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I Want a Baby and My Husband Does Not

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    Is Three Really A Crowd ?

    Ok so here is my story..i am engaged to the man i love .i have a two year old from a previous relationship.but my fiance has been there since the baby was three months..and has been a GREAT DADDY !!! well after a miscarrage with twins we finally got a little sister...a big...
    mrsbush2014 mrsbush2014 18-21 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    Waited 9 Years For A Wedding, Hopefully Not Another 9 Years For A Baby

    I was married this past June to my boyfriend of 9 years. He was resistant to marriage when we first were dating and over numerous fights which involved me moving away to another city for a year and some counseling regarding the fear of marriage on his part, we finally got...
    DarleneA DarleneA 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    It's Starting To Drive Me Insane!!

    Quite literally, I feel like I'm about to turn into a total lunatic over this whole baby thing! I lost a baby 4 and a half years ago. Ever since, I have wanted to try for another one. My other half is on the fence about it and has been ever since we lost the last one. After all...
    babesface babesface 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2012

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    Born to Be a Mom

    I have been married for 6 years to a wonderful guy, who I have known and been friends with since the age of 15.  We even have the same birthday.  All my life I have spent taking care of other people's children.  I am currently the Director of a preschool and...
    carre46 carre46 26-30 6 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    Age Difference

    My husband and I have been married for 11 years. We met when I was 18 and he was 38. It was love at first sight, but when we started talking about the future, I was dismayed when he said he never wanted to have kids. I was young and in love and didn't think I needed kids as long...
    Rebornmommy82 Rebornmommy82 31-35, F Sep 3, 2013

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    He's Been Playing With Me Over It

    Okay so I'm a little different to others in this group... I am not married but I am in a committed relationship. My boyfriend and I are together for almost four years. Three years ago, I miscarried. A few months after that, I started to get a bit broody. I knew it wouldn't happen...
    babesface babesface 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2011

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    Not On The Same Page....agian

    i am 25 going on 26 and my husband is the same. when we first met i knew i wanted to be with him forever, we have been together now for 6yrs now, 2 of which i was in school and we agreed that when i was done with school we would discuss the child thing. im ready for a child now...
    lilnaenae lilnaenae 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    I Helped Some One

    5 years ago i met a woman who was 36 old married without children. We met each other through work and became friends. One day she shared me some issues about her miserable marriage which was falling apart. Her conflict with the husband started when she wanted a child badly and he...
    herlover999 herlover999 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    The Only Thing I Ever Wanted to Be Is a Mommy.

    I am happily married to the most wonderful and caring man in the world.  I have a son from a previous relationship and my Husband has a daughter from a previous marriage.  We've been together 7 years, married four years.  It sounds like I should be happy...
    harleyhalfmoon harleyhalfmoon 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    My Husband Has Changed His Mind After We Agreed On Kids And Now I Dont Know What To Do

    im 31  with 2 healthy smart beautiful boys one is 13 and the other just turned 4 last month. my husband and i have known each other since we were 13 and have been together almost 10yrs(married 6) my older son is from my 1st marriage but my hubby has always been his dad..anyway...
    overlyemily overlyemily 31-35 2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    I Want Another Baby

    Before we got married we both agreed to two. Now that my daughter is almost two I brought it up to my husband. He says no. He's exhausted with the baby we have now and worried that he can't be a good father because he'll be spread too thin. He feels like our daughter needs most...
    busedorno busedorno 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    The Late Alarm

    Throughout my adult life, I had never wanted children. I was never one of those women who "always knew they wanted to be a mom". I would have an occasional week-long "baby phase", where I would sort of want one, but that feeling would always pass. I felt like a committed...
    ModLulu ModLulu 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 7, 2013

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    I Want Children and My Husband Doesn't!

    My husband and i have been happily married for 3 years and were together for four years before marriage. I was always under the impression that we would have children at some stage. He always said one day maybe, which i guess at 24 years and getting married it is a maybe...
    katvan katvan 26-30 9 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Four

    I wanted to have four children. My husband knew this even before we got married. I came from a family with only two siblings so I want more kids. But he doesn't want to have more. We ended up with two adorable kids. I'll be more than happy to have another two but I cannot anymore...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2010

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    I Thought This Would Change, But...

    I am kind of different than the rest of the posters, in that I am not married, but I thought I had found the perfect guy. I am 28 and was in an abusive relationship for 5 years, as well as a slew of dysfunctional relationships. But then I met my boyfriend and I knew I finally...
    peace44 peace44 26-30 Nov 8, 2010

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    To Want A Baby Ones Youve Llost One

    ok so my husband has a small son from a previous relationship. we dated for one year, got engaged. Then married 8 months later. We will have been together for 2 years this december of 09. The problem is as follows, eventhough some may say 2 years is not enough time to have a baby...
    BabyBlues4750 BabyBlues4750 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Maybe it's not so...but it feels like it. We met on a vacation on a cruise and it was the best 4 days of my life. We sang karaoke together, dance together, drank together, had long...
    penaleliscio penaleliscio 22-25 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I want a husband that wants to have kids. I'm trying to learn to live without this. It's very hard for me. I wonder if my husband knows the sacrifice I making for him. Will I...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    24 living in Africa, 13 weeks pregnant with a Dutch man's baby who doesn't want to know anything about his baby! Now it's time to be strong look for the right man who is gonna...
    GuardianAngel009 GuardianAngel009 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    I just want to be somebody's little baby that does everything for me and picks my name and age
    Leslieh11 Leslieh11 13-15, F 6 Responses Oct 6

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    My husband doesn't care whether I'm coming or going. Isn't interested in anything I say. If I'm happy, he squashes my joy. If I'm sad tells me not to complain. I'm married but...
    lovenlearn lovenlearn 41-45, F 7 Responses Oct 8

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    Oh. And I also want one who doesn't lie to me straight to my face and one who doesn't treat breaking my heart like it's an Olympic sport. Yes. That would be just fu.ckin grande.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1

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    I feel that my father is a coward and an insecure, passive aggressive, manipulative and (can be) violent person. Although he mostly raised me when I was growing up (my mother was...
    Regandlam Regandlam 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    I would love to have a baby one day, hopefully two twin girls; Alex and Victoria the first pregnancy, then two twin boys; Johnny and Isaiah for the second. I would love to...
    Outofeden Outofeden 31-35, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Ok I'm just gonna be straight with this it will not have sex at this point if my life. I'm recently got engaged ( yes I know I'm 15 and is to young but I'm not getting married...
    BooBear99 BooBear99 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    After our house burned down in Wisconsin a few months ago, my husband and I packed our four young kids and all our belongings into a gold minivan and drove to my sister-in-law’s...
    answermyprayers answermyprayers 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    I have a steady life. In some respects, a really good life. My husband provides well, he keeps everything we've worked hard for, well-maintained and in good order. In that respect...
    SlowWhispa SlowWhispa 36-40, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    1) My name is Lorraine and I'm 26. 2) I live in England and was born in the best capital city (to me) in the world. 3) I read the Iliad and the Odyssey by Homer. 4) I love...
    teabookbliss teabookbliss 26-30, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Back To Causing Problems- He hasn't seen, spoken to, or done a damned thing for my now 22 year old son and 20 year old daughter since he kicked us out in Belgrade almost 14 years...
    SexiestChocolate SexiestChocolate 41-45, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    So im a baby girl now yay me
    Dirtylittleprincess Dirtylittleprincess 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    They had only dated for a few months before getting married. They were married for a year and a half before she left him for a woman. She moved her new girlfriend into their house...
    SoapBoxKid SoapBoxKid 26-30 1 Response Oct 8

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    I have been married to a PA husband for 7 years, we have 2 kids, 4 and 6 yo. We met on a dating site, I was 36 and did not believe in being madly in-love at this age. However, my...
    maminino maminino 41-45, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I have been engaged to my fiancé for almost 2 years now and all we want to be is together. 
First of all let me tell you a little about us. I am 25 and was born in Por-au-prince...
    blasiancouple blasiancouple 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I always knew I never wanted kids, dunno why I just never did when I was a little girl my friends would play with dolls and prams, me?, I'd play with animal toys they were kind of...
    13Selene13 13Selene13 22-25, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I can't wait to have another baby. I know that right now, it would be bad timing. But if I were to ever get pregnant, I would keep it. Especially since it would be with somebody I...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    So,the other day I actually gathered the courage to chat with my sister in law's aunt.It was an eye opening conversation.I was under the impression( by what my husband told me...
    Lp82 Lp82 31-35, F Sep 26

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    I saw an amazing question and I wanted to discuss my feelings on the subject. The question was summarily asking how many of our preferences do we have in life are based on what we...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    So like... I was the cutest baby ever... No argument here xD
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 8 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I want to wake up in the morning and see my husband.He can even snore, then his/our children come to us.Our meals will be celebrated. I want together with children through the park...
    ScarlettMelanie84 ScarlettMelanie84 31-35, F 11 hrs ago

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    Think i'm THE cutest baby!!!!
    Dani3lJD Dani3lJD 13-15, M 10 hrs ago

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    I am finally coming to terms that I wear diapers and i love it, I sleep in diapers and a pacifier in my mouth. I even use my diapers like a baby. I'm here to be me and get this...
    Joeygarnerdl Joeygarnerdl 26-30, M 9 hrs ago

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    Anyone???? Wanna be my baby friend? .-.
    BabyGirlAtHeart BabyGirlAtHeart 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Ryan babysits Sydney Hey says Heidi on a saturday afternoon as she enters her best friend greenlees and het husband of 8 months ryans penthouse. Hey says Ryan! Where's greens asks...
    Dollfan32 Dollfan32 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I hate being near with drunk people. I find it annoying. Especially if it's my boyfriend. My bf soon to be husband like to get wasted. He's acting like some college boys. He'd...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    Beloved, I miss you! I don't even know you but I know I miss you so much it hurts. I can't wait till we meet or maybe we have already met somewhere, but I can't wait until I can...
    SkyThunderstorms SkyThunderstorms 22-25, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    My husband has a history of hernias and surgeries to fix them. All the scar tissue coupled with a new hernia created a fluid pocket that was pressing on his shunt tube. You know it...
    Phoenix7578 Phoenix7578 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    I am skinny, but am developing a beer belly. I did need go gain weight. I managed to gain 10 pounds, but it went to my stomach area. It kind of looks like a baby bump. But I keep...
    sweetbee33 sweetbee33 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I Want to Get Pregnant I have dreamed of having a child for yrs, since I was a small child. I always wanted to be the mother. I wanted to look after something. During my teenager...
    SadisticPsychoBitch SadisticPsychoBitch 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 26

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    Three weeks ago I walked into a room and saw my husband almost kiss a friend of the family. It broke my heart in a million pieces. We have been together for 20 years, married for...
    Nancy73 Nancy73 41-45, F 1 Response