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I Want An Older Man

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    Who is about 14 years older

    than me. Close friends with my dad and I also work with guy. I never really thought about him in particular until recently, when we started flirting a lot. I have ways been curious about older men, and have only found 3 attractive enough where I would want to bang there brains...
    x3fallinlovex3 x3fallinlovex3 22-25, F Sep 2

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    Was Bowling Today

    New lil hot thing i learned, older ppl like to do things like bowl, but i went with some gfs just to blow off some steam, damn i saw the cutest manager today, when i would do good he would smile at me, he was so cute, maybe late 50s , wanted to talk to him, didnt know how.....but...
    craving4touch craving4touch 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    The Service Manager

    I was working at the car dealership (same one where I met the 21 y/o). I would sit at my desk and always noticed the Service Manager would come around often. He thought he was being smooth but I caught him looking at my cleavage all the time. I actually never thought it would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    i am a young women, i failed in love with my

    young boy friend, because he is too rude, so i want an older man who can treat me politely and well. someone have the same interests about dating an older man, pls give me suggestions.
    Nacy1990 Nacy1990 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    How This Older Man Became Who He Is And What He Seeks

    One must trust the serendipity. I am way older than you are I am even older than my age on this site, but hide that for two reasons one people assume things about ages even though they try not to. The second is I'm a specialist in health, in the mind, and how the body and mind...
    dragonofjapan dragonofjapan 56-60, M Sep 18, 2011

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    Some Thoughts From An Older Man In Search Of...

    I am seeking a younger woman for a long term relationship. read and enjoy. This is quite long. When I was much younger and far more insecure, I had a relationship with a young lady who served others for me. There were times when she would go out and do this without me. While she...
    dragonofjapan dragonofjapan 56-60, M Sep 8, 2011

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    Amy Ladies Seeking In Phx,az?

    Please advise if this is not allowed in the group.Any Ladies Seeking an Older male in PHX, AZ?If so you can find my contact info on my profile.Thank you.
    sonnysantianoaz sonnysantianoaz 51-55, M May 6, 2011

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    i am an older man a reneagade hermit wild

    stallion hippie tarzan live in wilderness and want large polyfidelity family of me maybe another junior husband and one to five wonderful women any age ok
    edthefirehorse edthefirehorse 51-55, M 2 days ago

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    Older Men

    Are both big babies and often times mature and sure of themselves. If you luck up hes intelligent and can teach you more than you realize and that is the most amazing feeling
    mizbeautiful657 mizbeautiful657 26-30, F Aug 17, 2011

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    Older Men

    I have always liked older men, my last partner was older then me now i'm going out with a much older man then my last partner.I think older men have a lot of wisdom and they now a lot of things about life thats why i feel comfortable around them.
    dampsandy dampsandy 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    I Want An Older Man 60+

    hi i am looking for a dirty old man 60+ only that is a real perv. i am 23, mix race from the UK looking for some naughty fun... add me...message me back pervy old man only ...happy to show my pics
    hannahmontoya hannahmontoya 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: โ€žWe have phoned, haven't we?โ€œ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 3 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    I Want Him

    I want an older man. he is old enough to be my father, and i fantize about him all the time. I don't think he thinks i exist though
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Experience

    Experience is why I like older men. In and out of bed. They know how to have more fun. Even if its kinky, its fun. Chains and whips excite me;)
    Mady2160 Mady2160 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    Said Hello

    Had an older gentleman come up to me today after grocery shopping, I was sittinng in the area in front of the store waiting on my friend, he talked me up, his care giver was there and he was like lets take her home, but he didnt have email and he didnt ask for a phone number BUY...
    craving4touch craving4touch 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    Never To Old

    I do like older men. Not sure why, but I find men who are 20+ years older then me. Though I am often to shy to actually go up and talk to one haha....
    TellyLuv TellyLuv 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    I Never Been With a Man Who Was 10 Years Younger

    i find being with an older man , i feel safe , i feel loved i feel so much than if i was with a guy my own age , im 20 and i would love to find a man in his 40s to share my love with i am so glad im not the only one who feels like this
    cocoxoxo cocoxoxo 18-21 8 Responses May 4, 2008

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    About Buck and Lisa

    I am the "older man" (45 yo) and  I wanted to tell you about my relationship with a 21 year old girl, Lisa because I think you'll find this very interesting.   You'll understand why our relationship is so different from most other relationship. It...
    buckminster buckminster 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 27, 2008

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    Experience

    I've never been with a man as old as I'd like. I feel like I need someone 40-55, and I've only been with someone as old as 39. I want to know what older men think about dating & sex with someone as young as 22, just to have their viewpoint.
    Princessb0unty Princessb0unty 22-25, F 14 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    I Do

    I really like older guys, but find it hard to meet them. I would love to meet an older guy and fulfill my fantasy of being with a wise, experienced lover, but where does one go to meet an older guy?
    kdates14 kdates14 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    I'M 52 Will That Do?

    I would be in heaven if I could spend even a couple of days with some of the ladies in this area. So much beauty and sexy bodies. If you are in Los Angeles I would love to talk.
    nowandlater nowandlater 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    Maybe Its Abandonment

    Issues i have, a father beats the hell out of mother for a great many years, dysfunctional childhood, what coulda, woulda, shoulda been, or its the daddy factor. That sexy grey hair, OMG so many of us 40+ women grew up watching and lusting after Sean Connery in his sexy voice in...
    craving4touch craving4touch 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    I Would Like to Meet An Older Man

    I have always dated younger guys as a rule.  Probably because of my incessant need to be in control, but I'd like to meet an older man and see how it works out.  I have always found them attractive, more intelligent, and more stable.  Maybe five to 10 years older...
    TwistedDelusions TwistedDelusions 26-30, F 6 Responses May 24, 2008

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    15 Year Old Girl Like Older,

    Im 15 years old and im really attracted to older men. Idk if its wrong my friends would just think im weird.I want an older men not a boy my age....i dk why they get me soo horny!! When i think about allll the things they can do to me it turns me on...am i wrong to feel this why...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    Long *** Day

    Some days, you have to have on dressy clothes, kicking off dressy shoes, bra off , just a quick in and out in the shower and dinner i am really just wanting to be for a while; I lounge around in a Big and Tall man's flannel watching some tv and i decide to turn that offย . For...
    craving4touch craving4touch 41-45, F 10 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    9 Years

    I like older men because I want someone to be in charge, I like others power. The man I like is 9 years older than me, I'm 16, he is so hot, I just wish... Ya know
    Mady2160 Mady2160 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    I'm looking for an older woman,

    30 and up .... who is also looking for a chat partner to talk about everything and anything ......
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M Feb 18

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    i want an older man to call daddy and i want him to call me baby or princess. i am very submissive love being spoiled. would love if he was older then 27
    juanitac juanitac 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Honestly, it's too early to tell, but I feel like an obsessed teenager talking to this guy who is way older than me. I don't know why I fell for him as we hardly have anything in...
    UltraaViolencee UltraaViolencee 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I was nineteen when I kissed an older man in his late forties.Well actually he kissed me.Honestly, that was the best kiss I ever had.We were sitting in his car, warming up, while I...
    Outofeden Outofeden 31-35, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I'm so fascinated with older man. Especially if they try to pick up younger females. I am not in love with an older male, as I said I'm just fascinated with how they act.
    Meyrinfields Meyrinfields 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I am so horny and want to have s e x with older man like 40's-60's. ;)
    Elizabeth214444 Elizabeth214444 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I will miss him when he is gone.... It's been 2 years since I wrote my first post. My husband and I are still together, still making our way through life. I'm now 38 and he is 8...
    mssjeb2000 mssjeb2000 36-40, F Aug 30

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    I am so horny and want to have s e x with older man like 40's-60's. ;)
    Elizabeth214444 Elizabeth214444 22-25, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    and I am an older man looking for a younger girl
    therapyguy therapyguy 56-60, M Sep 4

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    I Am A Young Girl Looking For An Older Man!What should I do?
    QearlLee QearlLee 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok. So I need a safe place to get advice. I have been interested in a friend of mine who is my neighbors older brother for a few years. Recently, I told him how I felt and he was...
    chellebelle25 chellebelle25 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    He's 22 years older than me.. I just wanna say, age ain't nothin but a number. He doesn't even look his age. When we're standing next to each other and he's not in his business...
    KaiFyre KaiFyre 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    Or cyber with :) the older the Better come and get me
    Happiness412 Happiness412 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 27

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    I am looking for a young woman who is very open minded and wants to do some very kinky things with an older guy, maybe I should say old guy! I don't care what you are looking for...
    RunAwayToMe RunAwayToMe 51-55, M Aug 28

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    I am looking for a young woman who is very open minded and wants to do some very kinky things with an older guy, maybe I should say old guy! I don't care what you are looking for...
    RunAwayToMe RunAwayToMe 51-55, M Aug 28

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    I'm 16 and I love older men and women ๐Ÿ˜‹
    jhopegirl jhopegirl 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am 20 and my boyfriend is 38: an 18 year difference. It's only been a month so I don't have much to say, but it's not awkward or uncomfortable like so many people warned me. He's...
    Eoligos Eoligos 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I am 21 years old and I'm in a relationship with a 48 year old man. Before anyone asks "are you with him because you don't have a father/father figure?" This is NOT the case. I...
    sugarrmagnolia sugarrmagnolia 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    The older I get the more I enjoy staying in shape working out feeling good looking good & hitting my goal of having a six pack for my 50th next yeah had one through my 20''s lost...
    londonboy1 londonboy1 46-50, M Sep 11

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    It's so frustrating that I can't tell my family about my amazing bf because he is older and I'm not 18 quite yet ๐Ÿ˜•
    Rosetuck32 Rosetuck32 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    In April I met a man 14years my senior. He makes me feel beautiful and sexy that I'm the only woman in the world. We have got intimate over and over and I have never felt so...
    MsAphrodite MsAphrodite 36-40, F Sep 8

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    Ok..I'm 18 and my bf is 23. And he does not understand my feelings sometimes..maybe he does but just doesn't wants to please me?? He said i'm always annoying him because I bother...
    pawsk pawsk 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I'm 21 my new boyfriend is 25 and he doesn't like to do anything fun only sit at home and watch Netflix when we hang out.. I'm in my party phase and just want to have fun but he...
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I'm more sexual attracted to older women, than girls at my age. Is that. Strange? I'm 22.
    Marcuslove Marcuslove 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 31

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