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    I've been in a relationship for 20 yrs and over the last few years the sex has all but completely stopped . I couldn't even tell you the last time we had sex it's been that long. I...
    ozbiker65 ozbiker65 46-50, M 8 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Im more curious about this because i have a friend who told me she only gets sex about once every few months. Ive seen a lot of recommendations about counseling, but i haven't...
    Tanya30 Tanya30 31-35, F 5 Responses 31 mins ago

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    I am feeling this strong sexual affection towards my cousin and I wondered if someone could give me advise
    lumperjack18 lumperjack18 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    I am in the mood all the time. I have sex w my bf everyday. Then I broadcast myself playing w toys on this website. I get off 5-10 times a day. Hundreds of men watch my online...
    confused20somethingfemale confused20somethingfemale 26-30, F 14 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I went to one of her fashion shows and I got invited backstage to meet her. When I got there I saw her she was wearing a bikini, anyway I said hi and she said hi back, I kept...
    Ladiesman93 Ladiesman93 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    Thoughts on counter-refusing, or "why would I do to my SO what has hurt me so much?" This was posted elsewhere, but I thought I would post it here. The practice of a HL...
    stayinghereforreal stayinghereforreal 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 3

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    Those who do not have to deal with this situation must find it odd that those of us who do, express such deep sadness and longing. How often do the comments suggested the simple...
    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 18 Responses 2 days ago

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    I can't believe it. Over two years and a half years gone....And, let me tell you I have had more sex in these past two years then the twelve years of that relationship combined...
    rosedl rosedl 41-45, F Mar 26

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    Result of the “talk” Friday night & going to try to keep this as condensed as possible. But, Im going to preface this with….some ppl on here would NOT consider my situation...
    Neverthoughtit Neverthoughtit 46-50, F 11 Responses Mar 29

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    One month update on my one month update. My wife continues to try to fux me out of this group. The last 4 weeks (totalling 8 now if my math is good) we have been having a lot of...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 18 Responses Apr 7

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    Update from Opposite Land Even though I normally have sex 3-4 times a week with my beloved post sexless marriage lover, I haven't had sex for a week. Why? He is sick with...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    the reasons why i dont want to do anything sexual before marriage : reason number 1 : what if i had sex with my girl friend before marriage , and after few days i met with...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Seriously need advice :(....Soo I'm new at this... I'm 23 years old.. Got married really young, have 2 babies, one of which was born this year. I've been married for 5 years. My...
    missme90 missme90 22-25, F 10 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Rules of Engagement - A few new members have posted in this forum recently, and while I've only been a member for few weeks, I thought I'd share my opinion on the purpose of this...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 15 Responses Mar 20

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    Make that, that I used to live in a marriage that was becoming a sexless marriage. Today would have been our second anniversary. The story is complicated, but to make it short, she...
    soundtrackforantarctica soundtrackforantarctica 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 25

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    I have been married for 8 years. The sex was just alright in the first couple of years and then basically dwindled off into never ever land. I thought I could accept her lack of...
    ll2live ll2live 41-45 8 Responses Apr 7

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    The Other Big Question-- In Case You Think "all-great-bar-the-sex" Baz posted a story the other day about how we ought to consider what we are "really" searching for before we...
    EinEngel EinEngel 46-50, F 8 Responses Apr 8

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    Me and R have been together for more than a year now. At the beginning he wasn't interested in sex at all, he was very respectful and made me wait for it. I was crying inside...
    Miss2nn Miss2nn 18-21, F a week ago

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    I have been together with my wife for 18 years and been married for 8 years soon. And the past 8 years there have been less and less sex. For now, no sex at all. All these years i...
    WhereIsHome WhereIsHome 36-40, M 15 Responses 6 days ago

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    This is a little scary, posting about such private matters to people I've never met, but here goes. I googled sexless marriage for the first time today. What triggered it was the...
    TCKat TCKat 36-40, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    I love my husband, but I have been having sex with just him for over a decade. I would much rather have sex with a different man every other month than to have sex with my husband...
    FrolickingFemale FrolickingFemale 36-40, F 15 Responses 4 days ago

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    How people get into sexless marriages A friend of mine who is in her late forties is being chased by a widower in his late fifties who wants to marry her. He seems to be very...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 17 Responses Mar 18

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    I've been in a marriage for quite some time, but fell away from sex within my marriage about one year ago. I had been the one attempting to encourage my wife to have relations with...
    AVisionary AVisionary 36-40, M 11 Responses Mar 20

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    I'm only sexual towards one person at a time and in that process. I'm too sexual.. it is very uncommon for someone to be with me and not see my naked or touching myself. I know...
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Hi, i would like to find a couple who is interested in helping me convince my wife to join in on couples play and swinging. I know that she would enjoy it, and has an extremely...
    Eha8584 Eha8584 26-30, M 4 Responses Mar 24

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    No, I don't think its the MOST important thing, but I do know that if you and your partner aren't on the same wavelength, it can truly mess up an otherwise good relationship. I...
    suzieb1971 suzieb1971 41-45, F Mar 27

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    My wife whom I love dearly and I had sex twice last year and not at all this year. I know I will never again have sex and I'm doing my best to come to terms with this. The...
    Dropbear Dropbear 41-45, M 22 Responses Mar 27

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    Two weeks ago, I shared what I thought would be my current status for awhile. Life being what it is - it has thrown me into a crazy roller coaster loop once again. The good news...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 21 Responses Mar 28

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    Overview: Male 47 ; Australia; Dated (celibate) a young Catholic lady for seven years; Married for seven more years (sexless after honeymoon); no children (guess why); We have had...
    angelwanderer angelwanderer 46-50 27 Responses Apr 1

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    I don't know what to do. I have never been sure about my sexuality and I have been experimenting with both sexes. I am currently in a relationship with a male and even though it...
    x5m45h1ngx x5m45h1ngx 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    My mom just told me the other day that I might have been sexually abused when I was 4. I was like, "What do you mean, "might" ? " She would drop me off at daycare when she went to...
    innerself000 innerself000 18-21 1 Response Apr 7

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    I have sex sex all the time not with my hubby but his friends whenever they come over I make sure my boobs r showing n I look hot so they get hard sometimes I send my hubby to get...
    Roshni23 Roshni23 18-21, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    So I have this friend that I use to mess around with sexually and it was the best sex we both ever had. We are both in serious relationships but he asked me if I would be his sex...
    ladysinister ladysinister 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    While this might be off topic... I am always amazed at people whom judge someone's sexual abilities by their looks. My ex( who's pic is in my profile) is a dammed good looking...
    drawttocs drawttocs 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I am a married man who is married to a wonderful woman. However she has recently told me that she wants nothing to do with sex ever again. It has been over 15 months since we have...
    Hingeman Hingeman 26-30, M 25 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've given everything to this man I married, the one I call my husband. He has nothing to give in return. One of the hardest things to deal with are friends and outsiders who...
    Texaswind Texaswind 41-45, F 13 Responses Mar 16

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    Venting again... I always wondered about the Madonna-***** complex and… here it is… seems like my husband is one of them. I needed some weeks to think about it after he told...
    dalessa dalessa 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 17

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    Its a litle strange talking about my sexless life but i dont have anybody in my life to talk with. Im sorry if my english is not spelled right but its not my first language. I...
    easylistener easylistener 36-40, M 7 Responses Mar 19

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    I love having sex... I'm an Aries... I loving giving oral sex... I love getting oral sex... Aries the Sex Goddess.. That's What We Do.... WELL SOME OF US..LOL..
    mkenzi0924 mkenzi0924 22-25, M Mar 19

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    After my husband cheated on me with prostitutes (see the experience before this), I've found I want sex all the time now. I had a fairly high sex drive before, and he certainly...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    It's not that I don't have any sex but it's not as often and as passionate or sexy as I want it to be or have it. It used to be very often and sexy on the first 3 months of...
    memarried memarried 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    Not sure why, but lately I have this sexual urge.. My ex bf & I have been having slumber parties because I just cant get enough. The new thing on my mind is I want to try being...
    zbabi3 zbabi3 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    I NEED SEX! ALL I THINK OF IS SEX SEX SEX.
    polles135 polles135 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Everyday I'm less and less interested in have sex. I feel like I was in a rush to have sex and now I've had to it and its like, now what? I'm not rushing to have sex with anybody...
    Addictivethickness Addictivethickness 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    There are 2 whys in the sexless marriage. The first is: why does my spouse not want sex? This leads to a huge cycle of reason-chasing, smokescreening from the refuser, magical...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 8 Responses Mar 26

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    I am married (8 years) and I have two young children. Over the last perhaps six years our sex frequency has plummeted which has results in sex approximately four times a year over...
    redindiantenttour redindiantenttour 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 29

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    Last night: We've been spending nights on separate rooms for more than 1 1/2 yrs now, no sex. I've made it clear that I don't want to form enemity or strife as we part ways...
    lovegentle lovegentle 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 30

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    A good friend of mine has started talking to me about his divorce last year in more detail and it turned out he was in a long time sexless marriage (and I believe his account of it...
    celtusa celtusa 46-50, M 11 Responses Apr 2

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    I love female company. The sexiest thing about sex is the build up to it and the attraction between two people. I have sex regularly but only with the same people. It's wonderful...
    Bradovch Bradovch 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I don't get it, sex is something that everybody does, but still there are people who complain about it being dirty. two men together is dirty ? two women together is dirty...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Hi, it's Dakota again. I've already told my story of being raped by my uncle and three strange men last summer, just after I turned 14. One of the men was killed in a bad drug deal...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M Apr 4