I Want a Polyamorous Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 493 People

    Polyamorous ??? Ain't

    that some kind of dinosaur ? Dang!! That thang would **** you up bad !!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 23, 2015

    I think it was Germaine Greer who

    once pointed out the unrealism of expecting one person to satisfy or even address all unmet needs of their partner. Instead of bargaining and lowering your expectations of one person doing it all, why not engage several partners - apportioned to specific roles and strengths? I'm...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 14

    I dont think were intended to be with only one

    mate being that all the qualities the average person wants cant be found in one person. The only thing is when i am kept a secret like some kind of sl-t or mistress from the other women in my guys life. Im worth being acknolwedged. And having a polyamorous relationship would be...
    HoneyBlondeDrWhoCompanion HoneyBlondeDrWhoCompanion
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Nov 4, 2015

    Looking for some feedback.

    How have people explained poly relationships to their kids? Other family members?
    LookingForIt987 LookingForIt987
    46-50, M
    Jan 22, 2015

    Ready For A Poly Relationship In Az

    My GF and I met about 6 years ago when we both worked for the same company.  We both didn't know it at the time but we both wanted the same things and quickly formed a wonderful and very loving relationship based on being truly best friends and a lot of communication.  We have...
    wetwildanimal wetwildanimal
    41-45
    2 Responses Apr 10, 2012

    looking for another to join.

    hoping. myself and my gf. we would like another girl. seeing as we lesbian and not bi. sorry boys :'(
    Lookingupalways Lookingupalways
    26-30, F
    Jan 5, 2015

    My husband and I have been talking about

    involving another woman in our relationship... a full time girlfriend, someone who would be just as part of our family as we are but we aren't sure about the experience... not sure how that would work... bit we are open to the experience.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    It Feels Like A Punishment...

    I am poly, but my husband is monogamous. Up until recently I've had a relationship with one woman, and my husband. The two relationships are separate, because he didn't want to know, hear, or even think about my bisexuality. No matter how I've tried to share, suggested marriage...
    ElleNoir ElleNoir
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 6, 2013

    I've Been Polyamorous And I Want It Again

    I spent the first 40 years of my life going down the serial monogamy trail until I was introduced to polyamoury by my oldest friend.  After doing a lot of research on the subject I decided that THIS was what I was missing in my life.  I began a relationship with my...
    Angelpoly Angelpoly
    41-45
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2010

    Hey I'm a ploy girl and I'm in a relationship

    already one dude 2 girlies were bi we have 3 kids and a kitty I'm hear just looking for people like me to talk to
    prettypolyprincess prettypolyprincess
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 10, 2014

    Riddle Me This

    why does it take until I am almost 30 years old to realize I would like to be in a polyamorous relationship, but it only took me about 3 minutes to realize how hard that would be. I went through the "when, where, why and how" emotions. and the only option it seems is to hunt them...
    mrslady1 mrslady1
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jan 14, 2013

    Actually already sharing a loving relationship

    with several other girls. We base our caring and sharing on 2 models. Nymphs in a glen, and a troop of baboons described by a Stamford U prof. The key is to treat one another with kind words, smiles, much touching, grooming each other and always there for one another in times of...
    nudigirl nudigirl
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    I've been with my boyfriend

    for 10 years and I don't want to get married because I feel that I need more fulfillment from him but then knowing him as I do I think only bringing in a girlfriend will make our relationship much better since I can do things with her that he doesn't like to do ? Where can I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    i want to be with my curent partner yes

    but i love someone elce as well
    Lokisvixen Lokisvixen
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 7, 2015

    Its hard making friends in the area

    that are open to this kind of relationship and on top of that the few you do find question our relationship.
    Boyfriendfor2 Boyfriendfor2
    31-35, M
    May 29, 2015

    I am a bisexual British male 22 year old

    preferably looking to form a new polyamorous MFM relationship with no pre-existing attachments although would consider joining a couple. I am looking for emotional connections, not just sex :D
    Shikeji Shikeji
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 23, 2015

    Sometime ago I tried to start a website

    for young women who wanted to do more than just talk. There are so many fakes and liars here that it is pitiful. I was so disappointed in the response I got. I want to try again so I have a beginning. I want the real girls who want to live their dreams to go look. http...
    titebox titebox
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2015

    My wife and I are in our early 20s

    but have been married for 5 years. She is bisexual and we have talked about and played with the idea of her having a girlfriend and if the girlfriend was ok with it I would join them. The problem is every time I bring it up my wife gets upset about it. But it's not like she's...
    Lancekandi Lancekandi
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 13, 2015

    Love More, Our Reasoning For Wanting A Polyidelitous Family

    This is a portion of an article from Psychology Today Group Marriage and the Future of the Family By Deborah Anapol, Ph.D. on March 22, 2012 - 9:13pm Group marriages  (polyfidelity) can mean a higher standard of living while consuming fewer resources. Intimate partners are...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 30, 2013

    My husband and I are searching

    for an attractive single young female to be part of our lives. We are very active and caring people and would love to share ourselves with someone.
    mgobluechick mgobluechick
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 24, 2014

    I have been having an internal fight with

    myself. I've always, since I was 2, known that I like guys and girls. As I've gotten older I thought that I was considered to be bisexual. I've always struggled with the thought of getting married to a man and loving him completely but a lost falling for a woman or another male...
    imateenagewasteland imateenagewasteland
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2015

    My wife and I are looking

    for a serious, long-term, equal relationship with a Bi female for a closed triad(I guess that's the best term). We certainly won't turn down anyone just looking for friendship. We have been married for four and a half years, dated two and a half years before that, and were...
    Raefediova Raefediova
    22-25, M
    Aug 6, 2015

    I think I'd really like a boyfriend,

    but it's tough finding someone in my area that'll be accepting.
    trixieBeaDee trixieBeaDee
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    My girlfriend and i have been talking about

    getting a girlfriend for both of us to date in our local area. Hopefully between 24-32 bi woman that would be interested in us as a couple.
    Boyfriendfor2 Boyfriendfor2
    31-35, M
    1 Response Mar 17, 2015

    I'm a black guy looking

    for bisexual women that want to be shared in the same polyamorous relationship where I'd be the only male ever involved.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 3, 2015

    My boyfriend/ex-husband are always honest with

    each other. Some people say that, but leave out sexual fantasies. Not so with us. We have had additional female sexual partners throughout our 15 year on and off relationship. We have rarely had a spark of jealousy. We are human. However, there is never any drama. We either work...
    parttimefreak parttimefreak
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jun 26, 2015

    I certain now more than ever

    that I want to be in a relationship with 2 or more bisexual men no straight guys and no established mf couples. Just bisexual/pansexual/etc from here on out. I can't handle it any other way. I'm done trying.
    newasexy newasexy
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 14

    Maybe not for the rest of my life

    but for a point in my life, yes. I just dont date people who think like me . If you watch Mistresses(yes I know fictional love is different but still) . My ideal situation is something like that of Karen, Vivian and Alec's. It's a learning experience and they are such an...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Jul 29, 2015
    itsjessagain itsjessagain
    22-25, F
    6 Responses May 28, 2015

    We are a married couple in Oklahoma.

    Wife is 37 and bi. We would be thrilled to find another female to join us in our journey.....
    kten59 kten59
    56-60, M
    Oct 27, 2015

    Well my husband found a partner

    and now that I said I was ready to he wants me to find a woman so we can share or be in a triad with. Not sure how I feel about that.
    WitchHazel71 WitchHazel71
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015

    we are a dom couple in Missouri we would like

    to find the right submissive couple for a poly relationship but as of yet it is hard to find but we wont give up we believe it will happen when the time is right we have lots of love for the right couple
    madrun madrun
    51-55, M
    1 Response Apr 25, 2014
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian
    22-25, M
    Jul 23, 2015

    I'm in a difficult situation

    because I would love to have my boyfriend be opened to another man participating with us sexually, but I don't know how to bring it up. We've been dating for many years and it's a very serious relationship. We aren't the marrying type, and I believe he would do it, but I just...
    jharbor jharbor
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Jan 30, 2014

    I am a straight Dominant male,

    looking to form a committed poly triad family w/ two Submissive females that are bisexual or hetroflexible. This triad will be a loving faithful committed marriage like any other (admittedly more kinky ;-)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 26, 2015

    my Husband and i are in a D/s relationship

    and are looking to meet another female for friendship and possible LTR. W/we are from NYC but are open to meeting people from anywhere. W/we are loving, fun, love to have a good time, and have the utmost respect for our marriage and would love to meet a like minded female...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 6, 2014

    I'd love this with women especially

    if they sleep with each other. so sexy. I'd love to watch them make love.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian
    22-25, M
    Aug 7, 2015

    Polyamory has always been something

    that has interested me. I have told my current partner of almost 4 years many times that I feel like I have this deep love inside me, and I feel that if I met the right people, I could share it with them without me losing my love for him. Of course, he doesn't believe me. Who...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 24, 2014

    I am a female looking

    for a poly couple.. I reside in Utah. . :) im 32 years young.. looking to get to know some people as well
    Justmeashley Justmeashley
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Feb 21, 2015

    My boyfriend and I are looking

    for a girl (we're thinking 19-22 for age, although, obviously, there would be an exception if the right girl weren't in this range) to join our relationship. We're looking to be a part of a polyfi triad, and yes, this would be the first poly relationship either of us will have...
    adventuresandprincesses adventuresandprincesses
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2014

    Kitty and I are totally poly,

    but we just don't have time to pursue anything beyond each other :(
    jojokarel jojokarel
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 30, 2014

    ever since i started dating i never really

    could see myself with one person and i never really wanted my bf to be stuck with only me. NO i do not want to have relations with random people i rather we have relationships instead "flings". relationships more than just sex it should instead be filled with love
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2014
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