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I Want My Husband to Care About Our Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 52 People

    Recently Married, But So Alone

    I have been with my husband for over five years. We were recently married about four months ago. I keep questioning whether the decision to get married was a good one. My husband (when he was just a boyfriend) left me several times...crushing my soul each time he left...
    DevotedOne DevotedOne 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 7, 2009

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    HUSBAND Is Witholding Sex!!! Help!!!

      I met my husband 6 years ago.  We married after only 9 months of knowing each other (very unusual for me to do).  He is 8 years older than myself and he was only divorced for a month or two and had 2 daughters from his previous marriage.  We were...
    wildcat76 wildcat76 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2008

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    I Want Him To Care About Our Son

    He claims that he loves me. That that is the reason he wanted to marry me. Not because I was pregnant. Its not that I don't believe him. I just don't think I did it for the same reasons. I honestly feel that I only married him because I was pregnant. I knew that he was going to...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Heartbroken

    My husband &I decided tonight that we are going to get divorced. We couldn't even make it 3 months being married. I feel so so alone & upset. I wish I had a friend or someone I could talk to. When we got together I didn't get to spend as much time with my friends that I used too...
    fishinindark85 fishinindark85 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    I Want Him To Talk To Me

    I want so badly for him to talk to me about his inner feelings. The inner him, what makes him tick, how he feels, what he feels. I want him to express his emotions more openly. He's always been the strong silent type but I need more after the fact that he could share his emotions...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 2 Responses May 31, 2011

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    Can Anyone Please Help With Tips?

    Me and my husband have been married fore about 5 years. I seriously do not think our marriage could be any worse than it is.I want more than anything in this world for my husband to care more about our marriage. I could write a book about the issues we have and all of it put...
    leeonnas leeonnas 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    My Husband Is Addicted to the Tv & Internet. It's As If They Are the Other Women, An Affair With Digital Friends.

      “Good Night” I say to my husband as I seductively stroll past him wearing a black lace corset, lace top stocking held up by garters, a matching G-String and my favorite spike heels. He looks up from the computer and says: “Wait for me, I’ll join...
    WifeTellsAll WifeTellsAll 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    His Addictions Are Taking Over

    After 16 years i have finally confronted my husband on his addictions which include a sex addiction but at this time i am also confused about that. I recently discovered that he had placed an add in a site searching for married women who were tired of the monotony. the...
    JReddz JReddz 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    I have failed my my wife. It took an entire year for me to be able to admit that or even see it. For the last year it's been "my wife is selfish" or "my wife is unreasonable." But...
    TonyM323 TonyM323 36-40, M 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    And b4 I have to field all the obvious remarks about of course they do, blah blah blah. (all uncaring remarks they would be too btw) I will let you this isn't an absolute...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I have been denied sex by my wife for the past 24 years. I acknowledge that in the beginning I was responsible for most of the problems in the relationship. I was an alcoholic and...
    davejgj davejgj 66-70, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    But does it care about me?
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I am not a tree hugger. Plants and animals can sometimes make for nice scenery, but that is not why I care about the environment. I view the planet as a resource. If humanity is to...
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    Yes, I may talk about the joys of being barefoot. Yes, I may have an attraction to women's bare feet and toes (EP Guidelines won't let me say what it is). BUT, I don't want to turn...
    countingtoesisfun countingtoesisfun 26-30, M Sep 12

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    I want to be loved, and cared about by someone genuinely. I just want to have someone there to help me pick up the pices
    emgg emgg 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 14

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    You know what I'm starting to not care about? Suicidal people. I'm starting to hate them because when they come to me about their suicidal issues, they bring me down to. I wouldn't...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I care about others cuz I don't want them to hurt them-selfs like I did
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47 16-17, F Aug 26

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    I really do believe nobody cares about me. If there's anyone that happens to, they're not speaking up about it.
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M Sep 1

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    I only care about the gymnastics portion, haha.
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F Sep 10

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    Hello Everyone! Have been reading experiences for few days, found people across the globe in same situations share their sadness on the issue. Inspired by such experiences...
    Raaj4rp Raaj4rp 41-45, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    (I joined EP just to post this. This feels like a safe place.) I love my wife. She's one of my favorite people and I want to see her career flourish. I love the many little inside...
    romanman88 romanman88 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Its nothing special.. dont even care if someone remembers :P is that a bad thing you think?
    JelteDiavolo JelteDiavolo 18-21, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for most of 30 years. While it has always bothered me greatly it has gotten much worse the past year. For financial reasons, I can't see getting...
    beachguy1056 beachguy1056 56-60, M 7 Responses Sep 3

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    On the outside my marriage appears to be wonderful. I got married at 16 and over 6 years later I truly do love my husband and I know he truly loves me. The problem that keeps...
    Redneckmom1992 Redneckmom1992 22-25, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hi I am a 28year old woman married to a 50 year old man that I do not love or have sex with neither does he have any feelings for me. I was a good girl when we got married while he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    While sexless it is not loveless. I often am ashamed because I don't always "get past" my own physical needs. Here's a little background. My wife, while not "touchy feely" is a...
    expromiscuous expromiscuous 41-45 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    In order to understand the real essence of Islam and to know how Islam deals with the right and responsibilities of human beings regarding themselves and with others Rumi is best...
    sunshines333 sunshines333 18-21, F Aug 31

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    A few years ago a friend helped me to get out of a bad relationship, then we started hooking up and I developed very strong feelings for him. We both expressed how much we cared...
    pa901104 pa901104 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I almost crashed my car today. I tried to overtake a Mack truck on a u turn with a double lane, and floored it. I realized there was no way in hell I was gonna make it so I slammed...
    elleke elleke 31-35, F Sep 3

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    "The care of the Earth is our most ancient and most worthy, and after all our most pleasing responsibility. To cherish what remains of it and to foster its renewal is our only hope...
    sciguy18 sciguy18 51-55, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I just got called a "weirdo" because the folks at my work started talking about the oscars and the VMA's, and I said I don't have cable and I don't care. I'll never understand...
    Jesssimae Jesssimae 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    My wife and I have had marital issues from the get go and they have only snowballed. We haven't had sex for 4 months in the mean time I started to snoop around with ****. Not all...
    Intodeep2 Intodeep2 26-30, M Sep 5

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    I told some horrible things to my dad today. I feel so bad. Is that why I put in this life for? To hurt others? And be ungrateful? I wish I wasn't so mean but I'm just unhappy with...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am frustrated in my marriage.
    lonelydaisy lonelydaisy 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My wife is always telling me how she dislikes my mother telling what to do. Whenever my mom tells me to do something, I do it. Not everything she says I do. Then my wife gets mad...
    beedio beedio 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    she has said 'goodbye' . We meet when she sent Me a message here on EP, asking if I would be her Daddy. D/s . I agreed and we began talking often getting to know each other. she...
    sanmac sanmac 61-65, M Sep 3

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    I want someone to care and understand and like me for me
    beth321123 beth321123 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    I have close friends and such but somehow at the end of the day i dont think any of them care that much. Probably just need to "man up" and forget about it.
    ZeTruth ZeTruth 26-30, M Sep 6

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    I want out! I just need to be reminded that there is life out there. I just want to meet someone that will love me and want me for who I am, not who they want me to be. I need to...
    inlandsea inlandsea 41-45, M Sep 9

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    It's named 'Bristol Bay', not 'Bristol Decay' and 'We The Little People', would like for it to remain that way.We are experiencing the most outrageous attacks against the EPA and...
    DreamWizard DreamWizard 41-45, F Sep 10

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    We dont have many homeless people in our country, but i know that they are in other countries. So while i cry here, how awful my life is, i feel like im a selfish peace of crap! I...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Sep 11

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    Today I woke up feeling super horny for one of my childhood cousins I messed around with. I don't know why but I just woke up that way. We talk but we had never talked about all...
    Lizek Lizek 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I want be loved by someone... I want someone to hold my hand, play with my hair and cuddle me whenever they feel like it. I try and act as though it doesn't bother me but the truth...
    InMybubble InMybubble 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 26

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    I Jstt Wantt Someoneee To Understandd Howw I Feel 😭
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    I just want someone to pretend sincerely enough that they give a damn about me
    Steph9598 Steph9598 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I always be along for the rest of my life I'll never find true happiness ever No one want to be near me or stay with me I'm a kisser,a jerk,a *****, a whole ,ugly,dumb...
    winxcat93 winxcat93 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    It's God's world, we should take care of it while we're here.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My ex gf... I really try not to let her get on my mind because I have a boyfriend now. I wouldn't want to make him feel jealous. He's already seen my past posts about her and i...
    cutiepieeeee cutiepieeeee 13-15, F