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I Want Be a Swinger

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    Always Very Curious

    I have always wanted to try swinging but I don't know how to begin. I am also in a completely sexless marriage. It can be very frustrating at times. I am open to any suggestions.
    nzwglass nzwglass 36-40, M 3 Responses Feb 21, 2011

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    What Is a Swinger?

    i really don't know. aren't they people who like wife swap or something?
    goldwaffles goldwaffles 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 22, 2009

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    Waiting

    if been talking to the old lady and shes getting more excepting but not yet
    donron donron 22-25 4 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    The First Time

    It was a warm afternoon in Fontana California My Wife (Carla) and I Nick were visitihg with our neighbors Wayne and Sharon in their pool. Wayne was an average looking guy with a great personality, His Wife Sharon was very unatractive. My Wife Was wearing a leporad skin Bikini Her...
    SaintNick SaintNick 61-65, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2011

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    I Want In!!!

    I have heard much about the swinging world, and one of the things that most attracts me is that swingers are the most honest and loyal people to know. Of course there is the sex and so forth, but it takes complete trust to take a significant other or spouse to a party and enjoy...
    chillsdavis chillsdavis 56-60, M Aug 19, 2011

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    I Am In A Sexless Marriage

    Being in a sexless marriage and with the approval of my so called husband I have thought about being a swinger. If you have read my story you will understand why I say this. I feel that would be a way to release the desires and passion I have however know that I can't do that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 30, 2010

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    I'd Love To!

    Although I'd love to be a swinger (assuming I find and marry the right woman), my idea of swinging is more like wife-swapping with a couple my wife and I are friends with.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 29, 2011

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    Friends Wife

    So recently my friends wife and i had a steamy make out session one drunken night. Afterwards we talked about our desires to have sex with eachother but how our spouses would feel about the same thing. We got very horny and held our urges to go at it as i was hard and she was wet...
    Talk2mesecretly Talk2mesecretly 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    Been There Don It.

    I will keep this short and sweet. My wife whom I chased for 7 yrs married 13. We did the sharing thing with another couple. It was good for about for a few months then after 8 months it all came to a head. It just about destroyed our marrige. The simple problem I didn't...
    hdandwife hdandwife 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 30, 2013

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    First Couple Didn't Work Out.

    Well we met the first couple and could not have been more excited. He was a very good looking older gentleman and she was a very good looking and sexy lady. The first meeting at lunch went great but they did not have time that afternoon to play. It was just as well as we began...
    Warloch Warloch 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 29, 2012

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    Me And Mywife Want To Swing Just Dnt Knw With Who Any Tip

    OK me and my wife bean together 7years want to spice thing up with aswing but cant seam to find a young couple any tips
    watuthink watuthink 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 3, 2013

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    KarıM

    Bir gün eve geldim.Kapıyı açtım içeri girdigimde içerden sesler geliyordu.Televizyondan diye düşündüm fakat sesler yatak odasından geliyordu.Kapı tam kapalı değildi hafif açıktı Karım yatakta biriyle konuşuyordu.Kim diye kapı aralıgından bakarken karımın...
    sefa2008 sefa2008 41-45, M May 17, 2013

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    We've Decided To Give It A Try... Eventually.

    My boyfriend and I have a very strong relationship, we share a lot of the same sexual tastes and one of those just happens to be multiple partners. No, we're not looking to go cheat on each other, we want to go into this together and we finally decided this last night.We've been...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F 2 Responses May 19, 2011

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    I Want To Swing Baby

    I'm a bi California mommy who just wants to eat pu$$y whil my husband ***** me.... Be DP while I eat pu$$y is even hotter.... I want to swing baby just not with random strangers for a one nighter. I have had a few 3 ways with my hub and we did a 4 way with another couple But the...
    geekwife geekwife 31-35 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    Second Couple Wasn't A Total Bust... But Close.

    If your following along on our journey, we found a second couple to meet. We began with texting using my phone. After a while we got comfortable enough to give him Tamara's cell number and I got his wife's number. He and Tamara had some really hot conversations and one morning he...
    Warloch Warloch 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Sacarmento Ca

    Anyone from Sacarmento area?
    ilove3some ilove3some 31-35, M 12 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    How Times Change

    When I was still in love and having sex in my own relationship, swinging seemed like a terrible thing. I couldn't imagine how two people who cared about each other could let them be with someone else. It never interested me to see my wife with another man. I was much too...
    dsprthusband dsprthusband 41-45, M 5 Responses Oct 31, 2010

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    Jesus, People, Be Careful With This

    Just so you know, this stuff may work for some, but not all. Speaking from experience with the other side of this, it can and does destroy relationships. No happy swinger wants to tell you this, but for every happy couple I met in "the lifestyle" I met at least 3 or 4 who had...
    StillMeJustDifferent StillMeJustDifferent 31-35 11 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    Almost Swingers

    Well to start if you read my other stories you will find that I love to be cross dressed and tied up. I would really like to do this while watching my wife get f--ked . I have never dated any other girls or had sex with anyone else in 17 years. We talked about things and she...
    alyourtoy alyourtoy 51-55 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    I Finally Did Some Swinging! Woohoo

    While the last 12 years or so have sucked in my marriage, the life was slowly being drained from me. I have children, so I will NOT leave my home, but having said that, my wife has made my life a living hell. Living in a sexless marriage has been painful, like a slow death...
    papamoose papamoose 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 15, 2011

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    Meeting Our First Couple Tomorrow.

    We have been talking about this for years. We have recently joined an adult friend finder site. We have been chatting with two couples that have struck our interests. One has been sexting with my wife and they have been having a really good time. This has translated into really...
    Warloch Warloch 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    Memory Flashes Of One Saturday Night

    Blow jobs in curtained rooms, joined by another couple... Knowing that at any moment the ladies might decide to switch places… Chatting with new friends who get horny and decide to **** right there in the chair… then watching as another woman lines up at his knees...
    married2bf married2bf 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 30, 2010

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    A Vacation With New Friends

    When my wife and I go on vacation together, just the two of us, we like to imagine what kind of sexual adventures we could get into. This is an adventure we would really enjoy. In a city a thousand miles from home, we met three couples that were close to our age, good looking...
    dareandfind dareandfind 31-35, M Oct 18, 2013

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    A Life I Wish For

    I so very much want to be a swinger, but unfortunately I lack one critical component: a swinger girlfriend/wife. I have not been fortunate enough to come across a lady who is down with the idea...it seems that the people I've associated with most of my life are rather prudish...
    Stonehammer69 Stonehammer69 22-25, M Sep 4, 2013

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    Never Tried the Swinger Thing

    I have never tried the swinger life and have been intrigued by it for some time now. I guess I'll never know until I try but have always thought I might feel awkward. Are the "meetings" just sex or is it more like a party?
    dickmussell dickmussell 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    We Wanted To Give A Try But Circumstances Are Not In Our Favor

    We both kind of agreed that we would like to give it a shot. Maybe start with soft swap and see how it goes. Unfortunately our circumstances were not that great. We are from SRI LANKA. a Tiny tropical paradise in the indian ocean (Its NOT a part of India). We are looking for a...
    mikesmith6453 mikesmith6453 26-30, M Apr 15, 2013

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    That S Nt Dream What We Thout

    we had experince with singles in fact we were looking for cuoples but no chance for that or we dont know how to contact to them around Antalya-Turkey . we are 51M-45F . it would be great if you help us for that:) 
    nirvana2010 nirvana2010 51-55 1 Response Nov 23, 2010

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    Looking For Adult Fun

    We are looking for adult fun to spice up are marriage. we are a mature couple happily married for over 30yr , but have fantasize about the swinging lifestyle and looking forward to taken the next step to make it a reality. We have talk about getting off on the right foot and...
    the2ofus the2ofus 56-60 11 Responses Jul 20, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    We have only ever swung with two couples, excluding a swingers party with once went to. The first couple were only interested in pleasing their own desires, and it was an afternoon...
    kinkycoupleuk kinkycoupleuk 46-50 1 Response Aug 9

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    My gf and I have been talking about this for a long while. We want to do it but we are not swingers. The challenge is not getting the nerve to do it, its finding the other couple...
    luvtheocean33432 luvtheocean33432 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm single now, but have always enjoyed the swinger lifestyle before. I'm finding issue now that I'm not partnered. I would love to engage with a couple. How can I approach that...
    catiemae87 catiemae87 26-30, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    Looking for swinger couples in Victoria, Australia! Contact us!
    BeastyCoupleF27M35 BeastyCoupleF27M35 36-40, M Jul 24

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    Well she is not a swinger. Went to a club last nite and was totally not in to swinging. But she Still loves to chat with her friends
    44megpipe 44megpipe 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 26

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    Wow....it's been a while since I've written anything of real substance here on EP. The reason I've chosen to today is because it is my one year anniversary of being on EP, with...
    Hushedvoices Hushedvoices 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    We have had our final talk about “all” of the issues that I was having. The zoning out on the phone looking to buy snakes that are $800 a pop when we need a new car because...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    When I joined this group, I didn't mean it's okay for someone to just approach me saying "hey, you know you can tell me anything." No. That's not how it works. You can't just...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 6 Responses 32 mins ago

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    All I basically want to do in life is just travel, travel like a homeless guy. Just carrying a small backpack with a knife, my passport, and some water. And Im gonna be those...
    adguez adguez 13-15, M 14 hrs ago

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    Hello, I'm an active-duty Air Force military doctor. By Air Force policy, I have to be seen by a provider in the same clinic in which I work. Though this presents an awkward...
    Wolson Wolson 31-35, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I do and I dont. I've always had the desires of gaining weight, but I currently sit in between right now. I probably outweigh most of my friends cause they're skinny, and I'm both...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 13 hrs ago

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    I got a little into this in another story but allow me to elaborate. So, I am 23 years old. I wanted to move out of my parent's house when I turned 21 but that didn't happen hence...
    Culinaryman23 Culinaryman23 22-25, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I really want to make some new friends. In school, i only have one person i'd consider a friend, and while we speak in school, she doesn't really text me or message me anymore...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    (continued from part four...)She began to descent the stairs, her hands firmly pressed on the bottom of her belly, the babies still kicking. She knew that it was only a matter of...
    ChloePawson ChloePawson 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    i'm not being selfish or something, but i just want my friend back... recently this best friend of mine just met a new friend online. they happened to be in the same school (and...
    yunisaurus yunisaurus 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    I have tons of favorite movies. I won't put them all in one post cause that's too many for one post. At least on the side of most readers, I think. Fern Gully Rescuers Down Under...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I never met you. But mom always said you were a good guy. I know you wanted to stay and raise me. But I guess it just wasn't supposed to happen. You died before you could hold me...
    SongBird2115 SongBird2115 16-17, F 14 hrs ago

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    Hey..i want your honest advice..i'm a guy & going to be 24 in next few days, & about to complete my masters next year in Medical & Psychiatric SW...few months back we had an new...
    ImAWeirdKid ImAWeirdKid 22-25, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I really don't get it why do people start a conversation with me if it's only going to late for a couple of mins and sometimes they don't even reply back afterwards all I really...
    Cookiemonster31 Cookiemonster31 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    All i wanted is one big hug from someone i really care and think the most, i don't even dreaming him with me having s*x. all i want is that one passionate hug.........
    fragile029 fragile029 18-21 4 hrs ago

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    i am the beta of the Ygdrassil Pack and we want new members. we are not a werewolf pack. we do have werewolfs, crossbreeds, seers, aura seers, and more. our Luna can change the...
    madpalm2001 madpalm2001 16-17 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    hi i m from sajid khan from pakistan i got my becholer degree in computer science and i want to continue my studies but i m financialy very poor and i m born in the backward area...
    sajid00 sajid00 26-30, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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