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I Want Affection, Closeness, Intimacy

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    I think it's my turn.

    I've been a good mother, a good wife, a good provider with a good career. I have recently become visually challenged which has caused me to take a closer "look" at my life. My children are mostly grown and I don't want to feel like I need to b perfect anymore. Selfish but...
    drchil drchil 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2014

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    Not Just A Body Beside Me

    We look into each other's eyes before we even speak. We must communicate and not just talk. I must feel our connection. I must know that it is going to be more than physical. When we embrace, when we lay together, when we make love, I must know that you feel me, desire me. I must...
    lifetolive lifetolive 56-60, M 14 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    Today i've decided to love myself more.

    My boyfriend has been taking me for granted. He always finds time for other things he may think are more important than me. I vow to have more self-respect and not make those who treat me as an option my priority.
    inkdgirl inkdgirl 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    love pouring out over rotting oak

    leaves mulching fervor destitute and hallowed bleeding gums of antipathy swallowed by the way your skin plays antidote lyrics on my tongue
    MycelialAjna MycelialAjna 22-25, M Jan 26

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    I do,Im scared of all of these lol

    but i still want them..i feel like im starting to be more open to it,when the right person/people come along and i dont mean in a sexual way but just emotional kinda intimacy.i do enjoy it,i just dont wanna let fear stop me from being close to people because it does feel really...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F Feb 2

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    I Really Do Want It All....

    This will most probably be this one & only story i will post with a sex reference.......for my own safety lolBut yes.....I Want Affection, Closeness, Intimacy..... but more then that i want it all....I want......a man that kisses me good morning, like im the most sexy woman he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses May 16, 2012

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    Dire Straits - Hand In HandThe sky is crying

    the streets are full of tearsRain come down wash away my tearsAnd all this writing on the wallOh I can read between the lines loRain come down forgive this dirty townRain come down and give this dirty townA drink of water a drink of wineIf I been hard on you I never chose to beI...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2014

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    "Woman was made from the rib of a man.

    Not from his head to top him, nor his foot to be stepped on by him, but from his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected by him, and near his heart to be loved by him."
    lonelysmile77 lonelysmile77 36-40 3 Responses Feb 1

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    Hello, I am looking for someone to

    chat/roleplay pregnant women! Either pretend or real, I just want to meet new people to share my interest with. I do enjoy being a bit affectionate in my messages so if you are ok with that hit me up! I would love to talk with you~
    AndyManto AndyManto 22-25, M Jul 8

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    I want an affair in Sarasota,

    Florida Don't know how to find it but would like to feel passion again!
    Livinglife321 Livinglife321 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    Just one of many days.

    ... i wish my relationship had.... to have that closeness, that affection.... the touch of ones lips to another. To feel that bond of two.... as ONE!!
    Leftyss Leftyss 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    I missed you haven't seen your beautiful face

    with a bright smile. I can't go a day with out seen you I really wish I could be a little closer to you . When I see you I feel happy because I know you still ok. You always in my mind day and night. I wish I know you somewhere else then the place we met. I feel bad to walk up...
    abubakr24 abubakr24 22-25, M Jan 27

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    I'll always want this.

    Single or Taken. It's probably just human nature. But I enjoy being close to someone who gets me.
    Philli8807 Philli8807 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Can Lonely Be A Good Thing?

    After finally putting an official end to an on/off disaster of a relationship, the loneliness is getting more intense. I'm in a place now where I have decided to stay single for a while so that I can focus on me.. As cliche as it sounds. At 28, I'm realizing I haven't had a truly...
    SweetGG SweetGG 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Once again i find myself missing it :/ I miss

    being vulnerable with someone,opening up,showing them the parts i seldom show anyone.I miss it.It's hard starting over again,finding someone new to be vulnerable with.I also miss that feeling of feeling like some one genuinely cared for me and accepted me flaws and all.It makes...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    The honeymoon stage has ended in less

    than a year of marriage. I long for that intimacy again.
    KaseyBee KaseyBee 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 22

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    Kiss me. Kiss all of my imperfections.

    Kiss me where I've felt pain. Kiss me where I feel pleasure. Just kiss me. - M aka ButterflyKissesz
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jun 11

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    Longing To Be Touched.

    I wonder how many people are going to click thinking Im going to talk about sex. Guess what. Not me. I am a VERY VERY VERY cuddly person. When I'm in relationships, physical contact and intimacy is super important to me, although I think it's just my ADHD Hugging, cuddling, face...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M 4 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    I Have Found So Much More Intimacy Than I Ever Thought Possible

    Up untill I met my present wife,I never knew how strong,and how deep intimacy could be.After 14 very short years of marriage to her-my third wife,I've never felt so loved,and truly cared for till We got married.I married her,knowing full well, just how many challenges we faced...
    mymindseye mymindseye 51-55, M 6 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    thao333 thao333 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2014

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    Hug Me, Kiss Me Please!

    Every day goes into the next I tell myself maybe today he will come home and kiss me, hug me or tell me he loves me. I kiss him but the kiss is never returned. It crushes me each and every single day. What did I do to deserve this?
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2013

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    There are days I ask

    why I ever both to put forth effort. Today is one of those days.
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    But is it worth the risk of being exploited

    again? Stupid hedgehog's dilemma.
    ForestTea ForestTea 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 15

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    emmadarko emmadarko 22-25, F Jul 24

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    Im curious if anyone has ever been this way

    before? I met someone that I felt so safe loving totally. We had affection, closeness and intimacy. We laughed so much and we fought at times. We could just hangout at my house on the couch and watch a really cool show, cuddle and kiss. Small things were just beautiful and...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    Hello, after a long I am writing here again.

    when no one there in your life with whom you can share all you best moments. it feels very lonely when no one there to hold you hand and hug you tightly. I want a soft and hard touch. I am craving physical contact with lots of emotions and feeling. I want itimacy and physical...
    baba117 baba117 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    If you don't book your ideas up I'm leaving

    and I will go get that affection , I deserve better and I can get better
    tracycox tracycox 26-30 2 Responses Apr 24

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    The dream of all dreams.

    It eludes even the rich and famous sometimes in their life.From the homeless to the billionaires,people search for all of these most of their adult life. The lucky ones are truly blessed.I'm not so lucky my heart and soul feels emptiness.So when I hit my knees at night in front...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 16

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    yea..I want it very bad.

    I need love..affection ..intimacy. haven't been loved since I was born. I guess being honest is a sin.
    divich001 divich001 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 18

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    My marriage lacks affection,

    closeness and intimacy. We don't kiss, hug or hold hands....no date nights....the main priority is to raise our kids...we talk a lot, however, when it comes to intimacy, it is dismal...I have expressed my desires to my husband for more affection and have even tried to show him...
    DreamWing DreamWing 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 19, 2014

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    I want it more, but I can't seem to get it.

    I want to lay with my best friend and stare unto eachother eyes, and capture eachothers souls. I want the rain to fall lightly on us as we gaze at eachother. I want him to hold me and never let go of me. I want him to let me fall asleep in his arms. .If anybody ever knew I felt...
    littlejxoxo littlejxoxo 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Sure I want that. Affection,

    closeness, intimacy... with someone other than myself. Or... my dog. I KNOW my dog loves me. She gives me all the affection, closeness and intimacy to be had from a dog. I got that. What I want is affection, closeness and intimacy with another human being... And, yes... I...
    flyinfish flyinfish 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    Far Too Wrong

    Is it soo wrong to want a guy to be "on the same page" as me? To want somebody to understand that I need them close emotionally and mentally, I long for the days where I can write letters to the man I want to love, have long phone calls into the early morning, to give and receive...
    Diamond321 Diamond321 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    I have been single for about one year

    and almost a month. I miss that feeling when he would hold me in his arms. I miss kissing. I miss the warmth. I miss the feeling of knowing I'm loved by someone...
    JKenagy JKenagy 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    biancaxxb biancaxxb 18-21, F 25 Responses Jul 23

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    My husband and I are currently separated

    but have been spending more time together lately. We've basically started the entire relationship over and have gotten to a place where we can hug, kiss, cuddle, etc. Our interaction is more intimate and thoughtful than before and our communication is better than it's ever been...
    WhiteRaven13 WhiteRaven13 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    I would make a very good wife.

    I would cook and clean everyday. I am a great listener, I would work to contribute to the bills, I am a motivator and I would support and love my husband forever, but no one wants me. There are women out there who complain about their husbands everyday. I can only dream of the...
    DanielleMaree DanielleMaree 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    I love being close to my lover,

    being affectionate to and with him, and most of all intimate with him. I am in love so much with my husband of ten years. He is so much in love with me as well. We just had a baby three months ago. We love our special time in bed together when we undress each other, cuddle...
    olderblondemom olderblondemom 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I am 41 years old and married.

    I have a 21 year old man that is trying hard to persuade me to be with him. I have told him in many kind ways that we cannot be together, but he continues in his advances. There is a part of me that wonders if I should give in to him.
    reedusgirl reedusgirl 41-45, F 12 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Just want someone who I can hug

    and hold and kiss and be sexually close with and vice versa /:
    violetskynoise violetskynoise 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    I feel as if i'm giving myself to someone

    who doesn't appreciate me. He doesn't give me enough attention or affection. im not asking for PDA but wen u leave and I lean in to kiss u and u pull away makes me feel unwanted. I want to be intimate more. I don't want sex once a day. im a very beautiful women but I feel im...
    iiAmBlue iiAmBlue 26-30, F 8 Responses May 7

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Need For Affection..

    Since I have no bf in my life, Im thirsty for affection. Each day I intend on staying busy but theres a trigger in my mind to be touched, wanted, desired, kissed, loved, caressed, and much more. I don't want to appear needy in the public eye and I don't show my affection I hide...
    wittywitty wittywitty 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Right Here Yet Far Away!

    So you tangle with the excitement of affection to be close and share intimacy. I toy with so many emotions that it’s almost like being out of control on a roller coaster ride! I have that someone that I am completely affectionate with and I feel that back. The problem comes...
    inChange inChange 41-45, M 1 Response May 23, 2013

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    Loves Loss

    I am missing that most amazing feeling of touch! When a woman slides her hand down my arms or across my cheek and send chills down my spine! The feeling of her breath on my neck while in a long embrace feeling her against me while arms wander aimlessly across each others backs...
    slimmmerman slimmmerman 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    As we age I find my wife is less

    and less interested in snuggling. Cuddling and reaching out to show me how she feels. I feel so cut off when I am the only one reaching out to touch or caress. She says she likes it but does not give back. I do have a higher sex drive than her so that is frustrating. Just had to...
    grandpaj grandpaj 61-65, M 3 Responses 5 days ago