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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    albaniangirl19 albaniangirl19 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 22

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    I want to learn you I want to learn with you I

    want to learn from you ............................................ I'm an African girl, who is really tall, slim and black. I love white guys, but of course, I'd love to meet someone who is down to earth and really tall. I believe we'll make a great interracial couple...with...
    ottam23 ottam23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Gioni09 Gioni09 18-21, M Jun 21

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    My lover is my best friend,

    but it is a mess. Where to begin, and it will be a bit lengthy. I will call him D and we met when we were 11. It has been the same bond since we first met. I realized I loved him in my very early teens. But as a young male he was oblivious. I watched him and was often the 3rd...
    dfclifton55 dfclifton55 56-60, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I miss you so much Asa.

    You are an other half to me, a partner in crime!
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F Jun 21

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    I want you to know I'm yours.

    To know that my mind body and soul are devoted to your love. I want you to feel my presence when I walk through the room and scoop you up. Know that this our time to explore our desires needs and wants. I want you to be the outlet of my needs, the needs of a man whose heart is...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 8 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 17 Responses Mar 23

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    It hurts when you've experienced this

    and then lose it. It haunts me that I'll never find a relationship like that again.
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 15 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    happilygay2day happilygay2day 61-65, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    I luv intelligent witty conversations,

    the back and forth banter like a tennis match with someone who inspires me to be the best I can. Someone who doesn't criticize but can see things from my shoes and offer comfort me or kick me in the butt depending on what is need and has the smarts to know which one. Someone...
    SadDancer SadDancer 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    lilimao lilimao 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 1

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    Why is it so hard to find an engaging,

    non-smothery person who has values and goals and can say what they mean? One of the truly great mysteries of the present age... Good conversation and great sex with a side of take care of your ****: is that too much to ask for?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 24

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 31-35, F 23 Responses Mar 9

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    I'm a single, caring,

    openminded, understanding and respectful guy in his 30s who doesn't judge. Is there any genuine women out there who want a meaningful friendship with me?.
    Tannedguy007 Tannedguy007 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    my wife started bein dishonest in our

    relationship so I started getting high on meth to numb my feelings. I should have ledt her but I married her and nowsje is prego and we dont get along. I love jer bit she hurt me in the beginning. now I feel like im trapped with a wide who resents me and will get me for child...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 20

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    Yeah I'm a guy who takes the idea of being a

    relationship really seriously, I mean potentially you're dealing with someone else's feelings...so I guess really it goes without saying. But we know that the world doesn't work that way, people get rewarded for being less than just; mediocrity pays off and so on. I just...
    Endlesshelix Endlesshelix 26-30, M 14 Responses May 26

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    I still believe that you will end up living in

    the world that you will create, where 1. your dominance should only reach up to 75%, and the rest 25% be the results of your influence over your partner's 100% involvement with the issue. OR 2. your dominance should not exceed 50%, while you give up the rest 50% to be...
    lovegentle lovegentle 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have a lover who is also my best friend (-;

    friendship is the most important thing in a serious romantic relationship.
    alicebelle alicebelle 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 22

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    Well I can say that having your lover

    as your best friend is the ideal but in my experience if you start as best friends it's not always a good idea to change it into a lover . Humans fall in lust "have chemistry" then love develops ... Maybe even best friends if your lucky . That is the logical way to have your...
    roes55 roes55 56-60, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 6

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    I met him while in training.

    My mind was set on finishing training and not finding love. I made that clear to him.... I actually told him I had a significant other back at home and I was too stressed to pursue anything with him. He was persistsnt. Not in a pushy creepy kind of way but he let it be known...
    inhouston832 inhouston832 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I had this and totally blew it.

    I don't do the one night stand thing well, if at all. I'm afraid that seems unmanly.
    MAlright MAlright 51-55, M 6 Responses Jun 21

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    there was this girl I fell in love with

    when I was 15 but she turned me down every single time... she's now my best friend. but this was just me trying to get close to her any way I could. now I'm sure that I won't be anything else with her, and to be honestI don't feel the "best friendness" from her as much as she...
    SanFransokyo SanFransokyo 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    I want to be someone i can call my friend.

    Who is also my lover/partner.Who truly gets who i am on the inside.I don't want something that would fail.I want to be with someone until the end of my life.Is that to much to ask.
    punkglampire punkglampire 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    FOREVER! And don't say you want a BFF

    and then already have a million bffs that you'd rather be with.
    stephane28 stephane28 26-30, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 37 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    kylee19 kylee19 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 19

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    80mph.Speed up.Buckle up

    and reach out.
    arforest arforest 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Hubby likes to let our dog frolic in the

    waves when we visit the seashore. The dog loves it, but there is one small problem. While he is frolicking, he is using his mouth and jaws to catch whatever sea creatures happen to be washing in. You would be amazed by what he catches. We know this because he typically gets sick...
    AmyFass AmyFass 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    connection and affection,

    smiles and pet names.
    paulawala paulawala 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I got a girl who likes having me

    as s friend . For awhile we were real close and wanted a relationship. But it never worked. She and I were talking last night and we are going to get together again but go one step at a time and not rush it. She is one of my best friends and I can't wait to spend more time with...
    crazyram45 crazyram45 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 18

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    i want also a good friend

    because without friend Life is Empty.
    ALi14321 ALi14321 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    Not lovers, but more

    than friends I bet that in childhood you had many friends, boys or girls, it doesn't matter, you were playing and laughing without worrying that they will think that you are crazy or something, without worrying that you are not cool. Then, in hose days of innocence...
    RosaryLaCroix RosaryLaCroix 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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