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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 74,849 People

    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 22

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Isn't this everyone's ultimate dream.

    Lately I've been thinking is it really necessary?Why can't the passion in the bedroom be all it could be without being your lovers best friend. sure you need to get along but to you need to be joined at the hips together 24 hours per day. I want my future lover to have many best...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I need you. Because I'm the best me

    when I'm with you. because when you are gone, nothing feels right until you return.
    starr38 starr38 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    He called me his number one best friend.

    I love him with every cell of my body. I'm so excited and happy about the future. I know it'll be a while before we're together solidly, but I'm so patient and this love is worth it. :)
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    It hurts when you've experienced this

    and then lose it. It haunts me that I'll never find a relationship like that again.
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 18 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    Why is it so hard to find a good girl

    that knows what she want!
    yevin1899 yevin1899 26-30, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    badmind24 badmind24 22-25, M Apr 12

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 33 Responses Jan 19

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    Definitely. A lover who is my best friend,

    the ultimate dream for me. But that would be my awakened flame.
    favestril favestril 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 24 Responses Jan 10

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    connection and affection,

    smiles and pet names.
    paulawala paulawala 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I thought we had it at one time.

    .. Now it has been months since we have been romantic. And you have been traveling for a week. When I messaged you 'I love you!' No reply. It saddens me. But I know bringing it up would just exasurbate you. I hold onto the one time, maybe a year or more ago, when you told me...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Or two. Or three. Yep.

    More than one.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 16

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    mrscrowley mrscrowley 18-21, F 5 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kayccaa kayccaa 26-30, F Apr 16

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    does anyone feel sad

    and afraid that there is a chance you might never find a boyfriend/girlfriend who cares about and wants the same things you do?
    meeshkapie meeshkapie 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 12

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 5 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 31 Responses Jan 6

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    I may not be your first love,

    first kiss, first sight, first date, I just want to be your last EVERYTHING.
    starr38 starr38 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 7

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    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 24

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kayccaa kayccaa 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 26-30, F 24 Responses Mar 9

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    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    mycatisbettrthanyurs mycatisbettrthanyurs 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 8

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    I dont just want a realtionship they can hold

    you back. I also want a best friend that I can sleep with, hustle with, travel with, make love too, shop with, club with, and live with. I want a partner in crime, a life partner. Someone I can laugh with and bulid with. Someone I can trust with my heart, my money and my lyfe...
    Nobullshyt Nobullshyt 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    bruhboi bruhboi 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I don't think I could ever be I'm a relationship

    before being friends first. ????
    cheesecake41121 cheesecake41121 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Hopefully the next time around

    though I won't fall for my straight best friend. It was brutal enough the first time.
    ch24 ch24 22-25, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Clothes, Cars, Homes & Money does not define a

    "G00d Man".... Character, Morality,Respect & Honesty do.. Do u agree with Me..????
    L0ve4every1 L0ve4every1 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 14

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    zaryab00 zaryab00 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    Everyone keeps asking me

    why I'm single. Well it's simple really ... Mr. Charming and I have yet to meet
    girlznglitter girlznglitter 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    I never get into a relationship with someone

    when I don't want that person to be my best friend.
    Anachiiswa Anachiiswa 18-21, F Apr 15

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    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    This would be the ultimate.

    To find my soul mate...le sigh.
    hillmama hillmama 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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    dreamydoc dreamydoc 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 35 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I want you to know I'm yours.

    To know that my mind body and soul are devoted to your love. I want you to feel my presence when I walk through the room and scoop you up. Know that this our time to explore our desires needs and wants. I want you to be the outlet of my needs, the needs of a man whose heart is...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Sad... Heading home after a week

    and a half apart and things are so weird with her these days, so unsure, so unromantic... I don't look forward to seeing her. There was a time I would have said she was my best friend. But not wanting to see her? Sad.
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 13 hrs ago

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