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I Want Friends Who Are Actually Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 225 People

    Social Groups Not So Good

    Sure, I can join a social group and go on outings with others, but since there is not at least one person to relate to, it doesn't do me much good. Yeah, I have had fun and done things that were quite nice, but there aren't any friends there. I want to go out and do things rather...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jan 3, 2013

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    Friends

    Ok, ive never been hear before but once again im sitting here alone bored out of my mind. Im 19 my hubby is 22 and we have an 8 month old daughter and no real friends. Goohhh i just want some one we can chill with !!!!
    jaylei586 jaylei586 18-21 2 Responses Jun 1, 2008

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    It Happens Every Year

    At one point in my life, i thought i had tons of friends. I could go through my phone and call anyone and they would wnt to come hang out. I would always bend over backwards to do things for them because i thought they would do the same for me. In the last 2 years, i have...
    Lifeoutofashes Lifeoutofashes 22-25 1 Response Mar 21, 2010

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    Yes

    I want friends, that we hang out, we talk, we don't just message each other, once every six months, or when the other needs something. I want real life long lasting friends, one that i can count on to be there for me, and that they can count on me as well.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 4, 2009

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    Friend Or Foe????

    Hello All, I need a bit of advice on a "FRIEND" It all started in FIRST grade (I'm in my early 20's now). We were BEST friends, just like sisters. We have had small fights to HUGE fights and always made up. In High School one of her friend's family needed a place to stay, so they...
    InfinityBeyond InfinityBeyond 18-21, F Mar 7, 2013

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    Not Those

    that talk abt me with the others..those that judge and throw shade at every chance that presents itself. real,true,loyal people i can depend on if i ever get in a jam! 
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Oct 26, 2012

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    Do real people exist anymore?

    I search and find few. I found a few in the past who moved on. I am not fond of Facebook. It seems I chat with people online awhile and they rarely give me feedback on a site like Facebook. They posts about themselves left and right yet do not answer my posts if it is not about...
    LovelyChris71 LovelyChris71 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2014

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    I Want Real Friends

    Since I was in 5th grade, I stopped caring for most of my friends. I noticed that they weren't really friends, just people i would talk to in a friendly manner. I only had a select few who I truly cared about since around kindergarten, but i started to isolate myself in 7th grade...
    LacieStars LacieStars 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    Lonely In Ny

    I do a lot of social activities and belong to social groups, go on hikes, go out to clubs, dinners, etc.  But throughout all these activites I still don't have any close friends, they're just acquaintances. I live in a small town about 60 miles north of New York City...
    aprilstar aprilstar 46-50 Oct 14, 2008

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    Yes

    i want some friends who are acutally friends . they try and hurt each  other . they listen , they are understanding and i don't work with them . i should have that last one as a problem here .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2009

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    Avoided

    Have you avoided by any friend who was near and dear to you once? If you do that you can clearly understand what I'm trying to say. I have two friends or should I even call them friends, who have stopped taking to me recently. I am really putting all my efforts for making...
    maggiesuper maggiesuper 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    Friends That Are Forever...

    My grandmother says, "Friends come and go." And once, I almost believed her. I made a bestfriend, she's been around for 2 yrs. We've just started to go our separate ways. So why don't I believe my grandmother? Because, I still see this as like,... a failed test. We...
    MissChii MissChii 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    I've come to the realization

    that I must accept that I have no real friends only people that I share common interest with. There's no point in damning myself because I either lack the social skills or people just don't want to be my friend. However I do get puzzled when someone say that I'm their friend...
    thesilentchef thesilentchef 26-30, F Feb 23, 2014

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    I'm a INFP personality.I have this complex mind and I get frustrated way easily.I'm much a thinker than a talker.I hate small talk but I'm very good at talking what I'm passionate...
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    this is gonna be the one thing I'm gonna be looking for most in life. a guy who will stay with me no matter who complicated I am. as truly I'm a mess when it comes to things in my...
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    This is exactly what i want,been wanting.I find it really hard to believe that this person is real though.Id like to but,why would they?I wouldn't,if I'm honest irregardless of how...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I met someone like that once. His name was Randy. He knew I struggled with mental illnesses and rook advantage of it every moment I spent with him. He would always say I was the...
    Nmetb Nmetb 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have been having these thoughts of having sex with another female. Nothing serious, just a hookup. I'm straight (or at least I think I am) but the thought of another woman is the...
    Nikki252 Nikki252 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    If your not being yourself.. who are you being ?
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014 41-45, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    my boyfriend is leaving for deployment next week and I would just like know, whats the longest you and your partner have gone without talking while they were on deployment? I know...
    verronicat verronicat 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Hi are the any fun busty ladies reading this thread wanna chat? If so fancy messaging me back?
    teddyboylovesboobs teddyboylovesboobs 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    I have always found the term relationship, to be far too general. Don't we actually have relationships with everyone we have contact with? What about intimate relationships...
    TheWhimsicalDilettante TheWhimsicalDilettante 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I find this something i truly need also, I want to follow this desire and need i am committed to it and would like my friends who know about me and those who will soon know of my...
    alexiswcd alexiswcd 56-60, T 4 Responses Jan 30

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    I need money. Who lives in the 804? Hmu
    gayescortt gayescortt 18-21, M Jan 30

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    Whoever is straight forward is better than anyone that hides a knife behind their smile. And they will snap you when you're at your most vulnerable form.😈
    estles estles 22-25, F Jan 29

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    Even though I hit bottom once and a while I've found so many positive people here on ep each of ypu have helped me look at life in a more positive and upbeat nanner. I just wanted...
    peachstring peachstring 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I haven't been truly active on this site in quite awhile. I just bought my first laptop though!!! And it's really reminded me of a few years ago when I thought that it was amazing...
    DarkAngel24 DarkAngel24 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    People who aren't afraid to be themselves are neat people. Though, being yourself doesn't mean being a horrible person, it's okay to reserve certain parts of yourself for yourself...
    TellyLuv TellyLuv 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 28

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    This came to my mind because my daughter wants to learn and although I was taught at school I can't say I'm great at it, so I've had to practise A curtsey is a lovely feminine...
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Everybody complains about politicians. Everybody says, "They suck". But where do people think these politicians come from? They don't fall out of the sky. They don't pass through a...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 22-25, M Jan 27

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    Is there anyone that wants to Skype when I get out of college at 2pm us central time? traebramlett is my Skype name.
    traebramlett traebramlett 18-21, M Jan 26

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    Life can seem very mundane but a wittiness can alleviate the monotony we experience in existence. I have several friends at home who are excellent at doing this and I'm meeting...
    Ducostrinity Ducostrinity 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 25

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    I just need friends who I don't know in real life because I feel that if I don't know them in real life then I fell like I can confide. If you want to be friends then I'd be up for...
    BarelyReal14 BarelyReal14 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    That´s why I have such a tiny circle. But all my friends are true ones. I prefer quality instead quantity. :-)
    Loretta78 Loretta78 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    I actually didn't lose I never had it. I felt in love with Someone who didnt love me back. Now he is gone for the 3rd time of a very sad on and off affair. Everytime he vanishes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 23

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    I really like guys who are older than me. For me age is just a number. Age doesn't matter if you really love each other. :)
    melodyyyy melodyyyy 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 23

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