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I Want a Committed Relationship

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    EVENTUALLY, and I Can Wait For It

    I AM FINALLY IN A PLACE WHERE I AM HAPPY AND AT PEACE... NO HEART ACHE, NO JEALOUSY, NO HURT FEELINGS... NOT WITH ONE FOOT IN A SITUATION WHILE THE OTHER IS STILL STUCK IN THE LAST ONE. NO STRINGS OR ATTACHMENTS. NO DATING OR 'CONVERSATING' (I KNOW THAT'S NOT A WORD!)... JUST ME...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Jan 6, 2009

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    I Want Someone to Love, Who Will Love Me Back

    i am currently 16 and i have have had quite a few relationships over the years, but as you can probibably guess they ended terribly, and as im sure you all no when a relationship ends badly or even just ends it hurts, and it takes a while to get over your ex, well at least dats...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    Never Had A Girlfriend

    I am 17 and I have never had a girlfriend, I haven't even kissed a girl. Everyone says that they are surprised that I haven't got one. Apparently I am perfect boyfriend material. I have never looked for a girlfriend or really flirted with anyone before. But recently I have...
    glarmfield glarmfield 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    Yes I Said It

    I am not talking marriage but last night I was talking and man I realized that I am ready to go down the relationship path again and to stop running from my heart.  This felt really good.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    Love Experience

    In the past days i was in a relationship , i don't know whether she loves me, but i really loved her. Our relationship starts in a strange manner. Both of us was in the same college, though we were not friends in the initial days but at the last semester we get attached to each...
    krishnendusristi krishnendusristi 22-25, M Mar 18, 2010

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    Here Is Some Help For Commitment-shy People

    http://www.relationship-remedies.com/Commitmentphobia.html
    lea1307 lea1307 18-21, F May 13, 2012

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    About Me-relationships

    This is a story about me. I am a friendly, kind and sensitive person. I also consider myself smart and religious. I am learning more and more about others and myself. I want to try to be open minded to finding a new relationship, as I have been separated for a while from a...
    Christian02 Christian02 18-21, F Oct 6, 2012

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    Too Much Love But Hav No One To Love

    i am in india.there is no dating in india.though people started doing it in cities .its not acceptable to our parents to be with someone of opposit sex without/b4 marriage. we r supposed to be single till marrige.and virgin. im 20 now.thinking abt gals like everyday.cant stop...
    thinkinggudboy thinkinggudboy 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    I travel 2 to 3 weeks a month

    for business. Tired of hotel rooms
    Solopleasure Solopleasure 41-45, M Apr 6

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    Related Experiences

    Ive been "friends with benefits" or "hook up buddies" with this guy for a few weeks now. I really want it to become something more and go on dates but he made it clear it's no...
    creativeowl creativeowl 18-21, F Jul 2

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    I met this amazing guy through sports, I feel safe, and loved, and like nothing can touch me, when we are together, he tells me he loves me, and calls me his girlfriend, and babe...
    justyouraverageteen justyouraverageteen 16-17, F Jul 12

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    The longest relationship I've ever had is almost two years. I just called it off and I feel terrible... All that time spent with someone, all the planning and talking about...
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    As much as I wish I could be in one, I don't want to because I'm the one who always gives up in the relationship, & it's not fair to the other person. The break up even leave me...
    anaa0617 anaa0617 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I'm really ready to be in a relationship right now.
    feelinghelpless4 feelinghelpless4 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I want to love and be loved...
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    All I want and need is to find somebody like you... In a perfect world. Where is my Mr. Right? :)
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I can understand how people romanticize marriage and build it up with words like commitment, faithfulness, loyalty, etc. A marriage in itself doesn’t actually have the power to...
    GiantKaiju GiantKaiju 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    😞ive been so emotional these couple days! Hurting and missing someone who doesnt love me. But most of all, a healthy committed relationship! I just want to be in a good...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I recently made a mistake in my life that keeps haunting me. I sent a picture of myself to an ex fling while I am in a committed relationship. It wasn't by way of flirting , more...
    vixonexperience666 vixonexperience666 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    His name was Jim. I was 16 and he was 21. I lost my virginity to him. And even though we weren't in a committed relationship we were off and on for over a year. He was a complete...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I would like to be in a committed relationship.
    QuietChick96 QuietChick96 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm not here for that. I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful guy and would never cheat. So please don't message me thinking that anything like that will happen. I'm...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Im tired of pursuing the men I love... to get no sign that he actually loves me in return... I fall in love easily... I know commitment... i love being in a committed relationship...
    VictoriaRRose VictoriaRRose 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    This is not quite only an experience, i really want to hear your thoughts around this. I have been seeing this guy for two months, we have been close as friends i three years, but...
    maryanah maryanah 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    With myself.. I'm so bi-polar, one minute I feel inspired and want to conquer the world and the next I just want to hide in my room and shut out everyone... Tonight I almost...
    LostEbonyGirl LostEbonyGirl 18-21, F Jul 19

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    My story I fell in love with my cousins friends years ago she was my heart she n my cousin had a relationship. I was young i was infatuated with her she took advantage of my...
    lorrai lorrai 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I don't want a relationship based solely on sex. I want a relationship where we truly care for one another, where we share sorrows and joys, where we want to spend time together...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    I fell deeply in love with this girl 2 years ago and we slowly drifted away over time. But we still acted like we were in a relationship. Then one day she ran off with her friend...
    adav218 adav218 13-15, M a week ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend 9months and we are pretty good together. Thing is now he as been offered a job in Australia building a factory. I don't know if I can have a long...
    sarah696969 sarah696969 31-35, F Jun 29

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    never had a girlfriend but there was one girl that I wanted as my girlfriend that also wanted our relationship to an open one meaning she wanted to have other lovers. I didn't like...
    beachboy14u beachboy14u 18-21, T 4 Responses Jul 3

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    Hello, I would like to get advice on this situation. I am working with a capricorn man. I am working this job for 3 months, but since my work contract is ending soon I will be...
    Denzton Denzton 36-40, M Jul 12

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    does anyone else have the same problem; when someone likes you and either you don't like them or you don't want a relationship so you say something nice like "I'm not looking for a...
    sabby86 sabby86 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I am lucky enough to say for now at least, my best friend, and my boyfriend are the same person. I don't think I realised he was my best friend until just before he became my...
    LastBusHome LastBusHome 18-21, F Jun 29

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    Looking for advice on soliders coming back from deployment. Mine has just gotten back and is being distant from me. This is out of character as we talked every day while he was...
    court30 court30 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I just want someone to be with. I want a relationship. I want to cuddle someone. I want someone who understands me. a someone who always is there for me. I want someone to love me...
    camelunicorn camelunicorn 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Okay so this boy started speaking to me and I invited him over to my house, he came and we kissed and spooned and stuff and I haven't heard from him since then, like is it because...
    billall1 billall1 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    As the title says, i'm 14, gay in the UK and I want a relationship. I don't mind if it's long distance. I'm not out but when I find someone will definitely be! I'm not skinny nor...
    willwill1234 willwill1234 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I'm 14, gay in the UK and I want a relationship. I don't mind if it's long distance. I'm not out but when I find someone will definitely be! I'm not skinny nor am I fat, I'm just a...
    willwill1234 willwill1234 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    As the title says, i'm 14, gay in the UK and I want a relationship. I don't mind if it's long distance. I'm not out but when I find someone will definitely be! I'm not skinny nor...
    willwill1234 willwill1234 13-15, M Jul 4

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    As the title says, i'm 14, gay in the UK and I want a relationship. I don't mind if it's long distance. I'm not out but when I find someone will definitely be! I'm not skinny nor...
    willwill1234 willwill1234 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 4

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    As the title says, i'm 14, gay in the UK and I want a relationship. I don't mind if it's long distance. I'm not out but when I find someone will definitely be! I'm not skinny nor...
    willwill1234 willwill1234 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Being single is great and all but just before I go to bed every night I want someone to talk to me and love me. I want a relationship where im dating my best friend and he's...
    sweetnsavy sweetnsavy 18-21, F Jul 19

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    I want a relationship that is true and not full of lies. Im done with the fake people, i want someone real <3 ready to figure myself out and i think im gay /.
    Haylzz1996 Haylzz1996 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't want short relationships .
    Jaqiem Jaqiem 16-17 1 Response a week ago

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    Background: I am married, we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I've always found happiness through other people. I've relied on past boyfriends to make me smile, feel comfortable, and feel like I have worth. When I felt special to someone it...
    GabbyCot GabbyCot 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now but I have a feeling that things are going to get bad. My boyfriend and I believe in two different sub division in our...
    zai3 zai3 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Being in a relationship is great, but is it worth all the it comes along with? If I keep doubting it, isn't that saying something ?
    Genesisandstuff Genesisandstuff 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago