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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 24

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    i have done my love marriage 3 years ago

    and i have a baby but i am not happy in this relstionship ....
    123reshu90 123reshu90 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 19

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    This would be the ultimate.

    To find my soul mate...le sigh.
    hillmama hillmama 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    mycatisbettrthanyurs mycatisbettrthanyurs 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 8

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    ...but as nice as that sounds in romance films

    and novels, it doesn't seem to translate very well in my real life experiences. In past relationships, the "best friend" element tends to cool the passionate, sexual side of my relationships. We get so comfortable. It's kind of funny that a year after the break up, an ex of...
    xiamara xiamara 26-30, F 6 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Hopefully the next time around

    though I won't fall for my straight best friend. It was brutal enough the first time.
    ch24 ch24 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Why is it so hard to find a good girl

    that knows what she want!
    yevin1899 yevin1899 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 21

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    I do declare that i fed up,

    its two years passed on my last love. why i can't cope with this situation?!
    lighthearted01 lighthearted01 22-25, M a week ago

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    I don't think I could ever be I'm a relationship

    before being friends first. ????
    cheesecake41121 cheesecake41121 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Sad... Heading home after a week

    and a half apart and things are so weird with her these days, so unsure, so unromantic... I don't look forward to seeing her. There was a time I would have said she was my best friend. But not wanting to see her? Sad.
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M Apr 24

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    Definitely. A lover who is my best friend,

    the ultimate dream for me. But that would be my awakened flame.
    favestril favestril 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 21

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    I want a boyfriend who is 12

    or 13 and will love,care about me,and will come and maybe watch my games.
    itsallaboutmenatalie itsallaboutmenatalie 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I dont just want a realtionship they can hold

    you back. I also want a best friend that I can sleep with, hustle with, travel with, make love too, shop with, club with, and live with. I want a partner in crime, a life partner. Someone I can laugh with and bulid with. Someone I can trust with my heart, my money and my lyfe...
    Nobullshyt Nobullshyt 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 17

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    I don't want a boyfriend

    that I just have s*x with and cuddle with. Im glad I have a bf that laughs with, have a play fights or wrestling with, play station all night with, and act like best friends and lovers the same time.I have a boyfriend that like my best friend but still feel the love. I'm glad we...
    kylaaa kylaaa 13-15, F a week ago

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    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 35 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    my husband use to be my bff

    but recently things are changing
    loner2009 loner2009 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I love my best friend,

    I never told him even though we have sex regularly. But we don't talk about it, it just happens and sometimes i try to kiss him but he moves his face. I'm afraid to tell him that i want more than sex, and It really hurts to think one day he will just get tired and continue on...
    Skyglass Skyglass 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    He called me his number one best friend.

    I love him with every cell of my body. I'm so excited and happy about the future. I know it'll be a while before we're together solidly, but I'm so patient and this love is worth it. :)
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F Apr 21

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 5 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    I'm deeply, madly in love with my best friend

    and we're moving in together. He knows about my feelings, but he never says one word about his. If you'd see us together you'd probably think we're an item. We hold hands and we hug and we tease each other.. We even have sex regularly.. The one thing we don't do much is kiss...
    Zolaura Zolaura 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    It hurts when you've experienced this

    and then lose it. It haunts me that I'll never find a relationship like that again.
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 17 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 24 Responses Jan 10

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    I may not be your first love,

    first kiss, first sight, first date, I just want to be your last EVERYTHING.
    starr38 starr38 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 7

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 22

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    Everyone keeps asking me

    why I'm single. Well it's simple really ... Mr. Charming and I have yet to meet
    girlznglitter girlznglitter 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 23

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    lilimao lilimao 18-21, F 25 Responses Mar 1

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 6

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    Isn't this everyone's ultimate dream.

    Lately I've been thinking is it really necessary?Why can't the passion in the bedroom be all it could be without being your lovers best friend. sure you need to get along but to you need to be joined at the hips together 24 hours per day. I want my future lover to have many best...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    I have the best lover in the world,

    he's also my best friend, I can tell him anything and talk to him about things,I couldn't tell no one else,He is wonderful, and I love him with all my heart n more..Love You Handsome.
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 56-60, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    I've been using this app

    for 1 year , yet I can't find My boy bestfriend -.-
    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 15 Responses Apr 20

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 33 Responses Jan 19

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    I have yet to be in a serious relationship

    that is BOTH emotionally deep AND sexually fulfilling. I crave regular, exciting physical intimacy that ventures beyond the vanilla, in a meaningful romantic relationship with someone I truly love.
    Nomad811 Nomad811 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 16

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    It means so much more

    when you really care for the other person
    MarioHannety1 MarioHannety1 18-21, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    This is the perfect woman

    for me. She has to have the willingness to be completely with me in mind, body and soul. Their must never be any secrets between us and we must accept each other as we are. Believe it or not I have found her. Lucky Me
    tntbmi01 tntbmi01 66-70, M 3 Responses a week ago

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