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I Want a Divorce

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    I've been married for 16 years but I have had it. I am done with his mind games. I am tired if him hurting me. He says he still loves me but than treats me like ****. How can you...
    redder1971 redder1971 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I Go Through Hell Every Single Day - I have been married since I was 19. I am 24 at the moment. And I can't stand her. I have two kids with Laurel, Silena is 1 and John is 4. I...
    DeanM1988 DeanM1988 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 17, 2012

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    I Want A Life Of My Own - I got married a week after turning 18 to some one i had been in a long distance relationship with since i was 14 when i got married we made the decision...
    breathinglifeless breathinglifeless 22-25, F Nov 6, 2012

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    Some Days I Do - Some days I don't.  The "do" days are becoming more common.  It seems that we have drifted apart and can't find anything that can bring us back...
    snugglebunny156 snugglebunny156 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 16, 2008

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    I Want A Divorce - My husband has been having an affair for the past year. I left three months ago and now want a divorce. He agrees but when I ask him to file he goes silent. I...
    incompris incompris 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2013

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    I Want A Divorce From You! - Dear HusbandI want a Divorce! I don't like the fact that you wont kiss me, touch me, make love to me, look at me, talk to me or respect my needs...
    prettybirdz prettybirdz 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    10+ Yrs, 4 Kids Not Sure What I Want - I am 30 my husband is 42, we got married when I was 19 and he was 31 !!!!!! Yes you are reading that correctly ..... We have 4 children...
    Luvmy4Kids Luvmy4Kids 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2010

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    I Need You Opinions, Please! - This is the story. From the start of our relationship my husband knew that I wanted to go to graduate school. I was finishing my bachelors back then...
    Tica1 Tica1 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2012

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    Why Can't I Just Get It Through My Head, It's Over, It's Over Now... - I am going to lose my mind. I can't stand living with my codgerly husband anymore. He is hostile and...
    Bananafone Bananafone 46-50, F Aug 4, 2010

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    We met when i was 16 and he was 17. Dated for 3 yrs and got married right after i graduated high school. During my last year in HS he joined the military. we stayed together and...
    PerdidaPorEl PerdidaPorEl 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I Think Mine Is A Cheat And A Liar - I'm torn between what groups to join.  To say I know my wife is cheating or to say I think my wife is cheating puts me right on the line.Over...
    fmw1978 fmw1978 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    On My Way - so I have decided I will be on my way to go ahead with a divorce. After many years of trying to make it work, I am giving up and I am numb. For the past 5 years I...
    jojoizz jojoizz 31-35 6 Responses Aug 14, 2011

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    I just asked to get divorced and I don't know why I did not feel bad about it. I felt heartless. I have been with him for 5 years and married him for another 5 years. No children...
    supportlady supportlady 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    A Divorce - A divorce,That's it,What I want,Things,Been goin' on too long,We've tried,Can't work it out,Let's go our separate ways!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jul 4, 2012

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    Almost Getting There - Someone asked me if I had plans for Valentines Day. I said I'm going to an anti Valentines day party. I don't even know if such a thing exists, but I'd go to...
    Rachmiel Rachmiel 36-40, F Feb 12, 2013

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    I Love My Husband But Im Ready To Move On - i have been maried for 13years and together a total of 20. i am 35 yrs old. u do the math. i want things for my life that my husband...
    imsweetnsalty imsweetnsalty 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 24, 2011

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    Is This Far Enough Yet - The exhaustion of being married to someone with narcissistic personality disorder, the fear of that narcissistic rage, the guilt of thinking how stupid was...
    shydragonfly shydragonfly 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    I Want to Leave Unhappy Marriage But Scared -  iam 25years old and I have been married for almost 4 years. I am a mother of 2 years old. My husband is very hard to...
    kiki0202 kiki0202 22-25 8 Responses Dec 22, 2008

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    I Want A Divorce, What About My Kids Relationship With Their Step Dad? - So I wrote a story about how I didn't love my new husband and I got alot of messages telling me to leave...
    Lilly116 Lilly116 41-45 2 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    So Many Similarities. - I browsed the stories here, and there are so many similarities to my own. I'm going to skip the details, because I am pretty emotional right now and I have...
    ShellOfAMan ShellOfAMan 31-35 4 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    He Is Perfect, But I Still Want to Leave Him? I'm Soo Frustrated!i -  I want a Divorce, Even though I feel I am Making the Biggest Mistake in my Life! I have it all...
    ParadiseDream ParadiseDream 26-30, F 7 Responses May 14, 2009

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    Can't Afford It, But Want Her to Go! - To sum it up, I've been in a sexless mariage for over 10 years.  The only sexual drive that my wife had was back when the hormones of...
    pusherseven pusherseven 41-45 17 Responses Feb 21, 2009

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    Dear woman I am legally married to, I don't love you anymore and I want a divorce. Years of attrition brought on by your ways have eroded my respect for you to almost nothing...
    engx74 engx74 36-40, M 14 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    We've been married a little over a year. It was a shotgun wedding. I was pressured into getting married because I was pregnant. I honestly never believed in marriage but I didn't...
    SassyStecher SassyStecher 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    Trust Issues - So my husband has trust issues because i told him to his face that i was not in love with him. sure i decided to stay because of guilt and i was scared. i don't...
    Sweetmamax2 Sweetmamax2 22-25, F Jun 27, 2012

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    I want à divorce and im affraid to. Im not happy with my wife, and I don't see things changin anytime soon. I don't know what devorce is like im only 21. I imagin it is hard but...
    hurtingbahd hurtingbahd 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    For Less Than a Good Reason - I want a divorce, but unlike most of you I’m not sure I have good cause. I can and do have sex with my wife as often as I want. She...
    MarkFree MarkFree 51-55, M 6 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    Stuck In A Marraige And Cant Get Out - Recently my husband is ALL about video games, cigerettes, and ignorance. I do everything for him. I even give him his soda or food when it's...
    Janey6112 Janey6112 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Want Help? - Do you want a divorce? Are you and your spouse not seeing eye to eye? Would you like some advice on if you should file for divorce? I want to hear from you! A...
    Television00 Television00 31-35 1 Response Aug 14, 2008

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    Ashamed And Scared... - Hello.  I'm 28 years old and have been married for 2 1/2 years, together 4 1/2. I'm pretty sure I've made a mistake by marrying my husband and I feel...
    shamednpain shamednpain 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Need Some Serious Advice - Okay, so me and my husband have been together since 1988, married in 2006. Have a business together. I am 43, he is 62. I am considering leaving him...
    cntfndlve cntfndlve 41-45, F 10 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    30+ Unhappy Years - I have been married to the same man for 36 years. He is a good man....no addictions, no abuse, provides financially, etc. I really can't say anything bad...
    gacg gacg 56-60 3 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    Less Than A Month Has Passed - since I moved out and I know I want a divorce. I wish it were over already. I still have some things left at the house. Me and my STBX had dinner one...
    Rachmiel Rachmiel 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2013

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    Thought I Had It Right This Time... - I feel like Satan Jr. We both know the marriage suck but she doesn't know I'm planning a divorce. We've only been married a year but we've...
    Icebound Icebound 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 1, 2008

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    I Always Wanted My First Marriage To Be The Only One - A cliche childhood dream of meeting my Prince Charming and living my days as a mother and wife of a loving family... Well...
    Sephira88 Sephira88 22-25, F Nov 26, 2012

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    One Month Into Separation - I moved out January 5th of this year. I know I do not want to go back. I am ready to move forward. Met with an attorney today, make sure I am not doing...
    Rachmiel Rachmiel 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    Casting - Couples With Marriage Troubles - ARE YOU SEPARATED BUT STILL LIVING WITH YOUR SPOUSE? Is your Marriage in Trouble and are you BOTH Considering Dating other people? We...
    MPCasting23 MPCasting23 26-30, F Nov 25, 2013

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    It'S Been Two Months Since My Husband Moved... - And I feel great! I have learned so much about him since he has been away. I learned that he lied about me constantly to his son...
    mama70707 mama70707 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2013

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    I Think I Am Missing Something. - I just went to a party with the people I hung out with in my youth. I had been to all of their weddings and they to mine. Those who were still...
    MarkFree MarkFree 51-55, M 7 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    I Want A Life Of My Own - I got married a week after turning 18 to some one i had been in a long distance relationship with since i was 14 when i got married we made the decision...
    breathinglifeless breathinglifeless 22-25, F Nov 6, 2012

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    Is It Time To Give Up On Your Marriage? -  This is a vexed question for many here on this experience.  Divorce advice on the Net ranges along the continuum from one end...
    enna30 enna30 56-60, F 15 Responses Aug 19, 2010

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    I Want A Divorce But Am Afraid Of What's To Come.... - I totally, completely and absolutely want a divorce. There's no if's, and's or but's about it...I *have* to divorce him. I...
    juliannagoldenstein juliannagoldenstein 36-40 6 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    I Want A Divorce... - From you husband! Let me sum it up for you...I can't stand you. I hate... the way u disrespect me That you always lie Your nasty *** attitude The way you...
    nattitude nattitude 31-35 1 Response Oct 24, 2012

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    I Wish My Divorce Were Over - I just heard back from my attorney. The second of my attempts to get my STBX agree to a dissolution has been rejected. I'm just going to have to file...
    Rachmiel Rachmiel 36-40, F Jun 15, 2013

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    Divorce, Sure I'd Love One! - I wish that I could file for divorce. I have been married almost 14 years and a stay at home mom for 10. He is 9 years older than me and thinks...
    libbie libbie 31-35, F 11 Responses May 1, 2008

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    This Year Needs to End ... - My husband moved out in January but we are still legally married. We're not even legally seperated. I want to sign those papers and get on with my life...
    SomeOneInTheWorld SomeOneInTheWorld 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2007

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    Most of the time we are best friends. We get along just great. I love going out with him fishing, hunting and camping. The sad part is we don't do anything a normal married couple...
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    Step One the Final Straw - For those of you who know me, I've had a final straw moment. For those who don't know me, see my story under "Living in a Sexless Marriage"...
    pusherseven pusherseven 41-45 12 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    Wrong To Want A Divorce - I married my husband 13 years ago. We have 2 kids together. One is mine from a previous and an adult. I am a stay at home mom and wife. He's a hard worker...
    1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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