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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    He came to see me tonight

    and looked me dead in the face and said I love you my heart is so open right now my soulmate, my air, my everything.. Just love him so much
    buggattihurts buggattihurts 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    I think my best friend is cute

    but i don't think he thinks of me that way I think he thinks of me as a cool girl who he can play video games with :(
    Cuteycake26 Cuteycake26 13-15, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want to be in a relationship with someone I

    trust and have fun with. I really don't need much else.
    racingSnail racingSnail 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    thecaptain2 thecaptain2 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Why can't I have I soul mate?

    Because I'm not cool enov for you<what can I do<just leave me alone she tells mewhy can't i fight
    MilesMathers MilesMathers 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My soulmate comes home today I can't wait to

    see him. And just smile and talk I truly wish things were different between us I have faith tht one day we will be one together.. Just love him so much..
    buggattihurts buggattihurts 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 11

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    Dang. I want someone I can just connect with.

    I want someone I can cuddle with and watch netflix. I want someone who'll go to the gym with me. I want someone who I can go for coffee with. I want someone I can hold and kiss and love whenever. I want someone I can be there for and have them be there for me. I want someone who...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 10

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    I'm lonely lol :/ I hope I can someday find my

    soul mate... If they even exist
    EdenShiloh EdenShiloh 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 29

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    I wish I had a guy best friend

    that is at least taller then me he doesn't have to be perfect but he does have to be there for me and i will be there for him then maybe we could fall in love and marry after we know we can't live without one other maybe I am just weird but I have always dreamed of having one by...
    nimy29 nimy29 13-15, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    My significant other is the first person I want

    to tell both good and bad news to.
    Luvhugeuptop Luvhugeuptop 46-50, M Oct 10

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 16-17, F 13 Responses Sep 12

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 3

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    BizzyEager BizzyEager 13-15, F 21 Responses Oct 6

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    Your Beauty....My Lady!

    What wonderful summer day. We both rise early. I go outside to mow the lawn and do some yard work. I return inside the house and promptly get in the shower. Once all freshened I enter our room, there you are sitting on the bed humming to yourself as you paint your toes...
    NorthernMan1966 NorthernMan1966 46-50, M 8 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    I feel that life would be

    so wonderful if 2 people fell in love solely based on personalities and they disregarded looks a first.
    H3lloK1tty H3lloK1tty 13-15, F 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I keep seeing this beautiful woman

    and want to ask her out but don't know what to say???
    furburger69 furburger69 26-30, M 6 Responses Oct 11

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    I just want a boyfriend more

    than anything right now. I'm tired of the meaningless sex and random hookups. It makes me feel cheap and it's not a good feeling. I want to love somebody and be loved back equally.
    markinicole markinicole 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 39 Responses Sep 11

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    zackisamazing zackisamazing 16-17, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was with my friend at a dance

    and a guy she didn't even know came up to her and told her that her necklace was pretty! Guys and girls need to do more things like that!
    H3lloK1tty H3lloK1tty 13-15, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want to be with a guy

    who loves to play video games, and perhaps tolerate my asian dramas hahaha and anime. That would be cool, someone who is my spouse, but who I can hang out with ; w ;
    tsukiyodesu tsukiyodesu 16-17, F 6 Responses Oct 6

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    I am lucky to say I have this,

    my lover is definitely my best friend. I joined EP almost a year ago (under a different profile). My first profile was very sexual in nature and I made a lot of friends and exchanged photos etc. Then in the middle of last year, my stepdaughter attempted suicide, the way I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 16

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    This is my dream!!! In a perfect world,

    this would happen! Hopefully I get to be lucky enough for this to happen!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I'm in love with me bestfriend.

    ...we stopped talking because of my ex but we're talking again and I had forgotten how much I care about him.....he's got a girlfriend.....the first time I saw him after starting to talk again we had sex....now he's blowing me off.....
    Indeciciveme Indeciciveme 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    A guy who likes what I like,

    someone I can have a two sided conversation with is definetly ideal :)
    quinn96 quinn96 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    I'm currently feeling deeply depressed about my

    marriage. My husband and I have nothing in common besides our children. He has no idea how disconnected I've become. I feel very alone.
    naynay817 naynay817 41-45, F 29 Responses Aug 12

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    xomariposaxo xomariposaxo 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 31

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    True love is hard to find,

    just like a best friend is rare. I want some one I can share every thought I have, good or bad. Love me for me and I'll love him for him.
    mistylovinglife mistylovinglife 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 30

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    Anyone wants to talk?

    Hmu! I'm bored and I like meeting new people and friends. (:
    KendrickLamarTho KendrickLamarTho 13-15, F 8 Responses Oct 6

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    TheEmberLeader TheEmberLeader 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think I won't ever be in a relationship.

    I soul-searched and realized that I am who I am, and there's no one who could change that. I think I don't deserve someone special in my life because of the principles I live with. I think, I'll have to conform to the society to get one because in order for you to have a healthy...
    crimsonr crimsonr 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 12

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    What I want and what I need are clearly

    becoming two separate things. I want a guy who is kind and caring and understanding. Someone who will ask me how my day was and make sure that I don't feel unnoticed. But what I need is someone to help me out of my shell. Someone bold and daring. I need someone who will be my...
    LostBoy9236 LostBoy9236 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 8

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    So in love with him and he doesn't feel the

    same. I told him tonight and he said nothin. He is my soulmate and my heart is heavy right now...
    buggattihurts buggattihurts 36-40, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I love my boyfriend but I don't think I want to

    be with him anymore... There has been too much pain on both parts and some things just can't be undone or unsaid. It hurts to even consider but I don't know if that's because I don't want to hurt him or because I don't want to end it.
    Crayonforhelp Crayonforhelp 18-21, F 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    I love meeting new people

    and befriending them sincerely, with no hidden agenda. Enjoying each other companion- intellectually, emotionally, spiritually and mentally. Sometimes sparks happen, sometimes it does not and it is okay. But I believe falling in love with best friend is the best because you don...
    peacefulhut peacefulhut 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 13

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    I want to kiss and be kissed - long,

    sweet, hungry kisses. I want your arms around me, pressing me close. I want to feel your hands and mouth caressing the contours of my body. And I also want to be able to banter with you, match wits, talk about ideas. Am I just being greedy, or expecting too much?
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    I cant believe I'm posting this,

    but if you truely want a lover who is your best friend you need to become true best friends before you become lovers. This means waiting to have sexual intimacy until you have emotional intimacy. If you dont wait, move on to the next.
    ahorsespal ahorsespal 41-45, M 10 Responses Jun 6

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    To all the people who I offended with my

    comment on me talking to people with ages 18-24 I'm truly sorry I've been getting msgs from more then one person with agree remarks towards me. I did not mean to hurt judge anyone who is older then me . I am 18 nd just graduated from high school in June . Growing up older man...
    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 15 Responses Sep 11

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    I'm trying to meet new people!

    Any guys or girls wanna talk? :P
    LittleMissLana LittleMissLana 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 6

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    I've only been madly in love once.

    ..this guy was my first everything! We could talk about anything! When we spent time together no matter where we were it felt as though we were the only two in the world! I thought he was my soulmate, but he cheated and that was the end. I've longed for this type relationship...
    itslovely23 itslovely23 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I need a personal trainer,

    someone to get hot and sweaty with, someone to have a shower with and then get hot and sweaty again ;)
    happyhel79 happyhel79 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 1

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    Can't wait to meet my king,

    loneliness is what I'm experiencing. I was Created to love and be loved🌟
    lovenlight84 lovenlight84 26-30, F 9 Responses Sep 29

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    I want someone, I mean somebody

    who would not only act as my boyfriend but also my bestfriend. That would laugh hard with me, hug me and make me feel safe and most especially would treat me well as a LADY.
    Quang1414 Quang1414 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    I feel so lonely and sad these days.

    I want a man who will be my shoulder to cry on, who loves travelling, who will share my interests with me, with whom I can always talk to, who will be always by my side and who will love me. I want a decent man who will love me and support me. He should be my savior when I fall...
    ScarlettMelanie84 ScarlettMelanie84 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want someone I can trust.

    Someone I can tell my deepest darkest secrets to. Someone to make me smile and laugh each and everyday. Someone that can make me smile just by hearing their name. Someone I can hug and he will never let go, and fall asleep in his arms. Pillow fights is a must. Someone to hold my...
    tltlc tltlc 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 1

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    zackisamazing zackisamazing 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    zackisamazing zackisamazing 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    zackisamazing zackisamazing 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 7

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    I really want a girl

    that can love me and want me every second but she's not on earth and I been single since I was born and I really want love
    nathegrate98 nathegrate98 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 10

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    I want him to understand

    and appreciate me fully..... I want to learn n grow with him. Can't wait to meet my best friend... When the time is right....
    lovenlight84 lovenlight84 26-30, F 15 Responses 2 days ago

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