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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    Dang. I want someone I can just connect with.

    I want someone I can cuddle with and watch netflix. I want someone who'll go to the gym with me. I want someone who I can go for coffee with. I want someone I can hold and kiss and love whenever. I want someone I can be there for and have them be there for me. I want someone who...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 10

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    My best friend Caroline

    and I share absolutely everything, yes even a boyfriend just over a year ago! We know exactly how the other feels, and contact each other just at the right time! It's uncanny sometimes! Yes, we have some lesbian fun together. It's essential. I'd like to find a man who I'd like...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 8 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    A guy who likes what I like,

    someone I can have a two sided conversation with is definetly ideal :)
    quinn96 quinn96 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    I want to be with someone

    who loves me for who I am not what I can do for them sexually. Sometimes being pretty and good looking attracts all the wrong guys and finding a guy to love me aside from me being pretty is not easy. I want to be married to my best friend. I believe love is friendship set on...
    flowerloverxxv flowerloverxxv 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 26

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    I come to realized that the opinionated Leo man

    animal magnetism,is sometimes viewed as arrogant by those who misunderstood him.
    Oldchap Oldchap 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    Yes! I'd love to be with a woman

    who is a lover and a friend. Someone to stand with me when things don't look so good, when I've tried my hardest but things still didn't turn out. Someone I can celebrate with during the good times and be sad with during the hard times.
    shymotorcyclerider shymotorcyclerider 46-50, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm So Glad Your With Me

    I so want to find the perfect woman for me , one that I miss when she's not there and cherish always . She'd be my pal to have fun with and tell all my secrets to . We can share lifes joys and sorrows and build each other up , cheer and comfort each other . We could be happy...
    Tanengreen Tanengreen 36-40, M 13 Responses Jan 28, 2010

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    Perfect Pairing

    Just as a wine would accompany a meal to add to and enhance the experience, having a lover who is also a best friend would be perfect to for the experience! Its great to have good sex and it good to have a close friend, but if you can combine the two it would be most excellent...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2013

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    I found myself having an affair with a man

    who has a girlfriend. I wanted it to be just that one time because I get attached, but he kept instigating and I kept seeing him. He has been out of touch now that his girl is back from a very long vacation and my heart is breaking. I know what I did was not the smartest, but I...
    earthyogi earthyogi 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 23

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    Would love to just have

    that special friend who is always there and always willing to be there for you and vice versa.
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I think I have achieved this.

    My fiance is probably the only true friend I have, a wonderful lover, a caring partner, and a happy and silly companion who always manages to make me smile. I am so glad he chose me over all the other women in the world as his lifelong partner.
    Meriyne Meriyne 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I long for a soul to connect with emotionally,

    mentally, spiritually, and physically. I daydream of having never-ending, meaningful conversations, but also having thoughts be spoken without a single word, as we continue our adventures on this earth together.
    rumblingheart rumblingheart 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Yes, exactly what I want a lover

    and best friend to hold and touch me in a loving way .
    JamieleeEchelon JamieleeEchelon 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 31

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    Endings are always a new beginning.

    I got divorced 5 years ago and since did really good things in my and my children's life. Many men approached me but i don't seem to meet the right man! I miss falling in love!!!!!!!
    fromvenus fromvenus 31-35, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 31

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    This is my dream!!! In a perfect world,

    this would happen! Hopefully I get to be lucky enough for this to happen!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    You know what I think ,

    I think the best lovers are those who know you inside out , who've grown with you and seen what you're capable of , yes they are your true friend indeed . I want my best friend to be my lover
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 28

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    I want to kiss and be kissed - long,

    sweet, hungry kisses. I want your arms around me, pressing me close. I want to feel your hands and mouth caressing the contours of my body. And I also want to be able to banter with you, match wits, talk about ideas. Am I just being greedy, or expecting too much?
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    Your Beauty....My Lady!

    What wonderful summer day. We both rise early. I go outside to mow the lawn and do some yard work. I return inside the house and promptly get in the shower. Once all freshened I enter our room, there you are sitting on the bed humming to yourself as you paint your toes...
    NorthernMan1966 NorthernMan1966 46-50, M 8 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    I want someone who will understand me like I

    will understand him. I want someone who will think I'm beautiful and I will be the only one girl his heart wants. I want a man who will cuddle with me, kiss me, make love to me, and spend a life with me. I want to nurture him and give him all of my affection.
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 26

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    I am lucky to say I have this,

    my lover is definitely my best friend. I joined EP almost a year ago (under a different profile). My first profile was very sexual in nature and I made a lot of friends and exchanged photos etc. Then in the middle of last year, my stepdaughter attempted suicide, the way I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 16

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    I can't wait to have

    that person in my life.
    mzkay1 mzkay1 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    You know in a relationship you guys are

    bestfriends😘 Madelyn in love ❤️ omg
    officialsophie officialsophie 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I found him and I plan on being with him

    for as long as we have together!! My best friend no matter what he always will be!
    elizabeth757 elizabeth757 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    You inspired the deepest most profound poetry I

    never thought I had the ability to write. You inspired the deepest most profound feelings that led me into an obsession with you. As much as I tried to reach you, you were always outside of my grasp. You were the inspiration behind thoughts and actions that could have destroyed...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 22

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    I cant believe I'm posting this,

    but if you truely want a lover who is your best friend you need to become true best friends before you become lovers. This means waiting to have sexual intimacy until you have emotional intimacy. If you dont wait, move on to the next.
    ahorsespal ahorsespal 41-45, M 10 Responses Jun 6

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    Scrollin thru and seen this.

    ..and my mind thought about it til my heart ached about too... Sucks to want.
    SShawnO SShawnO 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    grace9393 grace9393 18-21, F 12 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    You'll be surprised to know how far you can go

    from the point where you thought it was the end,It's a long road when you face the world alone, when no one reaches out a hand for you to hold
    davidayala davidayala 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    A bad break up and then didn't care

    and a man who cared so deeply it made me cry which one of you are real why is my heart breaking for both of you?
    rubysmom rubysmom 51-55, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    what does tht mean exactly i often wondered

    about tht we share things with our BFF but some of those things we share are about our partners how can we be a best friend with our partner in that way example one may say to a BFF i love me man/woman but sometimes making love gets boring or i think of someone else tht gets me...
    AlexT45 AlexT45 51-55, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm feeing good really good

    but no one here with me but daddy. Life sucks too
    newway98 newway98 13-15, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    I feel so lonely like everyday I cry myself to

    sleep thinking I will never be good enough for any of my crushes 😔
    bbriianna bbriianna 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    IamGods IamGods 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I want to be in a relationship with someone I

    trust and have fun with. I really don't need much else.
    racingSnail racingSnail 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 7

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    I've been sleeping with an acquaintance

    for the last month. He stays the whole night, sometimes at my place, sometimes at his. We can be rough and nasty, or sweet and tender. He calls my name during sex over and over, telling me how f'able I am, how good I feel, how good the sex is. He sends me texts during the day...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    newway98 newway98 13-15, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    Stolen Moments

    Like all relationships mine is not perfect. We work on it. Go through our ups and downs. I get frustrated. He gets frustrated. We distance ourselves but then we grow closer. And it seems that every time we grow closer its from a stolen moment. The early morning coffees snuggling...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 9 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    Wouldn't That Be Cool?

    Like, just having someone for you that is someone you trust wholeheartedly. I saw this post on instagram that said..."work on building friendships, not love. Then maybe you will marry your best friend." I daydream...a lot. And maybe I have unrealistic expectations in my head...
    universesoul universesoul 16-17, F 7 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I just realized I want alot just a full

    relationship love and sex and kissing and more sex sex sex!!! Wtf is wrong with me. He needs to be there for me wen I'm sad then we can have sex. When I'm angry with him makeup sex. Good morning sex, I just got home from a hard day at work sex. Okay I love sex!!!!
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 9

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    I would love for him to be my best friend first

    and then slowly overtime we fall madly in love. He would be my homie, my bestie, my lover. Our relationship would be far from boring, because we connected from the beginning because of our personalities. We would play videos games, joke around and kiss for hours.
    CheyenneScott CheyenneScott 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 6

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    Okay let me start by saying I'm 19

    and I am in a relationship with a beautiful girl who is 17. We live on the same block and have been dating two weeks after met a year ago. We've had such a great time getting to know eachother over this past year and she honestly is the love of my life and I'm her's... I know...
    djwdjw19 djwdjw19 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I will be the reason of your sleepless nights.

    You have no appetite not because you belong to nobody. But because – for your pity – you are not mine… You see me in every guy you meet, but I am not there. I will spare you and give you a piece of advice. Don’t wait too long, do something! Decipher me with your code...
    kipross44 kipross44 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    I sit here and wonder

    when I will find that perfect someone. I then begin to wonder if it is someone I already know. I wish I could find that sweet, caring, sensitive, active, animal loving guy. Only time will tell if Mr. right is out there
    Cta112 Cta112 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My Best Friend

    I once shared a year with a person who was, indeed my best friend. We shared every moment that we could. We made love with a passion that was beyond compare. we Talked into the wee hours, we danced, we made stir-fry at three in the morning and ate it before going to work after a...
    brokerichard brokerichard 56-60, M 5 Responses May 8, 2012

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    Wondering this life journey I often wonder

    why I haven't found that one. It must be ask to much or maybe expect to little! Whether or not I find that one I'll love life and enjoy my great family and friebds that surround me always!
    sillynilly231 sillynilly231 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm currently feeling deeply depressed about my

    marriage. My husband and I have nothing in common besides our children. He has no idea how disconnected I've become. I feel very alone.
    naynay817 naynay817 41-45, F 31 Responses a week ago

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    Honesty and comfortable silence,

    is all I need out of somebody. But what I really want, and what would get those butterflies going, is someone encouraging me and all of my potential... someone who believes in me.
    JayMateus JayMateus 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    it's really hard to find good girls down here

    in Florida that are attractive to me as well :|. and when i find one i like i tend to **** it up because i'm weird and awkward but, inevitably this is what i want.
    KuTcH KuTcH 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    As His day, Grows ever near.

    Looking around me, It's all quite clear. I need to buy cards, And maybe some candy. Comb my hair, And dress real dandy. Who should I ask, I know what to say. Will you be mine, This Valentines day. This is my year, I know it's true. I have faith, He won't leave me blue. Oh...
    Panth69 Panth69 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I love meeting new people

    and befriending them sincerely, with no hidden agenda. Enjoying each other companion- intellectually, emotionally, spiritually and mentally. Sometimes sparks happen, sometimes it does not and it is okay. But I believe falling in love with best friend is the best because you don...
    peacefulhut peacefulhut 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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