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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    Perfect Pairing

    Just as a wine would accompany a meal to add to and enhance the experience, having a lover who is also a best friend would be perfect to for the experience! Its great to have good sex and it good to have a close friend, but if you can combine the two it would be most excellent...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 21, 2013

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    My dream: I often day dream about a girl.

    And the things that we’d do. Like… I’d find the girl while I’m working. We’d talk, first about simple things, and will find that we have the same interests. Then we’d start talking about more serious things. We find out that both of us are staggering from the...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Your Beauty....My Lady!

    What wonderful summer day. We both rise early. I go outside to mow the lawn and do some yard work. I return inside the house and promptly get in the shower. Once all freshened I enter our room, there you are sitting on the bed humming to yourself as you paint your toes...
    NorthernMan1966 NorthernMan1966 46-50, M 8 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    Today, some people helped me get Tye alone by

    dragging his friends around the school all morning. When he did show up i ran after him and said Tye and taped him on the shoulder. He then turned around really fast and kinda through himself on the nearest wall and looked at the ground. I said stuff about how it didn't work...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    Sometimes i wish i didn't have feelings

    for him, that i could just move on and forget that beautiful face. How his face is like snow with red stained cheeks and pure blue eyes. Eyelashes as dark as ebony and so long i can't even comprehend. Long hair of neither brown nor blond in a braid. He's short, but that just...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F Feb 26

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    I figured out how get my boyfriend to open up

    and stop being really depressed. Now I think he needs to see a doctor. He's been having nose bleeds, insomnia, headaches, vomiting and passes out from lack of sleep. I know what you people are thinking, is he on drugs and I am pretty sure he isn't. He might have a medication...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F a week ago

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    I am so sorry to keep posting these sad,

    crazy things...I will move past this one day. This is my only outlet...I can't stop thinking about him. I saw him today. His hands felt so amazing when he touched me. Then, (please, don't judge me...I hate myself enough for what I've put others through, I can't take your...
    goodnightangel goodnightangel 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Wow, I never realized how heartless I am at

    times, I totally jugged my boyfriends situation wrong and now he's upset, but by now I realized he's just a moody boy lol. Give him a day and he's ok. Also if he's complaining just kinda let him, tell him he's right and all about his little problems is my new mood on it all. I'm...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    BriyannaTyasia BriyannaTyasia 41-45, M Mar 24

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    I Want...

    I want to cuddle up beside you on the couch and tell you about my day, let you tell me about yours. I want to watch movies with you and play video games with you and be a complete goofball with you. I want to have pillow-fights and tickle-fights and wrestle...
    FeatherInTheWind FeatherInTheWind 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 13, 2010

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    Have I been lucky or perhaps unlucky?

    Or am I just odd?  To date every lover I have had has been a best friend first and a lover second.  I'm not sure why it worked out like that.  It certainly wasn't intentional or a conscious thought on my part.  I guess I just tend to end up with people who I am friends with...
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 3

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    Yes, exactly what I want a lover

    and best friend to hold and touch me in a loving way .
    JamieleeEchelon JamieleeEchelon 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 31

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    It has always been my fantisies

    that i have sex with my best friend my current best friend is so sexy he is my dream guy and according to his ex girlfriend has a big one she was my friend two bragging on him i love him so much!!!
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    Such A Difference...

    Having that person that you are so completely comfortable with, that person that literally puts a smile on your face because you know they are truly your support. That person that is your rock. But is also your lover. It's an amazing feeling. Everyone truly deserves this...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2010

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    Why don't some guys understand

    that i'm not interested in sex. I have a list of what i want in a guy and none of it has anything to do with sex. I don't even want kids so, it's not like i want to reproduce or anything. To me who he is is more important than anything else. I would give up all the books in my...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 13

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    I think I found true love.

    If this isn't it then I really don't know what is. The other day he said he wanted to tell me how he felt about me. So, on Skype he said, he may reply that's sweet and cute when I tell him my feelings through text, because he wanted to tell me on here how he felt face to face...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I want to have a really nice lover,

    who will also be my best friend.I do not care the race oor color just a good lover.
    uzuri84 uzuri84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I have a new, oldish crush.

    I have been avoiding it for a while now, because I think he's way to young for me. I'm a senior and he's a 8th grader and I know what your thinking that this is really wrong. I agree with you, but my feelings wont let me ignore him. He's liked me for three years and only...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F Mar 14

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    To find that special someone with whom you

    connect on so many levels, beyond the physical. To have a friend that inspires and encourages, challenges you to be your best, who can make you laugh and will also cry with you when you are sad. That special someone who takes your breath away each and every time you lay eyes...
    redhotridinghood redhotridinghood 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 18

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    You know what I think ,

    I think the best lovers are those who know you inside out , who've grown with you and seen what you're capable of , yes they are your true friend indeed . I want my best friend to be my lover
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 28

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    People always use the 'your still young,

    be single, don't worry about it' when I say I want a relationship! I don't get it, were you never wanting a relationship at 16? Well I'm sorry for wanting someone to care about me, someone to treat me nice! Someone to tell me I'm beautiful when I feel like in not. I just feel...
    shaebears shaebears 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I'm very grateful to have found a lover,

    fiancée and my very bestfriend all in one
    rkcollins rkcollins 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    So, today i am giving up on my former crush.

    Trying to hang out with him was a big failure and slightly embarrassing. I thought it would be cool, but i went to were he usually was and just waited. He said i could hang out with him so it wasn't like i was just there all weird like. Well his friends just looked at me... a...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    Wouldn't That Be Cool?

    Like, just having someone for you that is someone you trust wholeheartedly. I saw this post on instagram that said..."work on building friendships, not love. Then maybe you will marry your best friend." I daydream...a lot. And maybe I have unrealistic expectations in my head...
    universesoul universesoul 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    That's like a dream,

    but also how it should be.
    SeanJohnston SeanJohnston 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I'm So Glad Your With Me

    I so want to find the perfect woman for me , one that I miss when she's not there and cherish always . She'd be my pal to have fun with and tell all my secrets to . We can share lifes joys and sorrows and build each other up , cheer and comfort each other . We could be happy...
    Tanengreen Tanengreen 36-40, M 13 Responses Jan 28, 2010

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    It Would Be Nice Right Two In One?

    i think that a love should always be the best friend that you can count on . i have seen to many relationships fail because they were not caring enough for the other. i hope that when i do get a girl friend she will be this way and i shall be the same.
    Friendlyfacehere Friendlyfacehere 18-21, M Nov 30, 2013

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    Stolen Moments

    Like all relationships mine is not perfect. We work on it. Go through our ups and downs. I get frustrated. He gets frustrated. We distance ourselves but then we grow closer. And it seems that every time we grow closer its from a stolen moment. The early morning coffees snuggling...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 9 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    My current boyfriend was my bestfriend

    for 3 years. I love him to death. Guys in the friendzone don't give up(:
    samiisosa samiisosa 18-21, F Feb 18

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    My Best Friend

    I once shared a year with a person who was, indeed my best friend. We shared every moment that we could. We made love with a passion that was beyond compare. we Talked into the wee hours, we danced, we made stir-fry at three in the morning and ate it before going to work after a...
    brokerichard brokerichard 56-60, M 4 Responses May 8, 2012

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    Always wanted a boy best friend

    that you didn't have to be serious with, it would be so much less drama than girls tbf. Boy best friend; definition of cute- for me ☺️
    colexo colexo 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 11

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    A Guy Version Of Myself :)

    i want to meet that guy version of myself. you know, get to know someone who is exactly the same as you in many aspects -- and you only differ in gender. it's like finally meeting your best friend for life and your soul mate. in life, you know you've won a prize when you get to...
    ErinValcourt ErinValcourt 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2013

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    I want somebody who is my other half

    but my best friend. I'm trying to find my Spock to my uhura.:) I want somebody I can talk,vent and be downright nerdy with.I want to feel complete.:)
    cherryBloosom95 cherryBloosom95 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    I want to fall in love with someone

    who will give me the butterflies so bad that it'll be impossible for me to stay on the ground whenever he's around or whenever he speaks...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    So, i'm just going to ask him out

    and all. I'm going to say something along the lines of "hey Tye can i talk to you over here for a minute, then say I've been trying to get you to open up to me and become friends. It's not working so, i' just going to be honest with you. Will you go out with me." What do you...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    ...Wishful Thinking...

    This, to me, is the ideal..to be so connected and bonded to someone intimately..to have them know your very soul inside and out..to feel comfortable with them on every level..and to have their love for you be reflected in a variety of ways that goes beyond a "typical...
    Misfitbrokentoy Misfitbrokentoy 46-50, F 9 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    My boyfriend just kinda made me feel horrible

    right now... We were talking about school and he said he can graduate next December. I tell him one of us has to move to the others state at some point around then. I say I got into this very expensive and prestigious private college. He acts like he can't leave his state and...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 11

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    So, starting on the 21th of this month i got s

    new Boy Friend his names Justin. He's long distance and I haven't met him in person, but it's going really well. We have been talking non-stop for about 3 or 4 days now and it's going pretty fast with him. The funny thing about all of this is that on that exact day i was planing...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Any Girl is Here.. how want to be my lover

    as well as a best friend for ever...
    Rahulkmb Rahulkmb 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    bEing honest may NOt get you lots of friends

    but it will always get you the right ones/
    isabelarao isabelarao 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Yesterday I was pretty happy about my new

    backpack. It has a skull on it and his eyes are speakers. I was blasting my music and having a good time. Then i saw Tye and he was having a bad time and it seems when ever i'm happy he's sad and vice verse. What was strange about that day was at the end of it. I was walking to...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    Yesterday I told my boyfriend some mean stuff

    and I wish I said it better, because it hurt him. I was trying to tell him that when he asks a question and I say no I don't want him to ask again. He would kinda beg again for it and I felt pressured. I kind of made him feel like he was a horny dog that was scum. I felt so bad...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Sands Of Time

    Time has come to meet me here It brings with it the drips of tears Those times of happiness oh so dear And the sadness that has made many sears My heart cries out "WAIT" oh so clear As I long for the woman without a face of leer and hope that my heart is not left sheered...
    inChange inChange 41-45, M 6 Responses Mar 8, 2013

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    I want to kiss and be kissed - long,

    sweet, hungry kisses. I want your arms around me, pressing me close. I want to feel your hands and mouth caressing the contours of my body. And I also want to be able to banter with you, match wits, talk about ideas. Am I just being greedy, or expecting too much?
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Mar 31

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    You Are Quite A Man!

    Hush now my darling Let me ease your fears Saved up held by you Over all these long years... Close your eyes and dream On just what will transpire When you and I meet And we share our fire! If you were a knight I was a lady fair You rescued me nobleman Simply because you care! If...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 5 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    Lover And Friend

    I want a guy who shares my interests and passions.a soul mate who wants to do things with me,share experiences.to be the "other half " of me.Some one I can trust completely,whom I can confide in, and be myself,no pretense,Someone who doesn't want to rule or control me,who just...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F 16 Responses Dec 12, 2011

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    I just wanna be able to tell you everything,

    act like best friends but also be able to call you mine and love on you for the rest of time.
    kaylashae17 kaylashae17 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    Im 16 years old and i live in washington.

    My passions are photography, biking, and poetry. And traveling even tho i havent been anywhere i plan to and im saving up for that so i can after graduation in 2016. My first trip will be to bike across america. Im looking for a guy of the same age with similar interest to be my...
    Angelique16 Angelique16 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    Someone who's kind, thoughtful,

    lovely and open. Who can make my stomach burst with fireworks and my heart overflow. Someone who I can hug and cuddle and say everything on my mind. Someone who'll kiss me so hard I forget colours and not want to get out of bed with. Yet of course, it's all impossible for me. I...
    voyageuse voyageuse 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Holding hands. Isn't

    that such a nice feeling to hold the hand of the girl you love, or at least wanting to. Hold my hand she says, as she grabs my hand, and looks into my eyes, trying to read my mind, what's up, I ask . You know John, you are such a strange man to work out, why, I ask, because, in...
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    I am lucky to say I have this,

    my lover is definitely my best friend. I joined EP almost a year ago (under a different profile). My first profile was very sexual in nature and I made a lot of friends and exchanged photos etc. Then in the middle of last year, my stepdaughter attempted suicide, the way I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 16

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    When I saw you for the first time,

    I fell in love with you, And after that Whenever I saw you, I started to Rise in your love..!!
    rahatali1212 rahatali1212 18-21, M Feb 26

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    I want someone who will understand me like I

    will understand him. I want someone who will think I'm beautiful and I will be the only one girl his heart wants. I want a man who will cuddle with me, kiss me, make love to me, and spend a life with me. I want to nurture him and give him all of my affection.
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 26

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    Left my boyfriend. Didn't say we broke up.

    .., but I did say i'm not messaging him anymore. He couldn't let go of his problems, well that's what I think it was, because he then told me he cut himself yesterday. He said he was very upset with himself and I can't handle that, I just wanted to move on because all of it wasn...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I'm thinking of taking some space form Joshua,

    till we get our heads back in line. I texted him how I felt and now I just want some time alone from him and I think he feels the same. I will give it a day or two, but he might reply today and I'll just tell him I feel I need some space, or I wont reply till he seems to figure...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    So, today when i felt i was just going to

    forget everything, it all fell back into my lap. My friend told a girl that wants to be a "Match Maker" that i liked the guy. She's going to talk to him for me, because i'm tired of trying to do that. I really don't have much to loose form this. I explained how i want this done...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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