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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Being single means you can realize what you

    really want, and wait for the right one is worthwhile :)
    Sungood Sungood 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    I just realized I want alot just a full

    relationship love and sex and kissing and more sex sex sex!!! Wtf is wrong with me. He needs to be there for me wen I'm sad then we can have sex. When I'm angry with him makeup sex. Good morning sex, I just got home from a hard day at work sex. Okay I love sex!!!!
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    The right person is the one

    who makes you laugh and smile on a daily basis. The one you can fool off with and not care. The one who staring you in the face. That person is your best friend.
    starr38 starr38 36-40, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    It hurts when you've experienced this

    and then lose it. It haunts me that I'll never find a relationship like that again.
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 18 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 32 Responses Jan 6

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    A guy and a girl can be just friends,

    but at one point or another, they may fall for each other...Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever!
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    BigBossBadMan BigBossBadMan 36-40, M Mar 16

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    I want you to know I'm yours.

    To know that my mind body and soul are devoted to your love. I want you to feel my presence when I walk through the room and scoop you up. Know that this our time to explore our desires needs and wants. I want you to be the outlet of my needs, the needs of a man whose heart is...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Im inlove with my crush?

    wht shall i do?were friends before but still?wat happened now?
    Chelsea4321 Chelsea4321 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 10 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    Well I can't really say

    that I WANT one anymore Because I have one At least in my view
    CosplayPotato CosplayPotato 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    connection and affection,

    smiles and pet names.
    paulawala paulawala 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Not every girl wants to be in a relationship.

    Some just want good company. A guy to vibe with, converse and laugh with. Not in a rush. Start off simple. And let the rest find itself. Having someone to talk to and feeling comfortable around them is quite beautiful and it's a good feeling!
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Everyone keeps asking me

    why I'm single. Well it's simple really ... Mr. Charming and I have yet to meet
    girlznglitter girlznglitter 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I just want a boyfriend,

    that i could play GTA V or other games on my PS3, practice wrestling every Sunday, share a pop tart together and take our dogs to the park and walk them together. And if im sad, i wanna lay my head on his shoulder. And he's not too scared or shy for me to give him a manicure or...
    Annaambrose Annaambrose 16-17 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 26-30, F 25 Responses Mar 9

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    BizzyEager BizzyEager 22-25, F 21 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Before I began dating my current bf,

    things were messy and hard. Love was a tangle of getting to know people, plus loving them on top of that! Now I have a wonderful bond with my boyfriend, since we knew each other for a year before we began dating. I am so in love with him and can't wait until the day he proposes...
    XraZorBladezX XraZorBladezX 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Fake friendz r Like Shadowz.

    .. They Follow Us In The Sun But Leave Us In The Dark....
    L0ve4every1 L0ve4every1 18-21, M 6 Responses Mar 18

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    I'm looking good friends to make sharing my

    happiness.. if any want to be friend.. plz message me
    immanul immanul 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 22

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    lilimao lilimao 18-21, F 27 Responses Mar 1

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    BigBossBadMan BigBossBadMan 36-40, M Mar 24

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    I give up ...........

    .......................:(
    lighthearted01 lighthearted01 22-25, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    I want a man that will be my best friend,

    spoil me like a princess and treat me like a queen. Be my other half.
    hiddenjem hiddenjem 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 15

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    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    mycatisbettrthanyurs mycatisbettrthanyurs 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 8

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    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    What's love without passion?

    ... It's nothing
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 22

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    Just Someone who understands me completely

    as a best friend but loves me more
    Amethyst09 Amethyst09 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    If u love some one thn dont ask him cos

    if u tlod thm and just see ur love if u told any budy evn ur lovr thn ur love is gone aftr some time its my prsnl expirinse My lover is gone 2 yr aggo
    Kashiflashari Kashiflashari 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    BigBossBadMan BigBossBadMan 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I've never experienced this one cause I wanted

    no romance things going on friendship and vice versa. Hard to explain. But would like to recently if there's a chance.
    Sonoluminescence Sonoluminescence 31-35, F 9 hrs ago

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 34 Responses Jan 19

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    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 24

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 5 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    My whole life has been watching everyone else

    enjoy romance and wishing that I could myself. I've had intense feelings for a few girls but only ever been friendzoned and heartbroken. It doesn't help that depression, anxiety and high standards also come into play. Sometimes I really wonder if it's worth it all. The only...
    Kadnascence Kadnascence 18-21, M 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    iqra765 iqra765 16-17, F 5 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 35 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    What do you do when your best friend is in love

    with you but you dont feel the same...anymore
    brynai brynai 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    I have a lover who is my best friend :P we

    started out as friends, became best friends, then the best friends wasn't enough So we are now boyfriend and girlfriend :P I love you David :* <3
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago