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I Want Friends Who Are Actually Friends

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    I want friends, that we hang out, we talk, we don't just message each other, once every six months, or when the other needs something. I want real life long lasting friends, one that i can count on to be there for me, and that they can count on me as well.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 4, 2009

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    Can I Be A Friend To Anyone Here ? :)

    i'd love to be friend with anyone here, and don't just add me then no talk. thanks :)
    Mvendetta2 Mvendetta2 18-21, M Aug 1, 2013

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    I Have Some

    But, I would never complain if I made more. 
    EyzofBlue EyzofBlue 36-40, F Oct 23, 2011

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    Social Groups Not So Good

    Sure, I can join a social group and go on outings with others, but since there is not at least one person to relate to, it doesn't do me much good. Yeah, I have had fun and done things that were quite nice, but there aren't any friends there. I want to go out and do things rather...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jan 3, 2013

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    Friend Or Foe????

    Hello All, I need a bit of advice on a "FRIEND" It all started in FIRST grade (I'm in my early 20's now). We were BEST friends, just like sisters. We have had small fights to HUGE fights and always made up. In High School one of her friend's family needed a place to stay, so they...
    InfinityBeyond InfinityBeyond 18-21, F Mar 7, 2013

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    I've come to the realization

    that I must accept that I have no real friends only people that I share common interest with. There's no point in damning myself because I either lack the social skills or people just don't want to be my friend. However I do get puzzled when someone say that I'm their friend...
    thesilentchef thesilentchef 26-30, F Feb 23

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    Do real people exist anymore?

    I search and find few. I found a few in the past who moved on. I am not fond of Facebook. It seems I chat with people online awhile and they rarely give me feedback on a site like Facebook. They posts about themselves left and right yet do not answer my posts if it is not about...
    LovelyChris71 LovelyChris71 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    It Happens Every Year

    At one point in my life, i thought i had tons of friends. I could go through my phone and call anyone and they would wnt to come hang out. I would always bend over backwards to do things for them because i thought they would do the same for me. In the last 2 years, i have...
    Lifeoutofashes Lifeoutofashes 22-25 1 Response Mar 21, 2010

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    Friends

    Ok, ive never been hear before but once again im sitting here alone bored out of my mind. Im 19 my hubby is 22 and we have an 8 month old daughter and no real friends. Goohhh i just want some one we can chill with !!!!
    jaylei586 jaylei586 18-21 2 Responses Jun 1, 2008

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    Not Those

    that talk abt me with the others..those that judge and throw shade at every chance that presents itself. real,true,loyal people i can depend on if i ever get in a jam! 
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Oct 26, 2012

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    Yes

    i want some friends who are acutally friends . they try and hurt each  other . they listen , they are understanding and i don't work with them . i should have that last one as a problem here .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2009

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    I Want Real Friends

    Since I was in 5th grade, I stopped caring for most of my friends. I noticed that they weren't really friends, just people i would talk to in a friendly manner. I only had a select few who I truly cared about since around kindergarten, but i started to isolate myself in 7th grade...
    LacieStars LacieStars 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    Avoided

    Have you avoided by any friend who was near and dear to you once? If you do that you can clearly understand what I'm trying to say. I have two friends or should I even call them friends, who have stopped taking to me recently. I am really putting all my efforts for making...
    maggiesuper maggiesuper 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    Lonely In Ny

    I do a lot of social activities and belong to social groups, go on hikes, go out to clubs, dinners, etc.  But throughout all these activites I still don't have any close friends, they're just acquaintances. I live in a small town about 60 miles north of New York City...
    aprilstar aprilstar 46-50 Oct 14, 2008

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    Friends That Are Forever...

    My grandmother says, "Friends come and go." And once, I almost believed her. I made a bestfriend, she's been around for 2 yrs. We've just started to go our separate ways. So why don't I believe my grandmother? Because, I still see this as like,... a failed test. We...
    MissChii MissChii 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    I love people who are able to express their opinion and who have their own thoughts on varying topics. I think being true to yourself and living authentically is one of the...
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    I love to be with people who are nice enough. :)
    ElleFrancene ElleFrancene 18-21, F Aug 13

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    Real talk! Hate people who are fraud, i cut them off easy.
    RealTalkFriend RealTalkFriend 26-30, M Aug 20

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    I keep distance from political and religious leaders since they preach one thing and practice in different ways. I love simple people who are open minded and sincere in deeds and...
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    I hang out with people like this. Most people in high school would always tell me why I hang with them ( i am there total opposites & I sugar coat things and don't speak my mind...
    gostop4 gostop4 18-21 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Some years ago I took part in a workshop called Actualization - focusing on supporting people to be more "actual" - or, actually who they are - no more no less. This doesnt mean...
    ToniaMV ToniaMV 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Today I showed up to work on a new crew of folks. Two of them knew a lot about my personal life and my work, especially for people who had never met me before. Turns out my best...
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    First off, I understand that girls have a lot of stress and drama about fitting in and being skinny and pretty. But guys have it hard to. I have seen some of my guy friends get...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I wouldnt mind skype chatting with my Ep friends, shoot me a message and ill add you
    TwisterTy TwisterTy 22-25, M Aug 10

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    I'm 21 but so close to being 22 call myself that. My life has been hand lately and it got better due to a friend on EP who I would love to talk to way more often but can't due to...
    loomfree loomfree 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I'm obssessed with white guys,especially with the ones with green,grey or blue eyes.I've nothing against black men being a black girl.But I'm just attracted to that and can't help...
    mel2030 mel2030 18-21 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Anyone? I like new friends :3
    BeccaPayne BeccaPayne 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    The open-minded, the caring, the sensitive are all my friends.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I had this same experience twice. J already wrote about one of them, when I was 17, but I also had this experience when I was 14. My twin sister was always out at her friends...
    Carlsoncarly Carlsoncarly 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Who wants to skype? Message me
    Justtryn2understand Justtryn2understand 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    please.I'm so boring..and I want to friends..
    Th1nButt3rfly Th1nButt3rfly 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I have a skype, who use skype?
    usercameback usercameback 31-35, M Aug 7

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    who use skype, message me please
    usercameback usercameback 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    If you want to skype, whether voice or cam or both. Inbox me ;)
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 9

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    am home alone so wanting a girl to skype with and talk about gaming ' airsoft or geeky stuff really
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M Aug 10

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    anyone want to skype? (preferably women) Inbox me your usernames :)
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 11

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    Yes I like to have inteeligent conversation with people.But I would like to know more about you to be more comfortable with you? Is that wrong on my part?I like to be totally...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    who use a skype ,I use a skype
    usercameback usercameback 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Skype is pretty fun when used right. I think it's amazing how we can talk to people from all over the country and even the world. People you normally would never even think of...
    FeelAgain FeelAgain 22-25, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I wish I had friends to laugh and to talk to
    Mamiproud Mamiproud 26-30, F Aug 15

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    I really admire people that have found themselves ... That have found their uniqueness and are so happy in their own skin, they don't care what others think about them... I admire...
    off2heavenIgo off2heavenIgo 13-15 4 Responses Aug 15

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    Not really, I mean who else would I have to pick on? If you choose to be that way and want to run your big mouth and say stupid things, your open game. It works both ways, right...
    KawaiiDemon KawaiiDemon 18-21 Aug