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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    People don't understand this.

    I've had family and friends try to hook me up with guys, but they don't seem to get that I want to be friends before anything happens. I want to make sure that we get along well, and have enough in common. Also is a little rough when the guys wanna jump straight into it :/
    Vysyn Vysyn 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Letter to my future love,

    Hello sweet guy, I hope you had an amazing day, mine was crazy busy as could be expected with the promotion I just got. Praise God though, I wouldn't be where I am or even half the man I am today without Him. I thought of something crazy today all while thinking about you...
    iamlovepeople iamlovepeople 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I met him while in training.

    My mind was set on finishing training and not finding love. I made that clear to him.... I actually told him I had a significant other back at home and I was too stressed to pursue anything with him. He was persistsnt. Not in a pushy creepy kind of way but he let it be known...
    inhouston832 inhouston832 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    HI I'm Looking For a Girlfriend

    who care about me love me and I will love here and take care of here and know more about each other text me if you think you are the one
    Adnane20301 Adnane20301 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Letter to my future love,

    Well, here I lay, it's 1:34 and I really should be sleeping, I want to sleep, I want to slumber from this numbing pain but my heart is fighting me. I thought I had met you. I thought serendipity wasn't just for cheesy love movies. I freaking try so hard. I just be me. My big...
    iamlovepeople iamlovepeople 31-35, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I just felt a spark as

    if I had found her. I was walking through the checkout line, and of course being the idiot I am, I didn't do anything. I am so stupid, I hope I find her there again. I have absolutely no experience when it comes to girls, I'm just awkward and I hate it.
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 19

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 23 Responses Jan 10

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    Ever it's really hard to solve love problems.

    .. It's always irrational, right??
    actionluva actionluva 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 28

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 22

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    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 8

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    connection and affection,

    smiles and pet names.
    paulawala paulawala 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 37 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    Its been four years ago

    but the smile of these woman still dominates my mind. She's my English teacher during my senior years in high school. We became friends and I became her best buddy. At first, I thought it was just an ordinary student-teacher relationship until one day, I find myself thinking...
    Shine26 Shine26 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Thought I found him..

    . Yet he tried to destroy me and everything I've worked hard upon. I sometimes miss his company, yet I realize that I wasn't his best friend, even if I let him be mine... Someday I will come across the right person, I believe it. If there is some sort of cosmic justice on this...
    ConsciousExplorer ConsciousExplorer 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Cariebearie Cariebearie 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    my gf treats me like crap

    and i can't stand it anymore. she's really controlling and nasty towards me and literally NEVER wants to be close to me any more. i feel so alone all the time and her constant telling me what i can and can't do is making me lose who i am as a person. i can't even talk to women...
    lonelyandhurtguy lonelyandhurtguy 22-25, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    My Hubby likes to let our dog frolic in the

    waves when we visit the seashore. The dog loves it, but there is one small problem. While he is frolicking, he is using his mouth and jaws to catch whatever sea creatures happen to be washing in. You would be amazed by what he catches. We know this because he typically gets sick...
    AmyFass AmyFass 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 29

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    LOL for sure ;) i love to see

    when people s happy make me smile...and good night from thailand :) everyone
    onceft onceft 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 5 Responses May 10

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 6

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    Well I can say that having your lover

    as your best friend is the ideal but in my experience if you start as best friends it's not always a good idea to change it into a lover . Humans fall in lust "have chemistry" then love develops ... Maybe even best friends if your lucky . That is the logical way to have your...
    roes55 roes55 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I want you to know I'm yours.

    To know that my mind body and soul are devoted to your love. I want you to feel my presence when I walk through the room and scoop you up. Know that this our time to explore our desires needs and wants. I want you to be the outlet of my needs, the needs of a man whose heart is...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 8 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    happilygay2day happilygay2day 61-65, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Dianecc11 Dianecc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    This is rather a pipe dream

    because my wife is not much of a lover and I am too honest (cowardly?) to find another. But if I suspend reality I can imagine a world where this is true. But then I come out of it and find a handwritten note saying I loaded the dishes in the dishwasher the wrong way, again...
    KnightMoves KnightMoves 46-50, M 4 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Just out of a relationship

    and looking for a new best friend and lover.
    jonnymowat jonnymowat 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    What more can you ask for?

    Best friends know everything
    Ayers010 Ayers010 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    My lover is my best friend

    so that's a win-win. He's always there for me, even through my hardest times he's right there with me helping me through it all.
    nightskyvampire nightskyvampire 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    kylee19 kylee19 18-21, M Jun 27

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    that one person who makes your day better just

    by calling you beautiful. love him. :D
    threesomechic threesomechic 18-21, F 3 Responses May 5

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    I'm a single, caring,

    openminded, understanding and respectful guy in his 30s who doesn't judge. Is there any genuine women out there who want a meaningful friendship with me?.
    Tannedguy007 Tannedguy007 26-30, M Jun 26

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    I just realized I want alot just a full

    relationship love and sex and kissing and more sex sex sex!!! Wtf is wrong with me. He needs to be there for me wen I'm sad then we can have sex. When I'm angry with him makeup sex. Good morning sex, I just got home from a hard day at work sex. Okay I love sex!!!!
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    This is all very well

    until you break up.
    Faerylight Faerylight 41-45, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    i want someone i can count on,

    trust, love, andsomeone that feels the same as me. the love is something of a fairytale. a myth. something that may never happen and its looking more bleak each and every day. i want a beat friend that i can talk to. a woman that can talk to me. a lover as well as a beat friend...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    80mph.Speed up.Buckle up

    and reach out.
    arforest arforest 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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