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I Waited Until Marriage to Have Sex.

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    She Was Hot And I Drove My Self Nuts.

    We would lie on the beach, on her mothers couch, and while we kissed every posible way and I got hot enough to cream my pants, but she was not a ***** teaser, she wanted to save it for the man she married, but she wanted it as much as I did. I saw her again, her husband had died...
    tbjttmttt tbjttmttt 18-21 1 Response May 6, 2011

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    Pure

    I met Pa when I was 17 and before that I had done nothing with anyone expect a kiss with one boy who grabbed me, and I didnt wnt it anyway. In my culture, Irish Traveller, girls are completely pure until marriage and they arent allowed out on their own to make sure of it. When I...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    Sorry We Did Not

    but then again marrage was never really an option for us as 3rd sex could not get married back then we did get married in a church yes but the state would not excpet it as the birth doctor worte dow she was a male after he removed the externale female parts and told her mother to...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jul 8, 2011

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    I Waited And It Was A Mistake

    I waited until marriage, at 26, to lose my virginity. Actually, it was the day after, as my husband couldn't get the job done that night in our hotel. I missed out on so much, as I have since learned. My husband and I are very happy, but that is because we have an alternative...
    soni30 soni30 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 8, 2013

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    I didn't wait until marriage. I was 17 an he was 23. I didn't regret it, and still dont, but the way he treats me now, i love him unconditionally, yet he fails to even try an talk...
    happyconfused212 happyconfused212 18-21, T 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I had sex with my boyfriend after almost two years together I knew it was right because it just happened out of no where and that's the best when things happen and are unexpected I...
    Personaljournal14 Personaljournal14 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    What guy does want to wait until marriage? At about the age of 12 or 13 all those raging hormones take over and the only thing to satisfy them would be to get the dam thing inside...
    dyaneleigh dyaneleigh 51-55, T 10 hrs ago

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    I waited a year and 2 months I was 16 at the time. I thought I was ready but I realized I wasn't as I lay next to him. I didn't wanna back out cause I promised him this many times...
    young090613 young090613 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I wish I waited.. I am currently watching a movie and it got me thinking. Of my past and what my life used to be. The reckless behavior and carelessness of being young and naïve...
    EvalynnWoods EvalynnWoods 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I "lost my virginity" at 15. I was not in a relationship at the time and I had several sexual experiences before i had a committed partner. I was raised Catholic and my parents...
    AlvieBrink AlvieBrink 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm 16 and I have a daughter. I've been dating the same guy since 2010 when I was 12 and he was 13. We started having sex when I was 15 and he was 16 because we felt ready, once...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I didn't wait until marriage, but I did wait until I was in a committed relationship and felt comfortable enough to give someone else that part of me... And we're still going...
    shadowkat13 shadowkat13 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I never understood why losing your virginity had to be a big thing. I did it with a friend and then I kicked him out like why do people always wanna talk? I only consider sex a big...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage. But I found someone who still loves and accepts me. ❤️❤️
    ahaydonh ahaydonh 18-21, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    This year, I had a extremely attractive chemistry teacher. He's sweet, and has vibrant blue eyes, short blonde hair and a perfect body. Every time that I would look at him, I...
    Jeanpocket Jeanpocket 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Hi my name is Jan I am 21 and have sex with lots of guys. I work at a bar and always bring guys back to my place after work and have sex with them. I have a no condom rule. I want...
    jantheslut jantheslut 18-21, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I would love to have sex with a black women never done it I am so girly right now I will eat eat that p up
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I am 16 and have wanted to have sex so badley since I was 13. I am now legal so I just want to do it. I need a girl of any build but a nice personality :) message me or heart this...
    goonteam goonteam 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I actually wated until I was 22, and I just decided I wanted sex. I figured I wouldnt find a virgin and I didnt want to be one any longer. Looking back it was wrong to only date...
    Husker97 Husker97 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Today I wished that I waited. I wished that someone had told me to make up my mind in time. God has forgiven me and Im happy and dont have scars. I did not wait because I did not...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    Nope. I was 14 years old when I started having sex. I regret it. Wish I waited.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and I (after about one year of dating) loved each other and had talked about everything and I had standards for our first times (we were both virgins). I said I 1...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Was raised to believe sex was holy and a big deal. I thought that when I had sex something huge would happen. I've always heard comments on how sex can make you feel emotions for...
    rosesh098 rosesh098 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I honestly think that waiting for marriage would be a huge mistake. Sex is a big part of a relationship; Likes, dislikes, etc. There is no better way to show you care about another...
    briehasthephevor briehasthephevor 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    we had been together for two years, he was my partner in crime, as well as the love of my life. not only we didnt wait till marriage but we didnt wait to be legal. the first time...
    eviemay6 eviemay6 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I had sex when I was almost 15 with someone I thought I loved. He didn't deserve it, in the end, but isn't that what it was for everyone's first time before marriage?
    hornewrecked hornewrecked 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    Don't all guys believe that because your plus size and you didn't wait till marriage you have low standards and will give it away to anyone or just openly freely share your sexual...
    jodi199423 jodi199423 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I had lots of sex in my dreams.
    Scifiguy Scifiguy 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I am now almost 20 and I lost my virginity at 13. It's crazy when I think about it now because it seems so young but I was completely comfortable and felt ready. I trusted my...
    kimsaprincess kimsaprincess 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 5

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    I'm very religious and I intended to wait. But in the heat of my anger and pain I lashed out...at myself and let someone violate the one thing that actually meant something towards...
    smarcelin2014 smarcelin2014 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I didn't intend to wait and I don't regret it. It was on my 16th birthday. I mean, it wasn't the best sex ever... It was clumsy, quick and a bit awkward. But I was glad I got that...
    jojijo jojijo 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    I'm 15 & pregnant now, and my boyfriend stuck with me through this(: I'm glad he's still talking about marriage with me.
    HirariHuur HirariHuur 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 26

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    I didn't wait for marriage like I wanted to. I'm old fashioned romantic but my gf and I couldn't keep our hands off each other. I lost my virginity at 20 and I felt really guilty...
    WhyDoesLifeSuck WhyDoesLifeSuck 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    There's this one part of a book I'm rereading where the girl tells her boyfriend she's a virgin and he told her he'd wait as long as she needed. My first time guy pressured and...
    naturalnobody naturalnobody 18-21, F Jul 1

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    I remained a virgin until I was 25 years old when I had my first real boyfriend. We were in his bedroom, he asked me for a kiss but since I really like him I licked his lips then...
    luvkittycat luvkittycat 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    Or until I was in a relationship. And now I regret it, because it meant so much to me yet probably nothing to him. Lesson learned.
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    We totally in love. How can anyone wait until they married. He was so hot and i crazy about him. He is a good kisser. I love to kiss him and i was very eager if he touche my b...
    bellablurr bellablurr 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Well as you can tell I'm 16 turning 17. And I did not wait till marriage because I honestly feel like I love him. People are probably going to say I'm to young to be in love but I...
    jennasteele15 jennasteele15 16-17, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Didn't wait til marriage but it was all love and I have no regrets. Wouldn't change it for the world.
    ISnavygf ISnavygf 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 30 Responses Jul 13

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    I didn't either. I wish I had. Life would have been a lot easier I believe.
    whyisitsohard44 whyisitsohard44 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I thought he was the love of my life, I have him two years of my life , and lost many friends because of him. At the end I was just left with heartbreak and with no friends . They...
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    These violent delights have violent ends and in their triumph die , like fire and powder...
    mReee mReee 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have been having sex with my daughters mum for years. I think it's time to stop.
    usernamesareashame usernamesareashame 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    Tell me your sex fantasies
    69dirtygirl69 69dirtygirl69 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    My dog is the first living thing I've ever had sex with, she was tight, but then I let my friend borrow her and he ripped her a new *******. But moral of the story is, does anyone...
    Guuuu Guuuu 18-21, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Message me if you want to talk about sex fantasies
    Crimsonblackrose Crimsonblackrose 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago