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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    I just realized I want alot just a full

    relationship love and sex and kissing and more sex sex sex!!! Wtf is wrong with me. He needs to be there for me wen I'm sad then we can have sex. When I'm angry with him makeup sex. Good morning sex, I just got home from a hard day at work sex. Okay I love sex!!!!
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 23

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    So here's what's going on My boyfriend has

    asked three different girls to come over and sleep with him. He lied about visiting one in Oregon and I thought things were better until he let me borrow his laptop. He has a Mac so every time he gets an email it pops up in the right hand corner and it said "thanks for signing...
    Chloe8221 Chloe8221 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 6

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    This is all very well

    until you break up.
    Faerylight Faerylight 41-45, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 8

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 22

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    Yeah I'm a guy who takes the idea of being a

    relationship really seriously, I mean potentially you're dealing with someone else's feelings...so I guess really it goes without saying. But we know that the world doesn't work that way, people get rewarded for being less than just; mediocrity pays off and so on. I just...
    Endlesshelix Endlesshelix 26-30, M 14 Responses May 26

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    happilygay2day happilygay2day 61-65, M 1 Response a week ago

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 31-35, F 23 Responses Mar 9

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    Ever it's really hard to solve love problems.

    .. It's always irrational, right??
    actionluva actionluva 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    LOL for sure ;) i love to see

    when people s happy make me smile...and good night from thailand :) everyone
    onceft onceft 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    People don't understand this.

    I've had family and friends try to hook me up with guys, but they don't seem to get that I want to be friends before anything happens. I want to make sure that we get along well, and have enough in common. Also is a little rough when the guys wanna jump straight into it :/
    Vysyn Vysyn 18-21, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    lilimao lilimao 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 1

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 23 Responses Jan 10

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    HI I'm Looking For a Girlfriend

    who care about me love me and I will love here and take care of here and know more about each other text me if you think you are the one
    Adnane20301 Adnane20301 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Well I can say that having your lover

    as your best friend is the ideal but in my experience if you start as best friends it's not always a good idea to change it into a lover . Humans fall in lust "have chemistry" then love develops ... Maybe even best friends if your lucky . That is the logical way to have your...
    roes55 roes55 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I met him while in training.

    My mind was set on finishing training and not finding love. I made that clear to him.... I actually told him I had a significant other back at home and I was too stressed to pursue anything with him. He was persistsnt. Not in a pushy creepy kind of way but he let it be known...
    inhouston832 inhouston832 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 19

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    i want also a good friend

    because without friend Life is Empty.
    ALi14321 ALi14321 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    FOREVER! And don't say you want a BFF

    and then already have a million bffs that you'd rather be with.
    stephane28 stephane28 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 26

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    I'm a single, caring,

    openminded, understanding and respectful guy in his 30s who doesn't judge. Is there any genuine women out there who want a meaningful friendship with me?.
    Tannedguy007 Tannedguy007 26-30, M Jun 26

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    My lover is my best friend

    so that's a win-win. He's always there for me, even through my hardest times he's right there with me helping me through it all.
    nightskyvampire nightskyvampire 13-15, F 10 mins ago

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    i want someone i can count on,

    trust, love, andsomeone that feels the same as me. the love is something of a fairytale. a myth. something that may never happen and its looking more bleak each and every day. i want a beat friend that i can talk to. a woman that can talk to me. a lover as well as a beat friend...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 11 hrs ago

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    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 5 Responses May 10

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    kylee19 kylee19 18-21, M Jun 27

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    Just out of a relationship

    and looking for a new best friend and lover.
    jonnymowat jonnymowat 26-30, M 12 hrs ago

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    Cariebearie Cariebearie 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend is my best friend!

    Your partner SHOULD be your best friend and you should want to do everything together, and hang out, and go on adventures, and tell each other your secrets. Your partner should know you completely - the good, the bad, and the ugly, and love you anyway. I just see my bf as a...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 24

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    Dianecc11 Dianecc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I just felt a spark as

    if I had found her. I was walking through the checkout line, and of course being the idiot I am, I didn't do anything. I am so stupid, I hope I find her there again. I have absolutely no experience when it comes to girls, I'm just awkward and I hate it.
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    MOB I no I sent you this

    but I want everyone to see that is so true for me you are my everything:- Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    Thought I found him..

    . Yet he tried to destroy me and everything I've worked hard upon. I sometimes miss his company, yet I realize that I wasn't his best friend, even if I let him be mine... Someday I will come across the right person, I believe it. If there is some sort of cosmic justice on this...
    ConsciousExplorer ConsciousExplorer 18-21, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    80mph.Speed up.Buckle up

    and reach out.
    arforest arforest 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Its been four years ago

    but the smile of these woman still dominates my mind. She's my English teacher during my senior years in high school. We became friends and I became her best buddy. At first, I thought it was just an ordinary student-teacher relationship until one day, I find myself thinking...
    Shine26 Shine26 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    What more can you ask for?

    Best friends know everything
    Ayers010 Ayers010 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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