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I Want a Best Friend

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    If my future BFF is out there,

    you are 30+, female, live in US, are not looking for a romantic connection from this friendship. You are smart and can hold your own in a conversation and are not afraid to share your opinion. You appreciate humor and sarcasm, can take and dish both on a spur-of-the-moment. You...
    connectionpoint connectionpoint 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 29

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    So far all my so called "best friends" aren't

    like best friends at all. I remember all of their birthdays every year and get them presents but no one seemed to remember my birthday. They even text "happy birthday" to me one or two days late. Other than that, they are never there for me when I'm drowning in my problems...
    CloeSmile CloeSmile 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I would love a best friend someone to share the

    ups and downs with someone to turn to when I'm down.I would class myself as a loner so come on EP members is there someone out there
    mann30 mann30 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 1

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    I think I bond more with girls

    because I'm gay. I want a friend who is a girl who will keep my secrets and who is supportive of me and what I want to do with my life. Guys sometimes just don't get me and I think a girl can understand me more than a guy. So if your a girl or a guy who can put up with a 14 year...
    cocklover14 cocklover14 13-15, M 12 Responses Mar 1

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    Look everyone, I know

    that you all want to have a best friend, which is great, but you can't just ask for one. you don't just ask someone to be your best friend. You find a best friend naturally and just meet them somehow and some way in life. If you haven't found them yet, you will, but you just...
    freshy15 freshy15 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 8

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    I want a girl best friend 18-21someone who's

    nice funny has a great personality loves music and Is a Gamer message me
    JoeThePro11 JoeThePro11 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 20

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    I need a friend with whom I can share

    everything , chat with me every day ... I want to roam around with him, enjoy my life ..... I need some1 who cares 4 me ... wish to be with a person...
    ineedsome12bewithme ineedsome12bewithme 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 15

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    xXchaos71Xx xXchaos71Xx 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 5

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    I am so complex that I have a lot of friends

    but no best friend. I want someone who doesn't only support me in my craziness, but also joins in. I want someone who could break through my barriers, someone who could shout at me because I'm being bad, someone who could put a smile on my face and someone I could call anytime...
    sharpal sharpal 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    I have many friends,

    but I haven't been able to trust any of them so much to make them my best friends. We talk and all, but I never really tell them what's up, instead, I am the one that gives them advice for whatever
    justlaura24 justlaura24 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    Hit me up I'm real cool

    and want a friend 18 years old from Cleveland Ohio
    will079 will079 18-21, M Oct 20

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    I have many friends but i just want

    that one best friend. Like i want to be a best friend to someone and be their best friend only. Someone to connect very easily with....
    dawntaker020 dawntaker020 13-15, F Apr 18

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    I always thought being married meant you'd have

    a best friend by your side. Having a best friend to me means someone who shared everything mutually, full transparency. Not selective sharing! I find that in my marriage there's a very selective sharing process happening, on a need-to-know basis. Sometimes it makes me feel...
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I would LOVE a best friend.

    Like a REAL best friend. Like. Omg heeeres what happened to me today bestie. Just to unload withOUT judgement would be ammmaaaaazing.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    I have had many friendships end badly.

    Maybe I'm the problem. It's possible-- I am very stubborn.. But let me say this: I am not stubborn for the sole purpose of being stubborn. I stand up for what I think is right. My loyalty runs deep, and I do not put up with bullshit. It's simple :). Loyalty. People do not seem...
    sunshine1221 sunshine1221 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I want a friend I can talk to.

    Not a friend who just lets you talk, but one you can talk and laugh with and be best friends with! I want a true friend that I can just be me around! :) Preferably 13-16. NO PERVS!
    AleaAndLexi AleaAndLexi 13-15, F Dec 5

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    I have always been wary of making friends

    online, especially even a potential best friend, opening up & trusting people personally in my life has backfired :/ I don't know if I am writing this because I am lonely, a lot of the time I am but also the possibility of becoming close friends with someone intrigues me :) don...
    TheHeartOfALovingSoul TheHeartOfALovingSoul 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 9

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    So I read somewhere that cows have best friends.

    Cows. In what universe can bovines have a better social life than me?!
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 4

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    I have "best friends"

    but it's like they don't care about me. They just want me to listen to their problems and if I bring up my problems they go back to theirs. It gets really annoying after a while :/ but it would be nice to have someone to talk to that would actually give a damn about what I'm...
    Everystormends Everystormends 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I just want a best friend.

    I don't care about distance. Someone to talk to all the time and laugh and cry with. A girl who listens to me just as much as I listen to her. Or a guy who doesn't just want sex.
    cibreezy cibreezy 18-21, F 4 Responses May 1

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    I have many friends,

    but the thing is I do not have at least one friend that will be with me forever, a friend to talk to everyday for life. I grew up always moving from different countries, constantly moving to different schools. My dad is my only best friend for now as he is here with me since I...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I have friends but i dont really have

    that someone who understands me better than i understand myself and will always be there for me :/
    truthtobetold truthtobetold 13-15, F Nov 8

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    I want a best friend that's a girl

    who is willing to call me on holidays and who's willing to talk to me everyday and every night
    foranhighschool1028 foranhighschool1028 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 18

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    I don't mind what gender/sexuality,

    I just want someone whom I can just randomly tweet/text and won't feel like I'm annoying them. I want someone to have tons of inside jokes with and someone who'll be there to listen to me rant about things, and vice versa. I've had my group of close friends since I was a kid...
    mecc28 mecc28 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Hello, my name is Ari,

    which is short for Arianna. I just turned 18. Moved out of my parents nest and across the country to nest in with my brother in the Denver area. I love swimming, snowboarding, yoga, skating, bikes, hockey, soccer and horse backing :) i am very adventurous and ready for the next...
    Shad0wCat Shad0wCat 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 22

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    I wish I could find a really nice girl who's fun

    and trustworthy to be best friends with. I've never had someone like that before, someone who's like a sister, someone who you do literally everything with and you talk to each other about anything. I miss not having someone like that, I just want a best friend who is just as...
    lesha17x lesha17x 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    I want a true best friend not just someone

    who call themselves "bestie" "bessie" but not real. I hope that there is someone out there who truly cares to know the real me. Who will really listen to me even in my silence. I've been the go to person from all the friends I've known and met but when it's me in need of a go...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 12

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    You Ever See Someone Online & The Things They

    Post... And You're Like,"Damn We Could Be Best Friends" Lol, I Have Like 3 Best Friends That Don't Even Know About Me.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I haven't had any really close friends since

    before I moved in elementary school for the last time. I have a boyfriend and he's amazing, he's the only one who I truly trust and tell everything to. But I want a best friend, a close friend who I could just have random sleepovers with and talk about whatever and listen to...
    TurtlesAndLlamas TurtlesAndLlamas 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I'd love a best friend

    that I can talk about anything with, from music the The Walking Dead :P (and bacon) If you can be hyper, crazy, totally random, and can jump from talking about llamas to cake theeeeeen I'm 99% certain we'll click (: And I honestly don't care whether you are a boy or girl, as...
    Celstie Celstie 16-17, F 5 Responses May 23

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    Seriously. I need someone

    who I can be my complete goofy self around. Someone who would always be there for me just like I'd be there for them. Someone who would take my 2am calls. Someone who would be honest with me even if it hurt. Someone who won't leave when it gets inconvenient for them if they...
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 29

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    I don't have a best friend,

    because I fell in love with her and I told her my feelings, and she rejected me and push me back. then she wasn't talk to me anymore, few months ago I see her in the street and we just say polite hi like two stranger. And it's become little bit hard finding someone to trust...
    IamNicolle IamNicolle 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I want someone to talk to

    who is around my age, likes similar things, and also wants a friend, male or female, message me if you think you may be this person
    lonelytechie lonelytechie 13-15, M Dec 5

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    I've always been somewhat "popular".

    I've always been well known in all the schools that I've attended, but never felt more happy than when I'm chilling with just one best friend. It's so hard to find a good best friend anymore, because everyone already has one... I just need someone I can walk to their house and...
    wakeschoolsleep wakeschoolsleep 13-15, M Nov 16

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    I have plenty. I just want one on here.

    A girl. One my age. She has to be really funny. Crazy. Sweet. Caring. Understanding. Straight. Just stuff like that. But for sure crazy and funny
    charmandbeauty charmandbeauty 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I want a cute female best friend

    that I can spend the night with. I wanna be able to cuddle with her and fool around just for the hell of it and have fun doing it. I'd love to have lesbian sex with her sometimes. Where is she.?!?!?!?!?
    ToriDianne ToriDianne 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    I'm real cool love to play games funny

    and play basketball 18 years old girls say was up
    will079 will079 18-21, M Oct 20

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    malcolm500 malcolm500 13-15, M Dec 9

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    I just want a friend I can talk to like every

    day. And be open with not someone who texted three days later saying sorry I was busy someone who can text every day when ever all the time.
    thatone6 thatone6 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    Alone

    All I've ever wanted is to have that one best friend. That one person who is there with you threw everything. Knows you inside out. Will never leave you. Do everything together. See each other everyday. Even if use don't see each other everyday nothing will change when you do see...
    herebutinvisible herebutinvisible 18-21, F 71 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    MisunderstoodGal30 MisunderstoodGal30 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 29

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    I want a friend that I care about

    and actually cares about me. They aren't fake and just trying to get something from me. I want someone I can trust and actually call my friend.
    Snowboy6421 Snowboy6421 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 19

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    I want to find someone

    who I feel comfortable with and trust. A funny best friend would be even better but I am socially inept and I don't like most people. No, scratch that. I'll just get a dog, that sounds a lot better.
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    All I want is someone to give a **** about me;

    to be a real friend who I can call upon for anything. Someone to meet up with and have endless things to talk about. Someone I can confide in. I should have that by now, but I haven't. I'm beginning to think that maybe I am the problem.
    amyvictoriaaa amyvictoriaaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 9

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    I never had a real best friend.

    No one ever does know my deepest darkest secret. No one knows my smile is fake. I talk and hang out with myself because I have no one. I feel invincible, I feel forgotten.
    sharpal sharpal 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    I want someone I can watch animes with

    and play games with and run with and go out on Fridays with and hang out on the weekends with and just be best friends withT_T
    thefightingangel thefightingangel 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 28

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    I just want someone to talk to,

    someone whom I can be for when they need me and can do the same for me! Someone around my age would be preferable. So if your in need of a friend just message me
    Jodieeee95 Jodieeee95 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    I need a new one 😭😭 any one want to be my

    bestfreind? v.v guy or girl it don't matter to me
    Alonzoisgay Alonzoisgay 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 8

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    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 9

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    I miss having a best friend.

    I had the best friend in my freshman year of high school. I was new to my school district and we met in math class. She came up to my desk one day and just knelt down beside me and started talking to me. We somehow instantly hit it off and we became inseparable. We were super...
    lovewhiteroses lovewhiteroses 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    My log, December 10, 2013 It seems

    that this feeling still lingers in me. I want a best friend, so much so, I now want a friend with benefits. I need someone that I can explore things with or just be able to talk to. In this world, I am so alone, I need someone. The reason I ask for a guy is because I am missing...
    Alexob13 Alexob13 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    Can I like buy one off the internet?

    Where do you find stuff like that?
    trrrrrrouble trrrrrrouble 18-21, F 10 Responses