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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 77,828 People

    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 24 Responses Jan 10

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    I'm having trouble in my relationship & I feel

    it's bc we are not good friends ... i dont feel a closness or fufilled by our life together. .. it's driving me crazy bc any thing I say gets taken wrong & I feel like both of our guards are in defense mode... we've been living together for 3 years known each other 5 with 1.5...
    JLynn321 JLynn321 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I need some one who is going to love me

    for me . And let me love them for who they are . Not what we can give to each other. Is there even any one out there like that .
    gmoody01 gmoody01 31-35, M 5 Responses May 16

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    lilimao lilimao 18-21, F 25 Responses Mar 1

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    I wish I could have this with a girl.

    My last relationship was unsuccessful, and I really need someone to get to know so that I don't take my ex back (which I would hate to do). I am kind and will treat anyone right who will give me the opportunity.
    deliriouslydreaming deliriouslydreaming 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    If your gf had medical issues

    when would you like to know?
    bgirl24 bgirl24 22-25, F 8 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I slowly fell in love with my best friend

    since the first day i met him. Recently he kissed me on the sunniest day and told me he loves me, ended his relationship and now we are both happier than we have ever been. Never give up hope, sometimes dreams come true.
    irdeacon irdeacon 18-21, F 3 Responses May 16

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    Not just a bestfriend,

    a working out buddy who would motivate you to challenge yourself everyday, a pillow to cry out how the world is so cruel and harsh, a diary to account whats been bothering you the whole day and whats the next big thing on your mind, a reason to smile when you wake up, a soulmate...
    TheLeftBehind TheLeftBehind 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Julieccaa Julieccaa 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    I divorced my lover cos she cheated

    and denied it even when i caught her. i decided to love and give my heart to anyone who deserve it.cos love is all that matters
    Goodluck1964 Goodluck1964 46-50, M May 15

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    What I want is to be needed.

    What I need is to be indispensable to somebody. Who I need is somebody that will eat up all my free time, my ego & my attention too. Somebody addicted to me. The untold mutual addiction. And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.. I really need her.. I am...
    bornhunter bornhunter 31-35, M 3 Responses May 19

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    He may not be my lover now.

    .and maybe never will be again..but he was once. And I still adore him...more than I should. Honestly, if he wanted me, I'd go back to him.
    mystiere13 mystiere13 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yeah I'm a guy who takes the idea of being a

    relationship really seriously, I mean potentially you're dealing with someone else's feelings...so I guess really it goes without saying. But we know that the world doesn't work that way, people get rewarded for being less than just; mediocrity pays off and so on. I just...
    Endlesshelix Endlesshelix 26-30, M 13 Responses 1 day ago

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    any girl seriously looking

    for a sincere boy friend. ..msg me
    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M May 17

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 5 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    connection and affection,

    smiles and pet names.
    paulawala paulawala 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    A short Sweet And cute romantic love story

    starts here — One day god send a chair to Two Lovers… The specialty of that chair was that the person sitting on it if says TRUTH, Then the GREEN lite would blink ‘n if person sitting on it says LIE, Then RED lite would blink…. Boy sat on the chair.. GIRL-Do you LOVE me...
    nolies91 nolies91 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Definitely have to learn

    and connect with someone before I go further. Can't just jump into something, knowing nothing. I like to learn about someone and let something develop. Makes the connection stronger and more valuable.
    DamnDeathEaters DamnDeathEaters 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    that one person who makes your day better just

    by calling you beautiful. love him. :D
    threesomechic threesomechic 18-21, F 4 Responses May 5

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    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    I have never met a guy

    that actually feels this way
    almonjoiii almonjoiii 26-30, F 11 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    With only two days space from a 3 year

    relationship ending, I see things so much more clearly than I allowed myself while we were dating and engaged! Almost like infra red... I see how much I want in a romance by what my life have been lacking in my previous ones! Imagine a love who lights up when they see you...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 5 Responses May 16

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 6

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    "A knight in shining armor may look good on

    paperbut they tend to rust awaywhen the storms within and around me rage.Instead give me a warrior, battle worn and true.Who will fightbeside mewith meand for me.And stand steadfastnaked and undauntedin the eye of the hurricanethat I can become.A real manmade of flesh and...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 5 Responses May 16

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 17 Responses Mar 23

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    Before you ask me out,

    be my friend for at least a year.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just think that it would be easier to be

    completely honest with one's significant other if they were friends, at least in my case. I don't know why most guys don't like being friends first- if one can't be like a friend at first, how would they be able to get to the point of being "MORE than a friend?!" ... At least...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 5 Responses May 17

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    I never experience love.

    Am 24year old male. What does that say about me?
    vdksmiles vdksmiles 22-25, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 31-35, F 24 Responses Mar 9

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 24

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    I'll be honest. I'm a lonely guy.

    All I really want out of life is someone to be with. Someone I can talk to. Someone I can hold at night and know that we love each other. I like video games, reading, cooking, anime, and swimming (even though I can't swim). I'd love to get to know you! So please, if your...
    tf2medic tf2medic 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    am I dreaming.forget you forget us forever

    now a memory. I know your out there somewhere far away. I look at the night sky!are you looking ?do you see our star? am I alone looking at her I've never heard your sweet song . would you sing for us? count the stars with me my love.as time fades away and entropy wins!it...
    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 1 Response May 18

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    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 8

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    Love is when I can't pay attention in class

    because I'm too busy writing my first name with his last name.
    Ladyinlove1 Ladyinlove1 36-40, F 4 Responses May 15

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    In my opinion, if you don't still like the

    person after breaking up you shouldn't have gone out at all. Do people ever get to know people first nowadays? Lol
    lordbuttfucker lordbuttfucker 18-21, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 22

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    I had that once. It's really the best.

    I hope everyone can experience that at some point in their lives. :)
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw 16-17, F 1 Response May 19

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    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 5 Responses May 10

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