I Want A Hug

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,263 People

    Listen.

    I didn't know infants NEEDED to be held, I mean there is a biological basis behind it. I learned that in therapy. You can feed a baby, change its diaper but if it's not held it won't develop normally. I believe my therapist said something to do with the prefrontal cortex will be...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    7 Responses Jul 14, 2011
    sid726 sid726
    22-25, M
    Feb 16, 2015

    Was discussing with one of married women,

    she was very sad for her husband that she was not handled properly in bed..!! Men pl understand women has a feelings just don't see ur own benefit... Pl satisfy until she says stop it... Don't go bed once u r done..!! Only we women can understand the situation.
    colorgirls colorgirls
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2015
    mikaellann mikaellann
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2015

    It Means So Much...

    ONE hug. ONE real physical hug. That's all I need. But apparently I'm not good enough to get a hug or little alone meet REAL people for that matter.
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 31, 2013

    ....

    ...and I want it now.... So hop on the plane and get here and give me what I need.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    21 Responses Aug 4, 2008

    I want someone to tell anything

    and cry to , someone that hugs me and tells me that everything will be okay I just can't do this anymore .
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 18, 2015

    I need to feel safe, warm

    and protected; even just for a while. My husband isn't much of a physical person and although I do love him he is not romantic. I really need a hug.
    rural84 rural84
    31-35, F
    5 Responses May 6, 2014
    Ma11hew Ma11hew
    18-21, M
    Jun 5, 2015
    wonderfulgrayce wonderfulgrayce
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 20, 2015
    00Broken00 00Broken00
    18-21, F
    May 18, 2015

    I haven't been hugged in awhile.

    It would be nice. Hugs are great
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 17
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 2, 2015

    Sometimes a nice, warm hug under the covers is

    all you need. Human contact.
    Mannz Mannz
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 14, 2014

    Hugs got me through the hardest moments of a

    recent break up. Lol they're all powerful and great. Long live the hug!
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 19, 2015
    anestacia anestacia
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 26

    Just one of those nights.

    ....It's ok to be single but sometimes I miss physical contact with another person...
    Ilona77 Ilona77
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Nov 5, 2014
    gaveegee gaveegee
    41-45, M
    Jun 1, 2015

    Not just any hug tho,

    I want a hug from him that makes me feel safe and special
    jennaaa13 jennaaa13
    16-17, F
    Oct 19, 2014

    I don't know why, I'm not depressed

    or anything just want a hug :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 1, 2015

    without sex is it possible

    for you? then hug me tightly and don't talk to me..anything just hug me...untill my heart is going to be healed
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 1, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2015
    saaddgirl saaddgirl
    16-17, F
    Mar 19

    Missing Affectionate Hugs Attention Or Just Plain I Care About You!

    Went shopping today at Walmart.Feeling down and out.I met an old friend from college hadn't seen for a long time she talked about losing 5 family members to death.We shared a hug and a smile and talked about us since college and our goals.That hug was needed by both of us a...
    dreeamin10 dreeamin10
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2010

    Hug me. Just hug me.

    No need words. Please don't say anything promise Untill we hold each other tightly and sleep in your arms...and Wake up morning we open our eyes and we both look into our eyes like this is the best feeling ever..... And finally...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 13, 2015
    ubahn1000 ubahn1000
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 14, 2015

    Peace And Transqulity

    I remember when I was leaning on the back of my dad, feeling the warm and the heartbeat, and I would feel calm and peaceful. Perhaps it's the natal memory of being in mom's womb that caused that good feeling. These days I like to see children and parents hugging: Daughters...
    Excellency Excellency
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 11, 2011

    I am really at the end of my sanity,

    count on good old dad to put us all on the verge of homelessness, thank you dad for being such a selfish jackass, once again you have shown the world what a ****** person you are, really I just need a hug before I go crazy, hell I will even take jus a pat on the back
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Apr 18, 2015

    The Truth

    I am a man who googled "i want hugs" and found this interesting sight. I read thru a few stories and was touched by this beautiful young girl 13-15 who basically said "I just wanna hug and anyone will do." I appreciate her honesty and though in this dark wicked world, you...
    whatisloneliness whatisloneliness
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Oct 20, 2012

    I just miss people. Not just people though,

    people who like the same stuff as me. Any Danish speakers?
    Eshume Eshume
    13-15, F
    Sep 5, 2015
    Tyelioo Tyelioo
    13-15, F
    Jun 20, 2014
    usman420 usman420
    22-25, M
    Apr 3, 2015
    salmax99 salmax99
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Apr 2, 2015

    I Want A Physical Hug..

    I want to be hugged like theres no tommrow!!
    AlexisChaynnZamora13 AlexisChaynnZamora13
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Nov 4, 2013

    hugs

    Everyone enjoys being hugged and I am no different. I still miss his warm embrace till today. Being only 5ft 3inches myself and he is 6feet 2inches.. I am like a dwarf but each time we hugged, I felt protected...I felt secured...I felt 'us'. I still remember the first nite...
    Eternal Eternal
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Nov 11, 2009
    WayangPanda WayangPanda
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 16, 2015

    I want to hug my bae!

    📳 One day
    Kimbahbay Kimbahbay
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2014

    Hate when you are the first all ready to go

    and worship but then your family members start having a fight which stops us from worshipping out God. If it was not far away i would walk there. Just don't understand why fight while going to church. Satin is working in our lives folks be ready and be prepared for the last...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 19, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 19, 2015

    A really good one. One

    that makes me feel safe and like everything will be okay.
    justagirleli justagirleli
    22-25, F
    Sep 30, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    I really want a huge warm bear hug right now. ?? This is so mean..??????
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