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I Want Be a Swinger

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 441 People

    A Life I Wish For

    I so very much want to be a swinger, but unfortunately I lack one critical component: a swinger girlfriend/wife. I have not been fortunate enough to come across a lady who is down with the idea...it seems that the people I've associated with most of my life are rather prudish...
    Stonehammer69 Stonehammer69 22-25, M Sep 4, 2013

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    Been There Don It.

    I will keep this short and sweet. My wife whom I chased for 7 yrs married 13. We did the sharing thing with another couple. It was good for about for a few months then after 8 months it all came to a head. It just about destroyed our marrige. The simple problem I didn't...
    hdandwife hdandwife 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 30, 2013

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    Always Very Curious

    I have always wanted to try swinging but I don't know how to begin. I am also in a completely sexless marriage. It can be very frustrating at times. I am open to any suggestions.
    nzwglass nzwglass 36-40, M 3 Responses Feb 21, 2011

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    We've Decided To Give It A Try... Eventually.

    My boyfriend and I have a very strong relationship, we share a lot of the same sexual tastes and one of those just happens to be multiple partners. No, we're not looking to go cheat on each other, we want to go into this together and we finally decided this last night.We've been...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F 2 Responses May 19, 2011

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    I'd Love To!

    Although I'd love to be a swinger (assuming I find and marry the right woman), my idea of swinging is more like wife-swapping with a couple my wife and I are friends with.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 29, 2011

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    Sacarmento Ca

    Anyone from Sacarmento area?
    ilove3some ilove3some 31-35, M 12 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Second Couple Wasn't A Total Bust... But Close.

    If your following along on our journey, we found a second couple to meet. We began with texting using my phone. After a while we got comfortable enough to give him Tamara's cell number and I got his wife's number. He and Tamara had some really hot conversations and one morning he...
    Warloch Warloch 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Waiting

    if been talking to the old lady and shes getting more excepting but not yet
    donron donron 22-25 4 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    What Is a Swinger?

    i really don't know. aren't they people who like wife swap or something?
    goldwaffles goldwaffles 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 22, 2009

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    Me And Mywife Want To Swing Just Dnt Knw With Who Any Tip

    OK me and my wife bean together 7years want to spice thing up with aswing but cant seam to find a young couple any tips
    watuthink watuthink 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 3, 2013

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    I Finally Did Some Swinging! Woohoo

    While the last 12 years or so have sucked in my marriage, the life was slowly being drained from me. I have children, so I will NOT leave my home, but having said that, my wife has made my life a living hell. Living in a sexless marriage has been painful, like a slow death...
    papamoose papamoose 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 15, 2011

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    That S Nt Dream What We Thout

    we had experince with singles in fact we were looking for cuoples but no chance for that or we dont know how to contact to them around Antalya-Turkey . we are 51M-45F . it would be great if you help us for that:) 
    nirvana2010 nirvana2010 51-55 1 Response Nov 23, 2010

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    Memory Flashes Of One Saturday Night

    Blow jobs in curtained rooms, joined by another couple... Knowing that at any moment the ladies might decide to switch places… Chatting with new friends who get horny and decide to **** right there in the chair… then watching as another woman lines up at his knees...
    married2bf married2bf 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 30, 2010

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    I Want To Swing Baby

    I'm a bi California mommy who just wants to eat pu$$y whil my husband ***** me.... Be DP while I eat pu$$y is even hotter.... I want to swing baby just not with random strangers for a one nighter. I have had a few 3 ways with my hub and we did a 4 way with another couple But the...
    geekwife geekwife 31-35 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    Jesus, People, Be Careful With This

    Just so you know, this stuff may work for some, but not all. Speaking from experience with the other side of this, it can and does destroy relationships. No happy swinger wants to tell you this, but for every happy couple I met in "the lifestyle" I met at least 3 or 4 who had...
    StillMeJustDifferent StillMeJustDifferent 31-35 11 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    KarıM

    Bir gün eve geldim.Kapıyı açtım içeri girdigimde içerden sesler geliyordu.Televizyondan diye düşündüm fakat sesler yatak odasından geliyordu.Kapı tam kapalı değildi hafif açıktı Karım yatakta biriyle konuşuyordu.Kim diye kapı aralıgından bakarken karımın...
    sefa2008 sefa2008 41-45, M May 17, 2013

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    A Vacation With New Friends

    When my wife and I go on vacation together, just the two of us, we like to imagine what kind of sexual adventures we could get into. This is an adventure we would really enjoy. In a city a thousand miles from home, we met three couples that were close to our age, good looking...
    dareandfind dareandfind 31-35, M Oct 18, 2013

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    First Couple Didn't Work Out.

    Well we met the first couple and could not have been more excited. He was a very good looking older gentleman and she was a very good looking and sexy lady. The first meeting at lunch went great but they did not have time that afternoon to play. It was just as well as we began...
    Warloch Warloch 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 29, 2012

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    Meeting Our First Couple Tomorrow.

    We have been talking about this for years. We have recently joined an adult friend finder site. We have been chatting with two couples that have struck our interests. One has been sexting with my wife and they have been having a really good time. This has translated into really...
    Warloch Warloch 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    The First Time

    It was a warm afternoon in Fontana California My Wife (Carla) and I Nick were visitihg with our neighbors Wayne and Sharon in their pool. Wayne was an average looking guy with a great personality, His Wife Sharon was very unatractive. My Wife Was wearing a leporad skin Bikini Her...
    SaintNick SaintNick 61-65, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2011

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    Looking For Adult Fun

    We are looking for adult fun to spice up are marriage. we are a mature couple happily married for over 30yr , but have fantasize about the swinging lifestyle and looking forward to taken the next step to make it a reality. We have talk about getting off on the right foot and...
    the2ofus the2ofus 56-60 11 Responses Jul 20, 2010

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    Almost Swingers

    Well to start if you read my other stories you will find that I love to be cross dressed and tied up. I would really like to do this while watching my wife get f--ked . I have never dated any other girls or had sex with anyone else in 17 years. We talked about things and she...
    alyourtoy alyourtoy 51-55 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    How Times Change

    When I was still in love and having sex in my own relationship, swinging seemed like a terrible thing. I couldn't imagine how two people who cared about each other could let them be with someone else. It never interested me to see my wife with another man. I was much too...
    dsprthusband dsprthusband 41-45, M 5 Responses Oct 31, 2010

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    Never Tried the Swinger Thing

    I have never tried the swinger life and have been intrigued by it for some time now. I guess I'll never know until I try but have always thought I might feel awkward. Are the "meetings" just sex or is it more like a party?
    dickmussell dickmussell 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    Friends Wife

    So recently my friends wife and i had a steamy make out session one drunken night. Afterwards we talked about our desires to have sex with eachother but how our spouses would feel about the same thing. We got very horny and held our urges to go at it as i was hard and she was wet...
    Talk2mesecretly Talk2mesecretly 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    We Wanted To Give A Try But Circumstances Are Not In Our Favor

    We both kind of agreed that we would like to give it a shot. Maybe start with soft swap and see how it goes. Unfortunately our circumstances were not that great. We are from SRI LANKA. a Tiny tropical paradise in the indian ocean (Its NOT a part of India). We are looking for a...
    mikesmith6453 mikesmith6453 26-30, M Apr 15, 2013

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    Twin Lakes Wi...

    This tall, slender, submissive nice tan oak apartments nice guy eagerly desires to be used by you !!! Please message me and enjoy my album photos !!! Thanks so much....
    twinlakeswipanties twinlakeswipanties 46-50, M 2 Responses May 25, 2012

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    I Am In A Sexless Marriage

    Being in a sexless marriage and with the approval of my so called husband I have thought about being a swinger. If you have read my story you will understand why I say this. I feel that would be a way to release the desires and passion I have however know that I can't do that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 30, 2010

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    I Want In!!!

    I have heard much about the swinging world, and one of the things that most attracts me is that swingers are the most honest and loyal people to know. Of course there is the sex and so forth, but it takes complete trust to take a significant other or spouse to a party and enjoy...
    chillsdavis chillsdavis 56-60, M Aug 19, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    You've joined MeetBi.com so now what? You obviously want to meet another bi girl and swingers, preferably within driving distance, but where do you start? Right here. 1. Completely...
    alvinlu alvinlu 22-25 1 Response Jul 1

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    We were married in 1954 and began ‘swinging’ ten years later. It started when we ran into a couple we knew slightly in college who told us over drinks that they were...
    oraclenow oraclenow 70+, M Jul 3

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    BeastyCoupleF27M35 BeastyCoupleF27M35 36-40, M a week ago

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    My boyfriend and I of 6 years have been seeing this wonderful girl for the past couple of months. We are swingers and it started out as that but ended up being more. He has...
    peace61292 peace61292 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Well she is not a swinger. Went to a club last nite and was totally not in to swinging. But she Still loves to chat with her friends
    44megpipe 44megpipe 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    PLEASE READ BEFORE ADDING I respect people and I want the same in return that means look at this and accept you don't have to like it but if you want to add me you need to...
    BornDifferent BornDifferent 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    The last time i talked to me ex boyfriend was about 1 week ago, and since then ive been having dreams he was coming to rape me. I dont know I feel scared in the morning and wont...
    Cassandra13Park Cassandra13Park 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Yeah, so I already know I'm attractive, I just wanted to see what you people rate me out of 10. I rate myself a solid 8 😘
    iamab1tch iamab1tch 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I'm white with black hair like blondes. I'm working on getting fit. Also becoming an a plus student slowly. Never got held back in school. Also looking for 12-14 boys. My ex is a...
    Epicest Epicest 13-15 1 hr ago

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    say whatever the hell you want!
    imworthless0 imworthless0 16-17, F 1 Response 25 mins ago

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    I never really thought about what the topic of being "free" meant, it could by all means be emotional, physical, spiritual or a mixture of all. When people say that they want to be...
    VacillaSolvo VacillaSolvo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Sometimes I just want to scream. I just want someone anyone to hear me . I want to scratch and scream and scream and scratch. and I want to break all the mirrors that I see , and...
    emmawinterfrost emmawinterfrost 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I want to feel my heart pound, hear it slow. I want that shed of innocence and vulnerability. I want to have the warmth flow through my body because my mind can't stop telling me...
    Dancedancedance Dancedancedance 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    There are so many habits I don't want. I do not want to be a typical teenage girl or do what they do. I desperately want to be the exception, but I'm not. I fall for the same thing...
    anotherpasserby anotherpasserby 16-17, F Jul 1

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    Freedom is something all humankind crave. For me, its not the physical freedom that I crave, but the mental one. I come from a family where its abnormal to leave and make your own...
    BillyEmad BillyEmad 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    never had a girlfriend but there was one girl that I wanted as my girlfriend that also wanted our relationship to an open one meaning she wanted to have other lovers. I didn't like...
    beachboy14u beachboy14u 18-21, T 4 Responses Jul 3

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    1. I am Canadian 😄😄 2. I love video games 3. I love music 4. My fav colour is purple 5. Can't live without wifi 6. I need food 7. I am selfless to those who are selfless 8...
    Alyzza123 Alyzza123 13-15, F Jul 3

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    Well, actually this is the main reason I came to this website... I have a lot in my mind, a lot going on in my life right now, and most of it are things I wouldn't want to be...
    Yasahiro Yasahiro 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I'm in love with the idea of having that one of a kind love, but have yet to find it. I have had love but not the kind of love, that cast out your fears and is as comforting as a...
    brightbabyblues4u brightbabyblues4u 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 4

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    I just want to stop worrying 24/7 and just be happy. I want to get away from my parents and move away to a different state so I can just live my dreams. Nobody gets that I want to...
    BriannaMack BriannaMack 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I want a guy who I can be myself with. Who will text me throughout the day cuz he misses me. Who will want to call me anytime of the night just to hear my voice. Who will sing to...
    SkylarPurdy SkylarPurdy 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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