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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 31-35, F 23 Responses Mar 9

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    happilygay2day happilygay2day 61-65, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 23

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 22

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    Well I can say that having your lover

    as your best friend is the ideal but in my experience if you start as best friends it's not always a good idea to change it into a lover . Humans fall in lust "have chemistry" then love develops ... Maybe even best friends if your lucky . That is the logical way to have your...
    roes55 roes55 56-60, F 1 Response a week ago

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    lilimao lilimao 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 1

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    I met him while in training.

    My mind was set on finishing training and not finding love. I made that clear to him.... I actually told him I had a significant other back at home and I was too stressed to pursue anything with him. He was persistsnt. Not in a pushy creepy kind of way but he let it be known...
    inhouston832 inhouston832 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Ever it's really hard to solve love problems.

    .. It's always irrational, right??
    actionluva actionluva 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    My lover is my best friend,

    but it is a mess. Where to begin, and it will be a bit lengthy. I will call him D and we met when we were 11. It has been the same bond since we first met. I realized I loved him in my very early teens. But as a young male he was oblivious. I watched him and was often the 3rd...
    dfclifton55 dfclifton55 56-60, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    my gf treats me like crap

    and i can't stand it anymore. she's really controlling and nasty towards me and literally NEVER wants to be close to me any more. i feel so alone all the time and her constant telling me what i can and can't do is making me lose who i am as a person. i can't even talk to women...
    lonelyandhurtguy lonelyandhurtguy 22-25, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    HI I'm Looking For a Girlfriend

    who care about me love me and I will love here and take care of here and know more about each other text me if you think you are the one
    Adnane20301 Adnane20301 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Its been four years ago

    but the smile of these woman still dominates my mind. She's my English teacher during my senior years in high school. We became friends and I became her best buddy. At first, I thought it was just an ordinary student-teacher relationship until one day, I find myself thinking...
    Shine26 Shine26 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    kylee19 kylee19 18-21, M a week ago

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    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 8

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    Yeah I'm a guy who takes the idea of being a

    relationship really seriously, I mean potentially you're dealing with someone else's feelings...so I guess really it goes without saying. But we know that the world doesn't work that way, people get rewarded for being less than just; mediocrity pays off and so on. I just...
    Endlesshelix Endlesshelix 26-30, M 14 Responses May 26

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 19

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 6

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    Why is it so hard to find an engaging,

    non-smothery person who has values and goals and can say what they mean? One of the truly great mysteries of the present age... Good conversation and great sex with a side of take care of your ****: is that too much to ask for?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 25

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    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 5 Responses May 10

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 23 Responses Jan 10

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    LOL for sure ;) i love to see

    when people s happy make me smile...and good night from thailand :) everyone
    onceft onceft 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Letter to my future love,

    Hello sweet guy, I hope you had an amazing day, mine was crazy busy as could be expected with the promotion I just got. Praise God though, I wouldn't be where I am or even half the man I am today without Him. I thought of something crazy today all while thinking about you...
    iamlovepeople iamlovepeople 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    connection and affection,

    smiles and pet names.
    paulawala paulawala 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I luv intelligent witty conversations,

    the back and forth banter like a tennis match with someone who inspires me to be the best I can. Someone who doesn't criticize but can see things from my shoes and offer comfort me or kick me in the butt depending on what is need and has the smarts to know which one. Someone...
    SadDancer SadDancer 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    Letter to my future love,

    Well, here I lay, it's 1:34 and I really should be sleeping, I want to sleep, I want to slumber from this numbing pain but my heart is fighting me. I thought I had met you. I thought serendipity wasn't just for cheesy love movies. I freaking try so hard. I just be me. My big...
    iamlovepeople iamlovepeople 31-35, M 1 Response 26 mins ago

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    MOB I no I sent you this

    but I want everyone to see that is so true for me you are my everything:- Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I still believe that you will end up living in

    the world that you will create, where 1. your dominance should only reach up to 75%, and the rest 25% be the results of your influence over your partner's 100% involvement with the issue. OR 2. your dominance should not exceed 50%, while you give up the rest 50% to be...
    lovegentle lovegentle 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    that one person who makes your day better just

    by calling you beautiful. love him. :D
    threesomechic threesomechic 18-21, F 3 Responses May 5

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    I just felt a spark as

    if I had found her. I was walking through the checkout line, and of course being the idiot I am, I didn't do anything. I am so stupid, I hope I find her there again. I have absolutely no experience when it comes to girls, I'm just awkward and I hate it.
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    albaniangirl19 albaniangirl19 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 22

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    Am waiting for acute guy

    and good looking.
    Maxwellove Maxwellove 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    So here's what's going on My boyfriend has

    asked three different girls to come over and sleep with him. He lied about visiting one in Oregon and I thought things were better until he let me borrow his laptop. He has a Mac so every time he gets an email it pops up in the right hand corner and it said "thanks for signing...
    Chloe8221 Chloe8221 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    80mph.Speed up.Buckle up

    and reach out.
    arforest arforest 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Cariebearie Cariebearie 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    FOREVER! And don't say you want a BFF

    and then already have a million bffs that you'd rather be with.
    stephane28 stephane28 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 26

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    My boyfriend is my best friend!

    Your partner SHOULD be your best friend and you should want to do everything together, and hang out, and go on adventures, and tell each other your secrets. Your partner should know you completely - the good, the bad, and the ugly, and love you anyway. I just see my bf as a...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28

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    i want also a good friend

    because without friend Life is Empty.
    ALi14321 ALi14321 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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