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I Want a Man to Dominate Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,254 People

    A Women Like Me

    I'm a strong chick so I want a guy who is more then willing to take control and if I put up a fight I want him tossing me on the bed ordering me to get undressed. One of my favorite sayings come to life lol because I truly am dominant by nature and submissive by choice. *sigh...
    HanaNoMizu HanaNoMizu
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 17, 2008

    I'm Looking For A Sub Or Slave.

    Online or real time. Interested, drop me a line.
    Jsecoy Jsecoy
    56-60, M
    Oct 23, 2013

    Do As You Wish

    i love being controlled being given tasks and orders to be carried out without hesitation is what i love to do and just staying quiet unless i am spoken to quiet with a smile on my face. doing anything to make people happy whatever it is that they wish if it is from cleaning to...
    xdsubamy xdsubamy
    26-30, T
    Jun 26, 2013

    New To This.

    So recently I found a girl to do this with. At first I was a bit iffy on what to do but now really into it! I love telling her when she can *** getting her all wet and how she should touch herself. It's great having that kind of control over a woman. So I guess what I'm here...
    deleted deleted
    May 10, 2013

    Vic's Outdoor Punishment

    (note for the readers : I write each of my stories for a specific sub - some are fantasies, some are scenarios that will actually play out, some are stories based on passed experiences. I want to share those stories with EP, because I'm interested in what others think, if they...
    drfessee drfessee
    36-40, M
    Jan 23, 2013

    Some time ago I posted "I Collect" in many

    experience groups. There was a link to a three page site ( ) saying I collect women. Out of all these stories and groups and all these girls and women professing they want to be sex slaves or they want to runaway or they want to be used, I...
    ownerofmany ownerofmany
    56-60, M
    Mar 3, 2014


    My boyfriend just dosnt seem to get the hint that I would LOVE him to take control of our relationship. I have a very dominating personality and my boyfriend is a complete submissive. I do love him .. but its hard to do anything with him when I myslef want to be...
    Rayneebird Rayneebird
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Jan 6, 2010

    I absolutely love dominating women.

    The problem i have is when i find someone who says they like "rough sex" or want to be "dominated" what they really mean is a light spanking and me picking positions. Its gotten to the point for me that i start really easy until i can see just how serious they are. So to all the...
    Gnb6609 Gnb6609
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 8, 2014

    My fiancé is wonderful

    and I love him so much, but he won't dominate me like I want him to. He always asks me what I want, and I just really want him to use me. I always tell him that but he doesn't listen
    Jessie289 Jessie289
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 26, 2014

    My Story Of Dominating A Female

    I am a good looking, intelligent, multiracial man in a successful career. I am 6'2" and in good physical shape (gym 5 days a week). Just over a year ago, I was on a business trip where a small group of us went out for dinner and drinks. After the party ended, the group returned...
    jwtecy jwtecy
    51-55, M
    Aug 28, 2013

    All kinds of males find all kinds of uses

    for all kinds of females, well, kinky ones anyway! *Copied from another post, I just liked it.*
    ownerofmany ownerofmany
    56-60, M
    Mar 12, 2014

    Tips To Start Dominating Your Woman

    This was in response to a person whose girlfriend wanted him to spank her and discipline her. Once I wrote this out I figured I could share it to others who are faced with a woman that wishes for them to control them and dominate them: There are many sites and communities out...
    sirsemega sirsemega
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

    Why can you find a man

    who would make love to you over and over all day and night
    jackielinton jackielinton
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Apr 27, 2014

    Dirty Talk Domination

    I love when a guy talks really dirty to me, calling me his little *** **** and degrading me while he ***** and dominates me. It's the best when he asks me a question and when I go to respond he deep throats his **** into me and says "******* *****, like I care what you think, you...
    UnchainedKitty UnchainedKitty
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2013

    Hi, I'm Jim. I'm looking

    for a woman to move into a quiet country lifestyle , temporary or long term, if you need a place to get away and play drop me a line. I live on 26 acres in the country with both pets and farm animals. Looking for women who love country life. I'm open to distance but over time...
    Jsecoy Jsecoy
    56-60, M
    Jul 20, 2015

    A Favorite Quote

    I want to put myself absolutely at your mercy for good or evil without any condition, without any limit to your power. -- Leopold von Sacher-Masoch
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    22 Responses Jan 8, 2010

    How I Dominated And Impregnated Her

    We were finally getting together! I knew you were excited and nervous to be hooking up with me at last. I told you that there would be a key held for you at the front desk. You were to go up to the room first and undress before you saw me. You entered the room—not really...
    lussfabu lussfabu
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jul 7, 2011

    Master Wanted

    i am 18 male, looking for a master to control me online, i will do anything they say. i have never had a master before and want to try it, please email me
    masterwanted masterwanted
    Jun 23, 2013


    I want to be with a man who is dominate, and not afraid to control. In real life, not online. I am looking for someone who knows how to do it, and understands the boundaries. Honestly I think some guys go a bit over board, and don't really truly understand Dom/sub. My last Dom...
    TellyLuvsSex TellyLuvsSex
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 3, 2013

    Hi, I'm Jim. I'm looking

    for a female sub or subs to move into a quiet country lifstyle , temporary or long term, if you need a place to get away and relax, to be yourself without reservation drop me a line. if you have questions send me a message
    Jsecoy Jsecoy
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2014

    Sometime ago I tried to start a website

    for young women who wanted to do more than just talk. There are so many fakes and liars here that it is pitiful. I was so disappointed in the response I got. I want to try again so I have a beginning. I want the real girls who want to live their dreams to go look. http...
    titebox titebox
    41-45, F
    Mar 9, 2015

    Learning My Place

    My Master was having a Super Bowl Party. It was about two months after he had put my first collar on me, honoring me as his toy and possession. I was 19 at the time and had been dancing in his club for two years. As the only white girl who was working and entertaining steadily...
    hotlilhiney hotlilhiney
    26-30, F
    7 Responses May 17, 2011

    I Want A Man To Dominate Me.

    I want a man to dominate me. I always have. Ever since losing my virginity it allways seems like the man wants me to be in control and everytime I ask a man too dominate me they either really don't want to and pull a wierd face or they are too light and don't want to "harm" me...
    YesMaster YesMaster
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 26, 2011

    She Is Waiting

     I enter the room I can’t help seeing how exquisite, you look kneeling before, your statement of submission. Has me thinking how I will use you; shall I have you worshiping me with your mouth? It is heaven to have you wrap my lips around my manhood and have you take my...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 21, 2010

    I Want To Be Dominated

    I have a boyfriend who does not understand my want to be dominated. I am the submissive type and am looking for someone who would be willing to dominate me. I have never been trained as someone's sub but am looking for a strong man who will take control over me and does not like...
    sexytoy1234 sexytoy1234
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 27, 2010

    Vicky's Punishment For Smoking

    (note for the readers : I write each of my stories for a specific sub - some are fantasies, some are scenarios that will actually play out, some are stories based on passed experiences. I want to share those stories with EP, because I'm interested in what others think, if they...
    drfessee drfessee
    36-40, M
    Jan 23, 2013

    Hold Me Down And Make Love Ot Me

    I love being dominated! I love it when a man is on top of me, and he holds my arms out to the side against the bed and doesn't let me move. I feel sexy when I am submissive. I like to be told what to do in bed, too. The less control I have, the sexier sex is, and the more I...
    audreylewis95 audreylewis95
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 30, 2011

    I am a slave and I have been

    for a long time. I am happy being what I am because I feel it is what I was born to be. I am looking for females from anywhere who want to be slaves too. To those of you who think that I am just looking for more for my Owner that is not the case. Sure, I would like to find more...
    titebox titebox
    41-45, F
    Aug 27, 2014

    Hi there people. I am a looking

    for a female submissive who would like to be trained to be my perfect pet. I respect your limits and won't force you to do something you're uncomfortable with. Please message me if you're serious. My only expectation is that you are willing to eventually become comfortable with...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2015

    Looking For A Dominating Man To Train Me To Be A Sub

    It has been a year and 5 months since I have had sex with someone other than myself. I am married... he has lost all interest in sex. We have over our 21 years of marriage become nothing more than roommates. He is 57, ten years my senior. I have a need for a man to Dominate me...
    RheaBrighid RheaBrighid
    51-55, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2013

    Hi I'M Addy

    I'm new at this. And I don't really know what to say or do. But I would like to find someone to dominate me. I'm sort of shy at first I must admit. And sort of inexperienced at all this lol.
    Addy321 Addy321
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 5, 2013

    I Am A Real Master

    A REAL MASTERI am single . i do not have any kids. bit i love kids. i know i can give the baby over thing it would need and most all. so i am tired playing game. if you are for real LET ME KNOW READY TO TEACH
    Ravens522006 Ravens522006
    41-45, M
    Jul 6, 2013

    Learning My Place

    My Master was having a Super Bowl Party. It was about two months after he had put my first collar on me, honoring me as his toy and possession. I was 19 at the time and had been dancing in his club for two years. As the only white girl who was working and entertaining steadily...
    hotlilhiney hotlilhiney
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2011

    I haven't been online

    for a while because I finally convinced my former owner to take me back!! YES!! While I was on my own He acquired this most amazing 23 year old who is ssoooooo good with her hands and tongue! I have spent a lot of time in a cage, chained, or "hooked" against the wall just...
    titebox titebox
    41-45, F
    Aug 22, 2014

    Take The Control

    I want a man to take from me the control I carry around in my everyday life. I am the boss and the control freak, but I want to be able to trust a man to take the control and use it and me to bring us both to a state of pleasure. I don't want to be in control anymore. I want that...
    teenieetinyy teenieetinyy
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 24, 2011

    Something To Ponder

    Seduce my mind and you can have my body; Find my soul and I'm yours forever. ~ Anonymous
    BearandSG BearandSG
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2013

    I'm Looking For A New Female Sub...

    I just have to figure out exactly what I want this time. On the one hand, experienced subs know how to behave... On the other hand, breaking in a new toy can be so much fun. Decisions, decisions.
    FreeThinkerJames FreeThinkerJames
    31-35, M
    6 Responses Aug 2, 2010

    Take Me I'm Yours

    I want to be the perfect slave to a man. He will require that I call him Master, Sir, or any other names of his choosing. I will be his to use physically, emotionally, and sexually. I will pleasure him in whatever way he asks. I am new to this and I need to be properly trained to...
    sexslavelexie sexslavelexie
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jun 13, 2011

    Take Control of Me

    in life i have to have control except when it comes to sex, i love being dominated by a man when it comes to that . being told what to do and how he likes it turns me on and i its the only time i feel femimine if that makes any sense
    roulette roulette
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 13, 2007

    I Need Some Advice...

    So my girlfriend has recently expressed a severe interest in me dominating her but the small problem with it is that I am in no way an aggressive person and she does not only want domination in the bedroom but around the house as well. For instance she asked me what she should...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 29, 2013

    I Want To Belong To A Man Completely

    I do like guys to like me back. I do like to be loved and moonlight dinners. I have no issues whatsoever. But I crave with all my soul a man who will completely dominate me. That will make me his in anyway he wants to. Use me like a *****.  I know it sucks! It even sounds...
    BeeSimones BeeSimones
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jul 20, 2012


    im really at the point where i get so depressed aboout my relationship , i just wanna go out sometime and just get my drink on and meet a real nice guy.. that really understands me and my needs..and is kinda in same position as me...but when behind closed doors will blindfold me...
    stacie30 stacie30
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Aug 29, 2011

    The Hotel Manager

    On a business trip to Zambia last week, I was greeted by an enthusiastic young Dutch lady, who was managing the hotel I was staying in. She had been on the job only a few weeks, and she was all smiles and laughs, and very friendly and polite. Even though she had taken up a...
    drfessee drfessee
    36-40, M
    Nov 15, 2013

    I Am A Man

    I am a man, in good shape, 180 lbs. loves the gym. I want a man to dominate me on this site. I am not a *****, I am a macho dude who wants a macho dude to take charge and have no mercy on me. Push me to my limits and make me dirty hot and sweaty and his! I am very obedient...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

    Join Me?

    I have done all I know to tempt my former owner to reclaim me but it has been a fruitless effort. I am alone and without my owner I feel empty. I have been approached by others but they did not seem to have enough strength of character or mind to sway my attention. I began to...
    titebox titebox
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2013

    Yeah I am a virgin and I Gus's

    that also one of the reason I want a dominate man ;) ....... I don't know why but no matter how hard I try to believe reality but I always end up imagining the guy who is dominating ( in a good sense ) , caring , loving , and protective about me . It really turns me on if a guy...
    Rose15687 Rose15687
    26-30, F
    Mar 20, 2014

    Male Dom here.. looking

    for that right female sub..
    guyhere4u guyhere4u
    51-55, M
    Jul 28, 2015

    I Like To Be Dominated A Bit By Other Men

    For quite some time I have known that I am bisexual and crave another man's **** from time to time. I've been meeting guys for sex on a regular basis, and the internet is a huge help with that - when I'm horny I log onto some of the gay websites and quite often manage to hook up...
    Youngcockzeigegeil Youngcockzeigegeil
    31-35, M
    1 Response May 2, 2011

    Love It

    I love being sexually dominated by men. I think it started when I was in high school, having sex with guys that were about 10 years older than me. I loved the sounds they would make and the looks on their faces when I was doing my best to please them. I loved letting them use my...
    kick76 kick76
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2012

    First Date

    My submissive let me know right from the start in her her first email to me "I need a man to be dominate at play" no guessing here. We talked in email and phone for month and the set up a date at a nice hotel in Albuquerque. She is my beautiful Valkyrie over 6 feet,strong...
    mountainrogue mountainrogue
    1 Response Nov 22, 2010

    Hard And Fast

    My hands tied above my head, my Master forces an arch in my back, and kicks my legs apart. I am standing with my feet chained fast to the ground, my ***** throbbing with desire for him. He takes long, black hair in his hand, pulling my head even farther back as his lips close...
    Smileyface43 Smileyface43
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 5, 2011
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