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I Waited Until Marriage to Have Sex.

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    Pure

    I met Pa when I was 17 and before that I had done nothing with anyone expect a kiss with one boy who grabbed me, and I didnt wnt it anyway. In my culture, Irish Traveller, girls are completely pure until marriage and they arent allowed out on their own to make sure of it. When I...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    I Waited And It Was A Mistake

    I waited until marriage, at 26, to lose my virginity. Actually, it was the day after, as my husband couldn't get the job done that night in our hotel. I missed out on so much, as I have since learned. My husband and I are very happy, but that is because we have an alternative...
    soni30 soni30 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2013

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    She Was Hot And I Drove My Self Nuts.

    We would lie on the beach, on her mothers couch, and while we kissed every posible way and I got hot enough to cream my pants, but she was not a ***** teaser, she wanted to save it for the man she married, but she wanted it as much as I did. I saw her again, her husband had died...
    tbjttmttt tbjttmttt 18-21 1 Response May 6, 2011

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    I was a virgin on my 18th birthday,

    graduation day, and on my wedding day too. On my wedding we tied the knot, had a great wedding reception, went to our honeymoon destination, got naked in our honeymoon suite, and had nothing but sex for the following 14 days of vacation. It was so delightful sexually with my...
    heatherinarizona heatherinarizona 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Sorry We Did Not

    but then again marrage was never really an option for us as 3rd sex could not get married back then we did get married in a church yes but the state would not excpet it as the birth doctor worte dow she was a male after he removed the externale female parts and told her mother to...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jul 8, 2011

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    Is there such a thing as a "magical" first time? I hear people talk about wishing they had waited or they are waiting for it to be "special" My wife was a virgin, so we waited...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    http://thoughtcatalog.com/samantha-pugsley/2014/08/i-waited-until-my-wedding-night-to-lose-my-virginity-and-i-wish-i-hadnt/ I saw this yesterday and it almost broke my heart. One...
    PurpleFlyingKites PurpleFlyingKites 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Junior in high school. He didn't mean a thing to me. I purposely got drunk because I knew id be too nervous to do it sober. Wish I had waited until I had been in love. My current...
    maddiejuliet maddiejuliet 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I was 13 and he was 14 we had been "dating" for a year and a half. Everyone thought we were going to get married right out if high school, including our parents. We did it while...
    lilHuman lilHuman 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't regret my decision to have sex before marriage. I was 17 and he was 19. It wasn't with the ideal person, and it wasn't great either, but I changed from that experience.
    thoughtfulgirl thoughtfulgirl 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    i don't really think you have to wait until marriage unless you're very religious. BUT i don't think you should wait for someone long term, special & they deserve it without...
    Davonnaaa Davonnaaa 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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    I think i would be great to have sex with a trans women. They are really gorgeous but also independent in a sense. I'm not gay but I definitely want to go for a transvestite woman...
    lolzmeplz lolzmeplz 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 4

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    I want to have sex but I'm only 14. Any help or tips?.
    Andersonp14 Andersonp14 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 5

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    I have always been a good girl but I want to change that and have sex all through out high school maybe even get pregnant any guys want to message me and send pics
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 9

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    I want to have sex with woman while my boyfriend partipates however he wouldn't **** her or lick her. She would lick me while my boyfriend ***** me and I would return the favour to...
    Readingaddict Readingaddict 18-21, F Aug 9

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    I get turned on by pregnant women so would live to have sex with one
    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Waited till I was 20/21. Felt stupid to do it sooner with some boy from school. Wanted to wait for someone more impressive. My first was Jewish, so that was good. Not a love...
    DesireHappy DesireHappy 41-45, F Aug 8

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    Up until now, I never had a boyfriend, and I haven't had any tempting offers for sex...so I guess you can say that I am a virgin by default. However, as I get older I am seeing...
    AlbSoShy95 AlbSoShy95 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I lost it last year after the homecoming dance. My boyfriend and I drove to the same spot we first kissed and where he first told me that he loved me so it was very special. It...
    sunflowerpet sunflowerpet 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Whats your thoughts on Sex before marriage? Preserve and make it more special or do the deed?
    PabLopez PabLopez 22-25, M 7 Responses Aug 9

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    i had met this boy over the internet.. he was my best friend's ex ( she had left him cause she didn't love him). so he proposed and we met in a parc, he wasn't that handsome but...
    Ensamflicka Ensamflicka 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    He was a pretty italian boy. And he knew he was pretty. He wasn't dark like most italian boys. The smooth deep color of his completion made up for the egotistical boy he really was...
    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 4 Responses Aug 4

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    I was 17 when I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 6 months. His family is highly religious (mormon), and I had a fear of sex. It wasn't like the passionate love making you see...
    thattallchick thattallchick 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 20

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    I had unprotected sex two days ago I took plan b emergency birth control pills yesterday. He didn't come inside me I'm pretty sure. He pulled out but I'm still scared I thought I...
    misfitoutsider misfitoutsider 13-15, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    I was a freshman in high school and I was dating a junior and of course I thought he was my entire world. I let him control me and I never had a boyfriend before so I though this...
    owens321bam owens321bam 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 31

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    Nope, i was 18 when i had sex. I wasn't married, (still aren't) with my at the time girlfriend.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 7

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    Why would I wait that long for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11

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    I had sex with a man and he turned out to be nuts...guess giving my virginity to him at 15 was stupid
    musixgirl4ever musixgirl4ever 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    Nah, most people I know didn't either. I'm not sure why anyone would to be honest. Sex isn't special, only people are.
    sunkern sunkern 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    How could you wait for marriage
    happkarma happkarma 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    it is important to wait until you find someone who you truly love. Im 15 and didn't wait but i understand the consequences of this experience. Everyone thinks I'm too young to...
    irinacedeno irinacedeno 13-15, F 8 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    No big deal now. I met him online. He was born in the Philippines. He was my first and only. We were married and i was never with anyone else and until he showed me his true colors...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 11 Responses Aug 5

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    I have always been attracted to older men but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was 14 and she was 16. I had an addiction to ************ around the time so I lasted longer then she did but she blew me until I came afterwards so we were both happy. Great...
    Pantyskater14 Pantyskater14 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    Oops. It wasn't heterosexual either. Oops. But it was consensual! Yay to consent! My parents would probably have a long talk with me if they knew. Oops.
    truekvlt truekvlt 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    Happened 2 months ago. She's 13 I'm 14. Lasted for like half an hour. We went to a party and have been dating for a bout 2 years and just recently broke up. We got drunk and high...
    marcelofreitas marcelofreitas 13-15, M 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    My first post, I love a guy who loves flirting with all the girls around. It really hurts me. He used to care about me but now he doesn't anymore. I trusted him but now I feel like...
    Monroe32 Monroe32 26-30, F 5 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I'm a sexy black girl from PA ;)
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I'm only 19 year old girl, but I would love to have a sexual relationship with a 40-55 year old women and do sexual things with her (or without her) with her teen-age kids (if she...
    Jamielr13 Jamielr13 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 13

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    I just think that trans women are so hot. Girl up top but guy down below. I don't know why I just think it's incredibly sexy.
    LadyCNote LadyCNote 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    A hot combo, cyber sex...I'm just kinky right now
    camillux camillux 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    I just need sex to sleep at the moment!
    deklan deklan 31-35, M Aug 10

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    I really want to have crazy sex with my sister
    Harryharry123 Harryharry123 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 30

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    This is something I want to try I have never even dated a black man much less had sex with one but there is a first time of every thing right ??
    1Miserablemind 1Miserablemind 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 5

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    My ideal would be 5-6 times a week. My husband is happy with an every other day schedule, about 3-4 times a week. It's a significant difference from 10 years ago when it was the...
    BBWand40 BBWand40 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 17

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    I so badly crave my friends boyfriend he's hot and possessive and dominant and I love everything about him and my friend is a ***** to me anyways and they have only been dating for...
    cootyboo cootyboo 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I'd love it if my guy was wearing light grey slightly destroyed stonewashed jeans, bare-feet, clean shaven and neat trimmed everywhere 😮, smelling like a fresh shower🚿, he'd...
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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