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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    I'm not QUITE crazy enough to actively look

    for a lover in a place like this, but I may as well share the fact that I sincerely want one. I hope to find a wife who is pure, kind, patient, loving, playful, sweet, and warmhearted. I had all but given up, but recently I've met a few women here and there that have the type...
    anon8369 anon8369 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    SolitaireGent SolitaireGent 41-45, M Aug 16

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    I want someone who can be my friend

    before my lover. I want someone who knows me better than I know myself. I want someone to love me just the way he loves me in my dreams. I imagine being alone but I crave that connection. I am feeling so incomplete and I know it's all in my own decision making.
    BreakingTheRules BreakingTheRules 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    well, my lover has been my friend

    for like 3 years, we weren't tgat close but as we started getting closer he yurned from a friend to a best friend. after no time i fell madly in love with him and that's how my best friend became my bf.
    Faten99 Faten99 13-15, F Aug 14

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    Jessicaliners Jessicaliners 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 8

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    My boyfriend is my best friend!

    Your partner SHOULD be your best friend and you should want to do everything together, and hang out, and go on adventures, and tell each other your secrets. Your partner should know you completely - the good, the bad, and the ugly, and love you anyway. I just see my bf as a...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28

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    I am no stranger to this kind of relationship.

    It is the best one there is.
    Evabeth Evabeth 26-30, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    My fiance is definitely my best friend :)

    Wouldn't change it for anything! We made the 2 cutest kids too!
    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 28 Responses Jan 6

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    It hurts when you've experienced this

    and then lose it. It haunts me that I'll never find a relationship like that again.
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 15 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    that one person who makes your day better just

    by calling you beautiful. love him. :D
    threesomechic threesomechic 18-21, F 3 Responses May 5

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    I think I need to explain my whole situation.

    I'm a part of a group of three. Me, another guy, and a girl. I've known the guy for a few years but we were never very close before this year. Before he and I became close though, I became close with the girl. I never even knew her well at all before last school year until she...
    pkmncq pkmncq 22-25, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    i honestly just want a boyfriend.

    a lover who is also my best friend. being in college i realize now how cool a boyfriend would be... it would make my life a little more complete. when there's no friends or everyones busy i could just hit them up. i see all my friends talking about/to there boyfriends and im...
    4EVRANDEVR 4EVRANDEVR 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    A best friend can make a good lover.

    because friend's know about us everything..we told them all.they understand us...
    Najdia Najdia 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 29 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    this is dream of mine.

    .I mean that would be the ultimate combination to have with your significant other..understanding ea h other and being comfortable to ea h other Nd be understanding to one's needs ...perfect combination to me
    damonandrew damonandrew 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 6 Responses May 10

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 31-35, F 22 Responses Mar 9

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    lilimao lilimao 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 1

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    I want a boyfriend...

    Or atleast a friend
    Eunbi55 Eunbi55 22-25, F 29 Responses Jul 19

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses Feb 22

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    I wish that I could have a girls friend

    and a best friend.. Someone that I can tell her when I am happy sad angry excited..
    itssjose18 itssjose18 18-21, M Aug 18

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    I want to be able to laugh with them,

    be my goofy self with them, and know all of the little things that makes them so lovable. I think relationships die when you stop asking questions, when you no longer think it is necessary to get to know your partner. People are always changing, your boyfriend or girlfriend or...
    mehear mehear 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    love is a wonderful feeling,

    am living the life i meant for me.thanks to dr faust a spell caster i met here..my love life is back..thanks Faust..if u are having issues in any issues of life.......thanks to him my husband came back.give him a try +447035914441
    rosemyers rosemyers 51-55, F Aug 17

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    am seeking for a woman

    that will love me..from age 45 to 55.for a serious relationship..
    woodyalbert woodyalbert 51-55, M Aug 17

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    I broke up with my girlfriend two months ago.

    I say "broke up" but it's more like "escaped from". She was abusive and I tried to leave her multiple times but couldn't get away. Now she's gone I really want something special. I want to find someone I can laugh with and act stupid in front of but also someone who'll care for...
    ECH0o ECH0o 16-17, T 2 Responses a week ago

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    I am a very hopeful person

    but when it comes to dating I really have no more hope.it just makes me sad. I'm still young I'm only 28 but I end up dating the wrong men that don't appreciate me or treat me the way I deserve to be treated. is something wrong with me? I'm just tired of dating the wrong guys
    soulmates1 soulmates1 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 16

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    I don't know if I'm in love.

    I have been with this girl for the past 3 years. I don't know what is love. I don't know if I love her. What is love supposed to feel like? Elation? Pure happiness? Please help me.
    macbooklover123 macbooklover123 36-40, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 19

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    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 24

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    I believe its better to start off

    as friends then lovers works with me and my girl.
    Rybear23 Rybear23 22-25, M Aug 17

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    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 33 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Hold me. Kiss me. Hug me.

    Laugh with me. Cuddle me. Share with me. Dance with me. Sing with me. Cook with me. Cry with me. Act like 5 year olds with me. Fall with me. Fly with me. Run away with me. Catch me. Do anything with me. But most of all, love me.
    MotionlessinH MotionlessinH 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    I'm confused. my best friend.

    . the one I grew up with, just told me she is in love with me..? she ignored me for weeks, pushed me away and didn't want to see me. I love her so much.. but I don't know if I have feelings for her. she is amazing and beautiful.. but I don't know if stuff would work out between...
    ssweetdisspositionn ssweetdisspositionn 18-21, F 23 Responses 2 days ago