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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    I just want one person I can connect with on

    every level. That gets me and I can just set around and bull **** with, that I can be serious with, intimate ect. Some one that I am not guarded at all with. That loves me for me and I can be myself around. I don't expect it to always be perfect but I don't want it to be hell...
    ImJustJen ImJustJen 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 5

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 15 Responses Oct 30

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    Sometimes we need to simply be there.

    .. not to fix anything or do anything in particular, but just to let us feel we are supported and cared about.
    chavvat chavvat 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 12

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22

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    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 19 Responses Dec 4

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    I want someone to tell me I'm attractive,

    and I wasn't them to mean it and give me them amazing hugs, and cuddle and watch cartoons with me and go to the gym with me too... I want to make her smile and feel incredible. I want to bite her bottom lip when we kiss. I want her to be my friend
    dksl14 dksl14 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    stuartCd stuartCd 18-21, M Dec 6

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    I just realized I want alot just a full

    relationship love and sex and kissing and more sex sex sex!!! Wtf is wrong with me. He needs to be there for me wen I'm sad then we can have sex. When I'm angry with him makeup sex. Good morning sex, I just got home from a hard day at work sex. Okay I love sex!!!!
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 9

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    cassiecc11 cassiecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    It hurts when you've experienced this

    and then lose it. It haunts me that I'll never find a relationship like that again.
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 14 Responses Nov 21

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    I'm just Ina relationship with someone

    who doesn't care about having an emotional connection with me... I want someone that cares about having a conversation.
    spicyyy spicyyy 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 7

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    I don't know why I didn't say it back

    when u said u love me. I just panicked and got scared. Yet, deep down I love, miss and think of u. I don't understand why u love me? Maybe that's why I got scared. Sometimes I can feel that u are with me even tho ur not in the room. Sometimes I think I'm going crazy, I tell...
    Laraamani Laraamani 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So hey. I have a crush on my best guy friend

    but im not so sure if he likes me or not. What should I do to find out?
    hellopeople23 hellopeople23 13-15 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    I miss this girl who gave me this crazy hug

    before I moved away. She hugged me and pressed her chest against mines, put her chin into my neck and squeezed me and held me close. Time seemed to stop, and when I got nervous I let go because I felt like I had been hugging her for too long, she didn't let me go, and then I...
    dksl14 dksl14 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 3

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    I always thought communication is key.

    It amazes me how my husband thinks I should be able to read his mind. Yet he doesn't feel that he should be able to read my mind. I tell him all the time to tell me what he wants or needs and I will do my best to comply, but he gets pissed that I don't already know his every...
    naomiR1 naomiR1 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 7

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    I am still single because I can't afford to

    make a big deal about it, because I have more important things to think about, my responsibility to my family, struggling career and a very busy schedule. But God knows how much I like to have one soul who is willing to understand me, be with me and just love me so much with out...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 7

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 12

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    One day I will wake up

    and look across my bed at a woman I love with all my heart. One day I will have someone who accept me for me and is both a lover and a friend. I want someone I can invest both emotionally And physically In.
    ShadowFax97 ShadowFax97 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 8

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    xomariposaxo xomariposaxo 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 31

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    Why don't I have a friend that's

    so caring and protective of me? Am I not good enough? Am I too ugly? Too weird? Too imperfect? Because all I really want is a guy best friend...
    viv3810 viv3810 13-15, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have a best friend she calls me her sister

    and I go along with it. Every time I'm around her I just want her to want me the same. She knows that I am attracted to her. She teases me and flirts with me all the time but then when I try and make a pass at her or say something like, today we were talking about squirting and...
    shygirl1986 shygirl1986 26-30, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    BizzyEager BizzyEager 18-21, F 21 Responses Oct 6

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    Being single means you can realize what you

    really want, and wait for the right one is worthwhile :)
    Sungood Sungood 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 17

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    Ever loved someone so much,

    you would do anything for them? Yeah, well, make that someone yourself and do what you want!
    Maihowl Maihowl 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 24

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    A girl hangs around me more

    than her bf!!Could she secretly be bi?
    luvmyfriends luvmyfriends 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 37 Responses Sep 11

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    I love a girl how don't.

    care about. me I am very. nervous. about. her
    Gurusai Gurusai 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 8

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    having a lover who is also my best friend is

    the best thing I could have right now. <3
    MeowOnMe MeowOnMe 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 4

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    hayhaybown hayhaybown 16-17, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I would like some opinions.

    I have notice that my boyfriend. Which I feel funny calling him my boyfriend because I'm on my mid 30's and he is 50. And I feel like the boyfriend and girlfriend thing is for younger couples ... We are not married and we don't live together..... Well The point is that I have...
    chantally100 chantally100 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 8

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    I want to be in a relationship with someone I

    trust and have fun with. I really don't need much else.
    racingSnail racingSnail 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    connection and affection,

    smiles and pet names.
    paulawala paulawala 36-40, F 10 Responses Dec 8

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    This may sound silly

    but I want this girl to be bi BC I want her 2 love me as well💋
    luvmyfriends luvmyfriends 13-15, F Dec 6

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    I want you to know I'm yours.

    To know that my mind body and soul are devoted to your love. I want you to feel my presence when I walk through the room and scoop you up. Know that this our time to explore our desires needs and wants. I want you to be the outlet of my needs, the needs of a man whose heart is...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Am a person who believes in at the first sight.

    In my 23 years of living am searching a lovely girl / lady / woman who will love as I am to the fullest.
    fremosa fremosa 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have loved many, given heart

    and soul to many of them but have yet to find the one who is fair to me and treats me with respect. Many seem to be after money, or want to tie your heart in a knot and walk away...The only reason I keep trying is because not trying guarantees failure.
    hotshoetom hotshoetom 61-65, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm currently feeling deeply depressed about my

    marriage. My husband and I have nothing in common besides our children. He has no idea how disconnected I've become. I feel very alone.
    naynay817 naynay817 41-45, F 30 Responses Aug 12

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    tessacc12 tessacc12 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    What ever she did to me,

    still i love her badly :'( we were in relationship for 6years and she ditched me for someone now. Still i love her. I dont know if i can love anyone else like she did. Kiss anyone else like she did. But sometimes i felt that i too have to live in front of her with a beautiful...
    ashiqtp ashiqtp 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 5

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    What's love without passion?

    ... It's nothing
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 24

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    I believe that you can have a best friend right

    next door or half way around the world .
    Superwoman911 Superwoman911 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 27

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    My best Friend is my boyfriend,

    i love him very very much and i know im only 15 but my feelings are true. Ive known him since the 2nd grade and ive liked him ever since i met him, but i was always to nervous to tell him, and for years i watched him go out with alot of different girls and doing god knows what...
    PandaApples101 PandaApples101 13-15, F Dec 4

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    To my other half: What I hate about you ( What

    hurts me): 1. I didn't see you laugh (anymore) everytime you are with me. I really wat to see you smile/happy/less serious when we are together. You seem lifeless. 2. You didn't share anything with me anymore. There are no more stories. You didn't really communicate with me or...
    crimoholic24 crimoholic24 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 25

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    this would be perfect,

    I wonder if it would be possible though
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 15 Responses Oct 24

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    incrediblelife1011 incrediblelife1011 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 3

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    Dear Future Husband Here's a few things you

    need to know if You wanna be my one and only All my life <3 MEGHAN TRAINER
    Naniebananie Naniebananie 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 5

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    This is my dream!!! In a perfect world,

    this would happen! Hopefully I get to be lucky enough for this to happen!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...