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I Want My Husband to Be Nice

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    Please Be Nice

    I have been married for almost 8 years. I try reallly hard to get my husband to say nice things to me. I have tried everything I can think of. I tell hime how wonderful he is all the time. I am a good mother and a good wife. Why is it soo hard for him to tell me that?
    tcarey1 tcarey1 31-35, F Oct 28, 2009

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