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I Want A Hug

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    A really good one. One

    that makes me feel safe and like everything will be okay.
    justagirleli justagirleli 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    hugs

    Everyone enjoys being hugged and I am no different. I still miss his warm embrace till today. Being only 5ft 3inches myself and he is 6feet 2inches.. I am like a dwarf but each time we hugged, I felt protected...I felt secured...I felt 'us'. I still remember the first nite...
    Eternal Eternal 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    We all need a hug now

    and then. I could use one now.
    djag2007 djag2007 26-30, M 1 Response May 26

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    Do Not Settle For Less??

    I know there's something wrong... How I wish....if he is not really meant for me....I can free my heart easily.. I felt like it's better to be single than to have a relationship wherein you are not so sure.. If I'm no longer happy.... If something is bothering me...should I...
    envlained envlained 22-25, F Dec 18, 2012

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    Hugs Cure All

    I feel so lonely here in my dorm right now, but I don't know anyone here that would give me a hug and my family and friends are hours away. And the verbal hug from my mom over the phone didn't really help.
    rachel08 rachel08 18-21 2 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    It Means So Much...

    ONE hug. ONE real physical hug. That's all I need. But apparently I'm not good enough to get a hug or little alone meet REAL people for that matter.
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M 1 Response May 31, 2013

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    I want someone to tell anything

    and cry to , someone that hugs me and tells me that everything will be okay I just can't do this anymore .
    Ummaperson Ummaperson 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    Have to hug my dog now,

    my wife and kids left, so, animal hugs is all that I'm getting for awhile.
    httpdeathawaits httpdeathawaits 22-25, M Mar 9

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    I haven't had any real love

    since I lost my baby girl... No real hugs or nothing.. I been by myself the majority of the time....
    jayteezy205 jayteezy205 22-25, M Mar 28

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    I want to be hugged,

    and not one of those cheap ***, one arm, half assed hugs, I want a tight, unable to breath, because I'm squeezed so tightly My lungs feel like they'll explode hugs, or maybeh a ninja glomp (hug tackle) Its been a while...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M Jul 14

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    alysharoberts25 alysharoberts25 13-15, F 10 Responses Aug 14

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    The Truth

    I am a man who googled "i want hugs" and found this interesting sight. I read thru a few stories and was touched by this beautiful young girl 13-15 who basically said "I just wanna hug and anyone will do." I appreciate her honesty and though in this dark wicked world, you...
    whatisloneliness whatisloneliness 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 20, 2012

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    I Want A Hug

    I would love to have a hug..... Right now I wish I could give evey one of my kids a big Bear hug.... I miss them so much..., But I. Will see them soon It is the greatest feeling in the world when. I pull up in the drive way get out of my truck and there is my son and daughter...
    starman5000 starman5000 41-45, M Jul 17, 2012

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    I Want a Hug...

    I always want a hug... 
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 4, 2008

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    im really bored and at my friends house

    and all i want is a hug tbh!
    enoshima enoshima 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    Why Not?

    Why can't I just hug people for no reason? It makes me feel better. I'm not creepy or anything.
    Bustoff Bustoff 19-21, M 5 Responses May 4, 2007

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    Missing

    I simply feel as though i'm missing that connection from someone anyone who i know truly means it. I haven't had a real hug in months. Now that i think about it makes me want to cry:`(
    sweet1739 sweet1739 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2011

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    So Badly Right Now.

    A hug, what people do. Moslty couples, yet i dont have a boyfriend. That's all I want, a simple good looking boyfriend who will be there when im down. A hug, i imagine it happening to me, a walk on the beach at night, the waves crashing, someone holding my hand saying they love...
    italianbabe148 italianbabe148 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 14, 2012

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    Hate when you are the first all ready to go

    and worship but then your family members start having a fight which stops us from worshipping out God. If it was not far away i would walk there. Just don't understand why fight while going to church. Satin is working in our lives folks be ready and be prepared for the last...
    BigRalphie74 BigRalphie74 36-40, M Oct 19

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    Missing Affectionate Hugs Attention Or Just Plain I Care About You!

    Went shopping today at Walmart.Feeling down and out.I met an old friend from college hadn't seen for a long time she talked about losing 5 family members to death.We shared a hug and a smile and talked about us since college and our goals.That hug was needed by both of us a...
    dreeamin10 dreeamin10 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 6, 2010

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    Burned Out

    I'm tired. I know I still have the drive/ motivation to do what I need to do, BUT my body is weary. :( It's hard. I know things will feel a lot 'easier' if I still had my mom w/ me. Sometimes I just need a pat on my shoulder. I just need a little encouragement instead of pressure...
    kkbv69 kkbv69 22-25, F Jan 13, 2011

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    Tyelioo Tyelioo 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    Listen.

    I didn't know infants NEEDED to be held, I mean there is a biological basis behind it. I learned that in therapy. You can feed a baby, change its diaper but if it's not held it won't develop normally. I believe my therapist said something to do with the prefrontal cortex will be...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    It Would Be Nice

    No one ever hugs me. My parents use to hug me when I was younger but after I turned 10, they stopped hugging me. Then my sisters never want a hug from me. I think I'd do anything for a hug. I like hugs. But nobody wants to give me a hug. When I ask my sisters for hugs, they tell...
    JACooleo JACooleo 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2011

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    SleepyGamers SleepyGamers 13-15, T 1 Response Oct 19

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    Deeper Than A Hug

    Ok I've read enough stories! Are you kidding me? This is the internet and though there are a lot of beautiful people here. As usual in this dark world: BEWARE!! Because you know as well as I do that there are all kinds of folks who'd just "luv" to give you a whole lot more...
    whatisloneliness whatisloneliness 41-45, M Oct 20, 2012

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    I need to feel safe, warm

    and protected; even just for a while. My husband isn't much of a physical person and although I do love him he is not romantic. I really need a hug.
    rural84 rural84 26-30, F 5 Responses May 6

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    I Want A Hug

    I just want a hug from him. Only him. I really love him so much. His hug is really hot and make me horny. I miss him so much :(
    JujuAlyssa JujuAlyssa 18-21 Oct 16, 2012

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    Just one of those nights.

    ....It's ok to be single but sometimes I miss physical contact with another person...
    Ilona77 Ilona77 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 5

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    Huggy For All

    To all ep members to need a hug. Her is a hug to all who loves the warmth of another, the comfort of been wrapped and loved. In rainy days and for sunny days. Therr Is never a time when you can have a good hug. So here is a big ep hug. I love hugs
    shan0505 shan0505 22-25, M Mar 12, 2012

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    Imagine A Great Hug

    Sometimes...well. More than that. Often, I wish that I knew someone who was not afraid to give me a big hug. A hug that isn't like someone throwing limp spaghetti over your shoulders. Not some one handed excuse for one. I want a hug that makes me feel loved, needed, appreciated...
    GoldLikeAutumn GoldLikeAutumn 13-15 1 Response Nov 8, 2011

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    Who the hell doesn't?

    ?? Imma get one in about a half an hour :)
    lovelylasscan lovelylasscan 22-25, F Feb 11

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    Poke

    i just had about the worst day of my life and the closest thing to actual physical contact i've had for 2 years is handshakes to people i was applying for a job for, and one time i got drunk and my friend helped my downstairs to my room. I just want a good hug.
    Peroigrin Peroigrin 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 18, 2011

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    A Hug

    I want a Hug that doesn't hurt, A touch that doesn't sting a kiss that doesn't cause flashbacks a touch that doesn't make me cringe I want a Hug that makes me feel safe a Tough that makes me feel loved a kiss that makes me feel secure a touch that makes me feel wanted I want...
    xSilentlySufferingx xSilentlySufferingx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    Physical Contact

    I never understood why some people were so comfortable with hugging as a greeting. I had always felt somewhat awkward doing that with someone who wasn't my mother or close relative. I experienced one from a guy a couple weeks ago and I actually like it. I don't know why I had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 14, 2013

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    I just want one. I need one.

    I been feeling down lately. I want someone to hold me while I cry. I need a warm hug that keeps me safe and sound. Isn't that much to ask? :c
    ArcticPotato ArcticPotato 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 13

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    ....

    ...and I want it now.... So hop on the plane and get here and give me what I need.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 14 Responses Aug 4, 2008

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    Peace And Transqulity

    I remember when I was leaning on the back of my dad, feeling the warm and the heartbeat, and I would feel calm and peaceful. Perhaps it's the natal memory of being in mom's womb that caused that good feeling. These days I like to see children and parents hugging: Daughters...
    Excellency Excellency 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 11, 2011

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    I Want A Physical Hug..

    I want to be hugged like theres no tommrow!!
    AlexisChaynnZamora13 AlexisChaynnZamora13 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    Anyone

    Sometimes we all just need a hug. Anyone willing to help a guy out. Hug me please.
    hey123you hey123you 41-45, M 9 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    Sometimes a nice, warm hug under the covers is

    all you need. Human contact.
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    Just a Long, Gentle Hug, That Says "You're Not Alone"

    Tonight as I lay crying into my pillow again, feeling like total crap. I thought to myself if only I had someone to hug me and tell me that everything was ok, then I know things would be a little better, but I didnt have anyone so I tried hugging myself, and ended up crying more...
    JadedNihilist JadedNihilist 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2007

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    I want to hug my bae!

    📳 One day
    Kimbahbay Kimbahbay 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Not just any hug tho,

    I want a hug from him that makes me feel safe and special
    jennaaa13 jennaaa13 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 19

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    A Hug?

    I want a Hug that doesn't hurt,A touch that doesn't stinga kiss that doesn't cause flashbacksa touch that doesn't make me cringeI want a Hug that makes me feel safea touch that makes me feel loveda kiss that makes me feel securea touch that makes me feel wantedI want a Hug that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 13, 2012

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    A Warm Hug

    yes folks, i badly need a hug.  i feel so sad... and alone.  :(
    kiwikiwi kiwikiwi 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 29, 2008

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    Feeling low...life is kinda rough on me.

    .i wished i culd have sum real good friend in my life rite now...i wish to cry on his/her shoulder..though crying is not a man's thing strictly speaking..but it lightens you and i think i really need it.
    Certifiednaughty Certifiednaughty 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    ....

    ...and I want it now.... So hop on the plane and get here and give me what I need.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 21 Responses Aug 4, 2008

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