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I Want Friends Who Are Actually Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 222 People

    Friend Or Foe????

    Hello All, I need a bit of advice on a "FRIEND" It all started in FIRST grade (I'm in my early 20's now). We were BEST friends, just like sisters. We have had small fights to HUGE fights and always made up. In High School one of her friend's family needed a place to stay, so they...
    InfinityBeyond InfinityBeyond 18-21, F Mar 7, 2013

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    I've come to the realization

    that I must accept that I have no real friends only people that I share common interest with. There's no point in damning myself because I either lack the social skills or people just don't want to be my friend. However I do get puzzled when someone say that I'm their friend...
    thesilentchef thesilentchef 26-30, F Feb 23, 2014

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    Friends That Are Forever...

    My grandmother says, "Friends come and go." And once, I almost believed her. I made a bestfriend, she's been around for 2 yrs. We've just started to go our separate ways. So why don't I believe my grandmother? Because, I still see this as like,... a failed test. We...
    MissChii MissChii 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    Lonely In Ny

    I do a lot of social activities and belong to social groups, go on hikes, go out to clubs, dinners, etc.  But throughout all these activites I still don't have any close friends, they're just acquaintances. I live in a small town about 60 miles north of New York City...
    aprilstar aprilstar 46-50 Oct 14, 2008

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    I Want Real Friends

    Since I was in 5th grade, I stopped caring for most of my friends. I noticed that they weren't really friends, just people i would talk to in a friendly manner. I only had a select few who I truly cared about since around kindergarten, but i started to isolate myself in 7th grade...
    LacieStars LacieStars 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    Social Groups Not So Good

    Sure, I can join a social group and go on outings with others, but since there is not at least one person to relate to, it doesn't do me much good. Yeah, I have had fun and done things that were quite nice, but there aren't any friends there. I want to go out and do things rather...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jan 3, 2013

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    Yes

    i want some friends who are acutally friends . they try and hurt each  other . they listen , they are understanding and i don't work with them . i should have that last one as a problem here .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2009

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    Do real people exist anymore?

    I search and find few. I found a few in the past who moved on. I am not fond of Facebook. It seems I chat with people online awhile and they rarely give me feedback on a site like Facebook. They posts about themselves left and right yet do not answer my posts if it is not about...
    LovelyChris71 LovelyChris71 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2014

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    Friends

    Ok, ive never been hear before but once again im sitting here alone bored out of my mind. Im 19 my hubby is 22 and we have an 8 month old daughter and no real friends. Goohhh i just want some one we can chill with !!!!
    jaylei586 jaylei586 18-21 2 Responses Jun 1, 2008

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    Yes

    I want friends, that we hang out, we talk, we don't just message each other, once every six months, or when the other needs something. I want real life long lasting friends, one that i can count on to be there for me, and that they can count on me as well.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 4, 2009

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    Not Those

    that talk abt me with the others..those that judge and throw shade at every chance that presents itself. real,true,loyal people i can depend on if i ever get in a jam! 
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Oct 26, 2012

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    It Happens Every Year

    At one point in my life, i thought i had tons of friends. I could go through my phone and call anyone and they would wnt to come hang out. I would always bend over backwards to do things for them because i thought they would do the same for me. In the last 2 years, i have...
    Lifeoutofashes Lifeoutofashes 22-25 1 Response Mar 21, 2010

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    Avoided

    Have you avoided by any friend who was near and dear to you once? If you do that you can clearly understand what I'm trying to say. I have two friends or should I even call them friends, who have stopped taking to me recently. I am really putting all my efforts for making...
    maggiesuper maggiesuper 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    I need friends who understand this. All my friends don't understand why I am with him and why I put myself through all the pain. They try to understand but they don't get it. None...
    Pris1014 Pris1014 18-21, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    No one should fear being themselves. If one is not true to themselves, who are they?
    Olivia1962 Olivia1962 51-55, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think it would be awesome to meet someone who's around my age. I'm 21 and a great listener, I'm also super talkative so I think we'd have a blast. I'm currently on summer break...
    soulfulmuse soulfulmuse 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Unfortunately, we live in a world where people are judged on their looks and many thrive on our self doubt. We are visual creatures. I think looks matter to a certain extent. I don...
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I would like to find friends to chat dirty with and share photos with when pleasuring my self to make it more fun and exciting for both of us
    007carpetman 007carpetman 51-55, M 3 days ago

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    They were his friends before they were mine, so even after seeing the bastard that he really is and continuing to stay by his side, I know for sure now that they can be trusted...
    AloneInUniverse AloneInUniverse 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I'm monogamous (although when single, I look for cuddle buddies and the like until someone comes along), politically moderate/socially progressive, date older women. I also have...
    RainbowsAndMangos RainbowsAndMangos 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Things you´ll never hear a man say: 1. Does this hunter´s outfit make me look fat? 2. Do you think he´s prettier than me? 3. My wife never listens to me. 4. I´ll have the...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Wtf, why are men becoming more stupid as the decades go by? Look fuckboys and douchebags, get a ******* life! Why won't you get rid of your inner pervs and cut your dicks so you...
    sylviaplath01 sylviaplath01 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    im 14 gay and want a guy who is 19-25 and actually cares
    Alcadior Alcadior 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am really wanting to have sex with a female. Don't know where to look, since it must be very discreet! Any ideas?
    dramafreeme dramafreeme 56-60, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    when I sent pictures they are from us and not from the Internet so be nice and send us the real to
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 days ago

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    I admire people,that are not afraid to be themselves! I strongly believe,you will be discovered eventually,playing charades with other's lives. So why put yourself,and others...
    Susiedisney Susiedisney 56-60, F 5 days ago

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    I have this mix feeling about this guy that I use to be sex body with. So I stop having sex with him because feeling started to involve and I felt like he know my private part...
    ggee26 ggee26 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I keep discovering more about my innermost feelings. I was in bed. It was dark. My thoughts went to my girl friend who was still working late. At that moment I felt an immense...
    melki melki 66-70 5 days ago

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    Yes,it has happened on more than one occasion.The last person i fell for I really did think she was,'the one' Perhaps the fact she was a work colleague didn't help matters.Maybe I...
    Potterlad Potterlad 41-45, M a week ago

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    I have not meant one person my age who is like me. Everyone I keep getting to know is the same. It's sad, I have more things in common with an 35-45 women than I do with a women my...
    AwesomeGuyy22 AwesomeGuyy22 22-25, M a week ago

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    the truely open mind would be completely free of biases as the more one learns the more compassionate , understanding and patient one would become. its quite funny how open mind...
    heretochill heretochill 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I like to meet people that have a brain of there own and not following all the other sheep. I love learning about the world around me and just want to meet others that do as well...
    MartinJFalls MartinJFalls 36-40 3 Responses Jun 24

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    is all in love no games here you are loved and you some like a star
    riderz4christ riderz4christ 31-35, M Jun 23

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    I try to surround myself by people who aren't afraid to be themselves because a.) I could use the inspiration because I have a hard time being myself in front of others, and b...
    nerdfighter314 nerdfighter314 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I'd like to meet someone who is around my age group and in same state as me. I'm 24, and I'm from Florida
    MussiPaw MussiPaw 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I wanna meet friends here my age range it would be fun
    Vswagger Vswagger 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 21

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    :) i want to meet new people who are in my age i'm 18 :)) if you guys anytime wanted to talk i'm here and i try my best to help you guys i will be happy to be your friend :)
    Sozdar Sozdar 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    A white guy with a racist history walks into a Black Church and kills nine people. All the Republicans running for president said it was an attack on Christianity and the 2cd...
    Modiwolfshit Modiwolfshit 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 20

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    I've always felt the same, I'm 18 and the youngest in my family. All my siblings are late-twenties early-thirties, but I'm not going to go for anyone 40+, only 20/30's.
    httpcota httpcota 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    I have a hard time at times being me , I decided one day I wanted to change and be different out no where I get the idea of dressing elegantly and classy michelle Obama style or...
    IHoldElegance IHoldElegance 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I love older guys they are so hot and experienced:)
    IwantoCrossdress IwantoCrossdress 13-15, M Jun 19

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    I'm trying to be more like me opposed to how society wants me to be. It's difficult, but I won't stop.