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I Want a Sex On the Side

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    Starving For Sex

    I am a senior 61 yrs old.My wife went through the change of life & is not interested in kissing making love or sex at all.I miss the touch of a woman & how fun & full filling love & sex is.Maybe someday I will experence it again.
    sdfrt4919 sdfrt4919 56-60, M Mar 27, 2011

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    I have posted here before, and am still (just) in my SM - but taking steps to leave it. I guess this might sound like a rant, but it's really just a question, and I would welcome...
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    I'm not looking for solutions, only to feel not so alone. I have tried everything...EVERYTHING...and still, day after day I receive rejection. I remember vividly the last time we...
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    rloves rloves 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    I feel like I am constantly posting here. You all are probably thinking that, too. I tried talking to my wife again. Probably was a huge mistake to try. We just rehashed the same...
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    A tense conversation this morning, but not an explosion. Is that progress? My wife accused me of not listening to her when she was ranting about the counselor. She said that "a...
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    I've been informed that it is rude for me to want sexual satisfaction. And it is rude for me to not feel ashamed for having desire even though I am a woman and a married one at...
    Katertoten Katertoten 46-50, F 8 Responses Jul 30

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