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I Want a Change

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    I Need a Change

    For the last 7 months my life has gone down the tubes.  I lost my job and my car within two weeks.  I worked so hard for my car, the thing that provided me with so much independence.  The man I was dating at the time was there for me but circumstances surrounding...
    snobunny826 snobunny826 21-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    I have been wanting a change in my life.

    And I found it. I found something that is going to change my life and make me financially free. If you want to know about it, message me
    totalhipster143 totalhipster143 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Change

    All of us experience change in our lives. Change is the one constant in our lives. There are changes that we look forward to and change that we fear. However, one thing is for sure. Things will not stay the same no matter how much we would like them too. When a life change...
    gr8jesus gr8jesus 51-55, M Sep 22, 2010

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    Just Thoughts...

    Recently I've been doing some soul searching not only just to find who i am again but because of one of the biggest decision I've ever had to make in my life and if you read my other story you know it was the choice of having an abortion. Coincedientily it's a very controversial...
    yuuup123 yuuup123 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    I just want to feel confident

    and better. I think I'm gonna chop my long hair off into like a bob type cut.. Right now. My mom will probably kill me but it's my hair and I'm sick of just looking in the mirror hating what I see. I don't think it's drastic. It's just hair and mine grows back way quicker than...
    savmcken savmcken 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    Tired Of Being Me

    I am tried of being me. I am tired of being depressed all the time. I hate that I want to be happy and enjoy life but that happiness avaids me. I am tied of sleeping all the time b/c there is nothing else for me to do. I want to live in a home where my girls have their own rooms...
    dawneubanks2005 dawneubanks2005 31-35, F Feb 5, 2013

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    I Am Sick Of Always Being On Top

    Every time we have sex..... my husband just lies there's... its simply implicated that its my "job" to be on top. Its soooooo boring. As soon as he gets off, sex is over. I want to be thrashed around... have him take control, be on top... Something..... anything...
    bluediamond325 bluediamond325 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    mcafe58 mcafe58 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    sisi19 sisi19 18-21, F Apr 30

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    I've looked at most of my posts

    and thought that they sounded to negotiate and to much like a whiney teenager talking about how much his life sucks. I don't want to be that person, after all the topic is I want a change. Well we were having a discussion at the dinner table about the education of the US and how...
    stormcat2248 stormcat2248 16-17, M May 13

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    No One Knows Because I Hide It. But I'M Afraid Of What'S To Come In My Near Future.

    I'm a strong person, with a good head on my shoulders. My problem? I allowed my roommate to pretty much step on me and get her way in almost every single aspect of our household for the last 2 years and I'm f'ing tired of it. I'm tired of having to hear about how "loud" my door...
    Sickchick26 Sickchick26 26-30, F Oct 15, 2013

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    Need To Change Yourself , Join Me ( We Are On The Same Page )

    OK here is the deal , i am a good guy shy in nature , lack of smartness and average communication skill . i don't speak up thinking that i might offend someone OR make a joke out of myself . But the thing is when you have a personality like that no one respects you , they just...
    debabratbarman debabratbarman 22-25 Aug 25, 2013

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    From today I'm gonna work

    for the change...no matter how many times I fail..
    shikoko shikoko 16-17, F Jun 30

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    I Pray For Change

    My work/social situation is a nightmare.  I actually am working a midnight shift to avoid people I work with.  I'm so angry at my co-workers for treating me like sh"" and the worse part is they don't care.  I know that my social situation at work will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 18, 2009

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    Waiting Game

    Life has been a big waiting game for me, but finally the time has come! As I wait for my big change~ I am quite anxious, but yet glad to get this day over with. I think things will be different away from the stress of this dark cloud hanging over my neighborhood!
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F Jun 23, 2008

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    Change, But What Kind

    I do want change but not the kind this political season is throwing out. The change I want and hope for is a deep personal change in everyone. The change that makes individual evolve into more caring and compassionate and loving person. Sometimes we show better glimpses of...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    Drunk

    I'm so drunk tonight ! Decided to get high and forget all ******* problems of life.
    soheil4 soheil4 18-21, M Sep 11, 2013

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    Change-scary But Needed

    I have always been scared of change....i like things to stay the same because I like it when things are stable. I would be willing to stay in a bad situation to avoid change, but at the same time so desperately want it. I haven't been truly happy for quite some time now. I have...
    SassySexySweetSub SassySexySweetSub 22-25, F Dec 16, 2008

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    Some Things Never Change.....

    Some things never change..... ....But then again some things do. I'm starting to focus on what I want in life, and I'm also starting to be a lot happier most of the time. No one is gonna ruin my mood, NO ONE! I'm having so much fun knowing everything that's going on, and being...
    moyoyo moyoyo 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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    Sick And Tired

    I am completely fed up of being the follower, the one who is completely influenced by my friends. I am tired of always being the boring one, the one who is ugly and timid. I am SICK of my boring life, my boring parents, my boring brother. I want a change. What I'd LIKE is to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 15, 2010

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    ... Alot

    I want to change so many things about my lifestyle ...  i dont want a change of area because i love where i live .  i just want to become a better person . ... I want to be comfortable with change ...  im not good at accepting it  if its not something i can...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2007

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    Scared

    More than anything I am afraid to try. My mistakes, because of there nature, has defined me for too long. I want to be better than what I have become... better than what I dream I can be. I want to be the me I started out to be when I decided to be a "me". But, I fear I have...
    Unwyse30 Unwyse30 26-30, F Aug 24, 2013

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    I'm starting with a small change to my

    appearance by dying my hair red tomorrow.
    fullofhope123 fullofhope123 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    I'm always where everybody expects me to be. I want change, badly. I would like to just go off somewhere and make others wonder about me for once. Take me serious, understand how...
    strawberry38 strawberry38 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I shouted at my parents. I feel like I was a Monster. I feel extremely bad about it and it is not that first time. I want to stop it. I want to be affectionate and talk to my...
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    lewl i keep forgetting my username WAS Minifoxxgurl so i just decided i change back to my original username Mini42301
    Mini42301 Mini42301 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    Why not be a Vampire? Its seems my life has no meaning (to be honest), anyone looking for a recruit just change me and im at your service.
    UtahGuy99 UtahGuy99 18-21, M 5 hrs ago

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    I believe people can change good and bad. My ex is a great example of this. We dated all threw high school and we had a great relationship we had a lot of things in common as far...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If there's one thing in my life that's missing It's the time that I spend alone Sailing on the cool and bright clear water Lots of those friendly people And they're showing me ways...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    Well there's many things I can't change. Like I can't change who a person is, I can't change what someone believes I can't change anything about anyone honestly... I've had a...
    chooseyourpath chooseyourpath 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 29

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    My life has changed in the last three years four years even five years. It is still changing. Last night for the first time I hit the ignore button on a call from someone I really...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Hey, I'm 18 male, and I really can't take my parents anymore. I'm thinking of running away all the time. I'm sorry, this is a bit long but I would really appreciate someone's...
    Balkan1996 Balkan1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I am a college student, struggling with the idea of dropping out to pursue my passion of writing, travel, spirituality and introducing people to a more fulfilling life. Are you...
    theleigh theleigh 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Change calls for a new plan of action. You simply cannot operate in the old ways manufacturing old ideas, reproducing old habits, and maintaining current mental patterns. With...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F a week ago

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    there's just that one thing i crave, i think about, i need, i desire cause nothing else matters ill leave just after or in the morning, ill tell you i have stuff on, you might...
    nothism nothism 22-25, M Aug 6

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    This is a message for those who feel that life is not good, there is no hope, and they want to end it all. Let me start by sharing two stories to help me to get my message across...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    It's hard to be stuck in a place in life that you just do not want be in. And look back and beat yourself up for choices that got you there. Well. I've done this for years and...
    Ludavin Ludavin 46-50, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've been with my partner now for over 15 years, married for 5 years. I do love my wife, but over the years she has become so controlling and has over-ruled my decisions too many...
    PaulSm68 PaulSm68 46-50, M Aug 1

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    I don't want people to recognize me for who I am right now. I want to make huge changes that will shock people and make them wish they stayed by my side. I'm done being treated...
    Diamondgirly Diamondgirly 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    Persistent changes + sufficient time=changes she can believe in. My counsellors tell me this time and time again. My mentor a family therapist said he just heard of a couple who...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    High heeled commute to work. I sucked it up this morning. When I left the house to walk to the train station, I was wearing heels and long jeans. It's about 1/2 mile to the...
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    Being a mom is changeling sometimes for me, especially when your 3 year old tries to run your life. That's fine with me. My son came to my life when there was no purpose of it...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    "When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness is the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down 'happy...
    Sophiesmiles Sophiesmiles 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    Ever since I was younger I knew I wanted to do something big, something that would change lives. I have started with just helping others and volunteering my time, but I can't help...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I'm 20 years old virgin never had a job, i go to college and i don't know who am i. my years in elementary and middle school, and high school, and now in college, was being the shy...
    spicybuddha101 spicybuddha101 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I used to be the devil himself but I've changed. Even though I've changed I'm not no where near the person I want to be. I've hurt people emotionally and physically. I knew at...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Yes indeed I want to change some aspect of my life. My outlook on life,the person I aspire to be,the way I live my life. I am realizing some things I thought I love is harming me...
    temptedtotouch temptedtotouch 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 4

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    When I was 17 I was a very bad person. I talked back to my parents, I was very disobedient and I had 5 piercings in my right ear without parental permission, I didn't care what my...
    1993george 1993george 18-21, M Aug 6

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    When I was 17 I was a very bad person. I talked back to my parents, I was very disobedient and I had 5 piercings in my right ear without parental permission, I didn't care what my...
    1993george 1993george 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 6