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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    It hurts when you've experienced this

    and then lose it. It haunts me that I'll never find a relationship like that again.
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 15 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    connection and affection,

    smiles and pet names.
    paulawala paulawala 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Before you ask me out,

    be my friend for at least a year.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 22

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    I never experience love.

    Am 24year old male. What does that say about me?
    vdksmiles vdksmiles 22-25, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    He may not be my lover now.

    .and maybe never will be again..but he was once. And I still adore him...more than I should. Honestly, if he wanted me, I'd go back to him.
    mystiere13 mystiere13 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 33 Responses Jan 19

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    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 5 Responses May 10

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    "A knight in shining armor may look good on

    paperbut they tend to rust awaywhen the storms within and around me rage.Instead give me a warrior, battle worn and true.Who will fightbeside mewith meand for me.And stand steadfastnaked and undauntedin the eye of the hurricanethat I can become.A real manmade of flesh and...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 5 Responses May 16

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    I wish I could have this with a girl.

    My last relationship was unsuccessful, and I really need someone to get to know so that I don't take my ex back (which I would hate to do). I am kind and will treat anyone right who will give me the opportunity.
    deliriouslydreaming deliriouslydreaming 16-17, F 2 Responses May 20

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    Not just a bestfriend,

    a working out buddy who would motivate you to challenge yourself everyday, a pillow to cry out how the world is so cruel and harsh, a diary to account whats been bothering you the whole day and whats the next big thing on your mind, a reason to smile when you wake up, a soulmate...
    TheLeftBehind TheLeftBehind 18-21, M 1 Response May 20

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    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    If your gf had medical issues

    when would you like to know?
    bgirl24 bgirl24 22-25, F 10 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    that one person who makes your day better just

    by calling you beautiful. love him. :D
    threesomechic threesomechic 18-21, F 4 Responses May 5

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    How wonderful it would be to have a girl

    that I could talk to about everything, hug, kiss, and cuddle. I have been needing someone to be there for me, someone to make me feel safe in her arms. I just hope she is out there somewhere, and that I find her soon.
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 8

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    A short Sweet And cute romantic love story

    starts here — One day god send a chair to Two Lovers… The specialty of that chair was that the person sitting on it if says TRUTH, Then the GREEN lite would blink ‘n if person sitting on it says LIE, Then RED lite would blink…. Boy sat on the chair.. GIRL-Do you LOVE me...
    nolies91 nolies91 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I slowly fell in love with my best friend

    since the first day i met him. Recently he kissed me on the sunniest day and told me he loves me, ended his relationship and now we are both happier than we have ever been. Never give up hope, sometimes dreams come true.
    irdeacon irdeacon 18-21, F 3 Responses May 16

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    Love is when I can't pay attention in class

    because I'm too busy writing my first name with his last name.
    Ladyinlove1 Ladyinlove1 36-40, F 4 Responses May 15

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    I just think that it would be easier to be

    completely honest with one's significant other if they were friends, at least in my case. I don't know why most guys don't like being friends first- if one can't be like a friend at first, how would they be able to get to the point of being "MORE than a friend?!" ... At least...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 5 Responses May 17

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    Yeah I'm a guy who takes the idea of being a

    relationship really seriously, I mean potentially you're dealing with someone else's feelings...so I guess really it goes without saying. But we know that the world doesn't work that way, people get rewarded for being less than just; mediocrity pays off and so on. I just...
    Endlesshelix Endlesshelix 26-30, M 13 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'll be honest. I'm a lonely guy.

    All I really want out of life is someone to be with. Someone I can talk to. Someone I can hold at night and know that we love each other. I like video games, reading, cooking, anime, and swimming (even though I can't swim). I'd love to get to know you! So please, if your...
    tf2medic tf2medic 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I have never met a guy

    that actually feels this way
    almonjoiii almonjoiii 26-30, F 12 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    With only two days space from a 3 year

    relationship ending, I see things so much more clearly than I allowed myself while we were dating and engaged! Almost like infra red... I see how much I want in a romance by what my life have been lacking in my previous ones! Imagine a love who lights up when they see you...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 5 Responses May 16

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 17 Responses Mar 23

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    I want you to know I'm yours.

    To know that my mind body and soul are devoted to your love. I want you to feel my presence when I walk through the room and scoop you up. Know that this our time to explore our desires needs and wants. I want you to be the outlet of my needs, the needs of a man whose heart is...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 6 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 5 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    lilimao lilimao 18-21, F 25 Responses Mar 1

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    I need some one who is going to love me

    for me . And let me love them for who they are . Not what we can give to each other. Is there even any one out there like that .
    gmoody01 gmoody01 31-35, M 5 Responses May 16

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    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M May 14

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 24 Responses Jan 10

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    My Promise to My future lady.

    I promise to love you til we're buried I promise to love you not only through the good but the bad I promise to always keep your heart safe in my hands I promise to be your best friend I promise to be your strength when your weak I promise to be your shoulder to cry on I...
    1ofakind55 1ofakind55 26-30, M 4 Responses May 17

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    I'm having trouble in my relationship & I feel

    it's bc we are not good friends ... i dont feel a closness or fufilled by our life together. .. it's driving me crazy bc any thing I say gets taken wrong & I feel like both of our guards are in defense mode... we've been living together for 3 years known each other 5 with 1.5...
    JLynn321 JLynn321 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    In my opinion, if you don't still like the

    person after breaking up you shouldn't have gone out at all. Do people ever get to know people first nowadays? Lol
    lordbuttfucker lordbuttfucker 18-21, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I divorced my lover cos she cheated

    and denied it even when i caught her. i decided to love and give my heart to anyone who deserve it.cos love is all that matters
    Goodluck1964 Goodluck1964 46-50, M May 15

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Julieccaa Julieccaa 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 31-35, F 24 Responses Mar 9

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