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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    nstar1983 nstar1983 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 23 Responses Jan 10

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    I think I actually have

    that now. I can change the "want" to a "have".
    TW8NY TW8NY 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 23

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    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 5 Responses May 10

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses Feb 22

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    I want a boyfriend...

    Or atleast a friend
    Eunbi55 Eunbi55 22-25, F 29 Responses Jul 19

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    Honestly this is going to sound stupid

    but it's true. A guy who is my best friend will mean everything to me as will my bf, so if i have a bf who is my best friend he will be my everything
    PoppyJones113 PoppyJones113 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I wish my husband was my friend,

    but he is not. He just stays by himself, and I never feel like he has my back. Yet he is nice to people. I am a Christian so I will just continue to trust God. I will never defile myself by cheating on him. I know God's grace is sufficient for me. God will be my friend. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 30 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    Hold me. Kiss me. Hug me.

    Laugh with me. Cuddle me. Share with me. Dance with me. Sing with me. Cook with me. Cry with me. Act like 5 year olds with me. Fall with me. Fly with me. Run away with me. Catch me. Do anything with me. But most of all, love me.
    MotionlessinH MotionlessinH 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    I am ready for a relationship

    but I'm not. I've got trust issues so I'm not ready for anything serious but if I were to get involved with anyone it would be with serous intent. I left my ex 3 summers ago and our divorce became final last week. Even before the split he had an affair and was emotionally...
    MyKidsAreMyWorld MyKidsAreMyWorld 36-40, F 15 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want you to know I'm yours.

    To know that my mind body and soul are devoted to your love. I want you to feel my presence when I walk through the room and scoop you up. Know that this our time to explore our desires needs and wants. I want you to be the outlet of my needs, the needs of a man whose heart is...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 46-50, M 6 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    it's not fair because the girl I loved seems to

    have boys lining up for her. and she's entertaining that line. I friendzoned myself just so I could get close to her but in the end she shunned me away. I'm all for her happiness but I don't think having a bf every 3 or so months is the way to go. I'm afrer my own happiness as...
    GoGoTomago GoGoTomago 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 15 Responses Mar 23

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    As I'm chopping potatoes

    for a potato salad I'm making for dinner I wonder if I'll ever find that lover/best friend. Someone who breezes in and drops a kiss at my temple as he "sneaks" a veggie from the pasta salad on the counter. We've got the game on in the background as the grill is heating up for...
    MyKidsAreMyWorld MyKidsAreMyWorld 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I am looking for a NYC girl

    who can be my good friend too...but till now haven't even a single glimpse of any
    jackvik jackvik 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    It hurts when you've experienced this

    and then lose it. It haunts me that I'll never find a relationship like that again.
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 15 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    Just looking for friends

    that are 16-21 years old!
    ahache ahache 16-17, F 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 34 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    lilimao lilimao 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 1

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    I was lucky enough to have a lover

    who was my best friend, she was my wife for 12 years before she passed and I lost both my love and the only person who I would be able to talk about that loss with.
    Mondoaz Mondoaz 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 24

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    psstisst psstisst 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    I don't care if I ever get married again,

    I just want to find someone that can be my lover, best friend and partner in life.
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 22

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    astrudcc11 astrudcc11 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My boyfriend is my best friend!

    Your partner SHOULD be your best friend and you should want to do everything together, and hang out, and go on adventures, and tell each other your secrets. Your partner should know you completely - the good, the bad, and the ugly, and love you anyway. I just see my bf as a...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    that one person who makes your day better just

    by calling you beautiful. love him. :D
    threesomechic threesomechic 18-21, F 3 Responses May 5

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 19

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    I used to be so flirtatious the sexual energy

    was just a part of personality. Of course always lady like but, I used to constantly attract the most interesting people because of it. But after certain events a couple years ago, I now make sure that I'm never doing anything flirtatious and my sexual energy has plummeted...
    GiiGi GiiGi 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Inside the heart of each

    and every one of us there is a longing to be understood by someone who really cares.
    Kelvinlin Kelvinlin 46-50, M 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    dimples59 dimples59 56-60, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am unhappy in my relationship,

    but settle because I don't want to be alone either.
    Mikekayla Mikekayla 41-45, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    i think that this world is lonely

    and that in many cases a relationship will fix that any girls wanna chat just msg me im here looking for a gf or friends
    Alcadior Alcadior 13-15, M Jul 20

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    The one person who's opinion of you matters more

    than all of the accolades the world can offer. Be tender with my heart, for when I give it...I do so completely.
    PixieLoveChild PixieLoveChild 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I want to go on a date this Sunday at 6

    if you're a women in Lakewood Colorado, at least 21, ok with kids, and maybe a nerdy girl please get a hold of me I know this sounds desperate but I just want a human companion
    master338 master338 22-25, M a week ago

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    It's the best relationship on Earth

    but the worst part about having a lover that is also your best friend is when they leave it's all over and you're left emptiness.
    anad718 anad718 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 6

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