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I Want An Older Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 320 People

    How This Older Man Became Who He Is And What He Seeks

    One must trust the serendipity. I am way older than you are I am even older than my age on this site, but hide that for two reasons one people assume things about ages even though they try not to. The second is I'm a specialist in health, in the mind, and how the body and mind...
    dragonofjapan dragonofjapan 56-60, M Sep 18, 2011

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    Older Men

    Are both big babies and often times mature and sure of themselves. If you luck up hes intelligent and can teach you more than you realize and that is the most amazing feeling
    mizbeautiful657 mizbeautiful657 26-30, F Aug 17, 2011

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 3 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    9 Years

    I like older men because I want someone to be in charge, I like others power. The man I like is 9 years older than me, I'm 16, he is so hot, I just wish... Ya know
    Mady2160 Mady2160 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    The Service Manager

    I was working at the car dealership (same one where I met the 21 y/o). I would sit at my desk and always noticed the Service Manager would come around often. He thought he was being smooth but I caught him looking at my cleavage all the time. I actually never thought it would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    Some Thoughts From An Older Man In Search Of...

    I am seeking a younger woman for a long term relationship. read and enjoy. This is quite long. When I was much younger and far more insecure, I had a relationship with a young lady who served others for me. There were times when she would go out and do this without me. While she...
    dragonofjapan dragonofjapan 56-60, M Sep 8, 2011

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    Older Men

    I have always liked older men, my last partner was older then me now i'm going out with a much older man then my last partner.I think older men have a lot of wisdom and they now a lot of things about life thats why i feel comfortable around them.
    dampsandy dampsandy 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    I'M 52 Will That Do?

    I would be in heaven if I could spend even a couple of days with some of the ladies in this area. So much beauty and sexy bodies. If you are in Los Angeles I would love to talk.
    nowandlater nowandlater 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    I Do

    I really like older guys, but find it hard to meet them. I would love to meet an older guy and fulfill my fantasy of being with a wise, experienced lover, but where does one go to meet an older guy?
    kdates14 kdates14 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    Was Bowling Today

    New lil hot thing i learned, older ppl like to do things like bowl, but i went with some gfs just to blow off some steam, damn i saw the cutest manager today, when i would do good he would smile at me, he was so cute, maybe late 50s , wanted to talk to him, didnt know how.....but...
    craving4touch craving4touch 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    Maybe Its Abandonment

    Issues i have, a father beats the hell out of mother for a great many years, dysfunctional childhood, what coulda, woulda, shoulda been, or its the daddy factor. That sexy grey hair, OMG so many of us 40+ women grew up watching and lusting after Sean Connery in his sexy voice in...
    craving4touch craving4touch 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    I'm looking for an older woman,

    30 and up .... who is also looking for a chat partner to talk about everything and anything ......
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M Feb 18

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    Said Hello

    Had an older gentleman come up to me today after grocery shopping, I was sittinng in the area in front of the store waiting on my friend, he talked me up, his care giver was there and he was like lets take her home, but he didnt have email and he didnt ask for a phone number BUY...
    craving4touch craving4touch 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    About Buck and Lisa

    I am the "older man" (45 yo) and  I wanted to tell you about my relationship with a 21 year old girl, Lisa because I think you'll find this very interesting.   You'll understand why our relationship is so different from most other relationship. It...
    buckminster buckminster 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 27, 2008

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    Long *** Day

    Some days, you have to have on dressy clothes, kicking off dressy shoes, bra off , just a quick in and out in the shower and dinner i am really just wanting to be for a while; I lounge around in a Big and Tall man's flannel watching some tv and i decide to turn that off . For...
    craving4touch craving4touch 41-45, F 10 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    Never To Old

    I do like older men. Not sure why, but I find men who are 20+ years older then me. Though I am often to shy to actually go up and talk to one haha....
    TellyLuv TellyLuv 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    I Never Been With a Man Who Was 10 Years Younger

    i find being with an older man , i feel safe , i feel loved i feel so much than if i was with a guy my own age , im 20 and i would love to find a man in his 40s to share my love with i am so glad im not the only one who feels like this
    cocoxoxo cocoxoxo 18-21 8 Responses May 4, 2008

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    15 Year Old Girl Like Older,

    Im 15 years old and im really attracted to older men. Idk if its wrong my friends would just think im weird.I want an older men not a boy my age....i dk why they get me soo horny!! When i think about allll the things they can do to me it turns me on...am i wrong to feel this why...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    I Want Him

    I want an older man. he is old enough to be my father, and i fantize about him all the time. I don't think he thinks i exist though
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    i am a young women, i failed in love with my

    young boy friend, because he is too rude, so i want an older man who can treat me politely and well. someone have the same interests about dating an older man, pls give me suggestions.
    Nacy1990 Nacy1990 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I Would Like to Meet An Older Man

    I have always dated younger guys as a rule.  Probably because of my incessant need to be in control, but I'd like to meet an older man and see how it works out.  I have always found them attractive, more intelligent, and more stable.  Maybe five to 10 years older...
    TwistedDelusions TwistedDelusions 26-30, F 6 Responses May 24, 2008

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    Experience

    Experience is why I like older men. In and out of bed. They know how to have more fun. Even if its kinky, its fun. Chains and whips excite me;)
    Mady2160 Mady2160 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    Experience

    I've never been with a man as old as I'd like. I feel like I need someone 40-55, and I've only been with someone as old as 39. I want to know what older men think about dating & sex with someone as young as 22, just to have their viewpoint.
    Princessb0unty Princessb0unty 22-25, F 14 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    I Want An Older Man 60+

    hi i am looking for a dirty old man 60+ only that is a real perv. i am 23, mix race from the UK looking for some naughty fun... add me...message me back pervy old man only ...happy to show my pics
    hannahmontoya hannahmontoya 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Amy Ladies Seeking In Phx,az?

    Please advise if this is not allowed in the group.Any Ladies Seeking an Older male in PHX, AZ?If so you can find my contact info on my profile.Thank you.
    sonnysantianoaz sonnysantianoaz 51-55, M May 6, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Actually, i am the older man looking for a young girl. A girl that wants to be dominated online and needs regurlar punishing.
    DomPie DomPie 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I am looking for a young woman who is very open minded and wants to do some very kinky things with an older guy, maybe I should say old guy! I don't care what you are looking for...
    RunAwayToMe RunAwayToMe 51-55, M 22 hrs ago

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    I am looking for a young woman who is very open minded and wants to do some very kinky things with an older guy, maybe I should say old guy! I don't care what you are looking for...
    RunAwayToMe RunAwayToMe 51-55, M 22 hrs ago

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    I am in love with my man who isn't too older than me. He's only 5 days older, but I only am into older guys.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I'm very much in love with a man 10 plus years older than myself. We have, what I'd like to think of as, a healthy relationship with open communication, warmth, love and support...
    honeybee2014 honeybee2014 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Ok. So I need a safe place to get advice. I have been interested in a friend of mine who is my neighbors older brother for a few years. Recently, I told him how I felt and he was...
    chellebelle25 chellebelle25 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    my boyfriend is 12 years older than me. we have been dating for 6 months now and it has truly been amazing. I am a black girl and he is a gorgeous blonde with the most beautiful...
    shortay413 shortay413 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I am loving a man and he is 15 years older than me. He is my relative. I love him so dearly and I want to marry him. My age is 19. Is this fine to decide my life partner at this...
    uthayashree uthayashree 18-21 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I don't know if I should regret my decision but the other day my friend and I went out to a bar full of people in their 40s and 50s and lots of guys were hitting on me but I knew...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Would love to talk to an older guys who wants to be with a younger girl (;
    PrincessKelly28 PrincessKelly28 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 9

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    i keep getting older physically but i don't feel any older
    7ftstud 7ftstud 36-40, M Aug 16

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    He's 22 years older than me.. I just wanna say, age ain't nothin but a number. He doesn't even look his age. When we're standing next to each other and he's not in his business...
    KaiFyre KaiFyre 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Or cyber with :) the older the Better come and get me
    Happiness412 Happiness412 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've never had sex with a man, but lately I think about it all the time. I want to find another man my age also eager to have sex with a man for the first time.
    padraig412 padraig412 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 6

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    i wanna marry 51 years old man, and I'm 26 now. he has 0 in his bank account. he has financial problem, he has 2 kids from his ex wife, and his kids don't want me to marry their...
    ajenkk ajenkk 26-30 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I am 20 and my boyfriend is 38: an 18 year difference. It's only been a month so I don't have much to say, but it's not awkward or uncomfortable like so many people warned me. He's...
    Eoligos Eoligos 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just like them more. The experience the understanding the compassion and passion. Older men are sexy. And they have awesome skills. And I love the way they dress and smell!
    RainbowLoveFire RainbowLoveFire 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    HELP!!! So this guy had started messaging me over FB and our conversations would twice a week and before we would never talk and now I know when he's going to message me and he is...
    JLH3DWT JLH3DWT 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Who is tired all the time and does not want to have sex like I want to. :(
    shortandstacked shortandstacked 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    The guy I'm dating seems so cheap now ! He doesn't want to go out to eat or anything just stay home and watch movies . I mean it's nice but if he's cheap I at least want to know...
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm 21 dating a 25 years old he's close to turning 26 but I'm in my "I want to drink and go to bars stage" and well he's not . He's more of stay at home watch movies all day . I...
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I wish I could find a guy that loves be for who I am and not who they want me to be. Soooo need to feel a man's touch. Any takers?
    Lisaluv72 Lisaluv72 41-45, F 10 Responses Aug 10

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    In the bedroom and out of it. Life is too short - you just never know, you could get hit by a truck and die next week. So you've got to squeeze every last bit of fun out of life...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 1

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    I do.....I have decided as my marriage has completely fallen apart, next time around that's how it's going to be. When I was a young woman at the young age of 22, I wanted to...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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