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I Want a Change

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    I just want to feel confident

    and better. I think I'm gonna chop my long hair off into like a bob type cut.. Right now. My mom will probably kill me but it's my hair and I'm sick of just looking in the mirror hating what I see. I don't think it's drastic. It's just hair and mine grows back way quicker than...
    savmcken savmcken 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    mcafe58 mcafe58 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    From today I'm gonna work

    for the change...no matter how many times I fail..
    shikoko shikoko 16-17, F Jun 30

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    No One Knows Because I Hide It. But I'M Afraid Of What'S To Come In My Near Future.

    I'm a strong person, with a good head on my shoulders. My problem? I allowed my roommate to pretty much step on me and get her way in almost every single aspect of our household for the last 2 years and I'm f'ing tired of it. I'm tired of having to hear about how "loud" my door...
    Sickchick26 Sickchick26 26-30, F Oct 15, 2013

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    I Need a Change

    For the last 7 months my life has gone down the tubes.  I lost my job and my car within two weeks.  I worked so hard for my car, the thing that provided me with so much independence.  The man I was dating at the time was there for me but circumstances surrounding...
    snobunny826 snobunny826 21-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    Need To Change Yourself , Join Me ( We Are On The Same Page )

    OK here is the deal , i am a good guy shy in nature , lack of smartness and average communication skill . i don't speak up thinking that i might offend someone OR make a joke out of myself . But the thing is when you have a personality like that no one respects you , they just...
    debabratbarman debabratbarman 22-25 Aug 25, 2013

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    I Am Sick Of Always Being On Top

    Every time we have sex..... my husband just lies there's... its simply implicated that its my "job" to be on top. Its soooooo boring. As soon as he gets off, sex is over. I want to be thrashed around... have him take control, be on top... Something..... anything...
    bluediamond325 bluediamond325 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    ... Alot

    I want to change so many things about my lifestyle ...  i dont want a change of area because i love where i live .  i just want to become a better person . ... I want to be comfortable with change ...  im not good at accepting it  if its not something i can...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2007

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    Scared

    More than anything I am afraid to try. My mistakes, because of there nature, has defined me for too long. I want to be better than what I have become... better than what I dream I can be. I want to be the me I started out to be when I decided to be a "me". But, I fear I have...
    Unwyse30 Unwyse30 31-35, F Aug 24, 2013

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    sisi19 sisi19 18-21, F Apr 30

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    I'm starting with a small change to my

    appearance by dying my hair red tomorrow.
    fullofhope123 fullofhope123 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    I've looked at most of my posts

    and thought that they sounded to negotiate and to much like a whiney teenager talking about how much his life sucks. I don't want to be that person, after all the topic is I want a change. Well we were having a discussion at the dinner table about the education of the US and how...
    stormcat2248 stormcat2248 16-17, M May 13

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    Tired Of Being Me

    I am tried of being me. I am tired of being depressed all the time. I hate that I want to be happy and enjoy life but that happiness avaids me. I am tied of sleeping all the time b/c there is nothing else for me to do. I want to live in a home where my girls have their own rooms...
    dawneubanks2005 dawneubanks2005 31-35, F Feb 5, 2013

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    Waiting Game

    Life has been a big waiting game for me, but finally the time has come! As I wait for my big change~ I am quite anxious, but yet glad to get this day over with. I think things will be different away from the stress of this dark cloud hanging over my neighborhood!
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F Jun 23, 2008

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    Change-scary But Needed

    I have always been scared of change....i like things to stay the same because I like it when things are stable. I would be willing to stay in a bad situation to avoid change, but at the same time so desperately want it. I haven't been truly happy for quite some time now. I have...
    SassySexySweetSub SassySexySweetSub 22-25, F Dec 16, 2008

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    Some Things Never Change.....

    Some things never change..... ....But then again some things do. I'm starting to focus on what I want in life, and I'm also starting to be a lot happier most of the time. No one is gonna ruin my mood, NO ONE! I'm having so much fun knowing everything that's going on, and being...
    moyoyo moyoyo 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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    Change, But What Kind

    I do want change but not the kind this political season is throwing out. The change I want and hope for is a deep personal change in everyone. The change that makes individual evolve into more caring and compassionate and loving person. Sometimes we show better glimpses of...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    I have been wanting a change in my life.

    And I found it. I found something that is going to change my life and make me financially free. If you want to know about it, message me
    totalhipster143 totalhipster143 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Sick And Tired

    I am completely fed up of being the follower, the one who is completely influenced by my friends. I am tired of always being the boring one, the one who is ugly and timid. I am SICK of my boring life, my boring parents, my boring brother. I want a change. What I'd LIKE is to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 15, 2010

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    Just Thoughts...

    Recently I've been doing some soul searching not only just to find who i am again but because of one of the biggest decision I've ever had to make in my life and if you read my other story you know it was the choice of having an abortion. Coincedientily it's a very controversial...
    yuuup123 yuuup123 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    Drunk

    I'm so drunk tonight ! Decided to get high and forget all ******* problems of life.
    soheil4 soheil4 18-21, M Sep 11, 2013

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    Change

    All of us experience change in our lives. Change is the one constant in our lives. There are changes that we look forward to and change that we fear. However, one thing is for sure. Things will not stay the same no matter how much we would like them too. When a life change...
    gr8jesus gr8jesus 51-55, M Sep 22, 2010

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    I Pray For Change

    My work/social situation is a nightmare.  I actually am working a midnight shift to avoid people I work with.  I'm so angry at my co-workers for treating me like sh"" and the worse part is they don't care.  I know that my social situation at work will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 18, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    But now I realize the only thing I can change is myself. So I will. As I watch and wait for the world to destroy itself from the inside out. But I still have hope. Those that want...
    toxbox toxbox 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Once again Facebook asking me What's on my mind. Dearest, you know?... I haven't words to tell or explain that mess inside of my head. But... Today I want to try. Try to start talk...
    WhineWolfe WhineWolfe 16-17, F Aug 19

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    Put your make up onGet your nails doneCurl your hairRun the extra mileKeep it slimSo they like you, do they like you?Get your sexy onDon't be shy, girlTake it offThis is what you...
    loveandwars loveandwars 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    Hi, I'm Zack. I'm 15. I'm in 10th grade. I'm bisexual. My family owns a hunting lodge and outdoor resort in East Texas. I have late puberty. I was dumped by my xgf in real life and...
    zackthehunter zackthehunter 13-15, M 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I just want to be numb. I don't want feelings to get in the way. I don't want to get hurt again. I will build a thicker wall, change my door with a steel one, with more locks and...
    pepperdoll pepperdoll 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    Life is such a funny (sic) story, the best way to alter the things is go with the flow, if you can change them. Its true when you have parents, wife, kids and everyone showing...
    maskedmagic maskedmagic 31-35, M 4 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been having problems for a long time. Last month we were seperated for about 3 weeks. I felt strong and ready to move on; until the reality of what would...
    jeantram jeantram 31-35, F 6 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Accepting the things I cannot change, does not mean that I like them. It means that I let go of the idea, that I am in control of other people. places or things, Or that I even...
    Luvhugeuptop Luvhugeuptop 46-50, M 4 hrs ago

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    Im 18 and my family and friends all seen so comfortable in life, with they spectations, my mom and me have had a few conversations about how i think about society, she says me "you...
    Lokart Lokart 18-21, M Aug 28

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    i dont want to change and you cant force me! i am who i am.i cant change myself bcz you dont love it! got it??????or i should repeat it again????? whispering this song : i dont...
    00roshana00 00roshana00 18-21, F Sep 2

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    Im gonna fix my F'd up life ! :P :D Hold me to it if you care to. I'll be grateful. Ask me how im doing with the plan. For all of you that are looking for a change, here are 11...
    sum1ab sum1ab 46-50, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Being a mom is changeling sometimes for me, especially when your 3 year old tries to run your life. That's fine with me. My son came to my life when there was no purpose of it...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Change is something thats inevitable. I guess I should really have to believe it myself. Its something that you can't avoid no matter how hard you try to run away from it. And I...
    sayangeiram sayangeiram 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    i can remember a day we went to a jungle with my dad's friends and we had to walk in the river! i had a nice trousers (it was new pretty and expensive).it was tight and i couldnt...
    00roshana00 00roshana00 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Pseudocide. It is a word that is both beautiful and frightening. Pseudocide: the death of identity, the cessation of the self. For years-- at least half my life-- it has been an...
    WildMagic WildMagic 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I've been trying to lose weight for a while now, but its so hard. I'm what you call skinnyfat, its when with clothes on you look skinny but without them you'd see the person is...
    TheRouge TheRouge 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    The truth is that I actually wear my glasses to get through my life everyday. But maybe it was a mistake when I changed my profile picture on Facebook with a picture of myself when...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    .....i dont know if this will ever make any sense. still writing this though. i wanna make a big change in my life, that i shoulve done before.. i have tried to make it but...
    hush00hush hush00hush 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    There are parts of my life I, like so many others, would love to change but can't for many reasons. I have always wanted to have a better relationship with my mother. I had hoped...
    Youget Youget 46-50, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend's sex drive: Every other month or so the conversation comes back once again "How am I attractive or good enough if you don't want sex with me?" I'll say. He says he...
    RjMommy245 RjMommy245 22-25, F 12 Responses Sep 2

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    My new lifestyle.. I really want to share something I have found to be very beneficial to me. I am currently taking supplements that provides whole food based nutrition from 17...
    sgawlik sgawlik 26-30, F Sep 5

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    People don't understand that I'm not fashionable. I don't like girly clothes, i'm not a girly-girl. I like sports and i like to be comfortable in what i wear. Trouble is people...
    Emzi001 Emzi001 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 5

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    I have people in my life that respect me, and love me for me. But then I know many people that do not understand that I will not change just because they want me to change. I know...
    Young2Wise Young2Wise 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    The root of my depression is a self love problem. I have no self esteem left. It's just gone. He asked why I always pick myself part, he told me that I'm perfect the way I am but I...
    SheAlwaysBelieved SheAlwaysBelieved 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think some part of me has always wanted to try it out. Since I was very young. I felt like I could probably make a decent actor if I changed a couple things about me. I'm nice...
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence 18-21, F Aug 19

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    I was abused all my life...physically , mentally , verbally...all of it . I was constantly put down and told I am simply not good enough and I will never be good enough , weather...
    MalaJazz MalaJazz 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    I've been with my kids mom for 7 years and have 2 kids,a 4 year old and a 1 year old. We had an up and down relationship because when we first started she didn't have an idea what...
    jay305 jay305 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 28