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    One summer day like three years ago, there was this girl who I'd known from middle school and the one day I was getting bullied quite severely so, she and I decided to go and have...
    smallguy18 smallguy18 16-17, M 1 Response 30 mins ago

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    "Sexual Aversion Disorder" I am not sure if anyone has ever posted about this in this group...Actually I am sure someone has but I cannot find such post. apparently there is an...
    JackHawthorne JackHawthorne 31-35, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I found an interesting study on sexlessness in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. I can't share the full pdf because there's no way to upload it here, but I will copy and paste the...
    RedOctagon RedOctagon 22-25, F 7 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    i am currently in a long term relationship we have been together for 2 years and 4 months. We used to have sex often but lately i feel as though im the one making the effort and...
    emloves emloves 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 19

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    My husband is a sex addict. I discovered this about a month ago, although I had been ignoring the clues for years. Throughout our marriage of 14 years (and before we met) he has...
    WestSiderWoman WestSiderWoman 46-50, F 16 Responses Aug 12

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    My wife and I love each other but we have not been physically intimate in five years. It began when my wife gave birth to our only son. She had preeclampsia and was very ill; our...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 13

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    My wife and I love each other but we have not been physically intimate in five years. It began when my wife gave birth to our only son. She had preeclampsia and was very ill; our...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 15 Responses Aug 13

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    Here goes...I found EP doing a search about sexless marriages so here I am, my first story. I've been married 15 years to a man who in the beginning had me believing he could not...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 14 Responses Aug 15

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    I am not at all ashamed of sexuality. I think that being a woman is a great thing and I have no problem showing off my curves, my chest my ***. I think there is nothing wrong with...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    For me a dress specifically a body con & a great pair of heels has always made me feel like a goddess. The key is to be sexy in a "tasteful" & "subtle" manner nothing too tight or...
    livelymind livelymind 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    My wife and I have been Married for 18 years...our Best Sex was all done before we said our "I Do's"...as fate would have it she became pregnant with our 1st. Son about 5 months...
    Groundhog69 Groundhog69 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My husband and I have been together ten years, and married for seven. Sex dropped off right after the wedding. Over our married years, we have typically had sex every other month...
    VanillaAlmond1 VanillaAlmond1 31-35, F 16 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I haven't had sex with my wife in almost a year. In the meantime I've cheated on her with other men about 6 times. After being not just sexless but affection less for over 6 months...
    Jasonpresten2 Jasonpresten2 31-35, M 8 Responses Aug 3

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    On the Today show today they talked to couples over 50 about their sex life. There was a couple on there who have sex once or twice a month. The wife says she wants to have sex...
    suburbanmomoftwo suburbanmomoftwo 51-55, F 20 Responses Aug 6

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    Being so "young," one would expect me not to have a m*sturb*tion problem, but I do. It's not about the pleasure, it's the only way I can fall asleep at night. So as one can imagine...
    dpaulbenjie dpaulbenjie 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    This is how much is missing when sex is missing from one's marriage. "“Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 10 Responses Aug 11

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    I've always been monogamous by nature, so a few years ago I decided to go through the mutual testing procedure before taking a new lover, so we could enjoy sex to the fullest...
    EyeOfHorus EyeOfHorus 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I don't know where to start. I can only be where I am. My wife cheated on me in 2009 during a time when our children were very young (1 and 3). I din't dind out until 2012 and...
    Homewaters Homewaters 41-45, M 13 Responses Aug 13

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    Thanks to all the great feedback I’ve been getting here, I’ve been able to process a lot of what’s going on in my marriage. Most of it is simply about clarity rather than any...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 6 Responses Aug 14

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    The situation in my home hasn't been good for the last couple years, and I know I need to leave my girlfriend of 8 years. Not only has she completely excused the behavior of her...
    LostStepDad LostStepDad 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    I've been thinking... Maybe people with high sex drives are 'normal' and those with 'normal' normal sex drives are missing something. A high sex drive is different to sex addiction...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 16

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    I'm a 22 year old female in a loving committed relationship of 1 year with a 30 year old man. The relationship is great except when it comes to sex. The sex is good when we do have...
    Twistedlover13 Twistedlover13 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 Aug 21

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 1 Response Aug 21

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    Well. It is finally official. I am divorced! After all the craziness, after years of sexless marriage and emotional distance, after emotional and physical abuse, after having an...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 22

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    Not necessarily a sexless marriage, but one lacking intimacy. I have sex often...not as much as I would like, but often. I think I'm an above average sexual guy, so I kind of...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30, M 8 Responses Aug 24

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    OK, so I don't actually have a totally a sexless marriage but here's my input & what we have that others don't have. Communication. We've been together for 20 years, married for 13...
    Xlandria61 Xlandria61 61-65, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I have posted here before, and am still (just) in my SM - but taking steps to leave it. I guess this might sound like a rant, but it's really just a question, and I would welcome...
    adeptlinguist adeptlinguist 51-55, M 24 Responses a week ago

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    Married 23 years, no sex for the last 5. If you count years when sex occurred less than half a dozen times, then the number of sexless years climbs to 15. Some people say that a...
    EmbraceableMe EmbraceableMe 41-45 23 Responses a week ago

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 23 Responses 6 days ago

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    Success in Turning Around a 20 Year SM: Part 1 - Overview This summer I celebrated my 20th anniversary. For the first 19 ½ years, we lived in a SM / virtual SM. The reason I am...
    TimeforLiving2 TimeforLiving2 41-45, M 15 Responses 1 day ago

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    Selectively Coming Out As some of you know, last weekend I went on a road trip with my best friend from college, to the town where we went to college. Up until now, the only...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 16 Responses Aug 6

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    Moving on: I am packing up my office and my home this week. I am moving out of state and starting a new job. ( I have posted part of this update a little earlier.) But a posting...
    katzlaw katzlaw 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 7

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    well almost sexless... i watch a lot of ****.. does that offset sexless? I want to cam or swap pics to relieve tension... i wish my SO would join me but shes more interested in...
    mrinvader mrinvader 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 7

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    I personally find absolutely nothing wrong with having sex young because you're going to end up doing it anyway. I've only had sex with one person & i love them to death. I'm...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F 13 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm sure we all have read the story of the guy who emailed his wife a spreadsheet of his failed attempts at sexual advances. I've read more than a few articles on the story...
    chuckdaly chuckdaly 36-40, M 12 Responses Aug 22

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    I married a great guy! Seriously. He is just not into any form of sex. No hand holding, No kissing, no nothing. Last time we had sex. 13 years ago. Conceived our last daughter. I...
    mssanguine mssanguine 46-50, F 18 Responses Aug 24

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    I don't have anyone I could talk to, but I am dying for sex. I was sex deprived as a kid, because my parents controlled my life too much. They consider sex as a kid of sin. In the...
    pblack pblack 41-45, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    So I love my wife and don't kid me wrong she's my soulmate, but we can never have sex. You see my wife suffers from Lichen sclerosus which hurts her and makes it hard for me to...
    Aqualung27 Aqualung27 31-35, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm just not sexy, plain and simple. I can't be sexy, I can't act sexy, I can't look sexy. I'm awkward as anything. Such a turn off for guys haha boo. :-(
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    My hubby came home from a long stressful day at work. Had a couple of drinks, the usual come down after that kind of day. Kids were still awake. When it was time to go to bed, I...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 26 Responses Aug 8

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    I am in a sexless marriage that leaves that part of me completely unsatisfied, yet i cannot leave my husband because i love and respect him in every other way... I have a very high...
    AphroditeComplex AphroditeComplex 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 9

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    I met her at a wedding. She looked stunning. She was a beautiful little brunette in a sexy little blue dress. She was on her way to the dance floor playfully shake her hips when...
    Jackkdaddy Jackkdaddy 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    It seems the humans of today's world are determined to tear meaning and moral out of everything that was once considered sacred. Man's lust for pleasure is going to leave life a...
    1stepforward3shovesback 1stepforward3shovesback 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    Our kid is now three months old, and still no sex since I was about four months pregnant. My husband has never been into sex with me and it's been an issue for years, but it got...
    Pattycakey Pattycakey 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 11

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    The reddit dead bedrooms forum had an interesting post yesterday by a refuser "Recovering LL female here, wanting to share my perspective", which might be a useful read (LL means...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 7 Responses Aug 11

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    Maybe I'd better post and explain why I'm in such a crap mood this morning - I'm getting a lot of PMs. (And really, that's nice - I'm happy and grateful to have concerned friends...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 22 Responses Aug 11