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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    I'm currently feeling deeply depressed about my

    marriage. My husband and I have nothing in common besides our children. He has no idea how disconnected I've become. I feel very alone.
    naynay817 naynay817 41-45, F 29 Responses Aug 12

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    Ever loved someone so much,

    you would do anything for them? Yeah, well, make that someone yourself and do what you want!
    Maihowl Maihowl 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think I won't ever be in a relationship.

    I soul-searched and realized that I am who I am, and there's no one who could change that. I think I don't deserve someone special in my life because of the principles I live with. I think, I'll have to conform to the society to get one because in order for you to have a healthy...
    crimsonr crimsonr 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 12

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    True love is hard to find,

    just like a best friend is rare. I want some one I can share every thought I have, good or bad. Love me for me and I'll love him for him.
    mistylovinglife mistylovinglife 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 30

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    zackisamazing zackisamazing 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 15

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    I feel that life would be

    so wonderful if 2 people fell in love solely based on personalities and they disregarded looks a first.
    H3lloK1tty H3lloK1tty 13-15, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    My bestfriend got really close to my family

    would go to every reunion with me and in these 3 years of knowing him I fell in love and so did he but he went out with my cousin before we knew and now I don't know what to do. My cousin moved on and is now dating someone else but it still seems wrong and now I'm hurting...
    tealflowers tealflowers 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My best friend is a man,

    and he knows me better than all my women friends. Is that weird?
    Sweetpeamaggie Sweetpeamaggie 36-40, F 14 Responses 3 days ago

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    There's this guy I like Sooo much

    and I think he likes me too but I don't know if we'll ever get a chance to be together
    lvshanta lvshanta 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 3

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    zackisamazing zackisamazing 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 15

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    My Best Friend

    I once shared a year with a person who was, indeed my best friend. We shared every moment that we could. We made love with a passion that was beyond compare. we Talked into the wee hours, we danced, we made stir-fry at three in the morning and ate it before going to work after a...
    brokerichard brokerichard 56-60, M 5 Responses May 8, 2012

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    I want to be in a relationship with someone I

    trust and have fun with. I really don't need much else.
    racingSnail racingSnail 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    It seems like such a perfect relationship

    if this were to happen, this needs to happen in my life.
    purities purities 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 14

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    I need a personal trainer,

    someone to get hot and sweaty with, someone to have a shower with and then get hot and sweaty again ;)
    happyhel79 happyhel79 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 1

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    I love meeting new people

    and befriending them sincerely, with no hidden agenda. Enjoying each other companion- intellectually, emotionally, spiritually and mentally. Sometimes sparks happen, sometimes it does not and it is okay. But I believe falling in love with best friend is the best because you don...
    peacefulhut peacefulhut 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 13

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    xomariposaxo xomariposaxo 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 31

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    vrb46254 vrb46254 22-25, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    TheEmberLeader TheEmberLeader 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 15

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    Why can't I have I soul mate?

    Because I'm not cool enov for you<what can I do<just leave me alone she tells mewhy can't i fight
    MilesMathers MilesMathers 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 14

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    This is my dream!!! In a perfect world,

    this would happen! Hopefully I get to be lucky enough for this to happen!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I wish I had a guy best friend

    that is at least taller then me he doesn't have to be perfect but he does have to be there for me and i will be there for him then maybe we could fall in love and marry after we know we can't live without one other maybe I am just weird but I have always dreamed of having one by...
    nimy29 nimy29 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 14

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    There's this guy I like Sooo much

    and I think he likes me too but I don't know if we'll ever get a chance to be together
    lvshanta lvshanta 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 39 Responses Sep 11

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    I just want a boyfriend more

    than anything right now. I'm tired of the meaningless sex and random hookups. It makes me feel cheap and it's not a good feeling. I want to love somebody and be loved back equally.
    markinicole markinicole 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    Your Beauty....My Lady!

    What wonderful summer day. We both rise early. I go outside to mow the lawn and do some yard work. I return inside the house and promptly get in the shower. Once all freshened I enter our room, there you are sitting on the bed humming to yourself as you paint your toes...
    NorthernMan1966 NorthernMan1966 46-50, M 8 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 16-17, F 13 Responses Sep 12

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    I just realized I want alot just a full

    relationship love and sex and kissing and more sex sex sex!!! Wtf is wrong with me. He needs to be there for me wen I'm sad then we can have sex. When I'm angry with him makeup sex. Good morning sex, I just got home from a hard day at work sex. Okay I love sex!!!!
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 9

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    thecaptain2 thecaptain2 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 15

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 31

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    BizzyEager BizzyEager 13-15, F 22 Responses Oct 6

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    Why can't I seem to find anyone

    for me. Anyone can find them someone to talk to, and date. Most guys don't take the time to approach me. I'm very attractive is what I hear all the time, and I believe it. I just can never seem to find the right one. My friends say I'm too picky and stuck up. But I'm really open...
    johnsonj68 johnsonj68 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was with my friend at a dance

    and a guy she didn't even know came up to her and told her that her necklace was pretty! Guys and girls need to do more things like that!
    H3lloK1tty H3lloK1tty 13-15, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    suprbrian suprbrian 56-60, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    So in love with him and he doesn't feel the

    same. I told him tonight and he said nothin. He is my soulmate and my heart is heavy right now...
    buggattihurts buggattihurts 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 14

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    zackisamazing zackisamazing 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 15

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want someone I can trust.

    Someone I can tell my deepest darkest secrets to. Someone to make me smile and laugh each and everyday. Someone that can make me smile just by hearing their name. Someone I can hug and he will never let go, and fall asleep in his arms. Pillow fights is a must. Someone to hold my...
    tltlc tltlc 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 1

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    I want to kiss and be kissed - long,

    sweet, hungry kisses. I want your arms around me, pressing me close. I want to feel your hands and mouth caressing the contours of my body. And I also want to be able to banter with you, match wits, talk about ideas. Am I just being greedy, or expecting too much?
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    I cant believe I'm posting this,

    but if you truely want a lover who is your best friend you need to become true best friends before you become lovers. This means waiting to have sexual intimacy until you have emotional intimacy. If you dont wait, move on to the next.
    ahorsespal ahorsespal 41-45, M 10 Responses Jun 6

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    I think my best friend is cute

    but i don't think he thinks of me that way I think he thinks of me as a cool girl who he can play video games with :(
    Cuteycake26 Cuteycake26 13-15, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    There's this guy I like Sooo much

    and I think he likes me too but I don't know if we'll ever get a chance to be together
    lvshanta lvshanta 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I feel so lonely and sad these days.

    I want a man who will be my shoulder to cry on, who loves travelling, who will share my interests with me, with whom I can always talk to, who will be always by my side and who will love me. I want a decent man who will love me and support me. He should be my savior when I fall...
    ScarlettMelanie84 ScarlettMelanie84 31-35, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    zackisamazing zackisamazing 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 15

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    I've only been madly in love once.

    ..this guy was my first everything! We could talk about anything! When we spent time together no matter where we were it felt as though we were the only two in the world! I thought he was my soulmate, but he cheated and that was the end. I've longed for this type relationship...
    itslovely23 itslovely23 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    He came to see me tonight

    and looked me dead in the face and said I love you my heart is so open right now my soulmate, my air, my everything.. Just love him so much
    buggattihurts buggattihurts 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    I love my boyfriend but I don't think I want to

    be with him anymore... There has been too much pain on both parts and some things just can't be undone or unsaid. It hurts to even consider but I don't know if that's because I don't want to hurt him or because I don't want to end it.
    Crayonforhelp Crayonforhelp 18-21, F 13 Responses Oct 13

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    this would be perfect,

    I wonder if it would be possible though
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 18 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I'm lonely lol :/ I hope I can someday find my

    soul mate... If they even exist
    EdenShiloh EdenShiloh 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 29

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    I am lucky to say I have this,

    my lover is definitely my best friend. I joined EP almost a year ago (under a different profile). My first profile was very sexual in nature and I made a lot of friends and exchanged photos etc. Then in the middle of last year, my stepdaughter attempted suicide, the way I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 16

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 7

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    Someone help me please ,

    I know I'm already talking to a girl whom I think is awsome but she just thinks of me as a friend :p I don't really mind tho , she just doesn't know how to ask questions .
    Attzero Attzero 13-15, M 4 days ago

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