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I Want My Husband to Care About Our Marriage

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    My Husband Is Addicted to the Tv & Internet. It's As If They Are the Other Women, An Affair With Digital Friends.

      “Good Night” I say to my husband as I seductively stroll past him wearing a black lace corset, lace top stocking held up by garters, a matching G-String and my favorite spike heels. He looks up from the computer and says: “Wait for me, I’ll join...
    WifeTellsAll WifeTellsAll 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    Heartbroken

    My husband &I decided tonight that we are going to get divorced. We couldn't even make it 3 months being married. I feel so so alone & upset. I wish I had a friend or someone I could talk to. When we got together I didn't get to spend as much time with my friends that I used too...
    fishinindark85 fishinindark85 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    His Addictions Are Taking Over

    After 16 years i have finally confronted my husband on his addictions which include a sex addiction but at this time i am also confused about that. I recently discovered that he had placed an add in a site searching for married women who were tired of the monotony. the...
    JReddz JReddz 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    Recently Married, But So Alone

    I have been with my husband for over five years. We were recently married about four months ago. I keep questioning whether the decision to get married was a good one. My husband (when he was just a boyfriend) left me several times...crushing my soul each time he left...
    DevotedOne DevotedOne 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 7, 2009

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    HUSBAND Is Witholding Sex!!! Help!!!

      I met my husband 6 years ago.  We married after only 9 months of knowing each other (very unusual for me to do).  He is 8 years older than myself and he was only divorced for a month or two and had 2 daughters from his previous marriage.  We were...
    wildcat76 wildcat76 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2008

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    I Want Him To Talk To Me

    I want so badly for him to talk to me about his inner feelings. The inner him, what makes him tick, how he feels, what he feels. I want him to express his emotions more openly. He's always been the strong silent type but I need more after the fact that he could share his emotions...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 2 Responses May 31, 2011

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    Can Anyone Please Help With Tips?

    Me and my husband have been married fore about 5 years. I seriously do not think our marriage could be any worse than it is.I want more than anything in this world for my husband to care more about our marriage. I could write a book about the issues we have and all of it put...
    leeonnas leeonnas 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    I Want Him To Care About Our Son

    He claims that he loves me. That that is the reason he wanted to marry me. Not because I was pregnant. Its not that I don't believe him. I just don't think I did it for the same reasons. I honestly feel that I only married him because I was pregnant. I knew that he was going to...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    I don't care about anything anymore, and all is as it should be once more. I missed this void of endless apathy. With it comes certainty. With certainty, power. As I reflect upon...
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    I use to care what people think of me, I used to care about school work, I used to worry about everything. Now, I honestly could care less. I'm not that concerned about it anymore...
    Maleahpage Maleahpage 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    It kind of comes with caring. If you care, you wouldn't want anything to happen to the thing you care about. In this case a person, you wouldn't want someone to be making them feel...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    I'll keep saying this it until people get it through their heads that bullying is NOT okay. Nobody is perfect, everybody makes mistakes but don't you think the person knows that...
    XxBadXVibesxX XxBadXVibesxX 13-15, F 6 Responses Oct 10

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    I do care about you, a lot. Even if you live all the way on the other side of the world. It wouldn't matter. Sometimes you don't realise how much i actually care. It's okay if you...
    DreamingSouls DreamingSouls 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    You know what I'm starting to not care about? Suicidal people. I'm starting to hate them because when they come to me about their suicidal issues, they bring me down to. I wouldn't...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    And b4 I have to field all the obvious remarks about of course they do, blah blah blah. (all uncaring remarks they would be too btw) I will let you this isn't an absolute...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 23

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    I don't care how this makes me sound yeah i a vary angry person who offen wants to crack a few heads i dont give a hell but I have feelings i dont give a hell want others think...
    Wolf267 Wolf267 13-15, M Oct 4

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    My clothes & appearance are plain. I just wear shirts & blue jeans most of the time, and long-sleeve shirts & slacks at my job. I do not wear anything revealing or offensive, and...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M Sep 26

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    If I see or hear about someone hurting someone I care about physically or mentally I get mad. Like beyond the point of just being like "well screw that person" I really just want...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 29

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    Not even people I care about. I am willing to put my life at risk to save another. I would never knowingly hurt another human being. Even those who have hurt me I will try to save...
    Theextinct Theextinct 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 30

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    I genuinely care about how you feel. If I know you or not makes no difference. Everyone wants to be loved or befriended by someone. I figure pay if forward by caring because one...
    76smiles 76smiles 36-40, M a week ago

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    But does it care about me?
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 23

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    Nobody cares about me, not even here I get ignored everywhere.
    afreespirit afreespirit 18-21, M Sep 24

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    What I like about drinking is that after a few drinks I don't care about the critics. They say I drink too much, I eat too much, beer has too many calories, I shouldn't wear this...
    CatalinaVanilla CatalinaVanilla 26-30, F Sep 28

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    I want to talk about my feelings to my friend and tell them how much they hurt me but I just can't.. so I just got some distance from them..
    ella209 ella209 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't know how much longer i can make it. I want to leave but can't bear the thought of not putting my kids to bed at night. I love my wife dearly. In fact, i adore her. She is...
    98fxstc1 98fxstc1 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 3

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    On the outside my marriage appears to be wonderful. I got married at 16 and over 6 years later I truly do love my husband and I know he truly loves me. The problem that keeps...
    Redneckmom1992 Redneckmom1992 22-25, F 19 Responses Sep 20

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    14 years sexless and I give up. I have tried talking, threatening her with divorce and living apart for periods of time. She will not go to counseling with me. It is a control...
    Greem Greem 61-65, M 3 Responses Oct 5

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    I just woke up from surgery. I asked my husband (who does not drink coffee) to get me an Americano from Starbucks. I said, please ask for 'no room'. He starts - "I get it, you just...
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Been trying hard to work things out with my husband. We have good days and bad days, the bad days are outnumbering the good. Two steps forward and four steps back...
    mysticangel40 mysticangel40 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    I keep thinking about the Chinese girl at the massage parlour, and the sex I had with the woman from the dating site, and the sexual contact with another woman from the dating site...
    JamesPople JamesPople 51-55, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm having trouble keeping to my vow - all I want to do is look at internet **** and pleasure myself. I'm going for a hard swim this evening so hopefully it will knock me out and...
    JamesPople JamesPople 51-55, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    It has been so long since I have been with a woman. my wife has no interest in me at all. I am so lonely and just want to be with a woman that will love me.
    budkelly budkelly 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    First marriages are like first cars. Chances are you are going to crash it. You might as well find someone willing to marry you and get it out of the way as soon as possible. You...
    RandomUniverse RandomUniverse 61-65, M 4 Responses Sep 25

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    Sorry to be a party pooper, but at this point, I'm no longer buying that we can avert catastrophic climate change. To stand a chance, everyone in the world would have to agree to...
    MrHansen MrHansen 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    it means a girl ready to go. like coffe to go. if anyone wants me, just take me with you.
    girltogo14 girltogo14 13-15, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I started off writing about my relationship woes and how it tore me apart inside. Over the weeks, I have come out of it a little and when I look forward, I tell myself that I do...
    novembermountain novembermountain 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 29

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    I only have a sister that is alive now as we lost both my parents to cancer. I was left the house when my mum died as my sister was given an inheritence in 2006 of nearly £235,0...
    Amsterdamed Amsterdamed 36-40, M Oct 2

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    Ive allways being a normsl ok person ...but i hot this friend one day that changed my life she was married i can honesty say we were just friends for about 5 years one day she got...
    nicholas1974 nicholas1974 31-35, M Oct 1

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    Today, I found myself thinking about the nature of a certain conflict within us and the repercussions of such on our emotions, intellect and behavior. I refer to the inherent...
    pretender2687 pretender2687 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    Being the youngest of four children, for as long as I remember, I always wanted a younger sibling. In my teens while I was very ambitious, all my friends would probably tell you...
    Ladygrey79 Ladygrey79 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    If you were to give young people a piece of advice about life and career (drawing it from your own experiences of course), what would that advice be?
    Awkward26 Awkward26 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    The truth is, yes, if you are making a friend you don't have to care how they look like. But hey, let's face it, if you are getting into a relationship with someone, there has to...
    Nyah27 Nyah27 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Its nothing special.. dont even care if someone remembers :P is that a bad thing you think?
    JelteDiavolo JelteDiavolo 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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    It hurts a lot. You find someone who becomes a big part of your life, and you need them. Then one day, they aren't there anymore and you're left with that empty space feeling lost...
    rirxalri rirxalri 16-17, F Oct 1

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    I do. I love you. We met so quickly. And I can leave just as. It's how life works. I need you to accept that... Sometimes, we will be apart. And I don't want to worry you if I...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M