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I Want a Best Friend

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    I miss having a best friend.

    I had the best friend in my freshman year of high school. I was new to my school district and we met in math class. She came up to my desk one day and just knelt down beside me and started talking to me. We somehow instantly hit it off and we became inseparable. We were super...
    lovewhiteroses lovewhiteroses 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    and one that lasts for a Long time!

    I am tired of searching for friends, I am tired of Good friends that last 6 months, I suppose that is one part of why I don't date much. The Last time I had what I would consider a Best Friend was in my high school/college years, we were friends for 7 years before I moved away...
    NvBikeBoy NvBikeBoy 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 26

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    I never had a real best friend.

    No one ever does know my deepest darkest secret. No one knows my smile is fake. I talk and hang out with myself because I have no one. I feel invincible, I feel forgotten.
    sharpal sharpal 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    may the sun shine, all day long everything go

    right, & nothing wrong may those u love bring love back to u & may all the wishes u wish come true
    rahatali1212 rahatali1212 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    Hello everyone i need a friend

    that i CAn trust n talk i don't have any friends I am always alone n depressed I need someone that I can call my best friends who I shear with my secrets n all so can I get some friends hear
    asem16 asem16 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I want to make new friends

    but I really think I forgot how. I've been married for about two years and together with my husband for four and I feel like we have enclosed ourselves on our marriage. Id to have couple friends that are in our age group and don't have kids but that's really hard in the army. I...
    smartlop93 smartlop93 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    A few years ago, I stopped talking to probably

    the only best friend I've had in my entire life. I've never gotten to close to anyone, because at the end I'm the one getting hurt. But I want to, I need to, and I thrive to find that true friend; that will be there through thick and thin. My crime partner. I look and look but...
    anderrss16 anderrss16 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    It'd be nice to be able to talk to

    that one friend about my troubles instead of venting online.
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F Feb 22

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    My log, December 10, 2013 It seems

    that this feeling still lingers in me. I want a best friend, so much so, I now want a friend with benefits. I need someone that I can explore things with or just be able to talk to. In this world, I am so alone, I need someone. The reason I ask for a guy is because I am missing...
    Alexob13 Alexob13 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I just want a friend.

    Someone I can talk too laugh with and be myself without judgement. I had one of those me and him were inseparable but we screwed it up by screwing with each other. I just want my best friend
    Beckyg91 Beckyg91 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 16

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    I need a friend who will not betray me

    or stab me in the back. And I need a friend who will be there for me through everything
    up97 up97 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I Want A Best Friend, Like A Sister..

    i want a best friend soooo bad.. i dont have any friends really, i have a good family but they have so many problems that i dont have the courage to talk to anyone about what im feeling.. i wish i have someone who i can talk about and someone who was real and loyal.. maybe it's a...
    TrueLondon TrueLondon 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    I want someone I can vent to

    that will listen and won't care about how bad of a person I am. I want someone who won't abandon me once they get bored of me..
    madhousex madhousex 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    I think I bond more with girls

    because I'm gay. I want a friend who is a girl who will keep my secrets and who is supportive of me and what I want to do with my life. Guys sometimes just don't get me and I think a girl can understand me more than a guy. So if your a girl or a guy who can put up with a 14 year...
    cocklover14 cocklover14 13-15, M 13 Responses Mar 1

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    I've called multiple people my best friends

    but no one has really connected with me like a best friend
    hebr0 hebr0 16-17, F Feb 25

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    I want some one I can trust

    and tell every thin and any thin to and will be there for as I will do all the same for the bit thin is they have to be a girl cos I get on with girls better than I do with guys dunno why just do
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have had many friendships end badly.

    Maybe I'm the problem. It's possible-- I am very stubborn.. But let me say this: I am not stubborn for the sole purpose of being stubborn. I stand up for what I think is right. My loyalty runs deep, and I do not put up with bullshit. It's simple :). Loyalty. People do not seem...
    sunshine1221 sunshine1221 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2013

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    I have 2 issues I'm trying to deal with.

    First, I have no female friends. My best friend really hurt me almost 15 years ago and I still haven't gotten over it, so I tend to push away any girls that want to be friends. Not only that, but I'm straight, and married, but I've really been thinking about being with a girl...
    EalaLyn EalaLyn 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    I have many friends,

    but the thing is I do not have at least one friend that will be with me forever, a friend to talk to everyday for life. I grew up always moving from different countries, constantly moving to different schools. My dad is my only best friend for now as he is here with me since I...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I lost my best friend

    because she doesn't accept that I'm bi. Yes I have more friends but my other best friend switched schools right before this happened. I just want someone that I can hang out with at lunch. Cuz I usually eat alone.
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    Who could had been with me all the time,

    and we could have listened to our stories and go for a walk. We do not know what is lie and we will never betray each other. Because me is he, and he is me. But when it's cold - he just comes to me and we have a tea, candies, cookies. We hug each other, we cry, we laugh, we feel...
    Korsika Korsika 18-21, F Apr 3

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    I want somebody who I can have inside jokes

    and nicknames with. Who is just my friend but also one of my favorite people because of it.
    ShadowyCheshire ShadowyCheshire 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    I would love to have a best girl friend

    who won't judge me because of my Christian beliefs. Someone who will talk Disney, Broadway, relationships, or whatever else. Someone I can talk to every day. Someone who isn't fake. I don't feel like I have any true friends.
    divaMary3 divaMary3 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    I'm alone here.I need someone

    who understand me.I need someone who scold me who hate me but stay always with me.I need someone who are always with me at any time at any place whether i'm far away.
    lonelyshadow95 lonelyshadow95 18-21, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Best lines said by a friend “I cannot promise

    to solve all ur problems but I can only promise that I will never let u face them alone
    rahatali1212 rahatali1212 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    I Never Had One

    there was never anyone i identified with or identified with me enough so we could become best friends.........i always was the second or 3rd or 4th or lower  choices. im glad i didn't change myeself for people tho.. i'd rather be myself and friendless thant having a few friends...
    lunarstrings lunarstrings 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 3, 2011

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    I am so complex that I have a lot of friends

    but no best friend. I want someone who doesn't only support me in my craziness, but also joins in. I want someone who could break through my barriers, someone who could shout at me because I'm being bad, someone who could put a smile on my face and someone I could call anytime...
    sharpal sharpal 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    Recently lost my best friend & I just want

    someone to listen to & support me.. Any takers?
    kaseyynicholee kaseyynicholee 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I'm a person who is quite the interesting kind.

    I laugh and make people laugh. I make people blush and smile like it's no tomorrow but the one thing I don't have are best friends....I know it's something that takes time and I know it's something that isn't easy to get. I just wish a girl could be my best friend or even a guy...
    Enoch88 Enoch88 22-25, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    All I have ever wanted was a best friend it's

    so hard to get along with a lot of girls cause of the drama I have always gotten along better with men I would mind having a male or female best friend but I just want one
    mommaof3boys1girl mommaof3boys1girl 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    Alone

    All I've ever wanted is to have that one best friend. That one person who is there with you threw everything. Knows you inside out. Will never leave you. Do everything together. See each other everyday. Even if use don't see each other everyday nothing will change when you do see...
    herebutinvisible herebutinvisible 16-17, F 68 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    I just want that one person

    who knows everything about me and can always be there for me because they understand me. It'd be nice to always have someone to shop with, grab lunch with, to do everything and absolutely nothing with. I have tons of friends, but they're all interested in so many different...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I want someone who lives near me

    and can hangout and can accept me. Salina Kansas area, accept that I'm gay. I'm 17 and can be really fun once you get know me but I also have had a rough life and would like someone to be there to understand me and talk about our feelings
    rchris96 rchris96 16-17, M 4 mins ago

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    SassySam77 SassySam77 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 21

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    I wish I had a best who's always there

    for me no matter what I know I know people have their own lives but I just wish to meet that one Person who will always want to chat and hang out don't get me wrong I have alot of great friends but I'm looking for that person!
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    I had a best friend for many years

    but it slowly deteriorated and we can't seem to get back to where we were. I miss the closeness of always having someone to call. I also miss our getaways together. I have tried to make a new close friend but it's just not working out. I'm a nice person I think. Wth
    Track520 Track520 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Well it's not that I don't have a best friend,

    but they always change and I don't like it. I feel myself drifting apart from them. I want to create a long distance friendship with a new girl friend. Someone between the ages of 16-21. Sure my fiancé is always there for me, but I can't talk to him about girl stuff. I guess...
    divaMary3 divaMary3 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2013

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    But Where?

    It seems that every friend I've ever had ends up not giving two ***** about anyone. I want someone who cares about me the way I care for them. I want to be able to hangout and laugh constantly. I want and need genuine people in my life who aren't fake. Do these people exist...
    natsparkle natsparkle 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    I have many friends but i just want

    that one best friend. Like i want to be a best friend to someone and be their best friend only. Someone to connect very easily with....
    dawntaker020 dawntaker020 13-15, F 7 mins ago

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    I want a true best friend not just someone

    who call themselves "bestie" "bessie" but not real. I hope that there is someone out there who truly cares to know the real me. Who will really listen to me even in my silence. I've been the go to person from all the friends I've known and met but when it's me in need of a go...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Anyone want to talk, message me?

    Unless you're a creep!
    Annabel19 Annabel19 18-21, F 12 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want a best friend

    that will be by my side 24/7. Who will always be there if you need help. Who I can act crazy around with. Who do everything together. Who doesn't care if I'm being weird. I want someone who not only I can call her my best friend but who I can also call her a sister. I use to...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F a week ago

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    I would LOVE a best friend.

    Like a REAL best friend. Like. Omg heeeres what happened to me today bestie. Just to unload withOUT judgement would be ammmaaaaazing.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    My ideal best friend is someone

    who has a lot of the same interests as me and someone who wants to hang out with me most days and/or talk/text often.
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    Well, I did a long post on the I Miss My Best

    Friend experience. Now I'm in search of another one. I wonder how successful I'll be.
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 16-17, F Jan 24

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