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I Want My Husband to Want Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 39 People


    Sometimes when I am lonely I will just sit in my chair and try to be with my husband in the same room. It saddens me when he won't be romantic like he used to be. I used to make excuses for him and I no longer do that. I just accept the way he is. Making excuses would make me...
    Tigger1 Tigger1
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Dec 13, 2007

    Help Me Now

    My husband and I have been together for going on 3 years now, we married young and started having kids young. We had our first child in 2008 and now here I am pregnant again with our second child and I couldn't feel at my worst. I know he loves me but his way of loving me is not...
    CortneyBMooneyham CortneyBMooneyham
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 13, 2009

    This Isn't About Sex...this Is About Me.

    When our relationship began we had incredible amounts of desire and passion for each other...  It was explosive sometimes.  I could look into his eyes and see the passion and love for me in I'm sure he could see in mine.  I loved that feeling, just being...
    lostinthewind lostinthewind
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2008

    I Want My Husband to Want Me Again

    Now a days I would do just about anything to have him touch me.  To have him take me in his arms.  To kiss me.  But he refuses to every morning and every night.  I walked into the grocery store and heard some attractive guys complimenting me on the way that I...
    learn2bu learn2bu
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 22, 2007

    Why Can't He Get It?

    I had thought that we were making progress, he is starting to sleep in bed and is even romantic sometimes.  But then there are days like yesterday and today.  He didn't talk much last night, this morning or just now.  He called to ask me to get something ready for...
    jj21713 jj21713
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 20, 2007

    How to Get His Attention

    My husband doesn't seem to know what he wants.  Two months ago, he thought that he didn't want to be a husband but he now says he isn't going anywhere.  I wish I could believe that he was here because he wants to, but I think its for the kids.  I have done...
    jj21713 jj21713
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

    I Want My Husband to Want Me

    Here is my poem- I wish I were your Bible _______________________ If I were your Bible you would make time for me every day Before you closed your eyes each night, its me you would hold with desire You would turn my every page, reading my every word Taking care to feel...
    Lookin4GreenerGrass Lookin4GreenerGrass
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jan 2, 2008

    Don't Know What To Do.

    My husband and I have been married for going on 3yrs, we just had our son last month! During the pregnancy he didn't mind fooling around till I had gotten bigger then he just didn't want to touch me. I know that since I did just have our son we can't be intimate right away but we...
    lostandconfused35 lostandconfused35
    22-25, F
    Mar 7, 2012

    But Isn't It Too Early To Have This Problems?

    We married a few months after we met, and we are married for 6 months now. How can he already take me for granted? I am aware that very likely i had to do something with it too, and it is not all his fault. But still, I am not a piece of furniture, I mean, if I feel neglected now...
    sumeyah sumeyah
    3 Responses Mar 18, 2011

    **** Problem

    I love my husband very much. He is my best friend and we spend all our time together. There is just one catch. When we first started dating, he was kind of a jerk. He made no buts about the fact that he loved women, didn't see himself settling down, etc. We dated and broke up...
    onesmittenkitten onesmittenkitten
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 31, 2008

    What The Hell Happened?

    There are thirteen years between our ages.Ive been married for three years but been with him for six years. When we were together at first, he acted like he was in love with me. In bed he acted like he couldnt get enough of me. At home we were together and did everything...
    brokenhearted31 brokenhearted31
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 28, 2011

    When Do You Give Up???

    Ugh! 13 years going on 14 and I'm still waiting... Sex was great when  we dated... for six months.  We were both on the rebound but it seemed we were meant for each other.  He seemed so reliable and responsible; I had two kids, on my own and my life was...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 6, 2009

    The Milf & The Babysitter

    The MILF & the Babysitter, or Pandora & Her Box After Lo’s phone-sex encounter with Bill, she was all riled up to do that some more. (In fact, as I may have mentioned elsewhere, Lo has been toying with the idea of starting up her own phone-sex company as a little part-time...
    d011y2005 d011y2005
    Jan 27, 2012
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