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    Change

    All of us experience change in our lives. Change is the one constant in our lives. There are changes that we look forward to and change that we fear. However, one thing is for sure. Things will not stay the same no matter how much we would like them too. When a life change...
    gr8jesus gr8jesus 51-55, M Sep 22, 2010

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    Some Things Never Change.....

    Some things never change..... ....But then again some things do. I'm starting to focus on what I want in life, and I'm also starting to be a lot happier most of the time. No one is gonna ruin my mood, NO ONE! I'm having so much fun knowing everything that's going on, and being...
    moyoyo moyoyo 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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    Sick And Tired

    I am completely fed up of being the follower, the one who is completely influenced by my friends. I am tired of always being the boring one, the one who is ugly and timid. I am SICK of my boring life, my boring parents, my boring brother. I want a change. What I'd LIKE is to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 15, 2010

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    I Need a Change

    For the last 7 months my life has gone down the tubes.  I lost my job and my car within two weeks.  I worked so hard for my car, the thing that provided me with so much independence.  The man I was dating at the time was there for me but circumstances surrounding...
    snobunny826 snobunny826 21-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    I just want to feel confident

    and better. I think I'm gonna chop my long hair off into like a bob type cut.. Right now. My mom will probably kill me but it's my hair and I'm sick of just looking in the mirror hating what I see. I don't think it's drastic. It's just hair and mine grows back way quicker than...
    savmcken savmcken 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2014

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    Waiting Game

    Life has been a big waiting game for me, but finally the time has come! As I wait for my big change~ I am quite anxious, but yet glad to get this day over with. I think things will be different away from the stress of this dark cloud hanging over my neighborhood!
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F Jun 23, 2008

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    ... Alot

    I want to change so many things about my lifestyle ...  i dont want a change of area because i love where i live .  i just want to become a better person . ... I want to be comfortable with change ...  im not good at accepting it  if its not something i can...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2007

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    I have been wanting a change in my life.

    And I found it. I found something that is going to change my life and make me financially free. If you want to know about it, message me
    totalhipster143 totalhipster143 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    Scared

    More than anything I am afraid to try. My mistakes, because of there nature, has defined me for too long. I want to be better than what I have become... better than what I dream I can be. I want to be the me I started out to be when I decided to be a "me". But, I fear I have...
    Unwyse30 Unwyse30 31-35, F Aug 24, 2013

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    Just Thoughts...

    Recently I've been doing some soul searching not only just to find who i am again but because of one of the biggest decision I've ever had to make in my life and if you read my other story you know it was the choice of having an abortion. Coincedientily it's a very controversial...
    yuuup123 yuuup123 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    I'm starting with a small change to my

    appearance by dying my hair red tomorrow.
    fullofhope123 fullofhope123 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    Tired Of Being Me

    I am tried of being me. I am tired of being depressed all the time. I hate that I want to be happy and enjoy life but that happiness avaids me. I am tied of sleeping all the time b/c there is nothing else for me to do. I want to live in a home where my girls have their own rooms...
    dawneubanks2005 dawneubanks2005 31-35, F Feb 5, 2013

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    No One Knows Because I Hide It. But I'M Afraid Of What'S To Come In My Near Future.

    I'm a strong person, with a good head on my shoulders. My problem? I allowed my roommate to pretty much step on me and get her way in almost every single aspect of our household for the last 2 years and I'm f'ing tired of it. I'm tired of having to hear about how "loud" my door...
    Sickchick26 Sickchick26 26-30, F Oct 15, 2013

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    Im tired of how my life is,

    I just cant be happy, I want new friends, new beginning, but I feel so lost
    Mujtaba0 Mujtaba0 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    I Am Sick Of Always Being On Top

    Every time we have sex..... my husband just lies there's... its simply implicated that its my "job" to be on top. Its soooooo boring. As soon as he gets off, sex is over. I want to be thrashed around... have him take control, be on top... Something..... anything...
    bluediamond325 bluediamond325 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    Change, But What Kind

    I do want change but not the kind this political season is throwing out. The change I want and hope for is a deep personal change in everyone. The change that makes individual evolve into more caring and compassionate and loving person. Sometimes we show better glimpses of...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    I Pray For Change

    My work/social situation is a nightmare.  I actually am working a midnight shift to avoid people I work with.  I'm so angry at my co-workers for treating me like sh"" and the worse part is they don't care.  I know that my social situation at work will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 18, 2009

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    I've looked at most of my posts

    and thought that they sounded to negotiate and to much like a whiney teenager talking about how much his life sucks. I don't want to be that person, after all the topic is I want a change. Well we were having a discussion at the dinner table about the education of the US and how...
    stormcat2248 stormcat2248 16-17, M May 13, 2014

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    Change-scary But Needed

    I have always been scared of change....i like things to stay the same because I like it when things are stable. I would be willing to stay in a bad situation to avoid change, but at the same time so desperately want it. I haven't been truly happy for quite some time now. I have...
    SassySexySweetSub SassySexySweetSub 22-25, F Dec 16, 2008

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    mcafe58 mcafe58 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    Drunk

    I'm so drunk tonight ! Decided to get high and forget all ******* problems of life.
    soheil4 soheil4 18-21, M Sep 11, 2013

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    Need To Change Yourself , Join Me ( We Are On The Same Page )

    OK here is the deal , i am a good guy shy in nature , lack of smartness and average communication skill . i don't speak up thinking that i might offend someone OR make a joke out of myself . But the thing is when you have a personality like that no one respects you , they just...
    debabratbarman debabratbarman 22-25 Aug 25, 2013

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    sisi19 sisi19 18-21, F Apr 30, 2014

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    From today I'm gonna work

    for the change...no matter how many times I fail..
    shikoko shikoko 16-17, F Jun 30, 2014

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    Im so sick of the way my life is i really am..im so tired of it and im also tired of waiting on someone to come and save me too usually a guy..Im so ******* tired of my life being...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    So much work to be done in fact i should probably be working out right now or doing some self help stuff or other productive stuff but hey this is a start wanting to change,really...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    Fact about life :- everybody want changes in life but no one wants to
    Johnnystha Johnnystha 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Kind of..im only writing this in this group because there's more people hence more helpful responses i would hope.. I want change im just crippled by fear at the moment and im not...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I did not come from a huge way back 208 pounds or 94.4kg a little above (still obese by BMI) but was medicated and drugged for many years but I just feel the need to help others...
    Soroe Soroe 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 7

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    Happiness is something that everybody strives for. Some people naturally have the ability to be happy, others struggle. Obviously every person goes through some tough times. I am...
    ckjackson43 ckjackson43 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So, for starters, I'm 20 and I live in NC. I'm an Eagle Scout, a college student, and a christian. My life hasn't been one of perfection or glitz and glamour, but it hasn't that...
    MyLifeInANotebook MyLifeInANotebook 18-21, M Feb 8

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    Life Lessons - by Jason Wachob 1. "You can't connect the dots going forward; you can only connect them looking backward." Steve Jobs was right on the money with this one. There...
    imurfriend imurfriend 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Wow, it's been a while since I've written on here. There has been so much change in my life the last few months and for once it's all good. I started an amazing job and made a...
    faith7777 faith7777 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    One Lost Man All of his dreams are shattered and all of his hopes are destroyed… He asked himself what is this life? why am I here? Along with a sigh he told himself i...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    We Never Change Song by Coldplay I want to live life Never be cruel I want to live life Be good to you I want to fly And never come down And live my life And have friends around...
    JustaSillyfairy JustaSillyfairy 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    I don't just want to change my life i want to change me. I have had a really horrible childhood & my adolescent years were no better but i don't think that gives me an excuse to...
    flyingblossom flyingblossom 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I have changed I believe. I use to be very shy, scared all the time, afraid of everything, apologetic for everything, not very lively, and always sad. Now I lock away my feelings...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    But I struggle to see that anything is really worth it. WARNING: DEPRESSING STORY AHEAD, WISHING FOR POSITIVITY IN ANSWERS PLEASE ;) I mean, on the plus, I see a guy at work...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want to vanish into thin air. Just leave, tonight, and stay gone for at least a while. No being online either. Not to draw attention (I'd leave a message telling my family not to...
    SpaceTurtle SpaceTurtle 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    This world is so miserable. People live such repetitive lives and never really experience anything besides what is in their own little bubble. There is also so much cruelty towards...
    mgluvsoftball mgluvsoftball 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    seasons change, situations change, people change. everything changes..over time, i will stop caring and over time i will be twice as stronger than i am today. i will not roar like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 20

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    I believe every single book changes your life. Maybe not like noticeably or anything but like it could change your view on certain things in life or make you believe in something...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    Since joining Beachbody, working out daily and drinking Shakeology, the changes that have taken place in my life hasn't just been the drop in my weight and the change in the shape...
    DesiMarie1104 DesiMarie1104 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    We know each other for 13, together for 12 and married for 3 years now. For the first 9 years we went through a lot and I almost gave up more than once. I was 24, he was 34 when...
    FreckleMe FreckleMe 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 23

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