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I Want a Cuddle Buddy

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    Can I just hire a guy to come lay in my bed

    with me and cuddle? And call me pretty haha
    Shanequa18 Shanequa18 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 20, 2014

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    Laying together, my head on your chest

    listening to your steady heartbeat as your chest calmly rises and falls with each breath. Your muscular arm wrapped along my waist drawing small and gentle circles onto my tummy with your fingertips. Our free hands laced together, your nose nuzzling into the crook of my neck and...
    MotionlessinH MotionlessinH 16-17, F Nov 29, 2014

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    Always Wanting What I Can't Have

    Doing a lot of thinking lately about what intimacy is. And the more I think about intimacy, the more it comes to mind that American culture has a unilateral view of what it means to be intimate. Growing up in upper-middle, white, suburban Chicago, I was brought up to think that...
    kha185 kha185 22-25, M 8 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    I Wish!!

    i wish i could find a woman, not necessarily for a relationship, as in a sexual relationship, but just someone to have a cuddle with every now and again!!! that would be great!!!
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    I hate being alone I want someone to be close to

    and cuddle up in bed with me.
    QueenDavid QueenDavid 16-17, M Oct 29, 2014

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    I love to cuddle. Cuddles make me feel slightly

    better.. The cuddles don't even have to be sexual.
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I want a cuddle buddy

    that I can just cuddle and kiss a little but that's it. No oral or sex just cuddle and kiss a bit.
    2g23 2g23 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    Just really want some one to hold right

    now while watching a movie and then falling asleep.
    ShaneStoner ShaneStoner 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 30, 2014

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    It's a perfectly chilly night.

    I'm wearing an oversized sweatshirt and my coziest socks. I'd LOVE to make some popcorn, put on a movie and rest my head on your shoulder. You might even place your hand on my knee. We'd share some laughs and try to catch popcorn in our mouths. Maybe our faces would...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2014

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    How To Find One?

    I feel like I may have written about this a few months ago, but I can't remember. After my last relationship, which ended almost a year ago, I realized how much I missed cuddling.  My ex was an incredibly physically affectionate woman.  We were never in the same room together...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    Any ladies in Texas looking

    for a cuddle buddy.. I'm ready are u?
    horneybear79912 horneybear79912 36-40, M Jan 8

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    Ok, I've got mulin rouge on netflix,

    a bag of popcorn, and a blanket. Anybody want to start a cuddle war?
    DorkyGuy90 DorkyGuy90 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 15, 2014

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    Ugh. The strong, silent type with a killer smile

    and nice big arms that can smother me. I want to be able to bury my face in his strong chest. IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK?!?!
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    ...and I'm not ashamed to admit it.

    Single Catholic girl here, looking for touch minus sex. Trouble is, I don't know where to look. I don't know of any guys who would be interested and I'm worried that the websites will have too many who are really looking for "something more"...how can I find a trustworthy cuddle...
    lynnini lynnini 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    Honestly my last relationship ended badly.

    But its been 6 months since then and im just looking for some one to cuddle with. If its on the couch watching netflix or just sleeping next to some one thats kind of what i really want. I don't need anything sexual just a cuddle partner.
    Selihyr Selihyr 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 12, 2014

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    Title really says it all.

    I really want to cuddle and beable to hold her in my arms.
    Attilane Attilane 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2014

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    Their the best they keep me safe

    and protected they are like my blankets and pillows soft and keeps me warm and makes me happy
    MerpR MerpR 16-17, F Jan 16, 2014

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    I miss the touch of a man.

    His big, strong. hands wrapped around my waist. Skin to skin. Holding each other close till we fall asleep in each others arms.
    Heart09 Heart09 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2014

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    Okay , now it's the part of the year

    when it's like really cold . I wish I had someone to keep me warm 😭😭
    CalmYourShit CalmYourShit 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2014

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    Hi, I am 19 and need an actual girl

    who wants to cuddle with me. I have never had a gf or even a kiss. So by default, I've never actually cuddled with someone before, but I know I want to. I live in Ohio. Please message me if you would want to cuddle, even if you don't live nearby.Thanks.
    buckeyehawk4750 buckeyehawk4750 18-21, M Jul 27, 2014

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    Sad But True

    if i could afford it, i'd pay $$$$$$ for someone to cuddle with.
    shuthafukup shuthafukup 26-30 2 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Only tonight did I happen upon a website to

    find cuddle buddys. I've had that desire for years to have a female friend to share body contact with in an entirely non-sexual way. We could curl up in the sofa or spoon across the bed. Sometimes she might lay with her head on my lap and I lull her to sleep playing with her...
    SonOfTheDelta SonOfTheDelta 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 25, 2014

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    Love embracing another.

    Doesn't matter if it's male or female. I love being held, it's one of the best feelings out there. It's a sense of reinsurance, love. When a friend hugs you it means you are wanted. You are loved. So who wants to be my cuddling buddy? Or buddies?
    nakedhero nakedhero 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 14, 2014

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    I want someone to cuddle with

    as a friend, best friend, brother or boyfriend
    MariaJin MariaJin 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2014

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    Spooning <3 and being wrapped around me

    keeping little helpless me safe gosh I need one
    Imfearlessbae Imfearlessbae 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 28, 2014

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    I need a cuddle buddy,

    any takers? Lol
    littleyaya littleyaya 13-15, T Jun 12, 2014

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    creepypastafan creepypastafan 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2014

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    paradox14 paradox14 36-40, M Jul 6, 2014

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    I have an inherent need to be held by someone

    stronger and more stable than me. Someone that has their life in order and knows where I'm coming from. Holds me with love and affection. Platonic and safe. Warm breath and heart beat on my cheek. Held close and no words needed to say what we think or feel. More than a hug.
    BunniesCry BunniesCry 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    jazzg25 jazzg25 16-17, F Oct 8, 2014

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    Its been 8+ years since I was last able to

    cuddle someone years have passed and i lost the drive to cuddle. :(
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M Jun 19, 2014

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    Position is filled for tonight!

    Good thing too, I hate power outages! :(
    DustToDust97 DustToDust97 16-17, F Feb 7

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    I love cuddling. I wish I could do it forever.

    I wish I had a cuddle buddy that would hold and protect me, just never let me go. I don't care about your gender, or your race, or what you look like. I just want you to be genuinely happy and enthusiastic about cuddling with me.
    hannah123423 hannah123423 16-17, F Feb 2, 2014

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    In Need Of A Cuddle Buddy

    I'd love to find someone who doesn't get bored of sitting close, really close together. Someone who just wants to hug you every time Ithey walk past, and wants to be hugged every time you walk past.
    SleepingTiger SleepingTiger 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 22, 2013

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    Feeling really bad right

    now needs someone beside me :(
    butterflypink butterflypink 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    Have u ever thought about how it would be to

    cuddle for the whole day with the one person who was meant to find you and make you feel special
    Beatf3 Beatf3 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    nuev nuev 18-21 3 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    I'm 18 and really want a cuddle buddy.

    Not necessarily someone to have sex with, but someone that just wants to cuddle with me and watch Netflix or old movies.
    TortugaPangea TortugaPangea 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 23, 2014

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    would love to have a cuddle buddy in the

    calgary, Ab, area. someone to hang out with and watch a movie and cuddle. its been a while and i certainly miss the warm comfort.
    mikeyfan mikeyfan 26-30, M Jul 6, 2014

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    My baby is coming home tomorrow<3 I'm

    so excited. I can't wait. 😘 These storms all week long have been kinda boring without my cuddle buddy! :(
    lovelygirll2323 lovelygirll2323 13-15, F Jun 13, 2014

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    WTH is a "cuddle buddy"?

    Is it like a bed buddy without the "good" stuff? O.o
    AnonymousMe7 AnonymousMe7 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 31, 2014

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    Three Dog Night Said It Well

    One is the lonliest number that you'll ever do.  I'm sure that there is somebody else out there who needs a good cuddle as much as I do.  How do we find each other and how do we reveal our needs?
    IndyNudist IndyNudist 46-50, M 16 Responses Feb 6, 2008

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    I love waking up spooning with a sexy guy.

    Soft touches, warm bodies, masculine scents and rising sexuality define the perfect morning for me. I've had a few experiences that are as beautiful now as memories as they were when we were together. Haven't found the ONE, but I'm still trying to find that beautiful soul in a...
    donegalgd donegalgd 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    Wish I Had A Cuddle Buddy

    Living in the cold states and not having a cuddle buddy makes me really sad and depressed this time of year. I wish I could just have someone to hold me and go to sleep. Instead Mr. Body pillow is the one who is my cuddle buddy for now sigh...
    Lonelypa Lonelypa 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Bloodycharmer Bloodycharmer 22-25, M Jan 28

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    aldrikkage aldrikkage 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I need someone who can give me advice and tricks and also keep me on track because I'm suffering with this and I have no one to talk too. I want a buddy to chat too and help me.
    missann97 missann97 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    Well I used to be 80 lbs just last year and now I'm 150. I know I can get the weight off. I really want a buddy to help keep me on track and have someone to talk too. Some 18 and...
    thefatoneagain thefatoneagain 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I need a pro ana buddy to help each other through the hard times and encourage each other till the end!
    diamondsareforev diamondsareforev 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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