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I Viduo Sex

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    So last night, my boyfriend and I had a little fun before bed and it was truly magical. I'm not like most girls tho and that's why it was so magical to me because I'm a girl with a...
    GrangerDanger21 GrangerDanger21 18-21, T 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    just went for a walk down the block dressed as a sexy maid with white lace garter, white lace panties and white stockings with black high heeled boots just as i got home two guys...
    vjss vjss 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I am interested to know if anyone over 50 is dealing with sex addiction, either yourself or a spouse?
    sweetleah007 sweetleah007 61-65, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Peg Bundy. I fell like Peg from Married with Children. My husband refuse sex, drinks beer and is addicted to TV. Sums up my life.
    MomofIrishTwins MomofIrishTwins 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Rediscovering Sex in a Sexless Marriage: Rediscovering sex - This is where things are at now. For those who are reading my story for the first time let me point out my marriage...
    Fireflyz26 Fireflyz26 31-35, F 13 Responses Oct 2

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    How to Find Out About Someone's Sex Life edits by: PoliceExperiment, Andrew (see all) Every been curious about someone's sex life and you know it's off limits to talk about? but...
    policeExperiment policeExperiment 22-25 Oct 2

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    Just had a bunch on my mind and feel like rambling. So I want to share a little about my rehabilitated sexless marriage (see backstory for details) due to a few private emails...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 9 Responses Oct 3

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    I've been in a long term sexless marriage (decades). I was sexually insecure at the time of the marriage, and she was too, so it worked at the time for both of us. Over all those...
    Figureitoutguy Figureitoutguy 51-55, M 9 Responses Oct 12

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    I'm new here and hope my post makes it to the right place. I've been with my H for 17 years. He's 10 years older than I am, I'm 55. from the beginning he had ED problems, but I...
    Sarita22 Sarita22 46-50, F 20 Responses Oct 14

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    Sex Addict - I'm curious if any members of ILIASM went to see the move "Addicted" that was released this week. It's the story of a married woman who becomes a sex addict and...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 21 Responses Oct 20

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    My husband is overweight, but is kind, considerate, even handsome. We have two kids together and have a wonderful family life. Since we've been married (4 years now), the sex...
    mzansigirl mzansigirl 36-40, F 24 Responses Oct 22

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    I am trying to come to terms with everything. My husband wants a sexless marriage. Why? Because he feels sex interferes with his spiritual progress. I have tried talking to him...
    mairia mairia 26-30, F 17 Responses 6 days ago

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    I would really appreciate to hear stories/opinons/advice on this. Sorry for the length! I have been with my fiance for 5 years and we are engaged to marry next year. On face value...
    Tyogani Tyogani 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    Maybe I shouldn't complain but I would probably b in a sexless marriage if I never initiated the sex or intimacy with my wife. I always initiate, my wife never will and when I do...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 4

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    Hi I am new to this forum but I have had the opportunity to read posts and study them. I feel less lonely now and realize that my experience is shared by many. I decided to post as...
    FantasticNJGuy FantasticNJGuy 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 7

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    I'm not Catholic, but I think they may be onto something: http://bigstory.ap.org/article/5ac7492950f544a897cb0f98e3a56a39/pope-and-prelates-get-crash-course-sex-synod VATICAN...
    Waiting4What Waiting4What 46-50, F 9 Responses Oct 8

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    So, I've posted previously, but its a been a long time. I've been married over 11 years, the vast majority of which which have been sexless. I've spoken to my wife countless times...
    Xaeth Xaeth 36-40, M 22 Responses Oct 8

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    House of Mirrors - My STBX said the creepiest thing to me last night. He came into my bedroom (I moved into the guest room 4 months ago), sat on the edge of my bed (which he hasn...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 30 Responses Oct 13

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    If you knew you were going to live another 20-30 or so years would you be willing to remain in a sexless marriage or would you divorce? According to this quiz, I will live...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 16 Responses Oct 13

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    There’s a number of reasons why people live in sexless marriages, every married couple’s situation is different; you could talk to fifteen different couples and hear fifteen...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 8 Responses Oct 17

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    People who engage in polygamy, people who enjoy being spanked while restrained, people who enjoy feet, people who enjoy being in body suits, people who enjoy sex only in public...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 20

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    Living in Japan, my experience may be slightly different than a lot of you... I've been married for 8 years, she got pregnant before we were married, and since then, I can count...
    griker42 griker42 31-35, M 9 Responses Oct 20

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    I am 37 years old and have been in a relationship with my current bf for 13 years. We aren't legally married, but we have lived together for 12 years and we have one child together...
    lyssak lyssak 36-40, F 14 Responses Oct 21

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    I am feeling lost, or losing a part of myself. I love my husband, and he loves me. But we have not had sex for 4 years. We actually are a very good team, we work together, we...
    LostSophya LostSophya 26-30, F 18 Responses a week ago

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    Sexual content. Not adult content. Haven't you noticed that every time you see a member protesting the ban on sexual content, they refer to it as "adult content" ? Well why is...
    1stepforward3shovesback 1stepforward3shovesback 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 12

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    DSM (Diagnostic & Statistic Manual of Mental Disorder) diagnosis of HDD (hyper sexual desire disorder) as a mental affection, devaluates asexuality as a sexual orientation. Which...
    JesseVicious JesseVicious 22-25, T 1 Response Oct 17

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    Higher love. And baser desires. I'm still kinda dwelling on my h's explosion at me last weekend. One of the things he told me was the 'he fell in love with my mind'. Which is...
    elkclan elkclan 41-45, F 9 Responses Oct 20

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    Sexuality is a state of mind you can choose at any given time. That's not to say I don't believe in gay or straight, but more that the options are there if people want to take them...
    omgwut omgwut 41-45, M 5 Responses Oct 22

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    Just an Update As my husband deleted my prior account, EinEngel, thinking Experience Project was an affair website (laughable but sad), I will summarize my past for the newbies: 1...
    peaceseeker09 peaceseeker09 46-50, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    After reading a newly wed speak of his Teddy's are sexy, I wanted to share my own experience and thoughts. I think Teddy's are sexy cute and so on. But they are too out there...
    Gemma3sahara Gemma3sahara 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 5

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    A friend of mine told me a story at work today. My friends eight year old ask her if she has sex with her husband (remarried couple). Her response was to be honest, "Yes". Then...
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 7 Responses Oct 6

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    An interesting situation arose this afternoon/evening. I am a confident woman with a strong sex drive, and I'm not at all afraid of it. This doesn't mean I sleep around, or that I...
    lola101202 lola101202 36-40, F 19 Responses Oct 10

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    I have read a lot of the stories here and they all seem to blame the 'refuser'. (a term I have just learnt) Well I guess that means I am the refuser but I don't believe that means...
    alyssiax alyssiax 41-45, F 23 Responses Oct 11

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    To my fellow suffers I have a question. Let me first say that I know I'm an idiot. I married my first wife when I was 26 y.o.a. and I had some red flags but I thought I could fix...
    Nick5211 Nick5211 51-55, M 5 Responses Oct 11

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    Laying here typing this in front of her sleeping. Tonight, I rolled over to cuddle her, was refused sex verbally (which wasn't my goal although I won't deny I was feeling like I...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 8 Responses Oct 12

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    Okay, listen, I'm a teenage (Tomboy 😏) girl, and if this offends you in any way possible, I'm sorry, it was not intentional. Though I don't know how this would be offensive...
    DarkOnTheInside13 DarkOnTheInside13 13-15, F Oct 17

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    Well, I don't live in a SM anymore. I left him 1-year ago today. I'm still sexless (not for the whole year) but that's now my choice as opposed to a symptom. Choice feels way...
    NeedingToVent NeedingToVent 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 20

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    So my wife and I don't see eye-to-eye in the sex department and I haven't always been the nicest to her when she rejects my desires. She never initiated, so it has been left up to...
    sasst92 sasst92 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 23

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    I love God. I love God's Word. However, I am still a human with human needs & desires that have NEVER been met by my spouse in over 10 plus years of us being married. I have given...
    herlivingspirit35 herlivingspirit35 31-35, F 24 Responses 6 days ago

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    Can someone really change? Change inside, not just change behavior? That is the nagging question I have. We have a morning talks at 5 a.m. every day, to improve our...
    peaceseeker09 peaceseeker09 46-50, F 22 Responses 3 days ago

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    Well, after a four year hiatus, I'm back in this group. I was on EP years ago when I was at the 3 year mark of no intimacy in my marriage. After about two years of trying to make...
    caminova caminova 46-50, M 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    Tomorrow is a big day for me. It was Halloween night - 15 years ago - that I last had sex with my husband. I remember it like it was yesterday...he had to drink a six pack just to...
    SoDone1492 SoDone1492 46-50, F 19 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Well I did it. I took everyones advice in ILIASM, and I consulted an attorney in the event that I may need to pull the parachute on my marriage. Thank you Bazaar for hammering this...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    If you could change one thing about your partner would it be sex? I'm torn because I think a healthy sex life builds upon a lot of the other things we are lacking. With sex comes...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 19 Responses Oct 9

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    What is the most humiliating thing that you did to try to get affection or sex from your refuser? As my refuser aged, he had prostate problems that led to his occasionally wetting...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 15 Responses Oct 10

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    Wrote this a very long time ago as well and wanted to share... The Art of the Making of Family Bliss, love, frantic frenzied sex more sex so much sex, hate, confusion, emotions...
    SBH1 SBH1 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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