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I Want a Baby and My Husband Does Not

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 61 People

    Is Three Really A Crowd ?

    Ok so here is my story..i am engaged to the man i love .i have a two year old from a previous relationship.but my fiance has been there since the baby was three months..and has been a GREAT DADDY !!! well after a miscarrage with twins we finally got a little sister...a big...
    mrsbush2014 mrsbush2014 18-21 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    He's Been Playing With Me Over It

    Okay so I'm a little different to others in this group... I am not married but I am in a committed relationship. My boyfriend and I are together for almost four years. Three years ago, I miscarried. A few months after that, I started to get a bit broody. I knew it wouldn't happen...
    babesface babesface 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2011

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    I Want Another Baby

    Before we got married we both agreed to two. Now that my daughter is almost two I brought it up to my husband. He says no. He's exhausted with the baby we have now and worried that he can't be a good father because he'll be spread too thin. He feels like our daughter needs most...
    busedorno busedorno 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    Four

    I wanted to have four children. My husband knew this even before we got married. I came from a family with only two siblings so I want more kids. But he doesn't want to have more. We ended up with two adorable kids. I'll be more than happy to have another two but I cannot anymore...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2010

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    The Only Thing I Ever Wanted to Be Is a Mommy.

    I am happily married to the most wonderful and caring man in the world.  I have a son from a previous relationship and my Husband has a daughter from a previous marriage.  We've been together 7 years, married four years.  It sounds like I should be happy...
    harleyhalfmoon harleyhalfmoon 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    To Want A Baby Ones Youve Llost One

    ok so my husband has a small son from a previous relationship. we dated for one year, got engaged. Then married 8 months later. We will have been together for 2 years this december of 09. The problem is as follows, eventhough some may say 2 years is not enough time to have a baby...
    BabyBlues4750 BabyBlues4750 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    Waited 9 Years For A Wedding, Hopefully Not Another 9 Years For A Baby

    I was married this past June to my boyfriend of 9 years. He was resistant to marriage when we first were dating and over numerous fights which involved me moving away to another city for a year and some counseling regarding the fear of marriage on his part, we finally got...
    DarleneA DarleneA 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    My Husband Has Changed His Mind After We Agreed On Kids And Now I Dont Know What To Do

    im 31  with 2 healthy smart beautiful boys one is 13 and the other just turned 4 last month. my husband and i have known each other since we were 13 and have been together almost 10yrs(married 6) my older son is from my 1st marriage but my hubby has always been his dad..anyway...
    overlyemily overlyemily 31-35 2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    The Late Alarm

    Throughout my adult life, I had never wanted children. I was never one of those women who "always knew they wanted to be a mom". I would have an occasional week-long "baby phase", where I would sort of want one, but that feeling would always pass. I felt like a committed...
    ModLulu ModLulu 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 7, 2013

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    Not On The Same Page....agian

    i am 25 going on 26 and my husband is the same. when we first met i knew i wanted to be with him forever, we have been together now for 6yrs now, 2 of which i was in school and we agreed that when i was done with school we would discuss the child thing. im ready for a child now...
    lilnaenae lilnaenae 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    Born to Be a Mom

    I have been married for 6 years to a wonderful guy, who I have known and been friends with since the age of 15.  We even have the same birthday.  All my life I have spent taking care of other people's children.  I am currently the Director of a preschool and...
    carre46 carre46 26-30 6 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    It's Starting To Drive Me Insane!!

    Quite literally, I feel like I'm about to turn into a total lunatic over this whole baby thing! I lost a baby 4 and a half years ago. Ever since, I have wanted to try for another one. My other half is on the fence about it and has been ever since we lost the last one. After all...
    babesface babesface 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2012

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    I Thought This Would Change, But...

    I am kind of different than the rest of the posters, in that I am not married, but I thought I had found the perfect guy. I am 28 and was in an abusive relationship for 5 years, as well as a slew of dysfunctional relationships. But then I met my boyfriend and I knew I finally...
    peace44 peace44 26-30 Nov 8, 2010

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    Age Difference

    My husband and I have been married for 11 years. We met when I was 18 and he was 38. It was love at first sight, but when we started talking about the future, I was dismayed when he said he never wanted to have kids. I was young and in love and didn't think I needed kids as long...
    Rebornmommy82 Rebornmommy82 31-35, F Sep 3, 2013

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    I Want Children and My Husband Doesn't!

    My husband and i have been happily married for 3 years and were together for four years before marriage. I was always under the impression that we would have children at some stage. He always said one day maybe, which i guess at 24 years and getting married it is a maybe...
    katvan katvan 26-30 9 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    I Helped Some One

    5 years ago i met a woman who was 36 old married without children. We met each other through work and became friends. One day she shared me some issues about her miserable marriage which was falling apart. Her conflict with the husband started when she wanted a child badly and he...
    herlover999 herlover999 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    Maybe it's not so...but it feels like it. We met on a vacation on a cruise and it was the best 4 days of my life. We sang karaoke together, dance together, drank together, had long...
    penaleliscio penaleliscio 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am complicated... One damn complicated human being. Sometimes it's like I give people a small piece of me but that's all they get. They either get my funny side... Or my smart...
    laurenb229 laurenb229 26-30, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I want a husband that wants to have kids. I'm trying to learn to live without this. It's very hard for me. I wonder if my husband knows the sacrifice I making for him. Will I...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    24 living in Africa, 13 weeks pregnant with a Dutch man's baby who doesn't want to know anything about his baby! Now it's time to be strong look for the right man who is gonna...
    GuardianAngel009 GuardianAngel009 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    I just want to be somebody's little baby that does everything for me and picks my name and age
    Leslieh11 Leslieh11 13-15, F 6 Responses Oct 6

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    My husband doesn't care whether I'm coming or going. Isn't interested in anything I say. If I'm happy, he squashes my joy. If I'm sad tells me not to complain. I'm married but...
    lovenlearn lovenlearn 41-45, F 7 Responses Oct 8

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    Oh. And I also want one who doesn't lie to me straight to my face and one who doesn't treat breaking my heart like it's an Olympic sport. Yes. That would be just fu.ckin grande.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1

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    I am beyond frustrated!! I have tried being nice and all it does is kick me in the face. I allowed him to use my car, so he could go pawn some of his things in exchange for taking...
    freddiesgirl69 freddiesgirl69 41-45, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    After our house burned down in Wisconsin a few months ago, my husband and I packed our four young kids and all our belongings into a gold minivan and drove to my sister-in-law’s...
    answermyprayers answermyprayers 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    A week from now, I will be OOTC. 17hr air travel; lay-over time in TKY, NRT will take a while. But why am I not enthusiastic about it? Rather, I am anxious to face my soul on this...
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F 16 hrs ago

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    sigh...where do i begin....i have loved my SO since highschool but we were both in relationships. fast forward about 10 years later and a bad divorce on my end bad breakup on his...
    jenner3182 jenner3182 31-35, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I lost my husband to cancer March 18/2013. We were together for 34 years. I am still devastated and feel as though I will never get over this pain. I cry all the time and some...
    KassandraT KassandraT 56-60, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    They had only dated for a few months before getting married. They were married for a year and a half before she left him for a woman. She moved her new girlfriend into their house...
    SoapBoxKid SoapBoxKid 26-30 1 Response Oct 8

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    I have been a babyfur for about a half year. But I just want to know how to walk in a diaper in public, without it marking sounds and anyone knowing you have you on.
    skythebabyfur skythebabyfur 16-17, M 1 hr ago

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    I love wetting myself and being treated as a baby and I love telling a baby girl what to do and when to pee. Your choice
    peeguy35 peeguy35 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    I have been engaged to my fiancé for almost 2 years now and all we want to be is together. 
First of all let me tell you a little about us. I am 25 and was born in Por-au-prince...
    blasiancouple blasiancouple 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    So,the other day I actually gathered the courage to chat with my sister in law's aunt.It was an eye opening conversation.I was under the impression( by what my husband told me...
    Lp82 Lp82 31-35, F Sep 26

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    I saw an amazing question and I wanted to discuss my feelings on the subject. The question was summarily asking how many of our preferences do we have in life are based on what we...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    I want to make a community. No job and social responsibility. Grow your own food and build your small house. Just be yourself. Do whatever you want to do. No marriage and family...
    averick averick 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    Ryan babysits Sydney Hey says Heidi on a saturday afternoon as she enters her best friend greenlees and het husband of 8 months ryans penthouse. Hey says Ryan! Where's greens asks...
    Dollfan32 Dollfan32 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I'm in a 6 year relationship I'm 32 and he's 29 I want to be a mummy so badly it's a pain inside me. I day dream, sitting at a cafe I visualize having a baby in their pram next to...
    rubienu rubienu 26-30 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    21 years old, 6ft tall, blonde hair, blue eyes, career in London and seriously looking to settle down with someone like-minded who wants to fall pregnant. Message me, I don't bite...
    BritishGuy93 BritishGuy93 18-21, M 7 hrs ago

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    I hate being near with drunk people. I find it annoying. Especially if it's my boyfriend. My bf soon to be husband like to get wasted. He's acting like some college boys. He'd...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    Well I'm not but I did and I would like to encourage all of you who are standing up to all the pressure of society and peer group and saving yourself for your future husband and...
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 36-40, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I love my husband we've been through hell and back and somehow we always come out stronger. I feel like we are always in the honeymoon phase even though we've been together 18 yrs...
    resqme22 resqme22 41-45, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I want to find my father I dont have a lot of info about him sadly my mother doesnt remember a lot it was a short relationship but I do have her support to find him. I dont want a...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I Want to Get Pregnant I have dreamed of having a child for yrs, since I was a small child. I always wanted to be the mother. I wanted to look after something. During my teenager...
    SadisticPsychoBitch SadisticPsychoBitch 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 26

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    Three weeks ago I walked into a room and saw my husband almost kiss a friend of the family. It broke my heart in a million pieces. We have been together for 20 years, married for...
    Nancy73 Nancy73 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I have to say, for me, when i hear this term, it still makes me cringe with the utmost contempt. i find it so sad, that we as 'women' choose to attack and diminish one anothers...
    sugabuga1 sugabuga1 31-35, F Oct 9

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    I feel that my father is a coward and an insecure, passive aggressive, manipulative and (can be) violent person. Although he mostly raised me when I was growing up (my mother was...
    Regandlam Regandlam 36-40, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    1. I was born in Chicago 2. I played soccer basketball and baseball in high school 3. I have 3 cats Tigger Tommy and Haley 4. I am the second of 5 kids 3 boys and 2 girls...
    soccerdude13 soccerdude13 31-35, M 21 mins ago

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    I have been married for 15 years and inherited monies. My husband wanted his own business so I provided it. After he worked in it for 2 years he felt it was too much work and made...
    Marleerh99 Marleerh99 41-45, F Oct 2

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    Keep your damn money and stay the Hell AWAY from my children!- He doesn't give a damn about my children and never did.My vindictive ex husband filed the Hague Treaty after his no...
    SexiestChocolate SexiestChocolate 41-45, F 1 Response