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I Want Children

No kids, but want them? Me too. 853 People

    Love is a cruel mistress.

    Despite no lack of partners why has my wish been passed over? It does not make sense. Jocks make easy but useless Fathers, sweet men get trampled, outsiders/alternative men ignored. Women seem to pick the wrong man, then look for love with no intent to follow up with the...
    blackoberon blackoberon 46-50, M 10 Responses Jan 8

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    "Little Cow"

    I sit here staring at this adorable 2 year old sitting in her father's lap. Her light black hair pulled into a sad pony-tail on the top of her head exposing radiant blue eyes that reach into you and stir up a smile. Her blue jacket complete with pink mittens dangling from the...
    Inman Inman 31-35, M 8 Responses Dec 29, 2007

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    Oriential Asian Perferably

    I feel really in touch with asian culture and my somewhat distant Asian roots. My perference would a Japanese, Korean, or Chinese baby girl or child. Although I have most recently opened up my mind to a different gender and perhaps a different race. That is my dream and I...
    DesireMeOnly DesireMeOnly 22-25, F Jun 9, 2013

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    I know I'm still to young to have children

    but Iv always wanted children. Ever since that day when I went to the mall by myself when I was 12 I wanted kids, everywhere I walked I saw happy families, smiling, laughing and even a brother and sister play ing tag. I just felt so alone and so hollow. I never had a complete...
    AriaDream AriaDream 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Fate Has It's Own Course

    I'm male, 33, married happily for 10 years next May. we've had 2 miss-carriages, 2 ectopics (where both tubes were removed), and more recently 2 failed IVFs (which we had to save a lot of money for) adopting is an option yes, but not one for us. I don't even know why I'm writing...
    inconsequential inconsequential 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    As I get older my mommy clock is getting louder

    and stronger. I am 26. I have an established career. Children bring joy to my life. I have always been surrounded by children. I am ready to begin a family but my partner wants to wait a few more years. It is getting harder to wait. It literally hurts at times that my body aches...
    gatorgirl1205 gatorgirl1205 26-30, F Apr 28

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    For some reason growing up I've always wanted a

    daughter to be my first born whenever I have children. Hopefully when that time comes, it'll come true.
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 2

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    I have always dreamed of developing a bonding

    relationship with kids of mine. I've always wanted to grow up get married and have a little girl and boy. An ideal dream family of mine would be like will smith and his wife and kids. I would make the best mother and I would be very delighted to be there for them giving them...
    FireAndDesire FireAndDesire 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    Brief background: 22 years old,

    engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since graduating, Fiance has a degree and full time job in the IT sector, we are working toward moving abroad for a higher quality of...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F Apr 7

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    I'm not old enough yet

    and I haven't found my lover but I can't wait until I'm older and have children of my own. I'm already excited and it's probably ten years away
    salicaria salicaria 18-21, F 2 Responses May 11

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    Non Of My Own

    This is My Story I have help a few women become moms who were either single. However in the process i found myself wanting a child as well. These women were only looking for a child not a partner so my fingers are crossed that some day It will be my turn to have a child. Thanks...
    Stonecold1 Stonecold1 36-40, M Apr 7, 2013

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    YES!

    I want children. I want to be a mother. I really, really do. I have my names picked out and everything. But I don't want them until I have a steady job and partner. I don't want to randomly pop out a kid, you know? I want kids, badly, but I want to be ready for them. ...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 3, 2008

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    I want 6. I want 3 girls

    and 3 boys. I want a girl called Amelia Lily and a boy called TobyJames x
    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 15

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    I had another dream of my baby.

    It was a boy I didn't want to put him down. The imaginary father was opening doors and lifting blankets so I didn't have to put my baby down. I'm so flippen sad now because the dream was such a contrast to my now life which doesn't even involve a possible father or someone to...
    LastofmyKind LastofmyKind 26-30, F Aug 19

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    I'M Young But I Want To Be A Father.

    I'm only 19 years of age, I know it's young but I don't care. I've helped rasied my baby sister since she was born, and people often call her mine. she makes me want to have my own daughter pretty bad.
    scooby62 scooby62 18-21, M Mar 3, 2013

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Feb 21

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    Though I'm not exactly too fond of the idea of

    marriage, I have grown to the idea of having children. Thankfully, I like in the 21st century, which means that there are options for me to have kids--partner or not. I think I'll be perfectly fine having kids without the father being around. I am the product of a single mother...
    montezia93 montezia93 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    With the right girl yeah,

    would be nice someday
    Temi2707 Temi2707 16-17, M Jul 31

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    I Would Give Up Every Thing.

    Growing up, i have always been surrounded by kids, i have a big family, 18 cousins, 17 are younger than me, and i have one younger brother, Im 18 and i have a friend that has a baby, her name is isabella, she has big brown eyes shoulder lenght hair, and a killer smile, she's only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Well not now of course I need to go through

    school first. But one day (hopefully when I'm about 30) I want to have a child and possibly name her Violet if its a girl :) I've always been into "different" names, probably since my name is one of the most generic names on the planet
    mandycandy0123 mandycandy0123 16-17, F Aug 14

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    Maybe Someday

    I want children. I know I have time, but sometimes it doens't feel that way. My husband is almost a decade older than I am. I'm in my mid-twenties, have been married for 5 years and still don't have children. My mom sometimes makes this out to be her crowning acheivment. I'm not...
    BeckoningLioness BeckoningLioness 21-25, F Mar 14, 2008

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    That76Dude That76Dude 36-40, M 4 Responses Sep 14

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    I Really Want To Have Kids

    I'm 18, and I really want to have kids. I wouldn't mind an older guy either.
    animallover1995 animallover1995 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    When I am old enough I do want kids maybe 2 -

    4 I have always wanted a boy but that doesn't mean I would not love to have my own baby girl idk about names I have always loved the name Andre or Andrew for my baby boy and for my girl I want a very unique and symbolic name my friend and I actually love to have this talk a lot...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F Jul 29

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    PLEASE ANSWER!!! I'm asking this again

    because I really want some opinions: Is it weird to want to have kids with my gay best friend?,it would be mutual of course! He's said he's wanted me to have kids with him, but jokingly like. But he's also said when he does wants kids he wants them to be by a close friend. I...
    BlueKissedMoon BlueKissedMoon 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I want to be a mother

    when I get out of university i want them so badly but the thing that scares me is will I be mentally ready :( I'm so messed up I'm afraid I wouldn't be fit to be a mother for some reason but it's just a weird fear I have a good 10 years or so before that time comes
    BabyDuchanne BabyDuchanne 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 8

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    The fact that I might not be able to have kids

    scares the hell out of me. I love kids.
    KayleeMariee KayleeMariee 16-17, F 3 Responses May 15

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    I've always got on with children

    but never wanted any of my own even my family and friends say I'm not that kind of person but over the last couple of months i seem to be thinking about it more and more my brother and sister both have children and I can't help but feel I'm wasting my love on silly things and...
    Gottabedone Gottabedone 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    I pray and hope I will be blessed enough to

    have children I want many and even if I will not be able to have children I have no problem adopting. My physical heart might only be half and week but my spiritual heart is huge!!
    Klcataldo Klcataldo 18-21, F Aug 12

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    Internal Lust For Motherhood

    Like many women, I have the overall lust to become a mother. It started when I was pre-pubescent, but luckily never became a reality. Even with my wanting to mother my own kin, I feel that doing so should never be done under the age of 23. A female should be somewhat established...
    BounceAround BounceAround 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    To My Future Daughter

    Dear Future Daughter. .♥ Hey there baby girl, it's mommy ♥ You're not close to being in this world yet, probably years before you are, but I can't wait till the day were I could hold you in my arms and look at your beautiful face and say I love you, from then I would really...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 14, 2013

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    I just babysat the two ideal boys ever!

    They reminded me why I want children in my future! I'm gonna have the football stare son, a champion ship boxing son, and the most graceful dancing daughter ! But if that's not the way it goes, I'll love them anyway
    7Bird 7Bird 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I am 24 and my husband is almost 28.

    We've been married for almost a year. He has a career established and I am currently still working on my degree. However, ever since we got married, I haven't been able to stop thinking about having kids. He wants to wait until I'm finished with school (another 2 years), and I...
    jciochet jciochet 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I love kids my nephews mean the world to me I

    hope someday I'll have kids of my own
    dre07 dre07 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    Wanting Children Right Now But Need Someone To Help Get Me Pregnant

    I'm 16 years old and have recently been told that I have a fertility problem and won't be able to have children when I turn 20 and onwards. I love kids and babysit part time, I'm great with children and have been dreaming of having kids since I was little. If your a guy who doesn...
    lottie29 lottie29 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    The older I get the more I fear I will not be

    able to have children. I want to have kids while I am still here because of my health it is a bit uncertain. lets say my health does not get to me, I want to be active in my child life while I am still able to. But I can not have any kids if no one is interested in me. I mean I...
    Drew3188 Drew3188 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    Someday...

    Definately not now, considering... But someday, I'd like to be a dad, and provide my kids with the kind of childhood that I never got. A loving, caring kinda home.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 27, 2008

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    So yesterday I was celebrating Easter with some

    of my family and extended family. And while I was hanging out with my Dad a little and talking together by this window (I like to spend a little alone time with him when I can)…he was going totally starry eyed and gaga over these real little kids- about 1-4 years old outside...
    Sarahbellas Sarahbellas 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 21

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    I'm a teen and I'm the only person in my family

    who don't have kids & I love kids so much I really want my own and I don't wanna wait
    Bizzlequeen Bizzlequeen 16-17, F 9 Responses Jun 8

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    Yearning.

    If I had to have one goal in life it would be to be a mother. My mom has had a daycare, and the kids are just so sweet. It is very easy to get attached to children. I would give anything to have some of my own, but I'm a little young yet. I cannot wait until I fall in love, get...
    purple13dreamer purple13dreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2012

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    When I'm older, soon

    after I finish college, I would like to get married (call me old fashioned, I don't care) and start of family of my own. As for myself, I am pretty athletic. I love running, I play soccer and tennis. My dream for the future is to have an athletic husband and have two sons with...
    metalchick5 metalchick5 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Mar 23

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    StupidWiseGuy StupidWiseGuy 18-21, M Jul 3

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    Ever since I was a little girl I have always

    wanted two kids. Can't wait till I'm old enough!!!!
    Angela5398 Angela5398 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    I want a huge family some day.

    I can't wait. I love kids. I'm thinking like 10 if I can afford them all.
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I love my freedom too much to be a father. Once, I dated a girl with a kid and it didn't work out because I couldn't handle fatherhood. I've told my parents before that I don't...
    bktaylor1989 bktaylor1989 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    I have always known from a very young age that I did not want to have children. Maybe I would be a good father, but I do not want the responsibility of raising a child. I like my...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 22

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    I always thought I wanted at least one child. I even almost had one. Gave birth & everything.. Then had a funeral. Then years went by, and then a few more. It doesn't really seem...
    SirenaVonLee SirenaVonLee 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    I don't want my children to experience this world.
    TenguMomiji TenguMomiji 16-17, F Sep 9

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    Never liked them. And never want them. Maybe it's because of my parents. They accidentally taught me that without children, everything's better. More money, more freetime, less...
    zyakkui zyakkui 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate kids. I am not sure if it's because of the upbringing with my mother but some people are not cut out to be parents. It ****** me off when people tell you "Oh, you will...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Simply this, it is immoral for anyone to want anyone else to suffer. To exist is to suffer, with intermissions of 'happiness'. To bring a child into the world is to want the child...
    Mercent Mercent 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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