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I Want a Baby and My Husband Does Not

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 58 People

    It's Starting To Drive Me Insane!!

    Quite literally, I feel like I'm about to turn into a total lunatic over this whole baby thing! I lost a baby 4 and a half years ago. Ever since, I have wanted to try for another one. My other half is on the fence about it and has been ever since we lost the last one. After all...
    babesface babesface 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2012

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    I Want Children and My Husband Doesn't!

    My husband and i have been happily married for 3 years and were together for four years before marriage. I was always under the impression that we would have children at some stage. He always said one day maybe, which i guess at 24 years and getting married it is a maybe...
    katvan katvan 26-30 9 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Is Three Really A Crowd ?

    Ok so here is my story..i am engaged to the man i love .i have a two year old from a previous relationship.but my fiance has been there since the baby was three months..and has been a GREAT DADDY !!! well after a miscarrage with twins we finally got a little sister...a big...
    mrsbush2014 mrsbush2014 22-25 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    He's Been Playing With Me Over It

    Okay so I'm a little different to others in this group... I am not married but I am in a committed relationship. My boyfriend and I are together for almost four years. Three years ago, I miscarried. A few months after that, I started to get a bit broody. I knew it wouldn't happen...
    babesface babesface 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2011

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    I Want Another Baby

    Before we got married we both agreed to two. Now that my daughter is almost two I brought it up to my husband. He says no. He's exhausted with the baby we have now and worried that he can't be a good father because he'll be spread too thin. He feels like our daughter needs most...
    busedorno busedorno 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    Born to Be a Mom

    I have been married for 6 years to a wonderful guy, who I have known and been friends with since the age of 15.  We even have the same birthday.  All my life I have spent taking care of other people's children.  I am currently the Director of a preschool and...
    carre46 carre46 26-30 6 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    Waited 9 Years For A Wedding, Hopefully Not Another 9 Years For A Baby

    I was married this past June to my boyfriend of 9 years. He was resistant to marriage when we first were dating and over numerous fights which involved me moving away to another city for a year and some counseling regarding the fear of marriage on his part, we finally got...
    DarleneA DarleneA 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    The Late Alarm

    Throughout my adult life, I had never wanted children. I was never one of those women who "always knew they wanted to be a mom". I would have an occasional week-long "baby phase", where I would sort of want one, but that feeling would always pass. I felt like a committed...
    ModLulu ModLulu 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 7, 2013

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    My Husband Has Changed His Mind After We Agreed On Kids And Now I Dont Know What To Do

    im 31  with 2 healthy smart beautiful boys one is 13 and the other just turned 4 last month. my husband and i have known each other since we were 13 and have been together almost 10yrs(married 6) my older son is from my 1st marriage but my hubby has always been his dad..anyway...
    overlyemily overlyemily 31-35 2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    The Only Thing I Ever Wanted to Be Is a Mommy.

    I am happily married to the most wonderful and caring man in the world.  I have a son from a previous relationship and my Husband has a daughter from a previous marriage.  We've been together 7 years, married four years.  It sounds like I should be happy...
    harleyhalfmoon harleyhalfmoon 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    I Thought This Would Change, But...

    I am kind of different than the rest of the posters, in that I am not married, but I thought I had found the perfect guy. I am 28 and was in an abusive relationship for 5 years, as well as a slew of dysfunctional relationships. But then I met my boyfriend and I knew I finally...
    peace44 peace44 26-30 Nov 8, 2010

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    Four

    I wanted to have four children. My husband knew this even before we got married. I came from a family with only two siblings so I want more kids. But he doesn't want to have more. We ended up with two adorable kids. I'll be more than happy to have another two but I cannot anymore...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2010

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    Not On The Same Page....agian

    i am 25 going on 26 and my husband is the same. when we first met i knew i wanted to be with him forever, we have been together now for 6yrs now, 2 of which i was in school and we agreed that when i was done with school we would discuss the child thing. im ready for a child now...
    lilnaenae lilnaenae 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    To Want A Baby Ones Youve Llost One

    ok so my husband has a small son from a previous relationship. we dated for one year, got engaged. Then married 8 months later. We will have been together for 2 years this december of 09. The problem is as follows, eventhough some may say 2 years is not enough time to have a baby...
    BabyBlues4750 BabyBlues4750 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    Age Difference

    My husband and I have been married for 11 years. We met when I was 18 and he was 38. It was love at first sight, but when we started talking about the future, I was dismayed when he said he never wanted to have kids. I was young and in love and didn't think I needed kids as long...
    Rebornmommy82 Rebornmommy82 31-35, F Sep 3, 2013

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    I Helped Some One

    5 years ago i met a woman who was 36 old married without children. We met each other through work and became friends. One day she shared me some issues about her miserable marriage which was falling apart. Her conflict with the husband started when she wanted a child badly and he...
    herlover999 herlover999 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    If I went to sleep and never woke up, I'd be so happy. So I guess it's like I want to be in a coma. Only I'd never wake up, so they would pull the plug. I want to cut so bad right...
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    Where oh where is she. God baby I have been waiting so patient. Hope you have too 😌
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    This is hard. I don't know if this is what I want. My husband, who had an affair for almost two years, has come home. It's been over a month now. He works ALL THE TIME, so it...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I really want a baby, I'm 18 but I know I'm still young and I'm not ready financially so I'm going to have to wait, but every time I see a baby I'm like gimme😂
    Charliejade141 Charliejade141 18-21 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    My sister's marriage is on the brink of divorce. She told me yesterday that she simply doesn't feel anything anymore for her husband. And I was so angry at her...I know it may...
    aloysia aloysia 26-30, F 6 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Why does he act like he doesn't want me but when I ask him he says he does!? Really getting me down.
    Livit Livit 46-50, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    It's a good start, and its to make sure there won't be any problems of my girl saying who's better. So sometimes I switch with my husband to take care of her, so that we both can...
    ZADoubleMesser ZADoubleMesser 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    Actually there's only one problem. And that's diaper changing, oh my god...my baby girl is a hectic one, I have to literally speed change her diaper before she streams on me. Not...
    ZADoubleMesser ZADoubleMesser 22-25, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I wish I could be someone's baby sissy girl
    sissylittlegirl6 sissylittlegirl6 36-40, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    My husband stands like superman to pee i think that is so cute lol
    LadyHeyward LadyHeyward 41-45, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    You're a vile obnoxious example of species & an oxygen thief. I remember when talking to my sisters & we were thinking of the first word that popped into heads about each other...
    Fairydust1986 Fairydust1986 26-30, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I'm new to all this but my husband wants to try bondage. I'm not happy about this. But if he want to be tied up then as a good wife that is what I'll do. Now I want to make it...
    wendylovely wendylovely 46-50, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Someday in life I will when I'm older and wiser with my future husband.
    LBMia LBMia 22-25, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I have not posted about this for a long time.But some of my old friends here know .My husband does not understand how he has messed up my life.He does not say he is sorry .His...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 15 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was blindsided one day when my husband called me out of the blue crying and told me that he had messed around and got another woman pregnant. He was away from me training in...
    forty6and2 forty6and2 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    MY grandma babytalks to me more then anybody else. Sometimes my mom takes me to my grandparents house to be babysat for a week or 2 sometimes and the entire time I'm there...
    BCdiaperBoy BCdiaperBoy 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I have been married for 12 years and we have 4 kids together and in all that time my husband never treated me with love or respect or affection. He refuses to even kiss me or touch...
    Katkor Katkor 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    My husband and I were together for 11 years, married for almost 2 and were happily expecting a baby in October of 2013.The moment arrived for us to meet our daughter and when we...
    Noryiku Noryiku 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm having a really hard day. My husband tried to kill himself again last night. I have a three year old and a baby on the way. My husband is currently under 24 hour watch in the...
    Cayse Cayse 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    My husband doesn't love me....there I said it. Im telling the truth to a bunch of strangers because I need to release this weight off my chest. I'm not sure he ever did. The sad...
    MxdNativeBell MxdNativeBell 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    It's always been her and i against the world. I love her to death but im very afraid to show love and affection. So I feel like i treat her like she is just a responsibility...
    kimhassell kimhassell 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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