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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

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    Someone i can talk to about anything.

    Someone who isn't judgemental. who will be there for me. And i will return all in kind. Someone who loves to have late night conversations. Someone who isn't afraid to show their emotions.
    thekindhearted1 thekindhearted1 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 28

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    My boyfriend is my best friend!

    Your partner SHOULD be your best friend and you should want to do everything together, and hang out, and go on adventures, and tell each other your secrets. Your partner should know you completely - the good, the bad, and the ugly, and love you anyway. I just see my bf as a...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 26-30, F 5 Responses May 28, 2015

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    I've Found It Once,The Perfect Girl Made

    Especially For Me..She Was My Best Friend and Lover.This Girl Would Tell Me,That Every Moment We Were Together,She'd Have Butterflies In Her Stomach.I Fell Madly and Deeper In Love With Her Every Single Day. BUT,Will I Ever Find That Type Of Love Again? Will I Ever Find Another...
    BiggBeautifulBri BiggBeautifulBri 46-50, M Jan 27

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    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    Those people are the luckiest ever in my view.

    I wish I'll find one in common.
    heartfelt123 heartfelt123 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 24, 2015

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    I have that. I have someone in my life

    who loves me flaws and all. Loves me on my good days and my bad days. I can tell my fears, hopes and dreams to without fear. We read each other's minds. My lover and I are a united team on the quest to reach a level of love that has never been discovered before. My lover is my...
    solostance solostance 31-35, T 1 Response Jan 28

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    Would be great to have tgst deep connection

    with someone. That connection that transcends sex and friendship. Such a shame it is so rare.
    Robbie8891 Robbie8891 26-30, M Jan 17

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    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 19, 2015

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    Hi girls I'm new to site & looking

    for some female company to have some fun with!!being indoors or out for so if can handle leaving from this blokes house with a smile you will were for a week legs like jelly but with the feeling of you could walk on water your hot and enjoys a bloke that knows how what and how...
    tonywillbe4u tonywillbe4u 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 28

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    thekindhearted1 thekindhearted1 22-25, M Jan 27

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    We’re all seeking that special person

    who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses Feb 22, 2015

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    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 31-35, F 17 Responses Mar 9, 2015

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    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 24, 2015

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    We just met, but we're in love!

    And I want to be her best friend...
    Pauly1904 Pauly1904 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 26

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    I want a boyfriend...

    Or atleast a friend
    Eunbi55 Eunbi55 22-25, F 27 Responses Jul 19, 2015

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    I want someone I can count on,

    that will be home when I get there and be happy when I get home, or I can greet happily when he gets home. We won't need TV or Internet to take up our time. We'll sit together, cuddle and make up stories.
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 8 Responses Oct 7, 2015

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    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 22 Responses Jan 10, 2015

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    And one day, it just happened.

    Exactly a month ago. Maybe it was the magic that Christmas brings, but that day changed my life forever. It was the day that we saw each other with different eyes and desperately wanted to end the night with a kiss. After 5 years of being best friends, we wanted more. And it was...
    hopelesslyromantic hopelesslyromantic 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    you lover has to be a best friend

    or it just won't work. if the sex is all you get out of the relationship, then why bother? that is where most relationships fail. and you don't fall in love overnight or In a week or a month. the bond has to grow. if the bond is only about the sex, then it is lust and not love...
    stevecobb76 stevecobb76 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 25

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    I think more people want this

    than actually have it.
    WonderingWillow11 WonderingWillow11 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 8, 2015

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    I'm blessed to have this.

    My husband and I have been together for 14 years, married for 11. We make love almost every day and he still looks at me the same way he did when we met. He still gets hard the second I put my hand on his thigh, gropes me no matter what I'm doing and loses his **** if my face is...
    WeAreAllDreamers WeAreAllDreamers 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 18, 2015

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    I'm looking for a woman

    who can be at one with me and nothing on this earth will ever separate us. What God has put together, let no man separate.
    VoloProVeritas VoloProVeritas 56-60, M Jan 27

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    Hi, my name is Anthony

    and I'm 23. I want to be with someone that truly loves me for me and doesn't break up with me an odd reason
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M Jan 17

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    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 31 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I wish I had a relationship

    where we were best friends and lovers
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Sep 30, 2015

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    I really would like to find a lover

    who is also my friend. It sounds so simple, but it is difficult to find at times.
    virginialady virginialady 41-45, F 16 Responses Oct 1, 2015

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    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    I want a lover that can be emotionally

    connected to me, to have a amazing chemistry with me, but to be able to be goofy and laugh. someone that doesn't take themselves too serious, but has a balance in work and play. I love to laugh and make love. I believe in humor, honesty, respect and passion is a perfect...
    looking4chemistry looking4chemistry 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I ALREADY LOVE IN YOU YOUR BEAUTY BUT I AM ONLY

    BEGINNING TO LOVE IN YOU THAT WHICH IS ETERNAL AND EVER PRECIOUS. YOUR HEART, YOUE SOUL. BEAUTY ONE COULD GET TO KNOW AND FALL IN LOVE WITH IN ONE HOUR AND CEASE TO LOVE IT AS SPEEDILY, BUT THE SOUL ONE MUST LEARN TO KNOW BELIEVE ME NOTHING ON EARTH IS GIVEN WITHOUT LABOR EVEN...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 27

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    And they said dating your bestfriend wouldn't

    work out, psht! I think the secret to having a good relationship with someone, is to have a good FRIENDship with them. Maybe that's why people break up, they stop liking each other and the friendship dies. So... make sure you communicate with and respect your partner in order...
    Ro5e Ro5e 18-21, F 13 Responses Oct 4, 2015

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 14 Responses Mar 23, 2015

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    I have a friend who's a bit messed up just like

    me. I almost always manage to mess things up with my moody personality and sensitivity but he stays by my side and is always there to understand and cheer me up although lately I kinda push it a little too far, maybe, that I think he gets annoyed already. hihi. (sorry) I don't...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Okay so this is how it goes.

    I have fallen for my best friend. I am in love with her. We just met some 8 months ago. But we became really close, REALLY fast. When we met she had a boyfriend. A pretty horrible one. So we helped her move on from him because he was basically destroying her life. However, she...
    GuybrushThreepwood455 GuybrushThreepwood455 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    like seriously who doesn't?

    but nowadays nobody's into relationships it's just all about hookups smh
    KayNfs KayNfs 16-17, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want someone to snuggle with on cold enough

    evenings, someone to come up behind me and give me kisses on my neck for no reason. Someone to give me love taps on my bottom as I pass by. A kiss on the forehead to say that I'm enough. Intimacy in its rarest pure form. Am I asking for to much
    Heavenly15 Heavenly15 51-55, F 13 Responses Oct 28, 2015

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    Everybody just wants to be somebody's favorite.

    No, everybody wants to be their favorite's favorite.
    QueenVenus QueenVenus 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 26, 2015

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    She’ll never know how much she changed

    him Coz he still got a lot to learn & when they chill they talk about Meredith & Christina Or Dr. Preston Burks *** (I know, wtf right?!) Then she sings…..you r my baby love my baby love …………..You make the sun come up Smack in the middle of a conversation Without heads...
    hailuda hailuda 22-25, M Jan 18

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    The photographer in Paris,

    Cedo, was very friendly and enveloping in his attention. Having sex with him was a great pleasure. Finding a guy who wants friendship as well as to be lovers is quite difficult. Most just want your body and to move on to the next conquest.
    Ducostrinity Ducostrinity 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hubby has been embarrassed about his sexuality

    for some time and recently has been telling me that he should have been born as a woman. Had I know this a couple of years ago when we began dating, I would never have married him. Yes, I am still in love with him, but we don’t get intimate now because he feels uncomfortable...
    dottypuddinghead dottypuddinghead 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Zil007 Zil007 22-25, M 7 Responses Nov 29, 2015

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    OK well to start off I'm dating this guy.

    we have been dating going on 8 months.he's in the army so we don't get to see each other all the time..that's OK keeps are relationship new I guess you can say..but anyway..in a year he will be going back home....some days I feel like I'm wasting my time because we won't be...
    lilfish lilfish 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    “It is not a lack of love,

    but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.”
    romero86 romero86 26-30, M 8 Responses Dec 25, 2015

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    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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