Drowning you in sparkling conversation,
Gay and witty, and her eyes
Absorbing you with their yearning.
But last night she was using all her skill
To give me secretly her little foot
Under the tablecloth for me to caress.
Alexander Pushkin, Russian, 1799-1837
for someone to talk to me first. Why? Because whenever I approached someone, online or IRL, I get passed up/ignored/disrespected. I'm over it. I stay silent, I watch body language. My feelings don't get hurt that way.
I have a certain distaste for human beings initially. I don't seek people out because I am easily disappointed in the people I meet. I am already often approached by people, and I get the weed through them based on the impression they leave. It is not at all to say that I am shy...
She sits perched on a stool, chewing a fingernail. Her coffee steams in front of her, silly paper sleeve against the countertop like pants around ankles.I can see she's noticed me, but then, she's noticed me every day for the last two weeks. Her eyes are dense, her body lithe...
that they actually want to talk to me. I've done the opposite before and most of the time I out that I reached for them at an inappropriate time, or with grimaces... Anyways, I just feel more comfortable this way. In fact, all of the classmates I talk to nowadays were the ones...
as much as possible. But when it comes to you I'm speechless. Maybe I'm just afraid. Afraid that I might say the wrong thing. Afraid that I might bother or annoy you. It's sad to know that you don't enjoy talking to me as much as I do talking with you.
I'm rather shy and find it difficult to start a conversation. Also I'm afraid that I'll bother someone by starting to talk uninvited. Furthermore I make friends easily, at least online, and tend to get in touch with more people than I can maintain. Letting others approach me is...
"What if im bothering them with my texts?"
"What if they wanna stop talking now but im keeping the convo going?"
"What if theyre not interested in talking to me?"
for me to initiate a conversation most of the time. Most of the times I've tried its always awkward. If you don't talk to me first I don't know what to say to you so I simply refrain from doing so. It's part of my social anxiety and is part of the reason I have no friends.
I have had requests to tell my secrets from at least two people new in my circle.I have refused and these people have stopped contacting me.I wonder if they are the same person with different accounts.
just by messaging them.
I don't know if I do annoy them but I feel like I do.. That's why I don't often message people first, I mean if people never talk to me and I would always be trying to talk to them then it would make me a annoying person, right?
So yeah I like when...
and even tho you know the only way itll ever happen is if you make a move. So its never gona happen, just thinking about them is nice :) totally smitten with an older person who will never notice me- unless i make myself noticeable.....
start a conversation. I just don't know how! I feel as if the other person will be annoyed by me suddenly talking to them out of the blue. It's a stupid idea but, that's the first thing I feel every time I consider approaching someone. Damn my awkwardness.
I have to go, talk to you some other time? Or talk to you tomorrow?
I'll be like yeah sure sounds good. And then I wait, and wait some more waiting for them to respond. Because I'm almost never busy, but I don't know if the other person is, and Id rather not disrupt them so I...
myself instead of going out there and initiating a conversation. I don't know why I keep expecting some random person to message me, so I should probably go out there and tale some risks. Screw the fear of being rejected. Nothing's gonna change.
that will not make the first move. This doesn't necessarily apply to romantic gestures, but in other circumstances as well. I would spot a pretty interesting character in class, or see someone reading a book I just finished, and I feel the urge to approach them. But I don't.
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