I Want Affection, Closeness, Intimacy

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    I want affection, cuddle ,

    intimacy and being close to a girl. And that girl isn't my wife.
    realcomplicated realcomplicated
    31-35, M
    Dec 28, 2015

    I tried so hard to understand you.

    No matter how lowly you think of me already.You call me names, referring me as just like my own race but I never think of you as a racist.I overlooked your anger as I tried to pacify that rising temper.But lately, you become distant, unavailable and cold. I am just a human being...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    I Really Do Want It All....

    This will most probably be this one & only story i will post with a sex reference.......for my own safety lolBut yes.....I Want Affection, Closeness, Intimacy..... but more then that i want it all....I want......a man that kisses me good morning, like im the most sexy woman he...
    deleted deleted
    16 Responses May 16, 2012
    emmadarko emmadarko
    22-25, F
    Jul 24, 2015

    My husband and I are currently separated

    but have been spending more time together lately. We've basically started the entire relationship over and have gotten to a place where we can hug, kiss, cuddle, etc. Our interaction is more intimate and thoughtful than before and our communication is better than it's ever been...
    WhiteRaven13 WhiteRaven13
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 25, 2015

    i don't know what intimacy is with my husband.

    i desperately desire to find what i dream of. i find myself wondering about love & affection -
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    Just need someone to generally be interested in

    me. If that's you, then let's chat!
    jetmech1981 jetmech1981
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 12, 2016

    Loves Loss

    I am missing that most amazing feeling of touch! When a woman slides her hand down my arms or across my cheek and send chills down my spine! The feeling of her breath on my neck while in a long embrace feeling her against me while arms wander aimlessly across each others backs...
    slimmmerman slimmmerman
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

    Just one of many days.

    ... i wish my relationship had.... to have that closeness, that affection.... the touch of ones lips to another. To feel that bond of two.... as ONE!!
    deleted deleted
    Aug 10, 2015

    Being single for the majority of my life.

    .. I used to be a hunk, now, I have lost it!
    JjKr88 JjKr88
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 14, 2016

    Hug Me, Kiss Me Please!

    Every day goes into the next I tell myself maybe today he will come home and kiss me, hug me or tell me he loves me. I kiss him but the kiss is never returned. It crushes me each and every single day. What did I do to deserve this?
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Nov 25, 2013

    I could just sleep with someone,

    but I want more than that. I want something meaningful and deep. I want equal parts adventure, companionship, sex, romance, and affection. I want to go to sleep with someone and wake up to them in the morning. I went to be held, kissed, and comforted. I want a best friend and a...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Nov 2, 2015

    If i had one wish.. It would be to make you

    mine.. If you were to just take control of the situation.. I would truly submit to you.. I so badly want to feel your embrace, your warmth. I feel the distance between us. If only i could read your mind.. Dont you feel this conection.? You make me feel vulnerable.. You make me...
    Forever786 Forever786
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2016

    Someone, pull me in close

    and snuggle with me on the couch. I want your kisses to match my rhythm, biting down on my lower lip when I get too playful. I want you to pin my arms behind me and kiss my forehead gently, always keeping me guessing. It's your touch that I want, the way you hold me close to...
    FrenchKissed FrenchKissed
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    Far Too Wrong

    Is it soo wrong to want a guy to be "on the same page" as me? To want somebody to understand that I need them close emotionally and mentally, I long for the days where I can write letters to the man I want to love, have long phone calls into the early morning, to give and receive...
    Diamond321 Diamond321
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 3, 2012

    I feel as if i'm giving myself to someone

    who doesn't appreciate me. He doesn't give me enough attention or affection. im not asking for PDA but wen u leave and I lean in to kiss u and u pull away makes me feel unwanted. I want to be intimate more. I don't want sex once a day. im a very beautiful women but I feel im...
    iiAmBlue iiAmBlue
    26-30, F
    8 Responses May 7, 2015

    i wanna be held and know

    that I won't get hurt by anything when I'm with you.
    VictoriaHall VictoriaHall
    18-21, F
    Feb 8, 2016

    My marriage lacks affection,

    closeness and intimacy. We don't kiss, hug or hold hands....no date nights....the main priority is to raise our kids...we talk a lot, however, when it comes to intimacy, it is dismal...I have expressed my desires to my husband for more affection and have even tried to show him...
    DreamWing DreamWing
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Apr 19, 2014

    After my date last night,

    while an awesome guy who was really sweet and nice, midway through my Pad See Ew I started to realize I wasn't enjoying dating like I used to. Even the casual fun that I have from time to time is starting to get old. Time to put the focus back on myself. What to do for...
    WhatTheMEL WhatTheMEL
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    That first moment we kissed.

    ... It was the first time I'd ever shared such an intimate experience with someone else. It was nothing like I imagined it would be but it was blissful all the same. My tongue met yours as we explored each other. Our hands brushing over each other. It was beautiful. I crave more...
    Silthill Silthill
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 28, 2015

    Hello, after a long I am writing here again.

    when no one there in your life with whom you can share all you best moments. it feels very lonely when no one there to hold you hand and hug you tightly. I want a soft and hard touch. I am craving physical contact with lots of emotions and feeling. I want itimacy and physical...
    baba117 baba117
    26-30, M
    Aug 30, 2015

    As usual I couldn't sleep last night.

    I was convincing myself to finish another chapter of a book before dozing off. The room was cold, I forgot to put on a blanket. And when I did after my eyes were giving out I felt really good wrapped up by the blanket. The warmth made me happy. At that moment I thought to myself...
    EmotionJammer EmotionJammer
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    Hearing I love you and being hugged makes me

    feel so good. I feel loved and special. I feel dead at this point in my life. I need to feel the touch of love and embracement. I hate life and myself. I want to kill myself because I feel so empty. I want to have a special bond with someone and say I love you and get hugged...
    Thefightingangel Thefightingangel
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Sep 18, 2015

    Today i've decided to love myself more.

    My boyfriend has been taking me for granted. He always finds time for other things he may think are more important than me. I vow to have more self-respect and not make those who treat me as an option my priority.
    inkdgirl inkdgirl
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    I think it's my turn.

    I've been a good mother, a good wife, a good provider with a good career. I have recently become visually challenged which has caused me to take a closer "look" at my life. My children are mostly grown and I don't want to feel like I need to b perfect anymore. Selfish but...
    drchil drchil
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 4, 2014

    I am 41 years old and married.

    I have a 21 year old man that is trying hard to persuade me to be with him. I have told him in many kind ways that we cannot be together, but he continues in his advances. There is a part of me that wonders if I should give in to him.
    reedusgirl reedusgirl
    41-45, F
    12 Responses May 28, 2014

    Hello, I am looking for someone to

    chat/roleplay pregnant women! Either pretend or real, I just want to meet new people to share my interest with. I do enjoy being a bit affectionate in my messages so if you are ok with that hit me up! I would love to talk with you~
    AndyManto AndyManto
    22-25, M
    Jul 8, 2015

    "Woman was made from the rib of a man.

    Not from his head to top him, nor his foot to be stepped on by him, but from his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected by him, and near his heart to be loved by him."
    lonelysmile77 lonelysmile77
    3 Responses Feb 1, 2015
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jul 20, 2014

    Feel so miserable. Was talking to a girl on

    here. I liked her, she said she liked me. We talked bout meeting but hadn't made solid plans. Then she disappeared for 20 days. I see on her profile that she's been on in the past couple of days but hasn't messaged me or even answered my messages to her
    Christuner666 Christuner666
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    Kiss me. Kiss all of my imperfections.

    Kiss me where I've felt pain. Kiss me where I feel pleasure. Just kiss me. - M aka ButterflyKissesz
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jun 11, 2015
    thao333 thao333
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2014

    yea..I want it very bad.

    I need love..affection ..intimacy. haven't been loved since I was born. I guess being honest is a sin.
    divich001 divich001
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Aug 18, 2015

    First Kiss: Though we were liking each other,

    she was always avoiding smooching. On one fine day, she gave me a cup of ice cream. I took a spoonful and tried to feed her. When she tilted her face, the ice cream stick to her lower cheeks. I asked her, if I could lick that. She agreed. I moved closer to her and licked...
    Sathishvnb Sathishvnb
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 12, 2016

    I so miss this. At time's I

    even wonder if I ever truly received this from another. I do have hope that I will recieve these from someone really soon though.
    Encontrados Encontrados
    41-45, M
    Sep 7, 2015

    I want it more, but I can't seem to get it.

    I want to lay with my best friend and stare unto eachother eyes, and capture eachothers souls. I want the rain to fall lightly on us as we gaze at eachother. I want him to hold me and never let go of me. I want him to let me fall asleep in his arms. .If anybody ever knew I felt...
    littlejxoxo littlejxoxo
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    I would make a very good wife.

    I would cook and clean everyday. I am a great listener, I would work to contribute to the bills, I am a motivator and I would support and love my husband forever, but no one wants me. There are women out there who complain about their husbands everyday. I can only dream of the...
    DanielleMaree DanielleMaree
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Oct 30, 2014

    I don't know how to make this want come true,

    but I wish I could make it happen for a woman and myself. Some wants will never be fulfilled, I accept that.
    1niceguy4u 1niceguy4u
    51-55, M
    1 Response Sep 14, 2015

    I am really trying to sort out my feelings.

    .my thoughts..my emotions. I am so frustrated..lonely...and..admittedly some resentment I try//I really do...talking..but it seems to fall on deaf ear...I try being to her want I want her to be with me...but it goes unnoticed I have to admit ..there are some aspects of our...
    Powerof1 Powerof1
    56-60, M
    1 Response Nov 25, 2015

    There are days I ask

    why I ever both to put forth effort. Today is one of those days.
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    Hi, girls. I am hot guy,

    add me pls, skype - mengak
    mengak mengak
    26-30, M
    Apr 10, 2016
    biancaxxb biancaxxb
    22-25, F
    19 Responses Jul 23, 2015
    1niceguy4u 1niceguy4u
    51-55, M
    1 Response Sep 14, 2015

    Longing To Be Touched.

    I wonder how many people are going to click thinking Im going to talk about sex. Guess what. Not me. I am a VERY VERY VERY cuddly person. When I'm in relationships, physical contact and intimacy is super important to me, although I think it's just my ADHD Hugging, cuddling, face...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Apr 24, 2013

    I don’t know him, but I crave

    for him. He will hold me in his arms & I will surrender into his warmth. Knowing that I am protected, he will have earned my trust, knowing that it goes beyond the surface of my skin. I crave that connection, that one where the physical and emotional lines are entwined, the kind...
    TristeMuneca87 TristeMuneca87
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016

    Sometimes I wonder what he's thinking

    when we're laying there. Me nestled into his body, my arm across his chest, my lips pressed to his neck. He breathes differently, I thought. Then again it probably attests to his many years experience as a yoga instructor. My body was pressed against his, and as he took...
    WhatTheMEL WhatTheMEL
    26-30, F
    Nov 2, 2015

    Affection ... Mmmm, Yes Please!

    I love this quote by Audrey Hepburn! I think human beings have an intense need for affection. Affection creates intimacy and closeness. Affection can be emotional or physical.  Sometimes just a look or a touch are enough to incite a passionate response.  A word, enough to...
    SolitaireDiamond SolitaireDiamond
    51-55, F
    1 Response Nov 23, 2013

    The honeymoon stage has ended in less

    than a year of marriage. I long for that intimacy again.
    KaseyBee KaseyBee
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2015

    Just want someone who I can hug

    and hold and kiss and be sexually close with and vice versa /:
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 14, 2015

    I love being close to my lover,

    being affectionate to and with him, and most of all intimate with him. I am in love so much with my husband of ten years. He is so much in love with me as well. We just had a baby three months ago. We love our special time in bed together when we undress each other, cuddle...
    olderblondemom olderblondemom
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

    I Have Found So Much More Intimacy Than I Ever Thought Possible

    Up untill I met my present wife,I never knew how strong,and how deep intimacy could be.After 14 very short years of marriage to her-my third wife,I've never felt so loved,and truly cared for till We got married.I married her,knowing full well, just how many challenges we faced...
    mymindseye mymindseye
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Feb 23, 2011

    Right Here Yet Far Away!

    So you tangle with the excitement of affection to be close and share intimacy. I toy with so many emotions that it’s almost like being out of control on a roller coaster ride! I have that someone that I am completely affectionate with and I feel that back. The problem comes...
    inChange inChange
    41-45, M
    1 Response May 23, 2013
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