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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    She was my lover and my bestfriend.

    So when she decided to broke up with me, it almost kill me. I just wish that I'll wake up one day and I wont love her anymore.
    midnightthoughtsofyou midnightthoughtsofyou 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    He called me his number one best friend.

    I love him with every cell of my body. I'm so excited and happy about the future. I know it'll be a while before we're together solidly, but I'm so patient and this love is worth it. :)
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F Apr 21

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    Being single means you can realize what you

    really want, and wait for the right one is worthwhile :)
    Sungood Sungood 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    I'm glad I had a boyfriend

    who act like a lovers and best friend at the same time ???
    kylaaa kylaaa 13-15, F Apr 26

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 6

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    I don't think I could ever be I'm a relationship

    before being friends first. ????
    cheesecake41121 cheesecake41121 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 35 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 22

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    I have the best lover in the world,

    he's also my best friend, I can tell him anything and talk to him about things,I couldn't tell no one else,He is wonderful, and I love him with all my heart n more..Love You Handsome.
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 56-60, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I want you to know I'm yours.

    To know that my mind body and soul are devoted to your love. I want you to feel my presence when I walk through the room and scoop you up. Know that this our time to explore our desires needs and wants. I want you to be the outlet of my needs, the needs of a man whose heart is...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 23

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 31-35, F 24 Responses Mar 9

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    Everyone keeps asking me

    why I'm single. Well it's simple really ... Mr. Charming and I have yet to meet
    girlznglitter girlznglitter 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 24

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I don't want a boyfriend

    that I just have s*x with and cuddle with. Im glad I have a bf that laughs with, have a play fights or wrestling with, play station all night with, and act like best friends and lovers the same time.I have a boyfriend that like my best friend but still feel the love. I'm glad we...
    kylaaa kylaaa 13-15, F Apr 26

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    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    mycatisbettrthanyurs mycatisbettrthanyurs 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 8

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    lilimao lilimao 18-21, F 25 Responses Mar 1

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    I thought we had it at one time.

    .. Now it has been months since we have been romantic. And you have been traveling for a week. When I messaged you 'I love you!' No reply. It saddens me. But I know bringing it up would just exasurbate you. I hold onto the one time, maybe a year or more ago, when you told me...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 21

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    i have done my love marriage 3 years ago

    and i have a baby but i am not happy in this relstionship ....
    123reshu90 123reshu90 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 19

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    Isn't this everyone's ultimate dream.

    Lately I've been thinking is it really necessary?Why can't the passion in the bedroom be all it could be without being your lovers best friend. sure you need to get along but to you need to be joined at the hips together 24 hours per day. I want my future lover to have many best...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    Passion is hell important.

    . But not as important as the capability to effectively communicate.. When you find it useless to talk or you realise you couldn't bear yourself to listen.. that's it.. you're doomed.. some people you just click right away, some you just found yrself so tolerate despite the...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    My entire life I have been friends with girls.

    I just get along better with them than with guys. Inevitably though, the flirting begins, and I usually end up with a crush on them. I really enjoy that kind of tension. Sometimes it leads to something physical, sometimes not. Now I'm in a sexless marriage, yet she is my best...
    open2anything1976 open2anything1976 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    It hurts when you've experienced this

    and then lose it. It haunts me that I'll never find a relationship like that again.
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 17 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    My story is very complicated

    and also very simple. The simple part is I'm in love with my former best friend. Everything else is complicated. We met 10 years ago when she came to interview at my place of business. We clicked FAST. I started noticing she was waiting for me to leave every night so we...
    deedist deedist 41-45, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 24 Responses Jan 10

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    I have yet to be in a serious relationship

    that is BOTH emotionally deep AND sexually fulfilling. I crave regular, exciting physical intimacy that ventures beyond the vanilla, in a meaningful romantic relationship with someone I truly love.
    Nomad811 Nomad811 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 16

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    I'm deeply, madly in love with my best friend

    and we're moving in together. He knows about my feelings, but he never says one word about his. If you'd see us together you'd probably think we're an item. We hold hands and we hug and we tease each other.. We even have sex regularly.. The one thing we don't do much is kiss...
    Zolaura Zolaura 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I love my best friend,

    I never told him even though we have sex regularly. But we don't talk about it, it just happens and sometimes i try to kiss him but he moves his face. I'm afraid to tell him that i want more than sex, and It really hurts to think one day he will just get tired and continue on...
    Skyglass Skyglass 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 26

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    I realized something recently about a situation

    I was in. I realized this person had more feelings for me than I ever dare dreamed. This person was at the very least falling for me. I was to blind to see it. Like someone once told me. "Never regret or be sorry for what u do." So I suppose I need to look at this situation that...
    WickedlilAngel WickedlilAngel 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    I may not be your first love,

    first kiss, first sight, first date, I just want to be your last EVERYTHING.
    starr38 starr38 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 7

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    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    Hopefully the next time around

    though I won't fall for my straight best friend. It was brutal enough the first time.
    ch24 ch24 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    This would be the ultimate.

    To find my soul mate...le sigh.
    hillmama hillmama 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    that one person who makes your day better just

    by calling you beautiful. love him. :D
    threesomechic threesomechic 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I do declare that i fed up,

    its two years passed on my last love. why i can't cope with this situation?!
    lighthearted01 lighthearted01 22-25, M Apr 26

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    ...but as nice as that sounds in romance films

    and novels, it doesn't seem to translate very well in my real life experiences. In past relationships, the "best friend" element tends to cool the passionate, sexual side of my relationships. We get so comfortable. It's kind of funny that a year after the break up, an ex of...
    xiamara xiamara 26-30, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    This is the perfect woman

    for me. She has to have the willingness to be completely with me in mind, body and soul. Their must never be any secrets between us and we must accept each other as we are. Believe it or not I have found her. Lucky Me
    tntbmi01 tntbmi01 66-70, M 3 Responses Apr 26

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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