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I Want My Husband to Grow Up

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    Four Kids And A Manchild

    I'm 29 and my husband is 38. I wish I'd married a grown-up. I wouldn't take for my kids, and I love them, but it is so damn hard to live a life with a man who acts like he's still a teenager. At least he has a good work ethic, but our finances are still trashed. I'm not sure we...
    zippydippy81 zippydippy81 31-35 1 Response Sep 15, 2010

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    I've lived with my boyfriend

    for the past 6 years and I'm not sure I want to continue. He's 25 but acts like a teenager, he doesn't have a driver's license or a car, and most of his conversations revolve around football and video games. What's worse is that there's no longer any communication between us...
    EmmyChi EmmyChi 22-25 5 Responses Jan 5

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    My Husband Is 36 But Acts Like a Teenager!

    I have been with my husband for 7 years.  He has always been a little immature. Now i am 25 and he is 36, and it is down right annoying to me.  We have a beautiful 2 year old daughter together.  I work from home, take care of the baby, do the cooking and...
    J21883 J21883 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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