2 years sex has gone bye bye! We both battle depression which is a...
    BigE47 BigE47 46-50, M 7 Responses Aug 21

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    Bear with me because this may seem off topic, but it isn't. I've been recently thinking about death. Yesterday, my post sexless marriage lover had to put his beloved dog of 14...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 13 Responses Aug 21

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    .... So sex isn't important to her, and that hurts way more than it should, right? I feel like my life wouldn't be complete without her, but without sex, lust, passion, the feeling...
    drako112005 drako112005 22-25, M 15 Responses Aug 24

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    I have been denied sex by my wife for the past 24 years. I acknowledge that in the beginning I was responsible for most of the problems in the relationship. I was an alcoholic and...
    davejgj davejgj 66-70, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Please understand that I'm super nice and I'm not here to help you in your sexual fantasies. I'm not going to send you my picture, and I don't expect to get a picture of you. I'm...
    laracomn laracomn 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    So, we're on vacation in a beautiful and exotic place. It should be very romantic, right? During an excursion in a scenic location, Husband and I had a quiet moment together...
    WestSiderWoman WestSiderWoman 46-50, F 23 Responses Aug 26

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    i really like sex ..but i did not do so many times ,but in real i like real sex ,i have done so many times in cam as well but that's not like that i want to ... btw i am not here...
    rev429 rev429 18-21, M Aug 30

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