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I Want My Husband to Care About Our Marriage

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    Heartbroken

    My husband &I decided tonight that we are going to get divorced. We couldn't even make it 3 months being married. I feel so so alone & upset. I wish I had a friend or someone I could talk to. When we got together I didn't get to spend as much time with my friends that I used too...
    fishinindark85 fishinindark85 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    Recently Married, But So Alone

    I have been with my husband for over five years. We were recently married about four months ago. I keep questioning whether the decision to get married was a good one. My husband (when he was just a boyfriend) left me several times...crushing my soul each time he left...
    DevotedOne DevotedOne 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 7, 2009

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    I Want Him To Talk To Me

    I want so badly for him to talk to me about his inner feelings. The inner him, what makes him tick, how he feels, what he feels. I want him to express his emotions more openly. He's always been the strong silent type but I need more after the fact that he could share his emotions...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 2 Responses May 31, 2011

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    My Husband Is Addicted to the Tv & Internet. It's As If They Are the Other Women, An Affair With Digital Friends.

      “Good Night” I say to my husband as I seductively stroll past him wearing a black lace corset, lace top stocking held up by garters, a matching G-String and my favorite spike heels. He looks up from the computer and says: “Wait for me, I’ll join...
    WifeTellsAll WifeTellsAll 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    I Want Him To Care About Our Son

    He claims that he loves me. That that is the reason he wanted to marry me. Not because I was pregnant. Its not that I don't believe him. I just don't think I did it for the same reasons. I honestly feel that I only married him because I was pregnant. I knew that he was going to...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    HUSBAND Is Witholding Sex!!! Help!!!

      I met my husband 6 years ago.  We married after only 9 months of knowing each other (very unusual for me to do).  He is 8 years older than myself and he was only divorced for a month or two and had 2 daughters from his previous marriage.  We were...
    wildcat76 wildcat76 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2008

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    Can Anyone Please Help With Tips?

    Me and my husband have been married fore about 5 years. I seriously do not think our marriage could be any worse than it is.I want more than anything in this world for my husband to care more about our marriage. I could write a book about the issues we have and all of it put...
    leeonnas leeonnas 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    His Addictions Are Taking Over

    After 16 years i have finally confronted my husband on his addictions which include a sex addiction but at this time i am also confused about that. I recently discovered that he had placed an add in a site searching for married women who were tired of the monotony. the...
    JReddz JReddz 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    I use to care what people think of me, I used to care about school work, I used to worry about everything. Now, I honestly could care less. I'm not that concerned about it anymore...
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    It kind of comes with caring. If you care, you wouldn't want anything to happen to the thing you care about. In this case a person, you wouldn't want someone to be making them feel...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Yes, I may talk about the joys of being barefoot. Yes, I may have an attraction to women's bare feet and toes (EP Guidelines won't let me say what it is). BUT, I don't want to turn...
    countingtoesisfun countingtoesisfun 26-30, M Sep 12

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    I want to be loved, and cared about by someone genuinely. I just want to have someone there to help me pick up the pices
    emgg emgg 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 14

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    You know what I'm starting to not care about? Suicidal people. I'm starting to hate them because when they come to me about their suicidal issues, they bring me down to. I wouldn't...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    And b4 I have to field all the obvious remarks about of course they do, blah blah blah. (all uncaring remarks they would be too btw) I will let you this isn't an absolute...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 23

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    My clothes & appearance are plain. I just wear shirts & blue jeans most of the time, and long-sleeve shirts & slacks at my job. I do not wear anything revealing or offensive, and...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    If I see or hear about someone hurting someone I care about physically or mentally I get mad. Like beyond the point of just being like "well screw that person" I really just want...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Not even people I care about. I am willing to put my life at risk to save another. I would never knowingly hurt another human being. Even those who have hurt me I will try to save...
    Theextinct Theextinct 16-17, M 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I really do believe nobody cares about me. If there's anyone that happens to, they're not speaking up about it.
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M Sep 1

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    I only care about the gymnastics portion, haha.
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F Sep 10

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    But does it care about me?
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 23

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    Nobody cares about me, not even here I get ignored everywhere.
    afreespirit afreespirit 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    What I like about drinking is that after a few drinks I don't care about the critics. They say I drink too much, I eat too much, beer has too many calories, I shouldn't wear this...
    CatalinaVanilla CatalinaVanilla 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    It hurts a lot. You find someone who becomes a big part of your life, and you need them. Then one day, they aren't there anymore and you're left with that empty space feeling lost...
    rirxalri rirxalri 16-17, F 38 mins ago

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for most of 30 years. While it has always bothered me greatly it has gotten much worse the past year. For financial reasons, I can't see getting...
    beachguy1056 beachguy1056 56-60, M 8 Responses Sep 3

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    On the outside my marriage appears to be wonderful. I got married at 16 and over 6 years later I truly do love my husband and I know he truly loves me. The problem that keeps...
    Redneckmom1992 Redneckmom1992 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 20

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    Hi I am a 28year old woman married to a 50 year old man that I do not love or have sex with neither does he have any feelings for me. I was a good girl when we got married while he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 16

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    While sexless it is not loveless. I often am ashamed because I don't always "get past" my own physical needs. Here's a little background. My wife, while not "touchy feely" is a...
    expromiscuous expromiscuous 41-45 5 Responses Sep 17

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    A few years ago a friend helped me to get out of a bad relationship, then we started hooking up and I developed very strong feelings for him. We both expressed how much we cared...
    pa901104 pa901104 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I almost crashed my car today. I tried to overtake a Mack truck on a u turn with a double lane, and floored it. I realized there was no way in hell I was gonna make it so I slammed...
    elleke elleke 31-35, F Sep 3

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    "The care of the Earth is our most ancient and most worthy, and after all our most pleasing responsibility. To cherish what remains of it and to foster its renewal is our only hope...
    sciguy18 sciguy18 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 16

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    First marriages are like first cars. Chances are you are going to crash it. You might as well find someone willing to marry you and get it out of the way as soon as possible. You...
    RandomUniverse RandomUniverse 61-65, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My wife and I have had marital issues from the get go and they have only snowballed. We haven't had sex for 4 months in the mean time I started to snoop around with ****. Not all...
    Intodeep2 Intodeep2 26-30, M Sep 5

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    I told some horrible things to my dad today. I feel so bad. Is that why I put in this life for? To hurt others? And be ungrateful? I wish I wasn't so mean but I'm just unhappy with...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 17

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    I am frustrated in my marriage.
    lonelydaisy lonelydaisy 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17

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    I started off writing about my relationship woes and how it tore me apart inside. Over the weeks, I have come out of it a little and when I look forward, I tell myself that I do...
    novembermountain novembermountain 41-45, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want out! I just need to be reminded that there is life out there. I just want to meet someone that will love me and want me for who I am, not who they want me to be. I need to...
    inlandsea inlandsea 41-45, M Sep 9

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    It's named 'Bristol Bay', not 'Bristol Decay' and 'We The Little People', would like for it to remain that way.We are experiencing the most outrageous attacks against the EPA and...
    DreamWizard DreamWizard 41-45, F Sep 10

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    We dont have many homeless people in our country, but i know that they are in other countries. So while i cry here, how awful my life is, i feel like im a selfish peace of crap! I...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Sep 11

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    Today I woke up feeling super horny for one of my childhood cousins I messed around with. I don't know why but I just woke up that way. We talk but we had never talked about all...
    Lizek Lizek 26-30, M Sep 22

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    Being the youngest of four children, for as long as I remember, I always wanted a younger sibling. In my teens while I was very ambitious, all my friends would probably tell you...
    Ladygrey79 Ladygrey79 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I always be along for the rest of my life I'll never find true happiness ever No one want to be near me or stay with me I'm a kisser,a jerk,a *****, a whole ,ugly,dumb...
    winxcat93 winxcat93 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    It's God's world, we should take care of it while we're here.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 17

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    My ex gf... I really try not to let her get on my mind because I have a boyfriend now. I wouldn't want to make him feel jealous. He's already seen my past posts about her and i...
    cutiepieeeee cutiepieeeee 13-15, F Sep 17

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    Its nothing special.. dont even care if someone remembers :P is that a bad thing you think?
    JelteDiavolo JelteDiavolo 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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