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    Okay, so I was on here a few days ago and told a little about my situation and history. Most people were harsh and judgmental towards me when I admitted to being the one who...
    Nil0 Nil0 46-50, F 8 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Actually it's my ex. We remained as friends. Every time he calls me, something related to sex always pops up, and it's annoying. He's had sex many times, with many women, and I...
    SomethingGrimm SomethingGrimm 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    So I was on here struggling with the topics of living in a sexless marriage, being sexually frustrated and feeling disrespected not too long ago. Although I would still love much...
    picadilly1970 picadilly1970 41-45, F 6 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I have always been more sexually active than others I know. I suffered a brain injury in 2010. I now go through times of sexually promiscuous behavior that is interesting. I get...
    Coppercoosa Coppercoosa 36-40, M 1 hr ago

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    I really want to have crazy sex with my sister
    hornyharry123 hornyharry123 22-25, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    after 12 years of marriage and 2 1/2 years of NO sex at all... my husband walked out on me today. I feel so lost at the moment. I'm left here with 2 kids to raise. I have no...
    helenback helenback 36-40, F 18 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2014/06/7-ways-to-avoid-having-a-sexless-marriage/
    Dreamgirl75 Dreamgirl75 36-40, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Since I turned forty, I' m now 61 I jut cant get satisfied sexually
    hot61 hot61 61-65, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    If I told you that I would have sex with any guy who messaged me..how many would message me?! Lots I bet:/
    SexyCanadian321 SexyCanadian321 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Hi everybody. If you've been following me, you know that I recently ended my sexless, loveless, very lonely marriage. Somebody at work today asked me if I'm enjoying the single...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 36-40, F 4 Responses 25 mins ago

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    From Psychology Today "Contrary to conventional wisdom, married couples—and their cohabiting counterparts—have more sex than the nonmarried, a fact confirmed in a 2010 survey...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 8 Responses Jul 7

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    My college sweetheart and I have been married 21 years and we have three children (11-20). My wife desires no sex. I pay very close attention to and meet her needs in all other...
    NoTalkJustDo NoTalkJustDo 41-45, M 10 Responses Jul 13

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    What can I say? I love sex. I am very in tuned with my sexuality. I know what I like, I know what I don't like. I know what I'm doing in the bed room. I've accepted the fact that...
    LovelyLadyJ LovelyLadyJ 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    Myths about low sexual desire: "Myth #3: If your partner wants sex but you don't, you can express your love in other ways. We tend to think that people should be able to choose...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Maybe ladies and gents if your partner doesn't want to have sex often or ever maybe it's cause their self esteem is low, try complimenting them by saying as often as you can how...
    greatinbedchick greatinbedchick 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 11

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    There was this particular person who commented on my sexiness. So I asked him, how could he say so when he hasn't even seen me. His answer was like the words in my head that were...
    malipatient malipatient 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I'm in a same sex relationship, we've been together for over a decade. Same sex marriage isn't legal in our state but we had a commitment ceremony several years ago and consider...
    cloudsinyoureyes cloudsinyoureyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    Sexless Marriage is a Biblical Reason for Divorce This is a re-post of a comment I wrote to someone that TheWendigo suggested I post as a story, in case it helps anyone. I am...
    UndefinedValue UndefinedValue 31-35, F 13 Responses Jul 21

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    Ok, so that first post wasn't so scary so why not a post two? I cannot begin to express how freeing it is just to have expressed it all. SM isn't something most people would want...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 1

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    I am mostly naked when Im out on the streets because I love to show my sexy body for people but I also love to dress sexy in a bra, a garter, stockings, a sexy top, a short skirt...
    nakedmartin nakedmartin 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    I've been reading posts here and I guess I'm what most of you would call a "refuser", and here's why: my husband's "sexy" touch creeps me out and knowing that the sex (if I allow...
    equila equila 41-45 21 Responses Jul 11

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    Pelvic Floor Disorder. Something to think about. My marriage ultimately ended due to this disorder. The lack of intimacy and sex killed our marriage. For over 12 years I...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 15

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    I've been reading for a couple of weeks and I couldn't believe that it's not just our dysfunction. We've been married for 12 years but "together" since high school that's like 24...
    Anirak73 Anirak73 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 16

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    I Am Looking For Someone Going Through The Same Thing. I am in an all-but-sexless relationship with someone I love and respect, and I'm looking for someone who can relate to talk...
    NXS3 NXS3 26-30, F 18 Responses Jul 17

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    Read and weep or read and vow to take the steps under your control to make your life better. "Don't believe us? A Reddit thread popped up this week asking married folks to weigh...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    Not a whole lot to tell. My wife announced over 10 years ago that there would be no more sex. She has hip and shoulder joint pain from being a hairdresser, so I don't blame her for...
    greyeagle45 greyeagle45 66-70, M 6 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm 42, he's 40. We've been married 7 years with 2 kids. I just thought we were too tired for a sex life. For the last couple of years I have had this low level of resentment...
    Blox99 Blox99 41-45, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sex-Shaming I ran across this, buried down in a string of comments: "Actually they say the more intelligent a person is often the less sex they need..." I was a little surprised...
    MeNotWe MeNotWe 26-30, F 15 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey everyone. I have not updated in a while. Found out my husband has a sex addiction. I would have never thought so since we hardly had sex and to me a sex addict was someone that...
    miamorinvano miamorinvano 26-30, F 15 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm 29, married for 5 years, 2 beautiful kids. Unfortunately like most here I live in a sexless marriage. I have for several years. Now some will say, your young and just not happy...
    incognito21 incognito21 26-30, M 15 Responses Jul 1

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    For many years everything was great - including the sex. Then menopause and hormones kicked in and she has zero - I mean ZERO interest in having sex or pleasuring me. We're still...
    amaturegent amaturegent 56-60, M 9 Responses Jul 2

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    It's Complicated I'm in a sexless marriage, and it's complicated, probably not unlike a lot of people here. I've been married for 28 years, and the last eight years have been...
    LightAtNight LightAtNight 51-55 8 Responses Jul 3

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    I am in my third marriage. Curious how things go, my first one ended because my wife refused sex almost all the time. to the point of being intolerable. The stories I read here, i...
    marcz7 marcz7 46-50, M 9 Responses Jul 4

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    I don't know if anybody else experiences the same but there is no intimacy not just lack of sex. There is the mandatory kiss goodnight....which I absolutely resent! We have only...
    forensicfox forensicfox 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 6

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    Our child is away with grandparents for the next 10 days. I thought we'd have sex because it's one less excuse not to. He worked last night so I didn't try anything b/c I knew he...
    elana29 elana29 26-30 7 Responses Jul 7

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    Our child is away with grandparents for the next 10 days. I thought we'd have sex because it's one less excuse not to. He worked last night so I didn't try anything b/c I knew he...
    elana29 elana29 26-30 1 Response Jul 7

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    Being a woman of pre-menopause years, my sexual appetite was literally gone for right at 4 years. I did not think about sex, talk about sex, dream about sex, nothing. I was...
    RosieRose63 RosieRose63 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm tired of arguing about sex, but I feel like if I don't bring it up, we would NEVER have it. I tried to discuss a solution to our issue and plan days for sex. He totally blew...
    elana29 elana29 26-30 10 Responses Jul 9

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    So I'm about to completely pull the plug on sex with my wife, going from minimal and miserable intimacy to a state of married celibacy. No touch, no look, no talking about it, it's...
    nmau nmau 41-45, M 18 Responses Jul 9

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    It has been 6 yrs since my husband and I have had sex. I say sex because it was years before that when we made love. Our love life was amazing. We were always touching, kissing...
    LexiNY LexiNY 41-45, F 16 Responses Jul 12

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    I sometimes wonder what it would be like if we lived according to our sexual instincts. I've sometimes imagined a world where it was normal to be naked and people can just have sex...
    truthhurts511 truthhurts511 22-25, F 16 Responses Jul 12

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    I usually love sex. I'm a very sexual person and I would do it multiple times a day if I could but right now, I'm so sick of sex. Anything about sex I just feel nauseous because of...
    sunflowerpet sunflowerpet 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    Where to start? Ten years into this marriage and no sex for almost five years. Yes, YEARS..... Feel like a fool when a woman makes advances towards me. Feel like a pervert when...
    letsexperience letsexperience 56-60, M 4 Responses Jul 17

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    Okay I live in Michigan and the age to consent to sex is 16 I'm guessing that's with any age but below 16. Anyways this 42 year old police officer who lives in Canada came over the...
    cupcakes38 cupcakes38 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Okay I live in Michigan I was 17 now 18 at the time and the age to consent to sex is 16 I'm guessing that's with any age but below 16. Anyways this 42 year old police officer who...
    cupcakes38 cupcakes38 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    "Im in a sexless marriage but I won't cheat on my spouse." The problem you hope to never face but are never prepared to face. Often people are at the end of their rope, having...
    Happablap Happablap 26-30, M 6 Responses Jul 20

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