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I Want a Change

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 387 People

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    mcafe58 mcafe58 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    From today I'm gonna work

    for the change...no matter how many times I fail..
    iused2kno iused2kno 16-17, F Jun 30, 2014

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    I'm starting with a small change to my

    appearance by dying my hair red tomorrow.
    fullofhope123 fullofhope123 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    ... Alot

    I want to change so many things about my lifestyle ...  i dont want a change of area because i love where i live .  i just want to become a better person . ... I want to be comfortable with change ...  im not good at accepting it  if its not something i can...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2007

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    Some Things Never Change.....

    Some things never change..... ....But then again some things do. I'm starting to focus on what I want in life, and I'm also starting to be a lot happier most of the time. No one is gonna ruin my mood, NO ONE! I'm having so much fun knowing everything that's going on, and being...
    moyoyo moyoyo 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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    Change, But What Kind

    I do want change but not the kind this political season is throwing out. The change I want and hope for is a deep personal change in everyone. The change that makes individual evolve into more caring and compassionate and loving person. Sometimes we show better glimpses of...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    Ihave had many jobs and lived in many states,

    growing up I went to 22 different schools, never staying longer that 6 months anywhere. I began to quit getting close to people, making friends became easy by t futile, being able to change my identity to whatever pleased the friends I was attempting to make. It has warped...
    Audextic Audextic 22-25, M Apr 5

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    sisi19 sisi19 18-21, F Apr 30, 2014

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    Change-scary But Needed

    I have always been scared of change....i like things to stay the same because I like it when things are stable. I would be willing to stay in a bad situation to avoid change, but at the same time so desperately want it. I haven't been truly happy for quite some time now. I have...
    SassySexySweetSub SassySexySweetSub 22-25, F Dec 16, 2008

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    Need To Change Yourself , Join Me ( We Are On The Same Page )

    OK here is the deal , i am a good guy shy in nature , lack of smartness and average communication skill . i don't speak up thinking that i might offend someone OR make a joke out of myself . But the thing is when you have a personality like that no one respects you , they just...
    debabratbarman debabratbarman 22-25 Aug 25, 2013

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    I've looked at most of my posts

    and thought that they sounded to negotiate and to much like a whiney teenager talking about how much his life sucks. I don't want to be that person, after all the topic is I want a change. Well we were having a discussion at the dinner table about the education of the US and how...
    Captinsammy Captinsammy 16-17, M May 13, 2014

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    Just Thoughts...

    Recently I've been doing some soul searching not only just to find who i am again but because of one of the biggest decision I've ever had to make in my life and if you read my other story you know it was the choice of having an abortion. Coincedientily it's a very controversial...
    yuuup123 yuuup123 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    Tired Of Being Me

    I am tried of being me. I am tired of being depressed all the time. I hate that I want to be happy and enjoy life but that happiness avaids me. I am tied of sleeping all the time b/c there is nothing else for me to do. I want to live in a home where my girls have their own rooms...
    dawneubanks2005 dawneubanks2005 31-35, F Feb 5, 2013

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    I just want to feel confident

    and better. I think I'm gonna chop my long hair off into like a bob type cut.. Right now. My mom will probably kill me but it's my hair and I'm sick of just looking in the mirror hating what I see. I don't think it's drastic. It's just hair and mine grows back way quicker than...
    savmcken savmcken 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2014

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    Im tired of how my life is,

    I just cant be happy, I want new friends, new beginning, but I feel so lost
    Mujtaba0 Mujtaba0 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Waiting Game

    Life has been a big waiting game for me, but finally the time has come! As I wait for my big change~ I am quite anxious, but yet glad to get this day over with. I think things will be different away from the stress of this dark cloud hanging over my neighborhood!
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F Jun 23, 2008

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    No One Knows Because I Hide It. But I'M Afraid Of What'S To Come In My Near Future.

    I'm a strong person, with a good head on my shoulders. My problem? I allowed my roommate to pretty much step on me and get her way in almost every single aspect of our household for the last 2 years and I'm f'ing tired of it. I'm tired of having to hear about how "loud" my door...
    Sickchick26 Sickchick26 26-30, F Oct 15, 2013

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    Change

    All of us experience change in our lives. Change is the one constant in our lives. There are changes that we look forward to and change that we fear. However, one thing is for sure. Things will not stay the same no matter how much we would like them too. When a life change...
    gr8jesus gr8jesus 51-55, M Sep 22, 2010

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    There's those times you believe it'll never

    change, times when you wish it could've been diffrent, times you wish others knew. You want to tell them, but it's difficult. You want them to understand, but you've kept inside so long. You want to open, live the life you want, live the way it could be. Don't hide yourself...
    Cooper802 Cooper802 18-21, M Mar 8

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    Drunk

    I'm so drunk tonight ! Decided to get high and forget all ******* problems of life.
    soheil4 soheil4 18-21, M Sep 11, 2013

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    I have been wanting a change in my life.

    And I found it. I found something that is going to change my life and make me financially free. If you want to know about it, message me
    totalhipster143 totalhipster143 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    I Am Sick Of Always Being On Top

    Every time we have sex..... my husband just lies there's... its simply implicated that its my "job" to be on top. Its soooooo boring. As soon as he gets off, sex is over. I want to be thrashed around... have him take control, be on top... Something..... anything...
    bluediamond325 bluediamond325 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    Scared

    More than anything I am afraid to try. My mistakes, because of there nature, has defined me for too long. I want to be better than what I have become... better than what I dream I can be. I want to be the me I started out to be when I decided to be a "me". But, I fear I have...
    Unwyse30 Unwyse30 31-35, F Aug 24, 2013

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    I Need a Change

    For the last 7 months my life has gone down the tubes.  I lost my job and my car within two weeks.  I worked so hard for my car, the thing that provided me with so much independence.  The man I was dating at the time was there for me but circumstances surrounding...
    snobunny826 snobunny826 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    I Pray For Change

    My work/social situation is a nightmare.  I actually am working a midnight shift to avoid people I work with.  I'm so angry at my co-workers for treating me like sh"" and the worse part is they don't care.  I know that my social situation at work will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 18, 2009

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    Sick And Tired

    I am completely fed up of being the follower, the one who is completely influenced by my friends. I am tired of always being the boring one, the one who is ugly and timid. I am SICK of my boring life, my boring parents, my boring brother. I want a change. What I'd LIKE is to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 15, 2010

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    well, be aware. Getting help online can become addictive. I'm 36 now and I've been using the internet actively since 2002. I used to go through depression a lot. And then I'd seek...
    molde molde 36-40, M May 2

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    Why is it so hard to let people be happy? It seems to me that whenever we see other people enjoying life and feeling like they're walking not on the cold concrete but on the...
    xKissAndTellx xKissAndTellx 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    0.77. I remember that Google was mentioned on "60 minutes" 0.78. I am not afraid of dogs 1. "As good as it gets" - it was an interesting movie 2. Sometimes my keyboard-playing are...
    Clothed Clothed 41-45, M Apr 29

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    Over this past year I've changed.The truth is I can hardly recognise myself,I'm almost a completely different person from before.I'm not really sure what triggered this change,it...
    MeAndMySelf98 MeAndMySelf98 16-17, M May 10

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    This week we did, I think, our fourth counseling session. My W told the counselor she is finding the sessions 'highly negative'. She is upset because things are getting worse...
    DeepXP DeepXP 46-50, M 3 Responses May 20

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    Change is something that I fear, as it swallows up the past and becomes something different. But even though i fear it, I also desire it to change as a person and become a whole of...
    Cooper802 Cooper802 18-21, M Apr 30

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    I want to change the world,but I am too shy and too scared to do anything. I honestly want to see more kind-hearted people in this world. I can't do it alone I know that! People...
    shy124 shy124 13-15, F May 2

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    Just acceptance.. appreciation...being happy with each other completely, not wanting to change your partner in anyway just to fit into what YOU want... I mean it's okay to help...
    TyrannosaurusRexx TyrannosaurusRexx 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

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    I had a friend for 25 years. The last two we fell in love. we spent a few years breaking up an getting back together. She cheated on my and i still obsessively tied to be with her...
    thetripcontinues thetripcontinues 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    Hello, I am trying my best to obtain funds for a project I want to develop, that wants to help young artists. I am hoping that you are interested in this and you will help us...
    mayaloves2play mayaloves2play 26-30, F 1 Response May 3

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    Guys I need some help and some advise. Be kind please I'm very fragile. 6 weeks ago my boyfriend and best friend of two years left me. Heartbroken doesn't even begin to cover it...
    Lostnemo Lostnemo 18-21, F 2 Responses May 4

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    The most important thing about change is realizing that change is a constant, however.. change can either be good or bad. A forced change leads to destruction at times, so change...
    Tripp93 Tripp93 18-21, M 1 Response May 6

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    Every day my mom tells me that I can't change the world. That it can't be done. She tells me that if I don't like something that I better get used to it because nothing is going to...
    steviehunt steviehunt 18-21, M 3 Responses May 13

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    My fiancé and I were supposed to get married on 12/13/14. We have been engaged since May of 2011. We have called each other our "wife" since forever. Everything changed a week and...
    JustWantItToWork JustWantItToWork 26-30, F 3 Responses May 19

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    I have recently voiced myself for a large while on the Duggar scandals. I have stayed away over the years from the show for various reasons of feeling like they're only acting...
    neverendingfairytale2 neverendingfairytale2 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    So in a little under a month I will finally be 18! Along with a slew of fun, new privileges, I will be legally able to change my name. My birth name is Joshua (I go by Josh), which...
    joshlikesblue joshlikesblue 16-17, M 2 Responses May 14

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    Its kind of a psychological need I think.... Its just a need I have to feel like I can be my own person, I'm not named after my grandpa who everyone in my immediate family compares...
    iamFrightened iamFrightened 18-21, M May 21

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    I think childhood is the time when one's thoughts are most open. I have a cartoon that I want to create, and I want it to teach the next generation that their thoughts are free...
    KingLaserDestroyer KingLaserDestroyer 18-21, M a week ago

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