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I Want Children

No kids, but want them? Me too. 730 People

    For About A Year

    I've been wanting a kid of my own for a long time but I'm going to wait until i'm out of school and married but I also don't want to wait
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    Waiting For the Day

    My husband and I do not have children yet. He developed fibromyalgia (constant pain and fatigue) about nine months after we got married (5+ years now), and until he is cured (ha!),or at least gets it under control, we have decided to put off having kids. Most days I don't mind...
    Imwaiting Imwaiting 26-30, F May 10, 2008

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    I Want A Child

    I have always wanted a child when I was 5. At that age i wanted 12. but now since im 16 I only want 2-3 of them. I really want one now. I would like to have one. They are just so adorable and loveable
    firecrystal216 firecrystal216 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    Someday...

    Definately not now, considering... But someday, I'd like to be a dad, and provide my kids with the kind of childhood that I never got. A loving, caring kinda home.
    drcynic drcynic 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 27, 2008

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    To My Future Daughter

    Dear Future Daughter. .♥ Hey there baby girl, it's mommy ♥ You're not close to being in this world yet, probably years before you are, but I can't wait till the day were I could hold you in my arms and look at your beautiful face and say I love you, from then I would really...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 14, 2013

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    The older I get the more I fear I will not be

    able to have children. I want to have kids while I am still here because of my health it is a bit uncertain. lets say my health does not get to me, I want to be active in my child life while I am still able to. But I can not have any kids if no one is interested in me. I mean I...
    Drew3188 Drew3188 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    OMG

    Honestly, I want children. Not right now but I want them. A total of fifteen. I just love children
    Anja1234 Anja1234 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    I just babysat the two ideal boys ever!

    They reminded me why I want children in my future! I'm gonna have the football stare son, a champion ship boxing son, and the most graceful dancing daughter ! But if that's not the way it goes, I'll love them anyway
    7Bird 7Bird 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I want 6. I want 3 girls

    and 3 boys. I want a girl called Amelia Lily and a boy called TobyJames x
    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Wanting Children Right Now But Need Someone To Help Get Me Pregnant

    I'm 16 years old and have recently been told that I have a fertility problem and won't be able to have children when I turn 20 and onwards. I love kids and babysit part time, I'm great with children and have been dreaming of having kids since I was little. If your a guy who doesn...
    lottie29 lottie29 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    Internal Lust For Motherhood

    Like many women, I have the overall lust to become a mother. It started when I was pre-pubescent, but luckily never became a reality. Even with my wanting to mother my own kin, I feel that doing so should never be done under the age of 23. A female should be somewhat established...
    BounceAround BounceAround 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    I am 24 and my husband is almost 28.

    We've been married for almost a year. He has a career established and I am currently still working on my degree. However, ever since we got married, I haven't been able to stop thinking about having kids. He wants to wait until I'm finished with school (another 2 years), and I...
    jciochet jciochet 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I'M Young But I Want To Be A Father.

    I'm only 19 years of age, I know it's young but I don't care. I've helped rasied my baby sister since she was born, and people often call her mine. she makes me want to have my own daughter pretty bad.
    scooby62 scooby62 18-21, M Mar 3, 2013

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    Counting Down The Days....

    I am 32, been with my partner for 4 years. We are not married yet, but plan to marry in the near future. I have just relocated interstate to be with and support him whilst he embarks on a new business path. I want to be a mum. Not just because I feel that my biological clock is...
    ClareSA ClareSA 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    Brief background: 22 years old,

    engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since graduating, Fiance has a degree and full time job in the IT sector, we are working toward moving abroad for a higher quality of...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F Apr 7

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    I've always got on with children

    but never wanted any of my own even my family and friends say I'm not that kind of person but over the last couple of months i seem to be thinking about it more and more my brother and sister both have children and I can't help but feel I'm wasting my love on silly things and...
    Gottabedone Gottabedone 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    I Want A Baby So Bad

    Even though I'm a person who live by the name of freedom and who loves her single life , I would love to have my own baby , a baby boy and name him Adam , I would take pictures and videos everyday of him , take care of his clothes and watch him eating , laughing and sleeping . I...
    Dee9876 Dee9876 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    One Day...

    I've always fantasized about having my own children. Everything, from pregnancy, to the birth, to their first step, to their first day of school gives me chills. The thought that this person is part of me and the man I love and just imagining what they will be like fascinates me...
    Bunnielight Bunnielight 22-25, F Jun 23, 2013

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    I Really Want To Have Kids

    I'm 18, and I really want to have kids. I wouldn't mind an older guy either.
    animallover1995 animallover1995 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    Love is a cruel mistress.

    Despite no lack of partners why has my wish been passed over? It does not make sense. Jocks make easy but useless Fathers, sweet men get trampled, outsiders/alternative men ignored. Women seem to pick the wrong man, then look for love with no intent to follow up with the...
    blackoberon blackoberon 41-45, M 12 Responses Jan 8

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    Oriential Asian Perferably

    I feel really in touch with asian culture and my somewhat distant Asian roots. My perference would a Japanese, Korean, or Chinese baby girl or child. Although I have most recently opened up my mind to a different gender and perhaps a different race. That is my dream and I...
    DesireMeOnly DesireMeOnly 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2013

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Feb 21

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    With My Husband 7 Years Married 3 Year No Kids...

    My problem is that I've been with my husband 7 years married 3 years and still no kids. He keeps changing the story when I ask him. Or when we do talk about it he's like we can't afford it. It's really starting to bother me. I'm not sure what I can do or say anymore
    Mb198 Mb198 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    I Really Do

    I also really want to get married, unfortunately, the only man I've ever wanted these things with, the one who made me realize I even wanted them to begin with, has decided that he doesn't want me. It's hard, but I'm hoping that soon I'll find someone else who can...
    ShrubberySoup ShrubberySoup 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 5, 2009

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    Maybe Someday

    I want children. I know I have time, but sometimes it doens't feel that way. My husband is almost a decade older than I am. I'm in my mid-twenties, have been married for 5 years and still don't have children. My mom sometimes makes this out to be her crowning acheivment. I'm not...
    BeckoningLioness BeckoningLioness 21-25, F Mar 14, 2008

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    I Love Kids

    But I don't want any right now, I'm currently in college and I am only on my first year, and I don't have a good enough job to support anyone, not even myself. But in a few years I hope to be financially and emotionally stable enough to have the kids that I want. I do want a lot...
    SammiBee23 SammiBee23 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    Though I'm not exactly too fond of the idea of

    marriage, I have grown to the idea of having children. Thankfully, I like in the 21st century, which means that there are options for me to have kids--partner or not. I think I'll be perfectly fine having kids without the father being around. I am the product of a single mother...
    montezia93 montezia93 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    YES!

    I want children. I want to be a mother. I really, really do. I have my names picked out and everything. But I don't want them until I have a steady job and partner. I don't want to randomly pop out a kid, you know? I want kids, badly, but I want to be ready for them. ...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 3, 2008

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    PLEASE ANSWER!!! I'm asking this again

    because I really want some opinions: Is it weird to want to have kids with my gay best friend?,it would be mutual of course! He's said he's wanted me to have kids with him, but jokingly like. But he's also said when he does wants kids he wants them to be by a close friend. I...
    BlueKissedMoon BlueKissedMoon 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    "Little Cow"

    I sit here staring at this adorable 2 year old sitting in her father's lap. Her light black hair pulled into a sad pony-tail on the top of her head exposing radiant blue eyes that reach into you and stir up a smile. Her blue jacket complete with pink mittens dangling from the...
    Inman Inman 31-35, M 8 Responses Dec 29, 2007

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    I've Always Had Doubts...

    But It's not that hard to envision anymore. I've always wanted to have a family and raise one with a supportive partner but just had doubts. I'd love my kids and husband endlessly that's for sure, shower them with love, and make sure they know it. lol, without spoiling them. Okay...
    Allyouneedislove91 Allyouneedislove91 18-21, F Sep 8, 2013

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    I Know I'm Young.

    I know I'm young. I'm only 19 years old. But I would really love to be a mother. I absolutely love children, and I wish I could have one of my own. I know I don't the right amount of money to raise a child. But I would give everything I ever had to it. I would give it the...
    xXPsychochic56 xXPsychochic56 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Hope It Will Happen One Day

    I always wanted to have a child and hope I will have one, one day.
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M May 3, 2013

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    When I'm older, soon

    after I finish college, I would like to get married (call me old fashioned, I don't care) and start of family of my own. As for myself, I am pretty athletic. I love running, I play soccer and tennis. My dream for the future is to have an athletic husband and have two sons with...
    metalchick5 metalchick5 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Will It Ever Be

    I'm 27 and feeling like children will never be in my future. I feel too old.. So many people out there are having children they don't want and here I sit childless and wanting.
    cpetshks cpetshks 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 11, 2007

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    Children Or No Children?

    So today was back to school day for kids. At my office my colleagues, our patients were all talking about their kid's first day back to school. I could just hear the worries of the parents talking about whether their kid will like their teacher, whether their old classmates will...
    Maryam11 Maryam11 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Fate Has It's Own Course

    I'm male, 33, married happily for 10 years next May. we've had 2 miss-carriages, 2 ectopics (where both tubes were removed), and more recently 2 failed IVFs (which we had to save a lot of money for) adopting is an option yes, but not one for us. I don't even know why I'm writing...
    inconsequential inconsequential 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Empty Arms

    My empty arms are longing To hold...to caress...to protect To hug and embrace and... Put a smile upon the face of... A precious child
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    Someday...

    I want children, someday when i'm ready. I'm quiet dumb, but for some things, i can be more sensible, realistic and clever about it. Like i'm not gonna have a kid just cause i want one. No house. No money. No proper job. no kid. Simple. I want to be preferably married...
    brokenalways brokenalways 18-21, F Sep 8, 2013

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    I Am 45 And Want To Be A Father I Think I Have Wasted Alot Of Time

    They say it`s harder to get a woman pregnant at my age.I wasted alot of time and I am getting too old but my dad told me I am not too old i pray to God it happened soon.Alot of my friends have kids and they flaunt there kids and they sometimes they say when oh boy I guess it`s...
    Mellow7 Mellow7 41-45 1 Response Jan 25, 2013

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    After seeing my brother and sister I refuse to have kids or even adopt. I don't have patience for pointless bickering, tattle telling, and especially not crying. I want to take...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    I read here in this experience about people who don't want to have children because being a parent isn't for them or it's just how they feel about the matter, which is fine...
    charlie4edwards charlie4edwards 16-17, F Apr 9

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    This is something I think about every now and then. I have PCOS which doesn't make it impossible to have children but in some women it can cause infertility. So I have adjusted to...
    hayleyRebeccaE hayleyRebeccaE 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    i am so terrified to have kids. my husband really wants us to make kids now. and my mom and his mom are pressing on me. i'm 30 years old. i am supposed to want children like any...
    pro0ject pro0ject 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I love all women but I'm convinced that I personally are more equally yoked with white girls. I know that some white girls are just dating blacks cuz their rebelling against racist...
    TennesseeMandingo TennesseeMandingo 31-35, M 5 Responses Mar 24

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    I want to have a baby but my husband doesn't. We've been married six years and he told me he didn't want children but I thought I could change him. We've had lengthy conversations...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 36 Responses Mar 29

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    Glad to find this group. I hate children , I can not see, hear or anything that has to do with children. I'm sick of people asking me to have children. Not because I'm married mean...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses a week ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 2

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