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I Want a Sex On the Side

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    Starving For Sex

    I am a senior 61 yrs old.My wife went through the change of life & is not interested in kissing making love or sex at all.I miss the touch of a woman & how fun & full filling love & sex is.Maybe someday I will experence it again.
    sdfrt4919 sdfrt4919 56-60, M Mar 27, 2011

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    I want to have really rough sex with a guy. Or maybe with a guy and a girl 😍
    KaylaSmithh KaylaSmithh 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    About as much as my poor form can. Not all of the time. But. Milk while advising is a fantasy.
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Message me and see the naughty stuff begins :) hit me up soon
    SexyGuy09 SexyGuy09 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My wife has been having online conversations with a group of people outside of our marriage it has awoken a sexual side of her that is arousing to me. I am going to allow it to...
    44megpipe 44megpipe 41-45, M 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I think I've got the guts to post this now. My wife and I have talked about this many times. I think it would help me to talk to others about it, even if it is anonymously. Since...
    7Sparrows 7Sparrows 26-30, M 14 Responses Jun 27

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    Well I'll try to share this...I know it's a familiar story based on those I've read here already, thank you all for sharing. Perhaps it'll merely be cathartic for me to tell a...
    don0063 don0063 51-55, M 23 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have managed to turn into the most untrusting woman there is out there at this point. And every time I try to come out of it, a man proves me right every time. As I've posted...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521 18-21, F Jul 13

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    I think the hardest thing for me, looking back on how I got into a sexless marriage, was that it was a long slow process (a death by a thousand cuts). In some ways it would have...
    runninginthedark70 runninginthedark70 41-45, M 10 Responses Jun 25

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    Myths about low sexual desire: "Myth #3: If your partner wants sex but you don't, you can express your love in other ways. We tend to think that people should be able to choose...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Maybe ladies and gents if your partner doesn't want to have sex often or ever maybe it's cause their self esteem is low, try complimenting them by saying as often as you can how...
    greatinbedchick greatinbedchick 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 11

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    Maybe I shouldn't complain. Reading other stories on here makes me think that I don't have it so bad, but in reality, it FEELS like emotional torture. My husband and I are...
    elana29 elana29 26-30 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Maybe I shouldn't complain. Reading other stories on here makes me think that I don't have it so bad, but in reality, it FEELS like emotional torture. My husband and I are intimate...
    elana29 elana29 26-30 4 Responses Jun 25

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    I've been reading for a couple of weeks and I couldn't believe that it's not just our dysfunction. We've been married for 12 years but "together" since high school that's like 24...
    Anirak73 Anirak73 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 16

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    Is anybody else in the same boat? I never EVER imagined myself being in my 20s and in such a horrendous situation. My partner and I have been together for 3 years. The first year...
    mistakeoverload mistakeoverload 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    Hey everyone. I have not updated in a while. Found out my husband has a sex addiction. I would have never thought so since we hardly had sex and to me a sex addict was someone that...
    miamorinvano miamorinvano 26-30, F 15 Responses Jul 1

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    So this is my first post/experience. I am a man in my 40's. I have been married 21 years now we have the 2 most amazing children in the world. For 15 of those years our marriage...
    Tryingtobeagoodman Tryingtobeagoodman 36-40, M 9 Responses Jun 30

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    I am in my third marriage. Curious how things go, my first one ended because my wife refused sex almost all the time. to the point of being intolerable. The stories I read here, i...
    marcz7 marcz7 46-50, M 9 Responses Jul 4

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    My husband asked me what I wanted for our one-year anniversary. I told him I wanted sex. The thing is, I don't think I want sex with him any more. I think if he put some effort...
    hoserx hoserx 26-30, F 14 Responses Jul 13

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    I want sex ALL THE TIME my husband doesn't what should I do? He is not touchy feely, he said he doesn't want sex to get old. I dress up, I'm in shape, i give oral I tried...
    cakesparklingemdiva cakesparklingemdiva 26-30, F 17 Responses Jul 12

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    Hi, I've not been around on this board for a while but have recently started reading some posts again. Thank you for all the support you'd sent my way when I posted - I hope you...
    copperdoodle copperdoodle 41-45, F 11 Responses Jul 15

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    I love this site and I love the people in it but it's. Not the same I joined ep last year and I met people in it we talked and talked but now I don't know where they are Last...
    brokenV brokenV 18-21 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Today should be interesting. I should give context for this, however. You see yesterday I got positive reaction from my wife when I rubbed her shoulders. In fact, she said "I like...
    ImBatmanNow ImBatmanNow 51-55, M 15 Responses Jul 13

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    Honest questions are one thing but just wanting sexting or nudes?.....that's just sad.
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F Jul 13

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    I don't know why I even speak at all. Whatever I say , he's not listening. He works hard and tries his best but doesn't offer much affection at all and it's got to the point...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've been in such a negative head space lately, that I haven't been wanting sex at all. In fact, it's been three weeks since I've REALLY wanted it (which is so abnormal for me...
    exiguous exiguous 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Ok going to try something new. I want to be the refuser. I'm going to be really affectionate, loving, and kissy. Get him thinking I want sex. Then just say no. Like he does.
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 27

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    I met this amazing guy through sports, I feel safe, and loved, and like nothing can touch me, when we are together, he tells me he loves me, and calls me his girlfriend, and babe...
    justyouraverageteen justyouraverageteen 16-17, F Jul 12

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    So last night i updated re. I don't make him happy, i am not normal being female and wanting sex ... He decided hes going to leave phewwwww ........ Well i knew it was never gonna...
    desper8 desper8 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 24

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    Hell yes we are we know what we want sexually and we are not afraid to admit it or say it. And we aren't always looking for a committed relationship or to have children.. We've...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 24

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    It's ridiculous. I mean why are there so many rules it feels so ridiculous I'm almost paranoid about wanting sex because of all the rules.
    625Maelstrom 625Maelstrom 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm craving morning dessert. I'm hungry but not for food. I want sex for breakfast!! I wanna deep in me!
    Arussia Arussia 26-30, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Me, I lived dedicated to others, and not myself.. I focused on school work to make my dad proud... I poured myself into working to provide fun for my family.. Now I serve the...
    Arr762 Arr762 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Hellooooo world ! Don't make babies by default ! It is not an ooops I just wanted sex...oh well,let's be parents. Bring wanted babies and if you do the "oops" thing,be consequent...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Older: I was 19 when he was 35 Younger: He was 18 when I was 28 Does age matter? Yes and No. It depends and it always depends on the person. It's bothersome if you're with an older...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 15

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    I'd love a guy to cuddle up with, if he lives far away, I'd love him to fly over just to see me, a guy between 14& 16.. Maybe 17- no one that constantly wants sex or dirty pictures...
    Jodiii14 Jodiii14 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I want sex all the time I am male and live in north west Ala
    Lilblue65 Lilblue65 46-50, M Jun 24

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    I'm not saying I'm desperate, cause I'm not! But it would be nice to have someone to cuddle with& to walk around with and to just be cute with, I've never had a proper real...
    Jodiii14 Jodiii14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    We all want somebody we can share our time with. Deeper yet, true love is the highlight of any human lifetime. On the down side, finding "the one" is near impossible. Also meaning...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    This was a while ago, my gf and I would sneak into my room and start all types of nawty things was soooo much fun , I loved it, and days went passed she'd come over and now we want...
    h3lldriv3n h3lldriv3n 18-21, M 8 hrs ago

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    My girlfriend dont want to have sex because she gain some weight she say i dont want you to se me like that .. She dont know i dont care.. i **** fruit my **** dont have taste or...
    gimmili gimmili 22-25, M 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I fantasize about being blindfolded, tied up and ****** hard in all my holes by people that I can't see or know who they are. Like at a party. But being around the people at other...
    curiouswanderer3 curiouswanderer3 22-25, F 1 Response 34 mins ago

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    I'm want to find a nice naughty girl :) age doesn't matter My k_i_k is rayorcas. Feel free to write.
    rayorcas rayorcas 26-30, M 8 mins ago

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    I'm not completely unhappy with my life. In fact, I'm actually pretty happy with it overall with the exception of my education and career. When the economy collapsed, my education...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    As a woman in my 40s, I am very comfortable with my sensuality and sexuality. I make sure I am very sexy for my husband to enjoy and ravish in the bedroom. I keep our sex lives...
    femalenakedathome femalenakedathome 41-45, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I could be wrong of course and looking too much into it, but that's how it feels and what my gut tells me. I am very emotional when it comes to sex and need it in cycles or I...
    sasst92 sasst92 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    So I have been married for eight years to a smart, good looking, caring man who loves me dearly. And I do live him. But we haven't had sex in 8 1/2 years. I've tried to initiate...
    Candymaker Candymaker 41-45, F 18 Responses 9 hrs ago