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I Want a Change

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 356 People

    I'm starting with a small change to my

    appearance by dying my hair red tomorrow.
    fullofhope123 fullofhope123 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    I just want to feel confident

    and better. I think I'm gonna chop my long hair off into like a bob type cut.. Right now. My mom will probably kill me but it's my hair and I'm sick of just looking in the mirror hating what I see. I don't think it's drastic. It's just hair and mine grows back way quicker than...
    savmcken savmcken 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    Change, But What Kind

    I do want change but not the kind this political season is throwing out. The change I want and hope for is a deep personal change in everyone. The change that makes individual evolve into more caring and compassionate and loving person. Sometimes we show better glimpses of...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    sisi19 sisi19 18-21, F Apr 30

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    Need To Change Yourself , Join Me ( We Are On The Same Page )

    OK here is the deal , i am a good guy shy in nature , lack of smartness and average communication skill . i don't speak up thinking that i might offend someone OR make a joke out of myself . But the thing is when you have a personality like that no one respects you , they just...
    debabratbarman debabratbarman 22-25 Aug 25, 2013

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    Drunk

    I'm so drunk tonight ! Decided to get high and forget all ******* problems of life.
    soheil4 soheil4 18-21, M Sep 11, 2013

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    No One Knows Because I Hide It. But I'M Afraid Of What'S To Come In My Near Future.

    I'm a strong person, with a good head on my shoulders. My problem? I allowed my roommate to pretty much step on me and get her way in almost every single aspect of our household for the last 2 years and I'm f'ing tired of it. I'm tired of having to hear about how "loud" my door...
    Sickchick26 Sickchick26 26-30, F Oct 15, 2013

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    Waiting Game

    Life has been a big waiting game for me, but finally the time has come! As I wait for my big change~ I am quite anxious, but yet glad to get this day over with. I think things will be different away from the stress of this dark cloud hanging over my neighborhood!
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F Jun 23, 2008

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    I Pray For Change

    My work/social situation is a nightmare.  I actually am working a midnight shift to avoid people I work with.  I'm so angry at my co-workers for treating me like sh"" and the worse part is they don't care.  I know that my social situation at work will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 18, 2009

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    From today I'm gonna work

    for the change...no matter how many times I fail..
    shikoko shikoko 16-17, F Jun 30

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    I have been wanting a change in my life.

    And I found it. I found something that is going to change my life and make me financially free. If you want to know about it, message me
    totalhipster143 totalhipster143 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Tired Of Being Me

    I am tried of being me. I am tired of being depressed all the time. I hate that I want to be happy and enjoy life but that happiness avaids me. I am tied of sleeping all the time b/c there is nothing else for me to do. I want to live in a home where my girls have their own rooms...
    dawneubanks2005 dawneubanks2005 31-35, F Feb 5, 2013

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    ... Alot

    I want to change so many things about my lifestyle ...  i dont want a change of area because i love where i live .  i just want to become a better person . ... I want to be comfortable with change ...  im not good at accepting it  if its not something i can...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2007

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    Change

    All of us experience change in our lives. Change is the one constant in our lives. There are changes that we look forward to and change that we fear. However, one thing is for sure. Things will not stay the same no matter how much we would like them too. When a life change...
    gr8jesus gr8jesus 51-55, M Sep 22, 2010

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    Some Things Never Change.....

    Some things never change..... ....But then again some things do. I'm starting to focus on what I want in life, and I'm also starting to be a lot happier most of the time. No one is gonna ruin my mood, NO ONE! I'm having so much fun knowing everything that's going on, and being...
    moyoyo moyoyo 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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    Scared

    More than anything I am afraid to try. My mistakes, because of there nature, has defined me for too long. I want to be better than what I have become... better than what I dream I can be. I want to be the me I started out to be when I decided to be a "me". But, I fear I have...
    Unwyse30 Unwyse30 31-35, F Aug 24, 2013

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    mcafe58 mcafe58 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    Change-scary But Needed

    I have always been scared of change....i like things to stay the same because I like it when things are stable. I would be willing to stay in a bad situation to avoid change, but at the same time so desperately want it. I haven't been truly happy for quite some time now. I have...
    SassySexySweetSub SassySexySweetSub 22-25, F Dec 16, 2008

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    Sick And Tired

    I am completely fed up of being the follower, the one who is completely influenced by my friends. I am tired of always being the boring one, the one who is ugly and timid. I am SICK of my boring life, my boring parents, my boring brother. I want a change. What I'd LIKE is to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 15, 2010

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    I Need a Change

    For the last 7 months my life has gone down the tubes.  I lost my job and my car within two weeks.  I worked so hard for my car, the thing that provided me with so much independence.  The man I was dating at the time was there for me but circumstances surrounding...
    snobunny826 snobunny826 21-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    I've looked at most of my posts

    and thought that they sounded to negotiate and to much like a whiney teenager talking about how much his life sucks. I don't want to be that person, after all the topic is I want a change. Well we were having a discussion at the dinner table about the education of the US and how...
    stormcat2248 stormcat2248 16-17, M May 13

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    Just Thoughts...

    Recently I've been doing some soul searching not only just to find who i am again but because of one of the biggest decision I've ever had to make in my life and if you read my other story you know it was the choice of having an abortion. Coincedientily it's a very controversial...
    yuuup123 yuuup123 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    I Am Sick Of Always Being On Top

    Every time we have sex..... my husband just lies there's... its simply implicated that its my "job" to be on top. Its soooooo boring. As soon as he gets off, sex is over. I want to be thrashed around... have him take control, be on top... Something..... anything...
    bluediamond325 bluediamond325 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    But now I realize the only thing I can change is myself. So I will. As I watch and wait for the world to destroy itself from the inside out. But I still have hope. Those that want...
    toxbox toxbox 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 15

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    Well, I'm exactly 32 months out from leaving my ex wife, which landed me on this site. Thankful for the opportunity to write out my thoughts and feelings. I went back yesterday...
    Lionsfan94 Lionsfan94 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I've got a list of a few reasons down here: 1. I don't have any real tangible goals or motivation to go anywhere. 2. I'm afraid of the future. 3. I hate myself. 4. I feel...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 8 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I don't smoke but my dad quit smoking and he smokes 3 packs a day if not more.. If he can do you you guys can too. What he did was he eventually got down to 1 cigarette a day then...
    blossomingMe blossomingMe 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    i already thought about dying. i already had the thought, imagine when you are drifting away to death... it must be the scariest feeling of all, ever. i dropped tears n cried...
    franc03 franc03 18-21, M 20 mins ago

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    So yeah. I'd thought id do this to see what's up. If anything, this is for the laugh and giggles of how lame I am. A bit about me: I'm 22 and I work with youth full time. I'm...
    HakuAvalon HakuAvalon 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    First, okay - aside from the small reply text box, I like the fix made to the inbox, where it at least opens to the bottom of the message thread, so thank you for that. In other...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    All I think whenever I go outside of the house is how ugly i must look in the eye of everyone that sees me. Im really obsessed about my bad looks and it's gotten to rhe point where...
    dandeelaion dandeelaion 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I changed it from Cyanideheart to Celestialthallium :)
    CelestialThallium CelestialThallium 18-21, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Society is so ****** up and i hate it , and the best way to change it is to do something urself
    sammyb12 sammyb12 16-17, F 8 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Just to add to the chorus of complaints, please get rid of that ridiculous slit that you call a text box and put it back the way it was. It's been said that this change was...
    IF64 IF64 46-50, M 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    i dont want to change and you cant force me! i am who i am.i cant change myself bcz you dont love it! got it??????or i should repeat it again????? whispering this song : i dont...
    00roshana00 00roshana00 18-21, F Sep 2

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    Im gonna fix my F'd up life ! :P :D Hold me to it if you care to. I'll be grateful. Ask me how im doing with the plan. For all of you that are looking for a change, here are 11...
    Stufy Stufy 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 13

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    When Jesus came knocking on my heart I was very prideful and cold for a long time, but I knew I needed a change in my life and every time I tried to do things MY WAY (rather than...
    Heavenbound5511 Heavenbound5511 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Pseudocide. It is a word that is both beautiful and frightening. Pseudocide: the death of identity, the cessation of the self. For years-- at least half my life-- it has been an...
    WildMagic WildMagic 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I've been trying to lose weight for a while now, but its so hard. I'm what you call skinnyfat, its when with clothes on you look skinny but without them you'd see the person is...
    TheRouge TheRouge 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    The truth is that I actually wear my glasses to get through my life everyday. But maybe it was a mistake when I changed my profile picture on Facebook with a picture of myself when...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    .....i dont know if this will ever make any sense. still writing this though. i wanna make a big change in my life, that i shoulve done before.. i have tried to make it but...
    aquamonkey aquamonkey 22-25, F Sep 13

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    There are parts of my life I, like so many others, would love to change but can't for many reasons. I have always wanted to have a better relationship with my mother. I had hoped...
    Youget Youget 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 15

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    My boyfriend's sex drive: Every other month or so the conversation comes back once again "How am I attractive or good enough if you don't want sex with me?" I'll say. He says he...
    RjMommy245 RjMommy245 22-25, F 12 Responses Sep 2

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    My new lifestyle.. I really want to share something I have found to be very beneficial to me. I am currently taking supplements that provides whole food based nutrition from 17...
    sgawlik sgawlik 26-30, F Sep 5

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    People don't understand that I'm not fashionable. I don't like girly clothes, i'm not a girly-girl. I like sports and i like to be comfortable in what i wear. Trouble is people...
    Emzi001 Emzi001 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 5

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    I have people in my life that respect me, and love me for me. But then I know many people that do not understand that I will not change just because they want me to change. I know...
    Young2Wise Young2Wise 18-21, F Sep 16