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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    this would be perfect,

    I wonder if it would be possible though
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 15 Responses Oct 24

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    margai margai 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 15

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    Ever loved someone so much,

    you would do anything for them? Yeah, well, make that someone yourself and do what you want!
    Maihowl Maihowl 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 24

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    ShineHB ShineHB 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm currently feeling deeply depressed about my

    marriage. My husband and I have nothing in common besides our children. He has no idea how disconnected I've become. I feel very alone.
    naynay817 naynay817 41-45, F 29 Responses Aug 12

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    I am in love with a girl

    and ima girl!!!
    luvmyfriends luvmyfriends 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Sometimes we need to simply be there.

    .. not to fix anything or do anything in particular, but just to let us feel we are supported and cared about.
    chavvat chavvat 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 12

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    Your Beauty....My Lady!

    What wonderful summer day. We both rise early. I go outside to mow the lawn and do some yard work. I return inside the house and promptly get in the shower. Once all freshened I enter our room, there you are sitting on the bed humming to yourself as you paint your toes...
    NorthernMan1966 NorthernMan1966 46-50, M 8 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    I just want a boyfriend more

    than anything right now. I'm tired of the meaningless sex and random hookups. It makes me feel cheap and it's not a good feeling. I want to love somebody and be loved back equally.
    markinicole markinicole 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    I actually thought I had that.

    Nope. Totally ******* wrong. Not even close. *sigh* **** my life.
    Alayjahndro Alayjahndro 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    I have a girl who I see

    as a good friend and want to see of the possibility of it going further, yet when I'm with her, I want to ask her stuff but my mind goes blank and can't seem to get my head to ask her stuff. she's a few years younger but we've known each other for a good number of years and I...
    Ghostshadow82 Ghostshadow82 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 15

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    chroncrystal chroncrystal 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I want to be in a relationship with someone I

    trust and have fun with. I really don't need much else.
    racingSnail racingSnail 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    I am the type that would only need one really

    awesome friend. A super funny, smart, beautiful lady that can make me laugh. I am jealous of people who have lovers like that. I wish I was them.
    ofskies ofskies 18-21, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    To my other half: What I hate about you ( What

    hurts me): 1. I didn't see you laugh (anymore) everytime you are with me. I really wat to see you smile/happy/less serious when we are together. You seem lifeless. 2. You didn't share anything with me anymore. There are no more stories. You didn't really communicate with me or...
    crimoholic24 crimoholic24 22-25, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    We all have heard many times

    that there's someone for everyone. The optimistic side of me believes this. The pessimist that has taken residence in my brain....not so much. If I wasn't such a complex individual I suppose the saying would hold true. But the fact remains I am what I am. To be honest I'm good...
    Allysoninaz Allysoninaz 46-50, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 3

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    I want someone I can trust.

    Someone I can tell my deepest darkest secrets to. Someone to make me smile and laugh each and everyday. Someone that can make me smile just by hearing their name. Someone I can hug and he will never let go, and fall asleep in his arms. Pillow fights is a must. Someone to hold my...
    tltlc tltlc 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 1

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    I need a personal trainer,

    someone to get hot and sweaty with, someone to have a shower with and then get hot and sweaty again ;)
    happyhel79 happyhel79 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 1

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    I am lucky enough to have found true love with

    my best friend and the below is exactly how it happened it was never meant to it just did. There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 15

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    I feel alone and very inexperienced

    because I have never had a boyfriend. Everyone tells me how cute I am and I have an amazing personality, yet I can't even get a date. I guess my biggest fear is that I'll die without ever experiencing a romantic love. I've been patient for about 3 yrs now and I just want to give...
    TheNewChico TheNewChico 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 18

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 5 Responses Nov 4

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 16 Responses Oct 30

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    I just realized I want alot just a full

    relationship love and sex and kissing and more sex sex sex!!! Wtf is wrong with me. He needs to be there for me wen I'm sad then we can have sex. When I'm angry with him makeup sex. Good morning sex, I just got home from a hard day at work sex. Okay I love sex!!!!
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 9

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    I met someone... Someone

    who makes my heart smile. We really do speak the same languages (literally n figuratively) and I think we could be really happy together (especially since we agree on so many things including sex-frequencies). I know he feels the same way, but only time will tell. Trust me EP...
    Terrain12 Terrain12 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 39 Responses Sep 11

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    What's love without passion?

    ... It's nothing
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    regalshewolf regalshewolf 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I need someone that I am in love with

    but can still be friends with so its all cool and does not affect friendship
    lealea12234 lealea12234 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have the best friend ever!

    !!!!!She is all I ever wanted in a friend!There is no 1 that can replace her ever!!!
    luvmyfriends luvmyfriends 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I feel so lonely and sad these days.

    I want a man who will be my shoulder to cry on, who loves travelling, who will share my interests with me, with whom I can always talk to, who will be always by my side and who will love me. I want a decent man who will love me and support me. He should be my savior when I fall...
    ScarlettMelanie84 ScarlettMelanie84 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 19

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    xomariposaxo xomariposaxo 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 31

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 16-17, F 12 Responses Sep 12

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    I want to kiss and be kissed - long,

    sweet, hungry kisses. I want your arms around me, pressing me close. I want to feel your hands and mouth caressing the contours of my body. And I also want to be able to banter with you, match wits, talk about ideas. Am I just being greedy, or expecting too much?
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    I have been thinking a lot about

    where I am in life now. On the verge of a divorce, charging through school and on a great graduation trajectory, and I realize I'll soon have a job and my daughter to look after and no one to keep me company. I really would like to make a friend during this time and eventually...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    This is my dream!!! In a perfect world,

    this would happen! Hopefully I get to be lucky enough for this to happen!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Well that is pretty much what i had.

    Well i had a girlfriend named taylor and we were best friends and we became a couple and we were very close until her STUPID FRIEND CONVINCED HER THAT I WAS CHEATING ON HER well of course. IM AM SO DEFINITELY A CRUEL PERSON SO I WOULD CHEAT ON HER. NO I WOULD NEVER DISRESPECT A...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I wish there was a girl

    for me somewhere out there that would give me a chance...
    colombianking17 colombianking17 16-17, M 5 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Being single means you can realize what you

    really want, and wait for the right one is worthwhile :)
    Sungood Sungood 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 17

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    One day I will wake up

    and look across my bed at a woman I love with all my heart. One day I will have someone who accept me for me and is both a lover and a friend. I want someone I can invest both emotionally And physically In.
    ShadowFax97 ShadowFax97 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 8

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    Use to have that. But life

    and conflicts happen so here's a toast to the road of living.  
    Ascension646 Ascension646 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Hello I am Suresh, 23yrs.

    I am from India and completed high school. I love the people who likes me and who gives me importance. and I want a lover who is also my best friend. surely I will respect her, care for her, love her and entertain her when she was in sad. I like women between age 18-40. either...
    suresh9015 suresh9015 22-25, M Nov 20

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22

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    BizzyEager BizzyEager 18-21, F 21 Responses Oct 6

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 7

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    I feel like I have tooo much love to give,

    when I'm in love, I love that person with all my heart and everyone I've been with hasn't be able to handle it.. Pushes them away they can't accept my love i do come across quite "needy", but that's because I crave the same amount of love I'm giving, back!
    Bluelille Bluelille 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    It hurts when you've experienced this

    and then lose it. It haunts me that I'll never find a relationship like that again.
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 13 Responses a week ago

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    Soooo this so cliche

    and kind of a movie stereotype I have a best friend (a girl) how has another friend (a boy) and I really like him like really I have a crush on him for like a month maybe, but him used to like a friend from my best friend and he kind of still likes her or I don't know but he is...
    alek42 alek42 18-21, M Nov 20

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    I am alone in this world.

    God is there, but I need touch. Someone who will actually reply with words. The only thing I want in this life someone who loves me not because they feel they need to, but just someone who loves me just because they love me. I'm so use to being this introvert who speaks...
    veeisme75 veeisme75 22-25, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I am poor,disabled, pretty,

    and wise in alot of areas. I don't have the money to travel....but I feel my mate is far from these parts. I wish I could post this on a dating site without being judged. I have chronic pain most days and it affects my moods sometimes when it gets unbearable, i am irritable on...
    queenyann queenyann 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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