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I Want a Secret Lover

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 517 People

    Married But No Sex

    I love my husband dearly,but somehow the vavavu is not there anymorewe dont have sex anymore,i mean from having it twice a day to once or three times a year,still he still act as if he got better thing to do when we having what turn out to be 2 minutes sex.I need sex, i love sex...
    Durangos Durangos 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    Secret Or Not, I Want a Lover

    I am married but have had very little sex in my 25 years of being married.  My wife does not believe in oral sex (giver or rec), so i have never experience oral sex.  I would love to have a lover that wanted to make love to me, wanted to experiment, and would want...
    kindashy50 kindashy50 51-55, M 14 Responses May 8, 2009

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    I Am A Asian

    i want a secret lover ...that s so sweet when you have something secret just you and other one know that ..contact to me <3
    dct250689 dct250689 22-25, M Sep 21, 2013

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    Wouldn't It Be Nice

    Have you ever waken up in the morning and look out the window and hope for an exciting day.  One that you would not forget for a long time.  One that could bring memories until your a 100 years old.  I've always wished a could have a relationship with another...
    Looking123 Looking123 51-55, M 5 Responses Jan 1, 2009

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    My Wife Is Going Through The Change The Last Thing She Wants Is Sex.

    My wife is going through the change of life. For the past year she has not been into sex like we were before. When we first met we were  friends that had heard stories about each other. We started talking and figured out that we had the same thoughts on sex. We started to see...
    ajdees ajdees 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    Could She Be On Experience Project?

    At some time in our lives I am sure we have all fantasized about a certain person we know or someone we hope to meet. At this time in my life I still wish that this would happen. I have been on this site for quite some time and have sent and received alot of emails. Amazingly...
    Looking123 Looking123 51-55, M Sep 19, 2010

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    Because Of The Lack Of

    For a guy to admit that there has been a lack of excitement, or whatever is sometimes embarrassing. Being in a long term relationship that has had ups and downs makes my mind wander off and hope for something new to come. Maybe a secret lover. Hell even a lover that is out in the...
    viewinthemasses viewinthemasses 22-25, M Jun 24, 2010

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    I Have Had Several Secret Lovers And I Miss It

    I love my wife so I quit 5 years ago because I was feeling out of control and one of the women became much too attached. I miss the excitement and the sexual intensity of different lovers.
    HotTXnights HotTXnights 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    Someone Who....

    ...I could fall in love with... ...Someone I could share my secret fantasies with.... ...someone I could meet in secret and make love to alllllll weekend....
    Isshe Isshe 36-40, F 18 Responses Jun 16, 2010

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    I Love Secrets

    I'd love to keep something entirely to myself..text messages..phone calls..secret rendezvous. Any takers?
    cloudsinmycoffee cloudsinmycoffee 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 19, 2009

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    Secret Lover

    I recently made a connection with a guy, we passionately made out in my car, but I had to go home, so we exchanged numbers. I hesitated to text him, but early the following evening I did. We set plans to meet for Saturday night when he got off work. He is a bartender, I guess I...
    sally7 sally7 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Be Mine?

    I am married but lover is not the word I would use for my husband right now. I want someone to pursue me without the creepiness. Behind the screen could be someone ugly. I believe you fall in love with the person regardless... come find me.
    Soultryst Soultryst 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 10, 2010

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    Queen In Yellow

     I have no queen...And i want a secret one that is as ellusive as me, The king in yellow...And secret from the rest of the kingdom
    TheKingInYellow TheKingInYellow 70+, M Jan 11, 2010

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    A Toy

    I think what I really want is someone to be my sex toy. I'm not going to buy you flowers. I'm not going to call you on your birthday. I'm not going to ask how your day was. I'm going to look you in the eyes until you look away then I'm going to circle around you, smell your...
    kevinfun33 kevinfun33 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 8, 2010

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    I Want A Secret Lover, But...

    After being faithfully married for 20 years, I find myself wanting to sleep with another man. Although, I am in a good relationship, it has it's issues as most do, I can't stop fantasizing about Eric. I actually have great sex with my husband sometimes twice a day, but I try to...
    sally7 sally7 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    What Do I Want???

    I give up on my uhappy life... I'm tired of living for someones else and feeling like a slave to loyalty when I shouldn't be in this situation... I want to be me, I want to be free! I'm tired of feeling trapped and caged in!!! I miss feeling that feeling I get when I have someone...
    fessy69 fessy69 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2010

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    Theladylicker1 Atyahoo Dot Co Dot Uk

    I live in Essex UK and I'm looking for a **** buddy in Essex or London, not botherd about age looks or colour as long as your friendly and love sex. I'm a horny guy who isn't a selfish lover and I would make sure you had a good time ..... everytime. I'm married so expect you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 2, 2010

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    He Feels So Good In Me, On Me & Under Me !

         As he walks in the door, I want to push him against the wall & kiss him passionately. I want to begin stripping off his clothes & press my horny body against his. I resist & walk up the stairs ahead of him. He says hello & I find myself slipping into my horny MILF...
    rosepetals11 rosepetals11 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2012

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    Secrets;

    In all honesty,and I guess I'll understand if I get any nasty comments,its a sensitive subject. But from the time I was a young teenager I've always been interested in older men.As I grew older it turned into an interest of older,married,men.I've never full on wondered what my...
    sweetnikkiii sweetnikkiii 18-21, F 18 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    I Think He'S Over Me, But I'M Not

    All my past stories have somehow or another involved Eric, the **** of my dreams. We used to flirt and carry on this intense eye game. I'm married so he has always been careful not to show too much interest around others. I want to **** him so bad. I have wanted him for a year...
    sally7 sally7 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    Romeo Looking For Cinderella!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I have been married for several years, some of them good, others so so to bad.  I'm in a marriage of little to no sex, but have yet to have an affair.  We make good room mates but besides that I am very  lonely.  I don't want to divorce her but would like to...
    Looking123 Looking123 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 4, 2010

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    Looking To Make A Story

    Looking for a married femal for a FWB situation in eastern MA/Boston area.
    slicedude slicedude 41-45, M Jan 25, 2010

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    Are you in a sexless marriage & NEED IT ?

    I'm a married man in search of an on going affair in which neither one of us know the other persons name, we meet have wild sex and go our seperate ways. The only way we connect is through this account on line. What do you say ladies? I'm 50 years old and travel alot . so I could...
    hamburgny hamburgny 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 16, 2010

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    Secret Lover?

    How the hell do you keep it a secret? In my small town, if you sat down over a cup of coffee, you were probably ******* her socks off, according to all the local gossips. If you're going to have the name, you might as well have the game. In my experience, married women are...
    blueraven6 blueraven6 61-65, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2009

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    Missing The Moments At Home

    Like most others, this is not a decision that has 'just come about'. I've been married to a 'roommate' for almost 14 years now. We sleep at opposite sides of the bed with 4 feet between us. We have his / her laptops, sit on different couches ... she is with the kids all day but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Back to the Drawing Board....

    So, my sad story... Hub is not interested in me.  Has not been for years.  Not that I have not tried.  I have...but I have given up now. Met someone through a dating website.  We were supposedly on the same page.  The sex was great.  Now he...
    livingforthemoment livingforthemoment 41-45, F 13 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    I Can'T Get Him Out Of My Head!

    He did not show up tonight. I knew he wouldn't, but my ***** wanted to see him. I can't stand myself for obsessing over him. He is a player and professional. The part I hate the most, is I can't tell if he is attracted to me anymore. I used to think he was, now I can't tell if he...
    sally7 sally7 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2013

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    Yes!!!

    A secret lover. Just the two of us. A quiet conversation on the phone. A romantic met away from everyone. To hold and kiss each other passionately. To be taken to his bed and be made his woman. To fulfill his needs. Wanting to be with him and have him inside me. Wanting...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 5 Responses Jun 22, 2009

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    Blushing But......

    I want a secret lover.  One who likes to have passionate sex, kiss, tell me how much he wants me.  Married for 14 years and it's like I am living with a brother...  He could be my best friend but the romance is gone.  He has gotten indifferent and is not...
    romanticatheart romanticatheart 41-45, F 10 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    Am In Great Deal

    iam 35yrs married with two chilldren and very lonely woman.i need love,sex and romans
    djeeil djeeil 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2012

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    Just **** Me...

    I know this may sound selfish. I love my wife and we have a great relationship, but sometimes she's just not enough. I'm not starved for sex, yet I can never seem to get enough of the pure lust and intensity I crave. I need a secret sex partner...a woman with an absolutely filthy...
    letsBfwb letsBfwb 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2012

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    Atlanta Is The Place

    where I need to find my SL... any women from Atlanta in this group?
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M Mar 9, 2010

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    I Want Several Secret Lovers!

    I don't think any one man can meet all my physical and emotional needs...but why not two (or three)? My man works hard and is often too tired to give me what I need. I fantasize about clandestine quickies. Meet me in the church parking lot while I'm walking my dog at night and...
    CreampieCutie CreampieCutie 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 11, 2012

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    Tempting

    A secret lover. It's just so exciting. That extra rush because you know you shouldn't be doing it, and that you could be caught. I have a boyfriend at the moment - and i certainly don't plan on cheating on him. But this group reminded me of when i was sneaking around with someone...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 2, 2009

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    Could She Be On Experience Project?

    At some time in our lives I am sure we have all fantasized about a certain person we know or someone we hope to meet. At this time in my life I still wish that this would happen. I have been on this site for quite some time and have sent and received alot of emails. Amazingly...
    Looking123 Looking123 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 19, 2010

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    Why I Want A Secret Lover

    I am happily married. I love my wife. But for whatever reasons there are places I don't go with her, doors I don't want to open, and there is all the day-to-day baggage associated with being in a permanent relationship with someone. So I am looking for a secret lover, a muse...
    gr8scrtlvr gr8scrtlvr 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 27, 2012

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    Oh Yes

    Yes i do want a secret lover to have for myself and to well you know
    Helencake Helencake 46-50, F 7 Responses Dec 11, 2011

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    Constant Hunger

    When I was in the 3rd grade I wrote a paper about what I wanted to do when I grew up. I wrote " I want to take care of the women of the world." Now do not assume that I think that I am God;s gift to women, far from it I am simply a man with plenty of faults and failures...
    TexasHedonist TexasHedonist 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 16, 2009

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    I had a close friend once she was attracted to me and me to her one day we got together and talked about our feelings and decided to be friends with benefits this was a great idea...
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    I would love to have a lover who is my best friend. My husband and I have been married for 7 years and 10 months. I always want to talk to him about everything. He never tells me...
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    I don't want to just meet someone I am attracted to and be in a relationship with them right away. I want to get to know the person and be friends with them first. Why? Because you...
    ConfidentSpeaker ConfidentSpeaker 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I thought that we were best friends till he told me "no your just my lover not my best friend, my ex is my best friend" i never felt so much pain before.
    mskaylee24 mskaylee24 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    It's about being that person that glitters with energy and passion. The right lover/BFF will either be scared away orrrrr fall helplessly in love from first sight. Master the bold...
    1111Lina1111 1111Lina1111 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I think I have achieved this. My fiance is probably the only true friend I have, a wonderful lover, a caring partner, and a happy and silly companion who always manages to make me...
    Meriyne Meriyne 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Yes! I'd love to be with a woman who is a lover and a friend. Someone to stand with me when things don't look so good, when I've tried my hardest but things still didn't turn out...
    shymotorcyclerider shymotorcyclerider 46-50, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Dang. I want someone I can just connect with. I want someone I can cuddle with and watch netflix. I want someone who'll go to the gym with me. I want someone who I can go for...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 10

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    Dang. I want someone I can just connect with. I want someone I can cuddle with and watch netflix. I want someone who'll go to the gym with me. I want someone who I can go for...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I found myself having an affair with a man who has a girlfriend. I wanted it to be just that one time because I get attached, but he kept instigating and I kept seeing him. He has...
    earthyogi earthyogi 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 23

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