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I Want a Sex On the Side

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    Starving For Sex

    I am a senior 61 yrs old.My wife went through the change of life & is not interested in kissing making love or sex at all.I miss the touch of a woman & how fun & full filling love & sex is.Maybe someday I will experence it again.
    sdfrt4919 sdfrt4919 56-60, M Mar 27, 2011

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    I want to have really rough sex with a guy. Or maybe with a guy and a girl 😍
    KaylaSmithh KaylaSmithh 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    About as much as my poor form can. Not all of the time. But. Milk while advising is a fantasy.
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Message me and see the naughty stuff begins :) hit me up soon
    SexyGuy09 SexyGuy09 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    Add me and we can talk about anything or more females preferably :)
    ryanmona ryanmona 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I previously posted about the sexual side effects of anti-depressants on my husband. Well, this past Monday, he was supposed to go to the Dr. for a follow-up and he was to discuss...
    Musicalangel13 Musicalangel13 31-35, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've been informed that it is rude for me to want sexual satisfaction. And it is rude for me to not feel ashamed for having desire even though I am a woman and a married one at...
    Katertoten Katertoten 46-50, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Well I'll try to share this...I know it's a familiar story based on those I've read here already, thank you all for sharing. Perhaps it'll merely be cathartic for me to tell a...
    don0063 don0063 51-55, M 22 Responses Jul 22

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    I have managed to turn into the most untrusting woman there is out there at this point. And every time I try to come out of it, a man proves me right every time. As I've posted...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521 18-21, F Jul 13

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    My wife has been having online conversations with a group of people outside of our marriage it has awoken a sexual side of her that is arousing to me. I am going to allow it to...
    44megpipe 44megpipe 41-45, M 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Myths about low sexual desire: "Myth #3: If your partner wants sex but you don't, you can express your love in other ways. We tend to think that people should be able to choose...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Maybe ladies and gents if your partner doesn't want to have sex often or ever maybe it's cause their self esteem is low, try complimenting them by saying as often as you can how...
    greatinbedchick greatinbedchick 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 11

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    I've been reading for a couple of weeks and I couldn't believe that it's not just our dysfunction. We've been married for 12 years but "together" since high school that's like 24...
    Anirak73 Anirak73 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 16

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    So I'm still in my 'stormy' phase (I'm likening my ups and downs of sexual importance to a baby App called the wonder weeks! Stormy developmental phases and sunny happy phases...
    Waterlanding Waterlanding 26-30, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hey everyone. I have not updated in a while. Found out my husband has a sex addiction. I would have never thought so since we hardly had sex and to me a sex addict was someone that...
    miamorinvano miamorinvano 26-30, F 15 Responses Jul 1

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    I have forced my husband to live a life without sex for what was supposed to be the good of everyone. It was not he did not want sex, if fact there were many times he was demanding...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am 65 and my wife is 62. We have been together for over twenty years and married for six. I love my wife very much and tell her so frequently. We are compatible and agreeable in...
    worksforme2 worksforme2 61-65, M 15 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am in my third marriage. Curious how things go, my first one ended because my wife refused sex almost all the time. to the point of being intolerable. The stories I read here, i...
    marcz7 marcz7 46-50, M 9 Responses Jul 4

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    My husband asked me what I wanted for our one-year anniversary. I told him I wanted sex. The thing is, I don't think I want sex with him any more. I think if he put some effort...
    hoserx hoserx 26-30, F 15 Responses Jul 13

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    I want sex ALL THE TIME my husband doesn't what should I do? He is not touchy feely, he said he doesn't want sex to get old. I dress up, I'm in shape, i give oral I tried...
    cakesparklingemdiva cakesparklingemdiva 26-30, F 17 Responses Jul 12

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    Hi, I've not been around on this board for a while but have recently started reading some posts again. Thank you for all the support you'd sent my way when I posted - I hope you...
    copperdoodle copperdoodle 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 15

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    I love this site and I love the people in it but it's. Not the same I joined ep last year and I met people in it we talked and talked but now I don't know where they are Last...
    brokenV brokenV 18-21 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Today should be interesting. I should give context for this, however. You see yesterday I got positive reaction from my wife when I rubbed her shoulders. In fact, she said "I like...
    ImBatmanNow ImBatmanNow 51-55, M 15 Responses Jul 13

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    Honest questions are one thing but just wanting sexting or nudes?.....that's just sad.
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I don't know why I even speak at all. Whatever I say , he's not listening. He works hard and tries his best but doesn't offer much affection at all and it's got to the point...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 17

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    I'm not really sure how to begin, or what to say... I once had a wonderful woman whom I adored and loved. Some how this all fell apart around a year ago... Sex gradually became...
    Jaden1971 Jaden1971 41-45 17 Responses 1 day ago

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    I met this amazing guy through sports, I feel safe, and loved, and like nothing can touch me, when we are together, he tells me he loves me, and calls me his girlfriend, and babe...
    justyouraverageteen justyouraverageteen 16-17, F Jul 12

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    It's ridiculous. I mean why are there so many rules it feels so ridiculous I'm almost paranoid about wanting sex because of all the rules.
    625Maelstrom 625Maelstrom 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm craving morning dessert. I'm hungry but not for food. I want sex for breakfast!! I wanna deep in me!
    Arussia Arussia 26-30, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    I want sexy talk right now but no pics.
    PenelopeSerena PenelopeSerena 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    What did people say to their partners when they talked about not wanting sex? Did you ask them to reconsider? Insist they get help? Did you accept it? Did you bring up the...
    Flotsam101 Flotsam101 41-45, F 21 Responses 2 days ago

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    Me, I lived dedicated to others, and not myself.. I focused on school work to make my dad proud... I poured myself into working to provide fun for my family.. Now I serve the...
    Arr762 Arr762 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    Hellooooo world ! Don't make babies by default ! It is not an ooops I just wanted sex...oh well,let's be parents. Bring wanted babies and if you do the "oops" thing,be consequent...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Older: I was 19 when he was 35 Younger: He was 18 when I was 28 Does age matter? Yes and No. It depends and it always depends on the person. It's bothersome if you're with an older...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 15

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    I'd love a guy to cuddle up with, if he lives far away, I'd love him to fly over just to see me, a guy between 14& 16.. Maybe 17- no one that constantly wants sex or dirty pictures...
    Jodiii14 Jodiii14 13-15, F Jul 18

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    I'm not saying I'm desperate, cause I'm not! But it would be nice to have someone to cuddle with& to walk around with and to just be cute with, I've never had a proper real...
    Jodiii14 Jodiii14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Okay, so I was on here a few days ago and told a little about my situation and history. Most people were harsh and judgmental towards me when I admitted to being the one who...
    Nil0 Nil0 46-50, F 9 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    So I was on here struggling with the topics of living in a sexless marriage, being sexually frustrated and feeling disrespected not too long ago. Although I would still love much...
    picadilly1970 picadilly1970 41-45, F 7 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I want be friends with girl no mater what won't leave my side and we can talk about every thin even sexual convos openly and we play Xbox and still together cos she be help ing...
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    Hi everybody. If you've been following me, you know that I recently ended my sexless, loveless, very lonely marriage. Somebody at work today asked me if I'm enjoying the single...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 36-40, F 11 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Yesterday I posted a post-divorce update - kind of a one year out of a SM report. A lot of the responses were about having the conviction to divorce. I looked in my journal for...
    Buroak Buroak 51-55, M 6 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I always thought of myself as straight until recently. I'm a married woman who has been with my wonderful husband for 16 years, but our sex life hasn't been great since our...
    seekingharmony seekingharmony 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    Cyber sex, Skype sex, phone sex, its all a bunch of Bullshex. Unless you awake to a beating heart next to you, its not sex. ps sn ka
    proudsocialist proudsocialist 56-60, M 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I'm not here to talk about sex. I'm here to make friends and talk to new people. If all you want to talk about is sex, don't bother messaging me. I think it's gross to talk about...
    Kaytee120 Kaytee120 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I have a problem im attracted to old men i just turned 21 i would get more attracted and find older men sexy than men in my generation. Its a problem because even if im in a...
    Dana93y Dana93y 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I'm not completely unhappy with my life. In fact, I'm actually pretty happy with it overall with the exception of my education and career. When the economy collapsed, my education...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I don't, well not right now anyway. I was wondering about something, I was wondering about why people who put " I want to die" or "I'm going to commit suicide" and things like that...
    futurediary futurediary 13-15, M 19 hrs ago