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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    I have that. I have someone in my life

    who loves me flaws and all. Loves me on my good days and my bad days. I can tell my fears, hopes and dreams to without fear. We read each other's minds. My lover and I are a united team on the quest to reach a level of love that has never been discovered before. My lover is my...
    solostance solostance 31-35, T 1 Response Jan 28

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    My best friend. I love her.

    I can't stop loving her. We have been best friends for 4 years now and I've loved her for 3. This feeling inside of me I've never been able to get rid of. She damn right drop dead gorgeous! However I found out a total of 4 days ago...she likes me too. She said herself she loves...
    thebatman1234 thebatman1234 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 31-35, F 17 Responses Mar 9, 2015

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    I really would like to find a lover

    who is also my friend. It sounds so simple, but it is difficult to find at times.
    virginialady virginialady 41-45, F 16 Responses Oct 1, 2015

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    I used to have one of those.

    .. A lover that was my best friend too. I really dont believe its ever possible to have again. I have too much baggage and chaos in my life for that to ever happen. Still, I remain hopeful.
    deadgirlsfairytale deadgirlsfairytale 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 29, 2015

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    And one day, it just happened.

    Exactly a month ago. Maybe it was the magic that Christmas brings, but that day changed my life forever. It was the day that we saw each other with different eyes and desperately wanted to end the night with a kiss. After 5 years of being best friends, we wanted more. And it was...
    hopelesslyromantic hopelesslyromantic 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 24, 2015

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    looking 4 a girlfriend fun wild play mommy

    other things i want to try something new never did this before so your my frist
    babbyboo14 babbyboo14 13-15, F Jan 23

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    Do you ever see two people

    so in love that it makes your heart ache? Because they are so happy and you want more than anything to find something as beautiful as what they have?
    vischismileyface vischismileyface 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 24

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 14 Responses Mar 23, 2015

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    i actually had one.. we were together going on

    4 years in june.. and he basically chose another female over me.. like how does that even work after all this time ? i feel so lost. i left the city, moved back home.. and now im having to learn how do it all over again.. the nights are the hardest part for me.. i get...
    reddmarie reddmarie 18-21, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    I think more people want this

    than actually have it.
    WonderingWillow11 WonderingWillow11 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 8, 2015

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    lilimao lilimao 22-25, F 23 Responses Mar 1, 2015

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    I've Found It Once,The Perfect Girl Made

    Especially For Me..She Was My Best Friend and Lover.This Girl Would Tell Me,That Every Moment We Were Together,She'd Have Butterflies In Her Stomach.I Fell Madly and Deeper In Love With Her Every Single Day. BUT,Will I Ever Find That Type Of Love Again? Will I Ever Find Another...
    BiggBeautifulBri BiggBeautifulBri 46-50, M Jan 27

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    We just met, but we're in love!

    And I want to be her best friend...
    Pauly1904 Pauly1904 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 26

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    I want a boyfriend...

    Or atleast a friend
    Eunbi55 Eunbi55 22-25, F 27 Responses Jul 19, 2015

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    OK well to start off I'm dating this guy.

    we have been dating going on 8 months.he's in the army so we don't get to see each other all the time..that's OK keeps are relationship new I guess you can say..but anyway..in a year he will be going back home....some days I feel like I'm wasting my time because we won't be...
    lilfish lilfish 26-30, F Jan 31

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    i had him, then he left

    for another girl..
    xsarah15x xsarah15x 13-15, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 24, 2015

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    My boyfriend is my best friend!

    Your partner SHOULD be your best friend and you should want to do everything together, and hang out, and go on adventures, and tell each other your secrets. Your partner should know you completely - the good, the bad, and the ugly, and love you anyway. I just see my bf as a...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 26-30, F 5 Responses May 28, 2015

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    like seriously who doesn't?

    but nowadays nobody's into relationships it's just all about hookups smh
    KayNfs KayNfs 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    I wish I had a relationship

    where we were best friends and lovers
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Sep 30, 2015

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    My name is Anthony and I'm 23yrs old The part

    hard is waiting for the right woman to come in to my life. I want a lover who is also my best friend
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    A lover who can equally give the love I give to

    him. A lover who understands and can go with the flow with me. A lover who is not just my lover, but can also be ny bestfriend.
    sweetoats sweetoats 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want to be the one

    that you fall helplessly inlove with forever. The one you grab hold of when you go to bed and take into your dreams. I wanna be the one that knows the shape of your lips when u speak. I wanna know every tone of ur voice, every laughter, every..shiver in your body. I wanna know...
    Ro5e Ro5e 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I met someone, he has no clue what I just went

    through, but I hope that I'm the one for him??
    vf702 vf702 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Someone i can talk to about anything.

    Someone who isn't judgemental. who will be there for me. And i will return all in kind. Someone who loves to have late night conversations. Someone who isn't afraid to show their emotions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 31 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    It is only recently that I truly understand

    what a partner is, what it means to have someone who makes you more than you are simply by being by your side. Legitimately your better half
    foolishwiseguy foolishwiseguy 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Everybody just wants to be somebody's favorite.

    No, everybody wants to be their favorite's favorite.
    QueenVenus QueenVenus 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 26, 2015

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    sweetjuicebaby20 sweetjuicebaby20 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 12

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 31 Responses Jan 19, 2015

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    My bf and I are good.

    But when it comes to interests, personality and likes etc. we are so different. I love him and I know he loves me, as said by the horses mouth, but are we right for each other? We get into arguments because of our differences - so do many couples, but when it comes to things...
    randomyoungwoman randomyoungwoman 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    I want a lover that can be emotionally

    connected to me, to have a amazing chemistry with me, but to be able to be goofy and laugh. someone that doesn't take themselves too serious, but has a balance in work and play. I love to laugh and make love. I believe in humor, honesty, respect and passion is a perfect...
    looking4chemistry looking4chemistry 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 28

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 27

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    I want someone I can count on,

    that will be home when I get there and be happy when I get home, or I can greet happily when he gets home. We won't need TV or Internet to take up our time. We'll sit together, cuddle and make up stories.
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 8 Responses Oct 7, 2015

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    I want you to know I'm yours.

    To know that my mind body and soul are devoted to your love. I want you to feel my presence when I walk through the room and scoop you up. Know that this our time to explore our desires needs and wants. I want you to be the outlet of my needs, the needs of a man whose heart is...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Zil007 Zil007 22-25, M 7 Responses Nov 29, 2015

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    Okay so this is how it goes.

    I have fallen for my best friend. I am in love with her. We just met some 8 months ago. But we became really close, REALLY fast. When we met she had a boyfriend. A pretty horrible one. So we helped her move on from him because he was basically destroying her life. However, she...
    GuybrushThreepwood455 GuybrushThreepwood455 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    And they said dating your bestfriend wouldn't

    work out, psht! I think the secret to having a good relationship with someone, is to have a good FRIENDship with them. Maybe that's why people break up, they stop liking each other and the friendship dies. So... make sure you communicate with and respect your partner in order...
    Ro5e Ro5e 18-21, F 13 Responses Oct 4, 2015

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 22 Responses Jan 10, 2015

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    Hubby has been embarrassed about his sexuality

    for some time and recently has been telling me that he should have been born as a woman. Had I know this a couple of years ago when we began dating, I would never have married him. Yes, I am still in love with him, but we don’t get intimate now because he feels uncomfortable...
    dottypuddinghead dottypuddinghead 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 31

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