Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 81,391 People

    my lord, yes...a best friend

    and a lover in one: perfection.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,

    ..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I would love to Love a Lover that will be my best friend and won't drive me crazy either. Why is such a very amazingly simple. beautiful thing...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Am waiting for acute guy

    and good looking.
    Maxwellove Maxwellove 18-21, M 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well I can say that having your lover

    as your best friend is the ideal but in my experience if you start as best friends it's not always a good idea to change it into a lover . Humans fall in lust "have chemistry" then love develops ... Maybe even best friends if your lucky . That is the logical way to have your...
    roes55 roes55 56-60, F 1 Response a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 23 Responses Jan 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Cheekychopss Cheekychopss 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So here's what's going on My boyfriend has

    asked three different girls to come over and sleep with him. He lied about visiting one in Oregon and I thought things were better until he let me borrow his laptop. He has a Mac so every time he gets an email it pops up in the right hand corner and it said "thanks for signing...
    Chloe8221 Chloe8221 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My lover is my best friend.

    We stay up until the wee hours of the morning, laughing and brainstorming. What would I do without the support and understanding that only my partner can give?
    solostance solostance 31-35, T 1 Response Jun 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    HI I'm Looking For a Girlfriend

    who care about me love me and I will love here and take care of here and know more about each other text me if you think you are the one
    Adnane20301 Adnane20301 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    albaniangirl19 albaniangirl19 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Hubby likes to let our dog frolic in the

    waves when we visit the seashore. The dog loves it, but there is one small problem. While he is frolicking, he is using his mouth and jaws to catch whatever sea creatures happen to be washing in. You would be amazed by what he catches. We know this because he typically gets sick...
    AmyFass AmyFass 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    happilygay2day happilygay2day 61-65, M 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    that one person who makes your day better just

    by calling you beautiful. love him. :D
    threesomechic threesomechic 18-21, F 3 Responses May 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This is more than just sex,

    this is something deeper. To me making love and having sex is different and if I am to have a lover then I need to know this person truly loves me and we should be best friends. This has yet to happen to me, but I have faith that I will finally be with that person who I can...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want to be friends

    before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 7, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    FOREVER! And don't say you want a BFF

    and then already have a million bffs that you'd rather be with.
    stephane28 stephane28 26-30, F 7 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i want also a good friend

    because without friend Life is Empty.
    ALi14321 ALi14321 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 11, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    80mph.Speed up.Buckle up

    and reach out.
    arforest arforest 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not lovers, but more

    than friends I bet that in childhood you had many friends, boys or girls, it doesn't matter, you were playing and laughing without worrying that they will think that you are crazy or something, without worrying that you are not cool. Then, in hose days of innocence...
    RosaryLaCroix RosaryLaCroix 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This is all very well

    until you break up.
    Faerylight Faerylight 41-45, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There is a special kind of beauty in falling in

    love with a friend nights filled with endless chatter buzzing messages and bright screens until your eyelids grow to heavy and you say night sweet dreams. There is a special kind of peace when the morning sun soothes you awake smiling eyes focus on the messages of last night...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 4, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 37 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why is it so hard to find an engaging,

    non-smothery person who has values and goals and can say what they mean? One of the truly great mysteries of the present age... Good conversation and great sex with a side of take care of your ****: is that too much to ask for?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I just felt a spark as

    if I had found her. I was walking through the checkout line, and of course being the idiot I am, I didn't do anything. I am so stupid, I hope I find her there again. I have absolutely no experience when it comes to girls, I'm just awkward and I hate it.
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My lover is my best friend,

    but it is a mess. Where to begin, and it will be a bit lengthy. I will call him D and we met when we were 11. It has been the same bond since we first met. I realized I loved him in my very early teens. But as a young male he was oblivious. I watched him and was often the 3rd...
    dfclifton55 dfclifton55 56-60, F 2 Responses Jun 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The best thing in the world is

    when you're "in love" and also "in like."
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 31-35, F 23 Responses Mar 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    isnt that what the basis of any kind of

    relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for companionship and friendship in a relationship, the love grows stronger..and that's what I need a best friend for a lover!
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 30, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    kylee19 kylee19 18-21, M 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It hurts when you've experienced this

    and then lose it. It haunts me that I'll never find a relationship like that again.
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 15 Responses Nov 21, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want a lover who can be here

    for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ever it's really hard to solve love problems.

    .. It's always irrational, right??
    actionluva actionluva 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    GazaL07 GazaL07 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    "I don't want wedding vows.

    .. But yes, I do want a man who will never let me sleep with tears in my eyes. I do want a man who would care about my feelings and never hurt me, let me down or take me for granted. I do want a man who is honest with me and whom I can trust blindingly. I want a man who would...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 14, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I luv intelligent witty conversations,

    the back and forth banter like a tennis match with someone who inspires me to be the best I can. Someone who doesn't criticize but can see things from my shoes and offer comfort me or kick me in the butt depending on what is need and has the smarts to know which one. Someone...
    SadDancer SadDancer 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Dear whoever you are,

    Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the divorce is almost final. I'm okay that I'm never going to be with her again. But now, this desire to love and be loved is...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 18 Responses Dec 4, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I still believe that you will end up living in

    the world that you will create, where 1. your dominance should only reach up to 75%, and the rest 25% be the results of your influence over your partner's 100% involvement with the issue. OR 2. your dominance should not exceed 50%, while you give up the rest 50% to be...
    lovegentle lovegentle 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Cariebearie Cariebearie 22-25, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want a best girl-friend

    that I can do naughty things with
    bumblebpea bumblebpea 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    lilimao lilimao 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 1

    Your Response

    Cancel

    my gf treats me like crap

    and i can't stand it anymore. she's really controlling and nasty towards me and literally NEVER wants to be close to me any more. i feel so alone all the time and her constant telling me what i can and can't do is making me lose who i am as a person. i can't even talk to women...
    lonelyandhurtguy lonelyandhurtguy 22-25, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm a single, caring,

    openminded, understanding and respectful guy in his 30s who doesn't judge. Is there any genuine women out there who want a meaningful friendship with me?.
    Tannedguy007 Tannedguy007 26-30, M a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel