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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    Yeah I'm a guy who takes the idea of being a

    relationship really seriously, I mean potentially you're dealing with someone else's feelings...so I guess really it goes without saying. But we know that the world doesn't work that way, people get rewarded for being less than just; mediocrity pays off and so on. I just...
    Endlesshelix Endlesshelix 26-30, M 14 Responses 3 days ago

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    am I dreaming.forget you forget us forever

    now a memory. I know your out there somewhere far away. I look at the night sky!are you looking ?do you see our star? am I alone looking at her I've never heard your sweet song . would you sing for us? count the stars with me my love.as time fades away and entropy wins!it...
    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 1 Response May 18

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    I want you to know I'm yours.

    To know that my mind body and soul are devoted to your love. I want you to feel my presence when I walk through the room and scoop you up. Know that this our time to explore our desires needs and wants. I want you to be the outlet of my needs, the needs of a man whose heart is...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 8 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Before you ask me out,

    be my friend for at least a year.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    I wish I could have this with a girl.

    My last relationship was unsuccessful, and I really need someone to get to know so that I don't take my ex back (which I would hate to do). I am kind and will treat anyone right who will give me the opportunity.
    deliriouslydreaming deliriouslydreaming 16-17, F 2 Responses May 20

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 24

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    madisonhenson13 madisonhenson13 18-21, F 5 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 31-35, F 24 Responses Mar 9

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    I slowly fell in love with my best friend

    since the first day i met him. Recently he kissed me on the sunniest day and told me he loves me, ended his relationship and now we are both happier than we have ever been. Never give up hope, sometimes dreams come true.
    irdeacon irdeacon 18-21, F 3 Responses May 16

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    In my opinion, if you don't still like the

    person after breaking up you shouldn't have gone out at all. Do people ever get to know people first nowadays? Lol
    lordbuttfucker lordbuttfucker 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm the type of guy who takes a relationship

    seriously. To be frank, I not only care about personality but also looks. Sry to say that. Someone, pls come forward (I'm straight).
    bigsmile2000 bigsmile2000 13-15, M 14 hrs ago

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    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 17 Responses Mar 23

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    I never experience love.

    Am 24year old male. What does that say about me?
    vdksmiles vdksmiles 22-25, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 6

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    I'll be honest. I'm a lonely guy.

    All I really want out of life is someone to be with. Someone I can talk to. Someone I can hold at night and know that we love each other. I like video games, reading, cooking, anime, and swimming (even though I can't swim). I'd love to get to know you! So please, if your...
    tf2medic tf2medic 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    that one person who makes your day better just

    by calling you beautiful. love him. :D
    threesomechic threesomechic 18-21, F 4 Responses May 5

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 24 Responses Jan 10

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    Being single means you can realize what you

    really want, and wait for the right one is worthwhile :)
    Sungood Sungood 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    Not just a bestfriend,

    a working out buddy who would motivate you to challenge yourself everyday, a pillow to cry out how the world is so cruel and harsh, a diary to account whats been bothering you the whole day and whats the next big thing on your mind, a reason to smile when you wake up, a soulmate...
    TheLeftBehind TheLeftBehind 18-21, M 1 Response May 20

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    any girl seriously looking

    for a sincere boy friend. ..msg me
    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M May 17

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    It's sweet when somebody tells you they want to

    know all about you. They want to take the time to seek your inner beauty. Or demons. They want to put in the effort to show they can handle you. Handle it. That they want you. You're important. 3 months single -- and I've just started seeing someone. And oh my word am I ever...
    KairiKipling KairiKipling 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    How wonderful it would be to have a girl

    that I could talk to about everything, hug, kiss, and cuddle. I have been needing someone to be there for me, someone to make me feel safe in her arms. I just hope she is out there somewhere, and that I find her soon.
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 22

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    connection and affection,

    smiles and pet names.
    paulawala paulawala 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 8

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    My boyfriend is my best friend!

    Your partner SHOULD be your best friend and you should want to do everything together, and hang out, and go on adventures, and tell each other your secrets. Your partner should know you completely - the good, the bad, and the ugly, and love you anyway. I just see my bf as a...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just think that it would be easier to be

    completely honest with one's significant other if they were friends, at least in my case. I don't know why most guys don't like being friends first- if one can't be like a friend at first, how would they be able to get to the point of being "MORE than a friend?!" ... At least...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 5 Responses May 17

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    With only two days space from a 3 year

    relationship ending, I see things so much more clearly than I allowed myself while we were dating and engaged! Almost like infra red... I see how much I want in a romance by what my life have been lacking in my previous ones! Imagine a love who lights up when they see you...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 5 Responses May 16

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    If your gf had medical issues

    when would you like to know?
    bgirl24 bgirl24 22-25, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 5 Responses May 10

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    I had that once. It's really the best.

    I hope everyone can experience that at some point in their lives. :)
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw 16-17, F 1 Response May 19

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    Definitely have to learn

    and connect with someone before I go further. Can't just jump into something, knowing nothing. I like to learn about someone and let something develop. Makes the connection stronger and more valuable.
    DamnDeathEaters DamnDeathEaters 18-21, F 4 Responses May 20

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    Is it really this hard to find

    that someone. I don't want to just have sex with you and buy you stuff. I want to know you from the outside to the inside. I want to know what makes you tick. And I want you to know the same about me . Are you out there are you real.
    gmoody01 gmoody01 31-35, M 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    He may not be my lover now.

    .and maybe never will be again..but he was once. And I still adore him...more than I should. Honestly, if he wanted me, I'd go back to him.
    mystiere13 mystiere13 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My Promise to My future lady.

    I promise to love you til we're buried I promise to love you not only through the good but the bad I promise to always keep your heart safe in my hands I promise to be your best friend I promise to be your strength when your weak I promise to be your shoulder to cry on I...
    1ofakind55 1ofakind55 26-30, M 4 Responses May 17

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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