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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    I just want a boyfriend more

    than anything right now. I'm tired of the meaningless sex and random hookups. It makes me feel cheap and it's not a good feeling. I want to love somebody and be loved back equally.
    markinicole markinicole 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    I'm currently feeling deeply depressed about my

    marriage. My husband and I have nothing in common besides our children. He has no idea how disconnected I've become. I feel very alone.
    naynay817 naynay817 41-45, F 29 Responses Aug 12

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    so this is my very first post

    or "experience" on here depending on whatever you wanna call it lol... anyway, I'm just laying in bed and can't sleep. and when that happens you know your mind wanders off into different places... when it's just you and your conscious... and it's hard to lie to yourself so you...
    mustarhymes mustarhymes 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 8

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    One day I will wake up

    and look across my bed at a woman I love with all my heart. One day I will have someone who accept me for me and is both a lover and a friend. I want someone I can invest both emotionally And physically In.
    ShadowFax97 ShadowFax97 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 8

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    Have you ever had that feeling in your heart

    that consumes you? The feeling that drives you to go on and complete it. For me that feeling is love. I'm driven to love. To satisfy and to spoil. I'm driven by compassion and care. It's in my blood . I'm also driven to protect and serve. Serve who you may ask? A lover. Someone...
    ShadowFax97 ShadowFax97 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I feel so lonely and sad these days.

    I want a man who will be my shoulder to cry on, who loves travelling, who will share my interests with me, with whom I can always talk to, who will be always by my side and who will love me. I want a decent man who will love me and support me. He should be my savior when I fall...
    ScarlettMelanie84 ScarlettMelanie84 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 19

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    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 5 Responses Nov 4

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    If we can't be idiots together,

    and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be fun. I want someone I can run around in pajamas with. Someone I can go camping with. Where sex isn't a major thing. Yes, okay. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    My Best Friend

    I once shared a year with a person who was, indeed my best friend. We shared every moment that we could. We made love with a passion that was beyond compare. we Talked into the wee hours, we danced, we made stir-fry at three in the morning and ate it before going to work after a...
    brokerichard brokerichard 56-60, M 5 Responses May 8, 2012

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    this would be perfect,

    I wonder if it would be possible though
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 15 Responses Oct 24

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    True love is hard to find,

    just like a best friend is rare. I want some one I can share every thought I have, good or bad. Love me for me and I'll love him for him.
    mistylovinglife mistylovinglife 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    if only i could have a bestfriend

    and someone to love at the same time
    Jojomojoo Jojomojoo 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 11

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 3

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    I want him to understand

    and appreciate me fully..... I want to learn n grow with him. Can't wait to meet my best friend... When the time is right....
    lovenlight84 lovenlight84 26-30, F 16 Responses Oct 17

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    Wana love someone who cares about anything

    and everything i do or feel. Someone very open and trust worthy
    dkayalee dkayalee 22-25 2 Responses Nov 9

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    estellerosen estellerosen 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 9

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    I want to engage on all levels.

    I want to engage you and I deserve for you to engage me. I want to be able to share everything and anything with you, if I choose. I may not but the option is there. I want our souls to be engaged. I want our emotional and our physical connections to "speak volumes."
    DiaLuz DiaLuz 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22

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    BizzyEager BizzyEager 18-21, F 21 Responses Oct 6

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    DesiredUsername23 DesiredUsername23 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I need a personal trainer,

    someone to get hot and sweaty with, someone to have a shower with and then get hot and sweaty again ;)
    happyhel79 happyhel79 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 1

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    margai margai 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    This is my first time writing.

    I looked for awhile online to find a site I could remain anonymous and feel safe. This is the only thing I could do to not cheat on my husband. I have been married for many years. I have a husband who spends up to 8hours online watching YouTube, Facebook, and listening to music...
    naomiR1 naomiR1 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 16 Responses Oct 30

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    Don't ask for much do I like,

    alls I want is a nice little boyfriend who I can also call my bestfriend,depresses meπŸ˜’πŸ˜’
    queencxnt queencxnt 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 10

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    It hurts the worst when the person

    that made you feel so special yesterday, makes you feel so unwanted today.....
    chavvat chavvat 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Being single means you can realize what you

    really want, and wait for the right one is worthwhile :)
    Sungood Sungood 31-35, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    but sometimes I worry

    that I'm asking too much of one person...
    dvolt dvolt 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    I feel alone and very inexperienced

    because I have never had a boyfriend. Everyone tells me how cute I am and I have an amazing personality, yet I can't even get a date. I guess my biggest fear is that I'll die without ever experiencing a romantic love. I've been patient for about 3 yrs now and I just want to give...
    TheNewChico TheNewChico 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Recently I hurt my boyfriends feelings,

    he said that I've hurt something inside but he don't know what, I said I think it your pride. He said maybe.. We didn't talk for few days, when we did talk he was a bit cold. When we had a conversation before he said he wouldn't tell me how he felt about me emotionally or...
    missree missree 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 6

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    Sometimes we need to simply be there.

    .. not to fix anything or do anything in particular, but just to let us feel we are supported and cared about.
    chavvat chavvat 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 12

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    I love meeting new people

    and befriending them sincerely, with no hidden agenda. Enjoying each other companion- intellectually, emotionally, spiritually and mentally. Sometimes sparks happen, sometimes it does not and it is okay. But I believe falling in love with best friend is the best because you don...
    peacefulhut peacefulhut 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 13

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    I feel like I have tooo much love to give,

    when I'm in love, I love that person with all my heart and everyone I've been with hasn't be able to handle it.. Pushes them away they can't accept my love i do come across quite "needy", but that's because I crave the same amount of love I'm giving, back!
    Bluelille Bluelille 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am lucky enough to have found true love with

    my best friend and the below is exactly how it happened it was never meant to it just did. There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    xomariposaxo xomariposaxo 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 31

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    searching for my angel.

    ... feeling lonely.. :(
    chetukapoor1 chetukapoor1 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I'm looking for that to experience wit.

    let mi know if wan the same.
    MrDoggyStyl MrDoggyStyl 26-30, F Nov 10

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    I want one of those relationships

    where trust is the strongest thing. I want to fall in love with a man who knows my flaws and loves me for them. Someone who is with me through everything I feel, even if he doesn't understand it. someone who will protect me from the person who hurts me and gives me scars and...
    chocolatecurlz chocolatecurlz 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Soooo this so cliche

    and kind of a movie stereotype I have a best friend (a girl) how has another friend (a boy) and I really like him like really I have a crush on him for like a month maybe, but him used to like a friend from my best friend and he kind of still likes her or I don't know but he is...
    alek42 alek42 18-21, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I am poor,disabled, pretty,

    and wise in alot of areas. I don't have the money to travel....but I feel my mate is far from these parts. I wish I could post this on a dating site without being judged. I have chronic pain most days and it affects my moods sometimes when it gets unbearable, i am irritable on...
    queenyann queenyann 46-50, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ever loved someone so much,

    you would do anything for them? Yeah, well, make that someone yourself and do what you want!
    Maihowl Maihowl 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 24

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 39 Responses Sep 11

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    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 7

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    I am thinking of having an affair I can't stand

    not getting enough sex from my wife anymore
    Toobusy44 Toobusy44 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 10

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    I think I won't ever be in a relationship.

    I soul-searched and realized that I am who I am, and there's no one who could change that. I think I don't deserve someone special in my life because of the principles I live with. I think, I'll have to conform to the society to get one because in order for you to have a healthy...
    crimsonr crimsonr 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 12

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 16-17, F 12 Responses Sep 12

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    I want to be in a relationship with someone I

    trust and have fun with. I really don't need much else.
    racingSnail racingSnail 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    Your Beauty....My Lady!

    What wonderful summer day. We both rise early. I go outside to mow the lawn and do some yard work. I return inside the house and promptly get in the shower. Once all freshened I enter our room, there you are sitting on the bed humming to yourself as you paint your toes...
    NorthernMan1966 NorthernMan1966 46-50, M 8 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    I want to kiss and be kissed - long,

    sweet, hungry kisses. I want your arms around me, pressing me close. I want to feel your hands and mouth caressing the contours of my body. And I also want to be able to banter with you, match wits, talk about ideas. Am I just being greedy, or expecting too much?
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    I just realized I want alot just a full

    relationship love and sex and kissing and more sex sex sex!!! Wtf is wrong with me. He needs to be there for me wen I'm sad then we can have sex. When I'm angry with him makeup sex. Good morning sex, I just got home from a hard day at work sex. Okay I love sex!!!!
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 9

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    This is my dream!!! In a perfect world,

    this would happen! Hopefully I get to be lucky enough for this to happen!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I want someone I can trust.

    Someone I can tell my