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I Want My Man To Spank Me Hard

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    Want To Get Spanked

    I was spanked by parents when I was young. Now, I am 31, but still want someone to spank me~hardly!
    yangyangyang yangyangyang 31-35, M Dec 22, 2012

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    Are You Looking?

    Do you need a man to help you with your feelings for getting a spanking? I am a Disciplinarian who has a lot of experience in giving women good sound spankings but I go beyond that. I like to hug and cuddle after the spankings. I like to be involved in correcting the things which...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M 3 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    very hard. if i dont have bruises

    for days, it wasnt hard enough.
    whipithard whipithard 26-30, F 1 Response May 8

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    Spank Me, Joshua.

    I love your desire for me, i love that you want me then and there. You come up behind me and your hands cocoon my waist, pushing my breasts up. My hands delicately touching your arms, running my fingertips slowly up yours, leaving soft trails. You push my hair to one side...
    blackpantyaffair blackpantyaffair 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    A True Spanking Story

    This is a true story of my first meeting with a lady i met who wanted to be spanked but had never had the courage to meet someone. Her name is Diane and we met over the internet after she posted on a site about her desire to be spanked. I responded and we started to email and...
    Piking101 Piking101 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2013

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    Catharsis (piog)

    Today I was summoned to the home of a dear lady friend with whom I have a special bond. She specifically requested me to come over because I'm very skilled in the art of spanking and she needed my services. Suffice it to say that she was feeling overwhelmed by stress in her life...
    TarnishedArmour TarnishedArmour 41-45, M 1 Response May 15, 2013

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    My Husband Is Such A "woose"!

    I'm a 26 year old lawyer who gets away with pretty much anything she wants.My husband doesn't approve of some of the outfits I wear to work but it's done my career to date no harm at all! On more than one occasion I've said to him, "if you were any kind of a man at all, you'd put...
    SammyScott SammyScott 26-30, F 26 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    Disrespect On Holiday

    My girlfriend and I have recently returned from holiday in Australia. About 2 weeks into the holiday my girlfriend spoke to me disrespectfully in the tone and manner she used to a answer a simple question I'd asked. At the time I bit my tongue and just glared at her. She was...
    cptenna02 cptenna02 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    Real Life Mentor

    I have played the role of mentor for both male and female adults for some time now. I am currently mentoring a 27 year old young lady. Our arrangement is simply. All spankings are bare bottom but non-sexual. If she has been good and not violated any of our agreed upon rules...
    corporalpun10 corporalpun10 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    How I Do It

    I'm waiting in your room, seated in a chair, a stern look on my face. You're standing before me, head bowed contritely, hands behind your back, possibly covering your backside in anticipation. I ask if you understand why you're about to be disciplined. It's ok if you have...
    TarnishedArmour TarnishedArmour 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    Due To My Poor Behavior...

    I'm a crossdresser. Sometimes I revel in it, indulging myself with the pretty feminine items, silky panties, sheer nylons, lacy bras and accessories, the wig and the high heeled sandals.  But often I experience a strange and compelling wrongness, an overwhelming shame about my...
    Orlana Orlana 46-50, T 3 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    My bf sucks at spanking me.

    I never thought a person could be bad at it. I thought if i told him to use his belt he would be better. But he doesn't know how to use that either. Spanking is a turn on for me but I don't wanna break up with the man but he frustrates more then anything. I need help on what to...
    spankedmom spankedmom 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    All I Can Think About

    I'm 24 years old, a virgin, never been kissed, and never had a boyfriend. I consider myself fairly attractive but extremely shy. Since I was introduced to Christian Grey, Gideon Cross and countless other literary boyfriends, all I can think about is being someone's sub. I want to...
    browneyed2007 browneyed2007 22-25 Oct 21, 2013

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    Because It Probably Wasnt Hard Enough

    He has to mean it. He has to watch all turn red, purple, sore. He will hear my gasps, my sorry, my promise of future angelic behavior. He makes an impression. Maybe its one of "did I really ask for this?" "Seriously, is it supposed to hurt every time I sit down?". Yep. It sure...
    jaenada jaenada 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    A True Story

    This is a true story of my first meeting with a lady i met who wanted to be spanked but had never had the courage to meet someone. Her name is Diane and we met over the internet after she posted on a site about her desire to be spanked. I responded and we started to email and...
    Piking101 Piking101 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 14, 2013

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    Spanked And Forgiven

    The other day I lost my wedding ring. This made my daddy husband very upset. He has told me numerous times not to remove my wedding band ever but I take it off at night anyway. He has given me many warnings that he would spank me if I did not obey him on this but always gave me a...
    JosesBabyGirl JosesBabyGirl 41-45, F Nov 18, 2012

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    Harder And Longer

    I was out one night with the girls and not really wanting to be there i had just had a major bust up with my boyfriend sitting on my own i was a easy target for the persistent guy and soon one showed up i would not normally let things go to far just flirting it did not take long...
    addie46 addie46 46-50 1 Response Aug 11, 2013

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    Sometimes I Get Dirty

    Sometimes I am a dirty boy, and deserve to be punished by my man.  Only "Sir" knows how to make me a good boy again.  He has a lot of implements to spank me with, and I never know which one he will choose -- I get scared waiting for him to choose.  Sometimes he will choose two...
    medicalenemaboy medicalenemaboy 61-65, M May 6, 2012

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    Aching For A Spanking

    I love being spanked by boyfriends. It's not the spanking but the control of me. I have a new boyfriend and am obsessed with making him mad to get a long hard otk spanking. Well, I'm still waiting. He knows I love to be spanked so I got mad and told him off thinking I'd get...
    dolcevita5 dolcevita5 41-45, F 11 Responses Nov 9, 2012

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    This Group's Icon - That Paddle

    I get spanked with hand & belt alot. We have a little ping pong paddle (all wood) that hurts like hell.....I have never been paddled with something like that paddle in the icon. How many of you have & how much did it hurt? :)
    iloveithard iloveithard 51-55, F 8 Responses Jul 31, 2012

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    Male Dom Looking For A Female Sub Over 18 For An Online Or Telephone Relationship

    I would be interested in an online or telephone domestic discipline relationship with a woman over 18. No camming or Skype is necessary. Also, the biggest sexual organ in the body is the brain, so this can be fun. My philosophy of the dominant submissive relationship is that...
    peterblack82 peterblack82 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2013

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    Over the years I have spanking women

    for stress, anxiety, as well a resetting themselves . I have spanked many women as a paternal figure. Many of the women I have spanked, their man won't spank them or get upset because they don't believe or don't want to do that for one reason or more. Besides a catharsis...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M Jun 8

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    Giveee Me

    So being sexually submissive turns me on. In every day life I am a very controlling person. I like to be in control of all aspects. I think this is the reason I like to be dominated in the bedroom. Although it intrests me imensly I have never persued it. I have also never found...
    gianna777 gianna777 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    My Culture

    Though I was brought up in a very conservative Christian home I moved away from the sexual mores of my family quite young. From the age of about 16 I started to feel overwhelmed by my own sexual appetite. After I lost my virginity I quickly became very promiscuous. My family who...
    blackbabe30 blackbabe30 22-25, F 12 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    Spanking His Bad Girl...

    I have been a very bad girl. spent too much, didn't do my chores, gabbed on the phone too long...and I know whats coming.do i ever...Daddies coming home...and he already told me to be waiting for him.He got the bills...oh boy.I got dressed for him, no panties...a short skirt and...
    Lisabackstage Lisabackstage 31-35, F 8 Responses May 31, 2012

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    Good Otk Spanking For Woman If Your Man Won't

    Have you asked and asked your man to give you a good OTK bare bottomed spanking until red? However he won't do it for whatever reason? Do you still feel the need even more? I have spanked many wives and sent them home with a very sore bottom and everything is strictly non-sexual...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M 2 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    I Wish...

    Due to circumstances I won't go into, I've managed to end up in a tight spot. I'm unemployed and going to school and my husband chose now to end our marriage. I wish I could find a daddy or uncle or guardian to take me in and take me in hand while I finish school. I cook, clean...
    Kitttan Kitttan 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    John

    As weird as it may seem i love a good spanking. Something about it thrills me when my boyfriend yells at me to *****. Of course the actual spanking is sometimes pure hell but othertimes i get so aroused and i can't help it. When john is done he'll usually leave me alone for...
    Naughtynida101 Naughtynida101 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    Look I just wont everyone to know

    that I'm 18 ans sexualy active with my boyfriend ( but I was rapet when I was younger by my old boy friens but read my story) Any ways me and my boyfriend have had sex a few times. But I was at his house and his friend told me that sex was better being spanked. I was never...
    Marissabeliber Marissabeliber 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    The Hotel Manager

    On a business trip to Zambia last week, I was greeted by an enthusiastic young Dutch lady, who was managing the hotel I was staying in. She had been on the job only a few weeks, and she was all smiles and laughs, and very friendly and polite. Even though she had taken up a...
    drfessee drfessee 31-35, M Nov 15, 2013

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    I Need To Be Kept In My Place

    I can often be a brat with a smart mouth and attuide   and can be lazy. My ex b/f didn't put up with any of this.  I often ended up over his lap getting my little cheeks spanked hard and long and it got me crying, squirming and pleading to be a good girl from now on.  He...
    badbecky badbecky 18-21, F 96 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Vic's Outdoor Spanking

    (note for the readers : I write each of my stories for a specific sub - some are fantasies, some are scenarios that will actually play out, some are stories based on passed experiences. I want to share those stories with EP, because I'm interested in what others think, if they...
    drfessee drfessee 31-35, M Jan 23, 2013

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    I Need One

    Lately I've been such a brat to my man. Rude, disrespectful, loud, and mouthy. I keep trying to push his buttons and make him take control but he won't. I feel like I need a good hard spanking, until I'm screaming and begging him to stop. I can't be a good girl if I don't get one...
    PeaceRiverGirl PeaceRiverGirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    My School Paddle

    My School Paddle By: Me Written on October 3rd, 2012 There is a wooden paddle hanging in my closet. I am told it's been there for awhile, but I have only become acutely aware of this just recently. If I had known of it's existance I may have made better choices, and now I...
    sweetie77 sweetie77 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    tamaraiwannaknow tamaraiwannaknow 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Okay so I'm in high school which is kinda important for my future and my career, I have to get high marks, it's summer now but I'm planning on studying hard this year, it's just...
    hgscgirl hgscgirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    When I was 15 I went to my friend's house for the day. We were going to the mall in town but my friend told me that she had arranged to meet a couple of boys and go to out of town...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    When I was 15 I went to my friend's house for the day. We were going to the mall in town but my friend told me that she had arranged to meet a couple of boys and go to out of town...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    Well today I was at my aunts house visiting my folks was at work. She ask me Kim please help in the kitchen? I said no aunt Crissey it's not my house she look at me and said Kim I...
    Kclay82 Kclay82 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    It was a month ago that I became mad on my brother he was sleeping I picked up a rubber sleeper and started spanking my brother I am 13 while he is 25 after three swats he get up...
    ahmadiscrazy ahmadiscrazy 13-15, M a week ago

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    Well went a week or so without a spanking. Today just a few hours ago my mom was out shopping. So it was just me my dad and my brothers home. He ask me Kim you need to clean your...
    Kclay82 Kclay82 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    Me too.I would have been about eight at the time making the year 1960 a time when it was quite normal to punish children by giving them a good spanking. My mum had been called...
    joanmcarthur joanmcarthur 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    My mother was very strict and did not put up with misbehavior at home or bad grades at school. I was prone to mischief and frequently found myself bent over her lap with my pants...
    Bobbie1952 Bobbie1952 61-65, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My boy friend and I have been together for about a year and a half and known eachother our whole lives. About a year ago my parents gave my boyfriend permission to start spanking...
    britbrat95 britbrat95 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I've never been spanked and I would live to be spanked I'm 17 and live in Toronto Ontario Canada if u want to spank me message me
    tylerstevens0313 tylerstevens0313 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    does anyone else hate it when on family reunions your parents tell your other relatives in full detail how many spankings you got and for what ? sometimes i think parents have a...
    Marceline2000 Marceline2000 18-21, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've always have felt this statement seems somewhat unnecessary.I'm a single dad raised my kids alone best I could and they've turned out just fine.I'm very proud of them and tell...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    im 20, and i think i have accomplish nothing in life that i would be proud of, i see all of my friends with there jobs and kids and finishing up school, it kinda makes me feel like...
    gostop4 gostop4 18-21 9 Responses Aug 2

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    Simply put^^^, I am glad of the friends I currently have, they be great! However I'm apparently greedy and want many more friends! XD
    Jshangle64 Jshangle64 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    I pray and hope I will be blessed enough to have children I want many and even if I will not be able to have children I have no problem adopting. My physical heart might only be...
    Klcataldo Klcataldo 18-21, F a week ago

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    I love tattoos, the way they express how a person is, how they reflect their personnalities, how they are unique and badass. I want many tattoos. I want my body to be a piece of...
    kladitor kladitor 16-17, F a week ago

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