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I Want a Best Friend

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    For over 10 years I was bullied,

    abused and just plain tortured. It made it difficult for me to make friends, because all I knew was aggression, and because I craved attention so badly I'd make up stories, or excgarate the things that had happened to try and appear interesting or to fit in. Which would of...
    janedoe1994 janedoe1994 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    georgiammmm georgiammmm 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am so complex that I have a lot of friends

    but no best friend. I want someone who doesn't only support me in my craziness, but also joins in. I want someone who could break through my barriers, someone who could shout at me because I'm being bad, someone who could put a smile on my face and someone I could call anytime...
    sharpal sharpal 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    I want a true best friend not just someone

    who call themselves "bestie" "bessie" but not real. I hope that there is someone out there who truly cares to know the real me. Who will really listen to me even in my silence. I've been the go to person from all the friends I've known and met but when it's me in need of a go...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 12

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    i seriously just want a bestfriend.

    someone my parents love and trust . I don't like sharing bestfriends. like if he/she's my bestfriend, then you can't say the same thing . I'll literally throw a bf. lol. but seriously I want someone my age . someone I can take showers with and talk about guys and our personal...
    xriiccii xriiccii 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I miss having a best friend.

    I had the best friend in my freshman year of high school. I was new to my school district and we met in math class. She came up to my desk one day and just knelt down beside me and started talking to me. We somehow instantly hit it off and we became inseparable. We were super...
    lovewhiteroses lovewhiteroses 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    I'm looking for a guy friend here around age 22.

    I want someone I can talk to, make jokes, and just get to know. If there are any guys (no pervs please) that want an EP girl friend, I would like to get to know you. Not sure what kind of response I'll get from this. Please don't be offended if I ever stop talking to you. You...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Hello everyone ! I am a 13 years old girl & i

    want a best friend boy or girl just a best friend that would listen to me when i need him/her i dont live in europe so... i could talk to my best friend on skype or whats app or anything . I want a best friend that would love me as i am i have a lot of love to give . I dont want...
    lolxoxoswag lolxoxoswag 13-15, F Aug 8

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    All I have ever wanted was a best friend it's

    so hard to get along with a lot of girls cause of the drama I have always gotten along better with men I would mind having a male or female best friend but I just want one
    mommaof3boys1girl mommaof3boys1girl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    I'm a person who is quite the interesting kind.

    I laugh and make people laugh. I make people blush and smile like it's no tomorrow but the one thing I don't have are best friends....I know it's something that takes time and I know it's something that isn't easy to get. I just wish a girl could be my best friend or even a guy...
    Enoch88 Enoch88 22-25, M 4 Responses Apr 14

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    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I have always been wary of making friends

    online, especially even a potential best friend, opening up & trusting people personally in my life has backfired :/ I don't know if I am writing this because I am lonely, a lot of the time I am but also the possibility of becoming close friends with someone intrigues me :) don...
    TheHeartOfALovingSoul TheHeartOfALovingSoul 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 9

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    I have plenty. I just want one on here.

    A girl. One my age. She has to be really funny. Crazy. Sweet. Caring. Understanding. Straight. Just stuff like that. But for sure crazy and funny
    charmandbeauty charmandbeauty 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    That's all I've ever wanted,

    I was nine years old the last time I had a best friend. It depresses me, I see everyone around me with their best friends and I'm just here like, um yeah. I'm such a loner :(
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Hello, my name is Ari,

    which is short for Arianna. I just turned 18. Moved out of my parents nest and across the country to nest in with my brother in the Denver area. I love swimming, snowboarding, yoga, skating, bikes, hockey, soccer and horse backing :) i am very adventurous and ready for the next...
    Shad0wCat Shad0wCat 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 22

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    Look everyone, I know

    that you all want to have a best friend, which is great, but you can't just ask for one. you don't just ask someone to be your best friend. You find a best friend naturally and just meet them somehow and some way in life. If you haven't found them yet, you will, but you just...
    Nickiboy14 Nickiboy14 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 8

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    LostApothecary LostApothecary 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    I don't mind what gender/sexuality,

    I just want someone whom I can just randomly tweet/text and won't feel like I'm annoying them. I want someone to have tons of inside jokes with and someone who'll be there to listen to me rant about things, and vice versa. I've had my group of close friends since I was a kid...
    mecc28 mecc28 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I've had my share of best friends I want one I

    am able to talk about anything with and not feel ashamed
    MzDancer143 MzDancer143 22-25, F Sep 7

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    But Where?

    It seems that every friend I've ever had ends up not giving two ***** about anyone. I want someone who cares about me the way I care for them. I want to be able to hangout and laugh constantly. I want and need genuine people in my life who aren't fake. Do these people exist...
    natsparkle natsparkle 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    Anyone want to talk, message me?

    Unless you're a creep!
    Annabel19 Annabel19 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 12

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    Alone

    All I've ever wanted is to have that one best friend. That one person who is there with you threw everything. Knows you inside out. Will never leave you. Do everything together. See each other everyday. Even if use don't see each other everyday nothing will change when you do see...
    herebutinvisible herebutinvisible 16-17, F 72 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    TrayFutia TrayFutia 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Is it possible to become best friends with

    someone... online? I've tried to make many friends online, but it's hard. Actually, making a friend is the easy part, the hard part is trying to keep the friendship going, because sooner or later it eventually dies out. Everyone I've tried talking to always seem to lose...
    justicehero justicehero 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I have many friends,

    but the thing is I do not have at least one friend that will be with me forever, a friend to talk to everyday for life. I grew up always moving from different countries, constantly moving to different schools. My dad is my only best friend for now as he is here with me since I...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    yalalast yalalast 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    I just want a best friend.

    I don't care about distance. Someone to talk to all the time and laugh and cry with. A girl who listens to me just as much as I listen to her. Or a guy who doesn't just want sex.
    cibreezy cibreezy 16-17, F 4 Responses May 1

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    I would LOVE a best friend.

    Like a REAL best friend. Like. Omg heeeres what happened to me today bestie. Just to unload withOUT judgement would be ammmaaaaazing.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    All I want is someone to give a **** about me;

    to be a real friend who I can call upon for anything. Someone to meet up with and have endless things to talk about. Someone I can confide in. I should have that by now, but I haven't. I'm beginning to think that maybe I am the problem.
    amyvictoriaaa amyvictoriaaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    hannahdreams24 hannahdreams24 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I want a best friend

    who I can talk to. And be able to do whatever like be naked with each other and not make it awkward. Help each other, give advice. Be like brothers. Like talk about sex stuff and like help each other out with our bodies I just really want a best friend like that. I really do:/
    Estrong18 Estrong18 18-21, M Aug 17

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    I need a friend who will not betray me

    or stab me in the back. And I need a friend who will be there for me through everything
    up97 up97 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    My best friend moved to a different state.

    We still talk on the phone though.
    christnase christnase 16-17, M 9 hrs ago

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    Imsobored123 Imsobored123 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 9

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    Im lonely and I have no friends the last friend

    i had was a year ago and also haven't had a girlfriend for 3 years
    brettd17 brettd17 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    sometimes i feel loneliness at

    that time i really need a best friend 😞
    luck2292 luck2292 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 3

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    I want to see myself like in the movies; With a

    gay best friend, a guy friend and a girl friend. :p lmao but I think that is too much to ask. I haven't found a best friend that is in my place or city and Idk why. I think I understand people a lot but the problem is they do not understand me. I wish I have someone to always...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    You Ever See Someone Online & The Things They

    Post... And You're Like,"Damn We Could Be Best Friends" Lol, I Have Like 3 Best Friends That Don't Even Know About Me.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    My log, December 10, 2013 It seems

    that this feeling still lingers in me. I want a best friend, so much so, I now want a friend with benefits. I need someone that I can explore things with or just be able to talk to. In this world, I am so alone, I need someone. The reason I ask for a guy is because I am missing...
    Alexob13 Alexob13 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    anna0310 anna0310 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    blondebanditt blondebanditt 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    I think I bond more with girls

    because I'm gay. I want a friend who is a girl who will keep my secrets and who is supportive of me and what I want to do with my life. Guys sometimes just don't get me and I think a girl can understand me more than a guy. So if your a girl or a guy who can put up with a 14 year...
    cocklover14 cocklover14 13-15, M 13 Responses Mar 1

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    I have many friends but i just want

    that one best friend. Like i want to be a best friend to someone and be their best friend only. Someone to connect very easily with....
    dawntaker020 dawntaker020 13-15, F Apr 18

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    I don't have very many people

    that love near me that I can call good friends. I don't,,, I mean I just don't have anything I common with anybody. I hate it. In so different and weird and judged and it's so awful. I want friends that when they r at my house talk to me more than they talk to my dickhead...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    I need a best friend.

    .male or female...an atheist likes to travel...and likes to party on weekends
    naddo630 naddo630 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I never had a real best friend.

    No one ever does know my deepest darkest secret. No one knows my smile is fake. I talk and hang out with myself because I have no one. I feel invincible, I feel forgotten.
    sharpal sharpal 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    xXchaos71Xx xXchaos71Xx 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 5

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    Never really had that deep connection with

    anyone... I'd love a best friend though :(
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F Aug 28

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    I wish I could find a really nice girl who's fun

    and trustworthy to be best friends with. I've never had someone like that before, someone who's like a sister, someone who you do literally everything with and you talk to each other about anything. I miss not having someone like that, I just want a best friend who is just as...
    lesha17x lesha17x 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 4

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    I want a friend who is a girl I want a friend

    who isn't shallow and only cares about looks I want a friend who is open minded and care about "human rights" I want a friend who I can talk to for HOURS I want a friend I can talk about random stuff and be crazy with. I want to feel comfortable with them and say what ever...
    joseey joseey 18-21, F Jul 31

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    So I read somewhere that cows have best friends.

    Cows. In what universe can bovines have a better social life than me?!
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 4

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    I'd love a best friend

    that I can talk about anything with, from music the The Walking Dead :P (and bacon) If you can be hyper, crazy, totally random, and can jump from talking about llamas to cake theeeeeen I'm 99% certain we'll click (: And I honestly don't care whether you are a boy or girl, as...
    Celstie Celstie 13-15, F 5 Responses